After Enduring Brutal Abuse and Torture from My Toxic Parents in Favor of My Charming Brother, Wh...

[@ana.sinu94]

I don’t think I can ever forget the story of this man. A kind, respectful, gentle, funny, beautiful human being. I hope he is reborn in a better family and achieves all of his dreams and receives unconditional love, which is what he will always deserve

[@deathound]

Some people don't deserve children, some people don't deserve the shitty cards they were dealt. Some people wind up with both, and then it becomes a true tragedy.

[@naszata]

Agree If this is real, OP is the second person I know about, who died because their parents killed all love for themselves. I'm a single 40-year-old woman who has never been in a relationship. But because I had an amazing mother I love myself and being single doesn't bother me. I really hope OP, just like my amazing mum, will have loving and rich next life. Reincarnation is only thing that keeps me sane after my mum's death. So this story hit too close to my own experience My loving, caring beautiful mum was one who lost her life too early because of how she was treated by her parents

[@sanhcman666]

@@naszata Im in the same boat. i have a family, but the interaction seesm more formality than anything. And i never had a GF.

[@naszata]

@sanhcman666 Don't worry. The reality is that when you focus on yourself you will thrive I have my 14 years old dog (she is an amazing companion, dogs are so worth) I have my career and most importantly I have time for my hobbies and no one to stop me from doing what I want. I hope you will find what makes you happy in life, you will not regent anything

[@Buldogg345]

Holy sh*t this was depressing. Despite everything, I hope OP is at peace and I hope the worst for everyone else. Especially his "family"

[@stirrednotshaken4823]

Just imagine a sibling doing everything possible to make sure the other siblings had a better life than they did, only to be stabbed in the back by them! He even used his own money to move them to England to get their extra degrees and then had to wait more years to recoup the money in his savings so he could move too…all while his brother was doing his girlfriend behind his back and his sister covering it up. What a POS family he has! So, his mother despised him and isn’t of giving him for adoption, she treats him like crap his whole life just so he doesn’t turn out like his bio father. 🤬 She didn’t want him so she should have done the right thing and allow someone else who wanted a child to raise him.

[@patriksvensson2360]

Imagine being so full of hurt and lack of belief in the possibilities of a brighter tomorrow that you view the slow, painful and debilitating course of death as the greatest blessing you're given in life. A poor soul dying without ever knowing how loved and appreciated he actually could have been. It breaks my heart.

[@ajzephyros7454]

… that is just so dark I wonder if the OP is even still alive since he posted this?

[@generalmeanguy8902]

The story was a year ago, he has most definitely passed on

[@ktmmatt7243]

@@generalmeanguy8902 I hope he found some measure of peace.

[@peeper646]

@@ajzephyros7454 he is, because this story is a work of fiction

[@derherrgraf6001]

​@@peeper646How do you want to know that?

[@peeper646]

@@derherrgraf6001 ive written a long comment here explaining it If you are having difficulty finding it, please let me know, I'll paste it here

[@justsomedangerbigfootwithweb]

The Caste system is beyond outdated and needs to dissapear from India completely. It's why they have such a probelm with waste and pollution becauss those kinds of jobs are looked down on.

[@princessmarlena1359]

Agreed

[@jdmweeb8663]

Agreed

[@anshuanshu100]

Agreed

[@Lloyd_Jane]

Agreed

[@Aj-mn4pv]

Everyone don’t get to decide what family they want to be born into and OP’s family don’t deserve OP. I’m really am tired that some people blame innocent children just by being born. It’s never our choice of being born. If his family see this read this post I hope they suffer when reading this “you guys are the worst family in human history your son/brother/friend/love just wanted to be loved and nobody ever granted it. “I hope OP’s next life will fill with happiness and love that he deserve because everyone deserve love.❤️‍🩹

[@SCP-49668]

May this man have better luck in his next life. Some parents should never have been parente.

[@TheCodeHunter]

I want to cry. this has to be the hardest life to imagine. the more I think about OP right now, the more I realise my health issues and troubles aren't as bad as him

[@thiccredgyal3404]

😢😢

[@walkz007]

Why keep a child of SA to mistreat them if you won't get an abortion,put the child up for adoption but doing this to a human to punish them for anothers actions is as bad!

[@danatos24]

True injustice.

[@emperorwai]

Fuck. I went looking, to see...i dunno, if there was more, a change of heart and yeah...nothing. His posts are a year old so, he's probably gone now. Fuck.

[@Nazzaric]

Can you share with me the link or post?

[@emperorwai]

deathbed_discourse is the handle he used, I don't think sharing is possible, not without flagging youtubes spam filter. He posted his story in the True off my chest and unsent letters sub reddits.

[@Doggypaddle8]

​@@emperorwai Thanks for giving the info

[@deadsouljaguar7041]

Holy cow, this is one of the most saddest reddit story I ever listen. I agree with a lot of commets that are saying some parents shouldn't deserve to have children. This is just sad as hell.

[@RepellentJeff]

Some people, more than we would like to admit, just never had a chance… 😢

[@failingartist3524]

Man op at least got the last laugh on his family, I guess no closer no reconciliation nothing but hey it been a year and I died here's some money for your kids

[@wegeaastrike25]

Man that freaking blows man just accepted his fate, and he did have the option to live or die kind of eerie

[@sweeety969]

I hope he left a letter to be read after his death that goes over his life in excruciating detail so that everybody knows just how bad everyone hurt him, so everyone knows the whole truth and to expose those monsters to the world. His whole life was one sacrifice after another. He never got to live for himself. I just wish that at least for those last few months he had left he got to do all the things he wanted to do, and took that trip he wanted. The fact he kept working was even more heartbreaking. He should have cashed kut and bought himself cruise tickets and just gone to all those places he wanted to go and never worked another day in his life. I wish him nothing but peace and i wish his nephews and nieces all find out the truth about their family one day and cut those monsters out of their lives. Bad enough his parents betrayed him (from the day he was born) and bad enough his girlfriend cheated, his friends all left him, he was rejected and outcast, fine, that's all atrocious enough but then he took the brunt of the abuse for his siblings, he suffered and sacrificed for them, but they betrayed him in the worst way possible and kept taking advantage of him, using him to go to freaking England and taking his money, his girlfriend, his life, and they didn't even have the decency to break it off. They straight up expected him to be okay with it. They didn't even make an attempt to make ammends by breaking up. They got married and had kids to boot. They should have been begging at his feet. I hope they know true suffering to the degree OP did.

[@ziggystarlord]

Woah, that went a little meta when he said he's 37 in September and I am turning 37 this September and am at risk for cervical cancer. I don't have it last I tested but that's always in the back of my mind.

[@daylightbright7675]

So you've been assaulted, ended up pregnant, and don't want to get an abortion? In this situation you have two fucking options. 1.) Give the baby up so you can both have some peace. 2.) Heal from your own trauma enough to be a good parent to the fully innocent baby you actively chose to have. There is no third option. No, she didn't chose to be assaulted and it wasn't her fault in any way. But she had other options. "Oh we didn't know who was your bio dad until you were born so we couldn't abort" is NOT a fucking excuse for this behaviour. But it's almost like she tortured her son to let out all of the anger and frustration she felt. And what's even worse is that it seems like she KNEW that's what she was doing. What an awful person. And OOP's dad is just as awful for letting this happen

[@HWDragonborn]

This happens in India, what do you expect?

[@racoonwithrabies]

​@@HWDragonbornnot only that but it happened before the 2000 too

[@subhashchandrapal8672]

I will bet my two cents that bitch didn't got assailted she definitely had an affair and just to cover it up she said its assault

[@sterrlittapryros8245]

I am very angry at his whole family and his ex. I know how it feels to be rejected alot and Im a chubby overwieght girl that no man wants which tbh Im okay with that men are worthless to me. The ex really felt sorry for him and never loved him and only his golden child brother. Then end up marrying himm!!!!! She isnt remorseful. She should never done this in the 1st place. She only did it out of pity. The brother I would also blame. Since he is a good looking guy and hurting his brother. As for the mother its also her fault. She shouldnt gave him away if it reminds him of the person that hurt him. Its not his fault that he has a crappy family. I wish I could call them out on it. They desevre the karma. Hopefully if they see this then hopefully their lives would be hell!!!!! This guy didnt desevere this. I know how he feels since I nearly end up doing something I never did before. He never got the chance to be happy. Neither did I since I cant have kids cant trust people who are supposed to help you and dating is stuipd. So I stopped trying only difference is I have a loving mom who is trying to help me and I know she is doing her best but its too late for me. All I can do is do what I can without any help. I hate the world and the people in it because of all the pain I been through thanks to people that hurt me. Im not forgiving these people. Im just hoping these guys feel what he feels. He dosent desevre it. 😢😢😢😢😢

[@brandoncrook5361]

I’m probably the only one who’ll say this but I kind of want to hear what everyone has to say next year doubt we’ll ever get it but it would be nice to hear the guilt and despair they feel for pushing him to this point

[@Lights_out94]

The really sad thing is, I doubt they'd feel it for long, if they do at all so long as they can choose to remain in their "comfortable" bubble of delusion.

[@milicavujanovic9715]

I'm so depressed after this...

[@sonicfan117dash2]

Godspeed, OP. May the next life grant you the peace you sought but never received.

[@Yllamse]

Oh geez, OP. 😢 May the Great Beyond be kinder to you than this place has been. GL GL EE 😔

[@lisabarnes3405]

What a sad life for Op. I hope he is finally at peace.

[@hazelmary]

Story 1 this is really sad story OP tried to keep his sister and brother from the beating and his brother is disgusted for stealing OP Girlfriend and that’s how they treat him like crap for all things he did for them I OP rest in peace regardless of the crap he took from his family OP Girlfriend should of told the truth to about being in love with his brother and the sister should of said something too

[@seshasatyakrishna5016]

Being from his neighbouring state with similar marital issues, this has hit home..

[@asura.yanbeichen]

Am i the only one who started crying halfway through the story?

[@Mousse9]

If this story is true, I’m confused as to why his family tried to reach out to him. Given their history, I can only assume the darkest of reasons. The brother and his wife: He wants something, probably money, as OP’s been used as a piggybank before. The way he and his wife treated him, I don’t think they think of him as family at all. And the baby pictures? Way to rub it in, cheaters. The sister: Yeah, I think she wanted favors or money. She was I think the least evil, but evil nonetheless. The “father”: Zero reason for him to contact OP, since he hates him so much. The only reason I could think of was that by disappearing, OP had broken his father’s hold over him. Can’t make someone’s life miserable if you can’t find him. I’m pretty shocked OP actually left them anything, given their treatment of him. I would’ve just given the money to charity or something. They profited one last time from him.

[@zoe9190]

I was hoping he made video messages for them and a condition for their kids to receive the inheritance. Everyone in his life failed him, his parents especially

[@dinosaurbros8908]

Welp, that's depressing.

[@jacob_suarez01]

This the only Reddit story that actually made me cry man

[@abigailpatriciadole3167]

I would not have left my family or their descendants a damn thing.

[@Elizabeth-gy8ou]

Hope OP is in peace now! He didn’t believe in nothing but that doesn’t mean that he didn’t discover the happiness in Gods love, according to many people who experienced NDE and were atheists is did it to themselves. They had the chance to get back and tell people what they experienced. This is not our home. This is where e learn to be better. help but first love yourself. If OP had better parents his self esteem wouldn’t be crushed. There are many guys that aren’t that handsome, but their comic personality and self esteem makes them attractive and good inside. There are also guys like this that know they’re charismatic but very selfish and hurt people by using them.

[@Aeglos15]

🙏🏾 Rest in peace, OP.

[@juanleal8418]

Parents are nasty, i stg alot of parents are horrible people, not all but alot.

[@TheBigExclusive]

I played this at 2x speed and it still took 30 minutes

[@danatos24]

I wonder if that family has come across this video, and realize their son wrote this. And that OP's siblings realize this was him, and they left him to view life as worthless. Some people, seriously...

[@tabicat.puccino7425]

op didnt deserve all the abused, buy his parent for no reason only an poor excuse, everyone is monster, where no one stood up for him or help him, he was betrayed by anyone who was close to him, i hope he finds peace in the next life also screw his EXGF because why string someone's feelings for so long if you were feeling pity because that is worse that you cheated before breaking up,

[@thiccredgyal3404]

This story makes me want to cry 😢 😭

[@ronaldtristanjoshuaela1267]

May your soul find peace in heaven and both God and jesus will forgive you for your choice. 🙏😇😭

[@TheBigExclusive]

To anyone curious, many people on Reddit are calling the story fake. The OP also refused to reply to any questions or comments about some issues with his story. This led to more redditors calling it fake.

[@peeper646]

@@TheBigExclusive it is indeed a fake story. There are quite a few holes in it. The author spends the first and the longest paragraph explaining how it ain't fake, which is a major giveaway. I haven't seen many reddit stories do that. They don't spend more than 2-3 lines on this Secondly, he says that he got 5 job offers and his "girlfriend" got 8 in the on campus placement cycle. This is impossible. The placement cell of the college will never allow this. People outside don't know how on-campus placements work in India. Here if you secure a job offer, the placement cell declares you ineligible to compete for positions in other companies. The company need not have sent the offer letter for this to happen. Only communication to the institute is required. There are two reasons for this: 1.) if someone has bagged multiple offers, he will obviously reject all but one. He can only have one job, right? In this case the other companies whose offers were rejected are not very pleased about it. This risks their return in the next placement season for the upcoming batch. 2.) imagine a scenario where a job offer went to someone who already had one and didn't require it, over someone who didn't have any and required one. Such a situation is bad for both the student and the institute (their placements statistics get adversely affected).

[@Buldogg345]

TBH, let us hope. There was a story about a man who got cheated on and his daughter knew. When he confronted the wife, she told him so. OP then met up with his daughter and asked WTH. She said that the AP bought her. OP asked why she didn't come to him and she didn't know what to say. Then she turned on him in court. OP had a solid case where he would've kept his house and his retirement fund but the wife's and daughter's testimonies painted him as an abuser and whatever else. He lost everything. He tried to be optimistic and even got himself a kitten. Then his mother died and he gave the kitten to his niece or something. He ended the thread with a goodbye and even provided a real name (assuming it's real, of course). One of the most heartbreaking stories I've ever read. It didn't matter if it was true or not. (I sure hope it wasn't, just like this one). I agree that many of these stories could be fake. But the sad part is that these things happen. And we are just left wondering, what about justice? Let's say this story Is fake. It's one hell of a story. Let's give OP that. If it's true. Then what kind of monster would've given OP this fate. And not just him. Every person who's gone through something horrible. What kind of justice could exist that would make this right?

[@ultimatehusky5481]

this probably isnt what i should be focused on, but... he's a story writer. he wrote something, and contributed to the world. he said he wrote fanfics. i wonder where he posted them, if he did at all. i can't imagine him having a fannish next-of-kin, but... i hope someone is out there to take care of those works; completed or not. i have a lot of shit goin on in my life, but this man is right. we can only play the hand we've been dealt. so i guess i'll play it.

[@bobfg3130]

Don't forget the part about bluffing.

[@chrisrose323]

A Hindu, a Christian and a Muslim... that sound like the start of a 10/10 joke..

[@JamaicanFujoshi]

Wow. This poor guy. Even at the end he was still a doormat.

[@LP-nv9tu]

You should have sought therapy after finding all that out in London. I’m sorry to hear that.

[@KendraWood-o3e]

This was just so sad😢

[@aleksandarvil5718]

RIP, OP! 😢😭

[@S.U1399]

So sad...😢

[@thiccredgyal3404]

I feel like part of the reason they abused him is because he's dark.

[@AllisonakaSakura]

Why give anything to your family they well off arent they?

[@Tekirai]

That’s so sad 😞

[@shuvampal7290]

I wish we can get an update from his lower prespective after he gone

[@HauntedGalMars]

I think OP gave us a nod when he stated, "The only ones who remember me are the anonymous masses that liked my fanfiction" OP is obviously an author... writes fiction... this saga was quite dramatic... (and even in India, I'm sure it would be illegal to flush human remains into a septic due to health reasons... so) I'm going with "cool story bro" on this one

[@chetankalyanreddyarabandi2818]

I understand where you come from 😞😞 I am Indian too I know what its like

[@Miraj1999pato]

Being an Indian I am shocked to hear such incident... These type of incident is not normal in India... don't know why I am sad now😢

[@saravananrs6563]

The majority of portions normal in india..... except family accepts cheating of brother ( normal case not possible)

[@shaderogue1260]

Never punish innocent people for the crimes of others or you just become a monster no different then what you hate

[@valeriecomplex9685]

Trying to find the story on Reddit so I can see if maybe the family has updated in anyway does anyone know the real name of this story?

[@sweeety969]

I think someone said his handle was deathbed_discource

[@bobfg3130]

Deathbed_discourse

[@untiedshoelaces2588]

May OP return forever in his next lives as a Brahman, and may the rest of his family return as pigs for their next thousand reincarnations.

[@ddozen883]

Damn….

[@RashidAli-fb3se]

When I was at college for cooking we use visual vode and visual studio and also somewhere apps

[@shyamilivm8889]

I hope that you find peace 🙂

[@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121]

That’s pretty much what happens when we have a modern society that dehumanizes children of SA.

[@RoseKoneko]

The Harry Potter fan fiction gave me pause. If you know who Andy is, you know he’s started two cults and each time he reinvents himself has a new history including being close to death, or a very fake Irish accent. It might not be him, I hear it’s a large community but oh lawd.

[@aleksandarvil5718]

OP’s life = *GREEK TRAGEDY* 😢😢😢😓😓😥😥😥😭😭😭 *R I P*

[@bobfg3130]

Indian.

[@cameron765]

Some people are just born too ugly to love that's so funny but sad This man was dealt a bad hand from start to finish bro thats depressing

[@Redfox-ge5lg]

No one’s ugly everyone’s beautiful.

[@cameron765]

@@Redfox-ge5lg That's objectively wrong

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

@@Redfox-ge5lg cut that bs. we all know thats not true

[@dollsite]

@@cameron765 everyone has their own preferences, anyone can be beautiful just some people are luckier

[@Melissa-tr8el]

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder

[@cathylanders6377]

😢

[@RashidAli-fb3se]

The best revenge is living a successful life and trying you best and hardest but op choose not to do it and live a dark life

[@derekc2425]

This just makes me feel more racist.

[@RequiemPoete]

Why? This shit happens everywhere. I mean don't get me wrong. Plenty of reason to loathe the Indian Caste system.

[@w7100]

this story could be cut in half

[@nikig2891]

Dude.

[@Raven123WOW]

AI

[@jpv4253]

Damn thats sad especially for an indian like me

[@banditlegal7452]

I feel you all, though I am indian

[@peeper646]

Bhai fake hai ye story It's quite evident

[@jpv4253]

@@peeper646 yeah i suppose

[@Emil_LLscpfan]

Day 229 of commenting to help secretvoices

[@DalTuzi]

Jesus that was depressing

[@pwstraw938]

NOW THERES A MAN WHO KNOWS HIS OPTIONS THINKS IT THROUGH MAKES ARANGMENTS AND PREPAIRS FOR HIS HAND TO BE TOSED BACK INTO THE GAME OF LIFE..🫡🫶🫵