After Years of My Dad Enabling His Entitled Wife's (Stepmom) Toxic Behavior, I Finally Went....

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6 ай бұрын

After Years of My Dad Enabling His Entitled Wife's (Stepmom) Toxic Behavior, I Finally Went No Contact When She Attacked My Kid Over a Wedding Dispute.
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@OC_DEFENSE 6 ай бұрын

I hope OP's dad realizes that he lost his kids for Stepmonster when he's old and alone.

@diamondseraph9369 6 ай бұрын

_AND_ his grandkids.

@f687sNFM 6 ай бұрын

People care more for the person willing to sleep with them over their loved ones

@cafelatte1124 6 ай бұрын

He also sounds like a typical simp that listens to everything that his wife says. There's no way that the terrible wife respects him.

@dtulip1 6 ай бұрын

that's what happens when you think with your head not your brain

@seebassteterismaster7879 6 ай бұрын

@@f687sNFM Something tells me that the stepmonster may just divorce the father and leave him alone.

@Olimar92 6 ай бұрын

"She might feel like she's excluded from the family" and smacking a kid hard enough to split his lip over something you're not dealing with doesn't help. And the dad going "If she ain't going than neither am I" just tells me he cares more about an abuser than the kids she abused. FU Dad.

@degenerateangel6891 6 ай бұрын

The fact that the dad said "But she only hit him once!" Had my blood boiling. She hit that baby hard enough to split his lip, she shouldn't have hit him at all. If I was OP or Jane, she'd get a matching split lip and then some.

@Roronoa1213 5 ай бұрын

@@degenerateangel6891 hell yes 🙌 both parents are horrible

@Shukochan 5 ай бұрын

That's what happens when you do most of your thinking between your legs. What a bad dad.

@The.Legendary.SN00T 5 ай бұрын

I may hate babies, and think they are the ugliest creatures in the world, but this ain’t okay

@Fire-Manz 5 ай бұрын

Yeah! I mean like how good of a lay she is? good enough to lose all your kids including the stepson.

@Deedoof 6 ай бұрын

"I love my Dad." But he doesn't love you, and continues to prove it.

@liordagan9342 6 ай бұрын

I would say love less than he loves his wife.

@yamairad1 5 ай бұрын

@@liordagan9342People like that don't love anybody. Everybody around them serves a purpose. The moment you don't serve their purpose they will lose their minds and try to destroy you. In this case, she's the young "hot" wife and he's a sugar daddy.

@liordagan9342 5 ай бұрын

@@yamairad1 Could be

@Roronoa1213 5 ай бұрын

Real.

@Yarashii-sensei 5 ай бұрын

You don't need a toxic parent to love you for you to love them.

@alyssamay9237 4 ай бұрын

"I only hit him once" That's twice too many times

@beepybopbap 4 ай бұрын

Infinitely too many times.

@jedimando9258 2 ай бұрын

Once you start, your not gonna stop

@fanfictiondreamer7836 2 ай бұрын

At the very least

@sedalionthunder6295 14 күн бұрын

This is a good saying.

@plaguepug2091 6 ай бұрын

Ironic of a stepmom to tell a half-brother he ‘isn’t family’.

@beverlyarcher546 5 ай бұрын

Biologically she and her son aren't family

@FutureCommentary1 5 ай бұрын

@@beverlyarcher546It's not her wedding though.

@telleqwin7266 5 ай бұрын

I feel like you missed something I might be wrong but you are correct the OP and step mother aren't biologically related the child she beat however is biologically related to the fiance by being her half brother she had to adopt after the parents passed away so the first comment is correct in saying ironic how the step mother is screaming at a child they aren't family when they are more family to the involved party then she will ever be also the step mom isn't the one get married the step son and sister of the child she beat is sorry for the lack of proper grammar and structure typing on my phone and can't be bothered

@iononcantomascrivo 5 ай бұрын

I swear this story could have been written about my late stepmonster. When that witch die,d I nearly did a tap dance on her grave

@zamp_gaming 2 ай бұрын

My husband's own mother said that about his younger half-brother, too. Husband turned around and said that means his half-sisters (MIL's daughters from her first marriage) aren't family, either. She got pissed and still failed to understand the hypocrisy of what she said.

@KarmaTube5 6 ай бұрын

Shame on those who let SM do this for years and even told op she’s “over reacting “ if you put hands on my child it’s not me you need to worry about. It’s my wife, she will tear you up putting your hands on our kids

@JupitersTears 5 ай бұрын

Everyone but op and his sister they were raised by her its hard to break free from that ya know? Luckily he starts the process here

@sanscestmultishipper8614 2 ай бұрын

If it was my kid who was hit you better believe I’d go to jail for either assault or murder because no one touches my child and I’d do the same if someone was to hurt my brothers future kids and my family knows this considering I jumped out of a moving car when I learned someone threatened to kill my little brother

@WhiterCreep 5 ай бұрын

“I hope this is my last update, thank you” 20 *minutes remaining to the video*

@Chirp-ballad 2 ай бұрын

😂

@KateIsCoolDUH 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@ImNotaRussianBot Ай бұрын

Always love those, lol.

@neilchristianjumawan616 6 ай бұрын

Love how he named stepmother, "step monster".

@C.G.Gaster 6 ай бұрын

The whole time I subconsciously saw SM as step-monster

@neilchristianjumawan616 6 ай бұрын

@@C.G.Gaster tbh, she was.

@Potatolover1775 3 ай бұрын

IM SO SORRY BUT IT CAUGHT ME OFF GUARD WHEN I FIRST READ IT AND I WAS DYING LAUGHING BRO I HAD TO REVERSE IT BACK BY 6 MINUTES BECAUSE I STOPPED PAYING ATTENTION

@neilchristianjumawan616 3 ай бұрын

@@Potatolover1775 😅. Didn't notice it the first 5 minutes too.

@thefeatheredbutterfly7335 5 ай бұрын

Okay but Nina and Laura are total *badasses*

@kristashafer93098 5 ай бұрын

I know! That whispered “Nice try!” was beyond epic!

@shawnycoffman 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely! Give them a round of applause. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻⭐⭐⭐

@Treeoflife25 2 ай бұрын

I can’t believe I’m saying this, but damn, I have seen the baby shower one before, I thought it was stand-alone, didn’t think it was a whole thing

@zerofate9669 6 ай бұрын

She literally tried to make a baby shower all about her for Instagram and social media post. While yeah some people do that, but with their OWN baby showers. She's not the one pregnant, and she doesn't have rights to change anything without permission. And the fact that she refuse to acknowledge the fact that op had a boy speaks volume. She really wanted a girl, and just didn't want to accept the fact, it's a boy not a girl she dreamed to have. She is toxic, and I would suggest keeping her away from the son and future children, especially daughters. Heaven knows what she would do and say to the child when op isn't present.

@shinatina2466 5 ай бұрын

My grandfather did the same thing to me except reversed. He even showed up to the hospital with a blue stuffie and boy clothes.

@shawnycoffman 4 ай бұрын

The woman's a classic narcissist. As in, meets the criteria to be diagnosed with malignant narcissism. I was spawned of such a person and unfortunately share DNA with three others.

@fanfictiondreamer7836 2 ай бұрын

I think we've already seen a taste of that

@theinkyspoon 5 ай бұрын

I'm almost certain that the stepbrother's (4year) girlfriend actually left him because of his horrible mother. He just refused to acknowledge it at that time.

@hitrapperandartistdababy 5 ай бұрын

What a pathetic father. He failed both his own children and his grandchildren. If he outlives her he’ll propably come crawling back

@Phoenix-mh5eo 2 ай бұрын

Yeah... OP is a better person than I am cause it sounds like even if it's 30 years from now, he may allow his father to come crawling back (as long as he apologizes). I couldn't do it, if my father repeatedly chose someone who abuse his children AND grandchildren over me, well I guess I don't have a dad anymore.

@clamiyep7008 6 ай бұрын

That guy will only realize his mistake when he'll grow old, take off the rose tinted glasses and see that all his children left him, he didn't see his grandchildren grow up and btch has either somehow turned even worse trying to seize control over all the family, has cheated on him, started to abuse him or has just abandonned him bc she didn't need him anymore

@yujunn 6 ай бұрын

it's funny how some people like OP's father need to lose almost everything precious to them to even have a slight chance of understanding one's fault. Bet SM is gonna project her toxicity on him and the rest of the family members since OP and his sister are gone and he's still gonna stick with her

@hinatakenpachi6564 5 ай бұрын

She hit a child. Any excuse anyone makes for her need to be banned from anywhere near children

@BoopleSnuffeGaming 5 ай бұрын

Maybe I'm just a bad person, but if I were OP, I'd have planted the seeds of distrust with the final phone call with the father. Ya know, "can't wait until it's revealed that she's cheating on you." Lets be real here, there's extremely high probability that SM is cheating on OP's father.

@mazthebear 5 ай бұрын

Thats my thought as well.

@anybody81662 5 ай бұрын

I don't think she could cheat on his dad. She's 50, who'd want an annoying abuser who's 50 as a partner.

@Eric-yd9dm 5 ай бұрын

Even though doing something like that might feel good, it can easily backfire as it gives ammunition for people to use against you. Saying only what is needed feels like eating shit, but often is what yield the best results as having the honest trust of allies is a superpower

@puppypr1nc3 5 ай бұрын

@@anybody81662you'd be surprised... Some people think serial killers and p/dos and shit are hot or likeable. I have seen people knowingly date them or simp for them. Even going as far as to defend them. It is disgusting.

@sugakookie7985 4 ай бұрын

@@anybody81662 Don't say ridiculous things for every 50 year old women there are even older men looking for a partner, no young guy will want her but guys her age and older will.

@KilroyWasHere83 6 ай бұрын

"But SM's pictures looked like Barbie had puked all over Hello Kitty's birthday party" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@billcutting2681 6 ай бұрын

Yeah man you knew who your dad and her were. I wish everyone who was abused growing up, understood that they are doing their children a massive disservice by keeping them around the people who abused them.

@Amelia-vk4jt Ай бұрын

Yeah, my dad and grandmother are the only imidiate family members except siblings who didnt abuse us and even themselves where abused. I can understand that it cant be easy to be in that situation, but they where adults and we where children and thats why I dont have a great relationships with them. We dont argue or anything but we are very low contact for my own sanity, as its hard not to have negative emotions about them sometimes.

@Darkspark06 6 ай бұрын

25:10 I loved that “ nice try” 🤣

@DeeBraynt2010 5 ай бұрын

The way Step Monster was, I wouldn't be shocked if the first girlfriend the stepbrother had was harrassed by the filth until she [the girlfriend] had to end the relationship in order to escape the insanity. Edited to add after thinking about it: the filth, AKA the Step Monster was so desperate to be accepted by the paternal family that she shot herself in the foot several times by inserting herself into anything and everything and made everyone hate her that much more. It must have gotten under skin to see that Luke and Jane were cared for while she [the filth] was seen for the trash she really was

@iononcantomascrivo 5 ай бұрын

I had a stepmom like this. She, at one point, was my dad's mistress. She never liked me and I didn't like her. When she would get all hoity toity talking about love, honor and respect and all those things, I pointed out that an honorable woman doesn't break up marriages. Of course, it takes two to tango but it was fun watching her face twist up like a quickly aging grape when I called her out on her crap. The abuse started right after the ring went on her finger. First it was emotional, then verbal and sometimes she would slap me on the arm or around my shoulder. One time she went to swing for my face and I ducked away and she ended up hitting the wall. Dad walked in on it. He tried to say that I had started the conflict and I was known for being a drama queen. I was 12 for Christ's sake. When she would sit next to me I would flinch and she put her arm around me and pull away. My dad and my grandparents tried to make it out like I didn't like being touched. Then I would get up and stand away from everyone. They asked me why I was being so difficult. I said “because I feel like she's going to hit me.” You could have heard a pin drop. My dad and my grandparents jumped down my throat while my stepmom sat there looking awkward. They all denied she would ever do that. I yelled back at them: “How the hell would all of you know?” My relationship with my stepmom went from toxic to nuclear after that. It didn't help at all that she still had one daughter who lived at home and she was a total crap starter. She accused me of going in her room. I didn't do that because I respected boundaries but it didn't stop my witch stepsister from stirring the pot. My stepmom got in my face and yelled at me. Then she took a swing at me and this time I couldn't tuck out of the way. She slapped me. I screamed. My dad came running in and he saw me holding me holding my face. My dad went off on his wife. He ranted about how no one was going to treat his kids that way. I decided to butt in and say: "Except for you, right dad?” I went and locked myself in the bathroom. I could hear them screaming at each other. Apparently my stepsister ran out the front door and across the street to the neighbor's house. When I finally came out of the bathroom, it was clear my stepmom had been crying. She had the nerve to say to me and “I hope you're happy.” I said some choice words to her and told her she would never have had to deal with me if she didn't break up my parents and violate the commandant that forbids adultery. She started to take a step towards me and I told her if she laid another hand on me I would call the cops, file a report and have her arrested. She worked for the county and any charges against her would cause her to lose her job. Unsurprisingly, my dad and her split. Apparently it wasn't okay for someone else to abused his kids except for him.

@SailorAlphaCentauri 6 ай бұрын

OP didn't want to know the gender until birth, and that's what I did as well. I loved the fact that it drove people crazy that we didn't know (and wouldn't tell them if we did)!

@shegeek5559 5 ай бұрын

oh, gosh, when he was relating the baby shower, I was scared she'd somehow gotten to a nurse or tech and gotten the gender. Even knowing they had a boy.

@Thaddius0 4 ай бұрын

LOL I have that same personality.

@nidhi2693 2 ай бұрын

tbh i never understood why it's anybody's business. you can ask, and if they don't want to tell you, accept that. also, i understand having a preference, but to be disappointed and to show it is awful. i wouldn't want any baby around that person.

@katiebryan4257 5 ай бұрын

OP seems like a really good man who truly cares about the safety and wellbeing of his family. I hope they’re doing well.

@buttonsfan 4 ай бұрын

I'm not sure which is my favorite part. Uno Reversing her Baby Shower Bull Shit, or her own biological son cleaning his hands of her after getting the true story.

@corredarulor 6 ай бұрын

I dont think i would ever forgive my dad, specially not after the stepbrother also cutting contacts with the step mother. If it isnt obvious for the father that the step mother is the problem then there is no point even thinking about him ever again.

@Kevin-og1zx 6 ай бұрын

Because of her actions he has lost all three of his children his two biological and his stepchild and I can almost guarantee he's going around thinking they're all three exaggerating and ungrateful but what they need to understand is that if all three of your children are forced to cut contact with you you were not a good person you are not a good parent you do not deserve to have them in your life you deserve all the s*** that comes flying at you if that is the case ruined three innocent lives because she's f****** unhinged and then physically assaulted a f****** toddler and she still got off in my opinion so lightly a restraining order which she can hide she doesn't have to tell people that that's active she doesn't have to tell them why it happened she can even make up reasons as to why it happened definitely deserves worse than what she's gotten and she definitely doesn't see that it's her own fault it's happened even our own son wants nothing to do with her

@jadeharley7190 5 ай бұрын

Shame on the commenters who asked for that video/proof. Wtf is wrong with people

@Phoenix-mh5eo 2 ай бұрын

I think it's possible they meant to post on something like Facebook so that OP's family could see the evidence, not necessarily on Reddit.

@pocketsycho8720 5 ай бұрын

OP's dad is the textbook definition of a simp. All that energy for someone who assaulted a minor and the minor didn't even do anything that deserved an assault.

@ORGANPARTY 5 ай бұрын

Let’s make it worse: she assaulted a toddler for being happy he was going to be part of his sisters wedding

@Maninawig 6 ай бұрын

I have heard this before (stayed in case of more updates) and it is a sad tale. Though I will take away the "it was like Barbie puked all over Hello Kitty's party"

@Locahaskatexu 6 ай бұрын

Yeah, I put that in a bag for later use as well 🤣

@shegeek5559 5 ай бұрын

That killed me, my dogs are still scowling at me, and my soul is circling the ceiling, trying to ping me with ghost Cheetos.

@RagnarokAvatar 6 ай бұрын

OP shouldn't feel too sorry for his father, he made his choice. I'd disown my own father if he made that same choice.

@jonghwabiased8671 6 ай бұрын

People say they hope the dad wakes up. The dad gets to sleep with the stepmonster so not having his kids or grandkids is the least of his worries.

@ImNotaRussianBot 4 ай бұрын

Age catches up with all of us. Sex is good and all, but it's not the end all be all forever.

@RhiRhi17oh 4 ай бұрын

If I had been the one to organize a baby shower and the SM did that with the boxes of decorations. I'd take hers and replace them with my own. The look on her face when she opened them would be priceless.

@user-xd1cm9vu9s 6 ай бұрын

hold the fuck up, she beat up a kid and people were STILL on her side?

@marysmith-ps7uj 5 ай бұрын

Yeah. How screwed up is that? Honey, she would have been sporting a split lip AND on the freaking floor!😮😮

@zion174 6 ай бұрын

She splitt the lip of a 3 year old boy.

@shegeek5559 5 ай бұрын

grrrrrrrrrrrrrr...

@janethopper3462 2 ай бұрын

To think a grown woman would hit a child, splitting his li p then trying to excuse herself as only hitting him once is despicable. She sounds like she's got some kind of undiagnosed condition. She needs to be kept away from kids well done on your swift actions on protecting that poor boy.

@angerydestroyer 5 ай бұрын

Anyone attacking a kid over anything don’t deserve love or anything but no mercy and that father is not a good grandparent or dad

@BraveryWing26 5 ай бұрын

I am so glad OP and Jane went NC with stepmonster and Enabler Dad.

@scm903 5 ай бұрын

I would be in jail so fast if my stepmom hurt my child. I would be smiling in my mugshot too. 😁

@neuvibathwaterpavedtheway 4 ай бұрын

Hitting a freaking child is so out of line >:(

@lisamcbride8921 5 ай бұрын

Luke is not part of the family? SM is not part of the family! She is just your dads wife! Not a blood relation! This is so upsetting, even listening to you has reduced me to tears, i am soon to become A SM. I will be lucky to get a bonus daughter age 16, my son is an adult and 32 years old. Your dad will come around, but your MIL has gotten everything she deserves and more! Dont feel bad things eventually work out. This to shall pass!

@ec6443 3 ай бұрын

Good Job on pressing charges. She should be in jail and your dad can take a flying leap.

@dtulip1 6 ай бұрын

Just think of it this way, the wedding will be cheaper if half your family wont come..tbh you have to be better off without them surely

@boredpersonstory553 5 ай бұрын

Hope OP and Wife have a long and happy life together

@shegeek5559 5 ай бұрын

Some of OP's phrasing have literally left me gasping and rewinding to review what my laughter had drowned out. When Barbie puked all over Kitty's party, I startled my dogs. OP for the win!

@chessieray1465 6 ай бұрын

May OP and his be blessed.

@lynettedizon2609 4 ай бұрын

i was eating a cookie when he said you get an invisible cookie like HAHA GOT A REAL ONE 😋

@mb8787 4 ай бұрын

😂

@jpbaley2016 5 ай бұрын

The father reaped all this just for a glory hole.

@clamiyep7008 6 ай бұрын

I heard that story before, it's nice to have some updates

@aureliaalessio 5 ай бұрын

Jane sounds awesome.

@lunawolfking1340 5 ай бұрын

Not family? He’s literally the brides little brother…

@ppunion 5 ай бұрын

It has to be the best way to be called a dumbass, the way Jane called OP a dumbass for worrying that she would blame him. :D

@allen_the_goat Ай бұрын

yeah it was really funny

@delphinium4987 3 ай бұрын

"I'm not worried about them trying to show up at the wedding" *checks time left on video* 22 minutes

@flamelily2086 4 ай бұрын

The stepmother is appalling. She assualted a child, and OP is right to ban her from his house and the wedding.

@funakfunak2740 5 ай бұрын

Man, do you realize how killer the stepmonster must have been in bed for the dad to defend her to that level? Like she must have had fireworks shooting out of there or something

@asnalem4391 5 ай бұрын

Yeah crazy how a man that says, "you should forgive me and her because we're family" never stands up for his kids against her

@lightsidesoul 4 ай бұрын

If at any point OP, or even someone in their situation, reads this: The *second* your kid is old enough that you can let other people take care of them (Schools, babysitters, Daycares, Etc.), make absolutely sure that they understand that there will *never* be a reason that either parent will be allowed to pick up your kid. SM has shown she's unhinged, and I wouldn't put it past a narcissist to try and steal something they've been told they can't have.

@BangladeshTheBest 2 ай бұрын

"DO IT FOR DAN!" Like always :D

@Asperger0815 6 ай бұрын

Barbie puked over Hello Kitty's birthday party had me...

@onefinegent 4 ай бұрын

"i dont plan on updating before the wedding unless something big happens" "update: something huge happened" every time...

@boatthere867 3 ай бұрын

Sorry ladies about this next bit but. Wow she must have one hell of a magic box for the dad to stay with that level of crasy.

@leahketchum4078 3 ай бұрын

They don't want to come.they don't need to,stand ur ground.

@kscanlan5442 4 ай бұрын

Don't invite them to the wedding! Keep your family away from them. NC!!

@user-js9ky8rb3c Ай бұрын

Hours upon hours of minecraft parkour footage that never loops.... That's the wild part

@ae1103 Ай бұрын

I'm so happy that stepbrother left as well. SM and "Dad" don't have any of their kids or grandkids, and I love that.

@reynardevanderchan7615 2 ай бұрын

And in the legal eye (by what i know) Luke is OP's step child so he is family and also by blood on OP's wife side of the family

@VadBlackwood 5 ай бұрын

Absolutely love the descriptor of "Most instagrammable ever"

@megeraashley7777 5 ай бұрын

So maybe I misheard this but OP’s dad cheated on his gf to be with this awful woman? Well I can see why OP’s mom divorced him in the first place. This SM sounds like a sociopath. Who the hell tries to be the matriarch to two kids whose actual mother is alive & around? That’s stepford wife territory right there.

@nancyoneill-buck6033 5 ай бұрын

This was one of the best written stories I've seen for awhile. Good job.

@sugakookie7985 4 ай бұрын

Imagine taking your toxic wife side over your children, he'll regret it when she runs off with some dude she met while scoping out better partners.

@canineatnight6026 5 ай бұрын

Everyone has move on. All is left is if dad is willing to clear his eyes for once

@theravenking1235 Ай бұрын

Crazy, I’ve only ever heard the baby shower update as a story on its own, I didn’t know how insane SM was.

@Step-zn9jr Ай бұрын

The real question is what does sm stand for

@theravenking1235 Ай бұрын

@@Step-zn9jr step mom

@pachimarie 2 ай бұрын

had to relisten to the part where laura whispered "nice try" bc THE AMOUNT OF TRIUMPH I FELT

@FanFicnic 5 ай бұрын

I like OPs wife. She seems like good people.

@jasontodd8071 5 ай бұрын

And has a great family!

@pandapies6703 5 ай бұрын

Dad 1000% hates his grandkid. Who tf doesnt divorce over that?!

@afsaratasnia9150 5 ай бұрын

It took me a long time to realize watching these videos that bil means brother in law and sil means sister in law

@flxwerss. 5 ай бұрын

i hope this is my last update. *20 minutes left in the video*

@jessicadriver1636 6 ай бұрын

I only got one name to call OP's dad, SIMP👎👎

@I_am_cheeseman 5 ай бұрын

Ik it’s not that funny but I laughed my butt of when he stepmosters

@localvaultcompanion3516 20 күн бұрын

The more I hear stories and the more I experience the world myself, I realize that many adults aren't even adults. They're just children that got older. They still act like blubbering idiots and lash out and cry and whine at everything.

@Nnkg-ew4qx 20 күн бұрын

"Barbie puked all over hello kitty birthday party" 😭😭😭😭

@Batman69454 Ай бұрын

I remember when I was a kid my grandma pulled my hair because she thought I insulted her child and her and my oldest uncle had a huge talk telling her that if she ever laid a hand on me she will get in huge trouble with not only the family but with the police. And since then she has been a kind grandma and im glad

@ohlookitsadumbperson1169 5 ай бұрын

Alcoholic Aunt brought out on a wheelchair

@Demonoicgamer666 5 ай бұрын

Always be courteous when it’s quiet.

@RetributionRadio0289 23 күн бұрын

Whoa, your stepmom sounds like an absolute nightmare. Your dad really dropped the ball by not putting a stop to her toxicity. 🤯

@valiantsfelinesmccarty6678 22 күн бұрын

Smacking a child in the face has always been child abuse. Can't believe anybody condones this in any part of the family especially the grandfather. Have a feeling he may be a battered husband & now has no way to get away from her. As he has aged he may even be experiencing early dementia & is afraid he'll be alone if he leaves her. The worst part is she may have transferred all of their funds calls everything into her name and nobody knows this. I've heard of this happening. I'm a former nurse & also Estate / Guardian Trustee for Seniors or medically challenged people. I've even worked on FED & State cases for people who were being financially, physically, verbally emotionally, & cheated by their family members. Having to go to court and testify to protect these people. IT IS HORRIFYING HOW MANY MEN ARE ABUSED BY THEIR WIVES! AND IF THERE ARE CHILDREN STILL IN THE HOME A LOT OF TIMES THAT CHILD IS ABUSING THEIR PARENT. Sad part is My father was an abused husband. That whole thing with Amber Heard it was like listening to my father's life all over again although my father couldn't drink he was allergic to alcohol and he of course didn't do any drugs he was of the greatest generation. A war veteran a gentle quiet man. I was only punished by him three times in my whole life. My father only had to look at me & I'd know I had failed him if I did something wrong. So I never did anything wrong. I was so afraid of hurting his feelings & failing him that I tried really hard no matter what. The difficulty was to do the right thing with her being such a horrible person to control the hate I have for her and not let him down which meant I had to run the house take care of everybody because she wasn't doing anything but getting drunk and abusing us. In the scriptures it says to honor your parents doesn't say to love thy parents. But my mother she was a nightmare she was extremely abusive & controlling. Mentally ill, jealous, narcissistic, bipolar alcoholic mess. She didn't care who she took it out on. It was an awful place to live. Dad tried to get us away. Tried to protect us but I heard her threats. "No one will believe you. No one will believe that I harmed anybody. Look at me I'm too small I'm too weak. I'm sick with rheumatoid arthritis. No one will believe anything you say & they'll think you are a horrible man for abandoning your sick wife. If you turn me in think twice because I will say it was you and you know I can get your daughter your own flesh and blood to testify against you. I'll make sure they know you abused the children. My dad knew what this could entail. This had been done to his youngest brother. It went as far as a serious court case where his stepdaughter testified on the stand. Luckily the defense attorney was good. The girl broke down and admitted her mother had put her up to it saying we'll be able to get the money! Your stepdad will be in jail. We'll get the house & everything else. We'll have a wonderful time. You don't want your mother to go to jail do you for having a baby with his best friend? I fell in love I couldn't help it. Your stepdad just works and never pays attention to me and on the weekend when he should be here he's out hunting well he did that to supplement the family food stores because she spent their money and they had five kids! Yeah, my uncle came home & found his wife in bed with his best friend when he realized he didn't want to go duck hunting alone and his friend had said he was too sick and bowed out that morning. He came home early thinking yeah it'll be nice to just spend the weekend with my kids and wife and the brand new 9-month-old baby instead he finds his best friend in bed with his wife. Unfortunately a blood test proved the baby was not his. It was his best friends. My uncle thought okay I'll get custody of my kids back I won't have a problem here. The court knows I didn't touch my stepdaughter I would never do anything like that. This was before they could test you and make sure that you weren't stimulated by the viewing which is ridiculous because the media has made it so that young men old men everybody even women are stimulated by the viewing of photos now you can't be nothing but stimulated it because the media has changed It's everywhere I mean look at the commercials. They're showing us 13-year-olds who look like 21-year-olds in the pictures. No The state considered where ? smoke there's fire. They took all the kids put them in foster care & the youngest ones were adopted out. Our family was heartbroken. My father was frightened. He was afraid to do anything as he would lose his only bio child as well as she had threatened to destroy my brother and I stating that we were abusing my sister and we would be put in juvie. She would do everything in her power to destroy my brother and I by stating we were stealing etc which was furthest thing from the truth as a matter of fact we were working and had become quite well known in the community as the kids with drive.. Sadly my brother died from his injuries as his brain deteriorated from the injuries as an adult. My father was never able to really look at that fully. It preyed upon his mind. I have known many many people who se fathers or ex-husbands married a woman like this and they ended up being physically abused So I wouldn't be surprised if this poor man made a really horrendous mistake married this tart and she is abusing him and he doesn't know where to go with it. It doesn't condone the actions he's doing but it could also tell us why he's not making good decisions He's scared he's terrified and he also could be thinking I deserve this and I'll just stay here and maybe she'll kill me and that way I won't endanger anybody else.

@SuzetteKath 5 ай бұрын

Stepmother basically called OP's fiance a ho. That Luke is not OP's. If I could talk to OP. and the fiance. I would have them do a DNA test on both OP and Luke. Then show the results to SM and his dad. I would say that the sm does not realize how much OP's dad's side has accepted her. She is unable to see that fact. Thus her jealousy over Jane and Luke is very much unfounded. She is also instinctively hates OP and his sibs due to the fact they give evidence that his dad had relations with their mom. And they do not have any of sm's DNA in them. For all you folks, this is why many step parents have troubles accepting their stepchildren. And why they let their offspring if any to terrorize the offspring they are steps to. Seen this type of action before with an ex-bf of mine. It is why I became leery of ever becoming a stepmom myself. And I had a chance a few decades ago.

@user-cq7zd9zu4t 6 ай бұрын

Why is always the parents or siblings?

@LEG4CYGD 6 ай бұрын

yes

@user-cq7zd9zu4t 6 ай бұрын

@@LEG4CYGD well maybe not always but it's still feels like it

@LEG4CYGD 6 ай бұрын

@@user-cq7zd9zu4t yes

@safiremorningstar 2 ай бұрын

I am glad that you realized quite early on that you needed that footage and the nanny cam as well and I'm glad you were smart enough to get seen by the police that she is abusive because this may come in handy in future times when she abuses somebody else's kid and trust me you are not alone. I wish you and your fiance who is hopefully by now your wife a long and happy life.

@StrickerRei-Chn 2 ай бұрын

Good on OP,always press charges

@asimp159 5 ай бұрын

Why didn't you call the damn police in the first part.

@strawberrychampagne8250 4 ай бұрын

This one story takes THIRTY MINUTES TO READ

@calci2679 5 ай бұрын

I know someone EXACTLY like his stepmother

@chantelleosey5767 2 ай бұрын

I love that you say step monster instead of step mother

@sharksdonteatcake3060 5 ай бұрын

When your kids go NC ans you still don't get it

@dhroober 5 ай бұрын

So this is what violence is for. I get it now!

@patrickkelmer6290 5 ай бұрын

I´d only let the father in if he ditches the stepmonster.

@JustinAdamson270 5 ай бұрын

Im glad she called op a dumbass for believing it was his fault hopefully she laughed and kissed him when calling him that

@SilveryBlue1010 2 ай бұрын

Now people leaving the dad's side one by one because of his beloved wife. He'd die alone if stepmonster chose to leave him too lol

@moniblack829 2 ай бұрын

“Barbie puked over Hello Kitty Birthday Party” 😂

@HappyfoxBiz 2 ай бұрын

... "he is not family" do they feel like family? do you feel like they are family? there we go, problem solved... they are to be loved and respected as family, no legal paperwork or adoption is needed.