Adjusting to life after college

[@DayAndNightTo2099]

Thanks, That was one of the few things i find helpful on youtube. This is my second year in college (total is 7 years) i like it much better than high school, but there is the addition of responsibility which can be hard sometimes.

[@nathan_fang_]

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[@screamtheguy6425]

I'm stressed as well because of responsibility. But my mom told me that in the long term, things become repetitive and it is not a shock to you unlike studying where you have to learn new things every week. So even though you are responsible, it's not as shocking.

[@DayAndNightTo2099]

@screamtheguy6425 it does get easier cuz you will be more alert and thoughtful about important things. but most importantly, i find it rewarding, especially if you dont screw up too much lol, i had many failings like in getting driving licence and some exams, i failed everynow and then due to my laziness and simply being dumb, but i made come backs and it feels very rewarding. This was the hardest year in my life, my college first year only accept 100 people from total of 500, all these 500 are about top 10% of highschool. I think having a clear goal is very important, my goal is clear and i will sacrifice many things for it, like not playing video games and studying all week, sleeping 3 hours for multiple days if i had too. Its good to have a goal and a reason for it, also you should do something that gives and links motivation to your goal, so you will find it fun and take things seriously. Challenges are the most fun things if you get your act together. Sorry if this is long but this is basically how i passed my hardest year in life. Just remember why you are doing what you are doing and set priorities

[@DayAndNightTo2099]

@nathan_fang_ sure i will check it out thanks

[@tortster131]

The point about not needing to think about work after is so valid. School is so much harder than actually working because you always have assignments that you have to do outside of classtime, which is already scheduled weirdly as hell. Like there could be one class at 8am but then the next day you have class starting at 4pm and its so hard to plan around that. Ive only done a 4 month co op tho so maybe its more stressful in the long run or something.

[@GxK37]

Boy you're going to regret this comment so much in the future. I wish i had assignments where i could just fail. Wait until your job gets to a point where you have to make decisions.

[@YourMasta]

Hahahaha oh boy, bookmark this comment so you can read it in the future

[@trevorfranks69]

You actually have to think about work everyday though. Even on weekends.

[@hadenp1]

Honeymoon phase 😂

[@hwanpark5234]

This guy is, not that bad, not that bad, alright thats all

[@AppleEpicness]

I just graduated too a few months ago and I was scared of it. However I’m not even employed yet I’m literally just traveling for some time before I go into a full time job. But I’m a lot less stressed than before with all the assignments and projects. I worked part time during school but I do think I’ll still be less stressed even when I get work cause I’ll never have to worry about school grades again.

[@Cuunke]

8 hours of work, 8 hours of free time, 8 hours of sleep now do this everyday for the next 8 years and come back to me

[@Matias-dr3ys]

Gotta enjoy the small things. After finishing my mandatory military service a regular job feels nice compared to the +12 hour days during service. Also getting to sleep in your own bed each night is goated.

[@aluu3075]

Thanks man, I'm still in summer break transitioning to Sophomore Year Highschool, But I keep stressing out about Graduating high school, Finding a collage, than graduating that collage and finding a job. Even when I've never experienced these stuff, I can't help but stress and think about it, but this really helped relieve my anxiety about work.

[@miau6451]

You're going to make it dude, I believe in you

[@aluu3075]

@@miau6451 Thank you dude

[@bobbobby475]

You're younger than me. I am just finishing law school at 25 and I'm stressed AF about working more because it has already been a fk ton of work Dx

[@MrCruz-iq3sc]

I'm 24 and now in a cyber security office. Making 100k now and going well. If I keep studying certs I can make up to 250 or more Eager to do it

[@bobbobby475]

@@MrCruz-iq3sc Slave away!

[@Dertheus]

@@MrCruz-iq3sc what did you study?

[@raining5346]

I wanted to watch something like this. Glad I found your channel

[@penghuinkirby]

Bro is being held at gunpoint on that balcony

[@jordanrivas7398]

Hey man, I’m 35 years old and I don’t have any specific answers for you but I have one good general answer: you’re going to figure it out, it’s going to be alright. You won’t figure it out how I did and what’s alright for me may not be alright for you, but you are going to figure it out and it is all going to be alright. You’re already on your way.

[@nathan_fang_]

Thank you for taking the time to comment something so kind for a complete stranger. I appreciate it man

[@matthewware8973]

Damn you got a job. I wish I had one. Glad you enjoy life a bit

[@MrCruz-iq3sc]

If you don't mind me asking, where you at right now?

[@matthewware8973]

@@MrCruz-iq3sc still unemployed in California 😎

[@MrCruz-iq3sc]

@@matthewware8973 You finished college or are in it? Or doing another job?

[@Jazzfestn]

Get REAL, NF. You had it EASY. I worked my way through college as a CARPENTER. Still finished in 4 years.

[@gaguseo83grah]

Ngl I would honestly eat anything for the bulk

[@nathan_fang_]

type shitt

[@gaguseo83grah]

@@nathan_fang_ shouldn’t cuss bro 0:47

[@hunganhanh4008]

This video is so good

[@edwinfang1682]

First time seeing someone with the same last name as myself on KZbin Also what did major did you study? Im currently studying computer science for almost a year

[@nathan_fang_]

haha let's go gen bio major, business minor good luck w comp sci! that's a tough field

[@edwinfang1682]

@@nathan_fang_ thx it's kinda nice/intriguing to see a fellow asian who has the last name and also likes clash Royale, it kinda makes me curious, which just gave me the urge to ask a bit about yourself. Hope things workout well in your life as well trying to become financially stable

[@nathan_fang_]

@@edwinfang1682 search my name on google to find my other socials, and feel free to join the discord!

[@akshayy_xd]

What the hell this video randomly pops up in my feed and we work at the same place lmaooo ??????????

[@kimurha]

real.

[@none5020]

Only question, did you pay for college?

[@darcash1738]

You kinda look like Justin Sung when he was younger. He must be dirty bulking as of late tho 😮‍💨

[@PedroPwnsYou]

👑👑🔥

[@AstralAkshay]

How was college for you?

[@nathan_fang_]

college was great!

[@eggroll4528]

what major did you study in college?

[@nathan_fang_]

I studied general biology as my major, and got a minor in business!

[@trevorfranks69]

Ur peaceful because ur parents are rich

[@erno6155]

More than just that

[@ObsidianGloria]

My parents are poor as shit (as am I), and working a job is still a thousand times less stressful for me than college ever was. I get to go home and not worry about a single god damn thing I did at work. College is pretty much constant due to the workload and the lack of boundaries. Even when I’d try to self-impose boundaries, it would go badly. I work a pretty stressful and physically strenuous job, too, so it’s not like I’m sitting on my ass doing some cushy job either.

[@jasonj3818]

how old r u?