AITA because I (38F) don't want to take my stepson (9) on vacation? (1 year later New Update)

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Story: AITA because I (38F) don't want to take my stepson (9) on vacation? (1 year later New Update)
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[@cozmiknik8699]

"Ahhhhhh" 💀

[@trevsdead]

Crazy how you wanna have your husband be on a family trip with his step kid but not vice versa like what kinda logic is that glad it got figured out but if I was the husband then that’d be the first thing I’d bring up

[@LolsIssajoke]

aww I am happy that this had a good ending, that she became a better person and that the family has gotten better .

[@julietaestamo8880]

How Would OP feel if husband felt the same way about HER son, and excluded him for not being his kid?

[@JackieSkellington]

Exactly

[@treco2583]

1st story: Thank goodness the commenters ripped OP a new one!!! I’m so glad that family got professional help! What a good ending/beginning. ❤

[@lindah3803]

After the story began and OP said that she wanted "just her family", I laughed and thought: Let the fire rain on OP.

[@sugarbeef]

Sounds like the stepdad trauma was pulled out of her rear after getting ripped apart in the comments.

[@ladygiseler2187]

I'm sorry but I can't stop laughing with the "Ahhhhh..." 🤣😭

[@kalezuki9231]

Same! It always makes me giggle. Why does the ai voice or who ever / what ever keep doing it that way? 😂

[@nyneeveanya8861]

If lady stops to think about it if she just wants their children on the vacation so stepson should stay behind then how would she feel if her husband said the same thing about her 10 year old. After all that’s his stepchild and according to her stepchildren are not part of their family.

[@MH_Prof]

If you are married to stepson’s father, he is your family. If he lives with you and suddenly you want to go on vacation and leave him behind, that would be awful for him. It took therapy for you to figure that out?

[@mikeconnors9287]

Unresolved trauma has a way of warping the way you think and view the world in ways other people can't understand. She was a complete AH but she got the therapy she needed and took the steps to become a better person.

[@catherinetiernan5888]

Why would you want to leave a child with a person that isn't given him any time or attention. You are the AH

[@LolsIssajoke]

for the 2nd story the parents are so entitled wtf? I feel so bad for the youngest child omg

[@smsff7]

The elder child is the golden child.

[@sobeitone3336]

Yeah, op is a better person than me. I would have declined the invite. But I would have given a gift for the younger kid that my child is friends with and waited for the aftermath. The audacity to even write this request in the parent’s chat. Nope

[@ItzAprilLOL]

First story, yes you are the TA. I have a similar situation and I could never think of doing something like that to them. I love them like my own, treat them like they are my own.

[@smsff7]

This is a happy ending. I am glad OP is working on herself and her relationships. Faith in humanity has been restored a bit.

[@Esther-lm6pm]

Stepson... Dad needs to divorce this eviil stepmother sm is 💯 YTA

[@songarakram]

AAAHHHHHHHH

[@Waluigi7891]

I remember story 1 when it originally posted. Clearly she was the AH. Props to her for admitting her flaws and actually improving herself. Most people these days would just double down and refuse to admit fault.

[@abubarrie88]

So the child she said she never mistreated or hated could tell how she felt about him and she thought was being kind to him all this time gimme a break. Also she didn’t need to make this a family therapy situation she needed therapy and to work on herself first before bringing stepson who’s ten to tell him the reasons why she didn’t like him not what a 10 should ever have to hear let alone have validated by her.

[@JackieSkellington]

Take him on the trip, but op " doing more since mom sucks to compensate" is ridiculous

[@user-fw7fj3df5r]

Omfg this is why you never marry or start a relationship with anyone with a living divorce partner and child.

[@Avocadoaficionados]

This does not describe everyone's situation.

[@nekoneko8164]

First story You stepped in the life of a single father's surly. you're not that stupid ? You don't want to be a mom , then get divorce . you stepped to be a wife and a mother, dont be coward now . If you want your own family, then you should have married a single man . YTA The husband is spinless , just because you're desperate to keep your new wife you shouldn't ignore your son, he is your first priority you should put him first over your new wife and if you can't you shouldn't be a father . Big red flag YTA

[@ketienne1021]

OP would be crying "why you dont see my kids as yours" if reversed She is only made changes after being called unanimously TAH.

[@Joey15811]

YTA. His mum doesn’t want to he in her sons life so you should step up. You all go or not of you go. End off. He’s 9 and IS your family.

[@AZUREKINY]

Ur wrong

[@Joey15811]

@@AZUREKINY no. He’s a kid who also has an absent parent and dad has sole custody. So OP cannot expect for her husband to abandon his son because he isn’t hers and leave him out of a family holiday when for all purposes he is family whether she likes it or not. If she wants to go on her own. Husband should divorce her for even suggesting such a thing.

[@Joey15811]

@@AZUREKINY and everyone else is saying the same thing. It’s sad you had to like your own comment.

[@gigaball734]

Iantredingalat 0:51 ​@@Joey15811

[@duckgirI]

ahhhhh

[@JosephEllis-ep7sg]

This woman is disgusting. Husband should divorce her for the sake of his son

[@diamondandcristal7661]

OP is literally the evil stepmother.

[@carrot1977]

Lemme ask this- is your 10 year old son going with? And is your husband going? It isn't fair if your husband's stepson can go if your stepson can't. Once you married the dad, he became your family, just like your husband did. Also, narration programmer- its not 'a$$ step' it's 'step'

[@olililiomart3472]

YTA

[@suan333]

So your husband's stepson (your son from the previous marriage) is family but his son is not? Yeah. A huge AH. Hope husband leaves you.

[@GrayzGaming1-1v1]

First

[@drippingwithdopeness]

NTA. Not your kid. It’s cool to have a good relationship with him but they are allowed to do something without him. She said they have done vacations together before. He isn’t her freaking kid it’s not her fault his mother is a bad parent. That is her STEP child her HUSBAND’s child. Her obligation is very limited. NTA.

[@trevsdead]

Crazy how you wanna have your husband be on a family trip with his step kid but not vice versa like what kinda logic is that glad it got figured out but if I was the husband then that’d be the first thing I’d bring up