ADHD & Relationships

[@m.samuel6350]

“Treat yourself as if you were someone that you are responsible for helping. It might not happen today. It might not happen tomorrow. But everything is going to work out.” Happy Monday, I’m so glad that you were diagnosed. It’s good to see that you are in therapy and getting better. I know when you spoke on things that you may have blamed your ex for and it was actually you , it wasn’t done intentionally. You are a beautiful individual and I’m glad that you are sharing your story with us. You are definitely going to help someone else.🙏🏽✌🏽

[@Cassieamelier]

Thank you so much and happy Monday ❤️

[@sandrasherwood8521]

I found this to be so helpful. My husband has ADHD and the challenges you mentioned I could totally relate. It’s such a shame that there aren’t that many videos on KZbin about relationships particularly Christian marriages and ADHD. My husband was also diagnosed as an adult. Please continue doing videos like this. Really appreciate you ❤

[@thatssoairee]

My fiancé and I BOTH have ADHD. It’s been a huge thing in our relationship. But we’re working through it! Therapy and Church have made a huge difference

[@tb2463]

Yes girl , post two times per week thanks

[@Cassieamelier]

Definitely coming! X

[@heavilynohene-akrasi5293]

A gift to our generation. Great vid ❤️

[@Cassieamelier]

Awww thank you so much ❤️

[@sandraboo5577]

I would love to hear you talking about healing from a breakup I recently spilt up with my ex boyfriend who I thought I was going to get married to . Although I have moved on I still feel hurt and used. ❤ God bless you for your honesty and amazing channel

[@Cassieamelier]

I’m so sorry to hear of your recent breakup heartache is a form of grief. I understand those feelings of hurt and just feeling used. Definitely will do a video about this ❤️ sending love m, peace and healing your way ❤️

[@sandraboo5577]

@@Cassieamelier thank you for taking time to reply ❤️

[@olaolaitan7834]

I thought how did I know and follow you then realised it was your wedding and TedEx talk(if right). Glad you're diagnosed to help you manage yourself. ADHD is common in Black is according to statistics and many are leaving in denial.

[@Cassieamelier]

Yes many don’t know so I do help this can help someone thank you for coming back!

[@TrudyTalee]

the past couple of years i'm realising that i might need to see a professional , these symptoms/ conditions sound way to familiar

[@Cassieamelier]

This is the case for a lot of woman so I’m don’t be too scared knowing is so much better than living with it and not getting help. There are many tests you can do online and then go and see a doctor for a formal diagnosis.

[@icebluex7013]

This was very informative, thank you Cass.😊

[@Cassieamelier]

Your so welcome ❤️

[@juliamyron7347]

You are helping a lot of people 🙂❤️

[@Cassieamelier]

I really do hope so sending love ❤️

[@gracea8863]

Great video Cassie! Your authenticity and potential to inspire so many people is clear as day! I hope you are keeping well. In the meantime take care of yourself and I hope to see you back on KZbin when the time is right.

[@ChichieChari]

Thank you for sharing this Cassie! Do you mind sharing how you went about getting your diagnosis, if you went via NHS etc? Thanks for being so open and honest!x

[@Cassieamelier]

Aww appreciate you I will do a follow video soon for you people have left some great comments to on there process z

[@Kanyin.O]

Big up yourself Cassie, this is vital content especially, with the practical examples you provided. This could help a lot of people seek the support they need. Keep it coming! x

[@Cassieamelier]

Thank you and i definitely will ❤️

[@roxannefoster9686]

Love this👏🏾….Everything you said makes so much sense. The emotional side of ADHD is something I didn’t understand at all and it would frustrate me. I dnt have ADHD myself but it is something I think my son (aged 8) has, for the past 3 weeks I have tried “Lions Mane” it’s a mushroom comes in powder or tinitus form and it has helped with focus so much. Allowing me to create routine and structure at home and school. I am definitely going to look into ADHD counselling too. Thanks again 💜

[@goodvibesgoodenergy9665]

Very open & informative ❤️

[@Cassieamelier]

I’m so glad ❤️

[@leonaxlily]

i am dyslexic and one of my best friends has ADHD and another is dyspraxic with age i have come to see how these differences have made us friends but also at times made us clash in your 'AHDH &' series could you talk about AHDH and friendships, relationship with your parents and parenting if you are comfortable doing so

[@Cassieamelier]

Yes I definitely can! Il definitely turn it into a series! ❤️

[@nataliequansah]

Very useful video for me☺️ thank you for sharing ! I’ll definitely want to see outfits of the day👌

[@Cassieamelier]

Yay OTTD coming x

[@vizthali]

i've been really thinking i have adhd just haven't been checked, this video is urging me to check, eye opening really

[@Cassieamelier]

Check hun it will help so much and give you so much clarity sending love let me know how it all goes x

[@SlayWithShayUK]

I just love this for you. You're really refreshing to watch! Thank you for being authentically you and sharing so much important knowledge. Also the short hair suits you loads! Look forward to seeing more videos xx

[@Cassieamelier]

Aww appreciate you and thank you for following my journey sending love ❤️

[@naomi6372]

I can relate to so many of the symptoms mentioned in this vid - I have dyspraxia and was diagnosed late as well. Thanks for sharing!

[@Cassieamelier]

Your welcome thank you so much for watching and following my journey x

[@suziesmith9076]

Thank you for sharing Cassie this was really vulnerable and enlightening

[@Cassieamelier]

So glad ❤️

[@MissssTai]

Love this Cass! I relate so much

[@Cassieamelier]

Awww I’m so glad 😊

[@vibesreadthecards222]

Hi Cassie, please do post twice a week, everything you’re saying is so relatable. I would love to learn more. I think I have ADHD but I’ve never been formally diagnosed for it, but some of the symptoms sound so similar to what I go through with my partner everyday. 😅

[@Cassieamelier]

Awww so glad you can relate and il definitely be doing more videos x

[@Divinetrophy]

Omg sis this sounds like alot of what I deal with within myself.. thanks for sharing this

[@Cassieamelier]

You are very welcome ❤️ learning from each other is key

[@destinyenglish2750]

Please how did you go down the path of quick diagnosis🙏or could you do a video

[@thatssoairee]

This was great! Let’s chat girl. We could have a whole session on this topic!

[@Cassieamelier]

Thank you and yes let’s chat ! X

[@LethoHali]

Thanks for educating us❤

[@Cassieamelier]

My pleasure ❤️

[@davea5312]

I am sorry for what you are going through and what you went through in the past. I do believe in marriage restoration as the bible is against divorce and I am praying your marriage even though I don't know you personally. I hope and pray that both of you work things out knowing that you both are on the spectrum now and maybe understand each other better.

[@Cassieamelier]

Unfortunately we will not be getting back together we’re both moving in different directions and are happy Co parenting

[@racheljamesotokiti2910]

I’m recently diagnosed with ADHD and after watching this I really believe my mum has the same but she doesn’t even believe I have it

[@Cassieamelier]

Yes I believe my mum did too she’s passed now, it’s hard when people don’t believe or understand your diagnosis but it’s ok. You getting help and navigating your diagnosis may spark something in her. Sending you love x

[@lislylau91]

This was great! Thank you so much for this video, it was so clear and everything you said felt so familiar. I really think I should get tested but I have no idea where to start, I also live in the UK, London but I'm not British. Would be able to speak about the whole process? How do you even get diagnosed? Is it expensive? Sorry for all the questions is just that I'm engaged and I also think he might have ADHD 😅

[@Cassieamelier]

So there’s a link at the bottom of the page if you click it there are some tests you can take that will give you a quick assessment you can get a private diagnosis costs between £1500-£2000 you can Google that. Or if you can go and see your GP they can give you a referral! X hope that helps

[@lislylau91]

@@Cassieamelier THANK YOU SO MUCH! It was super helpful, ❤ your content

[@drf695]

Firstly, strength and guidance to this family. Hopefully, ppl take the info in this video as personal to this young lady. Because apart from a couple of things, some the experiences described sound very common given the circumstances - young, newly weds, new parents, possibly past difficult life experiences, depression, new responsibilities and lack of experience. And maybe lack of guidance and support for some couples. E.g. some new parents must put a routine in place after a new baby so not they could not have done it before but the baby provides that purpose. E.g. some new parents live with their in-laws for support in the first few weeks of having baby. I wonder if she would advise others /thinks it would have helped if there was more guidance from the elders, other family members,? Ppl have to actively support newly weds. If you are struggling in a relationship, with new parenting - please speak to someone, reach out for help from real ppl, join a support group, find fellowship, journal, pray, seek counselling...whatever is for you. Be encouraged that what you're experiencing may be quite 'normal' and no need for any diagnosis. Just some thoughts, again I wish this lady and viewers all the best 🙏

[@bambicharl]

How did you get diagnosed? I’ve mentioned it to my GP before but they don’t seem interested in taking it further, I’m 90% sure as I was nodding on every single thing you said through this!!!

[@Oo-ul9hi]

Same

[@Cassieamelier]

Ah yes the GP sometimes can really delay but go again and push for it you can always do it privately but go back and keep going back until they give you a referral sending love let me know how it goes x

[@racheljamesotokiti2910]

Go on psychiatry uk right to choose and fill in the form and give it to your gp so they can refer you for an assessment, it is a long process however it you want an assessment sooner go private however it’s pricey

[@ashahumblexx1259]

I'm glad I found this channel somehow lol....I have ADHD and although I love my crazy self it's a very debilitating disorder and sometimes I just want a break from myself for 24hours 😂

[@Cassieamelier]

Just for 24hours lol I completely understand I’m so glad you’ve found this channel too welcome and thank you for following me on this journey ❤️❤️❤️

[@vtara5394]

This so brave and informative- well done for sharing . I can resinate with sooo much of this + plus we have a shopping and junk food addiction. Empathic and over giving as well. # getting to Zara 1 hour before they close 😂 … Im sure you can relate.

[@Cassieamelier]

Hahaha getting to Zara one minute before it closes and being frustrated that I just didn’t leave earlier story of my life. Impulsive shopping and yo-yo dieting is something I struggle with 😩❤️ lol sending love to you and thanks for being a part of my journey

[@vtara5394]

@@Cassieamelier I say all this to say … it will get better. Being this way just makes you unique and God’s special creation. This is about to sound extremely weird- I was watching a re-run of Prince Harry and Megan wedding and saw you in and Karl in guest arena. My point is people like us are extremely blessed and will walk on God’s green earth in places we never dreamed of being(not saying that wedding was the be all and end all of life but you get my drift and I’m sure you will resinate). Believe me when I tell you are blessed and highly favoured hence the reason for all your experiences. One day at a time my dear. Well done once again for sharing, I still deal with all the above it however its made me who I am today I walked in places I never thought I would I’m my life time. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@Cassieamelier]

Love this one day at a time it’s not always easy but it’s always worth it ❤️

[@RealwithOdz]

Great vid. Very informative I hope you don’t mind me asking but do you think there would be a way that you two can reconcile? It sounds like you’re really invested in working and understanding yourself better. Is there a way you both could try a couples therapy session to find ways to understand each other and your diagnosis’s to find ways make the marriage work. I believe that the lord put you both together and this is just a hiccup along the way. But obviously I’m not there with you both behind closed doors so what do I know? Lol Lots of love xx

[@Cassieamelier]

No we won’t be reconciling x

[@RealwithOdz]

@@Cassieamelier I hear you. Wishing you all the best Keep the great vids coming! x

[@Cassieamelier]

Thank you obviously hasn’t been the easiest decision but we have been apart two years now and are happy Co parenting I appreciate your support and love ❤️

[@Honeypepper.]

You sound like a sped up version of Patricia Bright

[@Cassieamelier]

This is hilarious Il try and slow down but always excited to share lol 😂 #adhd problems

[@SummerTyme2023]

💜🧡💛

[@island8908]

Praying for you let GOD LEAD YOU AND DO IT ALL FOR YOU IN JESUS NAME “If my daughter Cassandra, which is called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land. Now mine eyes shall be open, and mine ears attent unto the prayer that is made in this place. For now have I chosen and sanctified this house, that my name may be there for ever: and mine eyes and mine heart shall be there perpetually.” ‭‭2 Chronicles‬ ‭7:14-16‬ ‭KJV‬‬