A Second Wife: Why He Married Me If He Cannot Provide?

[@twicesaidiamaonce5003]

I don't understand why women think they are not worth trust me my Science sir have taught me women might be physically weak but they are soo strong from inside bcoz he told me when a woman give birth to a baby that pain is soo much that if a man suffers from that pain he will Die that much strong is a woman soo i request everyone of you plz don't be weak plz be strong if ur husband wants to do polygamy just leave him bcoz he doesn't deserve u don't be with him he is wrong be a strong woman to move on plz don't support him he is only your love so don't try to share it If that person wants to do that leave him & Stay Strong 😊

[@twicesaidiamaonce5003]

And why did you marry someone who already has a wife you are a sensible person i think you shouldn't marry a man who has a wife there are soo many men in this world u can find someone better rather then being with him who is a bad person he cannot be loyal to his wife then how can he be loyal with u

[@ImranKhan-xh3hr]

So many Muslim brothers are abusing Muslim sisters in polygamy marriages and secret wives for lust!

[@user-dq8bs7fo5h]

Mukesh Wafhel PREACH 💯

[@manalmorsi6527]

Why why why do women put up with this arrangement

[@hoodoei1763]

As a woman I don't understand why you would choose to be a second wife, when there is no woman on earth who wants to share there husband. Listen, the surah is revealed in a period that sooooo many Muslim men were killed and the ummah was really small. Also in that time a man was needed to provide for basic things like food. Sorry I just don't understand this..

[@ImranKhan-xh3hr]

Muslim brothers are abusing Muslim sisters in polygamy marriages and secret wives for lust?

[@ImranKhan-xh3hr]

Imam Shaafi’i offered an additional exegesis for the final clause of the pivotal verse discussing the divine legislation of polygyny and the divine limitations imposed upon this ancient institution.[9] He espoused that the closing clause of verse 4:3, usually interpreted as ‘that is more suitable that you may not incline to injustice’ should be understood as ‘that is more suitable that you may not be financially strained by numerous children’. Imam Shaafi’i reasoned that divine decree had already listed fear of committing injustice as a reason to not wed more than once, hence it was pointless for the same reason (for not wedding more than once) to be expounded twice in the same verse. His alternative interpretation pursued the perception which held that the presence of a plurality of women in a man's conjugal life would produce undesirably large numbers of offspring, which could be a potential cause of financial hardship and poverty in the future. Given the emphasis that Islamic law stipulates on the welfare of children and nurturing children with permitted means of income, Imam Shaafi’i opined that it was legislated for a man to marry just once as an increase in the population of a family due to multiple marriages could potentially harbour harmful monetary consequences for the man who marries more than once.[9] Ash-Shaafi’i is of the view that it is desirable to confine oneself to marrying only one although it is permissible for him to marry more than one. This is to avoid being unfair by being more inclined to some of them than others, or being unable to financially support them. [al-Hawi al-Kabir 11/417].[11]

[@chingpong7218]

JazakAllah

[@Truthiscrystalclear]

May Allah guide us. There will always be beauty in polygamy but it's us who don't understand or see the beauty. Polygamy gives us a halaal person to sleep with, we are all human at the end of the day. So that on its own is good reason to work through our problems. I know of a single woman with kids who asked a man take her as a second wife just so that she can be in a halal relationship. Unfortunately he didn't agree, but was willing to enjoy her in a haraam way. Astagfirullah May Allah protect us. So when are married we get ungrateful and want more, but when we are single for long enough we get hopeful for even a little bit, whatever it is we should never ever be in a haraam relationship. If we single a haraam relationship should never be considered, Inshallah. So if we consider our Imaan and the Imaan of the ummat we will see the beauty of polygamy, although it is a big responsibility and if do decide to take part we have to take on the responsibility it comes with, the responsibility of ensuring that all people under your care, wife's and kids, have their Imaan protected and are taken care of. May Allah guide us.

[@ImranKhan-xh3hr]

Polygamy is fatna

[@user-dq8bs7fo5h]

Let your wife have a second husband and tell us how after how beautiful it is