About Arlos Birth and story: (Still Birth)

[@klh1977]

Wow that was so brave of you to share your story. I loved looking at his picture in the background. What a gorgeous little boy he is and you have every right to be that proud mum and show him off to anyone that would like to see him. Aching Arms are fabulous. I used to be a photographer and photographed stillborns from 16 weeks to term. I feel very honoured that some mums requested that I meet their babies and it was my pleasure to provide them with those extra special memories

[@ConnieBeann]

Twinkle Mummy Wow! What an amazing thing to do♡ thankyou for your lovely words💙

[@tiffanysitar8186]

Your a strong girl, it's ok to cry, even around other ppl. Sharing your and your little ones story helps not only you but other moms knowing that they are not alone. Thank you brave stranger

[@ConnieBeann]

+Tiffany Sitar thankyou💙💙💙

[@Indyrm03]

I'm so sorry for your loss of Arlos!!!! I had a stillborn son in February 2014 at 24weeks. THANK-YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING ARLOS STORY!!!!! He is so handsome !!!!!

[@ConnieBeann]

Amber Thornton Bell thankyou so much, I'm so sorry for your loss it never get easyer 💙

[@wharrington8587]

Cry, scream, hit something. No one should judge you. I'm sorry for your loss. Keep your head up.

[@ConnieBeann]

c harrington thankyou lovely!xx

[@julietteobrien2238]

how proud i am of you .. this must have been so hard to do this video..i hope this helps other ladies..love you my baby girl 💙💙💙

[@achingarmsuk]

Hello Connie and Sam, I am so very sorry for the loss of your son Arlo. You are so brave to share your story and help to break the taboo of baby loss. So many thousands of families each year feel the devastation of losing their much wanted baby and I know many will find comfort from hearing you speak about your loss and Arlo, your brave boy. Your words about our charity mean so very much to us all. It warms our heart to know your bear is bringing you comfort at this incredibly sad time. i look forward to dedicating bears in memory of Arlo - if your followers could leave his name in a message when they donate we can dedicate bears in his memory. Huge love and understanding to you. Leanne xxxx (Founder of Aching Arms and James' Mummy)

[@ConnieBeann]

Leanne Turner thankyou so much💙💙💙💙

[@lisaatkinson2993]

I'm so sorry for you're loss what a beautiful little boy you have my only grandchild was born asleep he was 18 weeks i wudnt wish this on anyone it's been two years for my grandson and my heart is still broken he had spina bifdia stage three aswell my son got a memory box with teddies and a angel and photos and other things it was a great comfort hugs from me xxx 💖

[@ConnieBeann]

Lisa Atkinson I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, nothing in this word can make the pain any easyer. I have found time helps but I do still cry a lot, thankyou for sharing your story with me and if you haven't already take a look at aching arms as they are a great support, ways here connie💙

[@alisynlynn4839]

You are so brave! I cannot imagine what you have been through. Thank you for sharing Arlo's story ❤️

[@timelesspugs]

So sorry for your loss. Such a beautiful name for a beautiful baby.

[@ConnieBeann]

+Kendra Cyr thankyou so much x

[@TheCasilda13]

Connie you are so strong, me and my boyfriend are happy that you able to share your story with the world.

[@ConnieBeann]

_its justcece_ thankyou lovely, means a lot💙

[@MyNatasha1982]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I also experienced a loss & my heart breaks for you ❤️ lots of prayers for you & your family & your little man. I know he's up in heaven looking down on you 💘

[@ConnieBeann]

natasha cherrin thankyou so much I'm so sorry about your loss thankyou for taking time out your day to comment means a lot to me 💙💙

[@MyNatasha1982]

Connie Smith ❤️

[@participation_trophy_wife]

I can not even begin to imagine your pain but I admire that someone laid their feelings down in such a passionately raw way. The pain in your voice as you declare that Arlo mattered is shattering. Arlo does matter. You do, too and I hope you are healing.

[@ConnieBeann]

+Sarah S thankyou so much xx

[@martindavis9786]

Well done Connie x brave lady x love Martin x

[@ConnieBeann]

+Martin Davis 💙💙

[@denaimullet8427]

My son was very low during my c section. They had trouble getting him out. Ruptured a uterine artery. Ended up needing a blood transfusion. Thankfully my son was ok after the first minute. I am so very, very sorry. Your son is beautiful.

[@ConnieBeann]

Denai Mullet that must of been so scary! Sorry you had to go thew that! Thankyou, thankyou for your comment!x

[@denaimullet8427]

Connie Smith it was. It was the second time my fluid had been low and when they got him out They had to work on him a little bit because he wasn’t breathing right at first. My stepmother worked at the hospital and she said the nurse came out to talk to her and it was almost not good at first. He was full term and it was exactly his due date. February 14, 2018. He’s five months old and such an amazing, happy baby. Knowing how I could have lost him is too painful to think about. It should never happen to anyone. My heart aches for you.

[@lasaundrawashington7342]

Thanks for sharing your story sorry for your lost😔

[@terridurham8098]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my son almost 3 years ago

[@ConnieBeann]

Terri Durham thankyou💙 so sorry to hear that, it is somthing that shouldn't happen to a family 💔

[@arieswife8926]

@@ConnieBeann how are you now?? Im so sorry 💔💔💔 I lost my son at 29 weeks prrgnancy on 30th March 2020 Im DEVASTATED...completely heartbroken. I was told it could be concealed placenta abruption.

[@ConnieBeann]

@@arieswife8926 hello, I'm so so sorry for your loss💔 I am 3 years on after losing Arlo and I think about him every day, still have bad days but I have more good days I have been meaning to do a life update video on this channel ❤

[@arieswife8926]

@@ConnieBeann thats good to hear :) Have they told you thw reason why he passed? I wish I can be as coragious as you xxx

[@ConnieBeann]

@@arieswife8926 my placenta ruptured right before he was born💙 I am so sorry for your loss, time helped me heal, if you need somone to talk to I'm here, you can message me on my new Instagram the_barker_family_ anytime and I will listen to you ❤

[@marcellaglass949]

How sad im so sorry prayers with you akways

[@MelsMumLife]

Sending love and hugs, I'm so sorry xo

[@brittanymcguff]

I am so very sorry. I lost my baby girl Sarah on Feb 4th of this year. I was 39 weeks and my placenta separated from my uterus while I was at home. I have 4 other children so I ignored a lot of signs something wasn't right. It is such a hard thing to go through. Stay strong. I'll be praying for you and your family 👪

[@ConnieBeann]

brittanymcguff I'm so sorry to hear about your little girl thankyou for your kind words ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

[@brittanymcguff]

Connie Smith Also I have been thinking about your video. I can tell that you are having a really hard time. if you would like to write about it you can write me. I've decided I want my life's work to be helping people through this heartbreak. My email is [e-mail]. let's be pen pals! ♥

[@erikaburbaite9910]

My baby girl Abigail was born on 19 September 2019 at 31+5 weeks and she was a stillborn.. they did a c section for me and the last time when I was on monitor she was alive but when I woke up they told me that she is a stillborn.. that was the hardest thing in my life to know that me baby won't be with me and I won't be able to take her home and everything what I want just to hear her crying and to hold her in my arms and to see her pretty face again

[@ConnieBeann]

I'm so so sorry for your loss and I'm so sorry that you had to go though this, I'm here if you need to talk to anyone know you are not alone 💕

[@erikaburbaite9910]

@@ConnieBeann Thank you, I'm sorry about your loss as well, to be honest it is very hard and it's seem to that no one can even imagine my pain and how I'm suffering.. I can't speak with my family about everything what happened, they are very old school and they don't want to talk about my daughter.. but she is everything to me and all the time I'm just thinking about her and I want to talk about my little Angel.. It is very hard that I can't make her warm, I can't put umbrella on her grave and protect her from rain and snow.. I can't hold her in my arms and feel her smell and I won't hear her crying.. she won't be here during Christmas time.. everything what I want just to be with her.. Thank you for everything 💕

[@ConnieBeann]

I completely understand, hey if you want to privet message me I do have a new instagram connie_ava_arlo and you can talk to me about your daughter anytime you like because she and you matter 💕

[@erikaburbaite9910]

@@ConnieBeann Thank you for everything Connie 💕

[@lisaatkinson2993]

connie i wud love to email you i don't go on twitter xxx

[@ConnieBeann]

Lisa Atkinson hey sure my email is [e-mail] x