You can feel and hear the frustration in her voice. She knows her family better than the rest of us. I can't judge her.
@bahdembo1171Ай бұрын
I am in agreement with her. Some of our people back home are so ungrateful. They only call when they need something from us.
@RUTHLESSambition5Ай бұрын
I expect nothing else from Africans 😂😂 They sell their own in Italy and all over Africa. Man you all are sad
@MwishaLudackАй бұрын
I am experiencing the same challenge. Why can't they call to pray for me?
@jsanders9975Ай бұрын
@@bahdembo1171 Prayer doesn't stop hunger pangs. The $ in your pocket does
@BLACKBABY72Ай бұрын
I agree ☝🏽 with her statement and she is not wrong about it… It’s alright to help others people in their family and communities…Once in awhile and not every single day or week 💯💯💯💢💢💢🔏🔏🔐🔐
@kevinmaden5572Ай бұрын
Struggle is real 👍
@Leslie-t3eАй бұрын
She is only saying this because she is in the u.s. if she was there she would be ASKING.
@muhammedAbass6519Ай бұрын
She British
@buFFlosouljah1Ай бұрын
@muhammedAbass6519 does that change anything?
@superlove.679720 күн бұрын
What does BRitish mean you people were taught wrong!!! SMH GET REAL LEARN GOD WHO IS JESUS CHRIST!!!
@HommycityАй бұрын
It’s not like they hit the lottery
@tarikviaer-mcclymont5762Ай бұрын
If you make over $35k in the USA you are in the global 1%
@jdong7527Ай бұрын
Very false statement, if you consider the cost of living you're not even in the top 70.
@decemberwhite3219Ай бұрын
@@Hommycity Back in their home lands is what they think! Jackpot my neice goes to university and has a job in America!
@YvesTissot5Ай бұрын
@@jdong7527a family making 70k-80k live very good in most areas in the USA. To say top 70% in the world just shows how privileged we are.
@YvesTissot5Ай бұрын
@@jdong7527most families making 70k - 80k live good lives in most areas. To say that’s top 70% is crazy and it just shows how privileged we are.
@plantbasedministries9233Ай бұрын
FBA here… I’m just listening and reading the comments.
@kq2234Ай бұрын
She is 💯% on point. The only obligation that i have is to my father and mother. Everybody else is on their own.
@teeharrison2928Ай бұрын
I am tired of grown people living off of others. Then they come here and talk about people who live off the government. If it is your mother your father that is one thing. Depending on others for your livelihood is dangerous. Now that we have record inflation, in the West, it is time to look within.
@ElizabethEnow-s1uАй бұрын
The land is there they don't want to do anything we make them lazy if you are not there they will make it she's right we became their enemies if you don't send
@mcamara488Ай бұрын
True.
@truthhurts...6574Ай бұрын
They're handing their land and resources over to foreigners. Thank their corrupt greedy leaders.
@devilsadvocate721Ай бұрын
That woman's delivery was 100% correct. I understand the concern in helping people. But what she was talking about was family members and Friends having their hand out continuously.
@joycelinelyimo-fenske8745Ай бұрын
There are still orphanage centres. You can spend there.
@kevinmaden5572Ай бұрын
Inflation won't let you help other nations
@FayHenderson-qv9wbАй бұрын
I had a Morrocan co-worker . She would go without, dress shabby, to send $$ to her Mother ! She had siblings.. hard to understand for me ...
@curtis-dj5bpАй бұрын
If she gets deported for what ever reason, her and her family will be doing well in morocco. If the other Africans get deported, they end up going back to the same position they god damn left because they save so little in the US. It is extremely lucrative to be living overseas in cheap ass countries, while getting paid for remote US work. The Moroccan coworker is smarter. She will have a house, land and whatever to return too. Can the other Africans afford a house in the US? Can they retire in the US?
@buFFlosouljah1Ай бұрын
Between Moroccans and wherever you're from, which has more unity and less back stabbing?
@decemberwhite3219Ай бұрын
Oh well, I thought her delivery was just fine for how she feels. Isn't that what many people believe about the original Americans? We are lazy and dont want to work. We just want to live off others and welfare for generations on top of generations? Which is not true, most of us and our ancestors built up and put into the American pot, but are always last to get our share and when we do get to the pot there is little to nothing left because its all being given away to the real lazy people. The ones that did no work or put anything into the pot here. Traditions are fine. However, some were made to keep people tied, broke and broken.
@amehka541622 күн бұрын
Bingo!!!!
@luisluis5306Ай бұрын
Same thing happens in the Indian community "Someone earns it and someone else spends it".
@rowanmurray7523Ай бұрын
Amen. Perfectly 👌 Said : SHE ( IS ) ABSOLUTELY 💯 CORRECT
@yolandachristopher4076Ай бұрын
She's right and have all that right this been going on to long and she put a stop to it.
@Southgate210Ай бұрын
WOW? I Just Almost Give Up! ALMOST! Those who knows, 'the old me,' I was so weak at the knees when it came to helping people! Especially the ones who did not deserve it! Aha going towards my Golden Years I've Changed!
@dianecrowder4971Ай бұрын
Not just on the continent of Africa, Jamaica, Haiti, Panama,and Costa Rica, my moms country as well! I believe in all countries around the world! Not me, I live in New York City, I need every dime I can get my hands on! I don't blame the young lady!🙄😡😤🤬🤷🏾♀️😎
@Jamal-sr9nnАй бұрын
Lady y'all crazy, y'all the same people call US lazy 😮😮
@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTimeАй бұрын
Facts 😂. This exposes quite a lot
@KagisoMokweboАй бұрын
It's always good to lend a hand but it becomes a problem when your being used!!
@McQueen1217Ай бұрын
I'm not even mad at her, she's not obligated to give them 💩
@akataaАй бұрын
That delivery was not off, it was quite on! I'm Nigerian and this is my exact experience. As soon as you stop, you're dead to them.
@darianclery4455Ай бұрын
Thank you for this new
@joseph9531Ай бұрын
I don't blame her! All that backlash isn't going move her one iota 😂
@jkm402Күн бұрын
I agree with her 💯💯💯💯
@almontgomery4962Ай бұрын
I agree with her. There is no reason you should take care of other adults all their life. Do something to help your situation. TF!!!
@ArchStandfordАй бұрын
China became rich starting from the remittances sent home from their citizens abroad. The Chinese have a group mentality and they did very well with these remittances. They built Industry, we Afrikans prefer to buy useless consumer items..
@NdathieMuciiАй бұрын
China was a US colony with heavy investment in their lax labor and environmental laws. Now they're scaling back on the exploitation and you see US is trying to implement tariffs.
@NdathieMuciiАй бұрын
China was a colony of the US with heavy investment that jump started its industries which was followed by exploitation of lax labor and environmental laws.
@jt6231Ай бұрын
@@ArchStandford but they don’t help the whole village or extended families. Just parents and siblings only.
@ArchStandfordАй бұрын
@@jt6231 that's who they are obligated too. The Chinese government has raised more than 800 million people out of poverty in one generation.
@plantbasedministries9233Ай бұрын
@@ArchStandford They rather buy a Gucci shirt than feed their family for a month. Smh
@stephenaitcheson6626Ай бұрын
Maybe it should be the young lady's choice and not some type of obligation🤷
@darianclery4455Ай бұрын
Yes you right
@Nobile6601Ай бұрын
If my family is passive for no reasons, I will never support that person, so I support what the girl said.
@rapper4orty2Ай бұрын
African country economies need to start functioning.
@tneita3166Ай бұрын
THE Real QUESTION is "HOW are they backhome Really helping themselves in ORDER to stop DEPENDING on "FOREIGNERS & PEOPLE ABROAD,,.Ps , we all needs help Home & abroad,,,just saying,,,.
@Furrsdgyu743Ай бұрын
I've seen videos with kids with no shoes raggedy clothes hungry we can do better there's over a billion black African needs to be organized for self sufficiency
@Olotito-fs3dbАй бұрын
She is right!
@ernestcunningham3580Ай бұрын
If it isn’t tax, I don’t pay that!
@Susan-id5xjАй бұрын
Right, what are they going to do if you stop? Like they are going to come the USA and stare you down. I would change my number and stop speaking to them. Just a bunch of beggars
@Susan-id5xjАй бұрын
Oh no! 🙄 How will they survive 😭
@jb2736Ай бұрын
They can start by fighting for their countries, get rid of their selfish so call leaders.😳
@professionalboycottservice7872Ай бұрын
Reason why Africa is still underdeveloped
@jb2736Ай бұрын
Exactly...its their mind set.
@jsanders9975Ай бұрын
Because Africans leave Africa and forget about their homeland. They think they are American. They only return to be buried
@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTimeАй бұрын
@@jb2736pretty much. The productive ones come over here, but they don’t wanna admit there’s a reason why they left the millions of their people and their culture behind and why most of them don’t take their educations back there
@afelder2363Ай бұрын
I have said on this channel , if we cannot get along with our real family, what is all this talk of WE all black people need to be some family??? We different
@TaCo-t5qАй бұрын
She's an agen
@miskitttАй бұрын
Thank God for my family. We are American and my family members that got it help the ones that don’t. It’s been going on since the 1930s. Is that why so many of my folks are well off and travel the world. And God blessed them even more?? Yep.
@diamondintheroughiamthelaw9682Ай бұрын
Of course they are selfish 😮
@johnashton4776Ай бұрын
Some family members are very grateful, whether its Africa and people of W.I., this happens with black folks yet can only go do far.
@johnashton4776Ай бұрын
Not easy living in a country where tax's are extremely high, if your well paid help yet just goodness of your heart.
@buFFlosouljah1Ай бұрын
So...welfare?
@BaBaBellaNattyАй бұрын
Obligations is different everybody is not you. If you can because the currency and opportunity is not the same..its hard in struggling countries the systems made it so..backlash yes you won't understand..
@bobomiller356623 күн бұрын
She have a valid point. However. That was a bit harsh! Very personal. Bro's n sistas on the Cont inent are struggling! I have friends in West Africa. What Job? Look at struggling economy and poor companies! She was rude.
@jewelniles4041Ай бұрын
Why is she continually rubbing arms putting on lotion...so distracting
@benjamintaylor4402Ай бұрын
I bet she is slippery with all of that lotion.
@tahariobi391Ай бұрын
Social media "influencer" behavior
@pache7216Ай бұрын
who helped her to get out of Africa
@stan_seniorАй бұрын
Her father, those leeches are not entitled to what she has worked for.
@ExotiqBeautiiАй бұрын
not to mention, she was a child. It was her father's responsibility to make sure she didn't want for anything, not the other way around, and definitely not for someone who had no hand in raising her. You're supposed to want to see your children doing better than you, not to take away from them. Whether someone sent her to America or she got there on her own, she shouldn't be looked at to pay that back. One should never want to help someone and expect something back for it, is what I'm saying
@MwishaLudackАй бұрын
I got out of Africa on my own, no family member helped me out, not even my mother. It was God who helped me.
@shanghaichicaАй бұрын
She was probably born in the US.
@nkululekomabaso-r9sАй бұрын
I see a lot of ignorance in these comments
@anthonypinkney6536Ай бұрын
😢
@judydickson3665Ай бұрын
I believe in supporting one another. And one thing. She's gonna forget is that? You're not gonna be young forever. You're gonna get old and 1 day you're gonna need help. You're not always gonna be up there. Could happen to anybody and you're gonna need that help. So don't be like that, don't be angry. Be humble, you haven't shared.
@amehka541622 күн бұрын
You can help people but people also need to help themselves.
@day162Ай бұрын
I wish I had an African family back home to invest in. But, I will not be an enabler.
@ArchStandfordАй бұрын
Investing in your family should not be the same as enabling. If we have the mindset of other successful groups we would know they we would be investing and they would build industry with our remittances, but we know how lost we are and how far we need to go as a people.
@Susan-id5xjАй бұрын
I'm glad I don't.
@day162Ай бұрын
@@Susan-id5xj A reason to smile, is golden to the heart daily. Smile, pour out goodness and smile. Do not answer to what ask you to be negative.
@amehka541622 күн бұрын
What is wrong with you?
@StevieJohnson-t4zАй бұрын
Hello
@robertking9988Ай бұрын
She is seriously americanized😂
@Deport-TethersАй бұрын
That's hilarious. 😂😂😂 I agree 100% though. 😂😂😂😂😂
@broncosbest6441Ай бұрын
She’s from the U.K. her parents are African.
@amehka541622 күн бұрын
She's not from America.
@onediakey6117Ай бұрын
they've black tax here in america
@amehka541622 күн бұрын
That has a different meaning in the US.
@yaopacome-fourierdje4484Ай бұрын
It's not just Africans all migrants do that I understand I'm a migrants and I know what my family did for me and I want them to be ok as much I can soo why not bring them where you are so they see your reality!
@thehulagang3968Ай бұрын
She is a representation of a new age of tribalize thinking for those who flee and now they feel that they are better that those at home. Trible at home Trible abroad
@joshuathomas9252Ай бұрын
No, she is just using common sense.
@teeharrison2928Ай бұрын
Thats Bidenomics.
@Susan-id5xjАй бұрын
She is smart. Lay that guilt trip on the men.
@TripleexelАй бұрын
You must be the relative who thinks its normal to live off someone then go after their kids afterwards
@amehka541622 күн бұрын
@@Tripleexel😂😂😂
@theafrican-panamerican9712Ай бұрын
Again she is a red flag.
@bornenemy3453Ай бұрын
Selfish
@stan_seniorАй бұрын
No one else is entitled to what I’ve worked for.
@bornenemy3453Ай бұрын
@stan_senior that's why you homeland is crap and you flee
@stan_seniorАй бұрын
@@bornenemy3453 I’m American, FBA from VA, can trace my lineage in the US. Can you? I didn’t flee anything.
@truthhurts...6574Ай бұрын
@bornenemy3453 no those people 's homeland is crap because of greedy corrupt leaders. They handed over their resources and country to foreigners.
@robertervin-t7tАй бұрын
Selfish my ass, I agree with her 100%, it’s no way in hell I’m going to bust my butt every day on a job where I’m probably don’t make enough ,deal with co-workers I don’t like and a job I don’t like only to give to people wanting around for my pay check like a bunch of broke ass buzzards waiting for roadkill, no thanks just like I can get a job to support myself family and friends can do the same, and l don’t mind helping if someone in a bind but it can’t be a every week or month thing…. That’s not fair at all….
@maxcelestin2446Ай бұрын
the issue alot of people in positions of privilege's dont get is, what happens IF and WHEN you get sent back? life throws you a curve and the people you was helping becomes a saving grace in SO many aspect. its issue on both sides and its enabling and also entitlement
@JasperGraham-cd8kbАй бұрын
Already westernized to not help her culture
@stillsolid5785Ай бұрын
Says the woman who was born in a privileged country. The average wages in Nigeria is 150k Naira per month. A bag of rice costs 90k so you can be working and still need help. Everything is expensive
@caroleappling2007Ай бұрын
You think folks aren’t struggling in the U S? You would be so wrong, everything is relative, it’s expensive as hell here in the U S. People are “ robbing Peter to pay Paul.”
@Flower-ck2bsАй бұрын
So shamefull. She forgott how life can be. She is selfish. So sad. No cream can help to change her heart. We must help even if we have little or even if we do not have. Even She talk bad about her family. Maybe She is on a wrong path!
@BestlivexgАй бұрын
She has adopted western culture selfish they have no family unity no helping each other every member of the family lives the life for himself this why too much homeless people in America
@MikeCalieate-ey3kiАй бұрын
She is selfish, and she needs to grow up. She is also confused.
@M11B222INFАй бұрын
The family members are greedy and needy. Get your own.
@Dany-rx7rsАй бұрын
Once in a while not every day.
@ShineynsparklesАй бұрын
Nope she not !!!
@jb2736Ай бұрын
No...she's tired😳
@Tshepo10111Ай бұрын
She's selfish your parents sacrificed for you.
@amehka541622 күн бұрын
She's not selfish....that person being leeching way before this girl was born.
@AmericanAfrikan-BurkinaFasoАй бұрын
Problem is also that she is never going back to her homeland to take her British funds to help build and contribute to her county of origin despite being born in the UK! Both parties are wrong because most immigrants never return home and if they do they go only to be buried and retire there! She has a point of “the family she doesn’t even deal with” exploiting the hard work of those in the west, but she sounds entitled asf and probably has no desire to return to where her dad fled to actually build her country!
@curtis-dj5bpАй бұрын
Eventually Africans in the UK will be deported. even those born there. They will change the laws.