How you manifest yourself

[@cliffordjohnson943]

1. Being 2. Doing 3. Having is how to naturally manifest. You’re always manifesting. Sometimes we think it’s doing, having then being. Everything meant for you will make itself visible when you surrender control of how it needs to happen. Your infinite eternal spirit is not here for you to struggle, the mind creates the illusion of separation and allows you to perceive struggle. The fact that you exist and your consciousness is indestructible is the miracle. Everything is fulfilled, just allow life to unfold for you instead of insisting how things must happen.

[@AbbyRuston]

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[@signoreportinaio3012]

I use EFT to rid myself of Limiting Beliefs, Traumas, Negative Experiences ETC !!! It WORKSSSSS!!!!! Works so well I'm a Practitioner!!!!!!!

[@caglardemirofficial]

As a not masculine boy in eastern culture, while growing up being “me” was so wrong to my narcissistic caregiver. I shouldn’t be me unless I wanted to be loved. Eventhough once I show my love to them, they kept given their love to my sister purposely in front of my eyes. And it creates a life where I never felt love back from the guys I love and I had to suppressed my love at the end of the day . Even though I’m so powerful energetically and lovewise. I appreciate your video, it helped me to realise broken pieces of my lense that given by my caregivers.

[@ayamystic2]

I think I’m afraid of being too happy bc I think something will go terribly wrong shortly after. I thought that this came from all of the disappointment I’ve experienced but I’m thinking that maybe my mother made me feel bad for being happy.

[@naomim.7220]

THIS!!

[@gandfgandf5826]

Yes. Everything contains its opposite. To me it seems as if everything in this realm has a sting in its tail.

[@freemanjames]

The limiting belief here is probably something like 'Mistakes are bad'. Whatever the LB is, clear it out, get clarity about what you really want, and you're good to go 🎉

[@createa.googleaccount713]

I can relate, what's helped me recently... is understanding that EVERYTHING Has a "Shadow" side... There can not be ☀️ without 🌒, can't have Tall without Short... So Even when there's Good, there's 'bad' , Happy & Sad... I've been taught to Be Happy & Get Good!... No one ever explained that With it Comes it's Shadow Too😉🙂🙃 Sooo I've beat myself up when things are 'bad, difficult, slow & low... Nope, it's the Nature of this place ❤

[@TheGoodWitch1111]

I can relate! I used to think that. I feel a lot of ppl are like this because of programming. I think we hear a lot growing up that if something is too good it isn’t true or if something good is happening watch out because something bad is coming. It took me a while. I am now ok with or without something happening that I “want” or I am ok with whatever comes. Continue to watch videos of such and reprogram your brain. Take it easy on yourself. All is well.

[@grgaska]

I listened to hundreds of videos on manifestation and nothing resonated. Eventually I started hitting "not interested" on youtube when they would pop out. I hit the same button for this video 3 times but for some reason it kept popping out. I finally took it as a sign and OH BOY you said it all so clearly, elegantly, with examples that other videos lacked. I am subscribing right away and deep diving into this content, as I could finally calm down on a deep level when it comes to my current situation that seemed to be without exit. A million times thank you!

[@AbbyRuston]

🥳🥳🥳🥳 LOVE THIS!! Also thank yourself. You haven't given up and are still rooting for yourself deep down inside! Also, Don't hesitate with any questions. I'm here to help as best as I can! So happy to have you here! 🙏🙌🏼

[@QuestOutWest]

This was the best explanation of paralell Universes I've ever heard. The thing everyone missed was that they only become "physical" when you tune in. The idea of millions of Yous walking around in different worlds always pissed me off because I know the wave is only collapsed where your consciousness is focused.

[@Tarotorc]

Can u explain it for me more , does she means u have to become and feel that you are lovable, for a while to become in the subconscious, or we need to affirm ?! Thank u

[@anweshaP14]

This is very true . I would play down all my achievements as something nothing great. I caught myself doing that recently and I was like yeah there is no glory in this humility . Also being a woman and coming from an eastern culture we are taught to be humble and always downplay ourselves lest we overshadow other people . I remember I am very good in languages especially English and that riles people, whenever I use words which they don’t understand. For years I would wilfully dumb myself down but not anymore. Last night also I caught myself doing that so that I am accepted and understood better and immediately I stopped myself. We as human beings are complex people.

[@light6230]

Such excellent ability to explain these concepts! Currently reading Neville. Would have loved it if you had been his co-author. It's easier for me to get it with your explanation.

[@TMDamion]

This is the clearest, most eloquent, insightful and compassionate explanation I've ever heard. You have a true gift for teaching these deep concepts in a way that is engaging and inspiring. Thank you so much for doing what you do.

[@AbbyRuston]

Thank you! I appreciate you sharing this with me 🙏

[@ryangenereaux1922]

I love your videos. They are helping me understand Joe Dispenza and Neville Goddard's work

[@sandraolajide7610]

A very complex theory broken down elegantly, beautifully and simply. Well done 🌸🙏🏽💕

[@AbbyRuston]

Thanks so much for the love and taking the time to share this! I really appreciate it 🙏

[@sandraolajide7610]

@@AbbyRuston keep going… your delivery is very effective …🙏🏽

[@AbbyRuston]

@@sandraolajide7610 🥹🙏 thank you

[@freemanjames]

This is great stuff. Eloquent and empowering 🙌🏻

[@Belleigh]

"Dissolving the glue." I like that!

[@AbbyRuston]

YES!! I'm realizing more and more, the passive of time isn't what creates change, shifting your perspective is!

[@feliciamabry6811]

Thaw best definition of manifestation ❤

[@AbbyRuston]

Thanks so much for the love and taking the time to share this!

[@gabrielnadia1085]

Thank you😊 I laughed with your expressive faces, which is a sign of me healing.

[@wakeupwithmara7860]

Abby, wow - I’m listening to you right now, as I do a lot of people and thinking the cliche “oh, I’ve heard this before”…..I mean no offense at all - it’s actually what holds me back, I have found But, you know what, you just hit me…..especially at 9:07…..:)) I’ve re-entered my softball experience, after many years, which obviously represents every single other aspect of my life - and really resonating….!!! You are now further solidifying all of the other aspects of my life that I know are connected….. You’re really great - thank you….❤

[@anonyonce4444]

Awesome speaker great work Abby

[@davidhardy879]

Abby , you are so BEAUTIFUL and so awesome !!!! The love and genuine care you have for your fellow beings literally pours out of you ! Keep up the GOOD work !! ❤

[@AbbyRuston]

🙏 Thank you! I really do care about all of you and really want the best. I know what it feels like to feel stuck in pain and feel powerless to change anything. These understandings and practical approaches are what radically changed how I related to my life and what gave me the strength to change it. I genuinely want everyone to have that same emotional liberation!

[@davidhardy879]

@@AbbyRuston , I can tell . Love your content , AND you ! I have had quite an adventure myself . I have been a Professional in Retail And the Art World ( I am a " Rondo Award . " winner ! ) and I have also been to the " Other side " many times in my sixty eight years on this existential plane . My mother died in my arms from cancer when I was just twenty five . I have been homeless in the wintertime . I am trying to find " Myself " somewhere in all of this mixed up mess . lol ! I APPRECIATE you and your work !

[@signoreportinaio3012]

We manifest Everything we think about ....must learn to control thoughts ...think negative, you get negative, think positive you get positive!!!

[@cliffordjohnson943]

It’s not about controlling thoughts. It’s about not judging them and just recognizing them as thoughts whether positive or negative and recognizing that they are all equally valid, and that you are not your thoughts. You are awareness, that’s the infinite eternal part of you. Being positive is what grants positive manifestations and experiences, and when you experience something negative it’s ok to let out that emotion and recognize it as something you don’t prefer. Having negative thoughts also don’t block your desires, it’s just the ego wanting to understand and control how things must happen.

[@LeahIsHereNow]

Kinda, but I think it’s more nuanced. There have been times when I go to work and I am grumpy because things aren’t going the way I want them to go and then all of a sudden it turns around and things are great. Sometimes I have a very good attitude and things don’t go well. I think you have to figure out how much you need to stand up for yourself too. It can’t just be love and light and butterflies and rainbows all the time. It’s so insane that we literally are creating with every thought we think. I guess when we finally decide that remembering how powerful we are as opposed to forgetting and suffering, we will take back that power.

[@LeahIsHereNow]

@@cliffordjohnson943agree!

[@mariellaperruna2881]

Thank you ❤super clear

[@QuestOutWest]

Overall fantastic video. Thank you for posting this.

[@Angell_Lee]

Amazing video as always, thank you! 💖

[@belindavanvelzen5257]

Thank you universe for sending Abby to this planet

[@AbbyRuston]

Thank you so much for being here. What you see in me is also within you!

[@kneeshahikes]

You are so good. Thank you😍

[@AbbyRuston]

Thank you! So happy to have you here! Thank you for watching!

[@nikamazur6763]

You are amazing ❤

[@julieniemeyer925]

What a great explanation !

[@violettademoney2749]

So simply explained Abby. Thank you ❤

[@AbbyRuston]

🙏 So glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for being here!

[@FilmsManual]

Guys I've been affirming for a long time but no results. Other youtubers say we need to feel like it is already in your reality but how can I be in the state when I have fistfights everyday and can't move out bc I have no money. I don't know what to do why my affirmations are not showing results even after saying them all night and being sleepless

[@DemosChristofides]

EXCELLENT VIDEO! 👍

[@AbbyRuston]

🙃🙌🏼🙏 thank you! I appreciate you watching and taking the time to share this with me

[@DemosChristofides]

@AbbyRuston you are welcome and yes I like your videos! EXCELLENT! 👍

[@magda2435]

Glad you’re back! ❤❤❤

[@AbbyRuston]

🤗🙏❤️ Always so good to hear from you!

[@iamqueen222]

First 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽. Thanks Champ ♥️

[@ChristalGarcia-r6n]

Love this

[@bigdavedou]

Don’t see a link to contact you?

[@christinadanko6288]

❤❤❤

[@iamqueen222]

Dear Abby I have a question: I’ve been dating a man for a year now. Everything is good between us except for: he’s not opting nothing about wanting to get to know my kids plus his family doesn’t know that I exist. Furthermore: he always makes excuses to go out together even to go for a simple walk. Please help me analyse what thoughts or believes I need to work on. As a child never felt good enough but I am working on that thanks to the knowledge you share. You helped me with so many struggles in life and btw I am really enjoying life soooo much now.

[@BlasianGoddessTM77]

Red Flag. Move on. Love and respect yourself. Work on you.

[@iamqueen222]

@@BlasianGoddessTM77 thank you so much! Needed to hear this 🤗

[@catchmany95]

@@BlasianGoddessTM77your partly right. More importantly she needs to learn to love herself first… Because it seems she doesn’t love herself since she chasing , since it’s been a year…. You just know if you truly do the work within yourself first. Other wise these guy wouldn’t be able to see her for a whole year… especially being a mother with children not judging but speaking a truth from my view

[@AbbyRuston]

It's so good to hear from you! Thank you for sharing this with me. I would take this back to your needs. What is it you need to feel safe in a relationship? I would imagine to feel seen, to feel appreciated, deep connection, consistently? I want you to start really diving in to what it is for you... then 1) How do you show up in your life to meet this need... what does it look like in your life when you are meeting your needs.. now part 2 is what brings in your question... 2) What does it look like from a romatic partner to meet those needs? What do they do? Can you start to ask for this need to be met in the real world way that connects to you? That is part 1

[@AbbyRuston]

Part 2: If you feel powerless stuck or helpless to get those needs met... if it feels like you need him to change to get what you need and want... realize this is that original wound.. that child and parent power imbalance... as a kid you NEEDED that adult to change or see you so you did have a chance to get a need met... you had to become hyper fixated as to who they wanted you to be or what they wanted you to do so you could get your needs met from them... start to see if this is what you feel like.. when you feeel powerless, stuck, or helpless, this is when we need your adult self to take care of that inner child.. Recognize the story, step out.. as your body feels safe again.. really understand what do you need. How can you ask for it... is this relationship offering you what you need... or does it energetically match the wound and you are relating to your self worth and connection through the point of that powerless child? Let me know if anything comes up

[@johnlowe-tq6ey]

I feel so angry

[@AbbyRuston]

what makes you feel so angry?

[@TheGoodWitch1111]

What’s wrong?

[@RuhaniMoosa]

Look I'm not a genius but a 58 old that's not trying to prove anything special but trying to😅 getherenough tangible evidence to the help as ma y people I can