How To Sound Confident In English (Even When You’re Not!)

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Let’s say you have a job interview tomorrow morning.
And let’s say you haven’t reached your English breakthrough just yet, and you feel a little insecure about your English (and by little I mean you’re so anxious you can’t sleep).
Since you don’t have enough time to become 100% fluent overnight, but you have to look confident to get that job - here’s what you’re left with. You gotta FAKE IT.
But how can you fake confidence?
Glad you asked. In this episode, I’m going to share with you 6 things that will make you sound and appear powerful and confident in English, even when you’re not.
And the best part?
When you fake it, it does affect your inner state and you become more relaxed and cool, and when you’re relaxed and cool, guess what? Your English is more fluent.
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this woman is epic, I mean all her videos that I've watched so far, describe the exact experience that I'm going through, these videos just relieve me and make me feel that I'm not the only one, thanks a lot for all the efforts and the experiences you're sharing with us, this is exactly what an English learner should watch and follow. I gotta say that even though most of other channels and videos of English learning made by native speakers are so helpful, they're irrelevant compared to this channel. good job Hadar I really appreciate this and good luck

[@ewanfuentes215]

Im 110% agree Aziz Ali, aside from being energetic all the time her positivity is so contengious. You’ll feel encougrage because she feel you as a non-American speaker. She’s amazing 🤩

[@-flabber6663]

Hadar, my confident to speak English is much higher than the criticism of the native speakers, coz I'm speaking two languages and he or she just one. Doesn't matter if my English is good or bad, I try my best!

[@SoulAndGarden]

I had a trauma in public speaking 3 decades ago. Until now I'm still struggling with my nervous voice when talking to people. Thank you Hadar, it's never too late for me to find my true voice and be as confident as I'm supposed to be. I'm practicing with you everyday. Cheers from the Philippines 🇵🇭.

[@Hoorubb]

I so want you to see this comment! I'm an English Literature student, we read books, watch documentaries, in short everything that helps improve one's English speaking skills.But I've started noticing something. Whenever I'm communicating with other people, my brain stops putting words into sentences, things that could have been said in one or two lines, it takes me a whole paragraph to explain them. I can watch films without subtitles, I'm good at vocabulary too but this thing this fear just won't go away! Please help 😭😭

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Dude you almost solved my entire life with this. 🙌🏼

[@hadar.shemesh]

Oh😌 you made my day 😍😍

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Me 2.. hahahaha

[@davidm.8299]

I have been studying and practicing English for almost 20 years now but this is the first time I will pay attention to my intonation and rhythm, this couch is amazing and I am pretty sure that following her advise in a year I will speak in a totally different way more confident and eloquent, Thank you for helping us in a way nobody ever did !!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻✨

[@anyangthiep8802]

My one take away is I want to talk like I know what I'm talking about. Because I do know what I'm talking about. Speak with confidence and self assurance. My second take away is for me to know every situation I have to use the words that will empower me and not diminish what I'm trying to say. Good attitude and authority matters. Thank you so much💐💓🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@sha6267]

Watching Hadar is one of the best things I do in this lockdown!!

[@xblasterrific]

Glad I found her channel.

[@stephaniebarroeta373]

I love the way she explain, because I'm pretty sure that all of us have those problems with the confidence. And she is like: Common! Just Speak even if you make mistakes.

[@victormanuelgarcia5652]

The first thing I'm gonna start working on is my attitude. Won't be apologizing for mistakes I've not even made.

[@faraonahorus7923]

My teacher Hadar is the best teacher I have ever met. She is also the most beautiful because of her long hair and she looks like a diva.

[@mamymimma]

True, and if you keep smiling, you'll end up feeling happier ♡

[@shumailashahzad1456]

I don't know how you can understand and read the minds of people and I like your way of teaching and I really wish I can speak like you ❤

[@thameryalda2910]

I am so the pressure to study English with myself, I am studying nearly everything have no recognized

[@haroldojoserodrigues3060]

KZbin recomended this chanell for me (june/2023), very good. From Brazil.

[@anyangthiep8802]

My take away is I'm gonna start paying attention to my voice, intonation the words that I choose, I will definitely pay attention to my attitude, as well of pace I use and preparation is a key as well.

[@maried.1831]

Attitude and Preparation.

[@ngoctrucnguyenhoang5431]

I used to like Rachel English but I love you now. The way your teaching pronunciation is a light for my studying speaking English. thank you so much. love you Hadar.

[@Dariocomposer]

When I speak I try to pay attention to all of those things at the same time, and I always end up with an headache 😅. I should definitely focus on one at the time. I need a strategy to separate my focus.

[@Janediary]

voice intonation vocabulary attitude pace preparation

[@Spokenenglish12]

Incredible video as always! Hadar You have always been awesome!

[@bilkang2437]

Thanks you so much Hadar, daughter of Tsion, I'm really grateful to you all the time. You're best teacher

[@zeeshanfarooq7180]

Pace ...is the most imoprtant thing i want to focus on .. I was literally confused about it and never thought about it .. But you directly told me how to work on it...

[@peladito2006]

I love this teacher. Good Knowledge!!

[@luigi5326]

Bravo !!! 👏 You're amazing as always, really 💯

[@rafaelatakami8019]

My biggest problem is speaking fast. Even in my native language, when I get nervous in a presentation, or talking to too many people, I get anxious and start speaking too fast. So in English, I speak too fast and make even more mistakes for that reason. I need to control myself, but it's sometimes really hard. Thank you for the video, you have the best tips! :)

[@hadar.shemesh]

I’m happy it helped! Yes, when we speak fast in our native language we can get away with it, but we can’t get away with it in English

[@rafaelatakami8019]

@@hadar.shemesh yes, it's so hard, I get so ashamed

[@linguamus]

​@@rafaelatakami8019 You should not ashamed never ever! 'cause you are learning another language it's a great job! You can watch my videos on my channel Linguamus and see how to speak with big confidence

[@rafaelatakami8019]

@@linguamus oh great, I'll check your video. Thank you :)

[@helenreigns4273]

You not alone sis ,very many people do it but you just need to be selective

[@raoufallani5142]

Thank you teacher great work -RAOUF

[@supplychainsants]

Vocabulary! I have realised and learned that vocabulary is a powerful ingredient to speak and express feelings. You do magic in your presentations b'coz of selection of effective words.

[@taniasmalzer9495]

Thank you!!!

[@carlosagaitan]

Hadar, thanks so much your class is great.

[@CarlosMarin-lp9xe]

This video helped me so much, Thanks Hadar!!

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I can have much benefit..Thanks Hadar

[@LuizFernando-nm3re]

I'm new in here and I'm loving your videos.

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Each time I understand you more , thanks !!!!

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Thank hadar ..great

[@williemadrid9137]

You're amazing!

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Thanks for your VDO, It's very useful

[@englishinas9778]

Thank you for inspiring us

[@abdalmenam2580]

All your lessons fantastic

[@adrianarufinosiqueira829]

You are my best inspiration!!!! Thank you so much!!!!

[@simaabedini5908]

You are naturally great on this 👍

[@huongquynhnguyen8212]

Tks u so much for useful tips

[@eveo2223]

Thanks Hadar, you're a lifesaver! I will start with slowing down and preparation.

[@P_dePedro]

You are amazing, thank you for your advice

[@bettyzhao9574]

Very good. Give me confidence.

[@ivomoreira42]

btw, another outstanding and absolutely worthwhile video, as always. Thank you, Hadar! You're such an adorable person with an admirable talent for teaching!

[@buombothmut]

Wow! So amazing lesson

[@karimfinjan5553]

Thank you, was really helpful.

[@nlipskaya]

You are so charismatic! Thank you so much for your vids❤

[@RaynerGS]

Delighted video, you rock as always. Salute from Brazil and see you in another next video.

[@zakieg2051]

thanks for advice

[@Abophoto]

Wow, I love this video, there so many good tips in it. I think I will start to work a bit more on my intonation. Thanks so much, it was very interesting to watch!

[@wenqingzhang2199]

great talk, great gain !

[@Jorgealbertorincon]

Awe! Hadar, you are pretty amazing. I discovered your channel one week ago and I felt... inspired and motivated by your content.

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Thank you so much 😊 for the tips.

[@Bloomsales]

Great video. I'm excited to have found your channel. Thanks!

[@Training.Engineering]

Thanks a lot for your very very good advices.

[@TheYaruka2010]

Thank you so much! .😊 I was doing this many times..you were so right about it..thank you ,let's keep it up! 😊👍🙏

[@dmitriizheleznikov2949]

Thanks Hadar

[@milagrosvirginiacastanedaa5065]

Definitely my preparation

[@urmilbhatiya4766]

Thanks a lot

[@Spanish702]

Awesome idea

[@MaxLambrecht]

Powerful video! Helped me a lot. Thanks you so much

[@oceanservicesjr]

It was a really enrich video!!

[@duakhan3621]

You are amazing serously !!! Your strategies helping me alot. Keep it up with such more videos. Thankyou ☺

[@ahmedzahra2440]

Excellent coach , Hadar

[@axelfoly9260]

Thanks a lot !! You are amazing teacher and coach-psychologist! Watching your videos for me is like meeting with an old good friend.

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Great video, great teaching , great everthing!!! Greetings from Croatia

[@CarlosGarridoSv]

Thank you ! Your videos are helping me so much!!!!!!

[@tannazbaghersefat2827]

Hi Hadar thanks for the information, I feel that I need to work on my intonation and I should be prepared before my speech. Love you Hadar : *

[@noeestrada1086]

Very useful tips Hadar, thanks a lot

[@elsadigadam4686]

T Thanks alot this is what feeding me more

[@abrahamyenubri5087]

I love your videos ❤ The best

[@yaninasguasseroferro3432]

Hi Hadar! Working on my own rithm when I speak in English and having enough time for prepararion are crucial for my confidence. Thanks! Y:-)

[@alejandraprada6836]

Thanks! I think preparation is the most important part of my goals.

[@angelaurena8456]

Thank you for the good advices! I'm so happy that I find you here in KZbin. I used to apologize for my accent. But I will be preparing myself for the future 😌. Thanks.

[@julianandresgomezcastro227]

Wow your speech is amazing. Thank you so much you've taught me great things about intonation that i never learned before

[@Juniorsaxplayer]

Hadar, you have NO IDEA about how inspiring and helpful you've been to me and my English students in Brazil!!!! YOU ARE AWESOME!!!! Thank you sooo much for such precious tips!

[@gopalchand4993]

Thanks so much Hadar for sharing such a valuable vedio.

[@santodebiasi4341]

Good Teacher, You are the best!

[@paulacesana8439]

I will pay more attention to my intonation and pace! Thank you so much!

[@fernandomilicich8160]

Being as a foreingner, You are a really american woman. Thanks a lot Hadar. Greetings from Argentina

[@macmohanku]

Just found your channel today and I already feel like that I have changed my life. thanx, a lot.

[@mehriaalbert6263]

Excellent class...You are amazing. To answer your questions, all the above. 🌷

[@sumansuman8713]

Love you, you are great 👍

[@orlandoandrade9829]

Hadar,You are a wonderful teacher. I loved this video.

[@stephaniet6114]

So many things you talk about in your videos resonate with me, especially the ones dealing with language insecurity. I think my choice of words and my negative self-perception as a non-native speaker of English sometimes get in the way of what would otherwise be a successful interaction. Still got a lot of work to do, but I'm glad I stumbled upon your channel, Hadar! :)

[@carlospandis3483]

When I feel really insecure or intimidated it seems like I have a knot in my thoat, and this video is very helpful in this regard.

[@polinaglotova]

Wow, what a great video, non the less! I will definetely bring more attention to my intonation in the end of sentences.

[@Mudda33]

Hadar, I really appreciate your help. definitely you have the point "fake it until you make it"

[@aminazimi2912]

Intonation and attitude!

[@bushraikram6173]

Super!!! This so powerful, I wish I knew that when I was learning English initially. I picked up some bad habits. well, it is not too late.

[@laninhatavares1206]

thanks! I am from Brazil! I discovered you yesterday! I will follow your classes!

[@Deep_mindfulness]

Really you covered the whole basic things in just one video and I was just going on wrong direction as my English speaking journey but after seen this video I have clear map to go head on journey. Thank you so much for being a path maker.

[@MrCarlos5372]

I need to practice totally all of what you explain in the video, very clear and well explained, Thank you Teacher

[@tamav333]

Wow, this is really informative!

[@mida793]

Hadar you are amazing! Your way of explaining and talking is so easy and attractive. I'll try to keep my voice even when speaking. I usually go low pitch when speaking. And speak very fast...

[@novalopata]

Voice and attitude!

[@eneidamedeiros8139]

I will start changing my Attitude. I need to pay attention to other features as well. Thank you so much. You are great! Congratulations

[@andreadickinson3076]

very good class thank you I will apply it !