How I See America After Living in Namibia for 14 Years

[@ilonakaura1985]

I"am so soooo proud of you to made such a move and explained it so well - life in Namibia compares to America well said ! I'am an Namibian leave in New York came here in my early 20 's love , love my New York no regret living here for so long , made good frieds here but , planning to retired back home because of the peacefulness that i feel when i come home , also financially way better than leaving in New York as we all know here its very expensive . I told my american frieds about your youtube channel they watched it and very excited to come and visit Namibia . You made it happed it take a strong black sister again i am proud of you . May God bless you , your husband and chrildren peace .

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Thanks so much sis! Appreciate the support!!

[@wildflower7925]

You are the original trailblazer of the diaspora to Africa , you created a path where so many have followed, thank you and stay blessed 😊.

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Thank you so much, appreciate you guys and your support so much 🥹💫

[@TyroneBlackman7]

Truth!

[@southafricaismyhome814]

​@@AfroAmericaninAfricaCOME VISIT US IN SOUTHAFRICA

[@southafricaismyhome814]

​@@AfroAmericaninAfricaKZbin THE REAL SOUTHAFRICA WITH MARK BLANTON this black americans what relocated to southafrica your new country was part of Southafrica lot of southafricans live in Namibia 😂😂😂🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@sherri2843]

​@@AfroAmericaninAfricaOh Wow! Good to know you're still here. I tuned in to you're channel in your early years. Hope to see you do a hang out interview with Oshay Duke Jackson and Phil from the African Diaspora.

[@hopepray1669]

As an African living in the US, The sense of community in Africa is greater. Your next door neighbours become family . Here in the US , you will be lucky to even know the gender of your next door neighbour. Depression is definitely higher in the US.

[@peedot39]

You are right.

[@JasonVaughnMamba80]

Absolutely! I saw that when I first went to Ghana

[@ColetteElizabeth]

Wow. I'm thinking that your experience may be specific to where you are living in the US. As a 58-year-old African American, who was born and raised in California, we not only knew our immediate neighbors, but we also knew the folks in surrounding neighborhoods. Our neighbors and members of the neighborhood at large not only knew me, but they knew who my parents, aunts/uncles and grandparents were and vice versa. In fact, growing up, my family would ask folks upon meeting ANYONE, "who is your family." And sure, enough someone in my family (usually my grandmother, great grandmother, or great great grandmother) knew SOMEONE from their family. This was whether the person was originally from California or migrated from what we call "The South." I'll end by saying that in the African American community, this is the norm. EVERYBODY literally knew EVERYBODY. This is how we built community for years.

[@roberthornbrook8374]

Or even if that is there real gender 😂

[@josephbrown1573]

Its not that Africans are not bothered by service disruptions its because there is nothing one can do .I am from Nigeria and when the power went out in Nigeria there was no one to call and nothing to do so its not patience its learned helplessness !! As for the attitude to work , in many African countries workers sometimes are not paid for months !! In Nigeria, government workers can sometimes go six months without a paycheck , plus workers are not paid for overtime and this explains the attitude towards work !! Lateness is African BUT I now live in America and I never see any Africans coming to work late here !!

[@Jamal_dont_mess]

In my city where I am residing I never experienced a power cut or loadshedding as it called in SA.So if I may wake up one day and there is no electricity or water is something that going to worry me a lot that day because it really going to be much inconvenient. We aren't used to these types of situations. The power cut that used to come time to time people used to be informed beforehand, and mostly is coming when there is maintance going on.The power autage only last for few hours if there is repair or something in that case.Again fir my 28 years of public service I never experienced delayed payments or no mayment at all .So these these things to some is just stories we are hearing somewhere else.

[@AntonsClass]

That's an interesting observation, and it makes total sense.

[@debbiejansen1178]

I'm from Pennsylvania. My mother is from South Africa. I ended not being raised by her and she then passed away. In 2006 I went to Cape Town and got to meet my family. It was the first and only time I felt like I was home. It was an incredible feeling. I've been back again and hope to go again. I'm a teacher. Sometimes I want to return and teach in the townships.

[@blackmaster999]

Africa is keeping you looking young and beautiful.

[@franman1148]

Before Wode Maya and the ton of KZbinrs that make content in Africa today there was this sister. Good to see you again.

[@Cecyk]

I am Namibian now leaving in Ireland and I have noticed how people here panic about everything even little things. I have learned then that as Namibians we are very flexible, patient and can actually cope anywhere.

[@mrsjohn5060]

That's so true. I feel the same as well. Good to see a fellow Namibian in Ireland

[@aisatsblake]

EVERYTHING this lady has said is true, even in the Caribbean. I'm Canadian, born and raised, but I moved to the island of Grenada 17 years ago. BEST decision I ever made, not just because Canada has gone crazy (thanks Trudeau) but because I discovered that PEOPLE are more important than PROCESS EFFICIENCY. I have a better quality of life even without Walmart and Amazon. I've learned to slow down and appreciate blue water, gentle breezes and a smile from the neighbour. I'll NEVER go back to live in North America and I'm so happy to see there are others who have made a leap and don't regret it.

[@kwadwosenya469]

You’re definitely a 🐐 One of the first people to actively vlog about move to Afrika. Still standing tall and thriving 🙌🏿

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Thanks so much for watching all these years! 💫

[@efremteenagebento6701]

So true!!!

[@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198]

As a Jamaican 🇯🇲...You're on point, there's nothing wrong with managing time, but its not urgent and crazy like in the West.....God intended for us to take a break & ;rest.....We are also on " African time" in the Carribbean too, and trust me. Never, ever will I change that....Amen awesome content.

[@m_martha_e]

Nice to see another Jamaican 🇯🇲 in the comments ❤

[@daw7773]

As an African American the fear of being randomly shot at a grocery store,school is far more “inconvenient “ than not having air conditioning or electricity for a day. IMO

[@kevinmax25]

Believe me, the climate here, especially where I'm at in Nairobi, Kenya is beyond conducive. You do not need air conditioner...Nature is just ideal for almost everyone.

[@carloscrockett3174]

Welcome back, you were one of the first African Americans to provide content on Africa. Much success to you.

[@videoviewer502]

Loving the moringa tree in the background

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Omg you have a great eye! Teach me your ways 🙌🏾 🌱 Yes, that’s our young moringa tree that we bought middle of last year! Thanks so much for watching!!

[@delroy232007]

Btw did you know moringa is good for people with diabetes it helps in lowering your glucose level my grandmother uses it all the time

[@taraji7259]

I was born and raised in Kenya, but I came to America when I was very young and have lived here for many years. One day, I decided to return to Kenya to experience it as an adult for over 6 months. Oh boy, I experienced culture shock when the water and lights cut off without notice! I had an American tantrum and was so frustrated. But with time, I learned to be patient.

[@denisedixon-george3866]

African American married to a Nigerian & living in Nigeria 3 years, I can relate & agree to everything you’ve said. I’ve been following you for a while. Your channel was one of the channels helped me have an insight on living on the continent. I don’t regret my decision to move here.

[@djomokolele]

Denisedixon which city in Nigeria do you live?

[@CreekLocseed]

I am a 25year old Black american and deeply resonate with everything you are saying. I’ll be moving to Nigeria soon with my girlfriend who is Nigerian from brooklyn to start a eco village and to practice self sustainability and regenerative life practices with her. Most of us coming up these days can’t even afford a half way decent life even if we have our bachelors. It’s really tough and draining and many are starting to see life here as pointless. The culture of the US is unsustainable long term and many of us in the younger generations in the US and in other western nations are beginning to wake up and smell the sugar Honey ice tea. I have a burning desire to leave this place and never ever come back. Don’t get me wrong. I love where I’m from and my culture. But it’s suffocating at times because of the narrow mindedness that runs rampant in American and Black American spaces about the rest of the world. Americans genuinely believe we are the best people on the planet and it’s incredibly Annoying how closed minded we can be at times. Even I myself have been guilty of this at times. That’s why I gottah make it out of here no matter what.The world is changing and this empire is soon to crumble.

[@ChuksReal]

you are spot on.

[@ChuksReal]

Since I came to the West from my home country three years ago, I discovered that my quality of life has been impacted, yes, there is great infrastructure, constant power etc, but it's like being in a robotic system without a human feel. I missed the job I left behind back home, the calmness, the human face to work and all.

[@adeo506]

Oh my gosh! This is so relatable I could cry! I’m a Nigerian from Sweden about to turn 25. Is there an insta or something to follow the village ?❤ I recently started thinking of doing something similar!!

[@alveem7295]

I'm Nigerian myself and seriously if you guys live in the rural areas with solar energy (which is readily available and far cheaper than in the U.S,) a house, and a farmland. You have zero to worry about, no bills, more natural food, peace of mind, etc. And if you guys are good with agriculture you can still make money selling farm products because the population is huge and there's market for a lot of things especially food products. The locals would think y'all are crazy for leaving America though 😄😄 They don't know the rat race over here is not worth it at all.

[@donny-crypto7615]

In Spain they say, Americans live to work, while in Spain people work to live, and I think that applies to most countries outside the USA

[@_kashama]

I was born in Congo (Kinshasa) and lived in Lusaka (Zambia) from the ages of 2 til 9, when my parents promptly moved us to the States (Connecticut).I'm now turning 32 in a few days and I don't think I've ever been genuinely content living here. I'm married to a Black American wife (with Jamaican ancesctry) and we have two beautiful children together. I bring up the idea of moving to a country in Africa, and at first, she was extremely reluctant to it. Over time, I notice that she's now a lot more open to having that convo, as the strenuous American life has taken its toll on everyone. Fingers crossed, and y'all wish me luck, in a few more years I'll be sharing my "moving back home" journey. 🤞🏾🙏🏾

[@patson.]

Did she say 14 years?! Girl haven't aged a day! Glad to have you our sister! Much love from a brother from Zambia

[@seanbarnard8598]

I was born and raised in Namibia and I thank you for this insightful comparison. I have never been to the US (last time I left Nam was in 2013 to South Africa) but it's nice to see someone actually compare the two societies. Please make another comparison video! I'd love to learn more from you.

[@kiddoq539]

I can only wish my wife had assimilated and tolerated life and traditions of South Africa back in the 1990's when we moved back to South Africa but she had a hard time and we ended up moving back to Chicago a couple of years later. Being a South African living in the US, I agree with you 100%. Your posts are always soothing to me each time I view them, but I also feel the loss of my South Africaness. Keep up the great work.

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

It’s not easy for everyone, living abroad can be challenging so I empathize with her and also with you! ❤️‍🩹

[@frederickgriffith7004]

Please Please please my friend whatever you do.Never lose the ties to your original homeland. Especially if you have children. If I did have children, it would have to be with a lady who has cultural ties outside the country. I would want my children to have options. Besides we live in a global world. As an African American I have always felt that America may be a great place to work and make a living. But it can never be our true ancestral and spiritual home.America can provide an excellent compliment in terms of resources. But it took me to visit other countries for ten straight summers in order to ensure my mental and physical well-being. Simply because the negativity towards Black people is built into American culture. Leading to even more stress,anxiety and depression. But I also learned what America has in abundance and what it is lacking.

[@AntonsClass]

Do you think you'll end up back in SA ever? I visited SA and I loved it.

[@mbonisamnkosi2500]

In the case of kids with disabilities, I am in Eswatini and we have very few schools for disabled. We are in a process of implementing inclusive education though. A few of the schools are already there but a majority of the schools are still working on it. The challenges include making necessary adjustments on the infrastructure & staff training because our education system wasn't inclusive for many years

[@TheNaturalMe2011]

Things take time. It's good that you all are moving in the right direction.

[@carolinedelisle589]

Thank you for sharing. this is what the internet was real meant for: sharing experiences from the world over easily so that we can learn from each other.

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Appreciate the support, Caroline! I totally agree!

[@YogaBlissDance]

Your skin is glowing you seem to be thriving! Congratulations.

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Thanks so much sis! 💞

[@JoshuaTanzer]

This is a terrific video and terrific perspective. Thank you!

[@DeMarisOwusu]

She stopped aging when she landed!❤

[@MzLena2You]

My screensaver is of Swakopmund. I am from CT, and I have had Namibia on my radar for at least a year now. I want to visit so badly. The school system here in the states is so volatile. I lived and worked in Westchester County for 3 years, and I would never work in a school again. The staff is stressed, the kids lack discipline, the parents are just as challenging as their kids. Although I am from the Northeast US where it's ridiculously fast paced, I prefer a respectful, laidback, welcoming environment. And that is slowly diminishing all throughout the states. It's so divided and hostile. Great informative video!

[@simplydivine77]

You are the Godmother of Black American Expatriation. I remember watching you years ago when you were one of the few. God bless for living your full life and sharing with us (while simultaneously leading the way for other).

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

This is a huge compliment and I really appreciate it!! Thank you 🥹

[@hilmanakambale5781]

Kaylan, thank you so much for sharing your journey in Namibia. You are incredibly resilient, and I am glad you still enjoy staying in Namibia. I am from Okahao - born and bred there. I have been living in the US for the past few years and had a tremendous culture shock when I first got here. I totally agree with you on your observations in Namibia and the comparison to the US. The US and Namibia are vastly different, and they both are surely far from perfect. I also had a sojourn in several European countries before, but the US is just so different. My idea of America was always shaped by books and movies, so I thought I knew what to expect when I got here. I agree that Americans are super concerned about almost everything - safety and convenience. The hypervigilance culture in the US - gunshot alerts, bad weather alerts - paradoxically makes me feel unsafe because you are always bombarded with something to worry about almost every time. The other thing that shocked me when I first got here was the number of unsheltered people on the streets and the amount of garbage downtown in most major cities that I have visited. It seems that homelessness is a serious concern in major US cities. I definitely agree with you on the issue of the shortage of social services in Namibia. I guess the main issue is that there are vast cultural differences between the US and Namibia. In capitalist countries like the US, where everyday politics involve public conversations about how taxpayer money is spent, people demand more from the government, including the provision of services that in some countries are exclusively confined to the realm of family responsibilities. Duties like caretaking are also sentimental in many African cultures, such that when those are outsourced from the government, for example in the form of hospices, that is mostly deemed as neglect. Governments' functions in many ways are informed by local culture, what that unfortunately does is that it leads to the neglect of some essential services that a few people who might not have conventional families, extended families, homes, and communities might need. On kids' behavior, I think the way kids are raised in the general American life is tremendously different from Namibia and most African countries. I was shocked to learn that kids in the US generally are not required to wear school uniforms. Americans are mostly too liberal and that has an effect on children’s behavior - not respecting elders and generally just being hard to discipline. I have observed that the American society generally does not respect conformity. I am socially conservative, so I am still trying to wrap my mind around that. Consumerism was also another shock for me. Every second you’d see a commercial on your screen persuading you to buy something that you definitely know you do not need. I must confess that I enjoy watching commercials though, haha... it is fun when you are trying to guess the product in the first few seconds, just to find out it's nothing out of the ordinary, it’s just Tylenol! Thank you once again for sharing your journey in Namibia and I hope you will continue sharing valuable lessons from your life in the motherland!

[@-beee-]

Super interesting perspectives! Thank you so much for sharing your reflections and a glimpse into your world!

[@postmillennial]

I loved hearing your perspective. I wish there was a way for us here in America to bring back that calm and community and respect for elders-I really think that’s the natural, human way to live, and our minds are kind of poisoned.

[@theshoemakinglady]

I so agree with you. Even living in a small suburban area in the States, things were slow but not so much anymore. I can't wait to see and compare once I get to the continent.

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Can’t wait for you to get here too! ❤️✨

[@akuashope7477]

Glad you are back sis. I missed you. I watched you in the early days and you encourage my decision to move to Africa as a retiree. Now I permanently live between Ghana and South Africa for the last two years. And you are so right in your assessment. We have to be humble, patient and adopt to the culture. Everything you mentioned is an opportunity for entrepreneurial industry. Afro-Americans with skills need to think about starting a business here because it’s so needed. Again Welcome back!

[@soyamor6528]

I am European, I used to live in a city and work for an american corporation. I've been living in rural Indonesia for 14 years and I so much relate to what you are talking about. I am grateful everyday for taking the decision of moving here and being able to enjoy this kind of live style.

[@ColetteElizabeth]

Your channel was the first one I saw when I considered relocating to the continent. Thank you for making this content 😎

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Thanks SO much for continuing to watch!!! Sincerely appreciate it, friend!

[@stephanied.k.3589]

So glad to see the OG creating content again. ❤ Can't believe that I will step foot in Namiba next month. Just a cruise stop but still a bit surreal after watching your videos.

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

That is AWESOME!! 🙌🏾 Enjoy it all!! 💞

[@DestinationSokeye]

What cruise are you on that stops in Namibia

[@spacesandplacesoutthere]

i cannot believe it's been 14YEARS! i remember when you first came on KZbin. just want to say I am so proud of you my sista. You have represented our people FBA's/AA's very well. Many blessings to you and your lovely family. Shoutout from Oakland👊🏿💯✈

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Thanks so much! I know, the years are really flyiiiing!! 💨 I can’t believe that much time has passed myself! 🤯

[@marisaosodo7133]

Thank you my daughter, Thank you for telling them. Mzungus are coming and staying, Chinese are staying. They need to be more patient and not the other way round. You can survive off grid. Take your rightful place in the African society.

[@JusticeGlobal]

Many blessings to Africa, Namibia, and all of you. I am so glad you made the right choice. Tap into the original blue print, unravel the treasures, and the authentic blessings God has prepared for you. Wishing you life's best ahead.

[@kimberlymelvin2571]

Thank you so much for this video. You are so right about American ways. My son lived abroad for 2 years. He came home and often said we have so many unimportant first world problems. We are a nation of speed, greed and need. I love seeing how so many other countries appreciate just taking the time to slow down, breathe and live life. I appreciate your videos, continued blessings Kaylan❤

[@againstthegrain5309]

Greetings sis. My family and I moved to Namibia back in August from the US. I agree 100%. So far Namibian culture moves very very slow. That's going to take some getting use to but otherwise I have no regrets with the move. Shalom

[@fajusbah1508]

Well done sis you are on point. Being an African myself you don’t need that much to be happy down there

[@robinsonfamily222]

Thank you for another video! I wanted to mention that not all of the USA is strict with time. That is only certain regions. I am from the northeast (Philly) but have lived in about 7 states and now on the west coast. In the northeast there was a major push for doing everything early and strict with time. But I was mainly raised down south and in some southern areas, we are barely on time and it isn't an issue. It is also laid back in the south and southwest. I do notice here in Arizona there are a lot of people migrating from other places bringing that rush rush mentality so hopefully they don't shift the laid back culture. It also depends on the field you work in. I am a substitute teacher and there is a little wiggle room with the time. But of course I have to be there when class starts. But I have been late a few times since the bus runs late and nobody made a big deal about it as long as I call and let them know. That is one reason I cannot live in those major cities around the USA. Smaller towns aren't that bad. As far as shelters around the USA, there is a crisis here. Most shelters are full. And with the influx of illegals coming into the country, you are lucky to find a shelter or even a hotel in some areas if there are football games etc going on. Now as far as respect, listen; I can't argue with that. These students in the USA are disrespectful and hate learning. You should see what happened yesterday when I handed out an assignment. A few of my students speak Arabic and Swahili and they entered the work into a translator, sat there quietly, completed the work, and was done before all of the American students. The other students just kept talking and being unruly as usual. I am glad your children won't be raised here since a lot of schools (private and public) contain students who are coming from broken homes where values no longer matter in the USA.

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Hi! Thanks for watching and the comment! Thats true about Southern culture, for example, being slower paced! About the shelters, yes, I’ve been following the news about the migrants and their impact on the system! In the States they have them even if they’re full. Here, it’s another story. Sorry about the school incident 🫤 I hear a lot of American teachers in the US voice similar frustrations.

[@mbusoguma5504]

I appreciate how unique your story is, living and raising a family with a brother from here in the motherland. Very refreshing perspective. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏿

[@Cecyk]

I miss that relaxed life, I have learned that it’s very good for our mental health.

[@LuxeGlobalLifestyle]

I am so glad to see you back on with new videos. Thank You for enjoying your process behind the scenes and being able to share your personal experience from living abroad in Africa all these years. You were the one the first resource of showing its possible as a fellow New Yorker who lives in Africa.

[@donred1693]

You're absolutely right. I was born and raised in N.Y.C during the 60's and 70's also and was uncomfortable with the hustle and bustle for survival and progress. Everyone in competition with each other as individuals as well as groups of individuals and many don't last to long. I was happy to leave in 76's. still in the U.S., but away from the brutal environment. I too hope to one day leave the continental U.S.A

[@banayisolelenegus]

Greetings!! I definitely salute you Sis. I was inspired by your journey as I watched it unfold while living in Canada years ago. The Most High has also made a way for me to repatriate to the continent iand I met my husband in The Gambia. I'm so happy for you and your family and pray for all the best for you guys. All praises!!

[@mschurchgurl]

I always get so happy when I see you’ve posted a video! I definitely agree with your point of view on us in the west vs the east. I lived and taught in the Middle East for a few years and I felt so safe, relatively stress-free, etc. I hope to return to the Middle East but it’s hard to live so far from family.

[@shayscott7498]

I lived n the Middle East for 2 years and loved it -- especially the safety. People always expect me to say something negative about the region but it some of the 2 best years. Came back not by choice and you can speculate who had something to do with it.

[@p.t.9709]

So glad to see you again Sis. Thank you for the inspiration. We’re 2 years on the continent now. I can identify with many of these points.

[@jeffkashman8803]

Nice one... Awesome video.... Much respect for you to stay that long in Africa.... From Zambia...

[@mojisoladeji]

You hit the nail on the head on pretty much everything. I particularly like your explanation on so-called 'African time'. Respect for elders, no rush, etc is all true. Your video came up randomly on my feed and I have now subscribed. 😊

[@msbanji4963]

Beyond being happy for you creating your family in Namibia, i am happy to see the trees in your compound have grown. Am sure your compound is very beautiful

[@mojavedesertsonorandesert9531]

Always good to see Americans leave them come back for a visit and see how strange the U.S. is in many simple aspects... When I take a long vacation and come back you see the difference. I think living in a very rural area of the desert in California is a lot less stressful than a city or suburb...

[@2ActNow1]

Well said, without any bashing of either country like some American’s do when they leave for Africa. It’s nice to still appreciate where you come from.

[@mrsjohn5060]

Good to see you back Kaylan. As a Namibian living in Ireland, I totally agree with you. Great content🙌🏾

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Thank you so much for watching!! Sending hugs to you in Ireland! 💗

[@samona7152]

Oh wow, I remember you. I came across your channel about 5 or 6 years ago. I plan to move to Afrika this year and Namibia is one of the many countries I would love to visit and possibly live. Blessings to you & happy New Year!

[@gracethi5663]

So interesting! Thank you for sharing your experience, your journey 🧡

[@JACKIELVSGOD]

I REALLY LOVED THIS VIDEO ON HOW U COMPARED THE TWO. I SUBSCRIBED, THUMBS UP AND I SHARED IT WITH MY DAUGHTER WHO IS ATTENDING THE UNIVERSITY TO BECOME A PSYCHOLOGIST. I FEEL YOUR CHANNEL CAN HELP HER UNDERSTAND THE TRUE AFRICAN CULTURE IF AND WHEN THERAPY IS NEEDED. THANK YOU FOR SHARING

[@acajudi100]

I moved to Queretaro in 2021 at 79. I am always happy to see you sweet lady. God continue to bless you and those you love. Judi Grace.

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

So good to hear from you Judi!!! ❤ sending hugs

[@ohsokrispi]

Loved your video. The very last thing you said is what lead me to comment…You talked about being ready to “shed your skin” when you moved abroad but realized that it’s a part of you. I had the same experience. I never knew how American I was until I moved away…going on 18 years now. 🎉

[@iamempressfiresign]

You are the OG of AfAm youtubers in Alkebulan. I believe you were the very first youtuber I ever discovered living in Africa. Thanks for sharing your journey in Alkebulan with us. ❤

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Thanks so much! ❤️✨

[@justafan5179]

I feel like alot of these things are how they were, pre 1990... which I understand was over 30 years ago, but talk to parents, grandparents, etc... and its amazing to me how they did know their neighbors... could schedule a dinner party or poker night a month in advance and most everyone showed up. If you ordered something by mail and it took 6 weeks to arrive, that was fine... if a store didn’t have something in stock, they could order it, and you came back in a month, and were thrilled. If the power or plumbing or whatever didn't work, people fixed stuff or just waited for things to be repaired. I think these things you speak of exploded once technology became so mainstream that it was nearly impossible to operate without it. Honestly I've seen brand new houses that don't have bathtubs... or fireplaces, or even parks or yards. Apartment complexes are built effectively in resource deserts, and kids and society runs off a digital screen. I remember when 5 day shipping was absurdly fast, and now 2 day shipping is standard, and when it applies to every facet of life... the power going out is the equivalent of the outdoors vaporizing... if your car breaks down, it's like you've just been immobilized... if the water or heat spontaneously goes out, you're out of luck. It's honestly awful how technology dependent American society has become in my 30 short years of life. I hope it changes for the better but for now I don't know a solution. Excellent video!!!

[@pic376]

As a person that was born and partly raised in the Caribbean, I can see myself living in Namibia. I enjoy a free, laid back and easy going lifestyle. In the long run, you live a lot longer. The reason why Americans are stressed out and sick because of the rush rush lifestyle that exist here. I'm planning in retiring in Africa when the time comes. Great vid and thanks for sharing.

[@samuelkamau1044]

You have said it right, in Africa, life is more sweeter and you can live longer

[@spReal100]

@@samuelkamau1044 live longer?

[@lr7221]

So happy to see you are still in Namibia. I stayed a subscriber because I knew you were coming back. I notice that lovely Moringa tree. I've been trying to grow the dwarf type in the states. Keep doing your thing in Africa and thanks for sharing your experience. Stay blessed!

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Thanks so much!! Yes, we bought it last year but it has really flourished! Thanks to my husband’s green thumb 😂

[@1maggotbrain]

You are a gem, great catch! Your spouse is lucky, great to see you again!

[@Johnged15]

This was a great posts. Looking forward to my African journey.

[@originalceo]

That African sun got your skin radiating. Good to see this update, as someone mentioned, you are the original trailblazer. Good to see your family has grown and your progress. I'll be planning my repatriation soon, but different country; keep the best of the American culture it's good to infuse something new into Namibian culture, the exchange of ideas is welcome I'm sure. Stay blesses wish you and family continued propsperity and peace!

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Absolutely!! Great point! All the best on your move 🙌🏾

[@lindiw88etalabi22]

Love your video; I’m Namibian living in the Us since my late teens I have adapted to the lifestyle in the Us when I come home to Namibian I get easily frustrated about service but after being home fior few days I tend to chill us and remind myself that getting frustrating does not help.

[@TonnyOkello]

Good to hear from you again! The first KZbinr I started following

[@crissoa]

You are incredibly brave for doing this. I can’t imagine leaving my comfort zone to go and live and immerse myself in a different world. Such a beautiful thing to see. Do you speak any local languages?

[@simonetchagou4378]

I can totally relate to everything you've shared. I was born in Guyana (the Caribbean). I grew up in New York, I moved to Cameroon in 2009 and lived there for 4 years. I now live in Congo since 2013. All your observations are on point!

[@ZenithPlowden]

Big facts very on point alot of passport bros can't even tell you these things gotta actually stay for at least a year or more

[@Smiley0725]

Wow! That's amazing especially your choice in francophone countries

[@Umar1975ful]

Wow so good to hear from you sis! Your intellect and info is very much appreciated.

[@thenewchief9911]

I legit been following since day one. So proud of you..

[@JodiAhmedou-ql7zf]

We just moved back to the States from Mauritania because of my son's disability. And I agree with what you said fully. I would add that my level of patriotism for being an American has increased and I don't feel ashamed to say that I am an American like I once felt before coming back to the States. I guess because when I saw the people feel pride in their country despite the problems andhardships they face they were still proud to be from whichever country they were from. I think I feel this way because we moved to a very rural town and we still have some of the issues with power outages and Internet disruptions. These are just my thoughts. I'm glad you're back on KZbin again after a long hiatus.

[@TurtleIslandADOS]

Lovely! A very informative and balanced commentary. Thank you!

[@statemoneyclaim8051]

Great video! Thank you so much for continuing to share your journey. I found your channel about 5 years ago. You really helped me with mindset in my transition to first visiting and then moving to the continent.

[@sooofisticated0499]

Fantastic video. I was in DRC a long time ago, 20 years ago… I love the culture there, especially in the Highlands where I was at. It was so beautiful there. The people there had such good values, hard work, so polite… There was a war going on apparently, you wouldn’t know except for occasional groups of refugees… Africa is so beautiful and such a nice place. I could feel the heart of the world beating beneath me there in the highlands in the rift valley. No place like it on earth. But I guess that’s true for everywhere, but it’s just something so unique and the energy is so vibrant.

[@billjayne7474]

What an intelligent, thought-provoking post. Thank you.

[@shafiqshabazz2462]

Hey Kayan, this is Shafiq Shabazz. Great to see you sister. Good to see everything is going well. Your right Africa is Africa it is what it is. It's getting better and better.

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Hey Shafiq! Thank you for watching, it's great to hear from you! ❤️

[@elMaxx5]

Heeeey! Aint seen you in a minute. Glad to see you hanging. Glad to see you still married. Glad to see you have children. PLEASE keep growing into your Africaness Sister.

[@HenryKlausEsq.]

Seeking out African heritage after growing up in NY shows you're a very strong person and hopefully you spread that strength to your community. (no doubt)

[@kiaj.d.5855]

My husband is from Côte d’Ivoire and he wants to move back. We are making plans for the next 1.5-2 years to move.

[@JackMcCabeFL-USA]

I'm a mix of being on time and reusing/fixing things. I was raised in New England here in the States, so we have many things in common with the Brits.

[@ArA-og1dv]

👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 my Caribbean siStar is back, D first I subscribed to With Nambian tales more than decade ago( i thinkk) ...All is well with u n fam. Great to c u. Asè ❤❤

[@priscillabaileymusic]

I was thinking about you the other day. Glad you're still on here.

[@mohamedkamara8153]

Such a pioneer from New York. Happy New Year to you and your family. Stay blessed.

[@omarblacksmith6147]

In the Spring of 2000 I was foreign exchange student at the University of Namibia from my HBCU. I look forward to seeing Namibia again in the next two years. Thanks for the video, it is like an update for me.

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

What a fantastic experience you had!! I hope you make it back 🙌🏾 I also went to an HBCU - Howard!

[@Moses.m]

Wow! That was a concrete explanation of the differences in cultures.As a Kenyan I relate a lot with what you have said.

[@LUKE-TeNnIneTeeN]

HI there! It is a blessing to have your channel come across my recommendation. Refreshing and informative. One thing you said stands out to me about the many options at the grocery stores. I saw a documentary about how we have an illusion of choice. Its an illusion. Like all the choices are under an umbrella of a handful of companies. For example, the have 10 different choices of arm deodorant to choose from but in reality one company owns 8 of them. I was blown away. Its true with foods, the illusion of electing a president, cars, etc I have been fed up with mystery babylon since the great awakening(2020) I am so grateful for this video. Your family is beautiful!

[@robertlove2168]

I got to visit Namibia for 2 weeks last year. It seems to lack the racial tension that South Africa has. I enjoyed my time in there. Walvis Bay in particular.

[@maksheadroom8985]

Very well spoken, and realistic descriptions - also it seems you have embraced the way they do things around there!

[@ChristopherX30]

I appreciate this video. I can see the benefits of both ways of doing things. I really wouldn't want to deal with businesses or services where people are so not serious about their job that they juet choose not to be where they are supposed to be. That reminds me of businesses of Italy a bit. I see that dedication as a good thing about the U.S.A. As for your "Americaness", it's the most obvious thing about Americans. Regardless of how much we try to dodge it, the moment you open your mouth, it's right there. I just tend to embrace it when I am abroad. If that rubs people the wrong way, so be it.

[@annamensah8261]

Hi Kayleen, You are very very very...right on point. Please tell them,open their ears and minds...I love you big big big time.Hit the nail on the head. Compliments of the new season to you and your beautiful children and the man in your life. Thanks bye

[@stephanienwadieiiamhybasia]

It is good to be yourself. No one, anywhere in better than you 😊. Peace and blessings.

[@mongalix8]

Thanks for sharing your views of life, and experinces in Namibia. Would love to see how your house and compoud turned out. Could you vlog that? 😊

[@AfroAmericaninAfrica]

Idk bc the house is always a disaster zone with these two kids 😩😂

[@barboo2]

Thank you so much, Queen! This was wonderfully informative and inspiring! Subbed and looking forward to receiving more of your content about Home.

[@AntonsClass]

You helped inspire me to make it down to Namibia. Glad to see you're doing well!

[@Pule-s1j]

My friend give us a new house tour or just the outside , I’m just curious to see how the neighborhood is looking since the last video you gave us four years ago . Thank you