AITAH For telling my wife she's free to find a hotel room if she doesn't want my daughter here?

[@nyneeveanya8861]

I think wife was expecting you to slowly start having little to do with your daughter and that her son would become your priority and Anna would just disappear. Glad you stood your ground and your wife now knows that BOTH your children are your priority. I hope your family has many good years together in the future.

[@cototototorra7106]

my guess is that she just thought the situation would never come up because, you know, a teenage girl would feel more comfy living with her mother, so she really didnt see it coming when op said that her daughter is coming back so abruptaly

[@YourMomfailedu]

It would suck to just be living your life and raising your son together and them boom out of nowhere a new person that you don't know is moving in and changing everything. It would be equivalent to having a Stanger guest move in.

[@smsff7]

I am really happy that they worked it out. The wife and step-daughter getting alone is a nice thing.

[@katrenacanaday4992]

I'm annoyed by all the commenters. Such negativity, and so dramatic. Its compromise, not "my way or high way" in marriage. Those saying such things are judging where it is not their place to judge. Worse, still, is the insistence to leave her. Just because they cant work out their sh**...yes, she had veritable concerns, but I absolutely applaud the father for prioritizing his kids and not bending to her ego

[@cototototorra7106]

a lot of people believe relationships sould always benefit the person they like the most and should be always perfect, they should be like two jigsaw pieces together or just nothing at all, for a relationship with another human being to work you need to make a choices that might put you on uncomfortable places where either you or your partner are getting more

[@Manyshapes]

Lol. She knew you had a child. Good for you for sticking up for your kid. Ask her what if it was her toddler in that situation and another women said he couldn’t stay with you.

[@lindalmiller429]

Thanks for putting your daughter first

[@tamara.64]

The moment OP wife said she didn’t want to be a step mother OP should’ve seriously thought about relationship…

[@bettianngold6407]

Kids come before spouses

[@diggymodesti6139]

And this mentality is what makes kids from outside a marriage feel awful or not wanted and why kids get resentful of parents, it shouldn't be like that, you choose your spouse and you choose to have children, they didn't ask to be born, so they should be priority over SO

[@bettianngold6407]

The reason why they should be your priority is because you helped make the child you don't raise your spouse. That's why when you choose your spouse and you already have a child you tell them on the first date and make it clear your child comes before them and you prove it to your children

[@valiantgold442]

sooo..... his wife found his account or wthelll is going on

[@nunyabiz3557]

Marriages come first… kids get screwed when marriages fail… or haven’t you noticed

[@bettianngold6407]

@@diggymodesti6139 your children may not have asked me born but most men can't walk away while a woman has an abortion. Your kids don't choose to be born you choose to be with your spouse therefore your children should come first and not feel unwanted if your spouse makes them feel unwanted walk away from that spouse

[@valiantgold442]

sooo his wife found his account or wthelll is going on!!

[@toniirion5225]

There's something off with this story. To many things dont make sense. He back tracts a lot on things he says. I don't know there's just something off about the whole thing. Also, if he gets that hot and bothered that quickly and that intensely I'd stay clear of the guy. Ticking time bomb truly.

[@huangrenjundeservestheuniv7906]

You've just discovered that people can regret what they said and apologize

[@dreamwithouttears8293]

I hate the laught in these videos.

[@Joey15811]

Nta daighter comes first. Divorce her.

[@chopmoosey17]

YTA for having that one night stand without protection and bringing a child into this world and inevitability messing up the lives of you, your wife, Anna's mom, and her husband.

[@narliehs1648]

Bruh, what? Who said OP didn't use protection? No form of contraceptive is 100%. My daughter is living proof of that, for example. Used a condom _and_ I was on the pill despite having been told by several doctors that it was highly unlikely I'd ever have kids due to an extreme hormone issue. It happened anyway. My little girl is now ten, very healthy and happy.

[@ladyaphrodite379]

Nonsense. This has nothing to do with his wife and the new husband of his daughter's mother, because these people came on later in life. Wife knew he had a kid, and the new husband of the ex knew the woman had a kid.