Addressing The Reality Of Forgiveness Among The Saints

Addressing The Reality Of Forgiveness Among The Saints
Many " Christians " genuinely believe they have a seat assigned to them in Heaven. Their belief, of course, is hinged on their claim to Christianity, their impeccable church attendance, serving and doing everything outwardly to give the appearance of having an authentic relationship with God.
In this teaching, we will explore and surprisingly discover that the hearts of many "Christians" are overflowing with the invisible sin of unforgiveness! Join me in this eye-opening teaching that will perhaps draw you to repentance if you fall into this category of Christians.

[@KevinLAEwing]

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[@sophiaonus3108]

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[@sophiaonus3108]

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[@KevinLAEwing]

​@@sophiaonus3108 thank you, you are absolutely correct!

[@Goldenscribe22films]

Hello Pastor Kevin. Thanks for all your great teachings. They are eye opening and very informative. But you are not accessible, even if there's a few questions that one would like to ask you. Thanks.

[@AcynthiaAnderson-Crawford]

Sur you ore so true I'm thanking God for you please stay strong in the Lord all the way Blessing blessing thanks thanks

[@florencenzioki3915]

Forgiveness opens up so many blessings. I used to carry so much unforgiveness and offense in my heart. Once I obeyed and let go of all , I received healing not only emotionally but physically. God has been so awesome and prayers that I had prayed over so many years have been answered. God is so good🙏🏾

[@NinthJewel]

Wow thank you for this

[@franceshaywood-dp3kt]

Wow i was mad at my friend of 45 years but after i learned the words of God I forgave her and repented then I. Started to talk to her again and explained to her the change in mewe both was happy I wrote her a beautiful text and she love it well it must have been the holy spirit guiding me to do this because 2 weeks later she died am I'm so glad that I got to forgive her before she passed away only God made me do this because of the change in me all praises honor glory and Thanksgiving be to him

[@aliciahawthorne553]

I needed to hear this and walk in it. It’s been a hard journey forgiving someone who betrayed me when they promised to be by my side for the rest of our lives. The sin of infidelity crushes the one left behinds self esteem and worth. Recently he married the one he cheated on me with. God has pressed so heavy on me to forgive. I thought I had forgiven and it was evident I didn’t. Thank you for this amazing teaching. Pray that I continue to walk in forgiveness

[@weaponsofwarfare2873]

Thank you for this truth. We are in direct violation of God's law when we hold unforgiveness for any reason. For years I held onto offenses and it created issues in my body and separated me from God. After listening to your teachings I realized I had to let it go for me. I am now healed. Romans 8:38-39 [38] For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, [39] Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

[@achristian075]

I believe in forgiveness for anything and everything

[@a-a-rondavis9438]

Jesus forgave those who whipped him, dragged him through town, nailed him to the Cross, and hurled insults at him. "Forgive them, for they know not what they do". He understood it was SPIRITUAL, not physical.

[@aubriellemorgan]

Some people don’t deserve it but we are required to

[@kaviaperry1215]

Thank you for the message 🙏 this is something i have been struggling with and have asked Jesus for deliverance ❤. I feel my breakthrough on the horizon

[@yulialexandra444]

Thank you for this awesome revelation. I think it's so important to pray about who we allow in our lives. Satan will send his agents to do us so wrong that we have a hard time forgiving them. It is best to never have these people in our lives to begin with, and this includes some "Christians".

[@lacheakeener2883]

Beautiful message... I am in a household that is cursed... I just walked in and was bombarded with a whole lot of Hatred... I mean for nothing .. people let you know when they do not want you there and i know now that the intensity of the nonsenses increase God will be breaking me out REAL SOON AND IM GOOD WITH THAT I WILL PRAY FOR THEM AND KEEP GOING...

[@foodtunes4713]

I repent if my unforgiving heart. Lord teach us how to love you love and to pray for those that hurt us!

[@leonieolivergmai]

Amazing teaching. It helped me to forgive things from my childhood. God bless.😊

[@kolettadouglas824]

I’m married and Mr. Ewing is telling the absolute truth!!! I’m guilty and I repent

[@PatriceOnPurpose]

❤❤❤❤ this teaching, thank you for breaking down so that this " child " of God can understand 👏🏽‼

[@angellabowenhenriques7252]

Thank you so much God's manservant. You have opened my eyes and undoubtedly changed my life through this teaching. I thank God for using you via the Holy Spirit to guarantee the deliverance I have been seeking. I have heard numerous teachings before on this subject and have read the Scriptures on forgiveness but it has all just sunk in. This is a timely word, a RHEMA word in my life. I praise God for you and how he is using you to expose the Scriptures in such a way that even a little child can comprehend. To God be the Glory! We appreciate you. Thank God+ Thank you.

[@carrolinenewtonisaac3234]

I thank Elohim for helping me to forgive my love ones.

[@Chantelle564]

Thank you for bringing this powerful insightful message on the power of forgiveness and forgiving others. Certainly our Heavenly Father wants us to walk in peace and joy on this journey but Satan's ultimate goal isvto keep men living in a perpetual state of bitterness and unforgiveness. Thank you

[@ashtastic713]

God bless you Pastor Kevin, I had been battling witchcraft in dreams and did a 3 day dry fast but realized I would pray to return curses to sender and felt bound still. Once I repented I immediately felt free

[@EC4400]

Forgiveness is not for the offender but it gives freedom to be offended. This is how it was explained to me. Trauma happened in the life of the offender. Demons are working through the life of the offender. If their spirit is weak, the demon will bully them into submission. Ask God to show you what doors are open in your spiritual life. Pray to close them. Commit to read the word every day for the rest of your life. If you want God's attention, give him yours. The victim has no idea what happened in the life of the victimizer. Fill your spirit with the word every day, that those demons that transfered during the trauma does not overwhelm you. Feeding your spirit the word of God is like giving Popeye spinach. The demons are Brutus.

[@adelebest4740]

Yes!! I heard the Holy Spirit say during A fast “you don’t have legitimacy to hold a grudge”!! It was quite shocking to have that unforgiveness revealed so clearly! Lord please BLESS everyone that’s hurt or betrayed me in Jesus Name

[@cp-ci3lt]

Amen ! Thank you God , ! For the word that has been placed on Kevin LA Ewing! I refuse to stay chained to evil and bitterness. I will continue to pray and ask for grace and blessings on my life. I command all evil out of my life and all that I know. God bless Pastor Kevin for all he gives. I’ve asked my children to watch this teaching with me (again) for a Mother’s Day gift. It far exceeds anything else they could bring or give. Praise God they agreed!

[@nataliereid5822]

Thank you Lord for this teaching. Pastor Kevin thank you for sharing the rules.

[@waltonbillett4630]

Oh Lord help us, to forgive anyone who have done us alms, so that we may be forgiven by you our Lord and savior. Thanks for this Word of relief.... Bless you Mr Ewing.

[@janayeisraeljoyofzion]

The Saints- Thank You For Sharing Your Wisdom. 📖♥️🕊 Thank You Brother For Allowing The God Of Abraham Issac and Jacob To Use You Mightily! ✨Shalawam Shalawam Beloved🕊

[@ammcgowan]

Hallelujah!!! This is SOOO POWERFUL.. FORGIVENESS!!! Break GENERATIONAL STRONGHOLDS.. MY GOD.. my God!!! Father help ME.. HELP US!!! AMEN AND AMEN

[@derrekjones2129]

I’m guilty and repent of my unforgiveness. I will pray that prayer until the Lord releases my heart. My God Mr. Ewing, you are so right!! Thanks fore being forthright with the word of God. I say I forgave and inside I am burning up. Keep preaching and teaching. No one is doing this!!! May the Lord Bless you for being so faithful to teach the GOSPEL!!!❤❤❤ Lord have mercy on me…

[@reshebaaponte410]

Thank you for the Turth. Amen! I know a few spirits that are just like you explained. Keep it coming in Jesus mighty name 🙏🏽 Pastor

[@torriepenney936]

Wow...Amen how the Spirit gave her these words. I ve felt doubt I am saying the Right words at the right time. BUT because the Lord is So full of love...i do not have to be anxious. There is now no condemnation to those in Christ. Though my flesh has sinful tendencies.. the spirit of God abides. Amen

[@Ndimemukomi]

Jesus said “forgive them for they do not know what they’re doing”💕… now Imagine him cursing them on the cross.. praying to God that he punishes them 10 times what they have done to him… how does he look at me when I’m declaring curses and back to sender prayers against they who do wrong to me… indeed “love your enemies and bless those who curse you “.

[@user-oj2nw8pv9q]

He was praying for his very own.

[@realsistasrealtalk4320]

Oh my😢 I have been asking my family to forgive and my heart goes out to them

[@user-zg5wu9kz8h]

Listening to you always challenges me to get in the word and to take it way more seriously than I do. Thank you for teaching with boldness, clarity, and honesty.

[@gavinpillay4131]

What a excellarating teaching.

[@beaclark4196]

AWESOME TEACHING PASTOR EWING ...

[@uhsaywhat]

I thank God for revealing “forgiveness” to me. It’s time to repent and let go! I’ve been blinded by my own behavior.

[@LELO_21_07]

The truth!Very hard to swallow but necessary…..thank you sir 🙌🏼God help me…..

[@001joyo]

Powerful! truth !!!deliverance !!!💯

[@sallyjones611]

Thank you Pastor Ewing. May God continue to bless you. May you continue to grow in the wisdom and knowledge of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ.

[@enomaxwell9497]

Wow.....over 3hrs.....must be serious talk, cause definitely Jesus is rebuking me thru pastor Ewing.

[@lindaadams4815]

Thank you Minister kelvin,i needed this.

[@ladycoco1503]

AMEN AMEN AMEN STUDY THE RULES THANK YOU ABBA FATHER GOD

[@beaclark4196]

Awesome teaching very much helpful information to the body of Christ thank you so much for bringing this back to our remembrance....

[@katherinefratello4400]

I am not willing to risk eternity

[@Tenacious888]

Your pre-recorded dream video was perfect for me. Because it answered so many questions that I had and it confirmed what the Holy Spirit was saying to me!

[@lindaadams4815]

Which one please

[@hgpamwelase]

Amen... powerful teaching, thank you pastor Ewing

[@tlovesgreens8244]

“So this is how the enemy sustains unforgivness in us, by causing us to violate Ephesians 6:12.”❤ 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@katherinefratello4400]

Thank u so much for this teaching it is vital I’m listening because it is so important to keep our hearts clear before God

[@kathyjudson6754]

I am on course !! I am staying there!

[@tipfinance3934]

Right on time 🙏🏾

[@shaylahudson700]

Whew!!! I LOVE IT .. AND THE WORD TO BACK IT UP POWERFUL 💃🏾🔥

[@nemahadharamramba5554]

Thank you Sir

[@User-z1g3z]

I think I found you 2 years ago Minister Kevin. I was so disappointed with church that I'd watch your video with Precaution and I never allowed myself to Believe you until I saw consistency in Godly truth coming from you. This is my fave teaching of all ....I almost gave up hope on this subject until now that I've heard your teaching. Can't succinctly express what your teachings has done for my life, especially this one. Unforgivness is like feeding an altar against yourself. Indeed the Truth sets us free. God Is Good, even through Pastor Kevin ewing Amen.

[@stephaniaemile8498]

“Unforgiveness is like feeding an altar against yourself,” such a profound statement.

[@eugeniedenis3169]

Powerful word, Pastor Kevin.❤

[@businessnow2499]

WAIT, Please don't leave just yet! Just listen to the teachings for a good minute to gain understanding! He who have ears let him hear the word of the LORD concerning HIS LAWS!!

[@karolynlarose5492]

Hallelujah I needed to hear this !!!! Thank goodness for your teachings!!! I really really needed this today!!! Thank you 🙏

[@helenam7436]

Powerful teaching ! 🙌

[@Akilah077]

This teaching is needed🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Mgnder]

So true

[@deebrown3832]

Yes!!! I keep myself aware of this!!! It's hard, but I am adamant: no one ago mek mi go hell!! I forgive n move on. Can't allow You to cause ME hell fire. RELEASE MI LAWD!!!😢

[@achristian075]

❤❤❤ this teaching

[@childofgod345]

Forgiveness is the key.

[@Cathel_Ngalle]

It is the first thing God taught me when I got saved, forgiveness. I asked him to teach me forgiveness and that day I opened my bible and read genesis. and He taught me through the story of Abraham and Lot who had to create boundaries something about forgiveness and boundaries; that forgiveness is a decision and has nothing to do with eating with the person after or sum'. Forgiveness has nothing to do with your emotions and feelings no it is a decision He told me to create BRIDGES in this case and not WALLS as Abraham and Lot. I will never forget that. Like, give the ability to those people to call on you when they need help and you being able to help them while having boundaries. He is not against healthy boundaries, it is necessary. He is Himself a God of order that sets boundaries for things (Genesis1). Abraham and Lot had to separate but Abraham had room to help Lot when He was in trouble. Not walls because love: agape is charity and requires us to assist others. If you want to live a righteous life, of course. The holy spirit will always convict you because most of the time after hurt, the enemy will send a spirit of pride to make you challenge what the holy spirit is telling you to do and make you justify yourself, in not letting it go. God taught me that it may sometimes even require apologising even if you're not the one who did wrong; to shut down the spirit of PRIDE. God can't and won't listen to you while having a whole view of your prideful heart asking for His forgiveness while refusing to be at peace with people and fighting with the holy spirit on this matter. The holy spirit will always tell you what you need to do in each case. He is there for you and not against you and know what you need to deal with to keep your heart clean to work out your own salvation. Sometimes somebody may do something to me and the holy spirit keeps telling me "before coming to God if you neighbour..." I know it's for my good, I know He is there to keep me in right standing with God so I need to accept the grace of God and go and do it. Our christian journey is a journey of humility. When I didn't listen to the holy spirit by saying I'm not mad, I don't have anything against that person. He asked me "then why is it difficult for you to engage a conversation with that person? why is it difficult for you to say I apologise for whatever may have hurt you, I love you." I realised pride was there and forgiveness was not the only thing He was trying to deal with. Sometimes God used incredible ways to tell me to go and settle matters where I was have not been in fault but it doesn't matter. I had a dream of me talking to that person, He made that person name come in my dms and I saw myself talking with the person. I knew I had to go and do it in real life. Or showing someone being bitter concerning me, quarrelling with me in my dream and showing resentment; me just listening. He was telling me to just apologise. Other times He made them come to me in different ways for different reasons to test my heart concerning them and expose me to myself then, I then settled the matter. Again, God wants to see you in heaven so He is going to let you know your heart condition and it's up to you now, He will even insist; it is even better when you ask Him to examine your heart. Now it's natural. I want to be in right standing with God so forgiving people is natural; it's spiritual warfare against Satan. He loves dirt in your heart, he feels like you're just inviting him, which you are honestly; so he comes legally

[@user-oj2nw8pv9q]

Some people have to forgive more than others. This let me feel attacked than loved I have to learn to forgive.

[@eugeniedenis3169]

Wow, this is powerful 👏

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

This reminds me of Cain and Abel. When Cain got very angry at Abel. I think bitterness grew within Cain. Then he killed Abel. Bitterness is very dangerous. (around 48:00)

[@user-oj2nw8pv9q]

This is how Cain is ridiculous. He brought his sacrifice to God, not Abel. How Abel comes into his drama. His drama is with God, not Abel. You have alot of Cains who drag you in their drama.

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

@@user-oj2nw8pv9q Jealousy can make people do a lot of foolish things.

[@asmith9895]

Thank you God always give me the word, when I need to hear it, God is always watching all of us. We have one life and then the judgment, We must forgive those that has trespassed again us. This is very hard to do but this is our test let us pass this test and forgive,the Devil don't want us to forgive ,because he know we will end up in judgment by God. But !! Those evil wicked people who do dirt against others are also being tested they must repent by asking God for mercy and forgiveness and it good to go to the person they have trespass against for forgiveness, because of the hardness of their heart many will not repent the devil his happy about this because he knows that person is going to hell, Both are hard, to repent of sin or forgive someones

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

Pastor Ewing, you were reading in Proverbs chapter 25 verse 21. What does it mean your enemy will reap coals of fire on their head when you begin helping them while they are doing evil to you? Proverbs 25:21-22 King James Version 21 If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink: 22 For thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the Lord shall reward thee.

[@yulialexandra444]

That's what I'm wondering too. I was doing good to my enemies, and they continued to hate me, I think if anything their hatred ramped up...

[@zukimurandu5369]

We are required to love our enemies, not as the world does but according to 1Corinthians 13:4 pls read up on this passage to understand how we ought to Love according to Gods requirement💗

[@marianpowell5610]

How do we love our enemies? I asked for forgiveness for my unforgiveness. I forgave and prayed for my enemies but how do you love them according to the scriptures

[@a-a-rondavis9438]

Love is mostly portrayed as an action in the Bible. Your actions can determine your "love" for your enemies. We don't have to like them, big difference. Praying for them, blessing them, interacting with them with care and kindness are some of the actions mentioned as loving them. That "heaps coals on their head" and softens themselves towards you. If they're "irreconcilable" towards you, don't worry about trying to re-gain their trust or friendship. That's not up to us. We just do what God says for us to do, and the rest will pan out accordingly.

[@Estelle_H]

​@@a-a-rondavis9438 I agree, hate like love isn't simply an emotion but are actions .

[@NinthJewel]

Lord forgive me for holding onto unforgiveness.!it’s best to leave vengeance to God

[@Elimuna1]

Thanks!

[@KevinLAEwing]

Thank you!

[@tanishamanning1029]

Hi Minister Kevin. Thank you for this life changing teaching. When you were speaking of hating making you a murderer, I had this thought that when you hate someone/something you always speak negative or "death" over it/them so in a sense you are commiting murderer in the spirit realm. 😂 I dont know, just a random thought I wanted to share .😂

[@bellabellisiman6608]

Forgiveness is for your own sake , for the sake of your own spirit

[@scoutfortheking6858]

Pastor can you share the 3 part series you referenced in the discretion or the link here. This teaching I will share it's overflowed with Biblical Truth. Thank You Pastor. Reference 1:41

[@Hagar-yn8jm]

So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. - 2 Corinthians 5:16

[@Loveisx]

Pastor Kevin you are so funny. They way I laughed at 1:47:38

[@joviseo4]

Thanks

[@KevinLAEwing]

@joviseo4, thank you!

[@journe.withJesus]

Hi, Minister Kevin. How do I give to school you talked about in your previous video?

[@karolynlarose5492]

Minister Kevin , may I please ask you how are we supposed too act when the child’s father molested them an they may be in danger of it happening again? I know I have to forgive, what about protecting my little girl ? I m currently in a court battle an am tryn my best each day to pray for him an his family an all my enemies known and unknown.. what do you suggest?

[@KevinLAEwing]

@Karolyn based on what you've said, supervised visitation would be a mature and wise way to initially address it. I would also suggest intense counseling for the father.

[@a-a-rondavis9438]

​​​​​@@KevinLAEwing I personally disagree. If true sxual abuse happened, the child's father deserves nothing from the mother or child. I would not risk mine or my child's life just because they had partaken in the process of creating that child. Extra visits make me think a dangerous domestic violence situation will happen again. Only when the child's father has repented and been delivered of those spirits, and shows fruit of doing so, can that child come back to their father. Even then, that child will now have to deal with that abuse regardless of the parents' situation. You cannot feel ok with allowing a child's life to be wrecked by their biological dad simply because "we're Christians, and that means mending every relationship by any means necessary". Some things have to be let go. This woman needs a better father in that child's life.

[@User-z1g3z]

After forgiving the perpetrator, if they desire to be close to you, yet not showing improvement or remorse, would it be advisable to continue in relationship such as visits, phone calls etc? In other words you have forgiven but not feeling safe to be around them. What do you do in such case, especially when it's a family member within your circles???

[@bonganij.bfakudze1097]

Totally not an easy one. I wish it was like a button. As for me I am struggling

[@User-z1g3z]

Pastor Kevin, how does one make themself forget even after forgiving, it seems though at times we may forget the recall will resurface at times, and what comes to mind can be easily triggered.

[@AdaDanieldaughterofGod]

Prayer against the stronghold the enemy is trying to build around that memory. Pray for and bless the one who hurt you. Make your mind think warm and loving thoughts towards them. It's your mind... you are in control of what happens there. Don't believe that lie that you can control what goes through your mind.

[@TitiM1962.]

Pastor its a very tricky rule. If you forgive but distance yourself from them is it still taken as not forgiven them.

[@siyashilla6885]

Forgive yes but dont trufle with you

[@KevinLAEwing]

Forgiving someone does not equate to reigniting a relationship with them. Forgiving someone means to release them from whatever they did to you. It is clearing your heart of all hate, bitterness, offense, etc. Once this is done by the grace of God because it will be almost impossible to achieve this on your own. A relationship after the forgiveness is not mandatory.

[@TitiM1962.]

@@KevinLAEwing Thank you Pastor Kevin

[@MichaelSmith-zs1cj]

So lets say i was apart of a Church but i leave because i was called by God to a marriage ministry, i tried to ignore it because my Pastor says i am not ready. Yet everytime i went somewhere people would come up to me and say God says he is waiting on you, still i ignore it because i am trying to submit to my leaders. I couldn't take it more so i approach him one more time pointing out to him what is happening the result still the same, anyway it ended up i had to leave but i parted without his blessings which he refuse to give, ameeting was held but i wasn't invited to this meeting and a lot of things was said. My question is does my leaders i need to resolved this or should we put it under the rug and continue with ministry though i invited him 3 times so we would resolve this and up to now he has not responded, what to do?

[@ivansnise]

All souls belong to God. You are accountable to God. About your leader forgive him and everyone else regardless of what they said. Personally you don't need any man's blessings/release to exercise your gift, make sure on your end you have fully forgiven them. When Israel was living righteously Balaam couldn't curse him for God didn't find any iniquity in him. Let them be lest you antagonize them

[@Ndimemukomi]

You don’t need to be released for you to work for God. Pursue your purpose and God will be with you

[@southtrini4492]

Pastor Kevin L A Ewing, how do you forgive when it's hard too?

[@paulabowen3920]

God is ŕìĝht

[@nansihannawi273]

Do you have to be friends with them again and pretend nothing happend?

[@childofGod___]

This has always been my question too. I pray for them that they will prosper but I'm unable to return to relationship with them, especially when there's a high chance the abuse or hurt will happen again.

[@a-a-rondavis9438]

That's the dynamic I have a bone to pick with. If I were to truly forget this person's abuse or betrayal, then I would just go right back to them and be open to be abused again, because I forgot, remember? I think it's more of "Don't think about what they've done to you when you think of them." It'd be a form of unrighteous judgement, I guess? I can forgive and pray for whomever, but forgetting completely like the Lord does isn't something I'd call "possible" with the human brain. We don't touch the hot stove again because of the pain and possible injury it gave us. We are never forgetful of what hot objects or surfaces do to us. It's a survival mechanism with our own brains. I think staying away from an abusive partner, family member, friend, or co-worker isn't really any different. We are instructed to "loosen the rope" or even sever relationships completely if they're burdensome or abusive to us, yet we're supposed to "forget" completely what they've done to us? If I am seeing this right, wouldn't it be a contraditon in the Scripture? Then my perspective couldn't be right. I would need a different perspective to put this all together.

[@blackchinaanderson6996]

No, you forgive them, release them and yourself. That means when you see them, you can speak and / or hold a conversation with them without all the hate you once had for them in your heart. When you speak of them or if anyone ask about them your story will change to I'm praying all is well with them but I haven't heard from or saw them in a while, instead of saying that dog I dnt care or want to know where he or she is. Blessing 🙌🏽 to you, I pray that the holy spirit help an assist you in true healing and wisdom.

[@Estelle_H]

I pretend like it didn't happen. I try to simply not care when I'm mistreated.

[@childofGod___]

@@Estelle_H I think you're right. I just listened to a word on offence and maybe that's the best way to this- saying no to the spirit of offence. Give nothing the chance to fester.

[@monicaalori2563]

I have a question Kevin. There is a pain that remain in your heart and forgetting is not easy, how do l deal with the pain when l have confessed and asked for forgiveness? I have forgiven bit tears in my heart is just too much because even in the first place am not wrong, and am taken advantage of? I always forgive and it's not really a problem.except the pain. I feel over persecuted and am like food that people like eating and disrespecting and they know it. Get away with it, and l pain and nothing is done! I cry for justice most times because l forgive .

[@classells]

Hi, you have to be honest with God when you pray saying you find it hard to let go of the pain/ forgiveness and ask God to help you with this x

[@katherinefratello4400]

GoshI forgiveness is poison no wonder it makes people sick

[@yulialexandra444]

Yes, before I got saved I had unforgiveness and I developed IBS. Word of warning...

[@margaretodonkor4747]

Can you do short videos also for some of us???

[@sebentilezanini1085]

That ex warlock is James KAWALYA