The best decision she made not to choose anyone else. Enjoy being free and loving yourself. This happened in true to life It’s better to be alone than having someone who never appreciate you. This is a good drama. The character of the lead actress was great.
@LaryMamiruАй бұрын
Prob my fave FL. No forgiveness and no need for a replacement 👏👏👏
@desierhart7176Ай бұрын
@@jeanmagalang6349 That is so true if someone can't love and accept for who you are then she or he is better off not being with someone who don't care about you and be around people who does love you and want to be around you. Just saying.
@arnikalmАй бұрын
Women all over the world struggle so hard to have a good life. Marriage, career and children are wonderful, but the demands of all three make women's lives very difficult. Everyone should be free to make their own choices for their happiness. Having someone (ML) take up 7 years of your life without respect is a miserable existence. I was glad that the FL chose not to go back to him as he never changed. His own needs always came first with no true thoughts for her. The 2ML was very nice and would make a great partner but once a woman has been trapped and had her own life take 2nd place for so many years, it is very difficult to even think of losing control over her life choices. Excellent drama!
@ChingakhamJoymalaАй бұрын
To keep the value of myself is the best option. Nice movie❤
@NoelleNaturallyАй бұрын
I disagree. Clearly, with the way she worked for it, she desired a husband and children. Giving up on that dream when you meet a great guy just because you’ve previously encountered a bad partner is analogous to giving up when offered your dream job because of a prior incompetent boss.
@winstond11Ай бұрын
Love this FL, and such a smart character. I loved her conviction and that she stood her ground and was unwilling to ever be with the someone who didn’t value her.
@Angela-b4g3yАй бұрын
It was a pity she wasted 7 years of her life on him though. She could have saved herself much of the heartache and several threats to her life.
@turquoiseninja4534Күн бұрын
Love can blind you. She genuinely, purely, truly loved him despite all his flaws and mistreatment. Him missing their WEDDING was the final straw though. She was willing to endure the public humiliation and his cold attitude out of love since she believed that somehow somewhere it was reciprocated. He did show her affection in the earlier stages of their relationship and for her his affection was enough. He did agree to be in a relationship with her despite general disapproval from those around him. Everyone around him wanted the white lotus beside him though so they tried driving her away (since she was motivated by genuine care for him this did not work). She only left when he proved beyond a shadow of a doubt that she meant nothing to him despite all they had been through together. Those 7 years proved how deeply she loved him and how much she cared. He may have been an irredeemable scumbag but love like that is never a waste, it just means that the next guy to earn her love will know that he is the luckiest man on earth.
@hanakwon6851Ай бұрын
Its not a romance drama, its a story about a woman who knows her value. But sadly ml didnt learn anything. The story could be better than this but such a development for existing in short chinese drama
@everykissbeginswithk5676Ай бұрын
Really pissed me off every time he got angry at her for not accepting his apology as if she owed him something. The insincerity and lack of self-awareness is astonishing. Thank god she never looked back!
@alishathompson2208Ай бұрын
I know!! How he gonna apologize and then choke her out every time she doesn't accept??? A wet paper bag has more sincerity than him!
@OkoyeOnyinye-t2s14 күн бұрын
At least she should have forgiven him and give him second chance 😢😢
@tanushreedash9725Ай бұрын
She is too strong ❤what a good drama 😊please make this type of strong female drama
@renukakovvasi7193Ай бұрын
That's a great drama. She realized some how that loving ourself is more important. ML got what he deserved
@逸奕山Ай бұрын
最終,沒有複合! 女主,有骨氣!沒讓我們失望。
@shih-yinlin1241Ай бұрын
很喜歡許星染的最後一句話:我只選擇我自己。
@tsaipaula3381Ай бұрын
太好了~破鏡不重圓! 要報恩,不要拖累別人! 不是所有的傷害跟錯誤都能用「對不起」揭過~
@nelliecooper929Ай бұрын
He is so persistent. He left her, and now he wants her back. He doesn't love her. He just can't believe that she no longer wants him. He is attractive and she is gorgeous. His ways make him ugly. His mistress is ugly also.
@jjon5606Ай бұрын
Seems to be how it usually is. Don't realize what you have til it is gone. But he went too far like most of the MLs in these dramas. Whether it is physical or psychological abuse. Bottom line for me. A person capable of doing bad things to someone else, girlfriend spouse etc. is not a good person & can not be trusted. What is the old saying "a zebra can't change it's stripes"?
@MrsTea69Ай бұрын
Am I the only one enjoying seeing this man miserablely begging, the entire drama😁😅😀 & never getting forgiven(totally deserved it)....I love how this woman got her sense back👏.👍This is a good one..💜🇰🇪
@888amani2Ай бұрын
女主好看又有個性, 太會演了
@bxw2721Ай бұрын
ML took FL for granted 7 long years, but the final blow was on her wedding day. Only someone that stupid can’t see how manipulative 2FL is for demanding his presence on every important event that matters to FL. His obsession with FL when she is no longer hold him in first place anymore. His ego must be that big that he can not accept the fact that she moved on to a better life without him.
@ngochuynh0926Ай бұрын
the best part of this movie is ml blocking knife for fl and she turned and left didn’t even let him touch her never visited 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@hemtangАй бұрын
You literally hit the point 😂
@reneyselematsela9833Ай бұрын
It was his fault that things got to that point to begin with. If he didn’t indulge 2FL in the beginning she wouldn’t have kept trying to fight so hard!
@ritud6816Ай бұрын
Male lead is psycho
@lucyfaithmukungah2488Ай бұрын
I loved that part 😅😅
@jenestuart8547Ай бұрын
I was so scared she was going to give in at that point. I was so glad to see her turn and walk away. Wow wee!
Finally, there is a chinese writer who has respect for women. Women with a strong spine. The only part this drama missed was a character who truly loves her, and she accepts him in front of her ex.
@danmwangi6317Ай бұрын
This FL is the best she woke up from mistreated relationship with ML and refused to return to him she learnt to love herself more
@rachanathakar1957Ай бұрын
Super drama love it i like girls should love yourself and live life
Wow...ML's acting superb...but ending is gud.....one should love themselves first then others...❤❤❤❤
@승철주-m2hАй бұрын
第一次看到撕渣男从头撕到尾的,哇好爽啊(⊙o⊙)🎉,拍手叫好🎉❤🎉🎉🎉
@Wanderingsoul864Ай бұрын
What is self respect, dignity? Chinese shorts actresses loving a man for 7 years who cancels the wedding for mistress's cat's health, that is self respect and dignity😂
@modupealadesuru8651Ай бұрын
Amen just few minutes into the movie and I have concluded that the ML does not deserve the FL. Imagine on your wedding day looking so beautiful and asking your husband to be if you are beautiful he did not answer but busy looking at his phone waiting for his moonlight's call. I hope the FL will move on from such a relationship.
@SuperHawQАй бұрын
爱自己最好🙂🙂🙂
@monicaalegre2287Ай бұрын
Este es el drama que siempre quise ver. Cuando se enfría el corazón de una mujer, no hay vuelta atrás. Quererse una misma. Grandioso ❤❤❤
@deliadominguez7676Ай бұрын
Demoró demasiado en darse cuenta;pero cuando lo hizo,no volvió atrás aún cuando aún lo amaba y no por conocer a un buen hombre tampoco cedió a estar con otro sí no lo amaba amo todo se diera de está manera sin tener que morir para que el se arrepienta ni huir o tener que elegir cambiar por otro hombre
@aliciaplanterose6601Ай бұрын
Sí. Creo lo mismo. 7 años de su vida le dedicó a quien no lo merecía!!!@@deliadominguez7676
@丸丸-b1lАй бұрын
不錯 這編劇寫的不錯 x打一堆戀愛腦劇本
@fatimafaheem5588Ай бұрын
i like her in drama she suffer for 15 to 18 min but i am so happy to see the man suffer entire drama he really deserve it
@fozhu-źiziАй бұрын
冰封三尺 非一日之寒 遲來的深情比草賤
@佐藤光-d1lАй бұрын
遲來的深情比草賤,不懂? 這樣的男人沒資格得到原諒
@hildaferreira6780Ай бұрын
Final GRATIFICANTE ,a protagonista tem meu respeito, saber se dar VALOR, não voltar com esse canalha que não valorizou a esposa PARABÉNS bom demaissssss
@吳惠茹-x8uАй бұрын
謝謝!
@fionali4286Ай бұрын
最討厭因為個人【恩情】而要求身邊人無限配合,碰見要還【恩情】的,奉勸另一半趕緊閃
@linabarbosa512Ай бұрын
Até que enfim um Dorama legal ,onde a mulher acorda pra vida ,e deixa de ser teouxa
@SaSaLu_1Ай бұрын
This is worth watching. I’ve seen this plot before but this one was actually fleshed out even more than other versions due to being I think 30 minutes longer than the other versions. It does have the usual 3-5-7-10 years of bad marriage, which at this point with these dramas is unavoidable, but at least she is very independent. There was good points like she was firmed on leaving and just only loving herself. His mom wasn’t too much, like she was typical bad MIL for a single scene though. The green tea was steeped a little too long in this story in my opinion. He knows the brother isn’t dead so I don’t know why he doesn’t do more to get rid of her 🤷♂️ I like to think eventually she will pick 2ML cause he was sweet and I’ve seen him in another drama where he was also 2ML and not picked so my heart be breaking for the good boys 😭 overall probably one the the top versions of this plot I’ve seen. I liked it a lot.
@KomuniPfuzheАй бұрын
She will definitely pick the 2nd ml because he deserves it. 👍👍
@莊淑貞-i4hАй бұрын
這種男人早離開早幸福
@方徐蓉Ай бұрын
我發現男人都是在發現女人不愛他的時候才會低聲下氣的討好,有的時候不珍惜失去了才知道惋惜
@HelenPadreАй бұрын
By regretting like hungry beggar on the street sometimes kneeling, tho i haven't seen these idiots with bleeding forehead coz they are hypocrites.
@JchanxxАй бұрын
男女也可能是一樣吧!
@hkangelfish0710Ай бұрын
原諒之後呢 再過一會還是會故態復萌的
@Darcus4malАй бұрын
@@hkangelfish0710he really will. It’s a personality issue.
@Randommusings-r1jАй бұрын
花若盛开,蝴蝶自来!🎉说得好… ❤❤❤
@ChenChen-rg5icАй бұрын
只有最後那一段編的最好,男主為女主擋一刀,女主卻完全視而不見無動於衷的轉身最帥氣,真痛快
@judyannquilnan8714Ай бұрын
What is the name of the actor and actress
@bradsanАй бұрын
When you hate someone it indicates that there is an emotion. While that person isn't even worthy of your hatred. So don't tell anybody that you hate him. Instead tell them you don't hate them because they aren't worthy and they thankfully killed every feeling. Even when you plan a revenge. First thing my parents thought me. Never show your emotions in anyway because it's your weakness. ML had everything and he threw it away just like that. A wife, fiancee comes before your friends, sister etc. Well most moments there are some exceptions but not the one ML considered as exceptions. The sad part, he really loved FL but took everything for granded and didn't cherish what she gave him. FL made the mistake to let it all happen and spoiled him. But FL learned from her mistakes and became the strong one.
Порадовал ,смотрю несколько раз актеры красавцы,побольше таких о сильных женщинах.❤❤❤❤😊
@sumreayjoseph6942Ай бұрын
I would have told him that I prefer to be his sister than his lover. Being a sister means you're treasured.😂😂😂
@bertrandcatapoule507Ай бұрын
I am 1h12 min and the ml doesn't make any sense. He actually prioritized the other female cause her brother saved his life. The fl save his life and he still prioritized the other one... Too many story from différents dramas is added. Like how could she felt in love with him after the way he mistreated her 7 ago when he though she drugged him?
@reneyselematsela9833Ай бұрын
@@bertrandcatapoule507I think the fact that the brother died was the issue but in reality no one does that like come on😂 who would ignore their girl for a person they don’t even like 😅
@bertrandcatapoule507Ай бұрын
@@reneyselematsela9833 actually, I like the drama is taking all the trope I get upset about. The fact that he's trying to tell his shifty attitude is due to misunderstanding, the fact that he tried I care for you or got stabbed none is forgiven by her. So many drama that I saw ended by a stabbing, or a "I treated you bad but cause I misunderstood ". I mean c'mon nobody force you to be a creepy psycho when you think the other one is....
@sumreayjoseph6942Ай бұрын
Sometimes. I don't know what goes on with these young girls. Just read the room. Some men like to chase, some like to be chased. Some men like women who can think for themselves, some men like women who are incapable of thinking for themselves. They just want to feel needed. Even a dog can read a room. Me, personally, I don't need a man or a woman for anything. I did me all my life and never experienced any of these dramas.
@susannekesa3462Ай бұрын
It is good that she didn't forgive him or accept any man but t9 love herself ❤❤
@luisforero-f9iАй бұрын
¡Gracias!
@MarlennysMuñozАй бұрын
Este escritor dándole una leccion a lo demas, demostrando que sin un hombre se vive ,con solo amor propio🎉🎉🎉😂❤
@maritzarodriguez3994Ай бұрын
Mujer que se sacude se empoderavde su realidad y continúa sola. Me encanto algo realmente refrescante.
@МаринаТарасова-щ6т28 күн бұрын
Как играет гл. героиня ,просто все правдоподобно,актеры красавцы,хорош,смотреть приятно.❤❤❤❤😊
❤хорош ,особенно конец фильма ,таких нельзя прощать,спасибо за русский .😊
@MaribelynReyesАй бұрын
You deserve it your wife ignore you 😊😊😊7 years together but never treated her special women 😊
@يابقيةالله-ق7لАй бұрын
If someone saved me, would he humiliate my life and destroy all my people for the sake of your brother? Why are the heroes insignificant? Save me. His problem is that he loved to save me. If all the heroines were brave and had dignity, the movie would have had meaning and beauty. It is not like the rest. She is humiliated and insulted and still loves the hero and his captive. The heroine’s role was very beautiful.
The story had a good concept but the characters didn’t developed well. It feels lacking. ML went from neglecting FL one moment and then to pursuing her intently. 😅
@kallinyx5469Ай бұрын
Yeah, but a true narcissist has a flawed character built on exaggerated self-importance. Crack that false confidence and when he sees that others aren't as impressed with him as he has believed they are, he's left with nothing. That type builds self-esteem on the admiration of others. Without FL's worship, he can't feel like a god anymore. And he crumbles. Goody...
@sumreayjoseph6942Ай бұрын
You're right. Character development was stagnant. I felt suffocated. His friends should have had a good talk with him about his abuse and relationships. He really couldn't differentiate his treatment towards his so-called sister vs. a beloved woman.
@turquoiseninja4534Күн бұрын
His so called friends were insulting the FL behind her back. Talking about how the only thing she had going for her was beauty, how the white lotus was much more suited for him than she was, and how there were prettier women than her. Dunno what sort of help they would be.
@sumreayjoseph6942Күн бұрын
@@turquoiseninja4534 lol, you are right.
@user-db7hs8fm9b6Ай бұрын
Best drama and best fl
@srinurhayati2250Ай бұрын
Fl name ?
@小慧-c9l19 күн бұрын
其實兩人,朗才女貌天生一對情侶。♥️♥️♥️😊😊😊
@heatherheardwhat1103Ай бұрын
The message was a good one, love and respect yourself first, leave and don't go back to a bad man. But this show kept going on and on... He never left her alone, or understood 'no', actually means 'no'. ML kept believing she was playing hard to get, and demanding that she return to him. Less than halfway through, and I was convinced it was FINALLY near the end. Sadly, I was wrong. I just gave up at a certain point, and couldn't even fast forward anymore. I skipped to the end. I'm sure I missed some new plot points (looks like those badly needed new plot points were introduced At Last!), but by that point I felt like the FL, I was burned out and didn't care anymore.
@joyoflife6041Ай бұрын
I felt the same way, totally understand why one would give up, it is indeed a slow-paced long-winded drama! But after patiently sticking with it, I realized that almost every encounter the ML & FL have would bring up something important from the past, filling in the blanks about what had actually happened between them, e.g. about the FL's mother's death and about the wicked girl's faking-death-brother and their conspiracy to set up ML to get his sister to marry ML, without success. I would say the story writer did put in some thoughts in this story, but the ML was written to be too stupid to not to understand how slighting FL on every turn is hurting her! ML did not love FL, FL is correct when she said to ML: "You only love yourself", so true, FL is right to not to take back such selfish and calloused man who never has FL in his heart all through, he just misses the good treatment and affection from FL.
@bluedot27Ай бұрын
@joyoflife6041 oh my gosh, you hit the nail on the head here. The ML missed having her unflinching adoration. He wanted someone who thought he could do no wrong and that he was the most perfect man in the world. He didn't love her, but tried to convince her after she left that all his regret was love... and I'm not even sure regret is the right word for what he felt. And the constant hounding was exhausting. I really felt tired for her when ML and SML were in the fight at the gate, both boasting about how wealthy they were and who loved her most... I felt just so tired listening to both of them and understood how disappointed she was in SML at that point. She didn't want a romance, wasn't interested in another romance. She just wanted to enjoy her life, fulfil her dreams and have good friends beside her. I applaud her for choosing herself above everything else.
@IvanildaTavares-im3uoАй бұрын
❤parabéns ❤❤❤❤ele teve o que merecer e ela não precisou de ficar com outro homem pra vece
@陳翠娥-b6xАй бұрын
我希望編劇能在出續集,許星染能原諒賀寒聲跟他在一起,看了那夏輕輕就討厭
@易烊千玺的印尼粉丝Ай бұрын
是有被虐的嗜好?正常人都不敢再和那样的男人在一起,因为结局只有被杀。😂
@ЗояХамидоваАй бұрын
Ах молодец так ему и надо пусть почувствует всю боль которую она испытывала 7 лет
@СанияМусина-з8зАй бұрын
Зачем надо было ждать 7 лет, даже года хватило бы, в течении года могли бы все разрешить и не было бы ей так больно и он смог бы понять.
@韓玉雲Ай бұрын
女主讚走過轉角前面就是一片彩繪風景❤
@CeciliaCostalesАй бұрын
Please make more of this kind of drama. Sensible and strong woman who is determined not to go back to a toxic relationship and is willing to move on.
@singtattam7126Ай бұрын
喜歡這劇,喜歡這結局,不是甚麽事情都可以原諒的
@alexsam327Ай бұрын
In love this girl ❤ I give my hug 100% good decision
@chituinianАй бұрын
She says no..how much is she hurt..god ..I was crying..
Почему 7 лет,надо бы еще до 15 подождать,ну и дела...служанка...
@sohappyilltryАй бұрын
i love how ML suffered, it took way too long for him to admit his sins, and he even thought that only the wedding was his fault, he thought tha FL was just playing hard to get, he did so many bad things to her, glad FL chose herself and her lines are so slay
@miaaudina0596Ай бұрын
Suka sekali drama ini❤ pokoknya terbaik versi ini😘😘
@himeshira854Ай бұрын
She has the best come back in every mouth fight. Her dialogues is poetic but strong and brave.
Am happy that Chinese short drama started change it's values and starts respect the woman and walk on the real ground, they should get out from the traps of domineering man that gave him no limits for his bad deeds
@landychou5348Ай бұрын
這劇較特別的是,身邊的特助不忠心。
@maggiejosephine19911 күн бұрын
What is the name of Main actor?
@saphirephoenix1173Ай бұрын
Love this! She made a promise to herself and she kept it.
@МасяняБиллиАй бұрын
Очень хотелось бы уточнить кто сценарист - мужчина или женщина. На 17:47 минуте у FL сидит на коленях у ML и по всему видно что у пары прелюдия к половому акту. При этом ML бросает женщину на полпути и уходит поговорить с 2FL. Есть пара вопросов. 1. ML не способен к действиям? ни один мужчина не остановится на полпути если просто прозвучит звонок. 2. что мешало закончить действие с FL (тем более что это в принципе для мужчин примерно 3 минуты) и идти по своим делам. Мне кажется что в данном случае обида у FL была бы более глубокой и она быстрее ушла бы от такого "мужчины".
@MichelleAlexandria-EM19 күн бұрын
1:32:30 If you get excited you faint. If you get a cut you faint. The hospital will close down without you." LOL. 😂😂😂😂😂
@twinflames8600Ай бұрын
Love it in these dramas when the women are standing up for themselves and they say stop making trouble 😂