things I no longer believe in.

[@kristinethevideo]

1:22 typo: instead of “a necessary” read as “unnecessary”

[@animenmusic16]

Had a question. You said attachment is unnecessary but can you say you truly love somebody without being attached to them? Can a child feel the connection to his parents without being attached?

[@nguyengiorno9026]

are you a vietnamese by any chance?

[@kristinethevideo]

@@animenmusic16 Great question! In my view you can love someone deeply and show compassion, but learning detachment is challenging because it’s part of being human. While it may not be what everyone wants to hear I believe that keeping the end in mind allows us to live more meaningfully. It’s not about stopping love but rather about being at peace with letting go-leaving the world and the people in it to follow their own paths, without clinging or control.

[@animenmusic16]

@@kristinethevideo but does attachment mean always to control? Do you believe that your view on this might change in the future in order to keep growing as a person and seek the truth a/c to you at the end or is this your final view limit?

[@acoldsweater]

​@@animenmusic16 i'd say control can be a toxic part of attachment that doesn't always come with it and it depends on you, but to me, the possibility of being able to be attached to someone means more than everything and is the reason i continue everyday, but even if not toxic there are such huge risks that come with it (the more attached you are the more you might get hurt) but accepting is what i 'chose' to do and it's a pretty personal decision, and a risky and dangerous one

[@james__..]

KZbin is really weird, yesterday I was just watching a programming tutorial and now I am listening to a woman about her opinions in life and being captivated by her

[@yuvraj_singh27]

bro no way, me too 😂 😂

[@RedMi-vs9zt]

You're not alone brother😂

[@sonny凡]

bruh fr 🤣 they be recommending outta pocket videos

[@jeremiahscott2032]

Fr😂😂😂😂😂

[@arkoarko9559]

And you know what..... I'm all here for it, guess KZbin knows how to take care of my Psyche

[@deadlystalker7483]

I feel like this will pop up 15 years later again. I dont know, but its just a feeling

[@Ruby0liz]

Same

[@samasaleh1409]

yeah..

[@Klaudjaa___]

Possibly, we’ll see

[@Muskan-es2ey]

You and me will click on it again

[@davie8409]

honestly, it looks, sounds and feels like it was actually made 15 years ago lol! I think we might be stuck in a time loop. . .

[@niacoreee]

sounds like she cried her eyes out before recording this. I dont know what youre going through but im so proud of u girl. Youre already on a positive path. Take all the love man i hope u have a great day

[@JuriRita]

Yh i kinda noticed that too actually

[@grapefruitsyrup8185]

no way she did. she looks really hot and beautiful, and you know people with pretty privilege like her never suffer in life. so stop making up bs, her life is prolly a bed of roses thats why she have the time to think of all these philosophical things and get views from it.

[@Mikamichae]

Yes she sounds like she is about to burst into teara

[@LifeIsAnExperiencee]

lol 😂​@@Mikamichae

[@copyninja8756]

hmm idk

[@loucimm6895]

bro something about the quality makes me feel warm and comfortable

[@pointseventhree]

yess its so aesthetic

[@d.on.in.a]

It's the yellow subtitles and dim lights

[@haveagoodday9617]

and her voice so calming 😭🧡

[@qlockwerk553]

it's coming back! I got recommended a grainy video of this goth lady talking about school. deep vibes (her channel is called hailey)

[@maelyschan3105]

I looks like a vidéo send from a close one

[@nongthombamsanathoisingh]

This is the kind of media I pay my internet bills for

[@differentone_p]

since no one replied to this one - i will.

[@Zaya20]

Dat part!!!🫰🏾🫰🏾

[@nongthombamsanathoisingh]

@@differentone_p thank you! I have never gotten this much like too.

[@realvxx]

This is valuable content

[@nongthombamsanathoisingh]

@@realvxx yes

[@xulqarnaen]

Fine youtube, after recommending this video over 40 times, i finally clicked on it

[@San-pv]

same lol

[@sehajbal10]

lmao samee

[@Hazardreem]

KZbin was like bro i promise is good

[@Gay_shit-z4n]

Same

[@Withmayagad]

😂😂😂

[@myleg1359]

this part of KZbin feels like a safe place

[@_Siloam_]

Romans 10:9-10 “If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.” 😊👍 James 4:8 “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.” Repent of your sins to God, my friend! ❤😊

[@antistraightmen]

@@_Siloam_ no

[@NetzachEnjoyer]

@@_Siloam_ Why are we sinful just because we exist? What makes us so horrible, according to you? Everything good is God, and everything bad is me? What makes Christianity so different from any other religion? It's all blind faith.

[@faithfulw1shes]

@@_Siloam_amen

[@JackAnderson232]

Why does every comment section turn into a religious debate 😭

[@deez3451]

“we come into this world alone and we leave alone.” i felt dat one😞

[@Gaafet]

I don't understand, Does it mean that people can't connect to each other? Or is about dependence?

[@LisztEtude6]

@@Gaafet I interpret it more so that people will always have themselves for their entire life. People will come into your life and you can connect with them. But, ultimately people will come and go and the only person that can support you your entire life is you.

[@knguyen284]

@@Gaafet it means you come into this life alone and you dead alone.. so basically, everyone is living their own life and nobody live for someone or dead for someone.

[@Gaafet]

Thank you all

[@Gaafet]

@@LisztEtude6 I like that. I always felt a lack of separation from the outside people/things. It is hard to think of me as separate. Its not like I think that, its more like a sensation that's in the background.

[@johnacker4959]

My fiance and i broke up four weeks ago…she left me after being best friends since 13, and being together for six years. We had two cats and a house….thank you for this. This was made for me. Her and I used to exchange the saying “from the mud, like a lotus.” I truly needed these words from a stranger. Thank you.

[@xxstar553]

I can relate. My boyfriend and I of 7 years just broke up a week ago. We've known each other since high school, and my whole life revolved around him. He was so hateful towards me when we broke up, Im not even sure what I did. When I asked, he wouldn't talk to me. I don't really have any other friends, so I've been on my own. Trying to find self-love and worth is so hard right now, especially not being able to connect with people and talk out my feelings. Hope you're doing okay though, just know you're not alone.

[@Venuseeza]

​@@xxstar553 Oh my god, it's so heartbreaking to even read, I can't even comprehend how you might have felt. I'm so sorry that happened. Hope you're ok

[@johnacker4959]

@@xxstar553 im so incredibly sorry to read this. Your situation parallels my ex fiances in almost all regards except for the hatefulness and lack of communication. My ex and I are on good terms and still see each other regularly. Its tough because it hurts me but is healing for her. Hang in there- none of this is easy. But you are indeed not alone

[@etanol.]

I feel sorry for you and the person in the comment just below. I hope both of you move on, and find a way to be happy even during tough times. everybody deserves someone who loves them deeply and that would never abandon them - not everyone has the opportunity to meet such person or to love such person back though- so I truly hope you guys can find this person, and be happy together with them :)

[@megcut2531]

One day at a time… it will all make sense someday♥️ hang in there.

[@klooopie]

“the only thing that doesnt change is change itself” let me cry 😭

[@L0TUS_FLXWER]

same 😭

[@bowlofwhiskey]

@@L0TUS_FLXWERomg it’s a lotus flower

[@vaez]

Let me cry 😭 let me cry 😭

[@steviemolina2855]

i literally said damn. . . by myself, in my room at 4am LOL WE ALL GONNA MAKE IT FELLAS DO NOT WORRY

[@Nanamizlover]

Can someone explain this to me please 🙏

[@B_razzer]

She said “Hello” and it felt like I could listen to her talk forever.

[@m1ye492]

bro.... she isn't even real. you have created, in your mind, a micro-form of the self based off of your pre-conceptualizations of what she is. just let it go bro.

[@amil7441]

@@m1ye492 let the brother live 😭🙏

[@skoppy6240]

things just got deep ​@@m1ye492

[@xAemyedits-oe3nx]

​@@m1ye492thank you

[@crank93]

Incel detected 🚨🚨🚨

[@PhilipTomisi]

Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.

[@RobertRyan-q7b]

Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't bear to lose him, so I did everything I could to rekindle our relationship. Eventually, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who guided us back together.

[@PhilipTomisi]

Wow, that’s incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?

[@RobertRyan-q7b]

His name is Fatherabulu, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in helping people reconnect with their ex.

[@PhilipTomisi]

Thank you for sharing this valuable info! I just looked him up, and he seems impressive.

[@split_jcgg9613]

Keep trying to invite someone new but good. Give someone who’s interested in you a real chance.

[@someguyonabus439]

From the depth of the self-hating “it’s so over” I’ve pulled myself into the inner-peace of “we’re so back”

[@arch523]

Real.

[@islixxn]

🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓

[@Leo4me]

YES REAL

[@BOLLCAPS]

AHAHAHAH one of the best comments i've ever read

[@genewang8826]

underrated comment

[@Creed11]

Unlearning is difficult but it’s essential for growth.

[@m3m3lord61]

I scrolled on this comment just as she said it lmao

[@dillemaaaa23]

@@m3m3lord61 Same

[@slofo6260]

@@m3m3lord61me too

[@wonders.spedup]

​@@m3m3lord61same

[@Maxid1]

You should put this in quotation marks.

[@egiesaycon7751]

mythical fyp pull

[@KyubeTheSleepy]

Once in a year typa thing

[@justeelo7238]

On my soul🙏🙏🙏

[@YehudiNimol]

Who tf calls the recommended page "fyp"?

[@rocks4brainzz]

@@YehudiNimolpeople who use instagram

[@santiagomalagon9554]

@@YehudiNimol Tiktok addicted people

[@orangeshootingstars]

The screen blacking you out into an unrecognizable silhouette the moment you said “everything in life is temporary…” accidentally poetic, love this.

[@skyfeelan]

1:54

[@cookies123ajajajajja]

yeah bc she turned into batman

[@Outlier68]

Accepting that you don’t have all the answers is a key to happiness. Admitting that to yourself and being okay with it opens doors both within and without. We don’t have all the answers and we never will.

[@renzrenzrenzrenzrenz]

Legendary 2am algorithm pull. I fw this heavy. Keep making this type of video

[@dale.6933]

My time is 1:50 am HAHAH

[@sunaez]

I pulled this literally at 4pm am i cooked?

[@adrielmejia2009]

its literally 2AM rn. WTF

[@stickman2012]

3:45 actually

[@maharkashif5930]

2:20 am bro😎😎

[@nerfmia]

If you obsess over making the ‘right’ decision, you are basically assuming that the universe will reward you for one thing and punish you for another. The universe has no fixed agenda. Once you make any decision, it works around that decision; there is no right or wrong, only a series of possibilities that shift with each thought, feeling, and action that you experience.

[@Ash-10fj]

Life is not a problem to be solved but a mystery to be experienced- Carl Jung I agree with you, whatever we choose to do, we learn from it and realise if it was what we wanted

[@tomocchii]

Living in this world you are punished early on for making the “wrong decision” so that’s what causes the issue you’re talking about

[@nerfmia]

@@tomocchii something is only a punishment if you view it as such

[@nicolecardinal3303]

i completely agree, but i think we can perceive other peoples decisions as right or wrong too

[@nerfmia]

@@nicolecardinal3303 of course :)

[@mshaw1002]

3:15 *"The only thing that doesn't change is change itself"*

[@bennelong8451]

War never changes

[@Obv1tzNahla]

“The only thing doesn’t change is change itself” girl you are so wise.💕

[@iluvcat]

in africa every 60 seconds, a minute passes

[@lifeishell5284]

she is just quoting buddhist wisdom

[@Obv1tzNahla]

@@iluvcat no really?! 😨

[@iluvcat]

@@Obv1tzNahla I’m so wise 💕💕

[@Old_Star30]

This quote reminded me of entropy and that I have a physics exam after 3 days

[@Gerg589]

Who else randomly found this?

[@THENKINGMr]

I was watching a lot of meme videos and then suddenly being recommended by KZbin lol

[@Yukinyax]

It's so random I love it, ❤

[@tomocchii]

Me

[@stanleysarjali8108]

Yea, the cat videos dragged this into my home too

[@emc8020]

🤚 🙋‍♀️ ❤

[@isaiah9486]

I watch this video whenever I feel sad because your voice gives me comfort.

[@milanpaudel9624]

this is how i was when i was trying to be positive after breakup.

[@anthonybarnes7667]

😅 when you know, you know…

[@leonitawijaya6314]

Me at 2am self talking into the mirror after crying from breakup few days ago be like

[@Kiara_kh]

Damn yall are lucky someone ever wanted to date you

[@Renn_ZLK]

@@Kiara_kh you'll get there. time will take you there, just wait

[@personalaccount1862]

Literally lol video is fake af. Happy music. Nothingness phrases and belief changes. All censored.

[@skylxght]

There's something magical about the way she speaks.

[@DustinAgerbeek]

For some weird reason, this video showed up in my recommended when I needed it. Thanks for these wise words.

[@evanlee93]

I love this video, but I have one problem. 2:30 yes it's important to love yourself, but we are social creatures. it's only natural for us to desire someone to accompany us, whether it be friendship or a life partner. People who have insecurities or doubts about themselves are not unlovable, and are not incapable of finding love. I think what's more important is to realize your flaws, and work on them. You don't have to be the perfect and most secure person in the world to find love from others, and sometimes it takes someone's love for us to realize this and to help us grow into the person we were meant to be.

[@AnnabelleHiggins-u5y]

That's what I thought

[@moshrom]

I think this is what they mean by "finding the missing piece". The piece can't be found in other people, only in yourself. You can be helped by others to search for the piece, but if you search outside of yourself you won't find it. Others may show you clues by showing themselves or tell how they found their pieces, but your pieces are still within you.

[@iamjustaSaiyan]

love this

[@zellyrizpah4613]

I was alone and even when i'm not, i'm lonely, still is. But as @moshrom said, slowly but surely i'm not as lonely as it was, it's started with a delulu tho. But no worries, i realized that i know the feeling of lonely, so instead of me finding company from other, i'll do my best to be someone company, the one to tell them that, "you are feeling lonely, but you do have company". Us humans are strange, they need help, but they can't be help if themselves don't want to be helped.

[@marioo849]

Wholeheartly agree

[@Trex_Matcha]

youtube really do be recommending stuff like this when it's 3:00 in the morning (perfect timing)

[@ashriya1294]

i ABSOLUTELY ADORE this video. it gave me some consolation in this dark, scary world. "we come alone and leave alone" is something I needed to hear. Death constantly haunts me, and what scares me more is having to do it alone. be it myself or family. the fact that death is something so inherently unknown to us, and it is yet something all of us are forced to go through. Life is beautiful, and I'm extremely grateful to God that I was given a chance to even take a single breath and experience living. all in all, I love this video and hope you continue.

[@jcdeton72]

We are scared of death because we exist but if you really think about it theres nothing to be scared of once we do not exist.

[@thwartificer]

What if I create a tulpa(for anyone unfamiliar - a fully conscious thoughtform very similar to an imaginary friend)? Will that count as not leaving alone?

[@noxplay4906]

@@thwartificer I wouldn't recommend it good chance you'll be inviting something very dark into your life, that's just my view as a Christian, and it's also what God would tell you. Anything spiritual that is outside of God's divine authority that you conjure up, it's probably gonna backfire really, really badly.

[@thwartificer]

@@noxplay4906 Uhh, just to make sure we're on the same wave, do you know what a tulpa is?

[@PluralPolyglots]

I don't think you want, as a singlet person, to create other forms of consciousness in your brain purposefully. Being plural isn't all fun and flowers, and I would strongly advise you to stay away from plurality. It's not marked as a mental ILLNESS for nothing ToT Some communities have religious forms of plurality, but that would also be cultural appropriation... So if you are singlet, best that you stay that way, because living with other people in your brain doesn't come with just pure happiness, FAR from it ​@@thwartificer

[@Outofblueberry]

The soft warmth in her voice is so calming and relaxing

[@tomocchii]

She sounds like an American version of my friend lol

[@jisookim-c8h]

I think it feels so safe and comfortable cause it looks like you’re on a late night video call with a close friend.

[@dokjamybeloved562]

The quality of the video makes me feel comfort because of the softness of her voice

[@Lian0035]

1:57 "Everthing in life is temporary" like that light source 😂

[@pereirastalin]

The timing of reading this comment couldn't be more perfect 😂😂

[@awanmax]

That light source must've been her phone/tablet she used to read the scripts 😂 Guess she forgot to reset her device's screen wake-up time setting

[@cvampaul]

"Growth requires shedding old perspectives that no longer serve me." Exactly! Our perspectives should serve 'Us', and not the other way around. If only more people understood this.

[@nickwarren2768]

when you said “in the end you’ll find a way” and smiled that made me smile too ❤ thanks for the video

[@中華蕎麦-g7g]

I don't believe this kind of cynicism. We get attached to something we love, and we cry more when we lose it, but that's not bad. Feelings make us stronger.

[@stalinisballin7]

I was thinking the same thing

[@MCKejml]

I'm not sure if the video can be taken literally, but likely in context. Another commenter mentioned "sounds like she cried her eyes out before recording this. I dont know what youre going through but im so proud of u girl. Youre already on a positive path. Take all the love man i hope u have a great day" - of course you would tell yourself that attachment is bad. Of course. But in the end, we are all wired to be social creatures. No man is an island...

[@automatic5]

agreed

[@faemewmi]

yes to everything, but i think it's important to recognize attachment isn't the problem, unhealthy attachments are the issue. now, that can be considered subjective for some. an example of an unhealthy attachment would be codependency or relying on someone external for emotional support/validation. there is something to be said about mastering the grieving process when going through loss. we all experience loss in our lives; i find it highly reductive that one would keep others at a distance to avoid feeling loss. as you said, it is inevitable. to love is to risk loss. that is largely the human experience. again, i definitely agree with the other points & i believe one should not look for other people to fill any gaps in their life. at the end of the day, you have to be there for yourself. you have to be okay being alone.

[@gm91742]

there's nothing wrong with finding happiness in other people too: friends, family, a stranger you pass by. it is normal and rewarding to have connections with other people. self love is great but you don't have to do everything alone

[@quinnj3679]

Yeah the one thing I disagree with her to an extent is, humans are social creatures that create bonds, and crave to share & connect with others. I agree that you should definitely have your own back first, and you shouldn't weigh/bet everything on any single person/pet etc. but yeah, you shouldn't do everything on your own & there is a such thing as healthy attachment. Getting hurt/experiencing sorrow is unavoidable, events will happen, people will be lost along the way. You can either try to minimize it/avoid it & get hurt eventually somehow anyway, or you can live a more fruitful life closely, with loved ones, & just accept that loss is inevitable. It's never easy, but you learn how to lose, you miss them, you cherish them, you gain perspective, you practice gratitude & you love even harder the next time, until it's your turn to be missed.

[@Lakshmipraneetha-006]

@@quinnj3679 true🤍

[@ShiinaHiyori]

​​@@quinnj3679 sometimes other people can make us grow even more as a person

[@thinkaboutpatty]

this video feels like a warm hug

[@LuciusMaximusReal]

Thank you for sharing such a profound and inspiring perspective. The way you describe unlearning as an essential part of growth resonates deeply, and your choice of the lotus flower as a metaphor is perfect. It’s a beautiful reminder that, just like the lotus rises from mud, real growth often means moving through difficulties and challenging old beliefs that keep us stuck. Your thoughts on forgiveness are powerful holding onto resentment towards past partners only holds us back, and it’s so true that forgiveness frees us to move forward. Letting go of attachment and accepting life’s impermanence is incredibly difficult, yet your words highlight how liberating it can be to release that need for control and embrace change. Your view on relationships, especially the idea that we need to be whole and self-loving before expecting that from someone else, is a lesson that often takes years to understand. This reflection feels like an invitation to all of us to look inward, work on our personal foundation, and let go of beliefs that no longer serve who we’re becoming. Unlearning really does make room for healthier perspectives and opens the door to peace and resilience. Thank you for this reminder that growth requires both effort and self-compassion, and that in the end, it’s worth every bit of it. This was truly inspiring and has given me so much to think about on my own journey.

[@brightsmiley]

That was absolutely breathtaking, truly a breath of realism blown in my face. I find myself often realizing what my lotus is, telling myself I will water it later. Only to realize my lotus is the very essence of "later". Waiting to take action on things I know I need to do now. Thank you for your words I will do my best to carry them forward with me every second from now to grow my lotus into a tree.

[@johanaon]

1:58 the light from your display was like "I'm temporary too!" :DDD loved the video thank you for posting your voice is so soothing

[@ASMR_Orangely]

Hello Johana 🤗

[@psychoticrexx]

i love these types of vids that just randomly come on my feed. It's like it was meant for me to see 😭😭

[@altejeda4642]

These are the lessons i've learned from 25 to 29 in my self love journey after a 7 year relationship ended. I also have a tattoo of the lotus flower that blossomed from the mud I went through. The newest lesson i've learend is that, Sacrifice can lead to Love or Suffering and Joy is what sets them apart.

[@michealmotor]

I don’t understand the last part

[@stupedcraig]

Nothing lasts forever. Not our feelings not our bodies, not our home, nor our sun.

[@mpb2703]

Best 3:22 minutes that I've watched in my life 💯

[@JuriRita]

Me too

[@PriyadarshiniChowdhury]

I no longer believe in fearing to be in solitude. Almost killed myself trying to be with people, I'm learning who I am now.

[@Anmati13]

Glad to see someone younger than me can understand things i learned for all of my whole life. Congrats.

[@orangescloud]

I could hear her all day long... I really love how she gave us a peace of her mind, her perspective about things she believes. I hope more people like you exist in this world.

[@Navue-cn2tx]

I will continue to hate the person who I once loved until my dying breath

[@datzfatz2368]

What they do to warrant such everlasting hatred?

[@yoshi_drinks_tea]

Forgive and forget. Don’t let one person poison your life.

[@Sfxfreestyle]

I was expecting a much more aggressive and politically motivated video when I saw this in my feed. However, I could not be further from what this video actually represents. This video represents someone who seems to have truly found peace, contentment and confidence in one’s own opinions, mannerisms and ideologies. This video represents what it feels like to finally feel free from mundane drudgery and toxic lifestyles, and finding something good and consistent. It’s nice to see someone who is genuinely happy to be alive spread that joy, and advice on how to achieve such joy with those in the world, for free.

[@arthoseok1754]

I'm actually gonna cry. I'm so happy this video exists.

[@someguywithawooperpfp3163]

The lighting, the music, the voice, the aspect ratio... the vibes are just immaculate

[@iamanamikad]

I love how meaningful this video is turning out to be. Keep creating more and more. I am blessed this got recommended in my feed. It kinda hits home as I have seen my loved ones being the lotus and surrounded by mud (toxic people). Remembering your own value and doing the right things even though your environment is dark is enlightening

[@22oreos]

i've held beliefs and approaches like this for a while, but it was refreshing and warm to hear someone else share very similar, if not identical ones. thank you for spreading this lovely message. i deem it a blessing to be here

[@CrispyTNDRS]

This is probably one of the best simple videos ive ever come across. Glad to see this format making a return and this is one really good advice and a healthy outlook to have in life

[@stamatisvolanis8482]

I believe you will change your opinion on attachment as time changes. But I love that you are confident on sharing what you've learned and honestly, what you said is really valuable

[@stevenjames5874]

Ah! I shared the same view. I had replied claiming that it is attachment that binds us to others who share in the burden of life and gives meaning to this narrow-slice between the infinite. It is profoundly important to nurture it.

[@slowdncnintherain]

this made me move over my cat. he ran a way nearly 3 years ago, and i still kept myself attached to him. i no longer feel upset that he's not here, but i feel upset that i can't get myself upset anymore when i think of him. i don't feel like that anymore. maybe it's okay to move on. he'll still be very special to me, i love him very much, where ever he is now.

[@siddarthsaravanan7020]

youtube can never go down when we have content like this

[@kristineekanem8803]

It’s absolutely insane how I was just doing a meditation on releasing old patterns this morning and not only does your video come across my tl in the most beautiful way, but we’re namesakes too 😩❤️❤️❤️

[@san-myun]

Her voice is so comforting

[@LaurentiuBadea]

I don't know what corner of youtube this is, but it feels like 1999.

[@pluviophilicselenophile111]

Everything you said hit home. Feel like this was recommended to me for a reason, thank you❤

[@reinster8746]

Wow everything you said is so true, feels like this is just for me. Especially when you said: "Unlearning is difficult, but it's essential for growth." My mind blew up. Its hard, and going through that time was rough, still going through it but way better, and I've genuinely became so much more knowledgeable about the world around me.

[@mario64DD]

your voice sounds so calming it’s UNREAL. like I’m listening to an old cassette tape it’s so..nostalgic

[@elecro-bolt1721]

The video makes me feel cozy but i can just read from her eyes she cried her eyes of before the start of this video, i hope xou okay girlie

[@gumisse]

this is probably the one time youtube actually recommends me something that I’m interested in. This was insightful, thank you for sharing!!

[@rajansangha8476]

Quite possibly one of the most human videos I’ve seen in a while. Thank you for sharing and creating community in this warm corner of the internet. Have a good one :)

[@Donut-0123]

From the bottom of my heart, thank you for sharing this. 🙏🏽♥️

[@Vsynnnnn]

This video looks like one of a movie scenes where the protagonist records herself in laptop camera talking some deep shit. Before the movie turns into most traumatic suspense thriller.

[@sofia-ju8pj]

LOL

[@kleom]

true🤣🤣

[@i_am_toki21]

There are many takeaways in this video. Every perspective inspires me a lot. As someone said, when you look back at this video in retrospect in the future, you must feel proud and your higher self feels a sense of accomplishment.

[@AbdullahKhan-y8x]

This should be in my recommended instead of MrBeast

[@onesyphorus]

its just as pretentious

[@charliegold3227]

This is unironically one of the best fyp I’ve ever had.

[@annoying_flower6415]

This kept popping up on my fyp for a week straight everytime i refresh,her words were needed

[@tjay4034]

Girl,u look so at peace and happy.Thank u for this video.Sending love 💕

[@Strwnterbearrytae]

You literally came as an angel to me rn. I needed to hear this like you dont want to know! I have been asking God for signs and i randomly get this video. I have been liking this guy since high school and i never got the courage to ask him out.. lord i had regrets! He is my dream guy.. I graduated and to my surprise he attends the same college as me. it’s my first year of college, but he is completely ignoring me and not letting me talk to him after i finally got the courage to talk to him as i am no longer a teenager.. it’s hard to move on from somebody, even though they aren’t worth your time. Sometimes it’s in your own hands if you want to spend your time crying and blaming yourself and who you choose to be with, is also up to you. Praying God is keeping you safe❤❤ Update; turns out he had a gf all this time but had the audacity to have wandering eyes and also to flirt? Some people are here for a lesson.

[@אוריה-בושי-לוין]

thank you so much for this. i’ve been going through a hard time after being hurt and discarded by those i let close to me, and am learning to let go of people who are no longer good for me. this video really helped me towards reconciling with this situation. i hope you have a lovely day :)

[@sudhindrakopalle7071]

Such a calm and serene monologue. Your faint smile at the end of every sentence and that mellow music in the background and the message itself is all wonderful!

[@antsalmon]

I love this!! I think it's a great thing to normalize reflecting on how our views change and the reasons for that change. Too often people get stuck into the idea that you form a belief/opinion and that's it. You stick with it and it never changes and it should never change. However, for most beliefs this isn't how things happen generally. Thank you for sharing your changes with us!!

[@zeezeewhy]

出淤泥而不染 is what comes to my mind when you talk about lotus. Great video

[@Daylynn02]

I really think this video was meant to find me. Been getting similar videos like this in my recommended, but this is the one that really spoke to me. I’m going through a tough time right now and so much of what you said resonates deeply with me. The first thing you mentioned about the lotus…that is my favorite flower, too, and my favorite quote is, “like a lotus flower, we, too, have the ability to rise from the mud, bloom out of the darkness, and radiate into the world.” You mentioning the mud feels like a message I forgot long ago. Similarly, I was thinking about “right person, wrong time” before you mentioned it, and found myself surprised when I heard you voice it. This is a phrase my ex used when breaking up with me. I think I was unfairly holding onto it, hoping he would come back. But I am finally letting go. I am finally accepting that I learned from that experience and that I do not want to go back to a situation that did not serve me. I am opening my heart to new opportunities for myself and focusing solely on my own wellbeing before trying to find what I’m missing in others. Thank you for this video. It makes me feel like I am on the right track.

[@dp12064]

This is really , like ur talk was magnetic and before i could have a thought i JUST STUNTED BY THE POINTS U DESCRIBED IN THE WHOLE VIDEO, AND yes “THE ONLY THING WHICH DOESNT CHANGE, IS CHANGE ITSELF””

[@hillarys.4738]

This video feels like a message sent on perfect timing, it’s just right

[@formerbklynite]

your voice is so calm omgg, the words you chose to speak were true.

[@acoldsweater]

w video, only one thing for me, the possibility of having that attachment is what's keeping me here, and I'm more than willing to change with that one person, everything else was so nice, thank you for uploading this

[@bananasaregreatforu709]

Been super obsessed with choosing the right path/ decision. Maybe because im afraid of failure, or probably just a coward? But, I also realize if i don't make risks, I can never learn.

[@emileguitar]

This was on my feed for a few weeks now, finally watched it, don't regret it

[@pioneer7855]

This is so true and it stems from buddhist and hindu philosophy tbh, i remember that everything here is temporary whenever i read the sutras and books like bg, thanks for this video on detachment

[@thyroft6448]

The belief in a Creator summarises all the truths she mentioned in her video, as it leaves you with a mindset free from materialistic thinking and clinging to problems and bitterness. I'd add the Quran as an example.

[@pioneer7855]

@@thyroft6448 yeah, that works as well, most religious and philosophical concepts always work towards removing oneself from materialism and hedonism tbf

[@Neyduu]

Hmm. How about reading the Bible?

[@pioneer7855]

@@Neyduu if you're going to suddenly proselytise me that's not going to work, I've agreed all books can be attributed to this way of thinking

[@Neyduu]

@@pioneer7855 It is not the matter of agreeing that all religions supports this idea, it is on if it speaks the TRUTH. The GENUINE truth. And I wonder, you did not bring on the fact that the other person was "trying to proselytize" after they recommended the Quran. Why are you on a defeat mode with the Bible? I simply asked a question and your instinct interpreted thus. Why?

[@Sashigu-]

I am so glad I didn’t refresh my page, this video is probably the best thing I’ve seen today ❤

[@parker-lol]

this made me cry for some reason. this is so sweet and i genuinely feel like i needed to hear so many of these things right now as i am seeing it. it reached me at the right time. thank you for making this video.

[@MasonHeaux]

idk who you are, but the youtube algorithm working in your favor lol. thank you for this message, being courageous enough to shed old beliefs and sharing your growth progress with the world to learn from. it’s people like you that are a beacon of light and inspire hope for others to learn from. congrats on your journey! 🎉🫂

[@ll97n]

i love your voice, and your words of course! it felt like a hug. tysm 💗

[@lluck]

thank you, it is weird how often i come across such videos during times in my life when things currently feel so uncertain and scary. hearing these sentences spoken to me out loud gave me an entirely new perspective as to dealing with the uncertainty in life. i'm only 21 years old, and that's quite young still, but it also means i find myself in difficult times due to mistakes i make as i continue to grow and learn. so thank you, its really refreshing to hear a different perspective and in such an elegant way put together.

[@greasymood03]

Hi friend, since I watched the full video I just wanted to say it feels like I am talking to a friend...its been a while I actually listen and watched a video without checking the timestamp and I guess I heard whatever I need to hear long time ago....I hurted alot of people that I love in the past...I blamed myself alot for it..and now it will be me finally moving on...thank you for the video...

[@danpandanpandan]

Hey. I wanted to tell you that this video has hit me with particular importance. I'm living a particular time of my life and I rarely encounter someone that shares the same perspective on things as I do. This video made me cry, completely wetting my face already from the few lines, because you've basically said everything I needed to hear and that I probably wouldn't have found elsewhere if not from inside me. Thanks for making me resonate with you for 3 minutes.

[@pluvvio]

i loved your previous video and now this one, the ambience, the lighting, the music and your voice. it's all so perfect and the way you articulate yourself/words is incredibly moving, thank you for sharing this ! :) im glad youtube recommended me your previous video & now this one

[@Kjckjckjc]

Yes! Totally agree and love that you're aware of it and intentional about how you live. And, reminder to also not be attached to these things you no longer believe in, because it's okay if one day you believe in them again though it may be brief❤

[@Joyginoo]

Awwe, Thank you so much for sharing to us parts of your self, it feels like you're walking us through your journal/ diary. This is so heartwarming and so touching, because, honestly, I have felt the same 🥹

[@Wallie-of9se]

Living is realizing everything is temporary and in the end you inevitably leave everything.

[@Zenith6000]

It's only about the journey and living with Christ.

[@RussMarion-il2lx]

@@Zenith6000Christ isn’t real. Sheepling.

[@Zenith6000]

@@RussMarion-il2lx maybe he's a fictional caracter you're right but the teaching he taught us is gold, like buddha.

[@RussMarion-il2lx]

@@Zenith6000 fair enough