African American Dating in New Zealand

[@robertfairburn9979]

Women are far more likely to do the chasing. My wife and her pack of she devils hunted me down like a wild animal. I’ve been in happy captivity for nearly twenty years with no plans of escape.....very very happy with my wonderful wife.

[@JacqueElias365]

lololol She can take the fence down now!

[@K_Love_777]

💝👑👍

[@alle1358]

🤭🤭😂😂

[@tracyreadytv]

😂😂😂😂

[@ruthchitakunye2943]

😂😂😂

[@maxoutput01]

Dont come further south then...we are more laid back and reserved in the South island than the North...lol..But the biggest thing here in New Zealand is we dont really judge by colour...for most of us Kiwis its more about personality and compatibility than anything else...well me anyway. Just cause we dont express ourselves as much as Americans, does not mean we are not interested, we are just not overly emotional as American guys are so we wont go chasing someone hard out or tell you every 5 mins how stunning or hot or beautiful you are just so you can feel good about yourself...you should anyway.

[@tktjandalz8897]

I live in Christchurch....haven't had an issue with racism yet

[@bobking234]

I look for white girls coz I know I ain’t related to them

[@tktjandalz8897]

two humping "this bitch thinks she's intelligence.." < that statement shows the amount of intelligence you have.

[@tktjandalz8897]

two humping lol big words over a keyboard, boy

[@tktjandalz8897]

two humping you seem like you're the type to threaten people online, but get his ass whooped every fight. Lol. Learn to spell as well, dipshit.

[@jgribhamnz]

Yes we are not the most expressive. 100% accurate. I can see how it would take getting used too. I was shocked on my first visit to America. I found people to be so over the top and sentimental. It was too much for me.. it comes across as fake and insincere (not saying it is.. just due to my culture I percieved it like that). My friend called America a nation of showmen. Rings true to me.. that's the other observation that struck me. Americans are outgoing and loud. We're reserved and laid-back.

[@JacqueElias365]

james gribble Yeah I can see how you would get those impressions, but only because I’ve been here a few years now. I didn’t really understand those differences when I first arrived. I’m still learning. Thanks for your comment.

[@JacqueElias365]

Agreed. I can totally see how Americans would seem over the top to Kiwis. Same as Kiwis seem shy to Americans.

[@jamesglenn4266]

Jacque Elias- not just Kiwis but most other people that live outside of America know how to keep their thoughts to themselves. Unlike Americans who think they have to tell everyone every little thought that enters their head. You always hear Americans before you see them.

[@futurebound9490]

@@jamesglenn4266 Isn't nice to experience the variety that humanity has to offer? Thanks for your opinion.

[@halfalligator6518]

They're all the star of their own show.

[@uchihahikaku1630]

This is cool. I don't think it's a nz thing in general to compliment people anyway so don't be so surprised on that part. It's not that they don't care to make one, it's that their focus is more towards a persons personality. There aren't any expectations about pursuing potential partners here either as far as i understand. The thing with kiwi's is that if they want to do something they will. If a guy wants to make a move he will, if a girl wants to she will. Although i suspect some girls would rather be pursued but kiwi's are too laid back to care who does it first haha. You call it non expressive, it's just the kiwi attitude actually, it's simply laid back. A little too laid back by the looks of it. I think you're pretty by the way. It's nice to see an African American woman's perspective on kiwi guys.

[@thecurrentmoment]

"The thing with kiwi's is that if they want to do something they will"" Well said I think this sums up a lot of what I see with other cultures where they "expect" you to behave in a certain way, I think. Kind of like, whatever goes. Very accepting too, in general

[@JacqueElias365]

Thanks! Your explanation is very helpful.

[@r0xdab0x96xo]

Yeah I agree. I think a lot of it also revolves around being able to read situations without direction. Body language, social cues, conversation topics etc. Even the way we talk you've gotta read between the lines, we love saying the least possible with the most information behind it. How someones face looks that day, how someone walks the next day. It's more just being aware of others in an analytical sense. Some of the best conversations we have never have words. It can be quite jarring and alarming, tbh I'm pretty sure over 60% of Kiwi's have social anxiety and we've managed to look convincing that we're not. I don't think we much like announcing our thoughts or intentions, but I can gaurentee they are definitely there. We're just slow, laid back go with the flow, what will be will be. We also love chitchat and being helpful, you can approach almost anyone for a favor, question or short conversation etc. Our compliments come in a obscured way just as everything else, but if you can figure out the lingo, we talk a tonne, just not in a way most would expect.

[@moonknight4053]

Pretty similar to hobbits in the lotr movies lol, laid back.. that’s the way to go tho. Not every kiwi is like this but it’s a good way to live

[@MsDueces01]

I personally prefer their laid back attitude and that’s probably why I normally date within my own, they tend to express their love through gestures, they are not very vocal when it comes to expressing their “feelings”. It makes it 10x easier if you grew up in NZ, you kind of have an understanding of how the dating world works unlike a few African American guys that I’ve met, just up front and direct about what’s up, not my cup of tea for the most part but 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Skybar23]

kiwis in general are more reserved and laid back. Its just a national characteristic thats been shaped since the beginning and comes from aspects of the first european settlers (pioneers/farmers). If you compare them to aussies-aussies are more outspoken because their national identity is shaped by the 'larikin' personality which again comes from the first european settlers mostly from the Iirish convicts and those who rebelled against the monachy but in comparison to Americans, Aussie would be reserved. Ive experienced this living in Australia to NZ parents.Americans are very outspoken people.

[@gusjackson3658]

Privately, all Kiwi guys want to marry you. In a church. They’re just too shy to say so.

[@jackprichard6780]

Feelings? I feel hungry, I feel tired, I feel like a beer. If a guy keeps chasing you, he's a stalker. Always just be you. There are plenty of guys.

[@snowsansa1527]

About your specific type, "The must be Christian man" just bear in mind most kiwis don't have religion, so you got a smaller search group. You're right they are not most types of guys that used to much flowery words when dating, sometimes they are a bit emotionless. But I can assure you they are sweet as, with or without religion they are good people, i mean majority as there is still a bad egg same as as other countries. Coming from an Asian Catholic married to a Kiwi guy with no religion.

[@JacqueElias365]

angie besandre Very true about a lot of people not having a faith, but finding a God-fearing man can be done!

[@nfasiahceaser7122]

angie besandre hahaha facts about the kiwis lol 👌

[@isaialeuila9327]

Well the pakeha and Maori kiwis lol but I the islander kiwis I assure you very much are religious

[@TheSwordfish009]

Kiwi guys not giving compliments? Girls hate compliments in the U.S. especially in New York. It's easy and boring. Already sounds like a woman's dream.

[@jesseward568]

We know this in New Zealand. We have always known women hate compliments and emotions. American men are only just figuring this out.

[@faithtakespractice2138]

Love it! So true all of it. You’re 2 steps removed from every other Christian in NZ, yup. And I used to think of myself as reserved back home, but here?!? I so get you on feeling like you have to hold back and not bowl people over with the ‘loud American’ thing! Great tips, hopefully they’ll help a few singles out!!

[@savanekemoli]

i love your channel! Dying of laughter because Kiwi men sound like Kenyan men! On my way to NZ (this year I hope - pending COVID lockdown differences). I have no delusions of expressions of grandeur affection and/or love! I'm 52 and clear about who I am and what I want without apologies. Hit and miss is par for the course! LOL!

[@uncleiroh7967]

Hi hope everything is going well for you 😂 now everytime I speak I'ma think I sound like a Kenyan 😂

[@thecurrentmoment]

Great advice! Really sound, down to earth, common sense stuff. Although, I would've thought 500,000 or so guys in Auckland should be a decent pool to choose from, is it really necessary to go outside of Auckland? Good comment about being open-minded about dating someone outside of your tribe because you left your tribe behind - great point!

[@chloehasler194]

I got so surprised when I went to Latin-America and the boys were so expressive.

[@cassidyddon74]

How are you doing chlose

[@jaxthewolf4572]

As an african american woman who is laidback and easygoing, they sound like my type

[@AnonW]

NZ has tall poppy syndrome so we don't really go around inflating people's egos or throw validation at people as often as Americans do. We generally try and be discrete, talking about stuff everyone can relate to etc... I'd say Kiwis are generally quite down to earth and friendly (especially the older generation) but at the same time reserved/isolated and not as social as people from larger cities (They give the impression that they're social upon first meeting but if you know them for longer and look at how many events, gatherings etc... they actually go on, it's generally a lot less than in Asia for example). Makes sense since theres a lot more land per person and u pretty much need a car to get around anywhere. I came from a very large city and it took me a long time to get used to just how isolated everyone is even in Auckland, you kinda need to get used to the quiet atmosphere here, everything is closed by 9pm, very few events etc... Definitely a place for introverts.

[@sammuelle77]

What were some of your experiences with Maori and Islanders and their cultures, and typical kiwi things like summer during christmas, the humidity, the price and kind of food? Also any kiwi guy would be lucky to have such a fun and intelligent Halle Berry/Jennifer Hudson look-alike :). Kia Ora. Hopefully this will be in another video maybe?

[@JacqueElias365]

Abydos_77 You got it!!! I will definitely do a video on those things! Thanks for your questions!...and compliments! 😁

[@DGYSAM]

Im from Auckland...agree with the small town vibe. It is said Auckland is the smallest city in the world. Everyone is only separated by 1 or 2degrees of separation max. So everyone knows someone you know.

[@eysanpwri2740]

"quite a bit larger... than the whole of New Zealand" lol yes you nailed it haha

[@elizabethfeffer8285]

Nice video sis! Keep doing your thing I don’t know much about New Zealand but I’m sure the people are awesome! As for me I prefer my chocolate men ✊🏿☺️

[@cassidyddon74]

How are you doing Elizabeth

[@carissamiles334]

I loved this video!! I won't be dating any men in NZ, but was definitely helpful for the dating world period! I miss you Jacque!! 😘

[@JacqueElias365]

Carissa Miles Awwwwh! So glad you like it! Miss you too! Video chat soon!!

[@cassidyddon74]

How are you doing miles

[@TerpyyGames]

I’m an American Kiwi, born in the states but my mom and dad are both from Auckland, I have lived in NZ as well, and my past girlfriends all from California lol have said how I’m shallow or don’t care about the things they say and it’s not that I’m listening I’m just not a very over the top expressive person I think that’s because I was raised in a kiwi household

[@brianingram4709]

Population of Phoenix is 1.6 million compared to 1.5 in Auckland so they are comparable in size. Population of Arizona is 7 million compared to around 5 million in New Zealand. So your comment that Phoenix is much larger than NZ is strange.

[@JacqueElias365]

Brian Ingram Yeah you are right. I meant to say Arizona...not Phoenix. My bad!

[@74MD74]

I was shocked that Auckland was close in size to Phoenix. I think Auckland seems like a small city compared to Phoenix. I get what she is saying.

[@issysaro3409]

Uumm..hey Jacqueline thanks for this Video. Dating kiwis guys I would have to say is a 60/40 give & take. 60% of that is most male kiwi guys prefer sports then attending religion belief's. And the 40% is not sharing they emotions side of things its how we are brought up. There is a saying here in N.Z" I quote, HARDEN UP MATE. Its been branded to those of us who are born here. It will never change unless we as individual make that change now. I have been told from friends from different parts of the country, you kiwi guys are stubborn & Erogant. That's why the alblacks battle on the rugby fields shows no emotion on they performance.. Show no feelings, or emotion @ all. This includes also @ any rugby club's through out N.Z. .. Rugby is like our religion to us kiwi's. As for me & most of my friends believe in both first "GOD" then rugby 2nd.I do believe in ...our heavenly farther.But bare in mind being a kiwi we do have a "BIG HEART" under all that stubbornness. And yes we do love our religion also & our girls with different back rounds or ethnicity..buy the way love your purple top on this video & your great smile..have a blessing day.

[@JacqueElias365]

Thanks for your perspective. Very insightful.

[@r0xdab0x96xo]

One thing to note is not being very expressive in emotions isn't just revolved around "hardening up" and is more of a steryotype than a driving force. It's also heavily to do with the nature of our culture and country. We don't talk. We really don't actually talk much with words, we talk with our body, our soul, our mood and our hands. I mean yeah we talk like any other, but when it comes to personal drive and feelings, we don't talk unless we are asked. I've seen far more emotionally attuned men than I have women, far more emotional sooks flabbering about like hopeless fish ouy of water. It's just, we're a private country. We keep our personal woes to our most trusted friends. If we are asked, sure, but if we are not asked directly, fat chance you're going to get an honest comment out of us that isn't comedy. Pretty sure over 70% of Kiwi's suffer from social anxiety and we just manage to trick ourselves into beliving we are not. Oh and I think you misunderstand the All Blacks... their preformances are flooded with emotion, remember we speak more with our body, hands and soul. We take pride, and a lot of our emotion and passion is concreted into our pride and finess. Tears have been shed on live TV plenty of times by them, but remember, tears don't need to fall to see whats going on in their hearts. We can act stubborn and we can act hard, but it takes a keener eye to read between the lines

[@migsbro]

Some good points there, some kiwi guys are a bit shy and may feel a bit intimidated by an OTT American with a big personality for sure. Females have had the equal thing going for a long time now so dating is seen a bit like that, the aggressiveness has sort of been taken out of dating. Its a bit of give and take but if you show him solid interest and he is attracted he is sure to want things to go further, once he feels comfortable more of a strong male personality will come out and shine.

[@cassidyddon74]

Hi

[@lozlozlozzy2]

Hey! I am going to New Zealand this summer and will probably be in need of some afro hair care. Preferably a relaxer touch-up, any recommendations of hair salons?

[@JacqueElias365]

billie smith Which part of NZ are you coming to?

[@profatlas5079]

I’m a New Zealander, even though I haven’t dated anyone because I am young 😂 I’ve seen that there are nz guys that are amazing you’ve just gotta find the right person and tbh some kiwi guys are just plain dicks 😒 I’ve just seen that around Auckland. I think this video is so awesome !!!

[@JacqueElias365]

Not TheReal Talisa Thx!! You are so right! There are some awesome guys and ones that are jerks! That is the same for every country, culture and generation. Advice for you: know your value, so you know when a guy doesn’t.

[@profatlas5079]

I just got home from school, and Now that I see your advice I definitely need to take it ... I have this kinda of crush bahaha I’m 15 but like he’s the guy I’ve only really liked and because I’m not like girls who have many crushes and have dated many people I only liked one guy and turns out he’s a dick a real dick and I was so embarrassed after he embarrassed me today 😒😔 but I know my values as a person and I would be better off without him !

[@profatlas5079]

P.s I didn’t see this video till now ☹️ But I subscribed xx 💕💕 lovely Channel you have yourself

[@JacqueElias365]

Not TheReal Talisa True dat!!

[@cassidyddon74]

@@profatlas5079 how are you doing

[@SinicizedTurk]

Im Kiwi. Definitely hit the nail on the head about the small town feeling you get back there.

[@ramblinwoman7699]

I feel like this is very just a dating in general in New Zealand and your comments about them not being expressive and expecting women to be the chaser really made a lot of sense of the patterns I've been experiencing here.

[@cassidyddon74]

Hi

[@cassidyddon74]

How are you doing rambling

[@babygurlzara]

How is new zealand living? How can you relocate to New Zealand. What the process

[@JacqueElias365]

New Zealand living is fabulous! The best advice I have to coming to New Zealand is learn about the immigration laws, prepare your situation to fit one of the categories and apply for a visa.

[@kiwistan2404]

LOL auckland a small town, you need to visit a real small town in NZ

[@punkybrewstar83]

I think she means like a small town in the USA (that sounds like a song lyric). They probably don't have that many places there that are as small as our small.

[@thegigadykid1]

@@punkybrewstar83 the us has small towns

[@punkybrewstar83]

@@thegigadykid1 25 people?

[@MADISON-bz9pe]

Um maybe you need to take a trip to the bay of plenty where you'll definitely find a small town like Te Teko and Edegcumbe, Awakeri ..then you'll understand why a place like Auckland is a city to us kiwis😊

[@JacqueElias365]

Lol ikr! Auckland is small compared to Phoenix, Arizona where I'm from.

[@thelotusexperience6683]

Curious, how did you end up there? That's always intrigues me, especially it being so far?

[@lucianfranetovic6267]

Not all Kiwi guys are like that, granted I was when I was younger but as you get older you learn communication and expression, you learn to convey feeling and emotions. I have found it much the same being a European Kiwi trying to date a African woman, or any other woman that's not European is that most don't seem to be interested in European guys.

[@butterflymorning1904]

This is such a cute video! I'd love to meet a Kiwi man before I move to NZ. Thanks for the tips.

[@RS-sj3fb]

An African-American is first and foremost an American in NZ eyes so you'll be subject to stereotypes that NZers hold about Americans. Secondly, Americans are FAR more direct than NZers. This directness can offend and come across as rudeness to NZers

[@grantheyns2737]

Good luck tryna find a Christian kiwi. And most kiwis would rather not date a religious person because we are way too laid back for church/religious commitments

[@grantheyns2737]

Like if I'm trying to date and a chick is Christian It would be a major turn off.

[@JacqueElias365]

Grant Heyns Well then I must be more than lucky! I would call it blessed! Thanks for your perspective!

[@two-toneblue7455]

I see what you did there. Nice....

[@alexmonro1711]

Christianity is declining here but Christians still make up around 40-50% of the population according to the stats. Plus pretty much every town and suburb has at least one church. Its really nowhere near as rare as you're making it out.

[@noahwineti6169]

nah. its just bullsh#t

[@justinpihama3405]

Awesome though to have you in the country lil ol nz experiencing our way of life n culture

[@wakawaata9268]

New Zealand blokes are much more reserved than alot of others, and they are more down to earth. They're not going to peacock there way around showing everyone look at me kind of stuff, and they are more the quiet type. But will open up once they really get to know you. PS- it'll take more than a couple of dates before they open up, that's just how most kiwi guys are. But don't get me wrong we are very nice and polite.

[@packingawoody4554]

The first point made me laugh, she basically summed up every guy in NZL 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MichaelS1995]

Yeah this is pretty accurate.

[@nicetee7477]

Hi Jacque thanks for ur uploads on sharing ur experiences here in NZ.. Hope th kiwi guy ur dating ups his game a lil.. kiwi guys definitly dont shower ladies with compliments and some kiwis get a lil awkward or shy whn complimentd... i think f u wana christian guy here in NZ ul meet him at church or ul meet him thru ur circle... ✌ x

[@JacqueElias365]

Thanks Nice Tee! I definitely found a good one! Good point about meeting Christians at church or through friends.

[@uncleiroh7967]

This was such a good watch 🙏

[@Skybar23]

just a question-do african american girls prefer light skin guys to black guys? I just got back from D.C and NYC and I notice something that I wasnt sure if it was just me.

[@JacqueElias365]

EJ Ioane I don’t think there is a general preference one way or another when it comes to skin colour. Different people like different things. For example, I am attracted to many different skin colours, but have been more attracted to white guys. But I know plenty of women who are attracted to darker skinned guys. It just differs.

[@hzlkelly]

I'm liking that it's small and sound community centred. Yes...

[@Andy_M986]

Phoenix is not larger than the whole of New Zealand,however,Arizona is, by about 7000 square miles, Phoenix is a city,incase you didn't know,i hope you didn't bring that up in your conversation while dating.;-)

[@jacqueelias7927]

Yes as mentioned previously I misspoke. I meant to say Arizona and I was talking population.

[@Andy_M986]

@@jacqueelias7927 Oh okay,my apologies,I hope you are both well.

[@lylecosmopolite]

I have met couples where he is a Kiwi, and she is AA. In the 19th century, many young single men emigrated from the British isles to New Zealand. They married brown Maori women because they were available, and the next of kin of eligible women did not object. Hence a great many Kiwis are mixed race. Ms Elias, I feel I must put something out there. Between 1960 and 1985, New Zealand maternity wards gradually gave up circumcising newborn boys. Today, Kiwi young men are uncut, their Dads may or may not be, and their grandads are cut. This change came about very quietly, and was never mentioned in newspapers and magazines. It was doctor led, starting in the 1950s, when New Zealand medical schools began teaching that circumcising baby boys was not a good thing to do. New Zealand has crossed a bridge that the USA cannot bring itself to cross. A lot of Kiwi men seem more interested in booze, hobbies and spectator sports. Before the 1990s, New Zealand had one of the lowest rates of college attendance in the first world. About a month ago, New Zealand had a national election. I can assure you that there are no doubts about the honesty of the reported outcomes of that election.

[@shaneharris904]

hey jac great tips did not know some things you mentioned thanks

[@StrictlyChosen]

No wonder. Cz I was living in Auckland & I love the small town I get to where I wanna go so easily unlike Vancouver where you gotta take a big trip.. aw NZ vibes good days

[@cassidyddon74]

Hi

[@charissecoal]

Hey congrats on (eventually) finding your Kiwi prince 😁😍

[@nicholasmaude6906]

I wonder if Jacque is still in New Zealand and if so how's she handling the Covid-19 pandemic?

[@DomingoDeSantaClara]

When you said you were only dating Christian guys....you really really narrowed the field,NZ isn't exactly a hot bed of religious affiliation.

[@precious_sylvia_mokuoane]

Hahaha I am in full agreement. And I share the same opinions as you based on my personal experience.

[@zahrafancy6216]

Go girl! Be yourself I know what you mean. I am jamaican american who lived in zambia and Malawi so black culture is pretty wide.

[@living4YAHonly]

Are you still in New Zealand?

[@iamtangaroa]

Kia Ora, Welcome, all the best

[@Ngatikahu-aka-panbadass]

we dont give compliments we give jokes lmao

[@tonymorgan9240]

WAS YOUR DATE WHITE OR BLACK OR BROWN ??? THERE IS A DIFFERENCE ??

[@amandagrace6569]

Kiwi guys are hot and yes if a guy really likes a girl he'll pursue you ..regardless

[@cassidyddon74]

How are you doing grace

[@johnphilipfosterdobson551]

Try being English and NZer that's really bad. But I Love going out with foreign/coloured women.

[@vashellcollins4645]

I want to come to New Zealand when I grow up

[@jadabeaumont1594]

it’s boring asf here💀

[@justinpihama3405]

I'm interested to know your thoughts on Polynesian and Maori guys

[@JacqueElias365]

Justin Pihama I haven’t dated too many so I don’t have much of an opinion. The ones I have met are really cool though! Fun-loving!

[@justinpihama3405]

Hey myself as a Maori Polynesian guy I seen that you said that your a Christian well just saying I'm neither Christian but I'm a spiritual guy but yeah just saying

[@bubbaruu57441]

Now a days most of the good ones are all taken and you get the lil amateur guys left lol. I've had my man since 16 and we are 28 now. Explore other places around nz there would be lots of potential guys our here hehe, I'm from Auckland and some of the guys out here can be total turds lol but Auckland is not the only city heapsa nice samoan guys in Wellington haha I would know because half of my mum's family (samoan mum) live in Wellington. Have fun while you're at it girl 😀..

[@Beveck1]

I should date a white girl in nz cause I live in nz♥♥♥♥♥♥ white girls are super cool and smart

[@mikechristie6556]

New Zealanders for the most part are not brought up in a " Christian" environment. We don't believe this to be essential for us to become good honest people. Cheers Mike

[@edengarden8815]

Hi Jacque i dated you. You are lovely.

[@JacqueElias365]

You did? When?

[@tracyreadytv]

😂😂😂 at "when?" Lol

[@Aritul]

@@tracyreadytv I know! 😂

[@SimplyMee..228]

Omg please keep these type of videos coming ..

[@cassidyddon74]

How are you doing

[@peterharrison5833]

Small town and word getting around quickly? Sounds a lot like Rhode Island...

[@peterpaulo6081]

Please don’t hold back! If your still looking I’d be interested in a date hahaha. Oh and the reason why men are so kick back here and don’t pursue woman is because once upon a time men used to but thanks to America and the movies and stuff like that from America portraying woman as strong and independent and can kick ass... well now that’s all woman try and do here lol. Yet they go overboard with it and take it to the extremes and when we do pursue men are seen as predators or too aggressive. It’s hard to find that balance cause woman differ dramatically depending where and how they were raised

[@TianaMay2001]

Well, our whole country is smaller than all the states lol

[@bonerocker1478]

I would take you out on a date and shower you with compliments. Your stunning girl!

[@dav3282]

Lady you are very pretty, attractive, sweet women.

[@gauchoparaguayo]

Did anyone said you look Melanesian or Micronesian ?

[@candygirl657]

Maori men look so good.

[@unknown-pk2lw]

Is it true the New Zealand men love African American women???

[@JacqueElias365]

I don't know about that as a general statement. I did date a guy briefly and his cousin, a NZ guy, was also dating an African American woman. Coincident? Yes. I don't think there are enough African Americans here for that generality to be true....My husband loves me...I know that!

[@barrynichols2846]

You being very pretty helps you I'm sure that is international

[@bremCZ]

Phoenix has a marginally smaller population than NZ, not quite a bit larger.

[@JacqueElias365]

Brem I had looked it up previously but I guess I had wrong info. Thanks for the update.

[@JacqueElias365]

Correction: Arizona’s population is quite a bit larger than New Zealand’s population. Sorry! Misspoke!

[@bremCZ]

Jacque Williams Ha! Now that I agree with. Slightly warmer than NZ too... slightly.

[@vickie2404]

Thank you ... You're a sweetie!

[@soup-nazi6824]

Telling women how attractive they are every 5 minutes is a bad idea for a man because your putting women on a pedestal so they will realise this & start thinking they are above you..Soon they will loose interest & start looking for a better option 😉

[@teawarikimcroy5226]

NZ has a three degree

[@soup-nazi6824]

Let's face it dating is a mess in 2022 now that masculinity is considered toxic & men have become more feminine just to fit in & be accepted by women & women have become more masculine,,& promiscuous than ever...

[@stocks4bt]

Do you still live in New Zealand? I ask bc I am "black man in demand" that will be visiting New Zealand next year? Lets get to know each other so when I visit I can "comnect" with you

[@ttango2653]

God will lead you in whatever path HE chooses. you just gotta make the choice whether you accept or not. Nice to see you experiencing something unfamiliar

[@JacqueElias365]

C Thompson He definitely has lead me to what he chose, and I am super grateful and happy that I persevered!

[@noahwineti6169]

he lead me to suicide, shm

[@duppiwuppi]

Noah Wineti God would never lead anyone into a ditch. Jesus came to seek and save the lost.

[@DylanWarcraft]

Whatever makes you guys happy lol

[@StrictlyChosen]

I wanna marry a Maori man

[@flizo154]

Lol don't im maori and if u dont get with the whanu vibes hangis hunting pissups churrr bros you will struggle

[@khalmromerob9123]

You are beautiful

[@barrybrown9565]

angie besandre be careful when u make generalisations becoz your comment is so far from the truth i know heaps of ppl that believe in god and jesus friends family and its growing all the time.

[@ahorsewithnoname643]

Barry Brown True. The churches are growing all the time. Growing smaller and smaller.

[@tonymorgan9240]

COME TO YOU YEAH /NA ??

[@nabakafaith5563]

hi I'm black African dating a Kiwi guy

[@cassidyddon74]

Hi Faith

[@Kororia111]

Well Auckland ain’t that small & not everyone knows everything about what u doing or up2 unless u splashing it all over social media

[@bangbangwilliams3763]

Nz guys are more laid back then you thinking they are not into you. Its probably who you date to be honest.

[@cassidyddon74]

How are you doing Williams

[@tamacuz5949]

find a Polynesian guy lol trust me

[@brklyn2922]

Where is a good place to meet them? I am in Auckland Central.

[@fatty522]

Girl we shud toted to a vid together...diffrent slangs

[@cassidyddon74]

How are you doing tee

[@matatokoa9255]

Hahaha tru

[@cassidyddon74]

How are you doing tokoa

[@barrybrown9565]

A horse with no name i dont know wat church your talking about but the destiny church movement is huge here in nz,the man up movement is huge and growing all the time in nz,in fact the christian man from destiny church who started up the man up movement got rewarded new zealander of the year this year.

[@user-fi4st7ni8r]

i'm Maori native to the land and i have many African Americans friends on facebook they Hebrews tribe of (Judah) "they, we" are not christians, christians are counterfeits.

[@favonabetch5817]

Dont go near the moaris

[@thenation2093]

Why?

[@maidaursuladawn44glasgow3]

That is not necessarily a problem my elder sister did and she has been married for 54 years to a man who at 81 will tell anyone that he loves the little blond girl he married all those years ago

[@issysaroguise6417]

Jaccque, Kiwi guys are not avarage they might not be interested in you @ all. This is a Polynesian county most kiwi are into Polynesian girl,samoan,maori, Tongan or just typical kiwi girl or even chinese and Canadian girl. You can't fit your self in any of those category. Online dating it might suits you.

[@elizabethfeffer8285]

Uhm, that’s actually what the young lady said that if they’re not into you, they’re just not. Also how do you know what would suit her??..

[@maciuchrissakealevu2054]

Try a Fijian Guy? ?

[@jase084084]

Maciu Chris Sakealevu Rupeni Caucau 😂

[@barrybrown9565]

angie besandre u dont know wat your talking about we are a christian nation you obviously havent heard our national athem its all about god the indigenious people of nz the maori took on christianity as their beliefs not islam not hinduism not buddah or anything else other than jesus,so thats our history im a maori so believe me i know,in my family which is huge we all love christ but there are ppl obviously that dont have a religion like all places so sounds like you really dont know the true essence of nz becoz within my circle of ppl there is heaps of us that love christ so i think your time here and experiences seem to be limited.

[@johnfelixabejar5875]

How much the value of new zealand one dollar 1990

[@Skib22]

Hit me up if u still in NZ. 😉