Alcoholic interview-Imesha

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Soft White Underbelly

Soft White Underbelly

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@pudddingpie
@pudddingpie 4 жыл бұрын
This is a beautiful woman carrying so much pain. This is heartbreaking. I’m so glad you gave her a hug she needed it!
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 4 жыл бұрын
@kevin p A man!!!😂😂😂 Get to the optometrists asap!!!
@tannaviajohnson6092
@tannaviajohnson6092 4 жыл бұрын
@kevin p 😭
@theblaxican6802
@theblaxican6802 3 жыл бұрын
@Jacqueline Sevilla Exactly!
@hottrodd4532
@hottrodd4532 3 жыл бұрын
And lemme give you a hug to give to her for me 😍! Witcha beautiful self! 😘
@lisaortega2991
@lisaortega2991 3 жыл бұрын
@kevin p try to find it in ur heart to not care about the genders but to pray for her! Ur comment could b a prayer 🙏🏻 instead of wondering who cares either way what if it was both does it have any differences to what she said
@Lilybet1316
@Lilybet1316 4 жыл бұрын
She was a legitimate victim, don’t shame them if they feel like a victim after everything someone like this has gone through, just get her help. 🙏🏻❤️
@tranquilrabies
@tranquilrabies 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I don't really like the way that question is asked in the first place.
@clairelumiere2901
@clairelumiere2901 4 жыл бұрын
It was a legitimate question since being a victim and victim mentality are two different things. Notice she had no problem with Mark asking her that question (5:06), thinking carefully before replying, “I used to”. Mark is trying to help so don’t make stuff up that he’s “shaming” her.
@clairelumiere2901
@clairelumiere2901 4 жыл бұрын
@Go To Bed Mark is capable of saying wrong things, but this is not one of them. It is possible to not be a true victim & have a victim mentality, and also possible to be a true victim & not have a victim mentality. She was a victim & she said she used to have a victim mentality, but now she doesn’t. That is useful psychological information to know if one wants to help her. She knew what he meant & took no offense, so why are you?
@clairelumiere2901
@clairelumiere2901 4 жыл бұрын
@Go To Bed One definition of victim mentality is “a psychological term that refers to a type of dysfunctional mindset which seeks to feel persecuted in order to gain attention or avoid self-responsibility.” I knew an alcoholic with that mentality who constantly blamed his ex-wife or his ex-boss for problems in his life to gain my sympathy & deny any accountability for the role he played in those negative outcomes. It’s a conviction that the life is out of their control & the world is out to get you. This is separate from being a victim which is just where “a person has suffered from a destructive or injurious action/agency.” If you see yourself as a survivor it’s unlikely you hold a victim mentality-congrats on that.
@kariimonty5764
@kariimonty5764 2 жыл бұрын
You can help too by donating 😊@Em
@un.kindness
@un.kindness 4 жыл бұрын
"My sister don't even know who I am, but I know her because I used to change her diapers." That KILLED me. 💔 😭 Her siblings were probably all she had. 💔 I'm sorry life has been so unfair to you. You deserved so much better than that, beautiful soul.
@annabellefay3307
@annabellefay3307 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️😔😔😔
@angiegross72
@angiegross72 3 жыл бұрын
Hard hitter! This comment from her was the hardest to absorb. 💗🥊💗 I love her! And don't have a clue who she is.😭
@aerialtucker2959
@aerialtucker2959 3 жыл бұрын
That's the exact sentence that crushed me when she said that 😥
@4ll1d0155m0k3w33d
@4ll1d0155m0k3w33d 3 жыл бұрын
Raising her siblings was probably the only real love this poor soul has ever felt in life. I want to give her a hug so bad. I pray she finds peace, she's suffered so much and all that has given her this current state of more suffering... It's so tragic.
@TheScribblySunflower
@TheScribblySunflower 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah that TORE me up! I’m speechless. 😭😭😭😭😭
@mzfancy4767
@mzfancy4767 4 жыл бұрын
I understand Imesha feelings when she stated she told her mom about being assaulted and she didn't believe her. I too experienced it. Parents are supposed to protect children by all cost.
@9929kingfish
@9929kingfish 4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you experienced such a horrible assault as a child. There is a special place in hell for those that harm children.
@iamjacquelinemichelle2673
@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 4 жыл бұрын
@Mz Fancy can totally relate for I told my mom a couple of years ago and she just told me that I probably liked it 😭 I just want her to love me. She has always been like that with just me. Right now I just try to keep away from her the most I can to keep my sanity. So many things happened in my childhood. I’m so happy I never ended up in the streets ect.... hope you are doing better as something like this never goes away. We just try to cope with it the best we can. ❤️
@mzfancy4767
@mzfancy4767 4 жыл бұрын
@@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 Ur like my mirror. 😞 We will continue to grow and love our children or children in our family harder than what we received.
@timothylane7672
@timothylane7672 4 жыл бұрын
@@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 sorry to hear that is horrible! I have two daughters and I can't imagine saying that to them if they ever told me that my first thought would be beating whoever did it!!
@beannieharrison
@beannieharrison 4 жыл бұрын
💜
@blacknbougie8021
@blacknbougie8021 4 жыл бұрын
I hate how some of us treat our girls. Little girls are not "miniature mothers" sent here to help you with your other kids. They're gentle little flowers that need to be handled with care. Stop mistreating them and watch the beauty of what they become in adulthood.
@blacknbougie8021
@blacknbougie8021 4 жыл бұрын
@Damon christopher what a dumb comment🤦🏽‍♀️
@Hello_kitty-p
@Hello_kitty-p 4 жыл бұрын
Well said ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!!!!!
@leesaemmanuel9533
@leesaemmanuel9533 3 жыл бұрын
True
@gmtz4424
@gmtz4424 4 жыл бұрын
My hearts goes out for this woman
@ruthadelbai7388
@ruthadelbai7388 4 жыл бұрын
🙏 I know
@islandgirl5382
@islandgirl5382 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!
@TheIntrovert83
@TheIntrovert83 4 жыл бұрын
When she said Im not a people person because I dont Trust Nobody, I Felt that. Imesha I understand!
@armellentalaja3972
@armellentalaja3972 4 жыл бұрын
Welp, your name does say "introvert" lol
@D.1992-w9l
@D.1992-w9l 4 жыл бұрын
Spot on
@iamjacquelinemichelle2673
@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 4 жыл бұрын
@ TheIntrovert83 same 🥺
@AaronHendu
@AaronHendu 4 жыл бұрын
I literally can't have friends cause I don't trust nobody. Maybe you'll appreciate this song...maybe you'll hate it - kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKmXZ4VpqLarY5Y
@patches3432
@patches3432 4 жыл бұрын
Judging by your profile pic, nice smart phone, hair all done up. Nails done up, probably living in a nice house. Hmm?
@KahleiaELoria
@KahleiaELoria 4 жыл бұрын
Generational curse for her mother to abandon her and being street she did the same to her kids....I hope it stops with them! Be blessed everyone
@Kickinitwithcarlee
@Kickinitwithcarlee 4 жыл бұрын
Stevie Woo I no her son he’s watching this
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 4 жыл бұрын
@@Kickinitwithcarlee Another supposid family member has commented. It's ok for you to comment and tell what you know.
@tannaviajohnson6092
@tannaviajohnson6092 4 жыл бұрын
@@marylougeorge9890 Right no ones here to judge and most of us are loyal consistant viewers who genuinely care🙏🏾😔
@piedadunda1647
@piedadunda1647 4 жыл бұрын
hard to brake the chain. up to the fifth generation. the mother is the most important pillar of society.
@HildeAzul
@HildeAzul 4 жыл бұрын
She didn’t know any better.
@ahh1180
@ahh1180 4 жыл бұрын
This poor lady I really hope she finds a safe place and peace in her life, no person deserves this.
@PuntaMadre
@PuntaMadre 4 жыл бұрын
My mother is a substance abuse therapist. She told me the #1 gateway “drug” is trauma. It’s so unfortunate to see so many people in her situation. We’ve got to do better as a society to help addicts. Providing programs that provide affordable healthcare and social services. My heart breaks seeing stories like this.
@bellaxoxo5271
@bellaxoxo5271 4 жыл бұрын
Some of the most broken people are some of the most well spoken smart people & I see so many on this channel, this woman is one of them ❤
@berndg5018
@berndg5018 4 жыл бұрын
This video is really a reminder to take good care of your children!
@gemmalh7434
@gemmalh7434 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, and it's never too late to start.❤✌
@moni1404
@moni1404 4 жыл бұрын
1. Let your kids be kids 2. Respect them 3. Hug them 4. Ask them question 5. Tell them daily affirmations 6. Believe them 7. Tell them how special they are. 8. Grant them peace at night while they sleep. I wish so bad I could hug this woman. 👊🏽
@dreadrocka87
@dreadrocka87 4 жыл бұрын
Not to excuse what happened but I imagine her mother suffered childhood trauma as well
@SickandTired95
@SickandTired95 3 жыл бұрын
@@dreadrocka87 Yes, unfortunately dysfunction and trauma becomes generational.
@vw1649
@vw1649 3 жыл бұрын
Yes it is...and your self.
@MsJewie09
@MsJewie09 4 жыл бұрын
So sad. The alcohol makes the depression even worse. Praying for her healing.
@alexisdigital
@alexisdigital 4 жыл бұрын
Imesha, WE LOVE YOU! Like every human being, you deserve to be loved. Take care of yourself! ❤
@ronniemead805
@ronniemead805 4 жыл бұрын
Please send up some prayers for her and all the other women and children who are being abused.
@edwingarris9950
@edwingarris9950 4 жыл бұрын
I am here to say everything that she said was a absolute lie I am her kids father the person that interview her was horrible too he did not ask the necessary questions to get to the necessary answers once again she lied on her whole entire interview this interview needs to be taken down I don’t know about all the other ones but this one is a lie I Imesha was a good woman alcohol took her away from her family I was with her since she was 15 years old she was not raped at 16 years old she lied about everything if anybody including the people that did her interview what the real story I am the person that can give it to you once again the guy that interviewed her was horrible and he should be fired
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 4 жыл бұрын
@@edwingarris9950 The interviewer can't be fired. It's his channel. How did you find out about her interview? Strange because it sounds like you didn't know about this channel before you saw her interview.🤔
@edwingarris9950
@edwingarris9950 4 жыл бұрын
@@marylougeorge9890 Because she is my kids mother my daughter opened up KZbin and this is the first time she seen her mom since she was eight years old and she had to see her mom on KZbin lying about everything that she’s been through that’s how I found out about this situation because my daughter sent me this in my text messages crying saying look at this
@marylougeorge9890
@marylougeorge9890 4 жыл бұрын
@@edwingarris9950 Oh, I'm sorry. @Soft White Underbelly... please read his other comment.
@thehumbleabode9729
@thehumbleabode9729 4 жыл бұрын
She seems like she has a good head on her shoulders despite everything that has happened to her in her life. I truly hope she can find love & healing
@piedadunda1647
@piedadunda1647 4 жыл бұрын
and she is beautiful
@marquitashiver6141
@marquitashiver6141 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! If she wanted to she could be a real go getter.
@carlwooleyhan5269
@carlwooleyhan5269 2 жыл бұрын
I would agree about her looks
@4eyes2sea
@4eyes2sea 4 жыл бұрын
She felt better after talking... sometimes letting it all out like that is good for the soul. Another diamond in the rough, sleeping in a tent by the side of the road. Precious comes in all flavors. She's in my prayers. *hugs*
@cindyfitzgerald4500
@cindyfitzgerald4500 4 жыл бұрын
Imesha I really do want to reach through this screen and hug you.
@ronniemead805
@ronniemead805 4 жыл бұрын
Cindy you can. Just keep her in your prayers, and all the other women and children being abused in the system. 🌹🌹🌹
@me-pz5yi
@me-pz5yi 4 жыл бұрын
@Cindy Fitzgerald that’s how I feel when I watch these stories of these women.
@melissam3047
@melissam3047 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly how i feel. So emotional watching this seeing her pain
@dianalindsay6325
@dianalindsay6325 3 жыл бұрын
I would like to hug you too Imesha!!!!
@annabellefay3307
@annabellefay3307 3 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜💜
@jujujouet7944
@jujujouet7944 4 жыл бұрын
Imesha's story is heart breaking. Having a mother that physically, emotionally & psychologically abuses her own daughter is such a traumatic way to start off life on this Earth. Especially difficult to hear was that she was raped at the tender age of 6 and when she attempted to tell her only protector in her family, her mother, she was verbally shamed & that just tripled the horrific trauma of the event. I empathize with her life story & know the feeling of never being able to trust people as they always seem to betray kindness. The endless cuts of life's hurts manifest in buried anger & resentment which is displayed outwardly in fighting & short temper. It's amazing how soft a strong woman like Imesha becomes just by spending a few minutes with a total stranger that shows kindness, empathy & support.
@dia.6213
@dia.6213 4 жыл бұрын
Meaningful l Words Mina especially " The endless cuts of life's hurts manifest in buried anger & resentment which is displayed outwardly in fighting & short temper.
@iandalrymple7255
@iandalrymple7255 4 жыл бұрын
She is super self reflective and accountable. I pray the Lord will heal her.
@vavavoomsp1
@vavavoomsp1 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@Prancer-jr6qr
@Prancer-jr6qr 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@tamaraslay
@tamaraslay 3 жыл бұрын
amen
@Dpurple28
@Dpurple28 2 жыл бұрын
She needs more help than just the lord, you people who think the only answer is Jesus kills me. The lord might be a start but she needs real help like a supportive family, friends, resources, rides, etc!!!
@shelleepryor9549
@shelleepryor9549 Жыл бұрын
Amen🙏🏾
@Slim545
@Slim545 4 жыл бұрын
So many hurt people in this world it’s sad ! This is all a lot people need is somebody to vent and talk too because we never had it before nobody ever loved us it’s sad smh
@KweenSheba
@KweenSheba 3 жыл бұрын
I think you'll enjoy my channel. We sometimes have Livestreams where anyone can join the panel and discuss these issues..
@belindacrump8567
@belindacrump8567 4 жыл бұрын
This one really broke my heart :( I have a 6yo and I couldn’t imagine her having to raise her siblings. I so hope you find your way out Imesha, you are too good for the street life x
@jesserhodes7430
@jesserhodes7430 4 жыл бұрын
Imesha, im sorry life has been so rough for you. you are a strong woman, if anyone can get through it, its you. keep fighting the struggle. best wishes.
@shikoyaya1162
@shikoyaya1162 3 жыл бұрын
Being unloved by your mom is so hard to get over because everywhere you look, people are loved by their mothers. I have a decent dad but being abandoned by my mother cut me in ways I don't know how to heal. I understand this woman's pain 100%.
@gee9351
@gee9351 4 жыл бұрын
These stories are so sad...my heart hurts for this woman. When you see how some people grew up it makes you appreciate the smaller things in life. I will never complain..
@greenhornetkato1568
@greenhornetkato1568 4 жыл бұрын
Always remember,, " There go I, but by the grace of God.."
@Chucho992
@Chucho992 4 жыл бұрын
she’s very aware of her emotions and is able to pick up on patterns.
@lanijagarris5095
@lanijagarris5095 4 жыл бұрын
Me and EJ love you mom and just a refresher you talked to EJ & myself in March on my birthday (this year) ❤️
@cmhartfi
@cmhartfi 4 жыл бұрын
@Lanija Garris Please continue to love your mom🙏🏾 Never stop🙏🏾 Come get her somehow, someway......
@rachelsanders2314
@rachelsanders2314 4 жыл бұрын
Praying for your family! Keep hope alive!
@mrs.bobbiesmith6182
@mrs.bobbiesmith6182 4 жыл бұрын
My heart is praying for your family Lanija. Your mom is broken because of her past. I hope she see's your response and she knows that she is loved by you and your brother.
@butterflyblessbless5836
@butterflyblessbless5836 4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Heavyonkim
@Heavyonkim 4 жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love!! My mom was this way for 22 years and found the strength to get it together. Keep hope always, your mom has a chance too ❤️
@sarahc8862
@sarahc8862 4 жыл бұрын
Halfway through this i just started praying and praying for you, i truly hope this wounded soul finds love and peace all the rest of her days
@ronniemead805
@ronniemead805 4 жыл бұрын
Sarah you are truly an angel. Keep praying for all these ladies and children who cannot pray for themselves. The Lord will bless you greatly. 💖💖💖
@Anbu-x1
@Anbu-x1 4 жыл бұрын
She definitely wants someone to just care for her.. man I hope she gets it together
@megiemoon72
@megiemoon72 4 жыл бұрын
thank you Mark for all of your interviews, you make people feel seen, heard and important, your channel reminds me of the quote"character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you".
@cilla-themusiclover
@cilla-themusiclover 4 жыл бұрын
Imesha never had a childhood. 😥💔
@miapdx503
@miapdx503 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. She needs and deserves a break...😥
@rhianana214
@rhianana214 4 жыл бұрын
NEVER ‼️😩😔 Hurt me.
@laneyfisher7476
@laneyfisher7476 3 жыл бұрын
Sadly she didnt - very unfair
@lovelybrowngeek8725
@lovelybrowngeek8725 3 жыл бұрын
Which means always a child
@Lovelytrini82
@Lovelytrini82 4 жыл бұрын
She looks like she can be Jada Pinkett’s sister or relative.
@eb1912
@eb1912 4 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one that see that. Yes!
@libralifestylee
@libralifestylee 4 жыл бұрын
RIGHHTT
@ms.nounity.wemustdividetoc4348
@ms.nounity.wemustdividetoc4348 3 жыл бұрын
I said the exact same thing!
@greghunt7724
@greghunt7724 3 жыл бұрын
She looks nothing like Jada Pinkett
@dorothym8738
@dorothym8738 3 жыл бұрын
Really? Where? HAHAHA
@allthingsspooky3818
@allthingsspooky3818 4 жыл бұрын
Poor girl 💔 after all shes been thru u can tell she has a heart of gold...
@T.Tice90
@T.Tice90 4 жыл бұрын
Wow she is literally me. Smh. I just cried listening to her speak.
@coweenuhm9662
@coweenuhm9662 4 жыл бұрын
💕🥺 my heart goes out to you
@kolbywilliams9302
@kolbywilliams9302 4 жыл бұрын
Praying for you too and you’re healing
@karenevanoff8586
@karenevanoff8586 4 жыл бұрын
@@coweenuhm9662 🙏 Same
@heykerryann
@heykerryann 4 жыл бұрын
@T. Tice I’m crying for the both of you. Be safe 🇨🇦😶
@tannaviajohnson6092
@tannaviajohnson6092 4 жыл бұрын
Awww boo😔
@freya2820
@freya2820 4 жыл бұрын
Imesha is a survivor and an angel, I wish she didn’t feel so alone.
@jackierosado1777
@jackierosado1777 4 жыл бұрын
You are soooo worth it!!! I admire you for still being strong and being kindhearted towards your siblings 💖 I will PRAY FOR YOU 🙏
@tamarajones6957
@tamarajones6957 4 жыл бұрын
She reminds me of Jada Pinkett Smith. Look in her face.
@iammotley9212
@iammotley9212 4 жыл бұрын
??Where??
@tamarajones6957
@tamarajones6957 4 жыл бұрын
@@iammotley9212 Look at her facial structure.
@deevasquez1171
@deevasquez1171 4 жыл бұрын
I see it, specially younger Jada
@alliekolasa465
@alliekolasa465 4 жыл бұрын
Body type too
@Keriberryxo
@Keriberryxo 4 жыл бұрын
100%, in the movie Set It Off
@YannaPirahna
@YannaPirahna 4 жыл бұрын
I always wondered why did god put people on this earth & all they endure is pain & suffering. I know it starts with your parents but jeez my heart hurts for them 💔
@KweenSheba
@KweenSheba 3 жыл бұрын
I know trauma and I feel her pain. I think you'll enjoy my channel. We sometimes have Livestreams where anyone can join the panel and discuss these issues.....
@rochellemurrell4146
@rochellemurrell4146 4 жыл бұрын
I hope this woman can get some help soon.
@lxle6176
@lxle6176 4 жыл бұрын
Mom this your son EJ , you said you feel like everybody hate you and I DONT i always wanted to know what made you what you are today and its said cuz it like no matter how hard you try life just wasn’t set up right for you , the way you look now i can still Look in you face and see me , im doing music moms and IM NOT WEAK lol when i get rich ima come get you off dat bottle and dat skid row block , im growing into a man moms my sister is growing into a young lady and we both dont hate you because now we know how it all went down , My 💙 hurts for you mommy mann I Love You mommy
@melaniedavis9446
@melaniedavis9446 4 жыл бұрын
Omg your soul is so beautiful ❤️❤️ continue to love on her ❤️❤️❤️
@cordovabriana
@cordovabriana 3 жыл бұрын
Strong man for wanting to forgive your mom💙 smart enough to see that hurt people hurt people and I’m happy to see you want to break that cycle ! God bless you
@CoffeeWineAndWater
@CoffeeWineAndWater 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for loving your Mom.. God is watching ❤️
@nopecetas
@nopecetas 3 жыл бұрын
@Lanija Garris
@nopecetas
@nopecetas 3 жыл бұрын
Did u get it girl @LanijaGarris
@mariainesgarcia2767
@mariainesgarcia2767 4 жыл бұрын
Kids who are victimized, neglected, abused, have no way of knowing everything they are learning is wrong and their pain is right-- so they internalize that image of the black sheep-- very sad, I wish this lady love, sobriety, peace.
@shannonhuddleston1282
@shannonhuddleston1282 4 жыл бұрын
Imesha you're a beautiful worthy woman worthy of love worthy of a good life regardless of what you've been through it can and will get better please keep your head up you are worth it
@savanna9447
@savanna9447 4 жыл бұрын
thank you making these videos.
@TheIndplady81
@TheIndplady81 4 жыл бұрын
All I want to do is hug her for hours. No questions, not talking, just hold her.
@cindyfitzgerald4500
@cindyfitzgerald4500 4 жыл бұрын
That’s how I felt too!
@AlexusMusic
@AlexusMusic 4 жыл бұрын
Same 😪
@joyskary
@joyskary 2 жыл бұрын
the end🥺 she seriously just needed someone to talk to & i just wanted to hug her the whole time
@SoAyanna
@SoAyanna 4 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for her! 😥 Its sad that her Sister doesnt know who she is, she might actually be the one to help her if she knew! 😓
@ThePopCulturePodcast
@ThePopCulturePodcast 4 жыл бұрын
This channel is such a rabbit hole you can get lost in. Thanks for doing this, Mark.
@belindacrump8567
@belindacrump8567 4 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you iMesha.. why are some people dealt such a shit start at life. All kids are innocent and none of them deserve it. Good luck in life Imesha, I wish you all the best, happiness and love ❤️ you are valued x
@9929kingfish
@9929kingfish 4 жыл бұрын
Free will can lead us in any direction. Not saying it was her will to live this type life, but the decisions her parents made had a significant effect on her life today.
@iamjacquelinemichelle2673
@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 4 жыл бұрын
@@9929kingfish very well said
@naturelee4503
@naturelee4503 4 жыл бұрын
Mark, this video is a great example of how we all search, live, yearn, repeat or avoid what we had in our childhood in our adulthood.
@Nixnix2001
@Nixnix2001 4 жыл бұрын
Love an honest interview ❤️
@tranquility9325
@tranquility9325 3 жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking. She's super smart and articulate. I hope she gets a huge break.
@GaminGawdess
@GaminGawdess 4 жыл бұрын
Imesha you do matter and if no one told you today “you have a purpose and you are loved”.
@cindyfitzgerald4500
@cindyfitzgerald4500 4 жыл бұрын
Really beautiful words😊
@sheatree8520
@sheatree8520 4 жыл бұрын
💜⭐️ true that 💕
@Claud19800
@Claud19800 4 жыл бұрын
This was one heartbreaking interview.
@suekaiser4163
@suekaiser4163 4 жыл бұрын
Gosh, I have never wanted to hug somebody so bad in my whole life. This girl deserves love. I am so happy she knew her dad genuinely loved her. Your a good girl, you just weren't given a chance. Lord, I pray you help this sweetheart child of yours. She needs you.
@ianyoung9983
@ianyoung9983 4 жыл бұрын
Mark you provide a great way for people to vent and get rid of built up pressure. You are a real blessing to so many !
@scottnygaard2544
@scottnygaard2544 4 жыл бұрын
Every time I watch these stories I realize my own personal problems are so minimal
@kimmyloveandjoy
@kimmyloveandjoy 4 жыл бұрын
Tears are healing!!! I'm glad she's sharing her pain. Beloved, just know you are loved, Thank God you are still here that's enough to give God Thanks.
@buddiemac3827
@buddiemac3827 4 жыл бұрын
How can such trauma be repaired? 😔 I wish her father could have been there in the beginning and lived a lot longer. And to every child molester, please stop ruining lives 🛑 🤬
@ronniemead805
@ronniemead805 4 жыл бұрын
Such trauma cannot be repaired; except by the Lord Jesus Christ, her Creator.
@wolfbirdhomestead600
@wolfbirdhomestead600 4 жыл бұрын
@@ronniemead805 By your logic, Jesus raped her and caused her to become an alcoholic. Why is her creator allowing her to continue to suffer? He sure works in mysterious ways.
@Prancer-jr6qr
@Prancer-jr6qr 3 жыл бұрын
@@wolfbirdhomestead600 Our creator allows a lot that doesn’t mean God did this too her. Satan did this to her tf.
@Prancer-jr6qr
@Prancer-jr6qr 3 жыл бұрын
@@wolfbirdhomestead600 You’re right, he does works in mysterious ways he can use this woman’s past to preach to others that had been in her situation. God uses people all the time that been through the worst to preach to people. You don’t know what purpose God has for this woman.
@reinasvibez8950
@reinasvibez8950 3 жыл бұрын
I’m done drinking it’s literally taking a toll on my life.
@mickeyoshea2035
@mickeyoshea2035 3 жыл бұрын
Wishing you strength and luck.
@reinasvibez8950
@reinasvibez8950 3 жыл бұрын
@@sharakeiasmith beer id hard to let go
@tashaauset9730
@tashaauset9730 3 жыл бұрын
I start tomorrow 😖😞🙌
@KevinC2k10
@KevinC2k10 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously contemplating this lifestyle change😞
@Segway99
@Segway99 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you all find sobriety! It’s a good life. 23 years for me. Grateful.
@PositiveLeigh
@PositiveLeigh 4 жыл бұрын
I just want to hug and hold her until the neglected little 6 year old girl inside of her feels the warmth and love that she needed and deserved but never received. 💔
@missmsmrs.7309
@missmsmrs.7309 4 жыл бұрын
THIS ONE BREAKS MY HEART. This old world is not our home ppl. Jesus is coming soon. WE ALL NEED HIM.
@lonnieac3
@lonnieac3 4 жыл бұрын
When u think ur going through something & someone is going through much more worst... God Bless you dear! U are here for a reason & it's not over❣
@ChristabelAManu
@ChristabelAManu 3 жыл бұрын
Not all kids do well academically. You can just tell by her aura and the way she likes to speak and express herself with her hands that she probably would have thrived doing something artistic. I pray for her happiness. ❤️
@JBStyles23
@JBStyles23 4 жыл бұрын
"I'm not a people person." - I heard that.
@jjg1501
@jjg1501 4 жыл бұрын
if you listen closely that isint what she communicated. what she communicated was she keeps herself emotionally isolated because she is terrified of getting hurt or taken advantage of. seems like semantics but its really just the difference between a story we tell ourselves and the truth. the truth is she wants to connect with people so bad she just cant get over the terror of how she knows some people will treat her. i would be her friend if i lived there.
@rogerwilliams4742
@rogerwilliams4742 4 жыл бұрын
She is very much a people person. She is just struggling and afraid.
@K-Effect
@K-Effect 3 жыл бұрын
JBStyles23 She said that the same time I was reading your comment
@ericmcdaniel4029
@ericmcdaniel4029 4 жыл бұрын
Best way to start the day, soft white underbelly
@EbBy_J
@EbBy_J 4 жыл бұрын
Every morning
@reneel9393
@reneel9393 3 жыл бұрын
This is too sad
@yjontiiaalfred5243
@yjontiiaalfred5243 4 жыл бұрын
She's been through alot , may She be blessed in every way possible . miss Imesha Is gonna be alright . I can feel it.
@kathrynsmith3796
@kathrynsmith3796 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone has a story. Thank you Mark for giving me a chance to listen.
@iamjacquelinemichelle2673
@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 4 жыл бұрын
3 hours late but here. Can’t miss any of these videos. Mark can’t catch a break. Can’t imagine doing these type of videos everyday. I feel really overwhelmed at times and I have to stop. Mark you are doing amazing on not giving up on the interviewees. Letting them share their stories as I see many of your viewers can relate. Most stem from child abuse/ foster care/ family cycle it’s never ending. It breaks my heart to see this young lady go through so much.
@ii.afficia4642
@ii.afficia4642 4 жыл бұрын
she’s been through so much shit, but she’s being so honest and open about it. hopefully she gets the help she deserves
@annieseaside
@annieseaside 4 жыл бұрын
Oh Sweetheart you are NOT A MISTAKE!!! You DESERVE LOVE! We hope it comes to you!!!!!!
@alisham8232
@alisham8232 4 жыл бұрын
Omg 😢 i live in DETROIT & these men here dont care what they do to women. Some things happened to me here too.......
@jerrywest6228
@jerrywest6228 3 жыл бұрын
I live here to that shit sad to hear this but people here are ruthless and grimey
@kaellawinn4511
@kaellawinn4511 3 жыл бұрын
Same. I’m from Detroit and I went through some shit here
@yes2768
@yes2768 3 жыл бұрын
Me too moved to Georgia haven't looked back since
@brucemorrison9001
@brucemorrison9001 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like she really loved her dad.....sad..... I feel sorry for her😷
@kindcolorado2604
@kindcolorado2604 4 жыл бұрын
Bless you, sister. You are an amazing survivor
@annamariacantalupo8219
@annamariacantalupo8219 4 жыл бұрын
I hope this poor soul gets help and will be loved by someone who is a good, sincere person. I feel so sorry for this beautiful woman...🙏🙏
@Sisoy34
@Sisoy34 2 жыл бұрын
My mom is an alcoholic and even though I have to keep my distance from her since from time to time she tells me stuff like "I wish you were dead" , I have really gotten to a point in which I forgive her and always remind her I forgave her as she struggles now to forgive herself. I feel like she doesn't want to change her lifestyle but, now as I struggle with depression, I understand how she got to the point she did. Nobody gave her any tools and she just felt alone in her inner battles. It's so important to hear people, their story and struggles.
@anisezettecarey2448
@anisezettecarey2448 4 жыл бұрын
She Got One Thing Right “DON’T TRUST A SOUL”.. I’m Strong Enough Not To Be A Crackhead. BUT IM A LONER, I’M NOT A PEOPLE PERSON EITHER..
@rogerwilliams4742
@rogerwilliams4742 4 жыл бұрын
She did NOT get that right. Human beings aren't built to be alone. I LOVE my alone time but not loneliness. It's a dysfunction derived from fear and insecurity. It's especially obvious in her case. You can't see that?? But there is a small percentage of people who are antisocial to be sure.
@anisezettecarey2448
@anisezettecarey2448 4 жыл бұрын
@@rogerwilliams4742 and THAT IS YOUR OPINION
@sandiali4740
@sandiali4740 4 жыл бұрын
So glad you said you are strong enough ... good for you! That’s the most Important thing I think. I believe Saying you don’t Trust a soul can mean a lot of things. One, You can be cautious with people, Two People may not trust others because they themselves are untrustworthy And assume people are like them, OR people may enjoy doing things on Their own. Nothing wrong with enjoying your own company. And if she’s not a people person. ..?..? There is no way, last time i Saw skid row, you are going to have privacy and alone time down There.
@anisezettecarey2448
@anisezettecarey2448 4 жыл бұрын
@@sandiali4740 Trusting Gets You Killed Or At The Least ROBBED.. PEOPLE HURT THE PEOPLE CLOSEST TO THEM, I CANNOT TRUST YOU..
@jerrywest6228
@jerrywest6228 3 жыл бұрын
I love being a loner
@Toyiamichelle
@Toyiamichelle 4 жыл бұрын
Sending lots of love & healing her way. Her crying lets me know shes not happy with her life & wants a change. I hope for strength for her & God willing the change she always dreamt of.
@stevetrivago
@stevetrivago 4 жыл бұрын
I never give up on anyone.... That could be me or any of us...
@juliagulia5823
@juliagulia5823 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@melissawycough34
@melissawycough34 4 жыл бұрын
This is quite possibly the most heartbreaking story I've heard so far!! I hope we as viewers don't become desensitized to the horrible wounds that were inflicted on these people. It's a wonder they're alive to tell their story. I'm so amazed and so heartbroken.
@gracelessmaggie9677
@gracelessmaggie9677 4 жыл бұрын
When she said "I hate this life but I don't know how to get out of it" 💔
@judyford7690
@judyford7690 2 жыл бұрын
Mark I've been watching your videos for several months now and I am blown away shocked to hear all the things that people has gone through! I guess you can say I've been sheltered my whole life and I've always sheltered my children their whole life. My heart goes out to all these people with these tragic life events, I pray for many of these people in these videos that you make. You're doing a good job mark I appreciate you in many ways.
@ELAcc1999
@ELAcc1999 4 жыл бұрын
No person should have to go thru this pain. I hope she finds help and a program that’s allows her to love herself 💓she deserves peace and love .
@roxanneservaddiso9853
@roxanneservaddiso9853 3 жыл бұрын
Her dad passed her senior year, and she’s currently 37. She weeps for him as though it happened last week. It makes me so sad. I just want to hug her. It just goes to show that some scars never heal. We love you honey, hang in there.
@russellperkins8334
@russellperkins8334 4 жыл бұрын
No words can express the misery she's enduring. Sobriety is the #1 thing she needs right now. If you read this comment please take the first step towards sobriety today it's hard but you can do it.
@kevalicious611
@kevalicious611 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@smiauu
@smiauu 4 жыл бұрын
therapy is what she needs at first. how the fuck could you ask a person be sober after going thru shit like she has?
@miapdx503
@miapdx503 4 жыл бұрын
She's needs to be safe and housed first. No one gets sober in a tent.
@angelawho9083
@angelawho9083 4 жыл бұрын
#Whereislove? @#TFortheLoveofGod? @#WhereIsTheLove? @#BlAckPeopleDontStickTogether @#PickUpStyx
@russellperkins8334
@russellperkins8334 4 жыл бұрын
@@smiauu I said take the first step. The first step for everyone is different. Could be signing up for therapy, applying for housing, going to a meeting tonight. I didn't say go cold Turkey tonight and all your problems will be solved. One thing is for sure if you don't take the first step in the right direction you'll never get there. Maybe you should read a little slower and think about what your comment should be before you display pure ignorance.
@monkeypot7641
@monkeypot7641 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Mark....she will never forget that your platform helped her tell her story.... A wounded child....nothing more heartbreaking... We NEVER forget what others make us feel...
@anisezettecarey2448
@anisezettecarey2448 4 жыл бұрын
Thats Good She’s Getting Those Tears Out..
@johnherbert7912
@johnherbert7912 3 жыл бұрын
I'm getting youtube ad's for rehab after watching a few of these videos
@Melissamarie14
@Melissamarie14 4 жыл бұрын
Damn this one broke my ❤. I hate that she's experienced so much pain. She deserves better. I pray she can find her siblings and maybe that will make her feel a connection to someone she loves.
@sdavis924
@sdavis924 3 жыл бұрын
This one hurt my soul.. she portrays real pain, sadness, despair. Some I question the validity of the stories they tell, but this one feels extremely genuine.. real. Lord protect her, help her, give her strength. Amen
@kimberlyzavala7674
@kimberlyzavala7674 4 жыл бұрын
I hope she can find some happiness and peace in her life
@marialiyubman
@marialiyubman 2 жыл бұрын
“I don’t like people behind me” I was robbed and attacked from behind twice, I still can’t have anyone walk behind me and it’s been over a decade… that just spoke to me.. Imesha, I value you. ❤️
@Keziah2447178
@Keziah2447178 3 жыл бұрын
Most of these people have children but when you listen to their stories, in many ways they’re children themselves.
@bridgetteworkman
@bridgetteworkman 4 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for Imesha. I just want to give her a hug! I think her ability to detect what pure love is was completely tainted as a child, the time in ones life where comfort is found and that is so very sad. I hope Imesha is able to get into counselling to fight all the demons that others have put on her. I can’t imagine how difficult it must be for her to pick up and go on a daily basis. Imesha, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE WORTHY, and even if you say you don’t want it, YOU ARE LOVED. I pray for the day when you can see and FEEL all of that..... You DESERVE it. ♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️
@zsazsarose
@zsazsarose 4 жыл бұрын
Mark once again you display kindness and empathy. Listening to her made her soooo happy if even for just a few minutes❤️Much RESPECT
@arabaimpraimai7503
@arabaimpraimai7503 4 жыл бұрын
Despite everything she went through, she is not unkind or angry, just hurting. I hope she gets the help she needs; I truly believe she has a chance. God bless this beautiful soul.
@dougalexander7204
@dougalexander7204 4 жыл бұрын
Of course she’s lonely and feels abandoned, with so much pain bottled up.
@tshirtfactory07
@tshirtfactory07 3 жыл бұрын
I really want to hug her..... the way she said she always dreamed of owning a daycare..... such a sweet and honest dream. Imesha, you are loved. From one soul to another, I genuinely love you. Big hugs from the other side of the country!!!!!
@lilys7431
@lilys7431 4 жыл бұрын
How could one not end up feeling angry? How do we change this?
@jetcitygrljewels9719
@jetcitygrljewels9719 4 жыл бұрын
I hurt for Imesha. I knew that when she stated "I do not believe in friends" that she had been deeply wounded in her life. It seems like many people who suffered horrible things build thick walls around them. It is a self-protection mechanism. I have seen this so many times. It is almost like it is easier to feel angry than to break down and cry. Mark has a nurturing way about him. He listens without judgment and he knows how to get to the heart of these people and their stories. I am so grateful that Mark has offered these people a comfortable place to tell their stories, and he listens. I wish that there were more Mark's in this world.
@melmak4108
@melmak4108 4 жыл бұрын
She's so smart. I really feel her pain about losing her dad😢
@me-pz5yi
@me-pz5yi 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mark, for this work you’re doing. God bless 🙏🏽.
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