Am I loosing my mind? Where was I lost for a month | Albeli Ritu

[@alifamilylifeinusa5615]

MashaAllah ❤❤❤I love your honesty 😊aap jo ho wase hi ho 😊front of camera 😊lots of love

[@seemavartak5182]

You are too honest,unlike other vloggers. Continue vlogging its quite good

[@AlbeliRitu]

I will try my best

[@shivangishah2452]

Don't do an interview it's way too boring

[@uditkoralli1772]

Exactly

[@shreyajain789]

I don't think so

[@priyankasharma-rs2oq]

First year after a baby in general is the toughest year for parents, taking care of a little human who is dependent on you for every littlest of things isn’t easy. Sleep deprivation, navigating parenthood, self doubts, missing personal time and loosing one self are the things which many of us go through. Ritu if you feel it is getting out of hand you can take help as postpartum differs for different mothers but hang in there, this too shall pass. Gradually you are going to do and achieve everything which you want to, you will think back and realise what a perfectly amazing phase it was even though now you might not feel the same, parenthood is especially harder on women for obvious reasons. Take your time, go out in the sun when you can it really helps( I know with the weather it will be difficult) be kind to yourself and your body it did a huge work. Talk about yourself very kindly the way you would to someone who is going through this phase. From one mother to the other who was on the same boat. You will do amazingly for yourself even though right now you don’t feel so. Take care, lots of love.

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thanks for being kind and writing this to me ❤ I really needed this 😊

[@Rashmik1]

Every word that she said is TRUE. Slow down a bit .It's fine. I am raising two boys here in the US and faced the same issues you are facing and dealt with self doubts as you at this stage too. So be kind to yourself. You are a smart girl and will be fine!

[@priyankasharma-rs2oq]

@@AlbeliRitu Don’t doubt yourself, and don’t stop vlogging, you have invested a great deal of time and effort in it, you have respectable amount of followers which many only aspire to have. Your audience likes your mix bag approach and your authenticity. When you are doubting yourself many who see you feel how are you managing all of it. I have said it earlier and I’m saying it again be kind to yourself give yourself some credit Ritu for managing all of it and in your words ( agar apko aacha lage😊) pass on the same kindness to other mom who will need it. Lots of love for you and Itu, take good care.

[@AC-jg2dg]

100% agree and I have 3 kids. A lot of things may not be done and that's ok! If you can get a maid service to come clean and maybe hire someone to do some catering food for a few months that will help free up a lot of time. Grocery delivery so you don't need to waste time going to and from store. If you need a nanny, feel free to hire one so you can rest.

[@usahamarinazarse]

Hey Ritu, you are sweet person in and out and the way you show things around is nice. Keep doing ..❤

[@shoorveer1243]

I am 23 years old guy and i watch only 3 family vlogs on yt. I dont have any dream to move america still i watch regularly every video. 1. Sangwan Family 2. Albeli Ritu 3. Our american dream Keep going ❤ You are doing great dont think about views although i observed after some time every youtube channel related to indian american content gets down. There is no single indian american youtuber who are constantly growing. Thats the reality.

[@prasannawarrier1947]

I love watching your vlogs as it is truly genuine,not fake.

[@nimap9292]

Your friendly and cute presentation style is refreshing... 😍

[@mandsmitagopal8778]

Ritu do daily vlogs with Itu! Would love to see you both living your simple life ❤

[@shreyanshjain229]

Dear Ritu.. Please show us your daily life and sometimes special places of where you're living ... Just don't take too much stress about what people are thinking about your content .. I am watching you since covid pandemic and still and always be fascinated by your vlogs .. Keep it up !!❤

[@kajalgoradia1121]

Yuppp

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thanks for being there ❤

[@govindckumar]

Di your smile is amazing❤..keep up the good work 💞

[@susheelchand6515]

Yes ritu we r with u take care your health ❤️

[@SmilingFloatingIceberg-ql1ll]

A day in my life is the best thing ever....continue it travel vlogs...

[@akankshasingh2866]

Keep doing this!! We are here to watch every video od yours🤩✨

[@SmilingFloatingIceberg-ql1ll]

Please continue your vlogs when they weren't coming I wasn't felling good but when it came it was the best felling ever..

[@sumanabanerjee2146]

Your interviews are definitely the highlight. I had subscribed for tour US content.

[@aditilagvankar9783]

Yes ! Long time ! Nice vlog ! U can make mixed vlogs - sometimes this , sometimes that !! But personally i love watching- how u spend a day - strtd watching ur vlog , due to a good flow , it wasn’t monotonous + ur sweet voice !

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thank you so much 😊

[@singhchanchal16]

Hi Ritu, hope you are well. This is my first time commenting on your video. I will admit that I do not watch all your vlogs because some times the content becomes repetitive. You mentioned about a set back in self care since becoming a mom. Most new moms go through this and accepting a life with a dependent takes time to adjust to. I can relate to the confusion that you are experiencing. It stems from not having mental breaks and a constant worry about your child. I will give you one advice (unpopular opinion) as a mom of two girls (4 and 1) - enroll your daughter in a daycare (either part time or 2-3 full days) to get the break you need and deserve. You will gain clarity that you need and reorient yourself every week to show up as your best self for your daughter and your husband. Your content will improve when you focus on your mental health. Hope this helps. All the best!

[@jagjeetkaur2938]

App ke vlogs sabi ache hote hai app ke daily life pe aur traveling vlogs ko main buhat enjoy karti ❤app vloging mat shodna

[@hematiwari8093]

You are our favourite blogger maza aata hai kam karo fal ki chinta mat karo uska fal milega hi❤

[@mamtaojha-i3m]

Ritu I love your vlogs … bahut time se wait kar rhi thi apke vedio..❤

[@rahatkhanna1471]

You are fabulous...Just believe it.

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thank you so much 😀

[@Anjel_Anjali09]

Hey Ritu, Love all your videos.. informative, fun , excited... As I moved back to India a few years back, so living those NY life again with your videos.😊 Waiting for your AMERICAN DREAM MALL Vlog with Itika where you guys will explore the rides, as Prashant said in your last video of that mall. Continue doing whatever you are doing... 😍

[@kinglot2785]

You should do 2 and 3 options both o would be good ❤😊

[@ayonchakraborty0624]

Itu's bye was extremely Cute!!!

[@muditguptavlogs]

More power to you. I'm sure you will figure out... Daily life and Vlogs can be sustainable

[@minitime2048]

Ur genuineness makes the vlogs intresting . I shud do more of daily vlogs .

[@lalithaviswanadha4765]

रितू बेटी तुम को देखकर ही मुझे बहुत ख़ुशी होती है तुम बहुत सही कर रही हो तुम खुश रहो और अपना ख़्याल रखो हम कहीं नहीं जा रहे हम तुम्हारे साथ हैं

[@govindckumar]

Daily vlog banou and share stories once in a week of real life people experiences - achievements, downfall, love life etc everyone from common people

[@pialibanerjee5250]

Missed u Ritu. Make more lifestyle vlogs

[@karunasrivastava1449]

Love your new hair. You look beautiful with open hair . We love to see your daily vlogs ❤

[@payaloberoi6105]

Ritu u r very genuine nd honest person dusre utubers kbhi bhi yeh bat nahi mante h ki thy making content faltu dikhava karte h bt tm bhut straightforward ho jo hota h wohi bolti ho bas hamesha aise hi rehna we all love u nd ur vlogs ❤❤❤❤❤

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thanks for watching ❤😊

[@sachinrongta4471]

Best of luck dear

[@OrianaMachado-mg5pq]

You are a gem Ritu ❤️ such an honest person

[@umeshprusti8581]

Love to see a happy family like you. Please continue blog if feasible

[@hezdimple4650]

Hi Ritu I m from India I never been to US But I love your vlogs It's ok to b wt you r feeling now currently There must b something big in next year all the best

[@UniqueWanderlust]

Your blogs always look genuine. I think you can go mix type blogging. Mostly what’s happening all around.❤

[@bhumipatel1377]

Do anything as your’s convince, you deserve peace! 🤗

[@SmithDas66229]

Obviously vlogs, interviews and travel videos are good. But vlogs are next level Please make more and more vlogsss ❤❤ ritu antie you're are best vloggerrr🎉

[@mansijaiswal7620]

Hey 👋I watch all your videos….and infact find them interesting too….i think this is just a phase of motherhood that makes us mothers feel that we are nowhere…just husband kids and ghar yahi apni monotonous life ho jati hai ….talking a break and doing whatever you feel like is just the punch that takes us back to the zeal we need…..keep going girl you are doing good❤

[@MaheshBadia]

I would say make all type of content you will know gradually what you like & whats working for you May helps

[@saumyamaurya11]

Ritu...i have been watching your vlogs for two years now and the thing which makes me excited about your vlogs are TRAVEL VLOGS....like discovering new places and culture...so i suggest or take it as a request to make travel vlogs MORE!!!!!....the last time you went to Iceland was sooooo goooddd....hoping to see more travel vlogs like that!!!!! LOTS OF LOVEE TO YOU!!

[@AlbeliRitu]

I will try and cover multiple places ❤❤

[@pooarchie]

Don’t worry I like your vlogs always

[@ishitabanerjee4903]

Your daily blogs with Itika and Prashant are sweet and enjoyable.

[@OrianaMachado-mg5pq]

I love your daily vlogs and exploring places ❤️

[@sunkyrathore]

Ritu di! youtube is for you, I can say that with full confidence. Uhmm your vlogs are really good and informative as well! You can continue doing that and the interviews you do that could be done as a podcast! You can explore this way by getting out some interesting facts from people by doing podcast thats what is trendoing right now! You can even post the clips on instagram so that your podcast reaches more people! I know its new for you but I believe you can figure it out! Podcast can be with anybody - family friends some other people who can give good insights about USA or about motherhood and stuffs like that! Also you have good number of followers and I think you can also join a agency or have a PR team who can help you out with the content and you will not feel that bothersome of what to do next because they plan everything for you. So yeah you can make podcasts, vlogs, challenge videos, It's normal to get lost so chillax and get back stronger! Lots of love!

[@sunkyrathore]

Routine vlogs would do wonders also clips on reels!

[@AlbeliRitu]

@@sunkyrathorethanks for tips ❤ I will try and do this

[@Bsk52]

Missed you Ritu, continue making daily vlogs, simple down to earth content.

[@MohitKumar-qd8dc]

Like all your vlogs, US me otherwise lonely ho jata h, your weekend life vlogs helps in keeping up the motivation on how to live here..

[@_Nothing524]

👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@ThechronicleofPri]

Good to see you back

[@OrianaMachado-mg5pq]

As a first time mum myself your daily vlogs with itika were so motivating and I could relate with you so well . that is when I started subscribing you and started enjoying the daily vlogs

[@heenapurohit9536]

Dear आपको जो पंसद हो वही करो, जो करने से आपको खुशी मिले, मजा आ जाए वो करो 🎉 ❤ Take care My Dear 💐 lot's of love अपनी मस्ती में मस्त रहो 🎉🎉 Zindagi को जमकर महेसुस करो और और मजे करो 🎉🎉❤❤ Take Care ....

[@PoonamVerma-os9ge]

Tc❤❤

[@rupalshah5252]

just follow your heart .be natural .you will feel good for you .

[@sonamubrani3413]

I had subscribed to your channel as even I was coming to the US. Now that I am in US I want u to make vlogs on topics such as on what visa you came, the difficulties u faced, how u overcame the challenges, travel kaise karte h yaha in local transport, basically to help out people who will face or are facing same situations as u go through. This way they can connect to u again

[@spreadinghappiness]

Ritu you are awesome KZbin mom, wife and everything in between. Don’t take so much load.. whatever you can post you post.. we love you and watch you for your genuineness and I am always aww of you for you being able to manage all of this alone.. so chill we love you and will watch all your content.. I love vlogs the most ❤.. whatever you can do and post is best dear.. loads of love to you and family

[@somamaiti5744]

Hi Ritu...one suggestion from my side ...jab vlogs bana rahe ho...camera ko itna mat hilao...bohot shaky views aate hain ..pls take care of this

[@ramonam4155]

love your vlogsssss + document your self work journey if you feel comfy

[@njnmerchant]

Watch this vlogger quite similar to you & how her views have jumped tremendously....@indian mom from UK to dubai....actually she has also jumped continents like you...India to UAE to London to Canada back to dubai....& how she has made her vlogs very interesting by her utter honesty n simplicity...Maybe it will help you too...

[@jyotiagrawal7048]

I like to watch u talk..so keep vlogging

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@Sadhuji171]

Daily vlogs is best i love your vlogs

[@hematiwari8093]

First of all yr looking stunning

[@dillisehain-k4h]

You have changed your look🎉

[@krutishah1494]

Taking care of your well-being isn't selfish-it's essential. When you recharge, even if it’s just a few stolen moments, you’re better able to give your best to your baby and yourself. You're doing a fantastic job, and it's okay to take things one day at a time.

[@nehachawla7913]

Apke vlogs bade acche lagte hai , sach me. I wait for your vlogs.. Apke channel me mujhe sab kuch dekhne me acche lagta hai.. because apki vibes hai yaar, vo hi hai sab kuch.. Apke vlogs dekh dekh ke main USA chali gayi, I have tourist visa. Whenever I settle in usa I would really love to meet you in person. Sometimes time ki baat bhi hoti hain , ho sakta hai time ka scene ho.. Aap pyare ho, natural ho, even my mother sees your vlogs.. it's difficult to vlog with a toddler and you are still able to do it❤.. thanks a lot for showing us your love at your busy hours. Love and Blessings from Delhi Neha Chawla

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thanks for writing this ❤❤ Much love to you 😊

[@monikamanchanda3327]

Like the fact that you’re genuine and show the reality of life. It is not easy to survive in North America with a toddler with no help. Just be yourself. Just a suggestion, try making videos on current events sometimes or about historical events that people would like to know about. You can alternate these videos with the regular videos that you post. 🙏🏼

[@dossshipra]

Just be yourself Ritu , number two would be good, don’t stress yourself, you are sweet as you are ❤ stay blessed dear ❤️😊

[@nalleshwarr]

yours hairss look so gooddddd>>>>>🤩😍😍😍😍

[@shoorveer1243]

I think major work of youtube vlogs is editing. You should hire any indian editor who already have some experience of vlog editing so it will save your time. Many successful vloggers hire editors so they can focus on their life and content only.

[@binuarora5092]

Its good to take a break sometimes,no issue with that.Eveeybody needs to chill at times nd u already hv a lot on ur hand.wud love to watch informative videos about the city,country,people,interviews with immigrants,their lives etc.

[@kamalbaxani1818]

Ritu you are too cute and continue with your vlogs❤

[@devikasdailyvlogs]

Just ur vibe.. day in life..

[@vashrover1627]

We love to see daily vlogs

[@tinaribadia781]

Hi ritu.almost every day I m looking for your vlog and it’s here,try to make travel vlog more 🎉🎉

[@savitatomar4376]

Ritu dear jab tumhe subscribe kiya tha us waqt itne jyada foreign settled indian bloggers nahi the aur an Indians life in foreign janne ki curiosity ki wajah se tumko dekhna start kiya, aaj bhi tumhe dekhna achcha hi lagta hai, mix contents rakho jaisi tum ho, and yes pahle ke muqable ab bahut Indian bloggers hain shayad isliye views kum ho gaye honge, but hum aaj bhi tumko bhi dekhte hain achchha lagta hai. Good luck n love to Itika😊😊😊😊

[@roamingpal]

Welcome Back Ritu... Love Everything you do

[@priyank88]

As a parent, I do really understand how your world changes after becoming a parent. All your priorities change and vlogging being 24×7 thing, it must be very challenging for you. Good luck to you !!!

[@malobikaroy3544]

Don't worry about views or numbers. Vlogs are like documentaries-you're making a documentary about your life, that's it.

[@sadhanakumbhojkar7531]

Daily vlogs are best

[@hemakalyanimehta1626]

Hi Ritu. Am following ur vlogs since long. .continue with the way u used to vlog ...i mean ur own style. Lived ur genuine way. All the best and u will soon be in best of ur health.

[@shashil3002]

Ure natural that's best

[@hemalatagaddad3110]

Do daily vlogs, Ritu. By the way, you are looking fresh and energetic

[@abhachitlangia3616]

I was wondering why no blogs, was looking forward for your blogs , but as soon as saw your blog waz very happy........ Loved the way itika greeted us,she is growing up fast...,...............,.. Ritu you are a friendly person of course very chirpy, affectionate and cheerful person............ I subscribed you because of your friendly nature, your peppy attitude towards life; of course for sure you are simple, caring and relateable...... love your all contents.........Lots a ❤❤❤❤❤ to Bahy doll Itika..... Take Care.......... 🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵💥💥💥💥💥

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thanks for watching ❤

[@mahua07]

Not interviews simply show about your daily lives.

[@khushbukeshari5577]

Mujhe sab kuch interesting lagta hai vlogs😋😋😄😄

[@nalleshwarr]

11:30 yeaaaa this partttt , we want this rituuuu real rawww ,, thats is what is missinggg 🤓🤓🤓🤓

[@kpriya286]

Cutie Itu ❤❤❤😊

[@BeingAnant]

Hi Ritu, I've been following your videos for the past 4-5 years, and I must say, your content was much better before. With the increase in content creators, especially Indian creators in the USA, it's crucial to create videos that truly engage your audience. While your informative videos do get views, many subscribers have expressed that they don't want to see them. Informative videos generally do well, but they need to be "in person" rather than over Zoom or video calls. The quality suffers otherwise. Additionally, viewers subscribed to your channel, so they want to see you, not your children. Your travel videos were popular, and I understand you're traveling less now. However, travel content consistently performs well, especially for your US-based Indian audience who can relate to your experiences and use your videos for travel inspiration. Consider focusing on current topics relevant to your audience, such as immigration issues or trends affecting Indians in the USA. Daily vlogs are okay occasionally, but viewers often lose interest and move on to other channels. Here are some suggestions for content that I believe will attract and retain viewers: * Informative videos (in person): These always have an audience. * Travel videos: These were popular before, and there's a consistent demand for travel content. * Relevant topics for your audience: Address current issues and trends affecting Indians in the USA. Daily vlogs that heavily feature your children are less likely to keep viewers engaged. As a content creator in a competitive landscape, you need to offer unique and trendy content to stand out. I hope this feedback is helpful. I'm offering it as a genuine subscriber who wants to see your channel 😊

[@sadiaakhtar6701]

I am from Pakistan imissyou to much I like your all vlogs please continue your vlogs ❤

[@pragatikulkarni3963]

Ritu do vlogs as u used to do and in addition to that u can do vlogs on us comlete lifestyle etc

[@PoorvaBhatia]

Being selfish isn’t a bad thing :) we can’t pour from an empty cup and especially as mothers, we definitely need to take care of ourselves as much as we take care of our family. I enjoy your family vlogs the most but my recommendation would be to find a mix of all types you do. You’ll figure it out, don’t worry :) postpartum is tough and takes time !

[@kets7]

Show christmas markets, christmas decorations in different different areas..downtown n in happening neighborhoods etc

[@shikhamishra98]

Beautiful hair style 😊❤

[@vvarsha1014]

Hi Ritu, thora lambba hain but honest suggestions: 1. Day in a life vlogs are interesting and in this you can explore new things like sharing proper meal planning, recipes with proper measurement and all, your work out videos and progress this i am adding to the suggestion because bahana millega tumko workout karne ka, you can read to itika, your skin care and hair care, shopping vlogs and it need not be like ki US me cost yeh hain and india me yeh hain 2. Informative videos are good 3. Interviews are boring frankly speaking 4. To attract traffic you can put reels of itika doing cute activities and add a vlog in that Try to make content in a way that you get sponsors more like showing toy, books, bags, make up collections

[@vvarsha1014]

Start doing videos regarding you health journey how are you taking care of yourself. This will be inspiring as well you will start doing atleast for the sake of vlogs

[@angiesneh3931]

As an Indian and not planning to shift in the US anytime I find interviews boring or not of my interest.. I personally like ur daily vlog and day to day vlogs

[@AlkaSingh-xq6we]

AAP jo bhi banayegi dekhenge 👍❤

[@sonalimhaisekar6151]

I usually don't go through daily routine vlogs of others..but some how i even like ur daily vlogs too..may be beacuse of ur way of talking, the way the whole vlog make sense or may be because of ur energetic personality! If possible, can u add information abt how American couples share their household chores, how they raise their child, how much imp they give to their hobbies in their life, u can even add information abt how american teenagers start preparing to live life independently in stages and how successfully they manage to live complete independent life at such young age? There is so much to learn abt completely diffnt American culture!

[@alpeshkhorava]

Ritu aap daily vlog banao sab aa jayega 😂❤

[@Ved4ever]

#Long comment In my humble opinion, firstly you have to understand & accept that your life had a big change. Having a child changes a mom’s life 360 degree. Secondly, start focusing on your health first. Physical & mental health, both. We, specially Moms, stop focusing on ourselves after having a child. Secondly, about the content. Don’t push yourself to do what you were doing earlier. You can create a mix of content. Informative vlogs, day in your life, some podcasts maybe? I had suggested you long time ago, you can share a simple video about how you guys met, how it converted to marriage. 😉 Also how did you apply for your child’s passport/ oci, etc. How has your life changed after moving to Stamford? Cost of living in Stamford? School system, as you’ll soon discover that too. What are your plans for buying a house? Why did you guys choose to move back to US? How did your green card application progress after moving back to US? Daycare around your area. Start a fitness journey maybe? These are just some suggestions on the top of my head. My favorite version of Albeli Ritu was before moving to UK. Carefree, chulbuli, girl next door. Hope to see that version of you again. 😊 All the best for your upcoming videos 😊

[@chitrakshichitrakshi4908]

I love ur channel!! but the one I rlly like is daily life vlogs it just give us the experience of that side..it feels like we are also living the same life so if u rlly want to make only one type of vlogs then I think daily vlogs are best I hope u like the comment..❤❤