Adopted Radio Host Discovers Truth Behind Family Secrets

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Life with Dr. Trish Varner

Life with Dr. Trish Varner

Күн бұрын

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@QueenGail
@QueenGail 2 жыл бұрын
Looking back to the 60's a lot of OLD men would violate young girls and nothing happened to them, but everyone talked bad about the girl. I remember a neighbor girl who was pregnant at 11 and everyone blamed her and not the adults.
@LifewithDrTrishVarner
@LifewithDrTrishVarner 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad how even today girls get blamed for stuff like that.
@georgina4874
@georgina4874 2 жыл бұрын
How could you blame a child. Some people are so stupid. Those were some crazy times.
@lyetaherb4703
@lyetaherb4703 2 жыл бұрын
@@georgina4874 Girl it always been like that. You have to fight for your virginity to keep it. Otherwise somebody will come when u least expect it and snatch it away. In a blink of an eye. People need to teach their children life ain't no damn game outside in the street. Protect your crotches.
@darleneburns4093
@darleneburns4093 2 жыл бұрын
@@LifewithDrTrishVarner So very true. When I hear these stories in the time we live in today it grieves my spirit and these stories never go away. At 58 yrs old I decided 6 months ago to start confronting my story of abuse because it has always confronted me mentally from eight years old on I was being sexual abused. When I spoke up back then everything was hush up. Never to talk about and that caused so many issues for my life. I started writing to myself about my self to start healing recently in a way that I never had. Years later I confronted my mother if my father was my biological father because all my life I was told I act and looked different in some ways than my siblings. As a child I looked more like my uncle, my father's fraternal twin. She passed away and never told me the truth. I got an answer from a relative not very long ago and it was said that my father's twin may be my uncle. I just decided to do a DNA test to ease my mind. I just hope people will keep things real and leave no secrets untold about their children's identity. I wouldn't want what happen to me happen to any one.... I need to know who I really am by unlocking my family secrets. Thank you for this posting it has truely inspired me today.
@jaimetenorio7772
@jaimetenorio7772 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my God am sorry to all girls and boys the goin true this situation stay strong 💪🙏 All you guys and please talk to someone about it if something happens to anyone please talk talk
@Lavender-doll
@Lavender-doll 2 жыл бұрын
I was adopted at 3 months old. I stayed briefly at the Spence-Chaplin home in NYC. I was raised by the most phenomenal parents. I had two brothers, conceived after the adoption. I was told at age 8 about the adoption. It never phased me. My parents loved me unconditionally. Not only dearly loved, but given many material items and fantastic vacations. I was not perfect, but finished college and taught school in NJ and AZ My curiosity got the best of me in my 20s. I joined an adoption search group in NYC. I lived in NJ. Even though it was pre computer time, I search and found biological father and later biological mother. Very interesting search….would take too long to explain it. I love genealogy and have to use my blood line. Fascinating discoveries with DNA etc. Bottom line….adoption was the best route and my Mom and Dad who raised me are my only parents. Not exactly, but exactly….I would have had a terrible life if the Lord had not put me with my loving parents. Thank you for your series. They are home in glory, Dad lived to be a pretty healthy 99 year old. Mom passed at 84. Thank you and the wonderful gentleman for his story. I can relate. When I heard his story tears swelled up in my eyes.
@gwilson783
@gwilson783 2 жыл бұрын
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@nreynolds75243
@nreynolds75243 Жыл бұрын
You have such a great attitude. Your parents are the ones who raise and love you.
@Jenjen-qc5eq
@Jenjen-qc5eq Жыл бұрын
He is smiling all through this interview shows that he and his sister were loved by their adopted parents, and his biological mother loved him too.🙂
@carolynsteele1465
@carolynsteele1465 Жыл бұрын
One problem in families was that everyone told the girls to keep their dresses down, but they seldom told the boys to keep their pants up. The old sayings, "Boys will be boys" and "A man is going to be a man" must have made some feel that they had privileges to misbehave.
@Solutions3000
@Solutions3000 Жыл бұрын
I wish there were multiple thumbs up 👍 options, for your comment.
@laladawn1975able
@laladawn1975able 2 жыл бұрын
This brother is a legend in radio here in Cincinnati. Thank you for sharing his story. Steven you should consider a writing a book. It would be a best seller. We love you Fred E Redd!!!
@JANN-JAPAN
@JANN-JAPAN 2 жыл бұрын
What a lovely man and with a wonderful way of telling his story. My father was adopted out when he was 5-7 years old. Sadly, his experience wasn’t so good. I learned a lot trying to help him get a birth certificate so he could get a passport. In his later years, he was reunited with some siblings. But, that raised different issues and more pain. My (Caucasian) brother and sister in law adopted a biracial child. I don’t know if they were told she was biracial. They raised her as their child. A child that was loved and treasured. When at some point, she contacted her bio parents, she learned that she was biracial. It shook her world.
@LifewithDrTrishVarner
@LifewithDrTrishVarner 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Thank you for sharing!
@cjwallace4559
@cjwallace4559 2 жыл бұрын
Tell the Truth...
@sharrellwyatt5850
@sharrellwyatt5850 6 ай бұрын
Hmmm
@fayevids7391
@fayevids7391 2 жыл бұрын
He respects his loving parents to the very end.
@LivingEmpoweredToday
@LivingEmpoweredToday 2 жыл бұрын
I too am a mixed race and was adopted. It was illegal for white women to have mixed children in 1960 in Michigan. Me and all my siblings were put up for adoption by the state, all 10 of us. I found a Sister last year through DNA and our deceased parents. Seems our Father was passing, so I popped out brown and uncovered that secret they're still covering up today🤦🏽‍♀️ An amazing unfolding story every day. His story is very similar. Thank you for sharing his story!
@Anna-rk5cn
@Anna-rk5cn 2 жыл бұрын
Wow; my white mother had my brother in 1965 in Ohio. My mom had my brother at the same hospital that Freddy Redd was born. We too are biracial.
@rita4missions
@rita4missions 2 жыл бұрын
What a story, 10 of you all adopted. I came to the States in the 70', went down south with my African American husband. I had 3 children with him and life was not easy for sure with a bunch of prejudice racist people. I always stood my ground and kept my head up high.
@lyetaherb4703
@lyetaherb4703 2 жыл бұрын
How do u hide making 10 children? No. They were jealous of your parents staying afloat during making all those children. So they decided to strip their family apart. They couldn't understand how they feed all them mouths and still stay afloat. Amazing story about your life.
@reinamacaren-a4132
@reinamacaren-a4132 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a great book in the making😘
@thentheresthis8235
@thentheresthis8235 2 жыл бұрын
I’m looking for my brother.. we are from Michigan. I can’t find him
@SisterSherryDoingStuff
@SisterSherryDoingStuff 2 жыл бұрын
As a adoptee - and the mother of a biracial (black) son...this is fascinating on so many levels. With all the research I've done, a lot of birth mothers have a very hard time dealing with the fact they gave up their child or HAD to give up their child. It haunted my birth mother until her death. And, as Steven, my biological siblings told me I was the "lucky one"...but being adopted is a crap shoot. My adoption didn't work out. Thank you for doing this interview. Steven is extremely interesting and appears to be well grounded.
@LifewithDrTrishVarner
@LifewithDrTrishVarner 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear your adoption didn’t work out. Blessings to you.
@Solutions3000
@Solutions3000 Жыл бұрын
My mother felt guilty for my being born. Sometimes, adoption is best. Sorry your's didn't work out.
@shelleywalker7193
@shelleywalker7193 Жыл бұрын
What a wonderful and inspiring story of our city’s best DJ Freddie Redd! I, too, recently found my brother and we made up for 56 year of laughs and cry’s before his passing. Many Blessings to you Always 🙏🏾
@lakotaprinces4151
@lakotaprinces4151 2 жыл бұрын
I am always interested in these types of stories. I have biracial children and I was very young. I was disowned. It didn't change me I didn't want to be part of a family that didn't put love above what things may look like to others.Later I was talking to my grandma I found out that someone in our family had a biracial baby and his it from the world gave the baby up. And this was so interesting to me because that person was the one in the family that really was close to my children. Now I wonder if it was because of what happened. And if it kills her inside. She has children that she raised well. I just wonder about things.I couldn't imagine how it was then.
@beautyinthedark7406
@beautyinthedark7406 2 жыл бұрын
This was a great interview. Freddie Redd is a well know and liked Cincy Dj. I met him once and he was very nice, down to earth and handsome too😂. I’m happy that he’s finally receiving his family history ❤️
@redheadsarenotdeadred4562
@redheadsarenotdeadred4562 2 жыл бұрын
He has an intelligent family.his aunt was a great mathematician.
@eileennegron2882
@eileennegron2882 2 жыл бұрын
I understand how he feels and felt as a child that the fact they were family was not as important as how they became family, they were family and that was it.
@lakebafondren5868
@lakebafondren5868 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Trish for posting your interview with Mr. Bassette. Steven's beautiful voice awakened me out of my sleep and kept me transfixed throughout entire story. Steven, I congratulate you on finding out your ancestry and on embracing it. I agree with Dr. Trish, your story should to be WRITTEN and told. If told from your point of view, it certainly be one that Alex Haley's "Roots" would have to contend with. It has so many potential themes; addiction, adoption, family, interracial relationships, rape, isolation, identity, courage, perseverance, adversity, redemption. You name it, it's there. It's a beautiful story about a beautiful man with a beautiful voice. I'm grateful your mother gave up her beautiful baby boy to bring such joy into the world.
@valerieseaborn9197
@valerieseaborn9197 2 жыл бұрын
This is so interesting. I did my DNA through ancestry about 5 years ago. I was searching for my birth father. My mother gave my grandkids his name before she passed. While searching I found a sister. I also found a cousin from my grandmother’s side. We had only know two of my grandmother’s siblings. I did find a cousin who was searching for her family. She found her siblings who had been searching for her for over 70 years. I have also found out my father’s family. You can find a lot. And yes the adults during those days took a lot to the grave. So much information is available now.
@stevenbassette9472
@stevenbassette9472 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words
@jardentertainmentmanagemen594
@jardentertainmentmanagemen594 2 жыл бұрын
He has a great personality & humor about his story !!!
@stevenbassette9472
@stevenbassette9472 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@ejwwest
@ejwwest 2 жыл бұрын
I ran across this lovely interview on KZbin. I am from Cincy and listened to DJ Freddy Red on radio all the time. Radio is not the same without his quirky personality. I even cooked a sweet potato pie for him in which he devoured almost the entire pie during his show. Wish you were back on Cincy radio. We miss you!
@DJ_Ndiks
@DJ_Ndiks 2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this interview. It was very interesting. I like the guest, he sound & look like a very warm and friendly person. I wish him all the best. Thanks for sharing.💜
@cindycobs2424
@cindycobs2424 2 жыл бұрын
He really should write a book.
@cjwallace4559
@cjwallace4559 2 жыл бұрын
Or a movie with him narrating....
@cindycobs2424
@cindycobs2424 2 жыл бұрын
@@cjwallace4559 Exactly
@kathleeenmcclintock4931
@kathleeenmcclintock4931 2 жыл бұрын
This is such a sweet man!😘
@LifewithDrTrishVarner
@LifewithDrTrishVarner 2 жыл бұрын
He is a really nice man. Thank you for watching.
@stevenbassette9472
@stevenbassette9472 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@jades234
@jades234 Жыл бұрын
This was so interesting about Steven "Fred E. Redd" Bassette"! I miss hearing him on the radio. I've never seen this interview. So good of him to encourage people to find out their lineage. As part of our repair, ancestry searches should be free for black people whose ancestors were kidnapped from Africa, and families separated and sold away from each other. For years my father wasn't treated for a genetic disease that only Italian & Greeks have because they didn't expect him to have. They never checked for it. Steven's father delivered me. I was born in that hospital, but my parents had been married many years before I was born. My mother worked at Catherine Booth and it was also the hospital that a lot of black women went to during the 1960's, especially if they wanted a black doctor.
@PK-bh1ww
@PK-bh1ww Жыл бұрын
My cousin had 3 children by a black man. Those 3 identify as black. One girl's skin tones leans more toward black. The other girl and boy are lighter skinned but you can see the black DNA. I was single when my son was born. In 1970. Many people told me I should give him up for adoption. I didn't want to but did give it some thought. Until they put him in my arms after birth. No way was I going to give my boy away. Yes times were tough but I am so glad I kept him. He's been a joy. He was a sweet baby and loving child and is now a sweet loving man. While I couldn't give him a lot of material things, he always knows he's dearly loved.
@WayCoolNurse
@WayCoolNurse 2 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed the interview. His life is a novel.
@elizabethtaylor6903
@elizabethtaylor6903 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad everything turned out for you, Every child needs a loving family 💘
@lindasims-od7ms
@lindasims-od7ms Жыл бұрын
"Went to school with light skin...Never asked such ". Mulatto....kind of hidden route to privilege?....kind of late in telling what's history.
@trudigoodman4825
@trudigoodman4825 Жыл бұрын
I am so enjoying your channel so much! I from a Jewish Family that is predominantly Sephardic. My family has always been racially mixed. Many Sephardim are. I found this out at the age of 15. My Dad showed me a photo of his Great Grand Father who was definitely of Color. Then began the stories of how both sides of my family escaped The Spanish Inquisition. You never know what is in your family tree until you shake that tree. One Great Grand Father from the other side of my family, my Mom's family, was an Irish Orphan left on Jewish People's doorstep. They adopted that child, and he(My Great Grandfather James Nathan) lived his life as a Jewish Man who was Irish and a Jew. He married a Jewish woman, Berthe who was my Great Grand Mother. I am a big believer in live and let live. I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the kindness of a family who took in a little kid. Life is interesting that way. And if I had the wherewithal I would definitely adopt or foster.
@oleleewahjahlawze60
@oleleewahjahlawze60 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 😍 interview.I often prayed for adoption as A child.my parents were two kids playing house.nothing wrong about this story.I am desirous of adopting a child.every child deserves love.This is a love story 💕
@seguestt2
@seguestt2 2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this interview. Other than the fact that he is a damn good looking man, his voice is so very friendly and soothing! I'm sorry he didn't get to meet his birth mother. From the little he found out, I figure his mother, being white and so young, was forced to give him up. I think it affected her and led her down the road to addictions etc. I think he was the result of an illicit and scandalous (because of not only the races but also the huge age difference of his birth parents) love affair. I hope he gets the true story soon.
@nikikhiaroscuro1053
@nikikhiaroscuro1053 2 ай бұрын
He isn’t sure if the 60 year old or the 22 year old man was his dad. However, he found a sister on his bio dad’s side. He actually could figure out which was his dad even if the sister refused to meet him.
@BronzeSista
@BronzeSista 2 жыл бұрын
This is a good story, and even though he had a white mother, his family taught him to be a strong Black man. He is not confused about his identity. Thanks for sharing.
@kathleenking47
@kathleenking47 Жыл бұрын
Hes very black passing. There are families of lightskinned blacks who look biracial, but arent
@karenwiley2889
@karenwiley2889 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful journey! Thank you for helping people find their roots!
@xxmoonlightxx6304
@xxmoonlightxx6304 2 жыл бұрын
I like this man he speak the truth. I'm a light skin women. with both of my parent's are black. I hated being light skin as a child But now I'm grown and I like my complextion.
@elos5408
@elos5408 2 жыл бұрын
Same here. When I was growing up many of the kids in the neighborhood did not accept me. It continued in high school, college and as an adult. I’ve learned to deal with the reality that very few black people, especially women, will truly accept a very light skinned woman with blue/green eyes. However, even now in my mid seventies, it is a lonely existence.
@susanclow5384
@susanclow5384 2 жыл бұрын
What a great interview and a lovely man who seems understanding and kind.
@figmo397
@figmo397 2 жыл бұрын
My half-African paternal grandmother had skin the same color as his yet was "white." Go figure. What I noticed about him first was his *voice*. Not only is his voice mellifluous, but you can tell he grew up in an educated family from the way he enunciates.
@sr2291
@sr2291 2 жыл бұрын
How was she White? Did she self identify as White?
@kathleenking47
@kathleenking47 Жыл бұрын
You'd be surprised..even president Eisenhower had a biracial looking mom
@amb7412
@amb7412 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this interview and he sounds so content and grounded. I loved his aunt's story on screen and it made so happy I purchased the Barbie commemorating their work. Thank you for doing this.
@convincinghairstyles1015
@convincinghairstyles1015 2 жыл бұрын
All my life I thought I was white. My family all look white and blonde. However, I recently I disocovered through Ancestory that I have some black in my DNA and I would like to be a part of the Black community. I would like to change my legal identity as black seeing as I am technically African-American. It would be nice if Black Americans would see that there are blonde hair blue eyed black people too and accept us.
@Harry_Ball-Sachs
@Harry_Ball-Sachs 2 жыл бұрын
#RachelDolezat
@MareRS357
@MareRS357 10 ай бұрын
Very interesting story. Very lucky to have such a wonderful childhood. I am so happy that he found his brother and has a good relationship with him.
@reneekh3599
@reneekh3599 2 жыл бұрын
Great interview. I think there is a definite relevance to BOTH nature & nurture.
@joycarter757
@joycarter757 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting presentation, Dr Trish. Bless your guest!
@firesign4297
@firesign4297 2 жыл бұрын
He🤗 looks just like the Father😊r on The old Show....*King Of QUEENS😊
@stevenbassette9472
@stevenbassette9472 2 жыл бұрын
Never heard that one😂 My kids say I look like HANK from King of the Hill😂😂😂
@firesign4297
@firesign4297 2 жыл бұрын
@@stevenbassette9472 😅 ok we'll go with what Your Kids🥰 Say🤣👍🏿👍🏿 Enjoyed Your Heart Felt Interview immensely!😊🙏🤗 From A Sista By Way Of Brooklyn NY Take Care.🙏😊
@deva190
@deva190 2 жыл бұрын
OH my you are right, lol. He's just younger.
@TheShumoby
@TheShumoby 2 жыл бұрын
@@deva190 And a lot taller at 6'3"
@chaunciorozco995
@chaunciorozco995 2 жыл бұрын
Haha!!! Jerry Stiller lookin...
@vernelledouglas1801
@vernelledouglas1801 Жыл бұрын
I am black and find it amazing that the mixing of people and cultures over the years and only looking at the surface can cause the development of notions (often inaccurate) about those around us. I admit that from the adult, still pictures of the wondeful gentleman featured, I thought he may have been from a Latin-American background but the childhood images suggested African ancestry. I reminded myself to never judge the outside and respect everyone.
@trudiepaxton7678
@trudiepaxton7678 2 жыл бұрын
I adopted my son when he was nearly 3. He knows who his parents are but he refuses any contact with them. Luckily he has none off their trades. He is totally different from them. He does though have features off them but none off their personalities. My daughter's are much older than him. The youngest 16 years but he is loved although he was older when he came into our life's. His father gives me the blame that he doesn't want anything to do with him. I can't force him to have contact with his bio parents. He say you're parents are the people that raised you.
@teresalipot3585
@teresalipot3585 Жыл бұрын
I'd say your parents are the people who LOVED you. ( Not just in words, but actions.)
@janetbristow1272
@janetbristow1272 Жыл бұрын
What a lovely interesting man.
@pomona9928
@pomona9928 2 жыл бұрын
As a resident of Sweden, it was interesting to hear about his history. You do very nice interviews.
@LifewithDrTrishVarner
@LifewithDrTrishVarner 2 жыл бұрын
That’s so cool. Thanks for watching!
@covertLLC
@covertLLC Жыл бұрын
My mother's grandmother was an unwanted biracial child of a white woman from NY. The family didn't give my great grandmother up for adoption though. They loved her but they couldn't keep her because of their status and influence so I was told. They wanted my 2nd great grandmother to be able to marry a white man to start her family. They knew she wouldn't be able to find a decent white husband and keep her Black child born out of wedlock too.They hid her until she was old enough to be sent to a catholic boarding school. She was raised by the nuns at school until she graduated, her white family then gave her enough money to start a life of her own. She married a Black man and they had 12 children one of whom was my grandmother, my mother's mom. They never knew who her father was because her mother was scared of him getting hurt, arrested, or worse. I don't know anything about my great grandmother's family except that they are white and they are from NY. I asked my mother if grandma Brown was white because of how light she was, and her eyes were pale blue. I have great aunts and uncles of every shade from very light to dark brown skinned..
@misstriciaskitchen8640
@misstriciaskitchen8640 2 жыл бұрын
Great interview Dr. Trish as always. Everyone deserves to know who their birth parents are. I hope he is able to find out who his birth father is. He has a great personality. I was like him when I found out about my Nigerian ancestry I started trying to find what type of hat the ladies wear.
@vatricegeorge
@vatricegeorge Жыл бұрын
So glad he was able to find his roots
@Unbridled13
@Unbridled13 2 жыл бұрын
I have a unique situation. I have done genealogy for 20 years. My ex husband and father of my children is adopted. He refuses to locate his birth family information. How could I go about locating information for my children ? I also strongly believe in DNA vs nurture. My son has so many characteristics of my father. He says things and does things that there is no way he would have known my Dad did or said. His build is identical to my Dad. Lots of love to you and thank you for the always amazing vlogs.
@misstriciaskitchen8640
@misstriciaskitchen8640 2 жыл бұрын
I would suggest the kids do DNA testing.
@nikikhiaroscuro1053
@nikikhiaroscuro1053 2 ай бұрын
You don’t need your ex-husband. Since you’re looking for a males’ info you have 2 advantages. If you do 23& me it will show his haplo- group. If one of your children is a male he’ll carry the same dna. Additionally, your children will match people not solely on your side . I have helped four people l didn’t know find their missing parent/parents who matched/tested related to me.
@nikikhiaroscuro1053
@nikikhiaroscuro1053 2 ай бұрын
Furthermore, you can check census records of family names of people that match your children. Hope that helps.
@bangshang49
@bangshang49 2 жыл бұрын
Great story!!!! Much Love to Our favorite Radio Personality Fredd E Redd
@avalondreaming1433
@avalondreaming1433 2 жыл бұрын
Too many secrets were kept back in the day. I believe that every single person has the RIGHT to know who they are. It's a basic human right.
@firesign4297
@firesign4297 2 жыл бұрын
I just ENJOYED!!!🤗🤗🤗 This Interview🤗🙏🤗
@lisahawkins6824
@lisahawkins6824 2 жыл бұрын
Love the intro! Nice melody and you get started right away.
@WarmFuzzyVibes
@WarmFuzzyVibes Жыл бұрын
I like this man! He has a lovely attitude and he has fond memories of his adoptive parents, his bio sis, as well as his brothers of his bio mom. His mixed race dilemma of having experienced hateful treatment from orher kids at school literally because he somehow didn't fit a nice neat category of being either black or white is sad. But his family loved him and he overcame hatred for being different and still seems to have peace and love in his heart.
@mlatham23
@mlatham23 18 күн бұрын
Your story is amazing. Your attitude for life is amazing. Having lived for the last 36 of my 60 years near Ripley, Ohio. A stop on the underground railroad. When I moved out of the south where I lived from 4th grade to age 20, I expected so much more from the people here. What I found was at least as much racism here as anywhere i lived in the south. And much more obliviousness to how racist they are. The covid experience brought me to a new place of understanding of how little progress to a diverse world we have made since I graduated high school. I began to understand that it isn't good enough to not discriminate myself, and how many little things you might unconsciously do that hurt. I have begun to not stand silent when someone else is being treated poorly. I hope you go to whatever white bar you desire with your brother and have a great time.
@BBReviewsIt
@BBReviewsIt 2 жыл бұрын
Great interview Dr. Trish. I really enjoyed it.
@ms.curiouswilliams9931
@ms.curiouswilliams9931 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story I’m from Jamaica
@maxinecoombs1260
@maxinecoombs1260 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome story
@charlesvincent8677
@charlesvincent8677 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this joyful celebration of a great life. Made my day 🎉
@Nannypie2
@Nannypie2 2 жыл бұрын
Great interview.
@MrKgbronx12
@MrKgbronx12 2 жыл бұрын
He looks like my uncle Pepper. My grandma was bi-racial. She grew up Black. Her mother died when she was 8. Her mother was Irish. My uncle Pepper looks just like this guy. But he didn't have green eyes. But he had the hair.
@honeybee8929
@honeybee8929 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Great interview
@rettawhinnery
@rettawhinnery 2 жыл бұрын
Two views, three likes. This was very interesting. Thanks for sharing.
@LifewithDrTrishVarner
@LifewithDrTrishVarner 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@rita4missions
@rita4missions 2 жыл бұрын
Handsome , intelligent, educated man. God bless you!
@momtrips6783
@momtrips6783 2 жыл бұрын
Loved this interview
@overcomer4060
@overcomer4060 4 ай бұрын
Great interview! Very interesting!
@MareRS357
@MareRS357 2 жыл бұрын
I do feel for adopted children. Years ago they did not open records. I know I have people related to me and I feel bad that they do not have there family history. This man and his sister were so lucky to be adopted by such wonderful children. Years ago if children were mixed they had a hard time placing them in homes. I look at President Obama and at least he knew where his parents came from. Wonderful story.
@kathylewis8742
@kathylewis8742 2 жыл бұрын
The adoption agency may have lied to the parents so they’d adopt him. That wasn’t unusual back then.
@LifewithDrTrishVarner
@LifewithDrTrishVarner 2 жыл бұрын
That's a good point.
@sandrabarrett7837
@sandrabarrett7837 2 жыл бұрын
Informative and inspiring info. Thanks Dr. Trish. I always wondered what became of my grandmother who left the Bahamas for the US when my dad was a baby and was never heard of since.
@LifewithDrTrishVarner
@LifewithDrTrishVarner 2 жыл бұрын
@Sandra barrett Thank you. What year did your grandmother leave the Bahamas?
@sandrabarrett7837
@sandrabarrett7837 2 жыл бұрын
Around May 1916
@sandrabarrett7837
@sandrabarrett7837 2 жыл бұрын
He was not adopted. He was left with his grandmother.
@sharrellwyatt5850
@sharrellwyatt5850 6 ай бұрын
I love this page thank you for sharing your research! I would love to start this journey!
@jchow5966
@jchow5966 2 жыл бұрын
Great episode! Thank you.
@original1stmother
@original1stmother 6 ай бұрын
CB HOME IN CINCINNATI WAS LOCATED IN THE AVONDALE AREA. BOTH SIDES OF MY FAMILY IS VERY CLOSE TO FRED.
@OreoTime1
@OreoTime1 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful episode/video. Congratulations to Steven on his great life. I'm so happy for him. Thanks for the share. Full watched and Like. Cheers!
@elainemurphy7944
@elainemurphy7944 Жыл бұрын
I thank the lord for giving us all these tools we have today to continue our journey,may he bless and keep you.
@vaughanbaker1177
@vaughanbaker1177 2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting subject and topic, and a great interview. I enjoy your videos!
@nonenone9338
@nonenone9338 Жыл бұрын
He was adorable and now very handsome. 😍
@cherylmclaughlin6817
@cherylmclaughlin6817 2 жыл бұрын
My husband grew up in similar environment. His mom is white and his dad was a black u.s army photographer. His mom pased away unknowingly when my husband was 13. He lived with his dad out in Cali til he was about 3 or 4. My husband's half sister started to physically abuse him to the point he had to have brain surgery. After that my husband was sent to the east coast to live with his dad's older sister that my husband grew up calling "ma". He only learned more of the truth when he was 50 and reunited with another older sister that still lives in Cali. She put together a photo album of labeled photos for him to learn about. He has since done his 23 & Me and learned alot more about himself.
@LifewithDrTrishVarner
@LifewithDrTrishVarner 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Glad your husband turned out okay.
@laurab2528
@laurab2528 2 жыл бұрын
The football t shirt :)) Good one. Very interesting, thank you.
@AAXS-op1vo
@AAXS-op1vo Жыл бұрын
Very handsome man and very interesting story.
@ms.curiouswilliams9931
@ms.curiouswilliams9931 2 жыл бұрын
You have a great sense of humor I like you
@luvte1
@luvte1 Жыл бұрын
Great interview, and his journey seemed so fascinating. I wonder if they have much in common.
@marilynnesmith8778
@marilynnesmith8778 2 жыл бұрын
Heck…he can pass for Puerto Rican. We are so mixed that no one will question.
@LifewithDrTrishVarner
@LifewithDrTrishVarner 2 жыл бұрын
True. Puerto Ricans are a mixture of European, Native, and African, so that make sense. Thanks for watching!
@stevenbassette9472
@stevenbassette9472 2 жыл бұрын
I went to a Puerto Rican restaurant in Tampa and thought.... "Wow, these folks look like me!"
@analuisatorres1562
@analuisatorres1562 Жыл бұрын
With sincere humbleness I have to tell you we’ve been so blessed. 🙏🏽 I tell you some of my kids have been mistaken of looking Middle Eastern so who knows. 🤷🏽‍♀️
@yvonnemahoneyking-artwork6558
@yvonnemahoneyking-artwork6558 Жыл бұрын
I come from a family of 7 children (6 Boys and 1 Girl) and we were a rainbow of Brown, my Mother was medium Brown and my Father was Light Brown with curly hair and the majority of our skin tones were an Olive Brown… 1 of my Brother’s were Dark Brown and 1 of my Brothers’s were light skinned with freckles and red hair. That is the beauty of Black folks… our DNA goes back and picks parts that you don’t know. So you can’t look at someone (Black people) and say oh I know what your are mixed with. I did find out on my Mother’s side… a lot of her relatives passed for White. DNA and family tree research opens up a lot of those Pandora boxes. 😊
@donotsupportterroristgroups
@donotsupportterroristgroups Жыл бұрын
His life is fascinating. His life and that of his beloved adopted family prove that you can be successful no matter how life started or the color of your skin.
@archeewaters
@archeewaters 2 жыл бұрын
dr trish, would you be able toget his sister interviewed? i would love to hear her story as well
@amberkuehn9115
@amberkuehn9115 2 жыл бұрын
This is awesome. And this man looks so much like my uncle and his younger picture looks like my son. Now I'm wanting to see what my dna is but there's some things I'm not sure I want to know.
@yolandaeverett7400
@yolandaeverett7400 Жыл бұрын
We love you both with Cincinnati forever love.
@firesign4297
@firesign4297 2 жыл бұрын
Pandora's Box🤗 Would Be A GREAT🤗 Name for His🤗🙏🤗...."BOOK"!!!🤗👍🏿👍🏿🤗
@DrStephanie73
@DrStephanie73 Жыл бұрын
His birth mother may have been battling addiction because she was forced to give him up.
@nikikhiaroscuro1053
@nikikhiaroscuro1053 2 ай бұрын
Maybe, but l hope not at 14 years old!
@bjw3243
@bjw3243 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful story and a beautiful man.
@Shelleyshelleyxyz
@Shelleyshelleyxyz Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Very interesting.
@tiffanycuttinup6763
@tiffanycuttinup6763 2 жыл бұрын
Okay den , Freddy Redd I knw him and one of his daughters Chanel .. may blessing open up and continue be around this family!!
@kathysalkeldbonilla6541
@kathysalkeldbonilla6541 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Lovely video!
@itawambamingo
@itawambamingo Жыл бұрын
What a lovely man!
@petrabland3519
@petrabland3519 Жыл бұрын
I believe 💯 percent environment and DNA play a great role in who we are ❤️
@macpduff2119
@macpduff2119 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I also didn't begin my search in earnest until both my parents were dead
@denicewms
@denicewms Жыл бұрын
This was a nice respite from the current Xscape hot topics. Thank you. All the ladies look beautiful. Sweet Tamika chiming in to big up Tocha was on brand. I hope to see more of her in TV shows and movies. She is very entertaining.
@delcetacampbell3196
@delcetacampbell3196 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the way you conducted this interview. It was not boring. Another thing that I took notice of, is that people are referring to themselves as by racial. Why by racial when human is one race. Different Nations yes. We all have one man and one woman as our fore parents. That is Adam and Eve. We need to stop from accepting the lie which gives some people the right to overvalue themselves and devalue others.
@sharrellwyatt5850
@sharrellwyatt5850 6 ай бұрын
White for the night, loved his curiosity and humor.
@debifambro1039
@debifambro1039 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful story. ❤
@queenreg7
@queenreg7 Жыл бұрын
He is hilarious.
@mmmcgm444
@mmmcgm444 2 жыл бұрын
He looks like Joe Madison family from dayton, Ohio on his father side
@stevenbassette9472
@stevenbassette9472 2 жыл бұрын
My Dad was good friends with Dr. Chunky Daniels in Dayton!
@johnniejohnson6420
@johnniejohnson6420 2 жыл бұрын
i didn't know the original documenys could become available after a person reached a certain age. Is this a state to state kinda thing?
@stevenbassette9472
@stevenbassette9472 2 жыл бұрын
Yes , different laws in states.
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