After 8 Years of Marriage, We Are Still Struggling!

[@BlessedLPT.]

Hmmm this is interesting- so what does a lady do when she’s the ‘Gabes’ of the relationship in terms of visionary, high work ethic and critical. Is that normal for women? Is it suppose to be the other way round? Just thinking aloud Thank you all for always being real❤❤ God bless you Wishing you safe rest of pregnancy and delivery

[@sandradaken9595]

I like your question. I hope they answer... I will learn from it too...

[@BlessedLPT.]

@@sandradaken9595thank you ❤

[@GabesandAnna]

Good question! It's crucial for both partners to navigate the dynamics of the visionary role with sensitivity and consideration for each other's feelings and needs, and to be honest, it takes a lot of patience. However!!! In my (Gabes) opinion (and I am speaking generally), when the husband takes the lead as the visionary, it's essential for him to prioritise his wife's emotional well-being and ensure she feels valued and cherished amidst his drive towards shared goals. This includes making time for emotional connection and fostering a sense of partnership beyond just work or ambition. I guess, in the video, what Anna was getting at was, "Why is this thing you are pursuing more important than me and us as a couple?" Similarly, when the wife assumes the visionary role, she should be mindful of her husband's sense of pride and masculinity. While society has evolved, and women are equally capable and educated, acknowledging and respecting her husband's need to feel respected and valued as a provider and leader in the relationship is essential. This involves validating his contributions, seeking input, and ensuring he feels included and respected in decision-making processes. I guess the husband's insecurities would be asking, "Am I able to lead the household well?" Ultimately, it doesn’t need to be the other way around because your strength is God given, so regardless of gender roles, successful relationships thrive on mutual respect, understanding, and communication. By prioritising each other's emotional well-being and acknowledging each other's strengths and needs, we can navigate the complexities of partnership with grace and empathy.

[@ibby_b]

Annas face as she was speaking was hilarious @15:00 she was smiling as she speaking cause she knew it would ruffle his feathers abit haha! I've been following you for a while but appreciating your videos more as I grow older. Keep it coming xx

[@kena9425]

Keep the holistic content coming guys. Gleaning so much wisdom from your advice, planning for mat leave through to relationship dynamics. Thank you and God bless !

[@GabesandAnna]

Yessss to holistic content! It’s our pleasure and God bless you too x

[@georginasiaw6605]

Anna your skin looks great😍. Thank you guys for taking the time to do this. We are learning a lot and congratulations too❤️🎉

[@Agnes-nr7do]

I absolutely love this video. Very grateful for the two of you.Keep doing the Lord's work

[@GabesandAnna]

So glad you love it 🤎

[@argerinejordan4703]

Hello there! So good to see you two again. Hugs from Houston, TX Congratulations on 8 years of marriage and hope for many more. Love you both🥰🥰🙏

[@GabesandAnna]

Good to see you too fam. Thank you for the anniversary wishes and grateful for the love 😘. Ps. We love Houston

[@BlessedLPT.]

I’m excited for this video🎉🎉 Just a little suggestion - The title sounds like a prophecy. How about ‘After 8 years of marriage, we are still struggling!’

[@GabesandAnna]

Good point! Thanks for the suggestion, we have changed it now 🤎

[@BlessedLPT.]

Thank you for considering. You are both amazing ❤❤ Looking forward to watching 🎉

[@ShortHuckleberry]

I love how REAL the conversations are. Reminds me of my fiance and I. Thank you for being honest and vulnerable about some difficulties you’re facing as well as your striving to working through them!

[@GabesandAnna]

You are so welcome!

[@Naomi28007]

I’ve been following you since the day you painted your house 😅 love from Belgium

[@GabesandAnna]

Wow! That was our Covid anniversary because we couldn’t go anywhere 😅. Thanks for sticking around fam

[@mayibongwetakawira3978]

been following you since your marriage guys keep it up

[@GabesandAnna]

Amazing! Thanks for following our journey 🤎

[@tamaratarere]

The way Gabes folded his hands and legs 😂😂😂😂😂

[@tamaratarere]

I actually appreciate you guys ❤ and honestly it’s real real. I’m praying for you both and your children Gods blessings and sustaining grace through it all. Amen in Jesus name

[@GabesandAnna]

Hahaha that’s when you know Gabes is serious! Thanks for praying for us, we really appreciate it 🤎

[@IfeoluwaJ]

The Convo is funny but serious and I Love it 😄♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@GabesandAnna]

😂😂😂😂 it’s about balance

[@tutsdgn4809]

😂 love you guys, I was smiling towards the end haha ❤️ Definitely need to have more grace for one another ❤ lots of love guys. Keep making each other better 😉💖

[@GabesandAnna]

Thank you fam! Hehe we will ❤️

[@evanessmuvimi1678]

If you were the same person, one of you would be useless. Cherish your differences

[@GabesandAnna]

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