adjusting to life in a new city (fighting loneliness, culture differences, exploring los angeles)

learning to adjust to a new city/environment
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[@daniboyd7963]

My brother, his Korean girlfriend & her Korean friends all live in LA, if you’re looking for friends…. I can pass their info along to you. They’re a great group of people who came from Korea and can relate to what you’re going through

[@khalilahd.]

She seems to be having so much fun in la I love it ❤

[@daniboyd7963]

@@khalilahd. She also said how lonely she was several times and I just wanted to offer some very nice people that can relate to her and could become very good friends to her…. We can never have too many friends

[@tamerebel]

@@khalilahd. did you watch the video at all?

[@inbetweenworlds]

@@khalilahd. You didn't comprehend the video. LOL

[@ninanegedu]

This comment is super sweet❤

[@melissa99031]

Appreciate your vulnerability! Im a psychology student and we learned that any adjustment (be it work, moving places, etc) takes about 6 months for us to adjust. So take your time and its normal to feel lonely in a new city! Big hugs from Malaysia@

[@daisyskippy4673]

When I moved to a new state by myself, Zumba, yoga and boga fitmat was how I met my closest friends. Try some classes, art, pottery, fitness classes or things you enjoy and you might find people who share similar interests. Good luck 😊❤

[@nyzzaalvarado2238]

Life can be really hard but we are always here for you mostly on your new journey. We believe in you and we support you along the way 🤗🫶

[@lieveponny]

Hi Kieun, I follow several vloggers. Most are Korean, I myself am not Korean and not American. I just wanted to say to you that of all the vloggers I watch I find you the most genuine and I appreciate that. Love your vlogs. Admitting to loneliness is brave, believe me: the world is full of lonely people. I have a son and a daughter, both live on their own in Europe. I am in South America. They often talk to me about the loneliness. It pains me as their mother. It shouldn’t be that way and all I can do for them is pray and keep encouraging them. Wishing you the best, you are loved by God. I will also pray for you. Lots of ❤

[@alangiles776]

You sound like a lovely, caring mother. Around 1 in 5 people in the UK live alone and sadly around 1 in 6 people don't see anyone except the postman from one week to the next. It's a shame society is going this way. ☹️

[@rosy8329]

You are so kind❤❤❤

[@Devana_Banana]

Moving to another country is never easy~ it's a big change!! Give yourself time to adjust and maybe try to plan fun things to meet new people and get you out if the house!! Enjoyed this vlog😇

[@khalilahd.]

Agreed but I’m so happy she’s doing well

[@inbetweenworlds]

@@khalilahd. STOP gaslighting and patronizing.

[@hannahippo]

Hey Kieun! My husband and I just moved to LA from Chicago back in July. I totally relate to you on the loneliness that settles in after the initial excitement/stress of moving. If you ever want a buddy to explore K-town or any neighborhoods with, I'm down! It can be hard making friends here so I understand the mental battle with initiating and putting yourself out there.

[@annikasleaf]

hi kieun! loved hang w you in LA sometime, good luck with getting settled in 🤍

[@innakomoshvili7897]

Hi Kieun! I experienced the same when I came back to my hometown after living in another country for a while. It was so weird, it seemed to me like everyone even spoke a different language, everything looked so different and I felt so lonely. But please, cheer up! Remember that adjusting to a new place is not a new thing for you, you've already done that perfectly in Korea. I'm really shocked how you managed to set up all that furniture alone! 🙂 Go out as much as you can, call your parents and friends to feel their love, and make more videos for us 🤗 You know sometimes we are looking forward to having a rest and when we actually have some free time we don't know what to do with it :) You'll be ok, it just takes a little time❤ (Sorry for such a long comment😊)

[@haseena1001]

Hi Kieun 🌸 - You are doing so well, and be kind to yourself. It is great that you are self-aware and are taking the actions you need to, it will take time to adjust and adapt. I am sure you will build a supportive community in LA and connect with like-minded creators and people in general. Wishing you all the very best, you got this! Stay safe and well 💖👑

[@lizetteavila4415]

Hey Kieun! If you are ever feeling lonely you should always ask your supporters to hang out!! Its always great to hang out with Happy People!!

[@mocochinchi_love]

Yess you got this! It took me about 6 months to like LA. The vibes were definitely off at the beginning. Girl, let’s hang out! I’m a dentist but in between jobs so am fighting the slump as all my friends are at work. I love being a tourist in the city I live in, and am so excited to see LA through your eyes/camera! The Angelinos will appreciate your kind eye on their city. :) Thank you!

[@Katysgrotto]

I'm also currently going through this phase of extreme loneliness at certain times and it does make you feel like just out of it. But, what I do is just reflect on the fact that we live in only one small planet out of million's and so we should always strive to be happy even if not much so much is going on in our lives and even if we don't socialize with a lot of people. It's okay to be not be okay sometimes, we are only human after all. Change is always good and we won't like every change sometimes, but at least you got to experience it and learned something from it. Sending you good love and energy!

[@Kayleena]

Wow, this whole vlog reminds me so much of when I moved alone to Miami in 2017. Everything you said about feeling alone, culture change, not leaving your couch, thriving by being busy yet no longer being busy, and even more lonely after a party - lol, I can realte so much too it all 🤍 So I have to say it, it is totally normal and all apart of the journey, especially so when doing it alone, and even more especially so when in a different cultural setting. The best part of it is that no matter how uneasy and lonely it is at times, it truly forces you to connect even deeper with yourself and you become your best friend on a whole other level. I met so many other girls in a similar situation later on who felt this as well. Although I will say, when I moved to Paris, also alone, 2.5 years later I didn't feel any of this. I was immediately (and still am) on cloud nine living in France. However, I think my experience in Miami is what molded and led me to being able to appreciate such a good fit logistically, culturally, and career wise for myself. It all pans out and has a reason in the end. You're doing great babe and will continue to do so, I can tell 🤍🤍

[@mmiakim]

starting a new chapter of your life is always the most daunting and sometimes loneliest part. i know how it feels to feel so busy or go from being busy, to spending evenings alone and wishing you had someone with you. it'll take time to adjust, but i think you should use this time to spend more time enjoying yourself and having fun with what you have :)) we'll always be here for you too!!

[@amehnh]

Kieun, remember to be kind to and patient with yourself throughout this process! Moving to LA from Korea is such a big change so it makes sense that you’re feeling this way - allow yourself time to adjust to your new environment + culture. I’m sure you’ll find your groove once you acclimate :) sending lots of love 🫶

[@ClaUDiishmoO]

In time as you settle hopefully the loneliness will pass. Any adjustment takes time. So go easy on yourself. In your moments of stillness, try to focus on your reasons for being there and what motivated you to take that step. Let those be the positive things that help you power through the down times till you feel yourself click back into a good space. All the best!

[@rose.carter]

I can relate to how you feel being lonely after moving, I felt the same way for a few weeks when I studied abroad in France. I went alone and didn’t know anyone so I felt kind of lost at first! But over time you will adjust and meet people ❤ Have you ever tried Bumble BFF? you can match with other girls in the area and plan a meet up or something! I’ve noticed a lot of people on there are people who have recently moved too. I also know how you feel feeling awkward vlogging in public 😫 I started making vlogs bc I’ve always loved watching them, but I feel like an idiot haha I live in a small city that’s not a touristy place so I feel like I stand out a lot when I vlog in public 🙈

[@Chloe-cl7ek]

Omg thank you so much for mention Bumble bff, I moved to US with my husband and am struggling looking for new girl friends. I have been feeling lonely and thinking there must be some app like tinder for making friends. I want to make vlog too lol but the awkwardness stopped me.

[@rose.carter]

​@@Chloe-cl7ek Yess I've tried it out a few times and met some nice girls!! It's so hard to meet new people and make friends once you're out of college lol And you should do it! I regret not starting to make videos sooner when I was younger and had a more flexible schedule and more opportunities to travel. I'm slowly getting over the awkwardness haha

[@jesss218]

@@Chloe-cl7ek i am moving to the US with my husband next year and am soo nervous about this! however my friend told me bumble bff works well in the US :)

[@cherriestwinnies]

Glad to see that you enjoy America! We are from Switzerland and vlog in Korean, so we totally understand the fact that it's more comfortable when people don't really understand you vlogging. Anyways, we just started our channel, and we are so glad we can get inspired by other youtubers like you ! Much love from Korean Swiss Twins 🎀

[@khalilahd.]

Wow that’s amazing! I vlog in NYC 🗽 so I get it too 😅

[@tamerebel]

I'm also living in Switzerland, I'll check out your channel!

[@itsnikilee]

Congrats on your move! I recently moved to Europe temporarily and totally understand how it feels not knowing anyone. Excited to join you on your new journey! ❤️

[@TineruHarlem]

I really recently went through a breakup and will be living alone. Watching your videos help me stay positive and optimistic about it being fun and an experience to grow! And hearing you talking about loneliness helps me feel less alone! Thank you for sharing your life and feelings Kieun! ❤

[@sakkvowhite6526]

Thank you for making these videos about “hard stuff” 😅 I’m too going through some rough times but your videos help me to get my mind of it for some time. I believe that every cloud has a silver lining, so good thing soon will come to our lives ❤ you make me feel batter thank you so much!

[@danieladamson4726]

Hey Kieun! Have been watching your vlogs for a long time. I appreciate your honesty. God is with you in this season 😊.

[@karli4074]

also can i say that it’s worth considering that your body may have needed some rest! i had a long period of rest when i quit my full time job and something felt ~wrong~ with it somehow but really i realized i needed it so badly !

[@mizzKist]

I'm so rooting for you ~~ think it's always tough moving to a new city where you barely know anyone, especially coming from a different country altogether!! but hopefully you allow yourself to just settle in, focus on just feeling when is right to go around, and also learn more about yourself along the way ~ I'm living in LA as well and it does get lonely sometimes :( but growing pains make us stronger & wiser in the end ~~ sending you lots of hugs!!

[@tiffanygroot1725]

Sending you a big hug!! 🙌💗 hope you'll feel a bit settled in soon. Be kind to yourself, changes can always be hard.

[@shanettetillis]

Stay encouraged Kieun...you will adjust sooner than you think. I think that you are still familiar with American culture because you were raised her...It's just that reality that you are in a new state with no connections at the moment, but with your bubbly personality, you will meet some great people sooner or later. Just keep moving, going places and getting out your comfort zone. It takes a few months to get comfortable anywhere you go. I am praying and rooting for you beautiful lady. Blessings!!!

[@markp3734]

My tip for moving to a new city and not having any friends, one of the best things to do is join some clubs like a book club things like that or even a gym. You have a great personality and shouldn't have any problem finding new people to hang out with.

[@noac_]

I totally get that feeling after an event! I think it's just the drastic change from having lots of people around you to almost no one. It'll take time to meet people for sure. You got it kieun :D

[@AnaCW]

Don’t fight loneliness, embrace it! Is the only way to fully grow and come out to the other side sane and healed. Loneliness can be full of wisdom and love. ❤ I left my birth country 17 years ago and came to a new culture and STILL don’t have many many friends BUT I learned how to enjoy myself so much that to be with me a person needs to be so so so worth it heheheh we should normalise small groups, being alone and see as a positive and a great opportunity for knowing ourselves deeply. Falling in love with myself was the key to “endure” life hardships. At the end of the day we only have ourselves, really 😘 much love xx

[@AM-tn8hf]

Hi Kieun, it is so brave that you are being open about the struggles and loneliness of moving to a new city. Even if it's exciting to try something or somewhere new, it's okay to have times when it feels the opposite of fun - that is an experience that so many people have - you are not alone in feeling that way. No doubt you'll find your groove and settle in sooner than you think, but if you don't and you decide that LA isn't for you, that's okay too - that's part of trying it out. Wishing you all the best, your vlogs are wonderful!

[@khalilahd.]

Moving is never easy so I understand the slump! I vlog in NYC and it can get really hard to push yourself to vlog In public but I know that if you ease yourself into it it will get better ❤

[@B_is_for_butter]

A few suggestions: - place the bottom of the cups under really hot water and that will dissolve the adhesive - A few resources for meeting people are bumble BFF, meet up and checking out a local Korean cultural Center- you can typically find them by googling places that offer Korean lessons.

[@Clevergirl09]

I just discovered your channel and it's such a joy to watch. I'm sorry to hear your feeling lonely but it sounds like a huge transition and sometimes during times like this we can find out things about ourselves we never knew. Sending you positive vibes from NY!

[@9oeil]

I’m glad that you’re opening up to us about these kinds of things because it makes you really relatable. It also reminds us that life indeed isn’t all rainbows and butterflies like what other content creators/influencers make it seem to be. Despite that, I’m wishing you all the best along each step of your new journey!

[@hmwj]

aw let’s be LA friends 🥺 moving and adjusting is so so hard!! even a 4 min walk of move took me a while to settle, i can only imagine moving countries into a place that’s unfamiliar physically, culturally, and socially. what you’re feeling is totally normal and valid. it’s okay to be gentle with yourself as you transition into such a big change in your life. rest and eat out as much as you need, it’s totally part of the process! it will get better as it starts to feel less foreign. we’ll be here to support you as you find that grounding! ❤

[@maychristinefrancisco3250]

My dearest Kieun, The genuineness and the struggle of living into a different city and country is REAL so embrace it and take time to process everything. You’ll get through it as I also did from living in Korea for almost a decade and deciding to come back to the Philippines. 😅 I felt like I had a reverse culture shock and seeing you now made me realize that all those feelings were okay cus I was not alone. So cheer up girl!!! You’ll be fine. 🥰🥰🥰 Still with you with this journey. I love you to pieces. ❤️❤️❤️

[@marcelynreyes3714]

Hey, Kieun! Welcome to LA! Btw, that park you found was Pershing Square. I believe, if you chose to live in Koreatown, you might have a higher chance of feeling a bit at ease. You also might want to try taking public transportations, they helped me become a local here in LA. Thank you for your vlogs, they’re so calming. Hope to see more food and museums, those are the great things about the city.

[@joeninabaldo4423]

Cheer up, pretty♥️ We, your subscribers, are always here for you. We know that you can pass through that adjusting phase soon. Keep safe there! Fighting!

[@rutujashinde5015]

I get you girl ! I have been living since 1 year in the US alone and the culture is very different than asian countries. Its lonely, depressing at times. But thang in there ! It is a opportunity for you to grow and work on your inner self and peace. You will do great !

[@Eating91690]

Oh wow I felt the same way before. When I left a party and immediately felt lonely afterwards! You are not alone Kieun! Itwill get better once you figure out a routine that works for you! You got this! ❤

[@lche7797]

Kieun, if you ever do a cafe hopping vlog in SoCal, I definitely recommend Old Town Monrovia. It has a variety of Asian and American cafe with small town vibes and definitely safe to walk around. I loved just walking around there when I was in LA. But what sucks about cafes in America that's different from Korea is that everything is not always within walking distance. Don't give up. We're always here to support you!

[@nim5095]

Yeyyyyy I've been so excited to see your new video..🌌 So happy to see you Kieun 🤗 So proud of you💐🌺🌸🌼❤

[@camiicam2]

Hey girl, I just wanted to thank you for what you do because your vlogs literally make my days, I'm feeling really stressed because of college right now and your videos are my safe place Watching one of your vlogs every night makes me feel just way better so thank you so much for your hard work I know that you're going through kind of a hard time right now with moving and all that but I know that the future holds such great things for you😌 Love you so much Kieun❤

[@JenniferYang]

just found your channel and have been watching more of your vlogs! I personally haven't experienced a huge change like this yet but I can imagine how much doing all this would take a toll on you but I just wanted to say that you did it and you're def doing better than you think! trust that everything will find it's time and place in terms of friends, etc.!

[@poppycalliope]

A new beginning can be quite difficult! But I know everything will go smoothly Kieun and soon you will meet new people and enjoy your time in LA more! 💕

[@beautyunboxed530]

I am so sorry to see you are feeling lonely, but so glad you are sharing this as its a good step to deal with it and doing something about it. And the segments with the flowers falling off and you showing your fridge where comedy gold! It make me actually chuckle.😂

[@fleurishes35mm]

Your fridge looks gigantic 🙃 Remember you've made a huge life-changing move, and it's all a work in progress. Be easy on yourself ❤

[@trangdangkhanhvu8712]

Hi Kieun - I can totally relate to you about this loneliness feeling. I've been living in America for almost 10 years now, and I still feel that from time to time. I think what's missing in your "adjusting to a new city" is the Asian aspect. I work in advertising, which is a very white-male-dominant industry - there aren't many Asians in my company either. But lucky for me, we have an ERG group called API, and that's when I started to feel a little more comfortable working here. So even though everyone in my team are Caucassian, I have people that I know can feel related to me and my experience, and that I can talk to when I'm struggling. I hope you can find someone who maybe also do KZbin or maybe recently moved to America from Asia as well.

[@virtuallyveronicka]

Beautiful mirror, I love your decor style! Eucalyptus essential oil will remove sticker residue and a dash of aloe vera gel will perk up wilted flowers. Just take the transition one day at a time. It takes a little bit to make friends and find your favorite places. Explore a little more each day. Wishing you all the happiness in your new adventure!!

[@marthaliasiauw8153]

Hi Kieun, just wanna say if you are feeling lonely..just remember that you have us as your subscriber...adapting to a new country never been easy at first but i believe you can pass it as i felt it too..fightinggggg!!!🤗🤗🤗

[@garyc4821]

Take care and good luck! Always remember that there are people in the world who love you and will always support you.

[@mariej3890]

Hi Kieun ! I totally understand your feelings. I left my homeland 5 years ago. I am happy but I still struggle to meet people with whom I can really connect with as friends. And I feel like I am not as comfortable with others as I was at 23 when I arrived in the country. It can be very tiring to start over and over again. Maybe you can start group classes/activities, I know that some groups exists on Facebook also. Try not to compare the 2 countries too much because you won't find the same qualities (I think that we often glorify what we left or what we don't have). But maybe you will find other qualities 😊. Because it is a "test" year, you have nothing to lose, you should enjoy it and try something new ! Anyway, I love your videos and hope you will feel better.

[@amyhuynh8151]

Hey Kieun, its definitely normal to get into a slump when you make a big move like that. I moved from the east coast to LA by myself so I totally get it. You just gotta put yourself. I would totally meet up with you!

[@_unsteady]

Dear Kieun, I always admired how you travelled long distances all by yourself, explored different areas/cities, went to restaurants and cafes by yourself, how you seemed 100% confident and able to have a wonderful time without the need of a companion (of course, you were always more than happy to be accompanied by friends). Not having friends available whilst wanting to explore and experience, is the case for many people. Not many are mentally able to enjoy their own company and try new things, the way you do. You inspire so many people to pursue their wishes. I see you as a powerful individual that radiates positive energy and bliss. Take care X

[@MsLindaLee66]

With time and some patience you'll make new friends and create new memories. California life is definitely different. I'll be watching the next 12 months to see how your progress goes. You got this! ❤

[@sandraahn7466]

Invest in a car! Drive to PCH and enjoy the beach views! Koreatown in DTLA also is a hot scene for korean food and good vibes. There’s also the really famous Hollywood hike if you like hiking. Once your current lease ends, move to the west coast for cooler weather (i.e santa monica, marina del rey, etc.) Coming from a LA baby myself :)

[@booksl203998]

Transition periods are always hard at first and it sometimes takes time to find your people but trust that you will and this alone time won’t last forever. You may look back on this period in your life and be grateful for all that time to yourself ❤ I’m praying for you and always wishing you well. You can get through this! We love and believe in you !!

[@joanna.pytelx]

Really loved the vlog! Honestly, when you said you're moving to the US I was worried that your content will bore me but even though I know I will be missing the cafes and overall entertainment scene of Korea, I really like how now you're shifting into a more personal "theme". I felt like earlier there wasn't much conversation included and I really hope that soon you will be able to tell us about positive things, but rn I'm really happy you're not trying to make ur life look perfect. Beginnings are always hard, I can relate to your feelings sm (and also about moving back to my country), but you've just come back so don't get discouraged. Try to put yourself out there as much as you can, you have an amazing personality so I'm sure you'll be able to meet a lot of good people! I'd say from my experience that it is pretty easy to make friends through Instagram - I usually just search up tags in a certain city (like #losangelescafe or the same thing but in Korean ^^) - you can find a lot of content creators this way and then just answer to their stories like "oh I've been wanting to go to this cafe too. Is it good?" or try going to some events like painting classes, yoga, photography etc where you can meet people :) I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you, I'm sure that it will get better in no time and even if you end up not loving it, there are still nearly 200 countries in this world :) Don't pressure yourself about "getting your life together" in LA, just focus on enjoying your daily life. Love! x

[@RandomPerson1]

Really appreciate the rawness of your vlogs! Your feelings are completely valid moving to a new and unknown place. Wishing you the best, Kieun!

[@erikplayz6244]

Hi Kieun, have you thought about moving to another area of L.A such as West L.A? I think you may like the more vibrant scene and the cafes/stores that are in West Hollywood. Downtown L.A is thriving, in some areas, but you definitely need a car to get around. Walking isn't very safe. I think that the West side of Los Angeles may bring you some more entertainment and perhaps the vibe that you need to adjust to life in Los Angeles.

[@megalina111]

Crazy how I just recently moved to Korea and have been feeling so many of the same feelings. I really thought it was just me, glad it’s not. We gonna get through it 🙂💪💗

[@annapavlova5919]

Hello! Things will get better! For sure!!

[@sonia4313]

Went from school + work and feeling like I knew exactly what I wanted in life to going through 7month of unemployment after school because they wound not hire juniors went through literally an existancial crisis and the feeling of loneliness and don’t know where I wanna go with my life so i can relate to this so much,be proud because you actually act on what you want which is already such a brave move ! For me still haven’t found the solution except trying to move on with life and not letting this rule you, sending you hearts from here ❤️

[@shelbykiel9096]

I love your intros, I think it’s super cool the way you have it set up! Sending love from the Midwest ❤

[@ilouise3718]

Just to say I think you mean that you’re a ‘busy bee’ which is someone who’s busy and always doing things 😊 a ‘busy body’ is someone who is nosy and interferes with other people!

[@monicameza8944]

Changes come with challenges , and you are doing an awesome job. Your style , your pace . Good job 👍. You could try checking out for local events and seeing which ones interest you and try vlogging there. I love your channel anything you vlog has your style and we are here for it . Thank you for your hard work . The apartment is looking sleek and modern , cool .

[@crazybotches236]

Only up from here Kieun!! 🤩🤩 In a year from now we’ll be watching your LA vlogs of you traveling with friends to beautiful places, going to cool influencer events, collaborating with your dream companies and maybe there will even be someone special in your life and then we’ll come back to this vlog and be like man… life huh haha

[@joanmackenzie3668]

Everywhere looks so calm, empty and peaceful (even your apartment complex) compared to the hustle, bustle and noise of korea. It looks heavenly to me! I crave that kind of calm! I’m sure you’ll get settled and feel at home soon ❤️

[@fuzzeetiggie]

Girl, totally get it. I'm originally from California, moved away for a couple years, moved back and it was still hard to readjust. It's also especially hard if you're living alone in a new place and have totally felt those feelings of loneliness before. I'm in San Diego now but considering moving to LA in the next year or so. Good luck, you're not alone! 💕

[@aleksandrakrawczyk2507]

Hi Kieun! 🌼Since I discovered your channel you became my favourite KZbinr and it is heartbreaking to see that you're having a stressful time! I'm sure it will get better soon and you will enjoy your life in LA 100%! 💕Please, stay safe and healthy! 💕 Can't wait to see more of your journey! 🌼❤

[@candaces7916]

If you blast stickers with a hair dryer on the warm setting the glue will melt a bit and you can peel it off super easily😁 no residue!!

[@robynaboverubiesorpearls]

Welcome to L.A. 👋🏽🙂 It will get chilly around December/January, and sometimes as early as November. ☀️

[@lucialapina9273]

Couple of years ago, I moved from a small country in Europe to Brooklyn for a year. Wanted to stay longer but I couldn't, I was so lonely. I couldn't find friends which were a good fit for me even the city so full of people. Everyone there felt so distant and different from what I was used to. I still have nice memories and would never regret either going there or also coming back home. I'm wishing you to perfectly settle down and finding hobbies and eventualy new friends. 💕 You deserve it! And there's no shame wanting to move closer to your family or back to Korea! You can do whatever your heart desires!

[@dianaonde6942]

I understand how you feel, from a very busy person into an Independent Woman who starts her new journey in LA. But, I know it's just the first step☺️ you will enjoy soon.. Living alone and to meet new People. I wanna give you a Hug🤗 Love you♥️♥️

[@thai8020]

Moving by yourself to a brand new city and apartment is super brave!! I did it and know how stressful it be. I couldn’t even assemble my own furniture though, I had to hire people to do it all! Your new apartment looks awesome. While it’s hard, you are so strong and can get through and settle in!! Sending you much love❤

[@juliek6278]

You are doing so well! Don’t be so hard on yourself, you have had to organise ur apartment and are in a new city. Take it as an exciting adventure. I love your vlogs and living vicariously through all your cafe hopping and delicious food ❤

[@TheKeystoMusic]

Sending you so much love as you navigate this new chapter of your life. Being busy can sometimes also mean we’re being distracted. Learning to enjoy the slow moments is hard, but so worth it. 🤞🏽

[@ritatouilles00]

Kieun, I'm also going through those many emotions. I'm in Paris for a masters and the city is amazing, but finding a place with my budget has been stressful. I also feel very lonely most days. In Brazil I studied and worked and here I will study but only have classes 2x a week... I feel kinda useless sometimes. Hope these feelings will go away soon and we'll find ourselves friends and places to call ours in these new cities. Thank you so much for sharing these moments even though they might not be easy.

[@audrajosephine2437]

Don’t be so hard on yourself, it’s going to take time! Even moving cities in the same country can be an adjustment. I recently moved only 6 hours away from a place I’d been living for 10 years and I’m now coming up on my 6th months of living here and I’m barely adjusting. I’m only 2 hours south of you, although we’ve never met I would be down to explore LA! I was also thinking maybe you could do some more vlogs with your subscribers in LA and while that might only be a temporary bandaid on loneliness it might help. You could also find a part time job to try and meet people. Just hang in there and I’m sending hugs ❤️❤️

[@monikapytel]

I lived in 4 countries, including Korea and when I moved to Spain I thought it would be a great idea but irl I felt totally lonely and because the place was not my vibe, the people weren't too (in Europe each country has its' own vibe so people tend to choose the place to live by - ofc job opportunities but also - their hobbies and their own "vibe") and it made me realized that I need to move to Korea cause I knew it would "match me". I'm sure you didn't choose LA for no reason so you will surely find people that will make you feel at home. Remember that it takes time to get used to any change. I remember my best friend moving to Budapest, she liked the city but wanted to go home cause she felt lonely but after just a few weeks made some close friends and it became the best experience possible. From my own experience if there is any advice that I can give it reach out to others. It might seem a bit funny to say but if 180K people on the internet find you cool and want to watch your videos each week I'm sure there will be people who will want to hang out with you (such as other creators)

[@izzywoods794]

Can i ask how you lived in 4 countries? I’d like to move around for a bit too after law school but i’m not really sure how

[@monikapytel]

@@izzywoods794 I live in the EU so I wouldn't say it's smt uncommon here hmm. I lived in Spain and Korea as I did a student exchange there, also lived in the NL (I feel like I can say that as it's been like 4 months in full) bc of a summer job. and obv Poland which is where I was born. If you're not from EU I think I cannot help much :(

[@Jajajajaajjaja]

Hey Kieun! , I also moved from Singapore to CA 3 years ago so I totally know how you feel. It’s going to get better :) Getting yourself out there to meet new people eg events, exercise classes, messages other mutual connections in LA etc definitely helps. Stay strong girl!

[@christinasalim7259]

Dear Kieun, sending hugs to you🤗, hope you are okay. I’ve been following your journey from Korea to LA. You are the bravest girl that I know, it is very tough moving to the new city alone. I admired your spirit and installing all those furnitures by yourself is 👍🏻👍🏻 Hope your family can talk to you more to fight the loneliness, God will have His way to make everything better❤

[@danning.liao9]

Thank you for being so honest and raw with us.. I can definitely relate to your feeling of loneliness as I’ve moved so many times on my own to different cities/countries. You can do it! We are all here for you, take it slow and allow yourself to feel, but try to find motivation to be more social. Love you and hope to see another video from you soon with a happier vibe!! ❤

[@ninanegedu]

The bookstore is absolutely beautiful 😍

[@luciavelez4279]

I love your videos!!! No matte in what country you are. You wil make new friends soon! Enjoy your time alone right now!

[@camilafigueroa2019]

many good things are coming, so happy for you!!!

[@KieunChoi]

thanks camila!! 💛

[@DeeMontezx1]

I watch a whole lot of Korean KZbinrs who live in Korea and I love them but watching someone from here in L.A. is also so very cool and exciting because I can actually try a lot of the restaurants and places you visit! How wonderful! You are such a lovely person and you are pretty as can be! Looking forward to catching up on your videos! : )

[@gbfgs]

Hi Kieun! While watching this vlog I related a lot to your emotions and thought process. I only lived in Korea for a year, but the adjustment to life in Seoul was so smooth and my daily life was just continually active and social. When I moved back to LA, I felt like my social skills completely dissipated. It felt weird to contact friends I hadn’t spoken to in over a year, and even American culture and humor felt off. In the first two weeks being back, I literally had 10+ people come up to me and asking where I was from because they thought I had an accent. Honestly, the entire transition was really difficult, and although it’s become more comfortable living here, I still feel like I haven’t totally adjusted. I hope you’re able to find your way here though, and even if LA isn’t the permanent place for you, hopefully you can view this as a learning experience full of growth in your life! Just give it a little time :) btw, you’re doing a great job decorating your home, it’s so aesthetic and pretty

[@_solstice_]

Ah I recently visited LA and wanted to see the last bookstore but wasnt able to its my goal next visit thanks for including it and i hope you dont feel so out of place la is one of the most laid back places most people dont mind others so much and are more than willing to help with directions or small kindnesses so try not to feel uncomfortable vlogging or just being at home but be careful walking around as well especially at night ooh and water always have water the desert is very hot in a second you can be hot

[@anneemmanuellerecto5302]

Hi Kieun! I feel the same way as you are. It has been my 3 months at work and i haven't made any friends yet. Btw, when you are having a hard time with removing prices on your new vases, you could use a dishwashing soap and water -- It will do the trick! ;) God bless you always. I am happy for you!

[@fabianalustenberger459]

I love your videos, I wish you will find joy in this new place. Thank you also to share it, I'm sure there are so many people feeling the same. All the best wishes to you🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@debbieborrie4322]

U are so brave moving to new city's love watching your blogs

[@annasmith3109]

I moved to a city once where I didn't know a soul. That was the loneliest I've ever felt in my life! I realized at one point I'd gone like weeks and weeks without touching another human - no hugs, or anything! Even after 3 years, it never really felt like home. I did, however, eventually make some lifelong friends :) It just took time. Now I live somewhere better suited to me.

[@jimpark9253]

Dunno if you've ever visited LA at length before but Koreatown is always hopping. Alhambra/Monterey Park/San Gabriel for Chinese food/dimsum. Take a hike in Griffith Park. Lots of AAPI networking events in the DTLA area. Newport Beach/Laguna Beach are great to escape and catch your breath. And that concludes the itinerary ideas.

[@shandriablackmon5684]

@kieunchoi I actually just moved back to LA last month because I went back home for 10months But I’ve lived here about 6 years prior to move. I know many ppl have offered to hang out and it’s probably weird because you don’t know any of us lol! But I’m here as well if you want to hang! Just know it will get better as you meet people and learn more about the city. 😊

[@MarieSerdy]

Thank you so much for putting prices. For some strange reason I am really interested to know how much food costs in other countries :) Have a good time in America, hope you will be happy there!

[@vashtialeegrae3331]

helloo pretty! i hope y'll get us along with your moving vlog and updates. ily!

[@chazziechill]

Relate to this so much. I just moved to a new place and its only been less than 2 weeks since i moved here. Its my first time in my life to live alone. It feels lonely and uncomfortable to do a lot of new things in a new town. But as for now, i feel also lucky coz people were nice and helpful to me. I hope i can adjust here soon.

[@izzywoods794]

This is the most precious comment section i’ve ever seen!