Addressing the comments about my weight

[@littlespeck4354]

I don’t understand how people show “concern” by criticising, bullying, shaming and actively hating on someone! Colleen is a wonderful role model for young girls and boys she shares her vulnerabilities, she discusses difficult topics such as mental health and disorders, eating disorders, physical problems and pains. She shares it all and does not have to justify anything to anybody. She is a wonderful advocate for young people to follow their dreams and work hard for themselves to live a life that they can enjoy and deserve. She is a wonderful mother, wife, sister, aunt and friend. This is a brilliant strong woman who we should be so grateful to get an insight into her life and it’s a pleasure to be in support of her and her family. All the best Colleen you deserve respect and love always because that is what you give out unconditionally X

[@tylynnfiedler5547]

For real! People will really jump to conclusions to criticize as well.

[@JS27982]

are you sure about that? that aged like milk lol (not the weight tho)

[@JS27982]

but she is NOT a good role model, trust me.

[@hollismatilda23]

as a "bigger girl" who has constantly dealt with eating issues and the urge to be smaller than i am due to societal standards, the comments about "your body is perfect, you look perfect the way you are" as well as just calling out the differences between bigger and smaller people and their insecurities means SO MUCH. colleen, you are amazing, and someone i personally have watched since I was little. I know quite personally and intimately that you ARE a role model to younger people. you've never been shy in talking about things like this and it's SO SO important. thank you for everything you do, i'm sorry that people can be mean.

[@emilyeaton4693]

When you said “I hope no one ever makes you feel the way you made me feel” was SO empowering and mature. It really puts things into perspective and also just shows what a loving human you are, cause in spite of the awful comments these people were leaving, you never once turned negative back which is easier said than done. You made an appoint to tell them that you never wish for them to feel that way even though they made you feel that way. You’re so inspiring and are a huge role model to any woman who watches your videos. I agree that comments about weight are NEVER appropriate and I just think you handled this beautifully 🤍

[@mallorym.]

This!!

[@survivorellie]

Colleen, you are amazing. You are, and will always be, a role model for me and I'm sorry anyone has ever made you feel like this wouldn't be true for so many of us. They don't speak for us 💜

[@KarolinaWneta]

The internet was really coming for Colleen's body and she still managed to give us a positive body affirmations back. You are an angel. I am so sorry they said all that to you.

[@zakaryahussin7060]

@@aekelly Amykelly BedtordMA

[@fashioncat4806]

an angel that grooms children 💀

[@Getout634]

@@fashioncat4806💀

[@clairyboots.]

@@fashioncat4806 and body shames other creators

[@KarolinaWneta]

@@fashioncat4806 I did not know that at the time I’m just as surprised as you are

[@urmum9875]

My favorite rule of life is “no body talk.” It doesn’t matter if it’s positive or negative, no commenting on anybody’s physical appearance. Ever since I started being intentional about that, I’ve been much happier. Love you Colleen, your soul shines, you are so amazing.

[@jeffdroog]

Someone once told me the mole on the back of my neck looked kind of gross.They sat behind me in class.Made me feel uncomfortable of course at first,so I looked at having it removed.Turned out to be cancerous,and likely saved my life.If you're too fucking weak to be able to hear other people's opinions,and not freak and cry about it,you honestly don't deserve to share this planet with other humans.People have opinions.Some people keep it to themselves,and some people don't,but who the fuck are you to tell people they aren't allowed to have their own opinions and voice them? Are you a fucking God or something I haven't heard of?

[@mollybuckler3957]

Yes! And food talk, which is thinly veiled body talk sometimes. "You're not eating enough!" "You don't eat anything!" or conversely, "Looks like someone's hungry."

[@pcatma]

My rules for compliments are: - Never make negative comments about someone's appearance unless it would take less than 5 minutes to fix. (e.g. letting someone know they have something stuck in their teeth) - Only make positive comments about someone's appearance if it is a DELIBERATE choice they have made e.g. hairstyle, clothes, nail polish. Never compliment someone on something that's out of their control or wasn't necessarily a choice e.g. their body shape/size, height, eyes, smile. - Never comment, either positively or negatively, on what or how much someone is eating.

[@katiebug_asmr]

Same!!! I just don't talk about bodies

[@jeffdroog]

@@katiebug_asmr Yes,ignore the problems,and they will just go away lol It's the kind of people like you,that make this world a shittier place to live in.Yes,it's okay to be any kind of body type,but it's also no okay to ignore other people's concerns for having any kind of body type.Its a chance to have real meaningful conversations,and get to the bottom of what's really good for each individual person.By just shutting down any kind of conversation on matters pertaining these kinds of things,you're not only being an ignorant piece of shit,but,you're also standing in the way of real,seriously helpful,growth on how we as a society view each other,and why...People like you are why the world would be better off burnt to a crisp,in an astrological disaster.

[@graceherold7333]

Hearing Colleen’s voice cracking while she was reading the comments made my heart break💔 I love you Colleen, you are beautiful, don’t forget it!💜

[@olivialucas968]

We love you Colleen and keep your head high thank you for spreading your story and your kind message❤️

[@its.emma.official]

I can relate to so much of what she says. I've been told by professionals that I look too skinny and put on meds to make me gain weight. They don't work. My body has always been small. That's just who I am and I certainly didn't ask to struggle with eating enough or be told I'm too small and need to gain weight. I simply can't. I'm really glad Colleen understands and is speaking up for others with similar struggles.

[@lacey1414]

ik i just wanted to give her a hug in that moment

[@tracyjackson3697]

I wanted to give her a hug because she is just the sweetest - I wanted to mother her and tell her you are incredible and you are better than those bullies- Luckily she knows she is loved-

[@OWPepin]

Omg me too 😢

[@amandamessemer9147]

This breaks my heart. Being a mom is so hard. I feel overwhelmed all the time. The pressure is so high to be perfect. Colleen there are so many people on here that love and support you silently. Know we are here. Stay strong! Moms support moms!

[@courtneyallison1387]

Colleen. I relapsed recently after losing my dream job and lost a bit of weight after weighing the most healthy weight ive ever been. I couldn't imagine being in the public eye and being ridiculed for struggling instead of being treated with kindness and softness. Please be kind to yourself. You owe nobody an explanation but thank you for sharing your feelings with us. We love you.

[@ladylovelylocks]

I hope you have been feeling better since this comment was uploaded. Hoping your doing well and recovering 🧚‍♀️

[@Alaska2446]

Your right being in the public eye isn't going help any one with this type of disorder.but then I remember she doesn't have to be,she has made lore than enough money from youtube to last multiple life times There is a time in all our lives that we need choose to make decisions to benefit our health and safety, with her home safety issues and mental health e.d issues what better time to take a break and step back and rethink the future for her self and family 👪 Good luck Colleen, your children deserve a healthy mother and you deserve to be healthy Also lucky enough money isn't an issue in seeking the best services

[@mathgirl210]

Firstly, you handled this with such grace. Secondly, I feel you and I’m so sorry. I have ADHD too and I have disordered eating habits too. The comments can cut really deeply, and the people who say them are projecting their own garbage crowding their brain. You are beautiful, you are managing your ADHD, anxiety, and depression like a warrior. ❤️

[@sabi_creations3625]

I deal with the same thing!! It helps me so much even just reading through the comments and seeing there's a lot of us out there dealing with this in our own ways. It ALWAYS helps to know you aren't alone dealing with hard topics. I felt the same way when she talked about her miscarriage.

[@kwoodmansee]

I was diagnosed with ADHD 2 years ago at 40, and I'm only just starting to understand how complicated my relationship with food is, how much of the complexity is trauma based, ADHD based, depression, anxiety, and cultural messaging, and what it all means. I know all of it has led to a very problematic relationship to my body and to food. I really wish we could shift the focus off of the way someone looks and instead focus on how someone feels. Can my body move me where and how I want to go? Do I feel satisfied and energized or sluggish? We have to stop diagnosing the way people look, and start encouraging each other to find what's functionally healthy for ourselves.

[@0n3c3nt]

I agree those commenters were projecting.

[@YeeHaww]

@@0n3c3nt exactly!

[@margaretshannon36]

🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@suzannacooper4024]

When you said your anxiety makes you nauseous and have no appetite you made me feel less alone. No one understands what it’s like but I’ve been dealing with that for years. People would say I looked like I had anorexia and it made me feel so horrible about myself. Thank you for being so vulnerable❤️We love you

[@therandomgirl5590]

Omg I relate to this sm, last year my anxiety was so bad, I was pretty much constantly nauseous, but I would still try to make myself eat, but I would be so nauseous I would just throw up, and it was so bad my parents thought I had bulimia, and I wasn’t intentionally throwing up, I was so anxious I just could not keep food down

[@kate.el77]

One of my biggest anxiety symptoms is actually stress eating, which is something that I'm trying to overcome. So although my anxiety doesn't make me feel nauseous, I totally understand how it can effect your eating habits. I'm sending love to you and Colleen and everyone else out there that struggles with this.

[@hayley8907]

The only time I can eat a meal is first thing in the morning in my bed or last thing in the day when im in bed and I always just thought "its because I'm working all day, if i eat and then I have to walk around I want to throw up" or I will sit down to eat and then something will happen and I have to get up again and everyone will be sitting and eating except me I can never relax and it's just better if i dont even try to eat at work.

[@monosylabicgrl]

Fellow breastfeeder/pumper with deflated balloons here. We should be so proud of what our boobs did for our little ones. They served their purpose, and now they're retired and living their best life down in the deep south. Sending love and strength your way ❤️

[@christycollins3445]

Lmaooo, not down in the deep south 😭

[@Allie-rf3rg]

Omg I love this 😂😂😂😂

[@laurieculver2407]

Best comment ever!!! 😂❤️

[@stitchingrealms]

I felt this so hard! LOL Well said!!

[@mirantiandhikad.2548]

Lmaoooo out of all the serious comments. Your comment made my dayyyy, pumping fellas over here too. Cant wait for the time that im done pumping with 2 happily retired deflated balloons 🤣

[@alissacaputo1141]

there was something so healing about hearing a mom tell me my body is beautiful and I am perfect. Thank you Colleen. I have a great mom, but she is/was never able to offer those words for me.

[@evelynbrown2193]

Your voice breaking while you were reading wrecked me. You don’t deserve any of this. You shouldn’t of had to make a video like this. It is literally no one’s business and people keep pushing a narrative just because you’re skinny. I love you for addressing this situation even though you shouldn’t have needed to. You are so amazing and kind and didn’t deserve to be treated like this. People say things that they have no idea about. You are one of the most real and open creators on KZbin. Hopefully this video lets people know that it’s not okay to comment on anyones weight.

[@jilliantaylor558]

Couldn’t have said it better ❤️

[@lillycarrier2490]

You said exactly what I was thinking. She is an amazing woman and doesn't deserve any of this. She does her best, and that's all anyone should expect from anyone.

[@pivana]

There is an ARMY of PEOPLE who love you here Colleen! Thank you for speaking up for all the ones who are struggling and do not dare to! HATERS BACK OFF!!

[@Bvnnyboo]

So disappointed in anyone who thought this was okay. thank you for being concerned but no thank you for causing all this damage

[@stephiiebby3]

Yes! Perfectly said!

[@Mackenziedoingthings]

Gosh I am so pissed that someone brought the tattoo into it. The story of that tattoo was so sweet and special and I hope the trolls don't change that for you.

[@MeganJorgenbot]

Agreed - I usually feel so happy after watching the vlogs/podcasts/videos - I feel like I’ve just hung out with some friends but I don’t comment because I figure it would just get lost in a sea of other comments. And I know in some cases the negative comments rise to the top, but (Colleen if you see these comments) just know that there are a ton of us who love you and your family (Kory is family too) and your videos and I’m sorry that there are people who make you feel like you need to defend yourself day in and day out.

[@dariand979]

Oh my gosh I didn’t put that in my comment but yes!!!! I was so frustrated that someone brought the tattoo into it because she had such a beautiful meaning with her son behind it and now they tainted it. Or tried to… I really hope it didn’t ruin the idea for her, I really loved that for her.

[@andreanoriega9700]

Pleeeese don’t let this change your view on the words “BE BRAVE” that was such a beautiful story and memory of Flynn and you! I hope this doesn’t tarnish that! I struggled with PPD so bad for what felt like years after I had my son(he’s three). And your last video inspired me to get a tattoo about how I made it through that time. THANK YOU! I love you and I am so sorry people commented like that on your previous videos. I am so glad you have the support you need.

[@samavalos42]

This video broke my heart.

[@samantha3696]

i could not agree more.

[@cheyennedavis3349]

I’m normally a silent watcher that never comments. I’m so PROUD of you for standing up for yourself and discussing a sensitive topic with such grace. Instead of bullying them back, you’ve educated them and most likely started a butterfly effect. I can’t put into words how much you’ve improved my life since I’ve been watching you. I’ve struggled with multiple BFRB’s for as long as I can remember. I was brought up to think something was wrong with me. You were the first person I’ve seen struggle with the same! You’ve made me feel so much less alone in multiple regards. Thank you for being YOU. ❤

[@sarahkerr7540]

Pro tip: if you're adhd and you sometimes listen to music to help you work on tasks, chores, etc, keep in mind that this can also help with eating foods you never really crave. I've found that I can space out and snack on unappealing veggies more easily while jamming to spotify, just like when I do dishes.

[@velcro-is-a-rip-off]

omg I haven't even tried this, but it makes SO much sense! thanks for this!

[@cameo13]

I do this with brushing my teeth!! You can also try putting on a quick podcast or KZbin video!

[@averylittman5115]

Hi Colleen! I’m a teen who has been struggling with a really bad eating disorder (anorexia) and I really appreciate you talking about this! Your videos have kept me going through this journey and getting back to the things I love which is ballet and basket ball :) I luv you so much! You can do it you’re so strong :)))) also, every time I cry, I can cry with you and you make me feel so safe and special. Thank you so so much ❤️

[@beanythompson1460]

Keep going life after recovery is always an effort but so much more fulfilling I struggled as a teen too (I turn 23 this week!!) And I know it can be hard but you got this and you are so worthy of living life stay strong

[@justjacyyy]

You got this girl! Just keep going

[@raimigardner5769]

I’m so proud of you 💜 it is going to be difficult but you will get through it!!

[@mamof2girls]

Congratulations on working to feel Better! Keep it up!!

[@Melissabella]

You've got this, Avery. Keep seeking the things you love and watch Colleen and laugh and cry and stay strong.

[@claireseifert674]

As a “big girl” who has struggled with body image and gets comments about my body on the daily, thank you. Thank you for standing up for yourself and all of us who get body shamed that don’t have the kind of voice that you do. Thank you for showing me the kind of bravery that I know I have inside of me to speak up for myself the way you have. Thank you.

[@EllieMendez]

💜💜 That part made me tear up. But I am so glad she handled the situation correctly and spoke out because she is a wonderful human being

[@theagarcia2227]

As someone with an ED I just want to let Colleen know that she helps me a lot. Watching her eat and cook, and when she's honest about things... it always makes me feel seen and not alone. If I could take all the pain from Colleen and put it on myself I would because she doesn't deserve that.

[@snickerdoodleknits]

While I know you meant this comment with much love, I want you to know that you also don't deserve the pain. No one does ❤ Sending much love!

[@lilyw9324]

❤❤❤

[@nancystidham3661]

And just to let you know, YOU don’t deserve that pain either 💕💕

[@kierstinthorn]

@@snickerdoodleknits I was going to say this😊❤️

[@aloekills]

You have a very beautiful soul and i hope the absolute best for you 💚

[@alexandriak4632]

I’m currently pregnant with my first baby and you being so open about anxiety/depression during your pregnancies is one of the only things that consistently keeps me going. I love and appreciate you sharing your life so much, and it breaks my heart to know people have been so unkind to you. Please know there are so many of us who love you and see you for the true, wonderful, talented, strong person that you are. I’m so sorry you had to go through this.

[@elisedahl6460]

I just wanted to say, that I genuinely do care Colleen, and I think a lot of your viewers do. I never really comment on your videos, but I basically watch everyday and have for the past couple of years. And I think a large proportion of your viewers are the same, and love and adore you, but are silent watchers. So I just wanted take this opportunity to not be a silent watcher haha, and say how incredible I think you are. ❤️❤️

[@Annah.k]

I agree. I’m a silent watcher too and I LOOOOOOVVVVVVEEEEEEE Colleen!

[@claudiafaundez8321]

Same!!!!

[@Olivia-pm1ch]

I'm a silent watcher as well and same here! You inspired me to write a separate comment by the way :-)

[@brittneynieves745]

i agree. i never really comment on videos, but this on right here definitely deserves one! Colleen, you’re beautiful inside & out. you’re a great momma & your kiddos are beautiful 😻 you’re truly blessed. keep being yourself because we love you!!!💕💕💕💕

[@toscagiannini3934]

same heree, she's such an incredible woman!!!

[@nicolejohnson8732]

Absolutely 100% YES to never commenting on a woman’s body/weight, whether it’s meant positively or not! A few months ago I had lost 30 lbs in a pretty short period of time. I got a lot of compliments from people and it always made me feel uncomfortable instead of proud of myself, mainly because I knew I wasn’t losing weight on purpose and actually didn’t know why I was losing so much so quickly. Cut to a few weeks later! I ended up spending 5 nights in ICU after finding out I actually have type 1 diabetes and the weight loss was because I was LITERALLY dying. Now that I’m on insulin and healthy and feeling so much better, I’ve gained most of the weight back and no one compliments my body anymore. Which also feels like garbage because it reinforces the idea that I have to basically be killing myself to look “beautiful” in other people’s eyes. So yeah, let’s just not talk about others’ bodies, people. 🙄 Also, I’m proud of you for reading all those comments aloud and putting that behavior on blast! You don’t deserve that and it takes guts to stand up for yourself like that. ❤️

[@TheYoungBaker]

Ah yes! Losing that much of weight is a huge sign of diabetes! I have diabetes as well! My uncle complimented me a couple of months before my wedding. I told him it was probably because I was too busy to eat at work. He was shocked when I said that. But just imagine how damaging if I actually had an eating disorder? Awful.

[@lucyknox1745]

Hello fellow diabuddies! ❤ I had a similar experience except that it was reversed and my own messed up mind thought I looked so good after losing a surprising amount of weight in short time without trying. My family actually thought I was on drugs! 😞

[@TheYoungBaker]

@@lucyknox1745 Glad you figured out what was really happening!

[@jeffdroog]

What's hilarious,is that had you been eating healthier,and not generally being unhealthy to begin with,you likely wouldn't have caused your own diabetes,and therefore the further issues you're describing.Maybe someone should have helped with your heating habits,rather then just ignoring you,and allowing you to cause harm to yourself.Also,if you're deciding how to feel based on other people's opinions of your body,you're already too far gone,and likely don't much brain cells left to work with.

[@nicolejohnson8732]

@@jeffdroog oof, maybe look up the difference between type 1 (autoimmune disease, body doesn’t produce insulin, not preventable/not reversible) and type 2 diabetes (often influenced by lifestyle, preventable/potentially reversible with lifestyle changes)

[@maggiedrake3402]

I grew up with the “ten second rule”, where you dont comment or offer criticism on something that someone cant change in 10 seconds (ex. A hair in the wrong place, food in your teeth, lint on clothing). You cant change things like acne, weight/body image, etc. which is completely unacceptable for people to say. Im so sorry you are going through this.

[@lisaborn4900]

That’s a good one!

[@jewelsgrl]

I love this!

[@gabbygonzalez8059]

I love this! ❤️

[@misscrackwood]

I love this, I'll definitely use it to teach my kids what is appropriate to comment on and what is not!

[@greenanimations923]

Way simpler way: if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all. That’s what I grew up with

[@carenamacomber434]

The way she looked into the camera and said, "you are beautiful, Your body is perfect the way it is." made me tear up because its something a lot of people need to hear as well as herself, and I feel so comforted watching her videos. All the love I have in my body i project onto her and her family and everyone around me.

[@cakeysobakey]

hypocrisy is a funny thing

[@carenamacomber434]

@@cakeysobakey After everything I’ve seen, I’m no longer a fan.

[@ValoryiSage]

MAD Respect Colleen. As someone who has been average/overweight my whole life. I've even been on the skinnier side of life at times. I have also had an ongoing eating disorder problem and bad relationship with food. That all being said....you stood up for yourself! AND for the bullied. You said what hurt you and why. You called out the nasty comments and the bullies!

[@QTemma45]

I’m infuriated by the comments being made toward Colleen. Anyone who has watched her since day one would know that she’s always had a petite frame, and has always discussed this. To the people who find it necessary to spend minutes of their lives bashing, criticizing or just sharing opinions of her or anyones body frame are extremely out of line. This woman is amazing, and there are so many OTHER factors, aside from food, that she has been extremely vocal on, that play a role in her relationship with food. As someone whose been body shame for being bigger, this is sad. As a therapist, i find this repulsive, as no one knows what it’s like to struggle with depression and anxiety, on top of the post partum effects. To speak to her character and her ‘decline’, when all she does is make our lives better is so upsetting. Colleen, I feel like you’re a close friend of mine. I admire you, I love you, I feel indebted to you for the shit YOU have got me through over the past 12+ years, and how relatable you are, especially after having children, which has made me feel so much less lonely. Know you have an army of people who would fight the world for you, myself included. Wish I could give you a hug ❤️

[@arianamitchell7050]

these ppl are SO out of touch, thinking they can diagnose and bully someone into talking about their body. like touch grass seriously

[@katluvsoats]

right!!! she’s always had a petite frame… it breaks my heart that people assume so many hurtful things about her

[@kgz5582]

n its sad that they r agreeing on assumptions. those commenting about her weight r telling on themselves. on how they feel inside.

[@annaalcala92]

I have been actually connecting to her way more in these last years. People are so quick to judge. I have felt Colleen being more open than ever. We all have our struggles. Sending much love to you all.

[@ericaj2611]

Yess!! Ppl need to stop hating on naturally skinny/small framed people. So rude.

[@rebeccaglover4955]

I am not a “commenter” but this. I had to. First off, I am sorry that anyone could ever make you feel the way they made you feel. But secondly I want to comment on your grace. You handled this with so much grace. The end of the video, I’m in tears. Such a powerful statement “I hope you never have to feel the way you have made me feel”. Power. Grace. You are everything. I love it and you & your family. Keep your head held high and keep being such an incredible human in this world!

[@gracerodgers633]

“When you body has baby’s it’s freaking awesome. It dosent matter if it’s big or small. It made human beings and that is so awesome and should be celebrated!” You saying this are the words I feel like I have waited to hear for a year.

[@christavirus9087]

“I love you, your body is perfect just the way it is” this part of the vlog when you looked directly at the camera I felt you were speaking to me. I am a bigger girl with a lot of insecurities and I cried watching this. Thank you Colleen. Thank you.

[@sarahwitt531]

I felt the exact same way. Especially recently, I’ve been really hard on myself for gaining wait over the past year since being in cosmetology school full time and working two jobs. I should be focusing on and be proud of everything I’ve accomplished, yet I’ll look at myself in the mirror and all I can see is everything I think I should change about myself. Hearing this video and those words specifically meant so much. I sobbed and am still sobbing

[@cassandrathonus3915]

I felt the same way I’m a big girl and I Have a hard time losing weight I wish I was thinner but your beautiful inside and out Colleen!!! your inspiration I’m trying hard to love me for me!!!!

[@cassandrathonus3915]

I felt the same way I’m a big girl and I Have a hard time losing weight I wish I was thinner but your beautiful inside and out Colleen!!! your inspiration I’m trying hard to love me for me!!!!

[@drakedunham281]

Just came here to say this exact thing. It really felt like she was speaking directly to me, in a way no one ever has. Immediately started crying. I'm so grateful for her.

[@xobex5789]

TW: Body image/weight As someone who is also naturally on the skinnier side of the "weight spectrum", I get a lot of comments on my body too. I love my coworkers that I see almost every day, but when they comment on my body like they do sometimes, they can be out of line. When weight-obsessed people tell me I should eat more, or point out how I put some weight on my tummy (and they may or may not know that I had just finished a meal), I can't even begin to describe how hurtful it is.

[@thomasrobinson306]

Have never related to something more

[@nicky740]

Even if people mean well by the comments, it’s just a boundary that’s been crossed. I’m not at all skinny but if I was, I imagine a lot of people might feel off about it like it’s recognizing that people are looking at and evaluating your body. Any comments about a person’s body where they’re not asking for an opinion are such an invasion of privacy. Reminds me of the feeling I’d have when you become pregnant and everyone instantly thinks they have the right to invade your personal space and touch your stomach, give you unwanted advice, etc.

[@eltsualina]

I agree! I’m a teen who has always been very skinny. Through my life I hav gotten many comments on my body and some people even saying that I am only bones and skin. And that’s when it got to me. I started thinking what’s wrong with me for being ”too skinny”. I have always been underweight and been bullied. So I started to just live with it. I was born two weeks late and they had to use medicine to get me out. And even when I was two weeks late, I was still very small. And that worried the doctors. I am so grateful to see that I am not the only one who struggles with this. Hope someone relates. ❤️

[@katem3]

This idea that people have that if you're in the public eye or you're an internet celebrity, you should have ALL your trauma sorted out or you're a terrible role model is absolutely ridiculous. We're all human beings doing the best we can with the tools we have. You have no idea what anyone's going through, or what anyone's dealing with behind closed doors. No idea at all. You have no right to comment or judge. It absolutely baffles me how people can feel so good about themselves whilst openly talking about someone's body knowing full well that person may READ it. Why would you ever want to make someone feel anything other than great and awesome? I just do not get it. People love to be on their high horse forgetting ALLLLLL of the stuff in their own lives that, if the internet ever had the chance to comment on or judge, they'd be distraught over. Let people live and figure out their own stuff on their own time. You're awesome Colleen. I can't imagine how difficult it is to read those comments but you do you. Only you know what you need and feel. Sack off the rest.

[@veronikapolajzer1473]

YES! I love this comment, especially the "people with an internet presance should have all of their trauma figured out" part having all your shit 100% figured out is impossible, you may have been going to therapy for 30+ years and you wont have all your shit figured out. but that does not make you a bad person or role model! that just makes you human

[@stressedjess6168]

@@veronikapolajzer1473 yes

[@laneyrobertsknopp6933]

I cried with you Colleen. I’m so sorry you were hurt in this way. I’m so proud of how you addressed this. You are a comfort to me, thank you for showing up and continuing to spread love ❤️

[@amandalg35]

YES!!! Preach girl! It's NEVER okay to comment on anyone's body! I'm a cancer survivor, and had abdominal surgery to remove my tumor. My stomach is no longer as flat as it was, but ya know what? I don't have cancer anymore! Our bodies are perfect and wonderful and miraculous. You are such a beautiful soul. Breathe deep. One day at a time.

[@cassiepitman997]

YASSS girl congratulations 🥳 I bet you look absolutely beautiful

[@Iararawr]

I think watching the look on her face and her voice breaking while reading those comments was really powerful. This is a real person you're speaking about in such a nasty way, it's all too easy to forget that on the internet. You were really brave to speak on this and it was an incredibly important message to send out.

[@Rhymelovegood1993]

I think so too

[@cherishchristy3917]

It broke my heart hearing her read those comments 💔

[@jessikaclarke]

I'm a bigger girl that has a past of restrictive disordered eating and over-exercising. I adore you Colleen and I am so sorry you've received such awful comments. As a bigger girl that has battled my own ED - you addressed this issue well. Those comments fuel shame - and shame is absolutely awful for your health... So their comments weren't helpful. Body checking is bad, but you grew up in a very weight-centric, diet culture - with a beauty ideal that is unattainable. You're wonderful as you are and those comments are not going to help you sort out your anxiety, eating, and body issues - in fact that type of stuff will harm you more. Much love to you Colleen - ❤️

[@mollignant]

ADHD & ED therapist here (who also has ADHD and struggles with occasional disordered eating) Love everything you shared. 🎉 Appreciate the vulnerability and sharing the truth that is NEVER okay to comment on other bodies 💜

[@mommingpursuit]

Is it appropriate for her family to be saying she’s looking skinny? I know it’s from a place of concern and maybe she was paraphrasing but wondering your perspective

[@beearedee]

@@mommingpursuit if they do it from a place of love and care and she appreciates them doing it, then yes it’s appropriate. It’s different for everyone but if she’s okay with it then there’s nothing wrong with it

[@crazyorlie]

I feel this so hard. I was underweight my entire childhood and teen years, partly because of my metabolism and partly because of a then undiagnosed chronic illness and people were constantly making comments - "you're so anorexic" "eat a burger" "it must so easy/nice to be so skinny", etc. Once I finally got control of my illness and diet, I finally started putting on the weight my body needed. In the last two years, I was diagnosed with depression and put on anti depressants which caused my weight to go up very quickly. And now everyone is making comments again. "You need to cut back on the cakes" "you clearly don't move your body enough" "it must be so sad not to fit into your clothes anymore" PEOPLE ARE NEVER HAPPY. There will always be something "wrong" with you that people will comment on. And truly, people need to learn to shut their mouths about things they do not understand.

[@naomitrollopeillustration]

Omgoodness Colleen, I’ve watched you for at least ten years but this hands down is the best video you’ve ever posted. You handled all of this with such grace, maturity and wisdom. Not only that, but you turned it around to educate and empower. You are SUCH a role model. I had a baby girl at the start of this year and what I want for her is to have women to look up to like you in her life. You are so flipping fantastic

[@moonbread2334]

I thought the same thing about this vlog, I was pretty floored by her response to this. I feel so lucky that 8+ years ago I happened to stumble upon a KZbinr who would end up on a healing journey like Colleen is on now and would be sharing that wisdom and that empathy with the world so bravely and articulately. Not all vloggers (or humans for that matter) end up on a path like this and it makes me proud and happy that she and I are both on it :)

[@terryberrycherry]

COLLEEN, I thought I was alone! I am on THE EXACT same boat when it comes to the disordered eating due to anxiety and adhd. You basically described my situation to a T. Thank you for speaking up. It’s very hard to find people that can understand what we’re going through. I no longer feel alone. ❤️

[@amandadavidson5819]

I'm right there too!!

[@its.emma.official]

Me too

[@sngray11]

Same here. 💗

[@ashleymiller3952]

Me too! You aren’t alone! I hope you are doing well🤍

[@stellaelectrahsky]

Me too

[@ghettotechian]

Anyone that watches you should know that you would NEVER do anything to compromise your ability to be a mother, which includes taking care of your health! Shame on anyone that said anything in regards to your health and body image. Colleen, you have been such a light in my life through college and now motherhood. Thank you for being a light in this world. You are so special and I cherish you so much. I know you will probably never see this, but I hope you know what a difference you make in this world! Thank you for always sharing your journey, openly and honestly.

[@ghostbaron2]

“Be brave Mama”. You sure were in this vlog. I appreciate you so much and I know it’s impossible to not let other people get you feeling down, but I’m here to try to raise you right back up and let you know that you inspire me, among countless other people, to be a better person. You have so much love coming your way. Keep fighting and keep inspiring.

[@AliciaandDeath]

For all of those that commented in the mean way: you don't know what a person is dealing with so don't judge, it only makes it worse. Like Colleen said, she is sorrounded by people that love her and she is getting all the help she needs; take care of 3 children is not easy and she is eating everything she wants without counting calories so don't suggest she as a eating disorder. Send you so much love and hope your depression and anxiety will get better so that you will feel better

[@MEGANFACEEx33]

As someone who has struggled with weight my entire life it is beyond hurtful when people want to judge you based off of your weight skinny or heavy. It can take a huge toll on your mentally. I have been watching you for a long time and I appreciate how open you are with everything you go through and deal with. I connected with you on this topic and also being a NICU momma and how that feels. You are beautiful just the way you are and I love you so much ❤️

[@_Kreature]

14:45 really?.. hmmm but didn't feel the same when you were secretly body shamming others behind the scenes?...

[@blu2836]

i relate to you almost 100% with this. naturally skinny, adhd, anxiety, everything. i’ve always had people tell me i’m too skinny as well and i’ve struggled with body image. being lower class doesn’t help either with not always having a next meal available or planned. it’s hard, you’re understood and you made me feel less alone.

[@thebusybee7080]

blu: It hurts me to hear you say "being lower class". You are not lower anything. Look around to see if there is a group you could connect with to support you. There are resources around. I wish you the very very best.

[@blu2836]

@@thebusybee7080 my whole city is facing it, there’s not much of a middle class here anymore there’s food banks constantly but the lines are back miles, hours before they start. i always keep trying ofc but there’s just not consistency is all i’m saying.

[@blu2836]

@@thebusybee7080 i meant lower class to explain my financial state btw. i know i’m not beneath anybody or anything. :)

[@thebusybee7080]

@@blu2836 I am truly truly sorry that you are experiencing this.

[@pc.102]

It is VERY inappropriate to assume someone has a disorder, and disturbing. But I am glad you’re addressing it, because that just shames and educates people who feel they have a right to draw elaborate conclusions based on their own or other’s opinions. I think you look amazing and your body is incredible for making your beautiful babies and keeping you healthy 🤍

[@cecybellard2]

TW: eating disorders This is devastating. There are so few instances where it’s appropriate to comment on someone’s weight and most of them are not on a KZbin/TikTok video. Some of the language used by people in the comments Colleen reads out is really damaging and only perpetuating harm they claim to admonish. For myself I’ve had a lot of personal experience with eating disorders and with many of the people closest to me and any comments about weight loss or gain, whether positive or negative, are almost always harmful. I’ve had people tell me I look great after losing weight - that made me wonder what I looked liked before and have a huge fear of ever returning to that weight (a healthy weight btw.) I’ve had people tell me I looked scarily or unattractively thin and all that did was cement the idea in my eating disorder brain that I was on the right track - eating disorders are not vanity based and comments like this are rarely helpful. If you want to say something focus comments on your concern that people don’t seem happy or seem to be lacking energy. But again the best place to do this is not the KZbin comments section. I’ve had comments (and these were probably some of the most dangerous for me personally) where people told me that I looked so much better and healthier after weight gain. Although all of these comments were well meaning and said with love, all that did was make me think that I was doing something wrong and I needed to get back to a lower weight. Please think very very carefully before you comment on someone’s weight because there are extremely few situations where it’s appropriate.

[@classictalkies]

This is the one! 🙌 All the body comments are usually harmful, even if meant in a congratulatory way.

[@charlottecameron2434]

Thanks for commenting this, I'm sorry you've struggled with eating disorders :( Thank you for sharing your experience though, because even though I avoid ANY comments about people's weight in principle because that's what I know, I have two friends with eating disorders and am often wondering if not saying anything is not doing enough (e.g., not encouraging progress etc., telling them they look great this/that). It's also difficult to ask them what would help because I'm worried, they will tell me what I want to hear or that it won't be right or something. Hearing your perspective on all these types of comments helps kind of understand WHY it's always a good idea to steer clear, and I'll keep looking for other ways to be a good friend :) By the way, sorry if this was weird you probably don't need a random stranger saying why this helped them & people with eating disorders don't need to explain themselves, this was just helpful, and I wanted to let you know!

[@thebusybee7080]

@@LOL-xz3oe Are you defending those people that made those kinds of comments? No one has the right to make comments like that about others. After all the times she has opened up about herself, you have no faith in Colleen's ability to know herself and care for herself. She has kindly stated her story to help herself and to help others and yet you just dont get it. Dr Phil once said to someone, "You either get it or you dont" and obviously you didnt get it. Sad for you.

[@muymal6201]

@@LOL-xz3oe the problem is the way it was said. Many of the comments were down right rude, while others could've been worded differently to deliver a softer blow. It doesn't matter if the comments came from a place of love or concern. Topics like these are very difficult for many people to handle and cannot be spoken about in such a casual way.

[@gaflor44]

People’s comments or the anxiety of what people’s comments about my body will be have made me really struggle with my weight loss journey and just general body image and confidence. Fuck those people who were being so mean to our Colleen. 🥺

[@trishyfishy]

the squirrel was splooting! they do this when it's so hot out, they try to get very low to the ground to feel the coolest part on the ground all over them (: I'm sorry about all the comments about your weight. I think it's valuable that you can discuss this openly because a lot of your fans are younger and fail to understand the full cause and effect of their words. you will make it through this and return to a place where you feel healthy and happy. will just take time. ♡

[@Sheristen]

my corgi sploots when he wants attention. I thought the squirrel wanted pets 🤣🤣🤣😭

[@Sheristen]

this is good to know. I'll stop trying to pet squirrels when I see this

[@ivyanne8811]

Those comments genuinely break my heart I am so sorry Colleen you’re so strong those people aren’t thinking about how much their comments can affect you and others.

[@laurenlasure4278]

My husband and I always ask each other hypothetical questions, and one of them has always been: “If you could choose one person, past or present, dead or alive, who would you spend a day with?” My answer will always be you. And in the LEAST creepy way as possible. You say everything my heart needs to hear and somehow we’re almost always going through such similar things. Our due dates were the same, and your vlogs throughout the pregnancy with the twins kept me going through the depression and anxiety I faced when pregnant. And now here I am, still watching everyday because I am also struggling heavily with post partum anxiety. Watching your videos feels like hanging out with someone who understands me in ways no one else ever will, because of your transparency. You’ll never read this but what I’m getting at is… thank you. Thank you endlessly for being you.

[@racheladams8137]

Colleen - as a mom in ED recovery (and the wife of an adult with ADHD), just wanted to say thank you for addressing this. You certainly didn't owe it to us, but it was a vulnerable and kind conversation that I think will encourage people in all of those communities! I'll be honest - I think MOST people exhibit disordered eating in one way or another and I wish that was a facet of life people spoke more about. All this to say - I appreciate you bringing all of this to the light; for yourself and for all the boys and girls out there that relate to this and felt the need to stay in darkness. Hang in there, momma. Praying for you.

[@ashleymufasa]

I agree.

[@lilyyork4941]

i think this is really true. as someone with adhd i also struggle with disordered sleep which can also be very unhealthy but no one judges or blames you for it the way they do with eating habits. even though it’s quite similar and caused by the same thing !

[@BelieveInYourself129]

@@lilyyork4941 totally agree. and i also struggle with the same

[@tiffanybreunig]

Thank you for always being vulnerable. This helps so many people. You could not have said this better.

[@victoriaabigail2720]

NOBODY should ever comment on someones body! The most important thing is that you love yourself the way YOU are and the way YOU look! If someone is struggling with eating disorders or being bullied because of the way they look, just know that I love you ♡

[@JT.Creations]

Perfectly said. People need to mind their own business on body image and stop shaming. Everyone has something going on in their life. Be kind people. It’s that simple. Colleen, you’re wonderful and those babies are adorable.

[@trinityyy]

It breaks my heart that you had to see all of those comments, but you also brought up things that I struggle with too, especially with ADHD. It's good to know I'm not alone and neither are you. Sending you all the love

[@bryennasittner]

Colleen telling me my body is person and she loves me helped me eat dinner tonight. I’ve been recovered from an eating disorder for years and I’m relapsing right now and it sucks. Thank you colleen for talking openly about this. You are such an amazing role model, I’ll see you at your Seattle show!!

[@SurrenderTheSkyline]

Thank you for talking about this. I was “chubbier” growing up (though I don’t really like to use that word) and when my eating disorder got very severe everyone told me I looked amazing. I was dying. When it got further and further people continued to comment on my body, but now telling me I looked sick or disgusting. Mainly my mother. It is never okay to make comments about others bodies. It feels terrible. Whether it’s compliments or criticism, it’s not okay. I’m sorry you have to deal with this. Your pain is valid

[@NikkiAMurrayAvon]

Yep I was never overweight, but when I was anorexic I started getting lots of attention from guys, and everyone would comment how amazing my figure was even though I was really ill. I put weight on and got healthy and had a few people say how much better I look but nothing compared to how much praise I got when I was ill. When I put weight on after the birth of my son and started losing it again, immediately people started with the ‘oh you look amazing now you’ve lost weight’ etc comments. Then they wonder why people lose too much

[@lilypad330]

This! I had a massive growth spurt that somehow made me lose weight despite growing many inches. Everyone was telling me how amazing I looked and when I noticed I was starting to gain some weight (that my body needed) I began restricting to keep my body looking the same. It got more severe and I was underweight. I was never “dangerously” underweight so at the time, no one gave it a second thought. “You’re measuring your food, you’re so healthy!” Looking back at that time, people tell me that I looked “scary” and I realize that now. The comments I was getting when I looked “scary” only fueled the ED. Everyone’s feelings are valid, EDs and disordered eating are both extremely hard to deal with.

[@Mamamyselfandi]

You made me realize when I had my son 3.5 yrs ago that I for sure had post partum anxiety. Everyone commented on my “snap back” and I did not feel like it was something to applaud because inside only I knew that I had no appetite, my basic needs weren’t being met, I was up all night rocking my son back to sleep burning more calories than I was consuming, being cracked out on coffee all day, no water, and trying to navigate this new world while not asking anyone for help. Eventually I saw a pic of myself and I looked almost skeletal and I knew I needed to reach out to my doctor. I did and was able to start some anti anxiety meds about 3 years after his birth and I got back to my normal weight finally while simultaneously working to figure out how to be more responsive to my natural hunger cues and take time to meet my needs in order to meet my son’s needs. I definitely think my eating became disordered and still is to a certain degree. Thank you for talking about this and also mentioning having adhd and disordered eating. This made me reflect a lot on myself also and I might talk to my doctor about some of my thoughts on that topic. This video was super helpful. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@graceputnam2417]

Colleen, I really need you to see this comment. I am crying with you right now. Thank you for this video. I have exactly the same problems and I have never felt more seen or normal than I did just now when I heard you talk about it. I also have ADHD, and anxiety. I am what I refer to as a 'nervous vomiter' lmao 😂because my anxiety makes me beyond nauseous and I have IBS which is not a great combo. I had a really bad period of anxiety last year where I dropped a significant amount of weight in a short time and dealing with that and all the doctors trying to figure out what was wrong with me, it made any comment about how I "would look better if I just ate" so triggering. I have been watching you my whole life and to hear that you struggle with the same things was so comforting to me and made me feel like less of a skinny alien person with something wrong with them and more of a human who deals with things, like every other human. I love you and I can't even express how much this video means to me♥️

[@louisezimmer4992]

Colleen, you are very brave. Yes, you put into words what I have been through with the weight, or lack of, anxiety, ADHD, stress and your relationship with food. Clearly you are not alone. When I saw grace putnam's comment, I needed to comment. You spoke to a lot of women on the internet, telling your story and what you are going through. Thank you for your honesty.

[@sabi_creations3625]

Man same!! The anxious vomiting is wild when its severe (i feel your pain my dear I've deal with it really bad my entire life so far and I'm 25) its so nice to know im not alone and others deal with the same issues with it. I've been as skinny as 120 and as heavy as 180 at 5'2" and usually go through periods of weight loss during bad times and periods of gaining weight after my stress resolves. Hearing people talk about this as its own separate issue not related to body imaged based eating disorders was SO refreshing to me to hear someone else finally explain how I've felt. I'm hypoglycemic/anemic on top of it all so I also will get physically ill when I don't eat, but rembering to stop what I'm doing to eat during the day is really a challenge. Even down to the not wanting to stop to pee, I relate on so many levels.

[@sngray11]

This is something that I have also struggled with for ages. You are not alone. 💗

[@GoldenFrocks]

I completely understand how you feel. You’re not alone. Praying for everyone who deals with this too.

[@NickiAvenged]

Oh, Colleen. Seeing you cry breaks my heart. I just want to hug you. I understand your pains and frustrations. It's already hard enough dealing with any type of ED. When people make such unnecessary comments, it's truly upsetting. And I'm so sorry you're dealing with the trolls. I used to be anorexic. I was sick for years. Now I'm on the other end of the spectrum and at my heaviest. I have extreme body image issues and whenever people make unnecessary comments, it makes me loathe my body.

[@jennicalyn3542]

You addressed this perfectly. I'm sorry for you struggles with food, anxiety, and postpartum and your insecurities with your weight. You are beautiful inside and out. Sending so much love

[@TheKimbino]

Colleen you are really a great woman…thinking of other mothers in moments like that. You don’t have to but you do!

[@LBISHOP1239]

You literally did the, “Look a squirrel!” 😂 My daughter and I adore your videos. My heart is with you Colleen-I’m sorry you had to read those comments. Those who care don’t shame. Tell those hater’s to back off! 💜

[@dohraime140]

You’re right! Perfect ADHD moment 😄

[@mariamshah338]

Literally perfect ADHD moment!

[@attabooo]

We all have our struggles body shaming is awful no matter the size of the person. It also help that we are our own worst critic! Hugs! You an inspiration

[@amydunning515]

Wow. I’m sure this was a difficult conversation to have. Honestly, I have never paid attention to your body changing or you “checking yourself” in the mirror/viewfinder. I watch your videos because you are a talented, real, raw, powerful, inspiring woman, mother, wife, daughter, and sibling. I gave birth to my son 3 weeks before the twins and I have been right alongside you in your journey (I can SO relate to the pumping…). What you are doing makes a difference. We are grateful for your presence on the internet!

[@stephaniehawkins4047]

You addressed this so well. Thank you for speaking up and confronting it head on. Thank you. You are doing so much better than you believe. Just know you have thousands of people celebrating you and uplifting you and supporting you ✨

[@b_r_a_n]

@Gala Newmar shut up lmao

[@caitlinhope6745]

As a teen that has always had a really bad relationship with food I really appreciate you talking about this Colleen. It’s such a sensitive topic and you’ve handled it with such grace and sensitivity. There are so many people here that love you and look up to you - thank you for always being so authentically you! ❤️ wish I could give you a hug it’s so upsetting to see you so hurt by those comments

[@spirituallydivineevibess]

people are literally projecting their insecurities onto you. i wish more people would stop worrying about other people so much if only people put the time and energy into others into themselves the world would be such a better place.

[@nicolegreco9293]

Colleen please don’t listen to those awful comments. You have been a role model for me for years and always will be. I’m 24 and do not have an eating disorder but also struggle with disordered eating and can be hypercritical of my body and hearing you talk about your struggles makes me feel less alone. Thank you for always being honest, being a light for all of us who truly love you, and having the strength to explain your feelings despite the awful comments people can make. I love you and can’t thank you enough for everything you’ve helped me through 💜💜

[@aydinjacobs1907]

I feel so understood right now. I was going through my first anxiety attack in a long time and turned on this video as a way to get my mind off my symptoms and almost turned it off when you got to the conversation about weight for fear of being triggered but I'm so happy I listened. I know that I'm not alone in these struggles, so thank you for being so brave and sharing. As someone who doesn't have people close to me that have anxiety, I can always relate to you. Thank you.

[@anti1141]

28:16 when Colleen started saying this I started tearing up because I am a bigger girl and for my whole life I've been insecure about my body and how it's "supposed" to be and hearing this from one of my favorite KZbinrs just makes me feel loved and it feels like she's telling me this. I am so sorry for these ignorant people telling you all this bull crap you are beautiful as the way you are no matter your bigger or thinner you are just beautiful and everyone else is as well 💜💜

[@hollymauery346]

same bestie i started bawling ✌

[@anti1141]

@@hollymauery346 let's cry together 😭🙌

[@coldeblue]

i started to tear up as well. i've been struggling with weight issues and body image recently and those comments that colleen were reading about people expressing their concern for her in harmful ways really struck me because i've been experiencing that as well in my own home from my family members. hearing colleen say that our bodies are perfect the way that they are felt like she was saying it directly to me - maybe because i don't hear it at all and deep down really want to hear that being said to me - but either way it really touched me.

[@herpderpjoni]

As a therapist who works with people who struggle with their relationship with food and body image, anxiety/depression, various experiences of neurodiversity, etc. I thought your explanation of all these issues and how they intersect was so clear and articulate - thanks for sharing your personal experiences with us!

[@clairekat1313]

You did such a good job on the Miranda head! I love how creative you are and put your heart and soul into everything you do. Not many performers put that much effort into personalizing things and that’s what makes you so original. Love it!

[@jordanharrah3019]

Colleen, I have been struggling recently with a lot of these same exact issues, where in return I’ve gotten bigger from, even though I’ve always been a naturally bigger person. You explaining the disordered eating and along with the anxiety and adhd talk made me feel less alone in the situation when I realized these are exactly how I feel. I love the way you explained everything and even included how you recognize big people have the same issues as very skinny people. My heart broke for you as you were reading the comments, I hope you can feel the love and happiness while reading through these comments and i hope you know how many people love you and can understand you💕 - Jordan

[@dandelion-honey]

Ugh, upon reading the title of today’s vlog my heart completely sank for you. I saw some Twitter people saying something about whatever happened, I don't have TikTok so I didn't see it, but I am *so* sorry. Wishing I could give you a big hug! I know that people can be ruthlessly mean on that app and it is such *cowardice* to say such rotten things, covered by a screen, that they would *never* say to someone’s face. You are BEAUTIFUL, STRONG, & KIND! I love you, incredible Colleen! 💜 - Lauren Now, on to watching the vlog 🐛

[@Anywaysss17]

"Incredible colleen" it truly does fit her.

[@mrsemilydamon]

I’ve been skinny my whole life too and have never had an eating disorder. I relate TOO MUCH to this. I’ve always been made fun of, it feels like a knife in the chest when someone points it out and says something like go eat a cheeseburger. I’m still learning to love my body, I’m 29 and it’s still really hard. I hope people stop saying hurtful things about you. Love you and your openness.

[@bean6341]

I relate to this too..

[@kiikat]

Same. Casually saying someone looks anorexic when they're just skinny is not okay. Making your natural body type a negative thing

[@bean6341]

@@kiikat definitely which can also give the person more anxiety and feel insecure about their natural body

[@amysmiles9751]

We are so hard on ourselves and men do it too. Why can't we just look in the mirror and be happy.

[@emmagreersmith]

People like that aren’t truly supporting you…it’s so sad. They have no right to comment on your body and criticize your body, especially when they have no idea what’s going on with you. It’s not fair…I’m so sorry Colleen. You’re beautiful from the inside and out…and don’t EVER forget it!!💜💜

[@emilyh7621]

Thank you for being so open and honest about your struggles. It’s so helpful to know we aren’t alone in our worries

[@allisondiaz1319]

I’m so sorry you had to talk about this. I have eating disorders, and if someone made negative comments to that severity about my body, I don’t know what would happen to me. I’m so thankful you’re strong enough to get this message out to those who very clearly need to hear it. I love you so, so much. To be clear, you didn’t deserve to hear any of those hateful things because ALL body shaming is wrong. But thank you for posting this video and delivering this PERFECTLY WELL-SAID message. I love you times a million 💜 your body is PERFECT!! All bodies are PERFECT!! I hope getting this discussion out made you feel a little better. You don’t deserve to carry this.

[@maddie_marsh5923]

You worded that perfectly I feel so bad that people would say this stuff

[@Parkjkookie1831]

I totally agree with you. I've struggled with anorexia and bulimia for years and the worse thing anyone can do is ask you about it. it causes even more stress and anxiety which just makes the eating disorder worsen. stay brave.

[@pkmagic]

Eloquently said, thanks.

[@summer596]

I am so sorry you have went through all those horrible comments. I started crying because the people that were saying you looked bad. You have always in my mind been perfect no matter what size you have been. Pre-pregnant, pregnant, post partum and now and way before. You are so strong to speak out and say about things that other influences are to scared to say. Right now in my life I also have ADHD and anxiety. I also have struggled with body dysmorphia and an ED. I haven't even noticed that you were skinny but what I did notice about you was that your such an amazing person with an amazing personality and an amazing family. I hope you are better now. Love you lots. xoxox

[@catalinaalvarez3760]

Hi Colleen I’m a teen girl who has struggled with their body since the third grade because of bullying. I’ve since been dealing with anxiety and depression. You are someone I look up to and look forward to watch whenever you post. I’ve always appreciated you talking about body positivity because it has really helped in loving myself.

[@PjvlogsBeauty]

i hope you know just how beautiful you are.

[@thebusybee7080]

Hi Catalina, the biggest thing for each one of us is to learn to love, honor and respect oneself. A person who works on that in her life is able to be kind and is that way to others around her. A bully is a very sad human who is just not kind. I am so glad to hear you talk about loving yourself. All the very best to you!!

[@DaijahD.]

I’m also a teen girl who’s struggled with body image since the 3rd grade, and who also deals with anxiety and depression. It’s good to know that we’re not alone ❤️

[@MrBroadway24]

I'm sitting here in my apartment just crying and crying. It really breaks my heart to see and hear you this sad, Colleen. I can't express how much you mean to so many people and the people that have used this struggle against you in the comments sections of your social media are being so incredibly tone-deaf and frankly ignorant. Those who express concern and worry are different than them, and it's good for you to keep reminding yourself of that distinction. As someone who struggles with disordered eating personally, it is a journey, and you must keep being gracious with yourself. You are so loved by Erik, your family, your kids, and all of your true fans. Please return to this comment section to feel all of the love that surrounds you.

[@CocoRose3451]

Hey Colleen 🥰 When you spoke straight into the camera and told me that my body is beautiful I cried. I've been really wanting to lose weight since I put it on when I got married, and it's been really hard. Thank you so much, I love you heaps. And good on you for putting those people in their place, you're strong, beautiful, wonderful and an excellent advocate for all of humanity 💞💞💞

[@SwimmingInTheQuantum]

This had me in tears. You are so brave to be so vulnerable with us all. You are beautiful from the inside out! I feel sad for anyone who chooses to see flaws where there is so much overwhelming beauty. You are a Queen and you prove it everyday to the world.

[@alexaross5742]

Postpartum depression and anxiety almost ended my life 2 years ago, I'm so sorry you're going through this and it really should be talked about more. There was a light at the end of the tunnel for me, and I truly hope you get to yours soon as well. Sending you so much love from those who truly support you!

[@mysteryg9807]

The amount of love and MAD RESPECT that I have for this Incredible woman !! Girl YOU are beautiful and YOU are perfect. NEVER EVER let any of these comments get to you , everyone has body issues and like you said I don't know when people will stop pointing out stuff about other people's bodies , it is simply nobody's business and disrespectful , it makes me sick and sad , but just know that your body INCREDIBLE for what it does everyday to keep us healthy and alive ❤ It's tough out here on social media but just know that the people who love you , know you and will always be there for ya , WE LOVE U , KEEP THRIVING BABES , YOU GOT THIS 🥺

[@scarletting]

Good for you for speaking out Colleen, sometimes the internet needs to remember we don't know what other's are battling on the inside and behind the youtube lens so it's important to keep that in mind before saying hurtful words. Keep being the brave and beautiful mama you are!

[@makennaedwards5861]

I have ADHD and anxiety and everything in this is the same symptoms I have. When I’m stressed about something at work, the LAST thing I think about is food. The thought of eating anything sounds like a punishment. Thank you Colleen. You got this. You’re amazing ❤️

[@nicanonymus2491]

I know what you mean. It’s like my stomach is tied up when I’m anxious. I can’t even swallow water. It’s a horrible feeling. 😣

[@paigeyjones]

Seeing how upset you were at the end broke my heart, im so sorry you had to deal with all the negativity but you handled it with such grace and love. As a bigger girl, hearing what you said made me cry, thank you for being such an advocate for body neutrality/positivity. You are incredible, you are strong, you are so loved. Thank you for being you Colleen 💜

[@kyliesheaXsinger]

It’s hard enough that you have had to deal with PPD, but having to read those comments just makes it harder. As an advocate viewer of the vlogs and podcast, I am sorry. It’s hard to even come up with the words I want to say because my heart breaks for you. Every day you inspire me more and more to be an amazing human and try to give myself grace and love. I couldn’t help but cry when I watched this because I know you are trying your best to be the best wife, mother, daughter, example, etc. It may not feel like it, but just know YOU are super woman. Remember what Flynn said, “BE BRAVE MOMMA”. You got this Colleen. One moment at a time. Love you ❤️

[@jsbh2006]

It’s weird how our minds are so different. I have anxiety and ADHD and I do the complete opposite. I’m constantly thinking of food and thinking of what I want to eat. It’s probably due to the fact that I actually get dopamine hit from food! Thank you for standing up for us bigger people! You are amazing! Love you!

[@emu_phase]

I am this brand of ADHD also, and struggle with weight in the opposite of Colleen direction because of it! Both are very common, it’s literally just up to what our particular brains get dopamine from. Neither one is better/worse, it’s just another challenge that having a nerodivergent brain comes along with. ❤️

[@MarieDomander]

Same, unless I eat my adderall. Then all food tastes like cardboard.

[@harbinger-of-havoc]

Yep I think people tend to fall one way or the other - stress either leads to overeating or undereating. I know KZbinr Molly Burke has also talked about struggling to find an appetite in times of stress.

[@SLCPunk7339]

Thank you for existing. Thank you. This hit me hard. As a mom of two, I also struggle with disordered eating because of anxiety, stress and adhd. My son was born with a clubfoot and he’s almost 3. It’s been a tough journey and it hasn’t been easy for any of us. Seeing him in pain, and not being able to fix it has been one of the hardest things about being a parent. I’ve lost a lot of weight and have family members constantly commenting on my weight and how thin I am and how “sickly” I look. It definitely hurts. My heart goes out to you Colleen. You’re not alone mama and we’re here for you.💖💖💖

[@lilydrew6430]

What the hell is wrong with people? Watching someone cry as they read comments on a video about a clothing brand is heartbreaking. How do you think that comment is doing anything positively? Its not at all. Colleen has been through so much and over all of that, is here today with a smile on her beautiful face, attached to her beautiful body. You really cant let the humans that waste all of their energy on you taer you down. Colleen, you remember jow incredible YOU are and keep slaying you beautiful, pure queen.

[@ReinandRaelynn]

Preach! This is truly heartbreaking

[@AylaJalynVlogs]

This breaks my heart... The fact you even have to deal with this, on top of struggling to figure it out for yourself, is so sad! You are doing phenomenal Colleen and I'm truly sorry you had to read those hateful, disgusting words... I am personally so proud of you, and your journey. You have impacted me more than you will ever know and even helped me secure a job I only ever dreamed of!! Thank you Colleen, I love you bishhhh!! 🥰

[@tessaal94]

I made a rule in my family "No speaking about each other's bodies, good or bad". I know the damage it did to me growing up. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. 💓

[@julesr3066]

You’re all class, Colleen. Thank you for baring this very personal part of yourself online. Love you 🤍

[@martinaraee]

Colleen, this made me feel so much less alone in regards to anxiety and not wanting to eat. I know I have bad anxiety but it isn’t diagnosed and I’m scared to bring it up to my doctor. Thank you for speaking out ❤

[@amy_uk_865]

Talking to your doctor might really help. I finally spoke to my doctor about depression a couple of years ago, after a really long time of not daring to talk to them about it. I got help and I'm doing a lot better now, but just finally talking about it to a doctor helped, it felt like a weight was lifted off me, to have it out in the open. Now I talk about mental health openly, I still have depression but it's managed a lot better and I'm always keeping check on how I'm doing and how things in life are affecting me. I hope you think about talking to a doctor and I hope it helps you to be open about it and get support as much as it has helped me.

[@usmcreyes40]

@@amy_uk_865 well said 🙂

[@briannam3158]

It took me SO many years to finally see a therapist. Ultimately I was diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety, but since starting therapy, my depression and anxiety got better and it’s moderate now. Please don’t wait as long as I did. I held in so much trauma that I could have relieved myself from by talking to a professional sooner

[@mariamshah338]

Watching this video and reading these comments is so nice. I feel so supported in my ADHD. I feel like I’m not alone. ❤️

[@zoeemiller4990]

I’m struggling with ppd and when you looked into the camera and said “you are perfect” I just started bawling my eyes out! I know you weren’t talking to me specifically but I just want to say thank you 💜

[@yarlinthais]

jm struggling w an ed and when she started saying the things abt how our bodies are perfect and she loves us i literally started bawling my eyes out

[@coureypie3090]

I've watched you for years. Yes, you have always been thin. So is your sister, you can tell it's primarily to do with genetics. I'm so sorry people are being hateful and guising it as "worry" or "concern". Genuine concern is rooted and surrounded in KINDNESS. You are a wonderful and amazing woman and mother and I hope you are mentally doing okay, especially after this influx of comments about your body. If I could give you a hug I would. ❤️

[@brej2002]

Colleen you are helping so many people I hope you know that !

[@mixedprincess91]

*Colleen, you *people. I *that.

[@rileylyn3763]

@@mixedprincess91 it's a youtube comment... not an essay.

[@mixedprincess91]

@@rileylyn3763 *Tracy, it’s * _KZbin_ ,