Agents of the Narcissist How to Deal with Flying Monkeys

[@DarrenFMagee]

This is a re upload of an older video. I've tried to improve the sound so hopefully it'll be a bit louder.

[@innerwestie1446]

Brilliant

[@Portia620]

Something to mention to is many times you’re gonna leave them and they want to win and have the upper hand so they will run out and file for divorce even if you weren’t planning on getting a divorce you were just consulting with an attorney like you weren’t gonna get a divorce right then and there you’re on the fence they will jump and pull the trigger for you which is a blessing in disguise but you might not be ready but they’ll be scared of the abandonment and they will be on you first and move on to the girl that they had in a relationship anyway because they always have another girl that’s pretty common they’re a compulsive liars pathological liars amazing actors and actresses and they are also really good at multiple relationships and cheating.

[@Portia620]

@@innerwestie1446 genius!!! Agreed as he knows this stuff!! Too many so called narc experts haven’t a clue AMD mislead people!!

[@Portia620]

He is RIgHT!!! Starve them!!!! That’s how you get peace and win your freedom. They always want to win! This will kill them inside! They feed off this crap! Don’t you dare lower yourself to them!

[@SpiritualSuccess345]

What if youre autistic spectrum and dont always recognize people on the street? The issue with autism is that it sometimes mimics symptoms of narcissism. 😢

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

Interestingly, in some cases, flying monkeys are narcs themselves and assist their fellow narcs. Also, based on my personal experience with flying monkeys, they are just as worse as the narc and extend drama and misery for the victim.

[@qq84]

That's generally the case.

[@giftedhands4207]

There karma is each other because like we all know they really can't stand each other they just enjoyed bonding over hating you....once I left it took a while but ALL HELL BROKE LOSE...THEY WILL EVEN TRY AND HIDE THE BEHIND THE SCENE DRAMA so you don't realize that your absence is causing and upraw....the main flying monkey who helped abuse me end up being the new scapegoat...lol...I hope he survive it...#NO #REST #FOR #THE #WICKED

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

@@giftedhands4207 there's a saying...a house built on a deck of cards won't stand. I believe this to be true with flying monkeys and the primary narc. Eventually, one or the other will turn on each other, and in some cases, they will turn to the targeted victim to go against the main narc or flying monkeys. I don't want any part of it and will sit back and watch things go up in smoke.

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

@@giftedhands4207 they love drama and to them, it's like being a spectator in a Roman coliseum watching someone being tortured to death

[@rebeccajones4stories]

You have described my sister; she is now doing the dirty work of my mother. It’s sheer and utter hell.

[@Cubic5]

"Flying monkeys is lying monkeys." Best thing I have heard today.

[@HighSpeedNoDrag]

A Flying Monkey(s) can KILL you and Never Ever underestimate them.

[@justmeonthebeach]

Yesterday was the first time I heard of "flying monkeys" and wondered what it's all about. At first, I thought it's about pet monkeys 🐒.. but now, I realized they exist in social media, especially in Twitter..

[@kellydalstok8900]

@@justmeonthebeach it’s taken from the Wizard of Oz - the wicket witch has flying monkeys who do her bidding

[@MattJimmy]

When they can't get dirt on you, they'll just make something up or they'll tell an untruth and exaggerate it to something to a point where it doesn't represent what it really is IS LYING indeed. (And if you read between the lines, they're quite loud and proud about. All I can say is karma. It might not happen overnight to them, but eventually you will see it happen.)

[@leahswift5784]

I didn’t realize how bad abuse was until I started researching Narcissistic abuse

[@michaelbabbs7585]

Yeah it's quite shocking when you get wise to them. But lucky us we are wise now. Narcs are EVIL

[@randy_cbc8811]

it may be the worst form of emotional abuse there is, IMHO

[@stardust608]

Me too

[@dentakleen5204]

Flying monkeys usually will not ask you about the lies told them by the narcissist. Instead, they assume it is true and start watching you to see how you react almost like they're watching a movie and have popcorn. Or they will start making fun of you and laugh whenever you walk by or whenever you are in the same room as them.

[@pei-hsuanli6017]

Always flying monkeys are under control by a narcissists she is an invulnerable , she is lack love,she couldn't gets love from the narcissists only following him to get some love!

[@izawaniek2568]

Integrity, authenticity, assertiveness, self-respect, boundaries, no contact or low contact should starve the flying monkeys and their ring master. Thank you for your help and support Darren.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

This was so prominent at a nursing unit I worked at.toxic at its core. This one narc came to work at our unit,it was amazing how fast dynamics changed.i recognized her right away ...she knew I could see tru her, she never mucked with me..

[@taraarrington2285]

I have to remind myself that it is not my problem that other people are fooled by the narcissist

[@aaroncaven2544]

It’s the evil leading the brain dead

[@narcissism-masterclass]

I sometimes call them "narcissists by proxy," Darren. In my experience, they have far more disappointing than the narcissist.

[@DarrenFMagee]

That is a really good description thank you for sharing

[@hananiyahdejudah5643]

Indeed

[@cherryblossom3043]

Indeed... I'm not angry with the narassist, I'm angry with with friends who turn out to be flying monkeys

[@giftedhands4207]

@@cherryblossom3043 exactly ....the main narc is already a REPROBATE and the ARE FULLY AWARE that they are being used to abuse you...THEY MADE THE CHOICE to agree with evil.

[@neilcampbell1763]

I think it's important to remember that flying monkeys, whilst they both agents and enablers of the Narc, are often just as empty and broken, nothing more than emotional toddlers. Knowing this can help you keep perspective, and to be above their childish (albeit hurtful) behaviours. They are jealous of your strength, that you have authenticity. They only go for you for what they don't have, they crave reaction. Deprive them of this.

[@Surveilancepredators]

Shut them down and live your best life full of fun, love, laughter and true friendship.

[@Surveilancepredators]

And make sure to give a wriitten victim impact statement to the judicial court clerk first, with the support of a witness who witnessed the trauma suffered by the victim and how it also affected the family.

[@qq84]

Just deal with them like you deal with any other criminal. - Yes, that mostly means, keep your distance and don't engage. If you make the mistake to talk with them, assume that everything gets recorded. - regardless if that's legal in your country.

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

Thank you

[@eyespy0070]

Thats true. I was a victim of an evil narcissist who destroyed my home a stole my property. Her flying monkey friend recorded the conversation when I told her what happened. Their excuse? I was a hoarder. Yes. Sick terrible evil people.

[@minuthakarkera6674]

U r right

[@Lonewolf_rider]

I only communicate with my ex spouse via text so it's all on record! My question, what's wrong with that? From my point of view I started communicating only via text because eye to eye contact ended constantly in denial as of in her terms,I did not say that and or I can't remember that! If no contact isn't possible and you have too communicate sometimes because there are little children involved, my advice...record everything,too safe yourself afterwards!

[@qq84]

@@Lonewolf_rider 1. If you want to record anything, check your local laws beforehand. 2. If you're recording, the other party will be allowed to do the same, so the other party can cut it together, take it out of context aso. That's why you should only communicate in text. Furthermore text communication (e.g. email) gives you a record of everything, so no "I already said that" or "I never said that".

[@kayhaich]

I found the best way to handle them all is to cut them all off...it can be that simple. You end up finding out this idea of "everyone thinks so-and-so about you" can only to a specific group of people colluding against you. Chances are you probably know you need to cut them all off to be free.

[@MattJimmy]

Then they might boast that you're just "running away from yourself" and "the truth." Then again, their only audience is full of toxic people like themselves and NO ONE needs these people like those

[@kamilla1960]

They can destroy your life using these misguided people. The sociopath depends on your socialization, on your sense of decent behaviour. If you don't want to talk to them (for example), the flying monkeys are employed to help make you look insane, bad, etc.

[@graveyardghost2603]

Silence is golden, and it works. Great videos! :)

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

It's powerful

[@graveyardghost2603]

@@franklinstephen3268 'Lo.

[@Tryagain563]

As a *really* desperate measure, tell them you can't see them as you are "self isolating!" Let them think it's because of covid! Reality is, you are self isolating from *them* ! 😷😄

[@graveyardghost2603]

@@Tryagain563 really great idea! 😍

[@michaelbabbs7585]

@@Tryagain563 why lie? spineless? You don't owe narcissist' any explanation

[@PostFamilyOfOrigin]

Eventually, you don't and you can't! Sometimes they're more hostile/ toxic than the narcissist In the long run. BECAUSE ALL BIRDS OF A FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER!!

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

Lastly, the narc wouldn't have power if flying monkeys didn't support them. It would be interesting if the flying monkeys naturally gravitated towards the narc's victims. Now, that would be refreshing. The naive flying monkeys should use discernment before taking sides with the narc to avoid abusing the target

[@LiamScanlan]

This guy's brilliant. Soothing, relaxed and concise manner.

[@SusanaXpeace2u]

I regret talking to my enmeshed brother so much. I thought he would mediate. But he just went back to my parents and told them i was mad/bad/angry. He never said "all she did was tell you that you hurt her." It's too late to respond. I reacted. I know what really happened but it's tòo late.

[@Legacy_125]

My side of the story does not matter. I’m not explaining myself to anyone. But it’s good to know, they are no longer welcome to sit at my table.

[@love196627]

My biggest hurdle in trying to find a therapist that can help me recover from being raised by a psychopath is finding someone who doesn't justify the inaction of all of the grown ups that I grew up around. Every therapist I've tried has tried to make me the peace maker with all of the family members who didn't act. As if, no one in my family knew how dangerous my mom was to me. I need to take the high road. I need to be the forgiver. I need to start healing the relationships. Somehow, all of the therapists I've encountered thought my initiating the fixing of the problem with my mom's flying monkeys was the key to my recovery. This video in general gives me some peace, some brain calm about all of that. But there was one statement that stood out. When I was a kid I might have wondered how they didn't see what was going on but as an adult, I recognized comments from all of them that revealed they did know and just chose not to help me. The statement 'Chances are they knew as well' was such a breath of fresh air. It literally felt like a cool fall breeze had blown through my summer heated mind. I've been at the point of allowing those relationships not to burden me for a few years. It's not been easy. Having a knowledgeable grown up reinforcing my current process is a great respite. Thank you.

[@SST4SSG]

4:34 - "Recognize when you're being provoked. Chances are you might be accused of having nothing to say, being hardly or whatever..so THEREFORE they must be right. you're being distant or whatever. You're ignoring them. blanking, or ghosting them. REMEMBER, YOU'RE ALREADY BEING ACCUSED OF WORSE! So be consistent!! Be assertive, not aggressive." Agreed! This is where you can grey-rock or challange their BS without becoming a "PET ROCK." *Kevin of The Royal We channel came up with this concept on a 'Grey Rock Is Stupid (How To Grey Rock)' video--and I think that video and this one of the best ones I've ever seen about the grey-rock concept (and I watched hundreds of hours of these videos as I went no contact one by one with my family of origin of the last few years). When to grey rock or not the grey-rock depends on the situation, for me. PS--I think it's really good that Darren talking about in this presentation how you do have to be assertive without being overly aggressive because some videos almost recommend laying down and giving no reaction being the end all/be all and I don't always agree with that.

[@aspasiaholley]

Flying monkeys are lying monkeys 🙊 😂 love this! Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤

[@elverdad6805]

Yes, thank you, this video was very helpful! One thing I've found with the coworkers (who are nobody's boss) that are constantly trying to control with questions like "...Did you do this...did you do that?", while you're busy trying to do your actual job; is to respond with a question, like you said. "Why do you ask?". Inevitably they respond with "Because I want to know!". At which point I just look at them and say "Interesting...". This seems to make them back off.

[@deirdreday8731]

Absolutely .I have done this. I have held my dignity and integrity. However I will tell my story the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I suffered so much oppression that I have to share it. I have to warn others about these Narc tendencies and have them awaken to the trauma they are suffering. There are already flying monkeys in the world gossiping and back biting. I don't honestly care what is said or concocted in my name. I find decent people will make up there own minds. It's all the subter fuge and deceit and Plausability that the flying monkeys manifest that is produced and directed and scene set by the Narc they actually are in the web and in the Narcs spell and I will always be open and honest about the most dreadful experience of my life.

[@deirdreday8731]

Watch for the button pushing. I just recently attended my son's big birthday party. I sat back watched the Narc and he wandered through the crowd like a stray dog pushing himself on others especially women. I sat with family at the table. I watched he was pathetic a lost soul. Then my son's school friends made their way to my table hugged and showed how pleased they were to see me. The girls all too as they remembered the days when they came to our home and were wined and dined and treated well by me. They were always made welcome. I was overwhelmed with these now older adults showing so much love and respect. I did Not have to walk about the room currying favour with my son's friends. They came naturally to me and were happy chatting about now and past days. At one stage I caught site of the Narc. He was Glaring over at me with the most envious look in his eyes arms folded over his chest (in I'll protect myself mode). He was sitting alone, those at the table were circulating and he looked the sad foolish man he was. It did wonders for me. I felt my worth first time in a long time. He didn't make me feel uncomfortable or threatened in anyway in his company. Inside I knew I had reached another landmark in my healing. On the way to the exit door at the end of the night I was quietly ignoring him as I walked passed his table. When I heard him call my name. I could have just walked on. However I turned round he said "Cheerio" and I held my dignity and held my head high said Goodbye and walked as light as a feather feeling a FREE WOMAN and at peace. The couple of drinks may have helped though!!

[@harmonyvaneaton4101]

Same. No one has to care or believe me but I WILL share my experience and what happened to me at the hands of this group of people.

[@Tryagain563]

Thanks Darren, this is great! Yes, keeping ones integrity. Don't feed them. So much wisdom in everything shared here.

[@427yenko67]

All these videos on narcissism are my stepson to a tee. I told my wife we will never live in the same town as he does, thankfully he lives in New York and we are in the Midwest. But if he ever moves here. I'm moving . I can't imagine being in our 80's and having him around...

[@christinerobertson9596]

I have a malignant narcissistic mother and a covert mother in law. Both matriarchs. I left my mother ( no more abuse for me) and she finally stopped interfering with my kids and husband. Now my MIL is still working on me. She wants to be in my business all the time. It's tiring to undo this generational pattern. I know in my case, it stems from Victorian England. All family members are put in competition with each other to see who is the best and gives the most to Mum.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

No wonder Harry divested

[@alfredotebasco]

If I can I just cut them out completely, go no contact like I do the narcissist, they're not worth the hassle, if they're willing to be ignorant or cruel they are not worthy of being in my life.

[@flowermeerkat6827]

I love the quote: "Flying monkeys are lying monkeys". Thanks for the video.

[@joydavis1670]

I encourage you to remind us often to remember why we have left, or why we need to leave. I feel this is so much of the foundation that we can easily forget. Thank you for all you do.

[@nicole_c2389]

Love the examples of questions and the suggestion to do ask questions as a management strategy!

[@dodgerstone]

1- Ego-Monsters Suck. 2- Flying Monkeys Are Suck-Ups. 3- Victims Have to Change Their Own Behaviors So Their Lives Won't Suck. Got it. Thanks, Doc. ✌️

[@sherrybonnett4827]

Maybe victims want to move beyond victimhood, and transition into self empowerment.

[@iclickedbecauseiamtiredofs4630]

@@sherrybonnett4827 and HOW do you propose that with NO support🙄🤦‍♀️??

[@sherrybonnett4827]

@@iclickedbecauseiamtiredofs4630 there are all sorts of avenues of support out there, and it is possible for a person to learn to do their own inner support, through mindfulness, meditation, journaling, getting out into nature, diet, etc. I wish everyone wellness on this healing journey!♥️

[@deborahkilleen4841]

Thank you Darren for explaining it so eloquently and clear to us. I have starved the narcissists neighbour of supply, she has since moved overseas and has left a trail of crap behind, ie flying monkeys in my block.None of them speak to me anymore that I don't care as they aren't my cup of tea its what they are doing banging talking outside my balcony leaving dog faeces and it goes on!!! I try and be up beat but sometimes it's just so hard to keep up beat all the time. The trouble is what's coming next. The women narcissists has been knorring away at me for 4 long years!! How they are allowed to share this planet with us humans baffles me greatly!!

[@exlesoes]

I think it baffles me also. I may know the use however likely I do not as I still see them as human with their own inner workings. I still do

[@justChrisjones]

I wish i had understood this long ago. It would have saved my ear drums and nervous system. You present this very clearly.

[@jean2927]

I found you channel today, thank you for the information on how to deal with Flying Monkeys & The Narc. These people are hell and I have been dealing with them for years. It’s amazing how they always win people over by their disgusting lies. I have lost a few family members which has caused a great deal of pain for me, however I do realise now these particular members are lost in the Narcs web of lies so I have had to maintain a strict boundary. I have struggled how to treat these people & there is so much I want to say to them, but I know how I would look to them & others. Your advice sounds the most sensible of ‘ Keep one’s dignity’ so I will follow your advice & thank you very much for your wise words. 🙂

[@intpleb4206]

5:57 This is the most important thing. You can't have a rational conversation with some people completely loyal to narcissitic people. You have to realize you can't make them enforce boundaries or assert themselves for their own protection. You can't do it for them, either. They have to stand/leave and do it on their own.

[@nabeelahs9588]

Can you make a video about how to deal with the pain of having a narcissistic mother, how to get past it

[@DarrenFMagee]

Thank you for your suggestion

[@lughlamhfada2523]

You might check out the channels of Dr. Les Carter, The Crappy Childhood Fairy, and Michele at From Surviving to Thriving. (If you aren't aware of them already) Wish you well.

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

You have nailed it Darren. Spot on! Thank you 🙏

[@arthurh5707]

So odd, I wish I had know this 20 years ago when my narcissistic wife had suffered narcissist collapse and was in the psych hospital. She trained the nurses, the drs, her attorney, relatives, school principals, neighbors, and even recruited the Child Protective Service to believe that I was an abusive monster. I feel like I was alone against an army. I was lucky in the end because all her claims were baseless and the children and I were freed of her toxic abuse. I wish that some healthcare professional had recognized her for what she was and my family didn’t have to go through that enormous strain.

[@notaclue822]

I think the narc needs the flying monkeys and will try different people looking for the ones who will jump in. It's partly because the narc exerts so much energy creating the scenario that it's just easier to go along. Also, they get a nice bonding experience, united by having a shared objective. They don't care about the narc really and all these alliances will prove to be fickle. I hope exiting the scene takes all the fun out of it for them. Those are not people I want anything more to do with at all.

[@eyespy0070]

Evil woman who wanted to destroy me stole my clothes shoes jewelry and career work too. Her skin went translucent and I saw the demon there. I was warned 3x in my mind in white letters CON, CON, CON. These people are so dangerous.

[@jeanlittle405]

I recently found your channel....subscribed on the spot. You have helped me tremendously. God bless you!

[@annmcnamee5616]

Brilliantly explained

[@initiation3580]

This is very helpful, thank you!! Very clear so that a lay person, can comprehend and identify.

[@VG61]

Beautifully talked about in a very calm and concise manner... Thank you. 👍👍👏👏🙌🙌

[@jacquelinefroehle5868]

Great advice....Ask them a question back....give them nothing....

[@catastrophictabitha9351]

Another great video as a substitution for therapy. Thank you

[@mickmaphari6606]

The trouble is narcissists often have unwitting stooges through whom they operate to control the wider circle. These unwitting acolytes are often 'paid' with praises, threatened and cajoled in equal measure - then unceremoniously dropped once they no longer fulfil their purpose. The narcissist may even attend their funeral and make out what great and valuable friends they have been - then move on to other targets ...

[@qq84]

These "unwitting" stooges know exactly what they're doing. And they don't only get payed with praises but also with things that have a money value, like goods and (mainly) services.

[@trauma2happiness]

Sometimes flying monkeys are just people who are more tolerant and have lower boundaries. They may be in your social group and the narcissist's social group. They may try to get you back into the other group because they really can't see how bad the narcissist is.

[@RelaxRefreshRenew13]

I want to thank you so much for your insight, this has helped me tremendously beyond words. Will be putting this into effect right now.

[@nicholecornes1915]

Trust me we will NEVER forget why we left

[@gardenrose264]

Perfect advice. Thank you...

[@albatjay6841]

Thank you so so much. GOD bless you .

[@petergreen96669]

I thought Agents of Narcissist was a great name for a band but it doesn't roll of my tongue.

[@xiaochen7340]

Narcissists hate you no matter what, nothing you do will change it. So why bother, just ignore them.

[@targetedtyranny4661]

Another huge thing that's being done to me is accusations, something I'm supposed to do to stop the harassment, yet it's secret,only the community, buisnesses around know all these things, I'm a bad person, but everything is so secret no resolution, except to confess my whole life of course,it's just an excuse to keep control,people would not believe what's been done,it's just highly unlikely, which is how they get away with it,coercive control is what it is,using my support system, family,and work mobbing anytime I get a job,and people lots of people support this because the smear campaign, but they won't confront!Why does this make sense to people? It's very clear to me .

[@hope5443]

Your info is great. Thank you 😊💓

[@Marchondrez]

Been binge watching you videos. Really good stuff. Grew up with a sibling who I realise fits all the descriptions of a narcissist. Is there a way they can be healed if they goto confession since they never admit to anything they do wrong? Always playing innocent, justifying their behaviour and playing the victim and tearing ppl down in the process. Can you also do a video on the Gospel for today on Judas? Today it's from John 12:1-11 From a psychology point of view how would you classify Judas? I like that saying from Star Trek you dropped in the video on the altruistic narcissist: Bandits who twirl their hair are easy to spot but villains who clothe themselves in good deeds are well camouflaged. Traitors wait for the right season to flourish, to sow death in the name of virtue.

[@brigidmccarthy5800]

I have three siblings that acted that way

[@bardwessel4663]

Great advices. To get to where one is prepared to keep constituted will usually be of greate use. How ever, many need help against dealing with situations where accusations of appearing too passively, or of being passive due to low empathy, is used to harm them by gradually tearing them down. One will under a long range of conditions not have the liberty to break out of such conditions where institutions appointed by government are involved. At least not without risking bad, or even the worst possible consequenses. This costs vast amounts of suffering within the societies it occures, as truth could be that when dealing with people on matters involving professional possitions and ranks this could even be involving what is practically determinational rights. Then claims may at worst even be seeming to be appearing as a result of an individual keeping well constituted psychologically, which as it appears from my angle may be all that someone needs to create an in fact unavoidable hell. Building oneself into a character enabled with defence against evil mindsets of narcissistic kinds is always a must, not the least on the path to be of good use as an indipendant and free person of a human being. In a reality containing possible or even probable misuse of coercive measures, though, it seems that due to the count of involved losses of just personal constitution, and no doubt also of suicides, developing advices for survival above the obviously missed wreck, or even above the not that impossible corps, where measures would be the very hardest to accept as true parts of reality, will actually at some point become a must on behalf of not that few. I might actually add "what ever one might think," but then again, as some few to my knowledge have said, "what would be the point," which indeed is a part of the equation the way I've got it in my mind. Advices of the kind sought to by Darren Magee are nevertheless of good use to everyone having to deal with simular measures to those he uses as examples, and I'd hate to be interpreted as in any way underestimating their value. Even while some would still miss advices where also physical means are involved, in particular where threats of such measures are used, bearing in mind that there may be no such thing at all as simply calling the police, or a lawyer, or anyone else, the kind of mindset adviced to by Magee will take a person longer then what otherwise might be the case, as having worked with preparation and with self confirmation while not being under forced influence tends more often then not to leave a way back, somehow, allthough there are examples of even this constituating only a partial truth. We only have the tools that we have, and those defending a tough reality are not few. Cruelty might still be a thing often seen as more or less commonly hated. Alas, even cruelty is by some loved as a part of plain schadenfreude, or otherwise involved with envy, or with a so low level of empathic abileties that profit makes it an option, and combinations are in no way what this conserns prohibited what reality concerns, what ever the law might otherwise suggest. We're often speaking of a sort of adhesion where matters involving hidden cruelty are likely to create tragedies, in particular where people considered to be of lower ranks are facing it, but there are also cases where people are thought to be "more durable in relation to serious measures", the way I happen to remember it expressed. "Lower ranks" by the way if I may, is by no measures to be read as "of lower value", even if one may not always imply "quite the opposite". It's been said to me by indeed experienced people what such measures involves that the last anyone should do is to presume misunderstandings not possibly to be part of many, if not most, among conflicts, but said on behalf of the involvements relevant here, presumed to involve at least narcissistic mindsets, if not even what is or borders to sisiopathy, my own hopes for that claim is practically shreaded, being myself somewhat shreaded or not.

[@phoenixrising4768]

This was very helpful. 🙏🏻

[@jamesgicas3557]

Good analysis and suggestions Thank you

[@PersianDollTarot]

GREAT CONTENT! please consider getting a mic I would love to listen while I do things around the home, I have 2 dogs that make noise lol

[@jimfloyd3292]

It’s high school bullshit for a lifetime

[@Julie-e1m]

Raised with a narc mother and believed her version of events- wow i have been an FM and i have apologized for it- not all FMs know

[@nicholecornes1915]

Its a honor to be disliked by evil!

[@megalightsfan4948]

I found that questioning the flying monkeys accusations from the Narcissist helps, they immediately start thinking and question the accusations especially if it was someone you were once close to, like for example if they say I think you were being like this towards the children, say do you really think I would act like that or do you really think that about me... Question why do they believe the accusations and that helps put back logic into the Narcissists crazy lies

[@govindagovindaji4662]

"...flying monkeys are lying monkeys..."

[@papi9114]

Thankyou. I can attest to this being the best way to stay sane in the face of the craziness. It helps to hear you say it to succinctly :)

[@jamiestumps6146]

Thank you Sir, So very helpful, God bless you!

[@jenniferrayburn1011]

Great video!

[@Heal..Restore..Moveforward]

That's right...the narc 👿🤥 and flying monkey 🐵set up to blame, they set up to accuse, they set up to make me a problem, they set up to fleece, they set up to set the scene to neighbours, they set up to use me as a cover, they set up to use me as a scapegoat. Wow!! 😝🤔🥴😵‍💫☹️😢😭 Thank you for sharing and educating.

[@Elvis20101]

Thank you

[@shubhamk2828]

I did exactly everything mentioned in this video. Wish it was uploaded much earlier

[@tajassasnaar2816]

Yes absolutely, they're the Malignan 👍😊

[@delarusfrap6595]

Can you make a video about restoring one's reputation on the internet? I want to remove some of the work I have done with my previous boss but dont know how to go about it. I wish I did not asociate with this person to begin with Thank you!

[@Kuruflower]

Good video, brilliant!

[@ginariordan2200]

Flying monkey=a handy stooge.

[@robhulse3655]

Definitely got attacked by a flying monkey a few weeks ago. Wish I saw this video before I engaged them

[@lipikabaral599]

I'm enjoying ur video bcs l am going through this phase.

[@Whereisyourheartnow]

I encountered a situation in which the flying monkeys had their own flying monkeys .

[@Fuzcapp]

The enablers! Oh! The enablers!!!!

[@frainer]

If you starve the ring master they will then shut down the circus.

[@DaughterofZyion]

Yes I watched someone being groomed ..and I hope they wake up to it

[@katejack1600]

My son has turned into a naive flying monkey. So sad to see

[@lorileclaire281]

So helpful!!!!!! Ty!

[@cct2513]

He's right on

[@freeandfabulous4310]

Excellent information!!

[@Surveilancepredators]

If there are criminal violations involved go to the police and give a victim impact statement.

[@etaokha4164]

Any friends of the narc is no friends of mine

[@petervandolah5322]

Good stuff ...

[@sallyb4871]

BEST. VIDEO. EVER. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@moirapretorius9775]

Thank you very help full 🙏

[@shimac1]

Excellent!

[@anyname777]

Is it possible that the nature of the mental illness precludes one with such from understanding that they are a toxic abusive person, while simultaneously believing they are doing you a service with such conduct?

[@AnonAnon1]

Excellent video

[@angelabrainky7786]

Thank you.

[@MaryLove-d5w]

I’ve dealt with a flying monkey, had no idea they had a name! My ex had his best friend lie for him and it hurt so bad because I thought he was a good guy. They used it in court against me and made me out to be the aggressor only because I wanted to tell him what he was like. Then he said he was scared of me. I never shouted or sweared only told him. I get it maybe he’s standing by his best friend but lying in a court document that really threw me. He wrote an affidavit. And I knew it wouldn’t look good for me because I had no witnesses to stand up for me, wish I seen this before I said anything.

[@alimccreery755]

I’m using grey rock and stonewall in order to survive.

[@patriciastaimee]

Thank you so very much will give the silent treatment..I'll try that..let her feel like a bug on the wall..

[@KoolT]

They gas light

[@alimccreery755]

I noticed that smug behavior when I suspected that the guy I was romantically involved with was taking over for the main narcissist in my life. My gut kept telling me something was off when the other narcissist seemed to know what was happening, his reaction was a dead giveaway regardless if the other guy claimed he didn’t know the other guy. A flying monkey doesn’t have to personally know the main abuser they can get their orders from someone else who does know. Everything I’ve learned about the narcissist doesn’t surprise me about what they are capable of doing to their target. Evil is evil no matter what. The narcissist will even use there employer’s attorney service and other organizations in order to subject the target to abuse because in their twisted brain the target deserves it 🤪

[@Anon-pc7vt]

Great