It was heartening to hear Abhishek’s thoughts on living with his parents. I completely agree that we should care for our aging parents who cared for us when we were young. However, caring for them doesn’t necessarily mean living in their home; it means having them live with you in their old age. When parents are elderly but still active and healthy, a married man should establish his own household with his wife and children. This allows him to truly step into his role as a responsible husband and father. A man only truly learns the responsibilities of life when he buys his own home, lives there with his family, and welcomes his parents into that space to care for them. This is the essence of a joint family-where the son takes care of his parents. If a man continues living in his parents’ house, he may never fully take on responsibilities like paying bills and managing a household. His wife may also lack the freedom to mature in her own role because the parents, naturally, will continue to dominate as it is their house. Therefore, Abhishek, it’s important to buy your own home, live with Aishwarya and your daughter as a happy family, and bring your parents into that space. This way, you can be a responsible son, husband, and father.
@purpleprincess19835 ай бұрын
What if the girl also wants to live with her parents ? Is it not unfair only for the man to want to live with your parents or think it’s Indian culture to take of his parents in their old age - what about her parents , did they not give their sweat and blood and make sacrifices to raise their daughter ? Even girls parents made sacrifices to raise her ? Joint family system only benefits the boy ? What about the girl ? Will she get Independence and respect for her decision to stay with her parents and take care of them
@DeltaDragoneditz5 ай бұрын
True
@Darksideofnature2735 ай бұрын
Their parents only will say u should not stay here and that's how society goes on from ages
@Divyajyoti245 ай бұрын
💯
@suneetagawde75935 ай бұрын
Today girls look after their parents too
@wisdomwriter-ft3fg5 ай бұрын
And her mother, and her mother, and your mother? The system has been operating so successfully for years and is based on certain ideas. Education should enhance cognitive abilities rather than cause systemic instability. My sister, too, is happily residing overseas with her spouse and in-laws. We are a joint family and have been content with it.
@banashreesendhar39045 ай бұрын
Abhishek is a gem of a person.... true son n a genuine family man... lots of respect ❤❤❤
@juliarego41933 ай бұрын
Please do the right thing by your wife and daughter also. They deserve better.
@sanjanadeshpande97443 ай бұрын
Don’t get married if you can’t do justice and keep your life balanced between your parents n family!!
@shalinisethi60765 ай бұрын
Abhishek a Huge Salute to you for such beautiful thoughts on Parents n' Family ❤
@aparnamishra42815 ай бұрын
People always judge,but he is really a genuine person.
@rahulkhurana87605 ай бұрын
He is??He was always and always a genuine man
@lekhaacharya49713 ай бұрын
No he doesn’t look like genuine person , everybody have seen in many vedios the way Abhishek bachan looks angrily to Aishwarya rai in public. And Aishwarya such a beautiful lady from outside and as well as inside .. the way she is dealing with stupid people around her ... the most genuine person looks Amitabh bachan ...
@rigzinyangdol28895 ай бұрын
He makes his parents proud and there's so much one can learn from what he is saying. His feelings for his parents is of another level . I hope lots of sons are listening to him.
@Susan-v2b5 ай бұрын
Every parent will want a son like this
@Blessyoutoday5 ай бұрын
Like what?Sabke parents Amitabh and Jaya nae hote bhai 😄 paisa tou unhi ka h. Bacho ko job karne k liye dusre City jana padta h paisa kamane parents k liye so kaha se sath rahe bhai batao.Iske ma baap ne rakhs h isey so yes everyone should have supportive parents like Amitabh & Jaya Bachhan💵🙌😄
@Rayis44445 ай бұрын
@@BlessyoutodayAlways negative So much negativity
@monicanath48595 ай бұрын
True ❤
@rpaafourever79085 ай бұрын
Every parents will want a son. Period. Because no consideration for girl's parents.
@LordBobbyFanboy5 ай бұрын
@@Blessyoutodaywhy so toxic, at least he’s a real son
@gitaapatel5 ай бұрын
He is really a good son. Both husband and wife are very good. A lovely family.
@eatcyanides5 ай бұрын
Hope woman can also say this for their parents and people understand and call her a great woman for saying this.
@Wings_of_Kaveri5 ай бұрын
This is an interview of Abhishek Bachhan . Why does his wife have come into every aspect of his interview?
@commoner76604 ай бұрын
@eatcynides. I hope too.....
@sunandasharma82774 ай бұрын
Very true
@rinkupeterson86894 ай бұрын
For Aishwarya, she only doesn’t put up with the in laws but sister in law and her kids too! A woman needs to have independence too and have her own house and her own dreams too!!
@romadighe69885 ай бұрын
Amazing Conversation . Abhishek is such an adorable person.
@sarikarai59145 ай бұрын
I always love and my blessings for my dear Abhishek bacchan, now I proud of you also ❤❤
@aabidadar55324 ай бұрын
So wonderful for kids to be around grandparents!! My mom lived with us for 26 years. She didn’t want to live with her son’s. She choose to live with us. My husband is an angel Have tremendous respect for Abhishek!
@tell-truth743 ай бұрын
Abhishek respect your parents also love your own wife and daughter. You need to look after both equally. Tell your parents that I love my wife I cannot leave without them, same way tell your wife that I love you more than any one please come and stay in my home ill support you😊
@rinkupeterson8689Ай бұрын
Abhishek, then why is Shveta not with her husband’s family?
@Bmtom-r5v5 ай бұрын
He is a very good actor..always been a fan of his and so well spoken.
@vinodnair20123 ай бұрын
Most of the children who are living with the parents are dependent on them. Abhishek is not an exception, but his wife is made of a different material.
@ushanair27772 ай бұрын
Abhishek 's parents r really very very lucky bcz no one do lke this supporting caring gvng respect
@sks2222229 күн бұрын
Lol. Sick mentality is spotted again
@Xavierjayasuriya3 ай бұрын
Abhishek is a very loyal man, loyal to parents, wife and he s got very hood vibes, Whatever happens i have a feeling that he is a very good human being
@RajeshreeMaharaj5 ай бұрын
He really has so fine values thinking about his parents
@mayuradeshpande88325 ай бұрын
Abhishek is a cultured well bought up young man. He is grounded and every parent needs a son like him. ❤
@jazzyrose37213 ай бұрын
@@mayuradeshpande8832 really?someone who can't find a balance between his wife and parents? A loser or a mama's boy ??? He is married, 1 daughter......mama mama....😁😁😂😂😂😂
@rubyaga40675 ай бұрын
Huge respect for Abhishek bachchan.it is so logical that you stay under one roof. both parents and children feel safe and secure.
@rpaafourever79085 ай бұрын
Not so safe and secure for the girl's parents..
@jaigurudev20115 ай бұрын
my sons are living separately but loves both of us, (parents) and will do anything for us. One son is away in CA but keep calling checking on us. we also love our sons, dils, grand kids so much. its a blessing. I would say, living separately saying hello as and when works better. we live like friends no misunderstanding and maintaining cordial relationships and all of us have freedom to do what we want. both are happy. Living separate does not mean they dont love us. in fact it works better. we dont suffocate each other. everyone needs some space now and then and that we get it living separately. ( sitting , talking at the end o f the day as you suggests Abhishek, will only leads to gossips, misunderstandings and relationship breaks.
@AashaPrasad-p3x5 ай бұрын
❤👌🙏🏼🙌🏼
@govind39614 ай бұрын
I agree with Abhishek. After my retirement I migrated and am living with my son, Dil and gkids. Life is wonderful since many years. Despite having means and capabilities, I prefer living with my children. Cannot imagine life without them.
@mariagarnet72985 ай бұрын
He's such a gentleman So much class😊
@priyush-1003 ай бұрын
It’s okay to live with parents but take care of your wife and children too,
@FoodandHealth20243 ай бұрын
It should b the opposite..live with wife and children and take care of your parents
@jyotichauhan66795 ай бұрын
PARENTS R ALWAYS HAPPY CONTENTED SATISFIED TO SEE THEIR KIDS AROUND REALLY PROUD OF ABHISHEK S VALUE GOD BLESS ABHISHEK HIS FAMILY PARENTS AND ALL AT HOME BEST WISHES
@geethap92305 ай бұрын
The most cultured human being humble and grounded. Being himself is taking the legacy forward
@ddomnic19835 ай бұрын
It's important to respect your parents. They work hard to provide for us, and they deserve our appreciation, love, respect and our care.
@jayas44064 ай бұрын
Why does Aishwarya hv to tolerate sister in law & her kids? All problems started after she came back
@aleyammachacko84873 ай бұрын
Abhishek, if you are financially sound, live with your wife and daughter in a seperate house( could be nearby your parents home)... All problems arise when you are with your parents... You should have done this as soon as you got married.... Visiting parents and taking care of them is a must... Do that too.... take a decision at least now to lead a peaceful married life.... You are one of the most respectful person in the industry... Please keep up your personality without giving chance to gossips.... Let your parents live happily in their old age.... Take good care of your wife and sweet daughter.... Good luck❤🌹
@DevilinjaguarJaguar-cm7pm3 ай бұрын
Aleya and who da hell are u to give lectures to him?? Shove your gossip up in your pichwada .. it's their life and iam proud that he lives with his parents in this age .. that's called family values and unity .
@abhikap883 ай бұрын
Tumhare jaise logo ki jagah se old age homes Bane hai..sath mei parents ko b rakna seeko..baad mei tumhare baache b aise hi chid denge tumhe dek lena
@sirib12853 ай бұрын
Bachan family spoiled aiswarya life.main credit goes to Abhishek bachan.
@zendayalove92213 ай бұрын
I'm sorry but he's such a mommas boy. I feel like he needs to stand up for his wife and get his priorities right.
@tashimaeda18073 ай бұрын
totally agree with you 👍
@stylishmonamj51685 ай бұрын
He is a nice guy 😊
@bimalatiwari46403 ай бұрын
@@stylishmonamj5168 how can he b nice if he’s ready to destroy his wife n daughters life just for the sake of his parents who wil die with in 5-10 yrs ..for rest of his life it his wife who gonna support him
@sharikasha12583 ай бұрын
Being there for your parents doesn't mean you have to live with them. You should be there when you need them. Elders especially tend to pin Kid's down if they impose their perspectives on kids when they are not independent. They said same after 8mins
@ritasinha31325 ай бұрын
Love Abhishek. He is fantastic son.❤
@ppriya15392 ай бұрын
You are wonderful person Abhishek.. keep this essence always within yourself ❤
@sks2222229 күн бұрын
Being like this is wonderful shows a mindset of a sick society and people like you promote sickness.
@ravikumari79963 ай бұрын
When the daughter has the right to parents property she has the right to take care of them too it is the son duty to😮 balance his personal and his relationship with his parents Abhishek is way behind in this matter he has not done justice to Aishwarya she must have faced a married life full of agony with her arrogant and jealous inlaws and husband😊
@tashimaeda18073 ай бұрын
abhishek can be a good son but never a good husband......enough of mommy's boy.....Grow up bro Grow up 👍👍
@sumitrapatil86565 ай бұрын
When Aishwarya celebrated her 50th birthday nobody was there from Abhishek s family.
@lightup2055 ай бұрын
She's clearly not living with them. Kitna bewakoof samjha hai. It's ok if he's not living with his family.
@farheenali52665 ай бұрын
His upbringing is so so great
@abhishekdas62293 ай бұрын
Don’t judge he is doing what he thinks best for him , we all are in different situations and we are doing what’s best for us .
@smitapatel82902 ай бұрын
He is right elderly parents should be first priority
@vijidurvasula77442 ай бұрын
What about wife?
@sush05093 ай бұрын
He is just homesick. He is emotionally dependent on his parents. His bond with wife and daughter is not as strong as his bond with parents. A void will be left in his life after a point of time.
@rajaniganesh16624 ай бұрын
Caring for parents is lovely. But definitely not at the cost of his family. Find balance. Or one day he will blame himself!
@nainapatel3554 ай бұрын
Love you Abhishek beautiful wife n lovely daughter ❤️ n God bless you dear ❤
@purnimapatel63385 ай бұрын
It’s ok in his family because they have a huge home and they don’t get into each other space! Also they most probably have a cook/cooks so the bahu has no extra pressure!!! Even then I understand that the bahu is having problems with the in-laws. So bottom line is in a perfect world it would be nice for joint family to live together but different personalities and expectations make it very hard. Believe me I am talking from experience.IT IS EASY FOR MAN TO SPEAK!!!!🙏🏼
@harinakshimaindan28375 ай бұрын
I agree to what you save. Absolutely true
@krishnagondhea74285 ай бұрын
I’m surprised with actors and actresses willing to live in extended families. And such noble thoughts. You would never hear this with the average Indian couple born and raised in the west.
@niametladakАй бұрын
Yes! I respect you Abhishek, when parents get old they need their kids beside them, sooner or later one of them is going to go anyways. If you can do this , good for you.
@beenaprem31593 ай бұрын
Yes Abhishek is right. He is truly a good hearted human .❤
@kashmiradaruwalla72753 ай бұрын
Excellent upbringing but we need to understand mutually. Yes so true every child wishes to stay with their individual parents n tc in their old age .
@drrashmichandran5 ай бұрын
Maturity of Manliness reflecting its own dignity, integrity, and culture. 🇮🇳🙏🏾🔥⚖️🙏🏾🇮🇳
@RajeshSinghRajput1233 ай бұрын
He might be a good son, brother, but definitely Not a good husband and father.
@latha_aradhana4 ай бұрын
❤❤you r a wonderful son Abhishek... We love you stay blessed 🤗😘
@neisham74785 ай бұрын
My goodness he is so well spoken and levitates on a different plane ❤
@AGAZAH4 ай бұрын
Abhishek is one of the amazing humans with a great intellect. Very few like him.
@pritikhanwalkar82404 ай бұрын
He is not well enough to consider himself without Aishwarya or Amitabh
@jazzyrose37213 ай бұрын
A loser....😂😂
@varshakotwani1295 ай бұрын
He is a true beta Aisa beta sabko ho ..🙏🙏🙏👌
@bimalatiwari46403 ай бұрын
@@varshakotwani129 son who destroys his wife and daughters life for the sake of parents.. He can never b a good man.He even don’t know wat is wrong and right
@sherry87174 ай бұрын
I love the way Abhishek expresses himself and his take on things. He is understanding and yet has an independent thought process which he expresses very respectfully.
@milandivecha935 ай бұрын
AAB is star par excellence…❤
@jazzyrose37213 ай бұрын
If you live apart, you can also take care of your parents. If you are married, have a child, you have other responsibilities. You also want to be happy with your wife and child. Your wife does not have to dance to your mother's tune, she is married to you. You have to build something for the future of your child, move, a separate house with your wife and child, your own privacy. You should never abandon parents, if they need help, you come and be there for them. You are what you are because you are married to Aishwarya. Maybe you want to show the world that you want to live with parents? World will not give you back your wife and children, will not give you food, can only judge and condemn... then it is because of your behavior!! But do you also look at the behavior of your mother and sister in the house? Do you have respect for your wife or can you only call mana / papa / mama!?? Do you also call the name of your child, I have not heard you say that you should stay with the child or your child with you... I think you are a loser, you cannot stand behind your wife, that is disrespectful. ..you should never have married, you should have stayed with your mom and dad?? Your wife's life is ruined, she had a nice career, she left everything for you, your stupid rules in the house. Terrible all those rules!! Ladies, before you marry such a loser, think carefully, never live with in-laws, always seek / find your own shelter first. But keep helping your in-laws when they need help and when they deserve it...that is also a question. An in-law who abuses a daughter-in-law and treats her like dirt, does not deserve attention and help.
@sylviagovender74223 ай бұрын
Well said, Abhishek is a mama's boy. He has a beautiful wife and daughter. He is such a failure. Shame on him. 👎👎👎
@sharonmisquitha5655 ай бұрын
I like the values Abhishek has.
@LordBobbyFanboy5 ай бұрын
he’s one of the most simplest actors we have in the industry
@deepikathapa88155 ай бұрын
Abhishek bachan is every mothers drms son ❤ I really respect n love him he is not like others ❤️ stay same
@vijeshbheda39015 ай бұрын
Abhishek u r always been my favorite actor... As I look like u...😂at some point of life....but I like u...u r smile guy...I have seen your good movie always.... Lalan bol raha hu... Nd many more
@vijeshbheda39015 ай бұрын
Can my child meet u once...
@sharminali39145 ай бұрын
He is an amazing actor,so natural, don't know why isn't he getting roles
@faru67785 ай бұрын
Abhishek respect. 💕 Anyone who respects parents is a brilliant person.
@drali20343 ай бұрын
What about your wife parents?
@kirandeepkaur51824 ай бұрын
Abhishek god bless u fr ur lovely thoughts and respect towarde ur parents.
@leenajose26573 ай бұрын
He’s so lucky to even have his sister living in the same house like a parasite even after her marriage and screw everyone else’s lives
@shenazmusasait68342 ай бұрын
Wonderful ethics, tradition, loyalty and responsibility. Abhishek Bachan is all that. Bravo for being a true man. Wish his wife and kids too would support his high values
@meenabhagrath63163 ай бұрын
Men like him shouldn’t get married infact they should stick to the Paloo of their mother.. if at the age of 47 he can’t be responsible for his own family then why ruin their life? should have stayed single..
@jyotivora99525 ай бұрын
Lovely,finesse oriented,noble soul....Abhishek....always loved you
@elizabegum29045 ай бұрын
In today's self centered world, son like Abhishek is an idol who values Indian culture...rooted person shold always be admired...No doubt western cultured has affected our age old Indian moral values,but well cultured person still exists n thats why some sense of morality is still existing in the society...🙏🙏🙏
@annr-g7t5 ай бұрын
It's wonderful to live with parents but if parents and children don't stay harmoniously it's good to have space between them and still b nearby to take care of each other.
@NasrinAhady2 ай бұрын
Abhishek is a wonderful actor, but Indian industry didn't appreciate him as he is
@jagrutishah18925 ай бұрын
I like Abhishek..bichare ka bed luck hai Jo itne aage nhi aaya..good luck abhisekh..❤
@smartmd42785 ай бұрын
A wonderful human being ,a dutiful son ,smooched between ladies, blessed with a wonderful wife . A little more compassion toward your wife .Best wishes .
@TUTANKHAMUN0775 ай бұрын
"We Are A Family" Always Motivated People To Live With Patents And Help Them When Needed❤
@Gaga-cg3ic3 ай бұрын
Very good answers by Abhishek . One is free to live ho they want be it there parents, siblings , friends. whether they are married or single. Abhisek is cultured. More cultured than other people of his generation.
@VRTWINSOULS3693 ай бұрын
Are you like your parents for your child Abhishek? What about the parents of your wife? Our Indian society has a lot of split standards and the worst is to live trying to create an unwanted irrelevant example for others...Context in which your ancestors lived are different from how you live and will be different for your child too.. Life becomes chaotic when people refuse to conciously grow and conciously adapt to ever evolving humanity . Because change is the only constant that leads to evolution .From walking on four limbs.hunting and eating raw meat ..we haved changed and evolved to this sophisticated human being..Your family is what you created that is your wife and child.. your primary committment lies towards the family you created...This includes giving your partner her freedom and space to contribute in the way she thinks is right .Think about it...
@yusufabdullahi47863 ай бұрын
I always maintain my position when it comes to Abhishek Bachchan That he make a big mistake by marrying Aishwarya. Because, a lot of people hate him because of her. Whatever, he did people criticizes him left, right and centre for no reason. People always want him to go and live separately away from his parent in order to please his wife. If it is another woman nobody will even question how he is living his life. People forget that Abhishek is the only male son that his parent has and it is his responsibility to take care of them at this aging time hence they might died very soon and the whole house will become empty. So if people are patient enough they will see him together with his wife possessing the house.
@geetap96373 ай бұрын
A very good, lovable, simple, sincere and straight forward guy. Parents' pride. Also think he's a supportive husband and a great father. ❤
@poolofarts5 ай бұрын
God bless you. Every parent should have a son like you. Even my two grown up sons are with us so I can totally relate with what you are saying..lots of blessings and love to you my son.
@rpaafourever79085 ай бұрын
What about your daughter in laws' parents madam? Don't women deserve their parent's equal presence in their lives too?
@maatkaur38443 ай бұрын
Abhishek keep it up I am proud of you everyone would like to have a son like you
@humairakhatoon65923 күн бұрын
You are the very good boy of your parents.. . Abhishek hats of
@sonamdolkar50664 ай бұрын
So glad to know you will live with your parents, Abhishek , till their end 👌👌👌❤️
@jazzyrose37213 ай бұрын
Mama's boy. 😮
@emueiamiatu36763 ай бұрын
In our culture the children are responsible for taking care of their parents' house by doing house chores i.e. cleaning, cooking, washing,etc. We take them to their doctors appointments and also take care of them 24/7. And that to me is about being responsible for our parents' welfare/well being. But not living together with them just for the sake of keeping them company and having conversations. So the question being ' Do you Abhishek do any /or all of these chores for your parents at home? And if your answer is 'NO', then there seems to be something very wrong with your perception about 'marriage' and 'family unit'! I totally agree with you that you have a responsibility to your parents as their only son, but you also have another family ' your wife/daughter' to take care of! You can still be a dutiful loving son to your parents whether you live at home and or in your own home with your wife/daughter.
@antonietamariainaciagomes42304 ай бұрын
Wow! Beautiful talk by Abhishek n very meaningful ❤ God bless
@reeko92785 ай бұрын
Have a distance.. you can stay close but not together.. why create unnecessary issues for every one... All times every person need not have the same amount of patience... You can be around but not all times together that's not right!
@Rayis44445 ай бұрын
Their house is huge. They have plenty of distance.
@Rayis44445 ай бұрын
It’s their choice. What’s your problem?
@physiology.concept.easily3 ай бұрын
Your sister is taking care of them. You have a daughter too. Isn't she your responsibility?
@pratibhadoshi87833 ай бұрын
Exactly
@sylviagovender74223 ай бұрын
Once you are married your major responsibility is towards your wife and child. You should of moved into another house with them. You could still take care of your parents whilst living away from them. Why did you marry if you are tied to your mothers hip. Let's face it your mom is an angry lady. Seems like she is always on guard 😠
@arpitachakraborty4 ай бұрын
What if the wife also wants to take care of her parents as the daughter?!
@gurcharansinghoberoi76814 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯 procent she has every right ✅️
@hasnainabbas93905 ай бұрын
Allah Abhisheak Bhai Jaisa Beta Har Ma Bap Ko Daey SarkarOne Two main Kam Kiya Inho Nay
@geetakamminana47915 ай бұрын
Maturity is taking care of parents, embrace wife's parents and protecting and safeguarding self respect and legacy of wife and her vision
@Garyhryfrufr7dyfu5 ай бұрын
Completely aligned with him
@neerajshrivastava56005 ай бұрын
You are Awesome Abhishek !!! The Best
@tashimaeda18073 ай бұрын
don't try to be a man on social media.......be a man in real life and care of your own Family 😁😁
@shwetatalluru35143 ай бұрын
He is far from competing with father. And his father atleast managed with an arrogant angry lady. He couldn't handle a beautiful and sensible wife. BUS GYAN
@vinodnair20123 ай бұрын
200 percent right
@shreyashkotecha76603 ай бұрын
So what ?
@vinodnair20123 ай бұрын
@@shreyashkotecha7660 So what?
@wisdomwriter-ft3fg5 ай бұрын
In the globe, our culture is the most abundant. Living apart from my parents is unthinkable even for me. ..main jee nahi paunga
@rpaafourever79085 ай бұрын
What if your wife feels the same way about her parents? Are you willing to adjust and compromise?