YOU CAN BE AND DO AND HAVE ANYTHING!!! YOU DONT HAVE TO WAIT! YOU ARE IN CONTROL!
@Maggieokeefevideo2 жыл бұрын
love this!
@indraprashad77374 жыл бұрын
I do this alllllllllll the time. I overly obsessed with the happy times. Everyday l day. Then he becomes distant and I'm hurt and rejected. NOW every time I start over obsessing, I say to myself "I love me" I'm happy and worthy etc. All day and night. And it helps with not thinking of him and other obsessing things.
@shannonrose46784 жыл бұрын
I have this problem too. Thank you for your advice!
@Learningman7773 жыл бұрын
Yes, this is helpful, it works ALL the time and you’ll improve too with your own self image. 🙌
@Almanama122 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this. This happens when you have abandonment issues .
@Carol-sx6rg Жыл бұрын
Same for me. It's not this or that right? I want to stay with my partner because he has lots that i love. And we have wonderful kids together. For me it's more: i want to share the love of life together more.. 😔 more of what we used to do and be on a high flying disk together more. ❣️
@karolinakuraj7 ай бұрын
I used to be like that too, but I was lucky to learn various modalities of working with emotions & mindset to become the Power Couple Therapist & relationship coach, I’ve got myself out of anxious attachment style and became way more in love with myself 🙂 I help others do the same! 💚
@Bassywassy204 жыл бұрын
It makes total sense that the reason we may be obsessed with something/someone that you see is because they are already real, even though quite possibly our greatest happiness is just not visible yet. Great segment, it is good to keep in mind that what you see right now may not be the best version of your manifestation. Even when it seems so much easier to aim for that which is at arms distance.
@OzmaOfOzz2 жыл бұрын
Great comment !
@thuaners9 ай бұрын
i really like how you put that, helps me understand it more clearly 😊👍
@no-gc6xd3 жыл бұрын
I don't think she understood what Abraham said at 6:35 when the person asked "Do you see him?" and wanted clarification on if it was the new guy or the old guy. Abraham said 'new' but it almost sounded like that's not definitive. Because no matter where that person goes, if that 'old' guy DOES come back....he, in turn, would be 'new.'
@bereverynice3 жыл бұрын
This made so much sense. The memory of the past experience is so much more tangible than the thought of what’s on its way but hasn’t manifested, that’s why we hold on and it’s hard to let go. It’s amazing how just understanding the why, can help so much in learning to change a behavior. Thanks so much!!! ❤️
@EastWind7853 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah 🌞I got this! 😊
@divinelyblessedandperfectl49132 жыл бұрын
Things are finally making some sense after listening to this. It’s been 4 months and the thoughts of him are still very present.
@kayebethelion3 жыл бұрын
I'm going to listen to this daily for the time being
@awarness39382 жыл бұрын
me too!!!!!
@deej5884 Жыл бұрын
Same 🥺
@olliviermae4 жыл бұрын
My redirection of rejection is just bringing me here. What a cycle.
@sanjeevbains6902 жыл бұрын
I feel the experience of bliss - a feeling of coming home. Of happiness, optimism, strength
@carolebennett12105 жыл бұрын
My what is - or was - is keeping me from the what can be.
@n-dowd73724 жыл бұрын
That part!!!
@NyxBorn70804 жыл бұрын
I want to start fresh with my fiance. Because of being able to see I'm responsible to feeling good without needing to be the constant object of her attention. And that was our biggest hurdle.
@mimib15835 жыл бұрын
After hearing this I said enough of that old guy, I want fresh and new. Within 1 day a new guy popped up out of the blue (seemingly) and came towards me in a very strong and confident manner. Think I''ll actually call him. LOL. It worked ;) Thanks for sharing!
@nullnull11655 жыл бұрын
how is it going? (:
@mimib15835 жыл бұрын
Well I went on a date with this guy. He wanted me to go to his house after we had a bite to est and a couple drinks. That wasn't going to happen. Never heard from him again. Which is fine because I only truly wanted to stop thinking about the other guy. Haha. Feeling more free and that's everything!
@ReginaRPG4 жыл бұрын
@@mimib1583 hahahahaha cool I resonated
@tamimoberg50792 жыл бұрын
My first time to write a note, I listen to them all the time…this in an excellent clip….will listen to this more and more!! Thank you sooooo much!! EXCELLENT!
@pavlina.f3 жыл бұрын
This was beautiful. Exactly what I needed to hear to believe that I can create something new. The right fit. Discovery. Fun. Freedom. Homecoming. 🙏🏼💗
@AnanyaChattopadhyay095 жыл бұрын
After hearing this out I want to scream out of joy.... totally received this teaching.love u
@Babymushroom234 жыл бұрын
Feeling of connection. Connection. All I want
@mswong6874 Жыл бұрын
My Twinflame helped me to realize I am happier and stronger being SINGLE!
@PhoenixFeathers7 ай бұрын
It’s all between you and You! 😊
@rosyalegro79714 жыл бұрын
I am learning lots of things of you...thank you Why photos on your videos are from only of good looking people and only one generation....other generation are not people.........we are ageless and timeless
@JustBeingAwesome2 жыл бұрын
3:35 I had to relisten to this 4 times before I could 'hear' it.
@AmandaMG64 жыл бұрын
The “hook” was abuse and codependency
@maissakaizen17144 жыл бұрын
It's actually attachment trauma
@HShravzPАй бұрын
how to deal with it then ?
@lwinston59502 жыл бұрын
Wow this is so good and I needed it !!! How KZbin be knowing !!!
@Carol-sx6rg Жыл бұрын
This subject also resonates when already in a relation. 😊💖
@rosyalegro79714 жыл бұрын
It is good to see mixed people...mixed generations and mixed looking and colors and different height...
@mucimaci874 жыл бұрын
Even it hurts I would go through hell to be with her, I would survive anything if she were next to me,fight with me for us.. if only she would love/want me again 😔💔
@lwinston59502 жыл бұрын
Well how are you now
@PhoenixFeathers7 ай бұрын
Um… self sacrifice is very much out of the Vortex. What’s in your Vortex should flow easily and effortlessly to you. Likely the relationship you are speaking of produced the one that is now in your Vortex. Have fun calibrating to that!
@HShravzPАй бұрын
10:13 This is soo good and solid 👍
@loveeepepsimax4 жыл бұрын
How do I stop missing someone? 🌸
@acirelizabeth4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your amazing channel🌱🌟🙏🏻😊
@rachelrachel98573 жыл бұрын
10.13keep finding that feeling when lonely comes find that feeling and before long you'll be so solidly there enough of the time not all the time
@viktorvictor20762 жыл бұрын
I really try almost everything and I can't stop thinking about my ex girlfriend. I really really try to think to something else to meditation but ist very hard and my ex girlfriend popped into my mind. I am in a very big duduu.
@awarness39382 жыл бұрын
bless you!!! i needed this
@iamannyrosario2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Heardddddd this. Thank you.
@Carrie...3 жыл бұрын
Wow just what I needed to hear!
@Empwer-sc8le4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Abraham 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️
@nicholeowen61123 жыл бұрын
So what if you do still want to be with that person?
@marianamercedescava14414 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this
@heididorf36953 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️☺️🙏
@divinenonbinary2 жыл бұрын
Oh which workshop is this?
@nancybowman63942 жыл бұрын
Could "and you'll both know" possibly mean that his eyes were supposed to light up like that of a cat in the middle of Walmart? With constant eye connections after? They were brown and fluorescent green. Is that what that meant?
@mariamkinen80364 жыл бұрын
To be honest , I think I just got very lucky. Men do not know that women can lead without actually doing so. So , no obsessive happiness.... You don't get the point.....? Being lovable is more than enough. With a chosen time n place .......
@hamburgs19824 жыл бұрын
What if you just have a feeling that they are the one? But, they are after someone else..yet, you just know that they complete you?
@Nokss_204 жыл бұрын
Look at your childhood trauma
@melha13913 жыл бұрын
I feel this. I’m in the same situation.
@OreadNYC3 жыл бұрын
It's not a good idea to ask or expect someone else to complete you because that implies you aren't enough by yourself...and if you aren't enough by yourself, then what will convince someone to want to be with you? YOU need to complete you -- nobody else can do that. You're already complete by yourself even if you don't feel it right now...you're just not perfect, because nobody is. When you are enough for you, you actually won't need other people so much -- and paradoxically, once the feeling of desperation isn't there as much anymore, what you want actually might be more likely to show up even if only because contented and peaceful people tend to be more pleasant to have around. The ideal way to be in relationship is not to focus on what your partner will give you (in order to somehow complete you) but what you are able and willing to give to a partner simply because you want to please that person -- not in an effort to bribe or control that person but just because you have reason to think this person will enjoy it.
@sameena7132 жыл бұрын
The question is, what do they have, that you want?
@bondziotek5627 Жыл бұрын
9:10
@rosyalegro79714 жыл бұрын
I have always younger guys
@28408253 жыл бұрын
She has found her twin flame.
@spazzytaffy68393 жыл бұрын
i thought the same thing lol :(
@lwinston59502 жыл бұрын
Been there 😢
@miramira98834 жыл бұрын
Juicy😂😂💓💓
@lolelyn13 жыл бұрын
❤️
@oflidiggy2 жыл бұрын
This isn't teaching how to stop thinking about someone 😭
@jennifer95283 жыл бұрын
Again, the incessant repetition is too much. Am I the only one driven nuts by this?
@er32592 жыл бұрын
But I still love him 😭😭😭😭 I see him everyday and live with him. This is so hard. Although I know there is someone new, I still can't stop appreciating the amazing sex and good times I had with him. I just couldn't take his push and pull. The holding back on his part. The not wanting to kiss me during sex cuz I told him I was falling for him. The rejection I felt. Such a mixture of feelings.