Having 'Anxious Attachment' kept me attracted to the wrong types of men and for years in relationships where I emotionally invested so much more than they did. I was always yearning for a deeper connection that felt secure.. and he was always never 100% available for that. I opened my heart up to love only to get hurt time and time again. And what it really did was kept me all those years from actually having the loving secure committed partner that I really wanted. Listening to the teachings of Abraham and healing my attachment wounds were the key shifts for me. You can take the quiz to find out if you have an anxious bonding and attachment style petaapril.com/lovebondingquiz
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
Haha...I don't have to take the quiz and I already know I am to a certain degree 'the anxious bonding type' -- and I am a man too, lol. What has kept me from being swept away from that and helped give it a balanced and free perspective of that is meditating in a way that gives a transcending quality to my Whole Being...giving respite. AH has helped make better application of that State of Being from meditation when I am not meditating.
@kamila-79513 жыл бұрын
Give yourself the security that you need. Self love is the best investment. After this is the love to your partner.. You need to set the proper order in your life. Lots of love💙
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
@@kamila-7951 That's what I said and do. Meditation brings me to a state of Love and Bliss...the reason I want a partner, is not to get or feel love from them but to enjoy the giving and creative expression of Love to another from the Love and Bliss that wells up within myself during meditation.
@kamila-79513 жыл бұрын
@@babajaiy8246 sorry my comment was to the comment above :) But anyway i really get aligned what you said.. 😊🙌
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
@@kamila-7951 Your comment is true and still applies to all, including myself. Thank you for sharing.
@toyja2005 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ oh my she sounds exactly like me .
@PS-bi8dc4 жыл бұрын
This is sooooooo absolutely my story........... I am also 43 and I am also least interested in my well paying job. All I only want is loving partner, marriage, kids & a happy family ! I am practicing law of attraction for 5.5 years and every time I attract love into my life it frizzles away after couple of months. I am writing my life like a story as well
@1988world4 жыл бұрын
So what the result ?
@Almanama129 ай бұрын
What's the result ? I want to know too
@kitkat1294 жыл бұрын
I met the one! It's been a big growing up lesson but all this is leading me to myself, to my vortex, looking forward to be fully ready to be with him and love him ❤️ We gonna get married soon and have a baby, I never felt this way before, so sure and secure that he is the one, the whole package. Trust in law of attraction guys, the day when yo less expect your dreams will come knock on your door effortlessly, that is what happened to me!! And Thanks Samuel for being the prince I've always dreamed, you're actually even better than everything I could imagine 😍 🔥
@1988world4 жыл бұрын
Are you lady in hot seat ?
@bhavyayuvrajhanda3 жыл бұрын
@@1988world she doesnt need to be🙃
@lwinston59505 жыл бұрын
I wonder what’s the update on this lady. I hope she’s gotten what she wants
@regiz53585 жыл бұрын
That is the story I have with my Belgium man... I feel that he knows me, when he hugs me upon meeting me is so vibrating and refreshing; when he offers me his sweater to protect me against cold; he is really strong and he doesn't give me all in a plate... actually he challenge me, it was so worth it the waiting... after being with a covert narcissist that I say thanks for helping me to see what the universe had in storage for me. Thankful and sassy girl from California!
@kyracoach5 жыл бұрын
Tell the light feeling, uplifting story, and go more general if it brings doubt or tension.
@nicikucapaca2 ай бұрын
Well,Waw 😮 that was like a shower of Goddess energy I needed at this moment 🎉
@JayJayBloom Жыл бұрын
Amazing awakening message 💟🙏🏻
@BlessedBeing5 жыл бұрын
5:00 ; 6:00 ; 7:00 ; 10:00
@kyrareneeLOA5 жыл бұрын
You left out all the other minutes. :)
@BA-hb9hh5 жыл бұрын
Kyra Renee T lol
@whosdatgirl15 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes!!! So beautiful and real x x Everything is always working out for me x x x
@SophiaB_e_n3 жыл бұрын
Loved it Thank youuuu 🌀❤️✨
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
I've been listening to many AH videos here on YT for a couple months....and as with all knowledge I study I always look for the essence. In that sense YT has helped me listen to AH so that I can begin to see the same AH teachings being repeated but in slightly different contexts. One of these teachings like the example here where AH is suggesting focusing on the story/dream - the ideal partner is like this or that, the experience of the relationship is like this or that. etc. is but one way of getting ones vibration up to 'speed' - like the other exercises of carrying around a $100 bill in the pocket and go around 'window' shopping with it to get the vibration up and postive. So although these AH teachings on this topic are abundant on YT videos and are more than adequate and simple enough, I was wondering as an addition to these YT videos does anyone know of a specific AH publication (like a book that can be read instead of having to be online sitting at a computer screen which I like to keep at a minimum) that describes/suggests these types of exercises in the most detail/elaboration?
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
"No one cant stop thinking a thought without thinking another thought" I know there is a certain contex AH is speaking in when they said that, and I agree with what they say. However, as a comment of its' own - It is not true. There are specific types of meditation in which, not by force or sheer will, allows for the thinking thoughts to gradually subside in which thoughts actually give way to silence without thinking another thought. So much so that the intentional, from the state of silence, introduction of a thought is released into silence as an intended, and continuously cycled through a rythm that generates bliss, love, ecstasy, etc.
@crossingn64513 жыл бұрын
so basically we need to pretend, make believe, script etc and through that itll manifest
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
I believe though, yes, go through what you describe as pretend but more importantly - from that story generate the REAL(not pretend) feelings behind that pretend, which is what creates the vibration and in turn manifestation to match.
@LadyToto Жыл бұрын
so i tell my story that i want even if i feel resistance about it?
@TheSexii905 жыл бұрын
I did that but nothing happend i have been waiting 6 years
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
Actually if you were 'waiting' - you didn't do that, in the sense you may have generated the feelings from the exercise, but if you are waiting then you your holding vibration in the other direction which prevents it from unfolding.
@BeccaL20163 жыл бұрын
What’s votex?
@belabliss11 ай бұрын
The amazing vibrational reality You have been Creating 😍