After The HONEYMOON | Sex & MARRIAGE... Ep. 8

[@miaofthekingdom]

“What I thought was my sex drive was my sin drive” SHEESH 😭

[@aisheshatilwe3727]

hey Jonathan please tell your lovely wife that we need our weekly log. This is vital for our weekly detox and treat for getting through the week. With love Aishe.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

LOL i got y'all its coming tomorrow!

[@Grace-y6o9]

Sure 😂😂

[@missrd395]

Thank you Aishe for speaking on our behalf haha😂👌🏽

[@DrineThePoet]

I second this lol!!

[@Nesianni]

This right here lol

[@TheJourneyWithLadyLisa]

Jonathan you’re such a wise young man and godly. Kudos.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

he truly is, i'm so grateful

[@lovebrittt]

Yesss this is what i was waiting for. I was a virgin and my husband was not BUT i grew up very strict Pentecostal. It’s like one day I had to shun the very appearance of sex and the next I’m supposed to be going buckwild swinging from chandeliers?! How sway?That duplicitous view of sex is something i still battle with to this day.

[@friedchicken892]

How did you overcome? I don't plan on marrying but think about this

[@nadia4999]

Rarely is the man a virgin. It does happen, but like you said there was this unspoken switch that you felt you needed to turn on after being doctrinaires to be one type of way. But if your husband picked you knowing you were a virgin then don’t stress about it. But I get it. As a wife you want to make sure he is pleased, but since he was the more experienced, then it is his duty to teach you how and what he likes.

[@kishaward1992]

This was a lot of fun. As a married woman of 22 years you gave me something to think about. I feel like within the last 5 years my husband has cracked the code of pleasing me in areas that I didn’t know I needed pleasing. Great Couple, continue to keep God first and ignore any negative feedback.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

thank you so much!! especially that last part, have to push past the negativity and focus on the assignment, thank you!

[@kejuanlynette8531]

“Holiness Over Comfortability” would great BTW merch! Edit: Add some for “Do What Love Requires” merch too❤

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

We gotta make it happen eventually!

[@anonymousMist]

Is comfortability a word? isn't it just comfort?

[@kejuanlynette8531]

@@anonymousMistIt is a word. Here’s the definition per my Dictionary app: “the quality of being comfortable or of affording ease or comfort, whether physical or emotional”.

[@asavelamabai]

"Who was that, I'm someone's daughter"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@dmt7808]

OMG, I love yall. Church doesn’t talk about this. Some parents don’t either. It’s very important to tell your kids why and the consequences, not just don’t do it. Keep going guys!!!

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

thank you so much!

[@cdelk571]

This is so true about having sex before marriage, not only that you don't feel good about yourself afterwards but if you just keep having sex up until you get married, there is nothing to really look forward to with your spouse the night of your wedding if having sex casually. Atleast for me, it wouldn't be all that special. Ive been married for 27 years and im telling you , you really have to put in all effort to keep it going.

[@mercedmatthews769]

It's very hilarious that Jonathan was feeling like it was getting weird, but you were ready to keep talking only for you to then 1 minute later be like " okay this is getting weird" 😂😂 y'all are too funny together!

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

i was like. on second thought maybe this is ODEEEE lolll

[@tryneedasongs]

I Love you guys! I enjoy watching "Between the Walls" podcast. I've been married for 12 years but I feel I'm learning new things to apply/take note of in my marriage. Thank you for your wise and spiritual thoughts of your Marital journey. 🙏🏾❤️

[@aisheshatilwe3727]

i never knew you guys did not wait for marriage, great insight seeing it from another point of view!

[@R0yalBeauty77]

Until that last episode, it subtly disclosed. However, their marriage is still beautiful.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

thank you so much!

[@shanaderedhead7503]

I am so happy you guys spoke about this! It's a really important topic that people dont talk about. I honestly thought i alone felt this way .

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

You are not alone - *MJ voice* Thanks for watching!

[@iammichaelamonique]

The wanting to do it in the dating stage and then after marriage it slows down definetely had me shook! I think it definitely had to do with fleshly desires. Lol still working out the kinks only 3 months married 😭😂

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

it such a slippery slope, life changes so much after marriage with all the new adjustments, but it gets better!

[@je39981]

I love the transparency. I can't lie, I thought you both waited but had individual sexual experience in the dating scene. However, I love that you both spoke on the decisions you've made and regardless of the circumstance sex in marriage is an entire chapter opened of exploring one another. As mentioned, sex should be a topic that's discussed often because there's so many layers beyond the pleasure of it that some may agree on. I think as it relates to the desires of sex when waiting as Humans we all want what we can't have. Once we get it then it's like "Ohh. Okay", the idea of it is what's enticing the fantasy we create. Great video ! Definitely learned a lot❤

[@cdelk571]

You too make me laugh so much, the two of you are still shy with each other , that is so loving to see lol

[@chastityraggs1453]

As a woman who's going through the change of life, there are a lot of times when I don't feel like it, but because my husband wants it, I give it to him. We've been married coming up on 10 years, and I'm still learning how to love on him.

[@friedchicken892]

do you think your upbringing makes it hard to love him? hes an ubeliver?😮

[@JayDee-ut5yg]

26:25 Thanks Jonathan!!! Porn is absolutely a sin and if you believe in no sex before marriage and you are watching people just having sex for sport that should be everything that you are against!!

[@TheJourneyWithLadyLisa]

Such a godly young couple. I praise God for you. Holiness is still right.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Thank you so much!

[@Just1MeRayanae]

I just wanna circle back and say after watching this twice, Jess you are the little sister I never knew I needed! It’s the slight ADHD with loads of honesty and laughter, yeah we’re sisters. You can’t convince me otherwise 😂 Jonathan, was ready to stop talking in that mic so he could use his own mic elsewhere!! 🤣🤣🤣 Okay, bye! See y’all next time 😂🥰

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

LOLLLLL hey sisssss

[@CleanWithkeke]

I was just talking about this to my husband the other day lol I was like before marriage we was wanting to do it everyday. Then when we got married we don’t do as often, and I agree with you guys. When you aren’t suppose to do it it’s just the enemy trying to temp you, but sense your now able to, because your married it’s now not lust it’s now you have a desire for your spouse in that moment.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

yess exactly!! thank you

[@nadia4999]

Before marriage the person wasn’t always around and easily accessible, so the longing and thought to touch is there. Once married and living together the urgency settles. It’s more of a fear of the person leaving, but once married you feel more secure. Just my take.

[@rebeccahayes113]

Jess- “horrifying like W-H-O” 😂😂😂😂

[@chloejohnson3184]

Point blank period agree with Jonathan, its evil and literally is opening the door to sin specifically lust. Thanks for sharing this y'all, I also recovered from an additiction that started in my adolescence after marriage and you can absolutely see how it tries to pull you in and away from the people you actually love, please learn your own boundaries even though its become less taboo and more of a norm its really harmful and harming people in that industry too!

[@loveafrica97]

“My sex drive was really my sin drive” my goshhh! You better preach

[@TLG2211]

I am starting to be mindful of what I entertain, listen to, watch. Because I know how this can affect my mental. Also I am trying to be intentional about Romans 12:2. Transformation starts with renewing of my mind , I have seen good fruit as already ☺️

[@carmenshirley4886]

For me a married woman of over 30 years, sex evolves and matures as the marriage matures. Sex in my opinion serves multiple purposes and those purposes change over time as the marriage evolves. Meaning there is sex for self pleasure, sex for intentional procreation, sex for stress relief, sex to forgive when you disagree or argue about something in another facet of marriage, sex for celebration of special occasions, sex to create a special memory on vacation. I can go on and on. But also, as marriage evolves, the expectation of sex changes too. Enjoy your swinging from the chandelier time!! Once you build a family it gets harder to dedicate time for intimacy. I agree porn is not helpful unless you both appreciate it as use it as a tool to stimulate you to please your spouse. Never let it be an example of what types of sex you should be doing.

[@janayriley4965]

This was a great conversation and thank you for sharing. You both had very different perspectives on the pressures or expectations of sex in marriage which I loved. I'm wondering if there is a way to remove the shame aspect of sex all together. Having that level of shame allllll the way leading up to your wedding night and then now you're supposed to have sex all the time now is challenging as you both shared. I believe there is a way to encourage abstinence without making sex a shameful act. There is so much shame wrapped around sex and pleasure prior to marriage that it's almost impossible to switch your brain to be like, "oh okay now it is okay for me to desire pleasure or think about sex at all". That switch is hard regardless if you were practicing abstinence or if you were a virgin. Presenting sex in its entirety as shameful for however many years until you're married can have a lasting impact.

[@marianb2530]

😂😂 Jess was like, "we can do it right after this podcast." Loved this...the transparency was amazing!👏🏿😊 Very relatable!💕

[@naturallynay7231]

Finally lol. I’ve been refreshing my feed ever since Jonathan posted on IG that a video was dropping today. Hey y’all 👋🏾

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

lol we back!! hey friends!

[@marie7645]

You guys are caring and patient towards one another. Be equally patient and caring towards yourself. You can sometimes go through a dryspell when attempting to have a baby. I know from experience. God bless you!

[@hellobrittney]

This was a very good episode. Like y’all said, Christians do not openly have these conversations. It was real but also tasteful

[@shonta111]

I love that because you know you so don't compromise to make others comfortable. Great job Jonathan.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Yes! Thank you!

[@sheena.m7802]

I can completely relate to yall . My husband and i tried not to as well but we still stumbled. After marriage it was definitely different and unfortunately i did feel guilty and had to work on it . We've been marriaged 4 years now .

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@nadia4999]

Per usual. Most “stumble.” Can’t resist that temptation to just see before the actual marriage, it happens and been happening.

[@jasminecolon3109]

I love y’all… just being so open is a lot and I applaud you guys. Y’all do it with such GRACE. 🙌

[@LionessOfBeauty]

That dream that you mentioned in the beginning sounds like an initiation dream. Pray & ask God for revelation and deliverance.

[@love_charm]

This was so relatable as a newlywed. Thank you so much for the transparency and keeping it 💯

[@KnitsByNayla]

I think the example around the 40 minute mark, one thing couples should consider as well that you do need that intimate connection to keep the bond strong but if one person is overwhelmed (especially with parental or household duties), I don’t think the burden is only on the denier to name a better time. But their partner should be a true partner and find ways to share in the workload and take some of the burden off so that your spouse can relax and they might be more in the “mood” then. You’re creating the opportunities for connection/intimacy in that case.

[@NeshaJay]

Not a season finale 😢 ahhh I love this podcast!

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

ah thank you sis!! but at least the season finale is an hour and a half lol

[@NeshaJay]

@BetweenTheWallsPod yay! I'm excited for it!

[@ItsJoenell]

I tend to stop whatever I'm watching or doing to listen to you guys. You guys bring the vibe all the time. I'm not married yet, but I still take in a few gems.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

ah thank youu!!

[@PaisleyJames1]

I am the same way when it comes to watching a tv show or movie. I cover my eyes quick. I don't want to get triggered by anything. God delivered me from a porn addiction. Guard your eyes! Love yall, love the podcast 10 out of 10 stars.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Those triggers creep in so smooth sometimes too! Thinking we can handle the things that we cant! Glad you have discernment!! thank you so much!!

[@sonyasteward2578]

U guys are touching on a subject that can be very tough. That said, sex inside a marriage is called, “the marital act”. U guys are ambassadors for Christ. So, yes u have accountability to ur listeners. God made pleasure a part of the marital act so that his creation will actually populate the earth. Can u imagine if it felt bad? There would be no kids😊 However, u guys opened up and allowed us to hear ur points of view. 🙏🏽that God will continue to bless ur marriage.Thank u for ur transparency💯

[@christinebrown6051]

Jess 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was laughing at some of the things she was saying throughout, love the realness, but hilarious part was the "I'm someone's daughter" 😅🤣 took me out!

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

like sir please don't ever forget thattt LOLLL

[@Nia_Paul]

This is my 1st time watching & i normally don’t say anything, but I feel led to assist you with your dream! That is not a random dream, the Lord is revealing to you a trap that the enemy has set for your husband to enter into an adulterous covenant hence the wedding dress. This isn’t a covenant of infidelity in the physical, but in the spiritual! I encourage you all to pray vigorously against this trap & ask for my spiritual discernment & revelation regarding the matter! I pray that the Lord gives you more grace in your ministry!

[@sass270490]

Some things mentioned i needed to hear because its things you know but never heard anyone say it out loud. 👏🏾

[@Onyinye7]

The funny thing is I would’ve thought Jess had the higher sex drive but Jess is just naturally more affectionate and an over sharer lol. I can tell Jonathan is more of a private person when it comes to this kinda stuff. Great episode! I really appreciate you guys’ vulnerability💕🫶🏾

[@JoshanquaDEvans]

We have entered the group chat❤ I miss yall

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

yasss lol we missed y'all!

[@kiggy07]

Such a necessary conversation!! Thank you for your transparency & openness 🫶🏾

[@jennyakakwnwnwnww]

😂😂😂 not the clapping Jess ilyyy

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

She’s the best, isn’t she?! 😂

[@carmenshirley4886]

For me a married woman of over 30 years, sex evolves and matures as the marriage matures. Sex in my opinion serves multiple purposes and those purposes change over time as the marriage evolves. Meaning there is sex for self pleasure, sex for intentional procreation, sex for stress relief, sex to forgive when you disagree or argue about something in another facet of marriage, sex for celebration of special occasions, sex to create a special memory on vacation. I can go on and on. But also, as marriage evolves, the expectation of sex changes too. Enjoy your swinging from the chandelier time!! Once you build a family it gets harder to dedicate time for intimacy.

[@teamcambri3196]

Please keep up with taking your vitamins!! When I slack off mine... I feel the difference!! I'm tired like I haven't slept in ages and my body is also tired. I'm back on my vitamins now and feel TOTALLY non-tired😍😍😍😍😍

[@girlmeetsjoy]

Lmaooo your dad has me weak. Cause why would you ask that 😭

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

RIGHT!? LOLLL like can we please enjoy dinner, sir?? My poor mother hahah

[@carlenderedwards9606]

you both are very inspirational Love watching you guys

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Thank you so much!!

[@Toccup1]

Thank you for sharing and create this safe space. I could relate and i'm not feeling that weird or alone now.😅

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

thank you!!!!

[@curlytisha4375]

I watched this when it was published. Watching it again now with my husband and discussing it with him. Next we watching the anxiety video. We are married for 2 years in September and we can definitely relate! Much love from Cape Town 🇿🇦

[@EbonyLockett1]

The enemies job is to get you to have sex before marriage because sin separates us from God , so in marriage his job is to sow discord because when you come together in marriage you are in unity ! You are more powerful when you come together which is what Gods original design is for marriage unity

[@thehobbyhabitat]

17:14 yep! I’m married and i felt this so much! And when Jonathan said “my sex drive was actually a sin drive” 🎯🎯🎯

[@MrsBrown-qm4of]

Amazing podcast. Great job.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Thank you!!

[@Lady_Clare4]

A library of things😂😂😂😂😂! You guys are wise beyond your years❤️. Great and tasteful content. Thank you( I hope my previous comment wasn’t misconstrued about Instagram. I thought it was a free app and all we had to do was download it. I meant no disrespect to any.🌷)

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Thank you so much! So disrespect taken!

[@PreciousOne777]

That's why some ministers suggest that you have conversations about what your interests are and what those desires are beforehand so that it's not a surprise to either of you. What you don't want is that both of you are on 2 different levels and 2 different interests, and the two are not gonna come together, very well.

[@phalisitygermain391]

You both have great communication between each other, how do ya’ll deal with miscommunication and arguments in marriage?

[@patriciarobinson5172]

I’m here smiling the whole time 😊 this is deep 😊 you’re forgiven 🙏🏾 beautiful topic ❤❤

[@pamd1342]

Doing a great job!👏🏽 Giving great advice. Keep up the good work!👏🏽👏🏽 Married 38 years and counting!!🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Thank you so much!

[@ndanji8234]

Genuine question… What are your thoughts on the biblical teaching that according to God, sex IS marriage? After some research over the years, it’s clear to me that the concept of “premarital sex” i.e Sex BEFORE Marriage is biblically unfounded….because sex IS marriage… and once two people come together, they have the obligation to remain married… Apostle Paul says that if for whatever reason they do divorce(which simply means to put away or to break up), they must not remarry or they must reconcile… Have you or anyone in this comment section delved into what the Bible says about all this?

[@ndanji8234]

I obviously have not addressed some exceptions like rape, incest, etc (which the Bible also speaks on)… I also do know that no situation is beyond redemption for God… But if we are to be guided by His word, what is expected of us regarding this particular topic?

[@ChildOfGod2238]

This was so needed, thank you!

[@derickaah]

Loved this episode it is very necessary!

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Thank you!!

[@sheena.m7802]

This was a very good discussion. Thanks for sharing guys❤

[@MsSummerable]

Jess the jump will come back trust me. The more in sync you become as married people the sex gets better and better and freakier in a healthy way😅

[@ThereallifeofFabi]

Excuse me miss Jess……. DO WHAT AT YO MOMMA HOUSE!!?!?!!😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sharon4951]

YT Niecey and JDub, Good stuff! 👏🏽 Much needed topic! Thank you.

[@Joyinthe__House]

Love every episode ❤❤❤ can’t wait for the season finale but also finale 😢😢😢😢😢

[@taegordon4898]

Y’all hit every nail straight on the head

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

thank you!!

[@denishalamont3884]

Jess, that is so true. I keep thinking something is wrong, and I need counseling because I don't have that strong desire to have sex with my husband. And I really don't understand why. I do find him attractive, and I love him. I just don't understand why the desire is not there.

[@bubblegumprincess]

I’m going thru this too!

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Also get your levels checked! you could **possibly** have low testosterone which can be the cause of a low sex drive in women, if not that then just keep on asking God to help you in this area, trust me I understand, we need to have some girl talk lol

[@nadia4999]

Do you enjoy the sex when y’all do engage? Does he make you O? These are questions you don’t have to answer here, but for yourself. Do you feel secure and happy truly with the way the marriage is going? You said you were attracted to him, but do you find him sexy?

[@wiandajean2039]

This was so good!! 🙏🏾💓

[@Jazzypooh11]

I def think the thrill of doing something you aren’t supposed to do is at play. I also think it’s the circumstances too. Like idk how often you and Jonathon hung out before marriage but I wasn’t seeing my husband daily so the guns (water guns) would be blazing when I did see him lol. I also think,at least for me, when you get married there are other factors at play. There are times where my mind is like yeah I’m tryna buss it open but my body is tired after work, being a mom, or I’m mad cause he didn’t take out the trash or left his clothes in the floor lol. I think we get too familiar with our spouses when we finally do get married so it’s like oh I’m tied tonight, he’ll be here tomorrow.

[@nadia4999]

Exactly. He’s there right beside you. Like Jess said, she had to go to his parents house and sit downstairs. She was the one who was living alone, and like she said having to take that drive back home shuffling through millions of thoughts in her mind.

[@iammichaelamonique]

“Wow my sex drive was really my sin drive “ that was so good!! Spot on

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

!!!!!

[@moniqueifill5000]

14:11 I agree with Jonathan 💯%. The discovery was great. It took a few attempts but we eventually managed it 😊. We celebrated out 21st wedding anniversary last May. Sex has changed throughout the years (after children and as we get older) but it has always been beautiful.

[@shionajoseph3248]

The closer I got to my 40’s my sex drive increased greatly. Sex was always good but went up another level after having my 1st child. Also sex is a WANT and not a NEED. Your parents meet your needs your spouse meets your wants

[@banthony620]

Sin is attractive to the flesh. That’s why it’s “better” before marriage

[@wiser0185]

Listen I love to watch yall because the content is real and yall don't try to sugarcoat anything love these convos u learn a lot. keep up the honesty God would bless yall in everyway. Let's talk sex. Now what I realize as a single dating if you don't stay strong when u close/around the man u are dating especially if you know he is one u are going to married the enemy is going to temp u in many ways, I have been there and it's not that u eager to do it, the (flesh)but physical touch is another way of expressing yourself that is why God want us to wait so we can have that real intimacy with the right one. Now that yall are married when u can have sex morning, noon and night it's seem like it's a no Brainer because it's there at yall pleasure and you don't have to fight that resistance😊. I forget to mention that both man and woman should seek deliverance as well from any sexual desires they had before getting married.

[@PreciousOne777]

Girl, I almost spit this food out when you said maybe we should do it right after this podcast....😅

[@coco10puff]

Jess, you and Jonathan are fortunate to have found each other and enjoy each other in indifferent settings, but girl!!!!! I can't deal with a small one.....I'm sorry!!!!!! I needed to know!!!!!

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

lol MAAAAAMMMM im out lol

[@kristongordon1951]

Watching this while at work to get me through the morning.. 😊

[@lilshonnie17]

This was soo fun and had me laughing. Love you guys ❤

[@itsjass.]

19:02 did it for me 😂 i love y’all

[@carmenshirley4886]

While I agree “ Holiness before comfortability”, I also support the thought that “comfortability” in your marriage as it pertains to sex is the “holiness” that He promised to us when we save ourselves for marriage. What are your thoughts?

[@rlae2006]

I agree with what yall are saying. I'm just like Jonathan. I just gotta be true to my boundaries. Realistic to what will pull me away from God. I, too, seem to be doing too much, but my husband respects me and doesn't get annoyed that i dont wanna watch certain movies. Also, the awkwardness with sex seems to fade with time. At least for me and my husband. The awkwardness decreased, and the comfortably and familiarity with each other increased.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

thank you!!

[@rhondagoodwin5711]

👏👏👏👏👏 great conversation Jonathan and Jess❤

[@patricianyadhi1076]

When Jess said 'I went to poop....' Lol. I had to mention it. Didn't feel like it got the reaction it deserved.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

LOLLLLL

[@anonymousMist]

From someone who saved herself, it was weird. I wasn't exactly "pure", I'd done stuff, but full-on intercourse no. It was weird as heck. I remember lying there and I'm like...this dude is literally inside me right now....like a human is inside another human... This is weird. lol. But tbh, after a bit, it was great, it would've been greater if I wasn't dead tired. That last part is so true Jess. After sex, do NOT speak to me about anything that just happened. I don't want to hear about the positions, the noises, nothing. That last 30 mins no longer exists, that girl has evaporated. Check for her tomorrow same bat time same bat channel.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

LOLLLLLL exactlyyyy hahah.

[@sweettee051988]

First of all , tiredness, vivid dreams.... 👀👀👀 Symptoms!!! Ijs! Lol. Fingers crossed for ya🤞

[@BrittyGirl95]

I was thinking the same! 😁

[@TChelle91]

“Tinty tinty to see if anything change forms” 😭😂 Jess please lmbo

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

She’s the best 😂😂

[@desheac]

Jess said something briefly and it hit home for me. I am one that waited until marriage to have sex and my husband didn’t but for me my motto was always I can’t miss something I never had (sex). So when we got married and we are having sex consistently it is good but when we go 3 or 4 days without doing it, I am good cause I felt I went so long without out, I don’t really miss it until I really want it

[@hakayi9130]

Guys, we are misquoting this verse... Marriage bed should be undefiled (to mean not defiled). It CAN be defiled but shouldn't. Hebrews 13:4(MSG): Honor marriage, and guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between wife and husband. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

thank you

[@carmenshirley4886]

I agree with the boundary portion of this podcast.

[@kv_n6392]

I was listening to this in my bathroom and stopped showering when i heard you guys had sex before marriage. No judgment but i was just shocked. I guess i just created my own idea in my head.

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

Sorry to shock, I wish we didn’t either. But God is a redeemer for sure!

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Love your channel ❤

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

THANK YOU!!

[@priincessnaja6273]

Wow, they do exist! 🙏🏾 🤲🏾

[@banthony620]

I “slipped into something” my wedding night as well and my husband said “what are you wearing?” 🤦🏽‍♀️ 😂 they really don’t care about lingerie

[@missrd395]

😂😂❤

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

they dont care at ALL lol he's like i been waiting for you to get out of your clothes just for you to put more clothes onn?? lollll

[@nadia4999]

Wrong type of lingerie sound like. But carry on

[@navinavi4454]

What about if you are going into your second marriage living in Christ? How should you handle sex for the first time with this person knowing you've had sex before.

[@sheena.m7802]

Was waiting for this 🎉

[@BetweenTheWallsPod]

hey heyyy