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[@JonathonAslay]

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[@debbieochoa8525]

Thank you. It resonates❤

[@IslaBonita007]

When a woman is financially independent and takes care of herself they exude a confidence that men find irresistible. They give off a vibe of self love, the opposite of needy.. ladies it's mandatory that you love yourself first and become completely self-sufficient

[@lindawade1203]

I Totally Agree 👍

[@sherriflemming3218]

Absolutely. Is it wise to be financially dependent on a man? It puts him in the position to be in control and dictate to every penny you spend. To be under his thumb. Sharing finances in a relationship are an equal partnership. . No relationship is financially equal. Are they a spender or a saver. Can they maintain themselves financially? Many people live beyond their means. True fact money is no guarantee of happiness. You can be with someone with money, and be miserable. Must be financially responsible, self sufficient with the ability to maintain themselves. No matter what their finances are.

[@elizabethf8078]

I see things from another perspective. If a man takes "positive ownership" of his loved ones, he takes pride in being a good and generous steward of his family. My grandmother never worked a day in her life for wages, however as a colonel's wife, she worked her butt off for her family and to scaffold his career from the social perspective. They were deeply in love, and he left her in a very generous financial position when he passed. Up until then, every night after dinner, this SAC air base commander helped her with the dishes, then turn up the hi fi and close dance with her. This left a huge impression on me, and this is my magnetic north. She had a contract offer with a Hollywood studio (we still have the telegram), which she had the *ability* to be financially independent, and he had to work his butt off to win her.

[@elizabethf8078]

​@sherriflemming3218 Not every man who is the sole provider keeps her under his thumb. A good man gets a sense of pride from being a good provider, but being self-sacrificing rather than dictatorial. The negatives are a projection of your (or others' which you've heard secondhand) emotional baggage/residue and are not the rule.

[@sherriflemming3218]

@@elizabethf8078 Hi Elizabeth, I've mostly seen examples of what I've mentioned. Also I'm a boomer. I grew up in the generation where there was mostly dictorial males in marriages. And a landside of divorced single mothers in the 1970s. I guess what you say must exist.

[@babydollkincaid4584]

You're absolutely right. Women give their power away and adapt to the men's need and lifestyle. Women stay in control. We have the power in the relationship 😏

[@JonathonAslay]

Sad and true

[@JessicaPolman-i2p]

Yes, we do give our power away because we were taught to do this - men usually call the shots in relationships. I feel like this still happens. My ex was a high-powered attorney and he said everything revolves around him.

[@MZESSENZE]

@babydillkincaud. You are spot on. Never give your power away to placate a man. No one is responsible for our happiness but us. If you depend on a man's affection to make you happy, you're setting yourself up for a downfall. This works the other way around as well. Women give way too much and oftentimes get the short stick in the end anyway! Love yourself and know your worth and God's love for each of us ❤️

[@brenda121143]

I just heard you mention that your relationship had ended. You have no idea how sorry I am. I was hoping this would really be the one.😢😢

[@jafrasar1]

Very sorry to hear. You are handling it VERY well. You have a lot of well wishers here.

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe... thank you 😊

[@JonathonAslay]

Much appreciated 🙏

[@Katrn30]

I am so sorry it didn’t work out for you.

[@lizzetcastro73]

best wishes , big hug Jonathon !! God blesses you .

[@badabing-g4g]

If you can't wait a couple hours for a text you're too neurotic and/or damaged to date someone in my opinion. Just had a guy block me because I read his intro message on the dating site late at night and planned to answer the next day but was blocked. People have lives, get a grip! This childish emotional behavior is common on dating sites but I realize he did me a favor by not wasting time engaging him.

[@badabing-g4g]

Then there was another guy who sent me texts the first day all night while I was asleep saying my name over and over, how he hoped I was his soulmate and then the next day we exchanged brief texts and I went to shower, he called me 3 times and left crazy messages (I can't remember what they said, this was months ago, before I took a break from dating site nonsense) but basically expected me to have psychic powers that he was gonna call and also for me to be at his beck and call. So odd to flip out like that over literally nothing

[@JonathonAslay]

Maybe

[@jenniferl1908]

I agree, Had this happen to me - a guy texted me on an app, I didn't respond right away, he wrote me again and said I am obviously not interested in him and then said he was married - he wrote just kidding. I deleted his messages and reported his profile to Hinge. Some people are truly insane and should not be dating.

[@badabing-g4g]

@@jenniferl1908 unhinged on Hinge lol

[@christydobson78]

I have been down that road before where I have depended on a man for my happiness and it was devastating because he seduced me and made me believe that he was the most honest, nicest, perfect, and loving man. I trusted him with my life. When I found out he was living a double life and seeing other women. I just couldn’t believe it. For some reason I end up attracting to men that are addicted to not getting caught doing this. Even though I believe these men truly loved me in their heart as much as they had the ability to love anyone above themselves, they just really enjoyed the attention they got from other women and just couldn’t resist the fun of not getting caught. But my gut instinct has never failed me. NEVER! NOT ONCE!!!!! Eventually they have all come back and finally admitted what they denied and denied and denied while saying I was crazy. So go with your instinct.

[@lilibethnieto55]

Life is a journey ❤Thank you Jonathon for your authenticity and leadership,standing by yourselves in times of this challenging time even to your own experience,the more we got some very solid coaching from you because you experienced it yourself.I do believe in what you said that people comes to our lives as a gift,they add colours and variety and depth to enrich each others life.Beautiful “risk “indeed.Keep our power so that,we can flow and move with dignity and confidence into the next journey.Appreciate all you do.❤

[@GoddessGinaMichelle-fy4li]

Having awareness of boundaries and standards writing them down and saying them out loud is helpful to realize when these are being crossed. I admit I just learned this now in my late 50s.

[@noremac0123456789]

Someone once told me “neediness is NOT attractive” and that stuck with me through the years.

[@imalimabean6686]

It's Sat. 10.7.23. What you were saying about self control and discipline is so true. Modern dating has discouraged that, and lends to impulsive actions. Then people end up romantically connected and bonded to mere strangers with probable little to no congruent goals, disposition, lifestyle, empathetic nature. The users know how to spot the givers from great distance. They breadcrum; only giving the bare minimium to keep the other hooked. In the end...both are disenchanted and suffer that injury or perhaps victory; depending on which side of the fence. Really tough to be suddenly cast into the discard pile

[@nancyhitzroth5941]

Jonathon you always hit your topics bang on! Love your channel and what you talk about. Keep the messages coming! I have been following you for almost 3 years after seperating from my husband of 40 years. I agree that there are so many and mostly emotionally troubled people out there looking for love. It is refreshing to hear your thoughts on relationships....thank you!

[@JonathonAslay]

Honored to help 🙏

[@candacelove4832]

Having the boundary, I have of being a high value woman, and dating a high value man I find it highly attractive that a man would not live with me until we were married. I am looking for an above average person in every way. I also choose to not be afraid to state that when I date, I have found that it does not turn away men… At least not the ones I would be interested in.

[@JessicaPolman-i2p]

I agree with you. I am not living with a man unless we are engaged to be married. Living together is giving wife duties at girlfriend prices.

[@corinneguilmain8710]

I got a question. I've always wondered about this throughout the years. I went to a college that only had 3 females and the rest were males. I had a blast. It was the best college experience i ever had. Then i went to a college that had only 3 males and the rest were females. I had a miserable experience. What a bummer. The differences were remarkable. Women are catty. I'm sure some men can be that way too. But i find men much easier to relate to than women. I can be straight up with men but women are different. They gossip and back stab. That says something about myself but many other women feel the same way i do, that it's easier to relate to a man than a woman. Could you explain why that is?

[@JonathonAslay]

I've heard the same thing...

[@kimking3909]

The lust or limerance in the beginning is so powerful and yummy that we don’t want to let that go. And again, it’s a wonderful thing to have that person to be with and it’s all very hard to just give up, so ppl hope (?) it gets better or turns around, and we stay, feelings get invested, and we get stuck.

[@JonathonAslay]

I know, right?

[@kimking3909]

Thank you internet brother.

[@imalimabean6686]

People who care, help their friends with blind spots. It bothers me that some women are hyper-competitive, jealous, selfish or afraid of losing their " girl-friends" time and attention, therefore might sabotage a potential love story. Yeah, gotta use care picking female friends. Had a boyfriend with a female " best friend". She made sure to stay at the top of his priority list. She had him available to do " projects" for her at the drop of a hat

[@FrancisWahlgren-tu1hp]

“Juicy and delicious”… making me hungry for juicy steak😀

[@marlynlumba3766]

💯 Agree coz I'm hungry now😂✌️

[@JonathonAslay]

So good!

[@lindabishop9407]

Be yourself! Let it cook! You have control whom you are. If they no like! They can go gladly😊

[@celiaescalante]

I don't really care when a guy writes back to me. I used to. Low expectations = happiness.

[@NarrelleChain]

I don't think I can be bothered with a relationship, I'm in my 60s and taking drugs for severe back Pain and Attention deficit, I am artist, I don"t go out much, I do meet men, one visits but way too young, my ragdoll cat wakes me too early, now I am tired a lot, I am very strict with men, no sex until I get to know you, I don't have a y libido either that went around 57! I just want companionship! I swim regularly!

[@mayal9606]

Loooove Jonathon and his advice, it's straightforward and refreshingly honest ❤

[@mariedropkin59]

Just thinking, do you think maybe women give up their power easily because they are biologically predetermined to because of childbearing? If we didn’t put the baby before ourselves, it might not survive.

[@JonathonAslay]

Possible

[@JessicaPolman-i2p]

Well said. I was told by mother and grandmother that we need to cater to a man's needs and give him children - we do take their last name when we get married.

[@kathryncothern3433]

Just like anything else, there will be all levels of advice given out there, from both men and women. Lots and lots of great advice has been provided by many women.

[@runelerun]

I love all the books you recommend-- and your way of telling us like it is makes me smile. It is exactly what i need to hear

[@sherriflemming3218]

Indeed. Someone needs to be financially stable themselves. Money is not a guarantee of happiness. Exacly true, you dont need to bring up your past relationships. Focus on growth and someone who is healed or mostly healed.

[@sherriflemming3218]

Whoops I lthought I left this comment on Nalalie Clarices podcast. 😁! However glad you acknowledge it Jonathon. ♥️

[@GoddessGinaMichelle-fy4li]

I am willing to risk getting my heartbroken to feel that much love again.

[@kimking3909]

Shaggy or Scooby Lol 😆

[@Gigiyoungerme]

QUESTION Self gratitude is about healthy decision making I feel this quite a beautiful energy within what are your thoughts about this concept?

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes

[@nalubegamariam8980]

Maximum respect 🙏Jonathan thanks for a good advice more blessings 🙌

[@JonathonAslay]

Always

[@kathyquinn3579]

Question why get married?

[@kelligray1848]

❤ thank you for this reminder

[@nicolameredith3668]

I got xboy friends they not life me only

[@nicolameredith3668]

Way xboy friends not life me only they ask me back out I what to move on in my life

[@nicolameredith3668]

Yes

[@debbystage2409]

Yes life is fragile after years of marriage soooo true!!!

[@gingrgirl3302]

Yes, the genie is out of the bottle! That was funny!

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes

[@imalimabean6686]

Sarcasm comes from the Greek language which means " The tearing of flesh". I am a bit of a sensitive hot-head when people approach me with sarcasm. I bite back hard! It can cause dissention if not worked out. Best for people to take 10 deep breaths, or re-visit disagreement later before opening that hole under the nose. When wounded, It doesn't go well when waiting for the proverbial next shoe to drop. So sarcasm can take a razor shark bite out of hope. I find that to be a weak spot for me; Often based on accumulating frustration or unresolved irritation.

[@rozannamurayama9629]

Such a good video.

[@lindat1317]

I do watch 90 Day Fiancé-my secret guilty pleasure. Maybe not so secret now. 😂

[@shecando8917]

28:13 when I was a page in a library the Utne Reader had a brilliant article about this. I was 13 at the time and 30+ years later this concept still impresses me as it did then! Fascinated with human behavior and understanding connection even at that young age!

[@nicolameredith3668]

My life is hard in my self

[@colleencarbone2074]

I loved this video! I will watch it again. I never listen to other women, only male friends. Also, I read alot more male posts as well for feedback response to topics, what they like. The last part of this video resting bitch face, really made me laugh, great video!

[@CynthiaCellan-bj2qr]

Dear Jonathan, I found your channel recently. Thank you for the clarity you bring to your audience. I have shared your video with several friends who are benefiting also from your work. I find you fun and believable!

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks for sharing!

[@kimberlyjr4855]

I was reading comments and seeing if you should give 8 dates to son and daughter in law.. I say yes...I just gave 5 love languages to mine and he said we wont read. then they started to go out on dates more often!! I think the younger generations can use all the help we can give them I babysit of course for my grandson and encourage them to be expressive. They both talk to me in private which then I can help them....If they didnt want me to meddle...or said anything to that tune, then I would not. it is not meddling if done in a loving manner!!

[@melindabritt89]

I am single divorced and ready to date a guy he had made it clear that he wants to start a relationship with arc and I have been attracted to him and he is clearly single as well we are the same age somewhat and I just need to take the plunge what’s your take. I clearly told him I am wanted him to know clearly I am looking for a husband. Linda

[@CatherineInColorado]

❤

[@lindaorourke9215]

He hasn't been married only about two months .. now and still wants other women.

[@zamanart5]

I just watched this whole episode….THANK YOU, very helpful! I think you’re awesome & love your personality! 😊

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad it was helpful! Thank you 😊

[@monicaraybon1802]

My friend discarded me because I didn’t respond to his text until next day … he needed an excuse

[@MarieQuethera]

What is the difference between boundaries and discipline? Do you believe it’s easy to become cold , selfish when someone masters discipline…. Just feeling above the rest … reaching a spiritual Plateau,,,,and then Not open to sharing ……

[@MarieQuethera]

Stop all the groups and march’s for women’s rights Equality is a given Say it side by side human rights all equal across the board ,,,no more pathetic fighting for rights just accept and walk and be in our power The more you are on your platform l hope it makes men more open comfortable to approach women equally and let the defenses down Thank you No more trying just take it

[@JessicaPolman-i2p]

I keep missing the lives but watched it this morning - good advice. Jonathon, curious if you are doing ok from your breakup? You seemed a bit anxious and defensive in your live. Hope you are healing yourself.

[@JonathonAslay]

I'm doing okay... there are some good days and bad days too.

[@cynthiahenry3501]

I have began in a happy relationship for tow now

[@JonathonAslay]

Yep...

[@sherriflemming3218]

Jonathon, if I had a daughter, she would be watching your channel.

[@kimberlyjr4855]

I just saw body electric comment about asking happy couple to help. great idea! I asked my friends and most were reluctant but they will be flattered!

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@lindaorourke9215]

It takes more than two years before marry ..anyone really

[@lindaorourke9215]

Question? ..why do men get married and then want someone else...and claim they care for them.

[@JonathonAslay]

Ego?

[@debbystage2409]

Working on self so true chemistry very important, appreciate you Jonathan,😊

[@JonathonAslay]

Always!

[@victoriaoshea4865]

This is a very good plan!

[@cristysmith3797]

Thank you , all true

[@JonathonAslay]

You're welcome

[@kimberlyjr4855]

Its Scooby!!! you do a good impression!

[@JonathonAslay]

Lol 😁

[@badabing-g4g]

Id rather be sarcastic than humorless! 😊

[@JonathonAslay]

Agreed

[@JessicaPolman-i2p]

Yes, but sarcasm can sometimes be condescending and mean.

[@lizquinn3568]

Men are from mars women are from venus so the book says,i think that book is so out dated 🤔❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Maybe

[@JessicaPolman-i2p]

I don't think it is outdated at all. Men are different from women.

[@walkaminutewithme4787]

I Love you. Ron😢 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Who is Ron?

[@Katrn30]

@@JonathonAslaylol

[@TroyStern-wv1nt]

10:30 pm . Jonathan , has been interesting watching your program for sometime now.🦜⚖️👍

[@ImagineThatSam]

Vetting before bedding!