SOLVED 8-Month-Old Missing Person Case (Nicholas Allen)

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[@chrisfortner4692]

Anxious is a better word than excited

[@Amused_Comfort_Inc]

I wish you guys could find my friend who fell over feather falls in oroville california.. his name was Mathew.. it's been almost 3 years

[@justinturner9003]

Would athoosed be better than exicted

[@Bhabzkie]

Fuvk this officer is the most stupid inforcement ive ever seen

[@nenethebutt9188]

@@Amused_Comfort_Inc omg I'm sorry for your loss 📉

[@Nonexistent4721]

Missing 8 months, to be found in just over 1 hour, that’s the difference between appearance and actual effort, such a sad thing to see

[@PhobicRaptor740]

I’m sure the sheriff didn’t want to “waste his time” on the matter, that’s just the type of person he is.

[@CannibalChxrry]

Its sad, the cops need to be retrained. Sheriff at least apologized.

[@lindaf4369]

They actually found the car in 15 minutes and the 1st LEO on scene was obviously atrocious. The Sheriff should have respected the family enough to apologize in person as well. The whole situation with LEO was ridiculous and I love LEO'S, the good ones anyhow..RIP Nick you're home now😢

[@philkaseyewitness6912]

If he had been found sooner he could of been saved this was someone's son.

[@sanlocrip]

I'm really sad that they need 8 months to get answer, how so it come to this point

[@evanunez6532]

Sheriff doesn’t want to be filmed. “He has no choice, he’s a public servant, he gave that up.” Love these guys!

[@lyndza1989]

bc he knos he sucks.. he should be embarrassed compared to how other sheriffs had acted in other videos of solved cases with this team..

[@chadwomack919]

@@MissusAnon You said it! The Good Ol Boys club. I dealt with clowns like these when my parents divorced and we had to move from Miami to a dinky town in Georgia. People like this sheriff act like they are above anyone else and when this butthole got egg in his face he confirms exactly what you said.

[@tcurry1531]

The sheriff backed the crew from Adventures with Purpose as far away as they could. This sheriff should be recalled.

[@zenamen5221]

Adventures With Purpose is extremely respectful.

[@heidiii1387]

@@MissusAnon that wasn't Richie Simmons - he was a sheriff's deputy/detective.

[@gunplay07]

The police made themselves look horrible. The sheriff should be ashamed.

[@HellSquid11]

They do that a lot

[@Mhats]

they're all racist

[@villainizuku3934]

All the cop but not in the Australian cop because they're help but some of them not.

[@Alvah707]

@@villainizuku3934 what the fuck did you just say

[@helenab7390]

Hope he retired.

[@brookiejai]

As a mom this is heart wrenching. I saw a snippit of this in a short and had to find a video. I’m bawling. This is amazing work and I’m so thankful this family has you

[@ViolentRainbow]

I saw the same short, this was bizarrely difficult to find I wish people would post links to main videos in shorts!

[@bobbihauser4078]

Optimistic is the word you needed😊❤ Love you guys! Great job!

[@timberman1206]

I’m a cop and I can’t believe the sheriff acted this way .

[@Motto-cornchips]

Thanks for protecting us

[@timberman1206]

@@Motto-cornchips welcome

[@carlgrimes464]

Thank you for helping keeping people safe. 🖤 we need you here.

[@timberman1206]

@@carlgrimes464 welcome

[@simcreatorann]

My deep respect for you and this family. The sheriff didn't act right. Nick could be found earlier. Greetings from Belgium.

[@taragray6905]

I am Nick's Aunt and it tore my heart out seeing the sheriff treat my sister that way. I live in Illinois and don't drive so I couldn't be there. I did watch the live feed and was so appalled at that officer's attitude. I just wanted to go through the camera and punch him in the mouth. Thank you to all who have extended condolences to my family.

[@adamhancock2752]

I’m sorry for your families loss Tara. I’m glade adventure with purpose was able to give your family some closure.

[@user-pt1cz4ot1e]

Your family seems so lovely. I hate that you all have had to go through any of this.

[@troyg5498]

My mouth was open in shock from the moment the sheriff started talking. This man is the most insensitive selfish officer I've ever seen. Absolutely despicable.

[@lickitysplits832]

Shame on him. I'm so sorry for your loss! My goodness.

[@MicheleHow777]

Sorry for yaws loss.May God comfort your family in yaws time of need. Your sister didn't deserve to be treated the way she was treat. This just shows how disgraceful that cop was & their whole dept was. They FAILED you all. They made u all suffer for all these months and it was uncalled for. Thank God for AWP team. God Bless you all.

[@CelinaSpookyBoo]

that sheriff makes me SO MAD

[@camlightinghouse2828]

he conveniently retired the day this video was released

[@dubuque1]

@@camlightinghouse2828 he Sheriff or the commander that was on tape ?

[@camlightinghouse2828]

@@dubuque1 the investigator

[@petastafford908]

@@camlightinghouse2828 good. Fuck him off...

[@firstname2930]

The one being an ass was not and is not the Sheriff.

[@erinr8512]

"We're here to help you look good sir". The composure yall have is beautiful

[@samshatto3671]

For real though then they chose to make themselves look even worse. The divers being volunteers makes me even more mad because I promise you if given the ok they would have been in that water within hours of him being reported missing. I live in a town with a volunteer fire department people want to see a fast response time? That is it a volunteer departments faster then any. Heck the town over can have their trucks and guys there faster then a station 10miles down the road from the original team.

[@KevinoftheCosmos]

I really hope that officer knows how many people have seen his true colors. 10 million as it stands.

[@mwr2094]

He's made me sad I'm shaking. I hope he got removed from that police department . I'd hate have to deal with him

[@RockstarFlipper]

he doesnt care.. hes still out there acting the same way and no consequences for being a dick. welcome to America

[@WakeyUpU]

What a horrible officer can’t imagine having to deal with that thing in a crisis. Hope he was fired!

[@oasisfani8353]

somebody just like´s the power and abuses it. Disgusting.

[@Jenni4jo]

100% Ego and 0% compassion. The correct response from these A-hole officers should be "Thank you. This is an amazing service you provide families and you clearly have an expertise level that far surpasses our ability. We'd love if you could spend a couple days sharing your knowledge with us". But nope, as usual, nothing but typical tiny-D attitude. And SHAME on that local dive team for being equally crappy.

[@jjvirella5754]

This sheriff is a disgrace to himself, Badge, and department this is coming from a retired First Responder. To Adventures Thank You for what you do!

[@macfresh27]

Unfortunately there are many in America! I've seen this type of bullshit from officers.

[@kathhon1956]

They’d rather act like the Asshats they displayed to us viewers & ya know why? It’s all about their damn EGOS & “omg” what will our community think of us and how does this make us look giving this small Dive team any credit?. This should of had a whole different ending. **What the end should have been** All officers along w/both the AWP search & recovery team & the local volunteer dive team, EMS etc are all shaking hands w/one another, overwhelmed that Finally this grieving family can now have closure & lay their young son to rest💔❤️‍🩹 Maybe even a conversation or two on perhaps asking AWP, Hey, Let’s combine our manpower, knowledge & equipment & team up to help more families being closure w/their missing loved one. Y’all can figure out how this should have ended, hopefully I stayed my case. Keep the wonderful work up fellas. We APPRECIATE YOU ALL♥️❤️‍🩹👏🏼

[@openmindz4628]

I am so sorry for this Mom and family for their loss. I'm thankful thier son wàs found, but I just can't imagine thier loss. 💔😢🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💙💙💙✝️

[@susanpoland5919]

A typical government. LAZY is my nice word for them. His mother always said thats where she knew he was! Jarrads team found the vehicle in a very very short time. They dove on it and WHAM! The time it took for anyone to even turn up was atrocious. The arrogance of the 1st officer was so far way beyond what he should have been doing or saying. He upset me so much as well. The timeframe in which they were involved in this case was so long. SLACK GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS who like to sit on their fat As and do anything that is easy. Nothing else. They think theyre beyond anything else. It happens in virtually every country sadly. He should have been severely repremanded and stood down to be re trained and how to deal with this type of situation. If that has been part of training in the first place, MAYBE (some people you cant teach - you cant even fix it with Duct tape and Id say hes one if them). Sad to say this but I hope HE has this situation in his family. That MIGHT be the only way he will PULL HIS HEAD IN and learn to treat everyone the respect they deserve, especially in regards to deaths and missing persons. I dont know what chip he had on his shoulder bit he was so very arrogant! Thanks Jarrad and all your Team. You do something that rarely happens. I also watch a few other sites and found youve all joined at some stage with what theyre doing. What a lot of very special individuals, all teaming together yo help mankind. If I were there, Id give each and every one of you a huge hug - stuff this horrible 'C' were trying yo cope with atm. Please take care! Its a pleasure to watch these different sites.

[@u.s.patriot9284]

As a retired LEO this Sheriff is a disgrace. This is wrong in so many ways. That information in the first 5 min is credible for a search. This is sad. God bless this family

[@djdezyn8838]

I think the real reason why the sheriff was so p*ssed was because it only took you an hour to accomplish what they couldn’t (wouldn’t) do in 8 months. I’ll bet they’re embarrassed that it took outsiders to do their job. My heart goes out to the family, so sorry for your loss.

[@16480287]

Looks like they need some training on water recovery and how to respect people that go out of their way to help them !

[@royreynolds108]

@@16480287 How about respecting the citizens of their county?

[@16480287]

@@royreynolds108 True !

[@chongsfury4358]

Hell i live in Iredell county, just a county over from where this is at, and in catawba county just next to where i live, thier is a diving company, that'll come out and do jobs like this, don't know why the sheriff's office didn't try to contact any of them.

[@16480287]

@@chongsfury4358 Time for a new Sheriff !

[@EricFansher]

I am a big advocate of law enforcement. Watching these videos I can 100% see and appreciate why so many have a low opinion and distrust of their local Sheriff and Police departments. Great job putting him in his place. You are a public servant, you know what you signed up for. 👏👏👏👏

[@__-e-__]

This is one example. There are hundreds of hours of content floating around that back up the hatred and distrust of people in these positions. Educate yourself, maybe your opinion will change. Sad to say that this interaction is on the lighter end of the spectrum.

[@thenumber1stupifier]

Dude this is not the way. ​@@__-e-__

[@ProfessorDisaray]

I've been a Detective for over 25 years. The reason why your team where treated that way, is because you found the car and they didn't. It's actually very embarrassing to be shown up by someone not in authority. The correct way it should have be handled would have been. The senior officer or agent thanking you for the discovery and informing you that it is a crime scene, taken your information and that you will have to leave. Then talk to their dive team what you encountered, any hidden dangers in the river. They should have thanked you for the locate and allowing the family to grieve privately. Since my fellow brothers in blue can't say it, I will.... Great job Adventures with a Purpose.

[@beautifulblessing3476]

EXACTLY THEY OUTSMARTED THEM AND FOUND IT IN SUCH LITTLE TIME

[@rupersters]

that's exactly what i thought. it's purely a masculinity thing.

[@kathrynblair8845]

They have the authority if the family says so

[@ProfessorDisaray]

@@kathrynblair8845 No they don’t, once Law Enforcement deems it a crime scene. You can not enter the restricted area, and maybe arrested for Interfering in a Investigation. It’s rarely used, but if they ask for assistance the Sheriff’s Office or County takes a huge amount of liability and legal ramifications.

[@CM38110]

I applaud you for commenting this. This just highlights that not all law enforcement are the same. Unfortunately, this sheriff needs to take a course in professionalism. The family should not have been responded to in this way when their emotions are high. And these gentlemen should not have been responded to in this way. Especially after they tried to de-escalate the situation.

[@PantherNautilus]

As an officer, seeing this sheriff is what makes the rest of us look bad. His temper and character is horrible

[@mrtokin6696]

Much love brother thank you for your service

[@cortingat]

Thank you for your service. I feel terrible for you man, getting mixed in with all the dirty cops and all the racists.

[@emotinaloats8010]

Yes and i thank cops like you for actually caring about the community that sheriff i feel like he didn't want to do the paper work for it so he just forget his role in the community .but thanks you for keeping your community safe

[@83maller]

Here from the 🇬🇧 fantastic comment , 🙌 respect

[@syrthdr09sybr34]

That's only one of many things.

[@angelmunoz501]

“That’s a brand new sidewalk we can’t get a tow truck in here” As if concrete is more valuable than a teenager boys dead body being recovered. His threatening demeaning manner is unacceptable to family members trying to get their son out of a river.

[@theotherside5253]

Fortunately, “Sheriff” is an ELECTED OFFICIAL. I hope this county recognizes how dangerous this fool is and his political party revokes their support for the next election. I imagine there is quite a vipers nest of corruption in that county!

[@lisa4freedom662]

I was getting ready to type the comment about the new Sidewalk. I couldn't believe he said that!!

[@brittanypratt7204]

I was just going to say this. Smh I cant believe that actually came out his mouth… if the family would have heard that… omg

[@metoo9590]

You would think being ppl watch this being shared broadcasted etc that the higher ups would have done something about this because it made that WHOLE county look bad. But another cover up

[@amyloya1859]

Agree.

[@MeghanIstrePhotography]

Marine Corps Veteran here. I just started watching your channel and am so humbled by the compassion you and your team have for everyone involved.

[@deborahpolk1854]

thank you for your service

[@tracyafig]

AF vet here. Started watching AWP a week ago. Agree 100% with your comment.

[@exodusipass2]

The kid died and the officer didn’t wanna remove the body cause it would mess up the new concrete? Tf

[@helenab7390]

Its so f**k*d up...inconceivable what that family was going through at that time as well.

[@k01t81]

Ik

[@4Teresa4Ever]

IKR?!? Like -DUDE!!! Just......just QUIT. Quit the force and save your city the trouble.

[@runningthunder6923]

He's another narcissist

[@4Teresa4Ever]

@@runningthunder6923 ABSOLUTELY.

[@cherylsabol387]

Is anyone else slightly alarmed when the police know there is a cluster of vehicles in the water and do nothing to investigate??? The lack of empathy and professionalism from the police in that town is alarming.

[@barbarawinton3160]

Remind you of one of them old gangster small town bad cop movies bad sheriff meets for conspiracy drug running at the Old River doesn't go his way he sinks a vehicle in the water. And then refuses to look for a vehicle with the family ask. We know this isn't what happened to this young boy. Did they ever follow up on the story about what happened did he hurt himself or did he wreck

[@tooldog5062]

in some areas they will actually dump wrecked cars along a riverbank instead of concrete, they also serve as a levy when the river is up

[@wingsken]

Repeat after me: ACAB

[@josieperez3967]

Very alarming. How can they not investigate all those cars in the water. N than get mad cuz others come n do their job. They're a disgrace to the Law Enforcement.

[@Handorgeous]

They probably dislike it of the way the cops were treating the family and the Jared because he stood up to him. He was very rude because someone else had to come in and did their job.

[@C.R.T.mountainhomestead]

As a former law enforcement officer, my blood is boiling!!! That man pretending he’s important, is an absolute disgrace! This video footage should be presented to the state attorney general for the express purpose of having his credentials revoked. Condolences to the family, and sympathy for the unnecessary trauma they endured!!

[@HollidaySpessa]

dude he was reported and they did nothing except a facebook post. u should know of all ppl that unless MSM gets on u bad, you're not REALLY getting punished as a cop even in cases of arguable homicide, attempted homicide or aggravated assault, i.e., the case of Dick Tench being shot by Kevin Azzara in his own home while on call for a old person medical alarm. The Sheriff's office investigated itself and found no wrongdoing, go watch the badge cam and see if you agree as a former law enforcement officer :)

[@deusvult2302]

Not only the horrible investigation & behavior after locating the boy & the car but they know that there are many cars in there it's a recreational park, people fish in there ....they don't seem to care one bit about the toxicity to nature from these vehicles in that water. Those need to be lifted it's that easy. Hope that Sherriff doesn't get re-elected!

[@metoo9590]

@@deusvult2302 that was the crazy part that he admitted he knew there were more cars in there😳 AND NOBODY SEEN A PROBLEM WITH THAT. WOW!!

[@metoo9590]

@@HollidaySpessa WOW😳😳!!

[@bunnyxxjay4189]

I agree

[@teetee90-rx9np]

Binge watching all old episodes and this one really wound me up big time. I couldnt believe the way law enforcement acted, talk about crushed egos. Keep up the great work guys

[@robinzority1369]

The fact that Jared and his team did more in 3 hours than the local authorities did in 8 months should say enough about what kind of department they are Keep up the great work!

[@mr.fahrenheit7009]

Very wrong

[@charleshoward8971]

@@mr.fahrenheit7009 how is thie very wrong? You could tell by the attitude of that sheriff .

[@poetic_killjoy8193]

​@mr.fahrenheit7009 do you work for that sheriff's office? 😂

[@John-ke2jm]

Look at the incentive structure. They have zero incentive to close cases and find these people. They get paid their salary whether they find them or not. They get no bonuses or anything if they find people or close cases.

[@LadyBug0045]

Cover up for there inefficiency . The sheriff's attitude shows that. 😠

[@andyseman5005]

I'am a Retired Law Enforcement officer ( 24 years of service ) The Fact that the Sheriff did not understand that he CANNOT stop from being filmed as a public servant is indicative of poor training! He displayed a very unprofessional attitude and was condescending. He was not a good representative of Law enforcement embarrassing that department Im sure !!!

[@SkyFyre2435]

Is it poor training or was it that he knew he would look bad if this gets out?

[@mikeburgh3956]

@@SkyFyre2435 BOTH

[@williamkreth]

Half cops good half bad

[@Bethyj2u]

Both. I live in this good ole boy county.

[@thegirlwitheeyes1232]

Is almost as if he knew he was gonna do a Shit job and didn't Want proof of it......

[@Aeasy1006]

That “cop” was so afraid of being wrong that he completely disregarded this family’s needs and that’s just sad. I’m glad y’all found him

[@ernestp.worrell8871]

They found the license plate and he said that doesn’t mean anything. That would have made me violent.

[@brandilenemiller1901]

Enthusiastic, good word to use. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!

[@Yui789esss]

If you want to commit murder, his county would be the perfect place …. Moron couldn’t catch a cold much less catch a killer …..

[@farrenrohana]

Ah ego, destroyer of peace and love. The trick is to force ego into the light and tell it who's boss. There is you, your consciousness, and there is ego. You are not trying to eradicate ego you are to see it for what is and control it.

[@JamieLeeKnoxville]

It's the DRUG WAR -- these cops are so swamped with stopping you from using cocaine, meth, mdma and heroin and people selling it they don't have time or expertise to deal with this. Or the desire. END THE DRUG WAR. Put cops to work on REAL CRIME.

[@Jwoh257]

I cant believe this family lost their child and the authorities treated them So disrespectful. They treated AWP horribly and a thank you woulda been nice. Thank you, AWP team for giving this family some closure.

[@truthisreal.]

That sheriff is a disgrace. He’s mad bc he got caught not doing his job.

[@howabouthetruth2157]

@@animex2569 Let me tell YOU something "dude"........."Lack of funding" had absolutely NOTHING to do with this officer's despicable attitude........These great men just found the body of this kid in that car, and all that rude jerk was worried about ( besides "not being on camera" when he damn well knows a public servant has NO choice in that matter ) ......was "the tow truck possibly messing up his pretty park/boat ramp that was just improved recently". LISTEN TO HIM AGAIN, and try paying attention......"DUDE". And then see the formal apology from the sheriff himself in the comments here pertaining to the despicable attitude & treatment from this officer. The grisly discovery of ANY body submerged inside a vehicle takes total priority over "how much money was just spent on beautifying" a damned park/boat ramp.

[@JoMeraki]

@@howabouthetruth2157 Well said👏👏

[@JuPac420]

@@animex2569 did you miss the part where he said “he’s not in the car anyways he’s in Georgia with his girlfriend”

[@trb2021]

I live in Davidson County and right now, I'm embarrassed to. There was no excuse for his behavior.

[@mrs.castillo330]

@@animex2569 Empathy, and compassion is free. Doesn't cost a dime... Funding didn't have shit to do with his piss poor behavior.

[@starwars615]

Sheriff sounds like he’s got his own secrets submerged down there.

[@ASHer_0932]

You couldn't have said it any better! He talked about that child as if he was no big deal an made every excuse in the book about how nothing was really down there. What a heartless s.o.b.

[@nickbeaudin-laro5996]

Hes the most useless prick i ever seen after this video i hope he looses his job

[@zbourg95]

Exactly my thoughts

[@angelashore6215]

Omg... he really told them the boy was just off with his girlfriend?? My heart breaks for the family..

[@henryman5809]

yeah, the sheriff is kinda sus

[@lisasantana6669]

How dare that sherif say “he’s probably in Georgia with his girlfriend “ how dare he say that to a grieving family!! No compassion 🤬 I love how y’all handled this!

[@jillsackett5837]

karma is a bitch what goes around comes around He may not get the attention he wants on something important to him. not wishing ill to him or any of his loved ones but there's a reason one of the 10 commandments is treat others as you would have them treat you

[@mothertheresa7597]

And how many law enforcements do you know have ANY compassion at all, and the ones who do usually end up off the force by being fired, hurt, or killed by their fellow officers, or themselves because they see too much callousness and coldness again by their fellow officers who themselves were NOT trained at all in this trauma type situation, so they all cope with it the worst way they can, because we all know they have feelings and tact...

[@64TommyG]

Can't he at least be charged with misconduct and fired? Such personalities are in the wrong profession or are in urgent need of psychiatric care!

[@lorriejaster314]

Shame on the first police officer!! He was acting like he was “annoyed” that he wasn’t getting the credit for finding the car and this young man--disgusting how he acted!

[@thereserogers8113]

Because the cop is a C u next Tuesday!

[@ArleneCrock]

Jealously is crueler than the grave. Thank you AWP for all the people who don't appreciate what you do. ❤

[@ItsKidd83]

It’s crazy they did more in a day then the local officers did In 8 months.

[@MariaMelendez-vo9ps]

I agree 💯

[@zzanatos2001]

I think it's shameful that the family had to wait all that time because the police didn't do their jobs properly.

[@ayajade6683]

@@k4nyc492 there is maybe don't spout bs when you actually know nothing about the topic.

[@idontevenknowanymore8602]

Bro it takes months to look everywhere in a county for a car

[@idontevenknowanymore8602]

@KASHMAER yall love the cops huh

[@cac2821]

When the sheriff ask the camera man to turn off the camera and the camera man says ‘ no, you are public service, you signed up for this’ ~AMAZING!! ‘You’re public property man’ WHOEVER THE CAMERA MAN IS, WE NEED PEOPLE MORE PEOPLE LIKE YOU❤️

[@MdVaDc]

Their are lots and we get labeled as trouble makers

[@cac2821]

@@MdVaDc you know, I never looked at it that way. I have strong morals and go against the grain of following others to do the right thing and I get called many things. Your absolutely correct and I applaud you and whoever else does this, thank you ❤️

[@candi_z32babyface29]

I think it's Dan behind the camera ❤

[@marksgoogle4360]

North Carolina Govt is slow

[@marktype1with2]

If he had nothing to fear or in the wrong there’s no reason to show his actions or attitude

[@vdub3235]

First officer was a jerk. Condescending, arrogant, and seemingly uncaring. This is the behavior and attitude that causes issues with the public. How can you be a servant to the public and act that way, especially to a grieving mother. 😢 Thank you Jared, Sam, Dan, Brock and others for helping, listening, and being kind.

[@widgetsmom1946]

@@ReleaseTheQuackers my hubby knew him before he retired and I got to meet him at a sheriffs convention. What a guy!! 🤣🤣 It was such a great experience and plea sure

[@camebayxo1217]

Here's the public servants infomation in case you want to let him know how you feel about the way he treated this case :) www.co.davidson.nc.us/directory.aspx?EID=101 Lieutenant Randy Holbrook Phone: [phone] - [e-mail]

[@Gwsv2]

Here's the public servants infomation in case you want to let him know how you feel about the way he treated this case :) www.co.davidson.nc.us/directory.aspx?EID=101 Lieutenant Randy Holbrook Phone: [phone] - [e-mail]

[@lindaphillips2474]

That officer should be fired for being a jerk and acting like he doesn't care about the grieving mother

[@scottross5934]

First off in a capacity of a public servant he has no video immunity and his attitude from the very start was off kilt the whole lot of them need to remember that they in fact work for us and the general attitude toward AVWP was crap! from the start. that being said next time you are in a situation where an official starts that don't film me business remind him of his or her oath they swore in on the day they started work.. film them and do not blur their face we need to see the people who are not willing to do the job they are hired to do

[@stephaniejoyce3452]

Nothing makes me wanna support this channel more than the pure heart you guys put into this. Thank you for being a voice for the families who need it. Thank you for getting that cop off his high horse. You guys kick absolute butt. 🖤

[@armeddeafboi7276]

An officer saying he doesn’t like being recorded is a major red flag and you should probably keep recording somehow

[@johnnylego807]

It’s not illegal to record the police or your interaction. You can do whatever you want with camera or phone recording.

[@munchy_mars_mallow1413]

There is nothing in the constitution that prohibits recording of another, especially the government, and in m opinion, Constitution is more important and prevails over any law in all of US history

[@purpleking6678]

@@munchy_mars_mallow1413 it’s called invasion of personal space/privacy and you’ll get your ass handed to you.

[@AshenTechDotCom]

@@purpleking6678 not by US Law, they have NOTHING they can use to prevent it, the places that passed laws making it illegal to film police, have all had their use of such slapped down as unconstitutional. know your facts. and, when on duty, they are acting as govt official/officials of the govt/state, as such, they are not "private citizens" when on duty, they do not have the right to tell a citizen that they cannot film them, the only times they are allowed such, is preventing filming/shooting of active crime scenes, and even that has been slapped down more then once when it went to the supreme court level... any cop who tells me i cant film them, is getting filmed.... for my own safety... and i have told them such... only one ever dared lay hands on and threaten me after that....when his supervisor showed up... due to my 911 call about the way the officer was acting... i was uncuffed, the phone i had, was damaged but, i was still able to show the supervisor how i and other had been treated, when we called the cops about some jackass kids trying to burn down a boat house... anyway.... the cop actually faced some stiff reprimand... they made him hand sweep the parking lots both at the police/fire station, but church across the way, till an old woman, who REALLY REALLY LOATHED him, was happy with his work.... it took him over a week to get her approval on the church, by then, he had to do it again because they had church... he was pretty much stuck just doing busywork/community service...by his boss... they also made him replace my phone with a retail unopened one.. by the time i got it. i had already had a friend take it to his work, and one of the gals replaced the screen he broke as well as replacing the usb-3.x micro-b port with one that wasnt...glitchy... i full on used keys to clone my data and setup the replacement and, ended up giving the repaired one to a friend whos ex-wife ensured he couldnt afford anything but a flipphone till he proved she was using the child support for plastic/cosmetic surgery.... then he got the kids and shes spent over a decade having her wages garnished to a sever degree and isnt half way back to paying him back for all he paid her... so much he was living in a van in his company parkinglot till the owner found out... and had him talk to the company lawfirm and... well... it didnt take much for them to get more proof as well as find out the daughter knew where mom kept all her medical records... she brought them to dad without being asked... when mom had been gone for almost a month, and the power in the appt was out, no more food.. all the kids had stayed in like mom told them... turned out she went on a vacation overseas with her boyfriend of the month... and...well...forgot to pay the bills, and buy supplies... she had done it before... the very hostile cps gal got a call from his phone, from his daughter... and was confused sure dad kidnapped her.. when she found out he phone and elecricity was turned off at the appt and mom had been gone for a month... she ended up having to admit he was the good parent, mom was...using the support payments for her plastic/cosmetic surgery like he had said all along.. and was why she left him... he wouldnt pay for her to get calf and cheekbone implants... the cops treated my buddy like a criminal when he showed up to get the kids, even though the cps gal who sent them over had said more then once, that he was the good parent to treat him well and help him get the kids ready to move... she was on the way... he was cuffed in the back of a cop car with a nice swelling mark on his cheek/side of his head from the cop hitting him 3 times... that cop faced ZERO reprimand, he won the court case against the PD but the cop kept his job, and one day, made the mistake when not on duty, to say something about it in front of my friends 14yo daughter... she turned around and had him hog tied with his own belt before dad got around the car... (she does calf roping... ) she then explained to him, the only reason his arms had not been dislocated in the process was....dad wouldnt approve... that she knew she would be out of jail, if arrested, faster then he got out of the hosp..if she went to jail.... (shes genuinely terrifying... always has been though... not a psychopath or sociopath, just way too smart, and...way way way too strong... and her temper.... she never "looses her shit" she just makes people suffer till they wish she had just punched them in the dick/cunt.....i say this from personal exp... i pissed her off and... eventually had to beg her to stop... i mean you can only deal with finding peanut butter in all your shoes... or that somebody sprinkled the fine hairs out of rose hips on your clothing/coat...that act like fiberglass... ichy as hell and takes scrubbing to get them out... ).. and on and on for so long, before... "how did she get into my house and room? they live up river..." (hell, i warned her boyfriend never to piss her off and some of why.. he went from laughing at me to a bit of fear to "ok, i will never piss her off, that sounds horrible" hehe... )

[@S.Waters.]

@@purpleking6678, recording a public servant in the course of their duties is not violating their privacy.

[@carriee.9712]

I love how the cop goes “YOU GUYS GOT LUCKY BECAUSE THE CURRENT IN THIS RIVER PICKS UP.” Suuure buddy, the current was so strong that it didn’t move the car for 9 months? Such a joke. No wonder the mother of the missing teen is upset. Incompetence is incompetence.

[@christophercoker2395]

I live less than 5 minutes from this launch at the river the current through the area gets really bad especially after a rain event even if it's in other states this area is the first lake on this particular estuary system which is dam controlled hence the rapid current on most days

[@paulalenker6603]

He was talking to guys that dive all the time!!! He has no idea!

[@annamcwhorter9046]

They dove the Missouri with currents so strong it emptied Jared's tank. He had no idea who he was talking to.

[@CovBert]

They could dive it yes but he wasn't lieing about it geting bad and stuff geting stuck to the car can stop it from moveing and who knows if it has moved or not we just know where it was found on this day

[@carriee.9712]

@@CovBert The fact that the mother told them where to try looking and all the police told her was IF SOMEONE SEES SOMETHING THEY’LL CALL US. The police didn’t have a diving team go search the river before and that’s not right PERIOD. The fact that they also got their own diving team on the scene so fast too was beyond me. Where was this months ago when the teen had just gone missing. Pretty sure they just got lazy.

[@stacyharryman7276]

Unbelievable. As if the family hasn't been through enough. That sheriff should be ABSOLUTELY ASHAMED of himself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@showgirlsaroundtheworlddancer]

The shame of it is "thats the way they are in the south" california would be so different .as you treck easterly law enforcement gets real bad...usually they are blocking things for a reason. They tend to get real excited and offended if they think you are doing their job .

[@foff2246]

@@showgirlsaroundtheworlddancer let's Californians vote them out

[@kmadkins1643]

showgirls around the world a dancer family not all law enforcement are that way. I live in Louisiana and our guys aren’t. So don’t speak what you don’t know.

[@showgirlsaroundtheworlddancer]

@@kmadkins1643 really i own a house in butte...dont tell me what i know.. what my friends that have lived in louisiana for years and what i have experienced...everyone has a right to their opinion so dont point fingers like you think you are somebody special...

[@janinevanderweide]

Realy unbelieveble!!!

[@kellyhill4410]

This was a total slap in the face to the family and to you guys .

[@JamesCrackethCorn]

Based on the officer's first words, "I don't love being recorded." I wonder what else has happened in that jurisdiction that he doesn't want people to know about? Shameful behavior.

[@ivonnecastro3569]

yep made me wonder what other dirt he is hiding

[@DJT7362]

There is no expectation of privacy in public.

[@auntielou3610]

I thought the same thing- some of these local cops are deadbeats. Doing as little as possible and making excuses for their incompetence. If This was from kid whose family was rich, they would move heaven and earth to find answers. The indifference of the first officer was horrid. And as a diver myself, the disrespect was so evident.

[@denissee3707]

Facts! He is a public servant there is no privacy.

[@noongourfain]

@@denissee3707 The law man has the family crying right in front of him and he acts like that? For goodness sake "sir" do you have an ounce empathy? What if that was YOUR son down there? Oh my God!

[@lindsay3793]

The mom seems like a hell of a woman, very strong. She kept it together and I don't know how.

[@katiesmith-wilson5949]

I think coz she’s already grieved, she knew he was there. Mother’s intuition? 🤷‍♀️😭

[@Rietu]

@@katiesmith-wilson5949 I agree - she knew, or at least believed strongly that she knew the answer before even calling these folks in. But believing you know and being given that answer is such a difference. I can't imagine having to wait so many months to be told what you're already grieving about.

[@impossiblethings2851]

Did this boy died 😔😳😕

[@sweetlittlewee]

She’s amazing facing this.

[@neverloozehope2238]

Sometimes as a mother you just know❤

[@roxannesalinas6436]

It’s disgusting how that sheriff acted towards these men. They went out and did their job. Thank you for all you do for these families ❤

[@AxlLeigh]

They went out and did the COPS' jobs too.

[@joanthompson4559]

Well, I feel pretty sure that this gentleman will not be reelected. I hope and pray the new one will be a much better fit for the needs of this community.

[@michaele7880]

Obviously didn’t like being shown up and lack of response exposed.

[@kathivignoe1276]

Yeah the sheriff acted like they found the car

[@aaronzimmer8337]

That jurisdiction is a complete amateur hour. Needs some change from the top down.

[@emilystelter6799]

Jared and Sam you have done a fantastic job of making it aware that you are there to advocate for the family and give them what they need without being hateful or inappropriate. You’ve done a fantastic job.

[@Mack18Eng]

My heart actually hurts how cold and ignorant the first officer is. He was more worried about the "new concrete" than recovering a missing persons' confirmed vehicle. Whether there was a body or not, it is evidence. His handling of this entire finding and scene was disgusting. Any officer telling you not to record should be red flags from the start.

[@douginfotech]

100 %

[@ivyyoung521]

They should lose their JOB for even saying it. IMO

[@jb-dp6yv]

First of all if it is public property you have every damn right to film.(sorry about the language). It just makes me mad to hear someone say things like that. If they don't want you to film then they are hiding something or are afraid of what you will see with the camera.

[@mamashanshan2772]

So upset how the sheriff handled everything. He may think about retiring, his job has made him cold, heartless. Was shocked no one could shake ha D’s, simply, man to man even. Bless the family and you all for helping them. Mamas feel , big hugs to the family and all. I’m also a survivor.

[@Megz1794]

jb 64 probably the second one they probably didn’t want anyone to see a dead body

[@tmichelle9669]

So this is why so many cases go unsolved because of sheriffs like this. I’m glad Jared stood on business! 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@dasani.like.the.water.]

So many cases go unsolved because the cops don’t do anything

[@meemurthelemur4811]

What's so frustrating about this is that everyone in the entire department acts as if it's just a massive inconvenience to be expected to do their jobs.

[@yewnguyen3942]

Sheriffs are elected, how did that gut win? When does he run again

[@cjskel]

I get this sense from every single police force in every video

[@differenttakethanmost]

“Pushback” is that Latin for “Total F-ing Bullshit” ?!?! Unbelievably horrible behavior- that A-hole keeps poking at the mom who just got the worst confirmation possible- he’s continues being just a rude, immature prick. He really should be fired for his reprehensible behavior. Dive team- equally as immature. Abhorrent behavior in such a sad sad situation.

[@brooker1219]

Exactly!!! Everyone seemed so annoyed that they had to retrieve this family’s dead child. I understand getting hardened in this profession, but damn show an ounce of compassion

[@Eagleclaw43567]

As someone pointed out earlier, he was probably planning on finding that vehicle closer to reelection. Now he doesn't look like the hero to the public.

[@vha3742171]

I live in North Carolina. Adventure with Purpose was treated badly. These law enforcement people should have asked them for help. Police there didn't try to find this car. Ty for Adventure With Purpose for coming to NC

[@XSpik5]

Not only did you provide closure, you exposed the incompetence of the local authorities and their lack of empathy toward a grieving family. Good Job.

[@seyamrahman1002]

Sheriff looked like his pride was hurt and couldn’t handle the fact these amazing guys solved what the police couldn’t

[@cartermo13]

Police arent properly trained

[@jessedebter4408]

@ You’re right, they do get a lot of shit! But, a lot of them bring it in themselves! Just like here, the cop had absolutely no business acting like that!

[@hopehartsook4235]

@@cartermo13 unfortunately, they could train a couple of their deputies but they choose not to use funding for it

[@katrabbit]

Sad truth is that police hardly ever want to try to search waterways because of the complications and training involved. Pure laziness is another way to look at it, considering we're talking about peoples lives. We need more people like these guys!! I'm pretty good in the water... I've always wanted my SCUBA license... I'd love to volunteer for something like this. I hope more people will see this and go through the proper steps to get certified and help more people like this beautiful family!

[@katrabbit]

@ only a silly goose would make assumptions about what a stranger thinks on KZbin and think they know them personally enough to call them a _narrow minded moron_ But hey, if you actually read what I wrote... As I said, police *hardly ever* want to search waterways because of the complications and training involved- also money and time. Facts. You can try to dispute it.. but it's well known within the law enforcement community that searching waterways is the last resort in a missing persons case. Which is why it is normally not until a fisherman stumbles across a body that they actually have the dive team suit up and recover them. As I also said this could be seen as pure laziness by some people, on this departments side, considering they were told and given good reason to check there. And considering it's someone's life involved. Just like the lives of the other cases you're saying they are "stacked" with. So no excuses then. It's the same thing. No life is more important than another in their work. Which is why I said in the end, we need more people like this willing to volunteer their time and knowledge to help families out who would have to wait much longer for the sheriffs department to get to it otherwise. Now go have some coffee or tea and relax, no one's coming after you.

[@jo8260]

That cop saying "I bet he's not in there. He's in Georgia with his girlfriend" tells me that they didn't take this case seriously and never really attempted to locate this vehicle in the river regardless of what they say. The cop stated that he knew that there were numerous vehicles at that location so did they check sonar, see the vehicles and then decide to do nothing about it?

[@stephen5113]

@krvnjrcbs even if they had proper funds, i don’t think that would’ve changed anything. the local pd seemed to have thought this was more of a joke rather than a missing persons case.

[@julianneinducing3476]

@krvnjrcbs In the case of the war between minorities and the police force, I agree with you slightly. No case is black and white and I acknowledge the police is important for civilian peace and safety. However, in this case it's about a human life. They should take it seriously. What if it was foul play? What if the body was another case? Just saying, not every police is bad, but not every police is good as well.

[@joysgirl]

@krvnjrcbs, and yet there are volunteer divers in their area, willing to put in the effort at no charge. Caring is the first step.

[@Rockwell19701]

Somebody should give that Sheriff a lie detector test

[@183charlesspiva]

@krvnjrcbs The man counted them out as the camera paned, did you really not watch this after 'deciding' the sheriff was being rightful in being such a p***k, he was elected to serve the public and the price to remove this car from the river that had plenty of suspicions that the boy was probably in the car is something that doesn't matter the cost!

[@tammystevens9657]

You Guys are so sincere we get it. Your wording is hard in these situations. I personally would be glad to know you are excited to find peace for the family. God bless you!

[@reneegb]

The way this sheriff acted is infuriating. Thank you Jared for sticking up for this family and telling them we are not playing this game. Thank you for finding this boy. Rest in Peace sweet soul Nicholas.

[@shearafferty8129]

That sheriff did an extremely poor job at managing this situation, this is seriously disappointing, he should be ashamed.

[@darren6951]

That sherriff needs to realize he is voted into his position and can be replaced next go around if he acts that way. It seems like he didn't even care and was so resistant to helping his community.

[@THX-vb8yz]

Maybe he'll be voted out...

[@totalal4601]

I wonder if there would even have been an apology if wasn't blown up on youtube.

[@Skwisgar2322]

@@THX-vb8yz not in good old boy network like Yadkin co.

[@fire.medic.manchild7685]

As a 24 year paramedic firefighter and a former police officer I can say that sheriff was a complete ass clown and made a fool of himself and his department. I have never seen such unprofessionalism as this sheriff has shown. AWP yall are amazing and I am a new sub! Thank you!

[@dwgaming7474]

He wasn’t sensitive about the issue at all. He kept going back and forth when the family just wanted answers. Its sad that he is the sherif

[@fire.medic.manchild7685]

@@A.Girl.Has.No.Name. thank you for having been a 911 dispatcher. I did that very early in my career and decided I just couldn't be the one sitting on the other end of the radio feeling helpless not being able to be on scene helping. It is an extremely tough and stressful job!

[@Danstaafl]

Wow I just wanted to thank you for saying that! I wanted to but I'm just a dude y'know.. ass clown! Yes! Full-on!

[@spicyboi2223]

Im from the town and this case went down as the most infamously mismanaged case in the towns history

[@terrigieger2503]

Your "words" are fine! Anyone watching can see, hear, and feel your sincere caring hearts! God Bless ya'll! ❤❤❤

[@kent.6063]

"That's going to be a problem because the county just built this"..... That guy doesn't need to remain in his position. That sherriff is absolutely worthless.

[@mrs.growelove]

Worthless as wet bread on a sandwich. Just ridiculous!

[@kaytlyntyson628]

Absolutely, his attitude from the beginning pissed me off.

[@mikemurphy8656]

He is why cops are getting a bad name

[@bladenrexroth2555]

Where's the money really going. They get all this state of the art equipment to collect further revenue, yet can't even serve the public they swore an oath to. Pathetic.

[@LongnailsNJ]

I agree 100% it's not the way any official should act...

[@miriamtaylor4405]

"They started on me." What a childish response. This family just found out for sure that their loved one is dead, maybe shut the hell up and be as helpful as possible. That whole interaction made me want to scream.

[@bellajaid]

Not only that, but the reason it took so long for the family to get definitive answers is because of the Sherriff's incompetence.

[@xxlunaxx8562]

😨

[@Brittany_Pettus]

I did scream and cuss and cry

[@proudfather2954]

@@Brittany_Pettus woah over dramaric much?

[@Brittany_Pettus]

@@proudfather2954 I dont think so I've had something similar happen to me

[@kimberly800801]

This mom is a realist and she is a fighter! I give her major RESPECT. The sheriff should be ashamed of how he acted and should resign.

[@christinas.5240]

He knew damn well he was going to mistreat everyone that wasn't apart of his little gang!!! He also wanted his face blocked out, SO HE COULDN'T BE "IDENTIFIED" IDIOT ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS LOOK UP LOCAL SHERIFF FOR , EYZ........ 😂😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂ALSO YOU'RE IN A PUBLIC AREA FOOL!! ANYONE CAN TAKE VIDEOS/PHOTOS OF YOU, IN A PUBLIC AREA IDIOT!!! Last time I checked these dirty Weasels are PUBLIC SERVANTS!!!!! WHO DO THEY SERVE?? THE DAMN PUBLIC!! THERE IS ALWAYS ONE OR TWO THAT HAVE POWER STRUGGLES!!! THEY WERE HELLA PISSED OFF BECAUSE AWP FOUND THE MISSING BOY SO QUICKLY!! THEY NEED TO GET OFF THEIR HIGH HORSES, SUCK IT UP, AND ACT LIKE PROFESSIONALS!!! UNFORTUNATELY THEY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IT MEANS TO BE POLITE/PROFESSIONAL! THIS IS WAY SO MANY PEOPLE HATE POLICE OFFICERS!! SAD, BUT TRUE.

[@daisysmith9148]

I was just going to comment something similar! Even the way she didn’t let them try to explain themselves when they said they were “excited” bc she knew what they meant. She just wants answers about what happened to her son. I feel bad for her family!

[@DaniqueEmiliaSteinfeld]

I hope they fired him if he didn't resign. What a dumb peace of *.

[@mleytem]

Came on here to say the same. I resonated with her thought process!

[@JustAFace_InTheCrowd]

Absolutely. As the granddaughter of a military officer and police officer (grandpa was both) the sheriff disgusted me. My grandpa would have called his district for a few choice words (if he was still here, rest his soul)… I honestly think he’s the kind of person that should be removed from his job. People are going to DIE under that man’s watch. That is sad. Someone should petition him gone if he’s not removed.

[@cindymacdonald8655]

This is such a heartbreaking case. Such a young man, my sincere sympathies go out to this family. Love and prayers from Canada. Thank you AWP, you’re organization is incredible 🙏❤️

[@valeriejones8755]

I cannot believe how condescending and disrespectful that deputy was to this family. Unbelievable!

[@blaketerrell1021]

find out how to contact him if you can and send it to me. thanks.

[@Marcelg13]

@@blaketerrell1021 If you think to harrass him than that wont make you any better.

[@bluelambda]

@@Marcelg13 i mean he could report him but i doubt that blake is gonna do that

[@K1NG0FW0LV35]

@@blaketerrell1021 what could you possible do except catch a charge for harassment? trust me you cant win with a douchebag like that.

[@fijiwizard]

Welcome to the south Police in the the South are useless & love to cause problems. If your not in a city or a big enough town, good luck I’m praying for you I’m in North Carolina as well right by Raleigh so I know first hand

[@izvicx586]

That sheriff needs to be removed from his position and blacklisted from any official positions.

[@joshwilliams475]

Absolutely

[@Ddakota00]

The officer's should turn in there badges , coz there customer service sucks and so does the way the conduct there investigation.

[@ladytrekkeradventures8376]

The initial officer was a real jerk some of these agencies want the glory but not the work.

[@kathleenmarchand4672]

Agreed

[@XxCodWiLL3RxX]

well to begin with by refusing to get filmed hes basicly not respecting the law

[@anjiemarie1]

The cop was more concerned about the freshly laid concrete than recovering the car and body. Y'all should vote him out if he's an elected official.

[@christiancowgirl8282]

Nah, HE SHOULD BE FIRED WITH NO POSSIBLITY OF BEING ABLE TO GET ANY OFFICIAL'S JOB OR ANY LAW ENFORCEMENT JOB EVER AGAIN DURING HIS LIFETIME, PERIOD!!! THERE'S SOMETHING "" EVIL IN HIS SOUL "",,, IF YOU WANNA CALL IT A SOUL, TO ACT, BEHAVE, IN THE WAY HE DID!!!

[@lesfry5897]

@@christiancowgirl8282 All I see in response is CAPS.

[@christiancowgirl8282]

@@lesfry5897 AND??? 😂 I DIDN'T COMMENT BECAUSE I CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS SAY ABOUT MY COMMENTS, 😂 SERIOUSLY DUDE, GROW UP & GET A LIFE, IF ALL U HAVE TIME TO DO IS SCROLL AND PLAY YOUR CHILD LIKE GAMES, BOY DO I NEED TO PRAY FOR YOU, 😂😂😂😆😆😆 HOPE YA HAVE A BLESSED DAY & MY CAPS DON'T CAUSE YA TO HAVE A MELT DOWN OR TOTAL NERVOUS BREAK DOEN :) GOD BLESS :)

[@stressmuffin]

All I can say is that I hate it when, people like that heartless bastard of an officer, are in professions, like law enforcement, first responders, medicine, healthcare, anything that serves the community to protect the safety & lives of the community, do those jobs for money & prestige. Plus they don’t care about not doing their jobs right & also, don’t care about anybody but the money & prestigious title. Shame on that officer, who was cruel & ungrateful to our guys in Adventures with Purpose for helping solve the case, but it really pissed me off that the officer was so unprofessional, hurtful, uncaring & disrespectful to Judy & her family. Well that’s ok! On the local news of that town, it’s Adventures with Purpose, who got the credit for finding Nick & Judy’s car. Plus, Judy thanked the guys for their help.

[@raymondschlagenhauff5129]

The officer was extremely unprofessional but I am gonna say that the police have certain rules they must abide by and would also need the resources which they probably didn’t have and on top of that are most likely dealing with hundreds of other cases as well but that’s what the dive team is for is to recover things such a car in a river.

[@triciamarieferguson3455]

This is the 1st time I've seen this episode. Being a suicidal survivor myself. I love the emotional little talk that was said. Bless you Jared and all of AWP. Bringing closure to families is so important. No answers = pain.

[@danmathias2711]

I hope the people of this community see the way that this Sheriff acted and remember it when it comes time to elect a new one.

[@thomasallen6980]

That is a problem with policing. They only hire from within and if you let one bad apple rise to the top it takes years to get the poison out of the work environment.

[@FortniteDad39]

Or remove them now....

[@FortniteDad39]

@@guyfanno1 lol

[@caramelsurpriz]

@@thomasallen6980 you're not totally wrong but the sheriff is an elected official

[@ti-lo5hy]

@@guyfanno1 lol yeah i bet they did

[@andiedale7102]

That officer has caused so much more trauma to the family then they should ever have to experience. Thank you to Jared for being the voice they needed.

[@BMS453]

Oh I agree. Wtf did he say oh he’s prob in Georgia with his girlfriend. Like come on. This mom definitely has a close relationship with her son and if he took off to see his gf I’m sure he would have told Her. This was so sad. That first officer I hope he is no longer the sheriff

[@melwilson4171]

Officer is such a tool. He needs some sensitivity training. In talking to Jared he said, “They started it..”. Could you imagine speaking that way to a grieving family. He doesn’t want to be on camera, cuz he’s embarrassed that he was wrong.

[@wayneshearon3203]

Exactly my thoughts andie.

[@VANNATTA66]

@@BMS453 wouldn’t common sense say he would drive there in the vehicle that was missing? The officer had zero investigative skills.

[@DaniqueEmiliaSteinfeld]

It makes me so sad that people like that can be officers.

[@nicolepalmer9795]

That officer acted SO inconvenienced. That was disgusting. How DARE he act that way while trying to find a child.. an actual child. I’m so mad.

[@karenstroll3837]

Acting like someone who doesn't want a case solved. 🐠 fishy

[@blakeholte4602]

@@thebeasters Not most, but yeah that dude was an absolute ass.

[@joshuaw4258]

Hasn't it already been 8 months tho and u know they gone

[@blakeholte4602]

@@joshuaw4258 well yeah he was totally dead, but it is important to get it out, confirm it and allow that family to come to terms with what has happened.

[@kellylarue9813]

Exactly! I know there are procedures and protocols but his attitude was nasty!

[@MorbidMissMuffet]

That officer... Wow. Thank you for finding that boy ❤❤ Im so glad the family has closure.

[@atheistbarbieboy4687]

I'm absolutely disgusted by the Sheriff's misconduct and hope he gets fired. I'm also impressed at how well you guys handled the situation.

[@justicejohnsonpi]

Yes, shocking how uneducated this law agency is.

[@nina2222]

Yes I agree what an angry, insecure man looks like he was raised in the jungle

[@kathymcmahon5308]

You would have thought they would be extremely grateful to AWP for doing such a wonderful job. Most agencies are

[@rumham7466]

@@kathymcmahon5308 nah his fragile little weasel ego was mad for being showed-up. Ugh just the way he walked up with that attitude.

[@mrsparrish10]

"Does want to be film" "doesn't matter he signed up for this"😏

[@medicmakenna]

EMT here. It doesn’t matter if we had found the patient or a third party did. This isn’t about us. This is about the family. The selfishness of the sheriff is of no importance and his only care should have been what the family needed to grieve. This. Is. About. The. Family. Not us. End of story.

[@lindaspencerlee9896]

You all are such a caring guys because only for what you are doing the family's would be still waiting for answers I wish there were more people like you in the world God bless you all I'm praying for the family and all the family's who have their loved ones home and the family's who are waiting for their family members to come home 🙏🙏🙏

[@lindaspencerlee9896]

@@griffincontracting everyone is different some don't believe in God but maybe they believe in something else and it's not God that hurts people It is other people who do that but I understand what you are trying to say

[@aztib]

well i don't agree because he could have taking action much much sooner than this and it's because of these men from oregon who find their son and it is because of them the car was pulled up 8 MONTHS they had to wait while she told them she knew HE WAS THERE! but nope this ...... simply refused to help out until the divers from oregon showed uyp and found him whitin a hour and then he was angry about these divers??? shame on him. sorry but i am soooo pissed if it was for him he would never took any time to find this son. so IT DOES MATTER A LOT. CREDIT to all who took their free time to help out and i hope that in this a big lesson will be learned and THANK GOD not all police is as this.............person who calles himself sherrif.

[@medicmakenna]

@@aztib My comment was saying the sheriff was in the wrong not the divers.

[@lindaspencerlee9896]

@@aztib when I watched that video I got so mad if I could put my self through the TV and in front of that Sheriff I think I'd of said things to make him feel less than a flea All he was worried about was the new footpath that was laid down 😠 not the young man who was in the water he didn't care about his family who were devastated I think he should be put behind a desk pushing papers 😠😠😠 and if he is like that with everyone he should be fired

[@saraibauer1662]

He did for sure say he wasn’t in the car! In fact word for word he said “I’m going to go ahead and say he’s not in there” he’s just upset his ego is bruised cause he failed this family.

[@ashmaybe9634]

Absolutely, caught lying within minutes. Terrible job.

[@Liftingtheveilx]

@T.L Hill omg really? maybe they made a pact or something? WOW so young, so sad!

[@danielbrundidge8395]

am I the only person who noticed the sheriff not only was insistant that first it wasn't the car, then his body wouldn't be there, and then, they couldn't bring a towtruck because there was a new concrete pad leading down to the water??? What's under the concrete pad, this officer knows or did something....

[@Angryginger2421]

@T.L Hill If she was they would've told us I would also like to know as well though

[@Angryginger2421]

@T.L Hill I looked her name up she was found safe four months later www.missingkids.org/blog/2020/found-safe-julia-mann

[@jess33080]

When trudy said you dont know what this means to us, my heart broke i was in that poation for 3 1/2 yrs. My story had a different ending we were abke to bring mine home. However the not knowing is the hardest position to be in, your stuck in this perpetual limbo.

[@SuperZytoon]

The sheriff is more afraid of being filmed rather than working to bring this young boy out of the water. He showed his true colors when he began the conversation on the offensive. He should be deeply ashamed.

[@peteheyde7999]

The good news is that Sheriffs are the only police force that are elected by the people, and can get thrown out by the people. That is a HUGE difference and a way to remind them that they work for US! I wish more citizens would realize this and get involved instead of just whining!

[@kimF510]

The sheriff is embarrassed because he knows his department is incompetent!

[@Perlaisabaddog]

The officer was extremely entitled and didn’t help at all. Those divers had her back!!

[@MississippiGirl0013]

Exactly

[@someskitles3694]

The officer is the guy called rock right? Or idk I litterly just found this video I'm just stared watching them

[@janicestevenson7109]

the cop acted that way because they do not like to be proved wrong which they are so frequently are.

[@johnwallace6974]

As an Officer that has been in the profession for over 20 years, I would like to say that the Investigator is an embarrassment to the profession.

[@ellemmenn2930]

Unfortunately it’s the few bad apples that ruin it for the rest of you. Thank you for your service sir!!

[@wileecoyote5749]

You're an 8 year old Asian. The hell you talking about?

[@r.d.ontheroad-1094]

I second that! It would be nice if he took a long overdue vacation, not paid either!!

[@laurencecope7083]

The officer is a complete disgrace,sounds like he is covering up for his lack of competence, the family have no faith in the law department sherrif

[@zesolodar]

yep, spot on. unfortunately there are alot of sheriff departments that are completely useless when it comes this type of work. i use to work for a tv station and one of the things i had to go out and film was a car that drove into a river. i caught the lead investigator sitting in his car watching a movie on his computer in his car. i called him out on it saying is this really what you should be doing right now and instead of getting out of his car and doing his job he just rolled up his window and continued what he was doing

[@lorijohnson1424]

Another word for excited would be “eager” to look into this car! When dealing with death it is so difficult to find the right words. You guys are doing an amazing job helping people. Never apologize for that.

[@billyteague2433]

I realize this an older video, but I hope you see the comment. I was a LEO for twenty years, in fact you all have recovered missing folks from my jurisdiction, and want you to know I’m ASHAMED of the way you were treated by LE in this case. Especially the first guy on scene; his abrasiveness and lack of professionalism was astounding. You’re good people doing a good thing and deserve all the help you can get. God bless you all.

[@OliverTwistedFk]

l was in child torture films, we were trained not to tell and society was trained not to listen. It may not seem related to this but it is. If we didn't obey we didn't go home. There are many ways to come up missing.

[@tinaappel3093]

The cop ego won't let it be what it is and it's that you found the love one and brought peace to the family. No parties no rewards or pats on the back . Cops on that thin blue line are all about them. You did what they couldn't or wouldn't.

[@infinitelyfinite758]

Also coming into this late but work as an engineer and regularly replace sidewalk/trails. It would not cost that county much to replace a handful of panels of concrete and they could have directed them to limit the disturbance. It's regularly done for much more routine reasons than this even when it's in great shape.

[@sandymagarin5497]

THANK YOU SO MUCH 😢IT'S LEOS LIKE HIM THAT GIVE YOU ALL A BAD NAME. I HOPE HE WAS FIRED HE WAS MORE HOSTILE THAN A SEVERE CRIMINAL.....

[@Sandra-m3t6v]

You reap what you sow, he will anaerobic for this and more important what kind of more pain he put on all involved but this wasn't about this po it was about getting this family what they asked for peace for this families soon is who it's about THE YOUNG PERSON WHO MATTERED NO MATTER WHAT. ❤There's no words that I can express to the family for there loss, but always remember he's not gone he's just away. Prayers, hug, love, comfort and peace for each of you. ✨️❤️🤲🙏🎁❤️✨️

[@shay9945]

That Sheriff’s department is in need of an attitude adjustment. Shameful the way they acted. They made themselves look really bad. Thank y’all for all you do to help people!!!

[@pohjantuulet247]

As someone who works on the Security field, interracts with local law enforcement on an occasion and has respect for the job they do, this really hits below the belt. As an Officer of the law, You're serving the public. Its your legal and moral obligation to aid your community if the need arises, and theres no shame in asking other Departments or independent professionals for help, if your Departments own know-how and / or resources cant cover it. You dont just mosey on over somewhere else when theres real work to be done, pretending like you're occupied with better things to do. And while i get that the job might be stressful in terms of field conditions and the deskjob bureaucracy, its still a job that needs to be done. You can make your situation better by at least trying to keep your attitude in line.

[@iamagooddog21]

@@pohjantuulet247 lol

[@margaretchabot2692]

Your so right

[@anniebland6450]

@@pohjantuulet247 Very well said.

[@s4dreamland671]

Just a prick!

[@DW-ph2xg]

This police officer is what is wrong with law enforcement. He should not be serving the public. Well done Jared!

[@b-radvinylindustries]

He's not serving the public, he just wants to do a job instead. He's supposed to serve the public, but has removed that from his duties because it doesn't sound like he a man that wants to do thr job right

[@rpgleafy5318]

Aye man, I was you first subscriber

[@cathysueneeleygillam136]

Motivative is the first word that comes to mind.. Hope it helps. I think all that you guys do is so respectful and heart felt. Thank you all for everything you do, May God Bless each and everyone of you and your families.

[@johnmcdonald5885]

As an EMT who has participated in several body recoveries, the attitude of the officer who responded was absolutely disgusting! He showed no empathy for the family and no remorse for his comments and instantaneous defensive posture. He either needs to undergo sensitivity training or just resign. Thank you AWP for everything you do.

[@misseselise3864]

and he made it clear that he didn’t look because he didn’t want to and not bc he didn’t think the car was there

[@rhythmf.4460]

@@jlgunn922 we can complain, just need the city this was filmed in

[@notsponsored103]

You can't teach sensitivity to a narcissist

[@jonbarx6981]

That cop was just an absolute prideful dick. Plain and simple. It's cops like him giving pd's bad reps

[@frannewman9775]

@@jlgunn922 my thoughts exactly this is shocking the attitude this poor family

[@motonoah8769]

Wow. That’s kinda disturbing that Judy(the mom) always sat on that bench knowing her son was in that lake, and he was literally 20 feet from her.

[@Brittany_Pettus]

Moms just know. This whole situation is just so heartbreaking 💔 😢

[@janetvisockis6515]

@@Brittany_Pettus yes we do

[@mandopianoify]

🥺💔

[@bodeboop-6360]

I feel as though he was trying to tell her, “Mama I’m right here”

[@kp4636]

I love how Jared stands up for the family. What a group of great people- the team, not the police in this town. They made fools of themselves.

[@hazzaplayz808]

Spot on

[@florenault4507]

Yeah the authorities in that community are a bunch of goats balls ! Ego is a downfall on any human being

[@CherylBorst]

As a fellow Oregonian, I'm very proud of the work you do.

[@bobevans83]

I’m glad you were recording this entire event. This is a form of accountability. The local police department should absolutely be ashamed

[@patsfaith]

⁠@@mpshotattwice3253Because he didn’t want his true colors and disregard for this family and the AWP team. What a jerk!

[@ryanmajors6115]

Did the family sue the police department…they should

[@naughtyducky29]

​@@mpshotattwice3253I'm so glad Jared didn't take this video down

[@dalerimoller272]

You were right on the money with that statement- “we don’t make them look bad, they make themselves look bad.” You held yourselves so well; I don’t think I could have been as gracious to these pigs. And to make myself clear, I’ve never called officers pigs. These “men” are absolute trash though. Telling a grieving mother her teenage son ran off with his girlfriend?! Infuriating. Find a new job, something with less power to fuel your little man syndrome. Pathetic. To the family, I am so sorry for your loss and for the disrespect you were shown by that man. I hope you’re able to find a sense of peace now that Nick has been found and brought home. Wish you all the best.

[@dragoneyeez]

Maybe the girlfriend story he tried on the family was what the sheriff convinced himself happened because he didn’t do right by the family from beginning to end and didn’t get the job done. Hmmm I’m curious of what “proof” this little man had of searching the river already that he pulled the mom aside to show her. As a mom and grandma my heart aches for this boys family.

[@oasisfani8353]

And why is it always with young people: Hey they run away!? Are those cops too lazy to do they´re job they are paid to do!! They serve us, and sometime´s somebody need´s to eat humble pie and get fired😡😤. In my home country young people under 18 goes missing cops are on full search. So if indeed there is a crime, it´s better go on a full than say: oh it´s just kid´s they run away , than oh shit there´s been crime. And now is too late to get forensics.. And even if you are adult and it´s out of your character to go missing police go full search to find the missing. That is one reason we love our police and trust them. Of course like any other country there just are people you are never gonna find. And that´s sad😢😭. It´s like Puff and there are no sightings or anything. It´s rare to dissapear volantary here. So almost every missing case is accident or homicide.. What these guy´s do are outstanding. And i´m happy(well you know) that families finally have an ending. Oh i live in Finland sory my spelling. I´m dyslexic.

[@Sir_Richard_Stewart]

ME Too

[@ardycekritikos7838]

Let's all agree that these police were terribly rude and their behavior was definitely not attractive

[@DaniqueEmiliaSteinfeld]

This man should 1000% be fired over this. What a pig. I hope he feels the shame every single day for at least 8 months. You were so Wrong man!!

I am a criminologist and a former police officer and in my years of service I have never seen a superior officer act the way this Sheriff has acted...beyond an apology, there are mechanisms in place to stop him from serving the community. I just think (because of the white of his hair and that to get to that position) you must have experience and years of service with an impeccable resume within the police...remember that Sheriffs are elected by their community...he does not deserve to be there...he detracts from the work that others do with ethics and mysticism. Unfortunately to see that his officers kept "obeying" like lambs...I am sorry for such an outrage.... My heartfelt condolences to the family and my sincere support to Aventures with purpose. #RIPNICK

[@noongourfain]

Why on God's green earth would a public servant act so foolish??? What if it were a member of his family? is it about who gets paid?

[@connectionoflivesandinterests]

@@noongourfain *Right!!! 🤦🤦🤦* Sharon in SC

[@eltonjimenez1616]

Amén 🙏 well said.

[@charlottejohnson2070]

These officers showing up, attitude, 11+vehicles, divers not even friendly: Are they trying to be dramatic or saying Nicholas was murdered, a BIG drug dealer. Why so many officers show up now. Very suspicious of their behavior, with no sympathy to family. Very odd, and not in the best interest of grieving family. Stalling around, waiting so late to get vehicle out. Do officers know something they don't want family to find out. Something is not right about this situation and don't know if family ever find out complete truth. Odd 😕

[@jasonhodges6645]

That guy needs to be fired and this sheriff department is a disgrace

[@74SeaShell]

Absolute legends!! Thank you for assisting all of those grieving families looking for their missing loved ones ❤ When updating the family of your progress, perhaps you could say ‘we’re encouraged, motivated or eager to dive on this vehicle as it appears to match vehicle description’ to replace the word excited 😘

[@BookswithAmanda]

I really hope the residents vote this sheriff out. He's useless.

[@ncsaddlehunter77]

I live in a neighboring County and I can assure you that folks around here do not take kindly to officers and sheriffs acting this way and it is extremely likely that he will not be in office much longer if the residents are made aware of how this was handled.

[@SkateSpeech]

Detective Parks was the one being a jerk. The actual Sheriff shows up later in the video and is the guy with the tattoos on his arm that sent the film/dive crew and family to the bridge to watch. Parks has always been an asshole. He’s useless unless you need some teenagers harassed. He tried to search my house one time and used the plastic from a pack of chicken to try and make it out like I was selling drugs. I told him to smell it and his dumb ass almost threw up when he inhaled all that rancid chicken stank. His partner laughed uncontrollably at him and they went on with their day.

[@jerryjuliangutierrez7536]

Dont u worry I live in Lexington n.c and that peace of shit will b purged out

[@shaynelowther8893]

Wow, with what is going on right now he should have known better. He truly is a complete arsehole. At least you can find some closure and he can rest in peace.

[@emeraldisle70]

@@blanning2058 a quick google search of the so called Detective Parks revealed he was officer of the year back in 2016. I guess he lost something along the way. 🤷‍♂️

[@mariearmstrong9185]

If this officer acts this way in front of cameras for 1000's of people to see can you imagine what he does to people when no one else is around?

[@TheRockyMountain]

I will never trust a cop especially from the south. A disgrace of a human being.

[@corym.4971]

I've seen it said too many times to count: there isn't a day so horrible that an officer can't find a way to make it worse.

[@kelseyblue576]

its millions now my dude

[@F_K3NT_D]

Vote that entire organization out of their seat

[@audit_the_pigs]

That's scary 👍

[@melissacameron5068]

Unbelievable that the sheriff acted like this. Law enforcement doesn’t usually have the budget or manpower to conduct these searches so they should be great full for any help you offer them! Thank you for what you do!

[@samuelbeasley3]

It shows that that county sheriff didn't want to do his job No sooner than Jarrett's team did the real work They found the resources to call a dive team in Why didn't they do that in the 1st place on day one Bad attitude and butt hurt He couldn't stand that a real professional team came in And Did in one hour what they couldn't do in 8 months

[@leob4403]

I had no idea US law enforcement was this pathetic, by European standards it would be unheard of that they wouldnt even bother to check a small body of water for the deceased

[@kaycwtchmahoney2940]

You have given him back his family will lay home to rest knowing he is respected and worth time to look for him . Heartbroken for his family x

[@sthrngngrsnp]

I am deeply DISGUSTED with the Sheriff's department! I'm beyond words of just how disrespectful they were to AWP as well as the family. If notice it was stated a couple times where a local fire department contacted them to help dive and bring answers for the family. Thank you AWP for yet another job giving this family answers. And your emotions definitely showed just how much you bring to each case.

[@robertbartlett5110]

It’s how most of them all.

[@jessicaandrews2471]

Disgusting

[@virginiahall4030]

As I am to his non chalant way and how he treated the grieving family 😢😢😢

[@martineharmens835]

Hé is disrespctful with the familie and jared. Sorry hoor zo ga je als agent niet om met de familie wannneer de auto net is gevonden. Schande.

[@savanamoon107104]

I know it's even more disgusting? He's been on the Carolinas' cold case coalition since 2018 and he is blatantly ignoring the multiple vehicles in this river that could be answers to cold cases. His name is Richie Simmons and almost 2 years later he's still in office

[@channineward1305]

I was utterly disgusted at the way the sheriff handled the situation at hand, so insensitive, rude. Your team does a wonderful service to these families that need closure. If only more people could be as caring as you, this world would be much nicer. Well done.

[@luismontes2565]

That was one hell of a discusting police officer very horrible jerk!!

[@Rocker-1234]

i looked in the comments before reaching that part of the video and was wondering what everyone was on about.... as someone with alot of friends in first response, yea that sheriff is 100% part of the 1% that make cops look bad. dudes a freaking disgrace on a egotrip

[@mikehunt8247]

Hes covering his tracks they made him look really bad

[@jessecollins5072]

As a retired LEO myself, this officer's behavior is completely unprofessional and an embarrassment to the profession. Your team handled his asshattery very professionally. God bless you.

[@jimieramirez3087]

He was a bitch all I got to say damm coo

[@1240okeene]

Asshatery? lmao

[@sylviamccutcheon1193]

Exactly what he didn’t want videoed! He should be ashamed

[@a.walters123]

They are perpetuating the stigma that all LEO are impersonal and arrogant. It’s unfortunate because AWP has come across amazing LEO in other cases.

[@kabukidreamboy]

What a total uncaring fwit! The worst example of police officer I have seen for a while.

[@astridchico-y4m]

you guys deserved nothing but respect !! for what you guys do for familys !! and for him just to come around and make it worst after not doing anything for sooo many months !!!!

[@m1n11vrc]

This family deserved so much more better treatment and care from the police. Thank you so much for bringing them closer.

[@VKrulikoski]

Can you imagine having to stand there and argue till you're blue in the face to get them to do their job? I'd lose it.

[@m1n11vrc]

@@VKrulikoski I know, it makes me so upset to know things like this happen daily.

[@B_u_r_r]

The police deserve to not have a job with any sort of authority

[@mommabear2646]

This is in my hometown!!! We used to swim here at the dam when we were kids!!!

[@yahtotv5492]

So many police ignore the law of the land, the constitution. They act more and more like Gestapo.

[@wolflocke]

What's interesting to me about this, is that a year later, even Insider Edition is bad mouthing these arrogant cops for claiming that they couldn't dive in this river right up until the point AWP got there, and dived the river. Makes me wonder if that department should be audited. And heavily.

[@addiegraves3]

An internal investigation,an audit and firing of the Sheriff with no pension benefits is needed ASAP

[@tonykeer]

ur right maybe they are hiding something

[@tonykeer]

@@Francois_Dupont yea or some other ppl that they want gone its a perfect way just make it look like they suicide this way when its actuly murder u never know

[@YouTubeExplore777]

Do you like James Freeman as an auditor?

[@lavenderandwine]

One of the things that annoyed me is how he was condescending to the dive team with his whole "you know the currents in here are real tricky" nonsense to a dive team that does this for a living. Cop was so damn arrogant and full of himself I'm surprised he could see daylight with how far his head was shoved up his ass. The way they handled everything really does make you wonder what they're hiding. I used to be a clerk at a district court, and the corruption I saw there was just ridiculous.

[@megandenney622]

That sheriff has skeletons in his closet. He was defensive and rude. "Doesnt mean theres a body in there." "How do you know is the car? Wheres the evidence?" This sheriff should be ashamed of himself. Thank you AWP for all you do! And to the family, my prayers are with you ♥️

[@Bernice-j9x]

I'd probably say glad to find the crossover. Always so bitter sweet no matter what work you use. You bring so much relief to people, you'd say closure. Love ya Jared.

[@johngrant8473]

Do not ever apologize to the police again. They 100% failed that young man, that family, and the community. You as an out side did more in an hour and a half than the F-Troop did months.

[@ΒΞΔΝ]

They played it perfectly. Took the high road, while also putting that "sheriff" in his place several times.

[@Megatron2u]

Oddly enough I agree with both of you guy's lol.

[@TheJessicahammerly]

They are just trying to not escalate the situation and make it harder on the family..

[@cp1487]

Also there's no way they searched that area. It was 20 feet from shore and not deep. They didn't do their job

[@Prestfon12345]

i honestly agree with you

[@lpschick7237]

As a former 911 dispatcher, FF/EMT I can tell you that Sheriff’s Office was pissed because you guys did what they didn’t. Get answers for that family. They should have been thankful for your help & assistance. If I was incident command I would have welcomed all of your help & assistance. At the end of the day regardless if you are a public official, volunteer or 3rd party the most important thing is a 17 year old son, brother, nephew & friend was located & can be laid to rest. I’m sorry you had such a negative experience. Rest In Peace Nick. ♥️😔

[@brucebarrett2009]

Former 911 dispatcher also and I totally agree.

[@Dislob]

Yes. That Sheriff must learn to leave his ego at home. There was no reason to be so defensive other than him being scared to lose face because of his incompetence.

[@lpschick7237]

@@brucebarrett2009 yeah we both know how it is. 😉

[@patriciastrassner4883]

Didn't, wouldn't, couldn't. These men do it for free. There are many good people who want to help if the "professionals" would put away their fragile egos and work for those who elected and pay them.

[@patriciastrassner4883]

@@Dislob and laziness.

[@monteme4691]

This deputy was purely horrible, he was defensive to the point that he was trying to make it out that they were making it up that they found the vehicle.

[@cindylouwho8028]

EGO

[@weatherchaser1166]

While inexcusable, his behavior probably represented his embarrassment that a team from Oregon showed up and took an hour to find him. When you have elected officials that just "mail it in" because they've been there way too long, it's time for some replacements.

[@organicthug5220]

Mind blowing. No wonder they had to come out and find the car themselves. Sickening

[@darthjayder2927]

and all he was worrying about was them filming him and wasn't worried about being there for the family

[@ryanb8736]

He’s guilty of something.