Alexa Nikolas Leaks The Drive: Eat Predators' new low

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Ophie Dokie

Ophie Dokie

Күн бұрын

she leaked the drive. I'm mad about it. This video is a commentary podcast and not allegations of true facts, I'm telling you what I'm seeing on twitter and the fight I got into with her husband. I don't care that there was a freedom of information act already done for this information, that doesn't mean someone like Alexa should weaponize it like this. Alexa was not the one to request the FOIA for the Drake Bell 2021 Court Case and I don't understand why she did not provide the direct link either during her communications with Kat Tenbarge or in the last two days on twitter, but to be clear her narrative is still that she was not given the documents by Drake Bell, I propose a couple of other options for how I think she might have gotten them, but I say she didn't say how she got them at the end of the video and what I mean more accurately would be "without describing a realistic process through which she got them", since nobody else requesting the docs from the courthouse was directed to this police document record.
No, I am not linking to it here. I have not downloaded or read them, I will not read them. I filmed this one quickly, and I'm sure this is going to keep escalating, but so many people aren't on twitter (good for you!) so here you go. Does literally anyone read these.

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@kalebutevil
@kalebutevil 8 күн бұрын
“i’m glad she can see the child in drake bell because im sure the 11 year old she acts like gets really lonely” made my jaw drop holy shit
@RatClowns
@RatClowns 7 күн бұрын
SO ICONIC
@ESPHMacD
@ESPHMacD 5 күн бұрын
A bar, truly.
@themaddiecommittee
@themaddiecommittee 8 күн бұрын
It's unbelievable that she claimed Kat retraumatized her because of basic interview questions, then released previously sealed documents regarding the abuse of a minor. Absolutely reprehensible behavior.
@ophie-dokie
@ophie-dokie 8 күн бұрын
and not even like it's something from months ago like the corey feldman drake bell thing but like TWO NIGHTS AGO. GIRL What are you DOING aaaaaaa
@banafanafofana6914
@banafanafofana6914 8 күн бұрын
And Alexa claimed in that livestream that she goes to therapy 3 times a week! You'd think that by now her therapist would've taught her tools on how to control her temper or the way she reacts to something thats triggering. I know bc I see a therapist once a month and *it takes effort* to learn those tools and use them when the time is opportune. All I'm seeing is Alexa going through a rampage because she saw those questions as a personal attack and threw any regard for the victim out the window.
@ophie-dokie
@ophie-dokie 8 күн бұрын
@@banafanafofana6914 yes the first thing I said when she said she's in therapy sometimes three times a week was "oh god but not dbt huh" lol. I say this as someone for whom standard talk therapy was not helpful, I do not think Alexa's going to ever get anything out of talk therapy. She needs a therapist who is going to say "Here is some homework and some worksheets and I know it sounds silly but you need to actually draw out the middle path exercise when you start thinking all or nothing thoughts". doing zoom iop dbt during the pandemic for a month is what made me be like "oh this is how people live to their thirties" lol. but I don't feel like her therapist is giving her much more than "oh, that's awful, and how does that make you feel" for an hour. And I've had therapists like that!! it sucks!!
@minniemirthful
@minniemirthful 7 күн бұрын
@@ophie-dokieas someone who's been in various forms of therapy (including DBT group therapy) for the past ten years I've also literally never heard of someone going to therapy three times a week, at most with a single therapist I've gone weekly maybe three sessions IN a week counting psychiatry + group therapy + one on one but that was for only a month In short that number raises red flags for me
@Bls-of1ld
@Bls-of1ld 6 күн бұрын
I think all her accusations are bs....srry ive seen enough when it comes alexa
@TheBubblevicious
@TheBubblevicious 8 күн бұрын
She’s absolutely vile. A grown woman having a temper tantrum because someone asked her legitimate questions that would hold her accountable. Why drag an innocent victim into this? Alexa’s “advocacy” only relates to herself, because dare we forget she’s victim with a capital V and her trauma is more important than anyone else’s.
@SuperSonicWarrior93
@SuperSonicWarrior93 7 күн бұрын
And if you dare hold her accountable, she’ll demand an apology from you.
@kittycobbs3501
@kittycobbs3501 7 күн бұрын
While watching this I was literally thinking she thinks she’s the only one who can be a victim. 🙃
@SuperSonicWarrior93
@SuperSonicWarrior93 7 күн бұрын
@@kittycobbs3501 Facts. Alexa really thinks she’s the only sexual assault survivor in existence. It’s pathetic. Also, her grudge on Victoria Justice, all because they fought over some boy in middle school? She needs to learn how to let stuff go. Victoria is clearly living her best life right now. She doesn’t care about this drama.
@Bls-of1ld
@Bls-of1ld 6 күн бұрын
​@@SuperSonicWarrior93or doxx u
@Bls-of1ld
@Bls-of1ld 6 күн бұрын
​@@SuperSonicWarrior93sexual assault? I thought it was cuz she was 'bullied' on zoey
@Dave102693
@Dave102693 8 күн бұрын
She’s another example of an abuser who never probably processed their trauma and are abusing other people to “take power back”
@katiefulto
@katiefulto 7 күн бұрын
It’s sad she can’t see it. I’m sure her therapist isn’t leading her to see this, but instead seems to enable her superior victim complex. She implies she’s the only survivor that can have an opinion and if you disagree you’re “victim blaming,” even if you’re a victim… an 11 year old victim…
@peachy_lili
@peachy_lili 5 күн бұрын
@@Bls-of1ld you are brain challenged if you think that this is anything but pure personality disorder stemming from unprocessed trauma. take your paranoia somewhere else, there's lots to be paranoid about here and that ain't it
@icravedeath.1200
@icravedeath.1200 5 күн бұрын
​@@Bls-of1ldnot the place to say that bro.
@Dave102693
@Dave102693 2 күн бұрын
@@katiefultobasically
@wintercagenapp1155
@wintercagenapp1155 8 күн бұрын
I'm still stuck on her willingly misunderstanding how journalism works by interpreting Kat's interview questions, something intended to give Alexa an opportunity to defend herself, as intimidation. There's also fact that she thinks Kat is targeting her through the guise of reporting on Drake Bell instead of Kat only giving Alexa the time of day as part of her reporting on Drake Bell. She seems convinced that every inch of the Drake Bell case, Quiet on Set, and even seemingly everything about Dan Schneider and Nickelodeon is all about her.
@leximari
@leximari 6 күн бұрын
Exactly that, when she’s just a small piece!
@summerspicer6153
@summerspicer6153 2 күн бұрын
If she’d ever grow up and realize that being dirty Dans favorite is sooo much worse than seeing his temper on set, she’d see things much differently. She escaped tons of trauma at the hands of that man and his friends.
@English3Muffin
@English3Muffin 7 күн бұрын
For someone who speaks so much about other people retraumatizing her, she seems to have zero regard how she has now contributed to retraumatizing someone else who didn’t ask to be part of the conversation at all. Alexa has chosen to be a public figure, and that comes with criticism. Drake Bell’s victim is not. What a disgusting violation of a survivor’s experience and general safety. Wow.
@ultimatequeenofdeath666
@ultimatequeenofdeath666 7 күн бұрын
truly so disgusting, that someone could go through these things and then be pulled put of the woodworks seemingly just because of one persons petty vendetta towards a journalist (someone who’s just doing their job btw), alexa nicholas should not have a platform, it is a privilege to have a voice to use, but when you use that voice for people who don’t want or need it you automatically lose all credibility in my eyes
@laladoglady
@laladoglady 7 күн бұрын
@@ultimatequeenofdeath666seriously it’s horrific and I’ve lost all respect for her
@Rosiewithfootprints
@Rosiewithfootprints 3 күн бұрын
I’m so curious if she’s soon gonna have this crushing realization of ‘oh my god what have I done’ whenever she awakens from whatever manic spiral is fueling this energy, OR if she truly is so narcissistic at this point that she’ll forever stay in denial and convince herself that everyone is out to get her for no reason and she is the only innocent person in the world
@mcplestreet
@mcplestreet 8 күн бұрын
i am genuinely at a loss for words….. and from a certified yapper, that is alarming
@ophie-dokie
@ophie-dokie 8 күн бұрын
I just cannot believe this is where it ended up. Ik you said on the other video like you couldn't imagine what EP would become when you started watching and genuinely same. This is just like.... so needlessly cruel and so against anything she ever pretended to stand for. She still has that "protect survivors not predators" sign behind her in that last stream and this.
@trvckslvt
@trvckslvt 7 күн бұрын
As someone who was a member of her patreon and a supporter of EP as well as a close friend of one of the former members who has been attacked by her (and exploited) and almost lost their life due to the stress, thank you so much for covering this stuff and I am so grateful that you, Kat, and Adam are not letting her get away with it.
@thethrowawaythatstayed7055
@thethrowawaythatstayed7055 7 күн бұрын
She👏Doesn’t👏Care👏About👏Survivors
@annakatie7347
@annakatie7347 6 күн бұрын
Only herself, because she's the #1 Survivor, don't forget it!
@thethrowawaythatstayed7055
@thethrowawaythatstayed7055 6 күн бұрын
@@annakatie7347 That’s what pisses me off as CSA survivor myself. We should be supporting each other, not being competitive over who had the most messed up things happen to them.
@annakatie7347
@annakatie7347 6 күн бұрын
@@thethrowawaythatstayed7055 ♡ It really is about that to her, which speaks to her needed (extra, more) therapy for her trauma. How she doesn't understand the harm she is causing blows my mind.
@thethrowawaythatstayed7055
@thethrowawaythatstayed7055 6 күн бұрын
@@annakatie7347 Just goes to show you can be a survivor and still an asshole. I hope she stops and gets therapy and I mean than genuinely not in a hateful way.
@mrspreminger
@mrspreminger 8 күн бұрын
God, she’s a horrible person! How is she acting like she is the victim in this situation when she just doxxed a victim of a celebrity with rabid fans? Was Drake’s child endangerment sentence and the message of him saying “hurry up” to a 15 year stating their age not enough? Was his ex-gf saying they started dating when she was 16 and pushing her down the stairs during their relationship not enough? He never deserved to be abused as a child, but he’s now a grown adult man that’s a violent abuser. I know who I stand with, and it’s not the man who is an active danger to girls and women.
@SuiEnnui
@SuiEnnui 8 күн бұрын
This is what I was most scared of happening after that stream - that she would go and do this. My heart goes out to the girl that Alexa has re-victimised through this. I'm incredibly disappointed, however not surprised ... ahhhh. This is just such a violation and its gross that it was perpetrated by a self purported survivor advocate.
@hereinmyhansonshirt
@hereinmyhansonshirt 8 күн бұрын
I really appreciate you covering this. Alexa is such a disappointment and has caused so much harm to survivors.
@lif3onmar5
@lif3onmar5 7 күн бұрын
okay so Kat asking her basic questions is retraumatizing, but recounting her experiences with Nickelodeon wasn’t? quick Kat, come up with a tagline that Alexa can put on a shirt and sell, and then she’ll agree to your article!
@Emymagdalena
@Emymagdalena 8 күн бұрын
I was so ready to be empathetic as possible and give Alexa the benefit of the doubt bc she’s obviously GOING THROUGH it. At best, Alexa was just not good at explaining herself, surely we all must be misunderstanding- she’d never leak documents of a minor’s court case. She must mean some other drive. I feel fucking feral about this.
@breadleyj
@breadleyj 7 күн бұрын
yeah i was trying so hard to give her the benefit of the doubt but this has crossed so many fucking lines. I'm so angry and heartbroken. I wasn't around on EP for long but I'd really been excited when I first found it bc of a mix of childhood nostalgia and seeing/relating to a fellow survivor. To watch someone I'd started to admire torpedo herself bc she seems to want the attention and validation from another survivor-abuser makes me so sad. I haven't looked at the drive and I have no intention to, but if there is any sort of unredacted addresses, names and other sorts of private information that could led to the minor being tracked down, she just fucking doxxed a minor (and possibly DB, the other survivor she's claiming to want to stand up for and protect??) on top of re-traumatizing the minor by fucking blasting her business all over the internet. I hope the minor gets the justice she deserves in this. I'm fucking raging and heartbroken that she needs justice in this to begin with. Alexa's emotional immaturity is hurting so many others and she refuses to see it. She's no better than my abusive, gaslighting mother in my eyes now.
@kruff169
@kruff169 7 күн бұрын
Me too. I assumed she was just blinded by her own pain and if she took a second to breathe she'd see reason. But this was a massive, conscious choice you can't come back from.
@nickythehickey
@nickythehickey 5 күн бұрын
@@jadebel700617 and 50 is the farthest thing possible from fine, you’re a victim and im sorry you’ve convinced yourself that you’re not
@breadleyj
@breadleyj 5 күн бұрын
@jadebel7006 17 is still a minor. I'm sorry you were abused by men so much older than you. I was groomed by a woman twice my age as a young adult, and I thought I was fine until the last 5 years, and it's been hell to sort through. I hope you find healing if that moment ever comes for you 💜
@thebeokfactory
@thebeokfactory 8 күн бұрын
Ok, I wholeheartedly believe that Alexa referencing finally learning about ‘the roots’ has not yet involved her acceptance that SHE may also cause harm! I thought that’s what she meant at first but clearly not. Having no desire to become trauma informed when first hand working with victims tells me everything I need to know about what stage she is at with her own healing. She is acting like THE victim, like Adam said, like that’s credentials to not harm others? Or would becoming trauma inform require Alexa to look inward at how she is participating in retraumatizing victims who never ask for her ‘help’. (It’s all reading similarly to white-feminism savior complex vs. educated advocate)
@Lydia_Alice
@Lydia_Alice 7 күн бұрын
Couldn't help but pause at "working with victims"...which is perhaps entirely the point that she certainly isn't working WITH any victims other than herself. The guise she is working on behalf of or even just vaguely for victims has been eaten, digested, and excreted since this final act is working firmly against. Hmph.
@samguine_art
@samguine_art 8 күн бұрын
I guess she thought it was better to be infamous than irrelevant…
@markchester9961
@markchester9961 8 күн бұрын
Alexa Nikolas fell off so bad, ever since Quiet on Set she's been getting a lot of clout but now she became all buddy buddy with Drake Bell cause he's a survivor and started backtracking, acting like a shady hypocrite and not caring about Drake's victims, that started her down fall so quickly, so hilarious.
@withoutaname-u3m
@withoutaname-u3m 7 күн бұрын
It seems like Alexa is unwell and suffering emotionally. Even if that is true, that’s no excuse to publicize sensitive information about a minor, especially when it isn’t her information to release. It’s very strange to me that she is so publicly destroying herself, her image, credibility, etc, over Drake fucking Bell. Is it really worth it to throw all that away for someone who was just talking so much shit about you in discord? All that being said, I am concerned for Alexa and her safety, this isn’t normal behavior at all. I’m also concerned for the young woman involved in the court case. It’s disgusting of Alexa.
@meganjs
@meganjs 8 күн бұрын
I am not on twitter so thank you for keeping us up to date. I am so disgusted by her actions. Where is Kat lying? She sent questions to Alexa…. That’s it. This woman is losing her mind and I hope she leaves the internet. This is beyond fucked
@katiefulto
@katiefulto 7 күн бұрын
YOU ATE. Thanks for standing up for victims and breaking down how wrong Alexa’s and her family’s actions are. It’s genuinely saddening that I was once so excited for EP and now it’s just the “Alexa is THE victim Show”
@bugbug75
@bugbug75 8 күн бұрын
Its so wild to me that both her mother and husband are right behind her in this.
@trvckslvt
@trvckslvt 7 күн бұрын
To my knowledge they are both unemployed and riding her grifty coat tails.
@user-unfriendly_-o-
@user-unfriendly_-o- 8 күн бұрын
It's so disgusting that she keeps throwing Drake Bell's victim under the bus. I can't imagine what would it feel like to have my childhood abuse history in public. I hate remembering what I was like as a child, although I don't blame myself for it, and I would never want anyone to see me in that state. And I would never want the public to know what happened.
@Emymagdalena
@Emymagdalena 8 күн бұрын
I don’t even know if Alexa dropped the link to exonerate Drake Bell or not, I think it might have been JUST to prove that the “not really court documents” weren’t sealed and were redacted. And Kat was defaming her for suggesting otherwise. I think it was JUST to exonerate herself. Which the documents DON’T EVEN DO THAT.
@trvckslvt
@trvckslvt 7 күн бұрын
Exactly
@SuperSonicWarrior93
@SuperSonicWarrior93 7 күн бұрын
Kanye West: Alexa Nikolas doesn’t care about survivors.
@Jem-ruby-0331
@Jem-ruby-0331 7 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@summerchild_
@summerchild_ 8 күн бұрын
Damn girl you are on top of the situation i just finished watching your first video a second ago
@ophie-dokie
@ophie-dokie 8 күн бұрын
Boots on the GROUND im locked in on this lol she's not getting an inch from me
@agapangolin7976
@agapangolin7976 7 күн бұрын
alexa seems utterly incapable of taking accountability for her own actions. at the first sign of criticism (real or imagined) she starts conflating any examination of her conduct with discrediting survivors as a collective. she assumes that any negative words against her must stem from an overall disregard for her and others' experiences of abuse and a general hatred of women. and yet she is quick to throw a young woman under the bus in an attempt to exonerate the man who groomed her as a child. what a terrible combination of projection and a persecution complex. i hope alexa gets the help she clearly needs, and that the young woman she betrayed is safe and able to heal from this situation.
@martymcflown3707
@martymcflown3707 8 күн бұрын
This made me so upset I was angry crying at a certain point yesterday (it's been a rough couple weeks), but seeing you and Adam and Kat dismantle whatever point Alexa thinks she's making with her behavior has been cathartic. Also my two closing thoughts: 1. I think having more "bite sized" videos in between deep dives when it's appropriate could be a good idea, especially if it's easier for you overall. 2. I was so distracted by your cat's leggies at like 29:16 I almost missed what you said.
@szt1031
@szt1031 7 күн бұрын
I’ve followed Alexa since 2021 when I first heard her story, watched her make eat predators and everything but this is truly despicable. I hope she can eventually get the help she needs and a semblance of self awareness to understand why what she did is unforgivable :(
@Katalina_K
@Katalina_K 6 күн бұрын
I don't understand how as a survivor, she doesn't feel the gut punch this is to anyone who was assaulted in the internet age. I have had things leaked- its devastating. Nowhere ever feels safe again. You don't know if people who you know, know the details of the worst nights of your life. The fact that alexa had the audacity to say she was being revictimized when she doesn't even understand the definition of that word is... it feels sick. It feels disgusting. It feels dirty. And somehow, someway, she just feels smug. That tells me everhthing I need to know about her.
@freethegays
@freethegays 4 күн бұрын
And the fact that she doesn't even begin to understand that she has also just "revictimized" all of the survivors who watch her and are now disgusted by her. Even the people we think are safe, who are advocating for us, trying to protect us, they will perpetuate gendered and sexual violence. It's fucked, and she is fucked.
@mindidilda602
@mindidilda602 7 күн бұрын
Thank you for covering this. I didnt want to give alexa the views but wanted to hear what happened. Appreciate your takes. Thanks for standing up for victims!
@mindidilda602
@mindidilda602 7 күн бұрын
The fact that these documents can be distributed is absolutely awful and shows the utter disregard the justice system has for victims. It is so hard to come forward to begin with and seeing things like this will discourage and dishearten victims in the future to come forward. Something needs to be done to better protect victims and their rights to privacy when speaking out on what has happened to them.
@jordanleighwheatley
@jordanleighwheatley 7 күн бұрын
I'm strapped in for this one. I left the Eat Predators community early this year because I started feeling sus. Thanks, algorithm, for bringing me here
@PenelopeAstony
@PenelopeAstony 7 күн бұрын
From one disabled person to another, happy to be here and I appreciate your work
@ophie-dokie
@ophie-dokie 7 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!!!!! 💕🥰♥
@caseymckenna7111
@caseymckenna7111 7 күн бұрын
I’m so glad to have found your channel. You’re the only person I see talking about this in any constructive way and it’s really necessary that we maintain this level of nuance and awareness in our collective conversations. Otherwise, all discourse gets swallowed by egotistical grifters and doesn’t count for shit. Keep at it. 💚
@HorrorGirlNat
@HorrorGirlNat 8 күн бұрын
A survivor who attacks other victims. I can't stand her.
@hoperenee_
@hoperenee_ 7 күн бұрын
between going on livestreams to attack people and releasing information, and saying repeatedly she doesn’t owe anyone anything, (but at the same time, everyone owes her everything), Alexa is the textbook definition of DARVO. She’s truly narcissistic and I hope SWOOP covers this and more people call her out. Alexa has put herself on this pedestal and has this “me me me” mentality while she has this sense of superiority and grandiose sense of self that she’s doing something to change the world. A red flag was when Jennette McCurdy released her memoir and Alexa’s attitude seemed to shift because she felt like wasn’t getting the same attention for her story as Jennette
@ethicalsoprano
@ethicalsoprano 7 күн бұрын
i'm catching up on this situation and...it's really just awful. throwing a victim under the bus to prop up a perpetrator is the farthest thing from advocacy and activism i can imagine. i commented on your swoop video about how experiencing trauma doesn't inherently enlighten someone. experiencing trauma means you're traumatized, and the only expertise it grants you is with your own trauma. and it really feels like alexa believes her trauma does mean she's enlightened, an expert, worthy of leadership. but it feels very clear she has yet to heal her trauma, constantly projecting her own experiences and only seeing her own perspective. i really do hope she is able to heal, for her own sake and for everyone else's. more than anything, my heart goes out to the victims of drake bell, in particular the one who is exposed in the document. to have gone through that abuse and trauma just to be disbelieved and used as props to "exonerate" their abuser...by an "advocate" and "activist" no less. it's nothing short of horrifying. they deserve peace and healing, and i hope they can find it in spite of all this.
@Dolphinboi
@Dolphinboi 7 күн бұрын
Do you believe that drake bell is a predator?
@supertrueblueful
@supertrueblueful 7 күн бұрын
Her mom and husband are enablers and display some of the similar behaviors that Alexa does as seen from the live chats and twit replies
@user-hr6lo8yt6x
@user-hr6lo8yt6x 6 күн бұрын
I don't think it matters if it was sealed or unsealed or previously sealed and unsealed through a FOIA request by someone else or whatever... It's not really the point. Alexa has made this survivor's trauma more easily accessible and publicized just for an attempt at a gotcha cause her ego got bruised. It's disturbing to me that someone claiming to be an advocate would think that's a good idea. I hope she loses any amount of good will she has left.
@ABigPeace
@ABigPeace 8 күн бұрын
I really don't get it. She could have declined answering Kats questions and non of this would be going on. Why drop the Drake files? what does it prove or do, other than make things more messy? She's not irrelevant, she's regrettable and theres a long list of people who'll say she is
@irradiated_woman8016
@irradiated_woman8016 7 күн бұрын
Imho, she's been nursing an ego injury since the time people started publicly leaving her organization (...or is it just a podcast?) and getting questions from a big journalist, being told she isn't much of a celebrity, and having some tweets ratio'd set it off in full force. Now she's just acting out some kind of shame-fueled rage, desperate to protect her self-image and punish the people causing her pain. It looks bad to everyone else, ofc, because healthy people don't experience this level of ego injury from innocuous questions and a bit of twitter snark... Or maybe not, I don't really know anything about anything. Just watching from my armchair.
@mariavalie8434
@mariavalie8434 7 күн бұрын
The fact that anyone DARED to question Alexa is why all of this happened (sarcasm). It's an ego blow to her that people don't just take her word for it even though she's been proven (even before this situation) to have spread harmful/misinformation. Any valid criticism against her as a person, she see it as an attack to her story as a survivor.
@JoF999
@JoF999 3 күн бұрын
Oooofff. Regrettable. 100%.
@wormlive
@wormlive 8 күн бұрын
I was gritting my teeth the whole last video dreading this outcome. It was naive of me to think this video wouldn't come but damn it came quickly. Thank you for defending the victim. I can not fathom how retraumatized SHE feels. I left a comment on Alexa's second drake video, pointing out she was hypocritical and used the CCR Feldman thing as an example. I deleted it since it seemed to get a few shame on you/kys every 5 likes and I'm Anxious so power to everyone like this making videos about her. She and her fanbase are bullies. 🥰
@Notyourflowergirl111
@Notyourflowergirl111 8 күн бұрын
your cat purring into the microphone is my favorite part lol so cute. i have no words for Alexa other than how disappointing this has all been.
@RamenKitsune
@RamenKitsune 8 күн бұрын
I'm just saying this is behavior is why no one wanted to be her friend on the set of Zoey 101.
@PenelopeAstony
@PenelopeAstony 7 күн бұрын
Hey! Saying this with all love! Alexa is being a HORRIBLE, HORRENDOUS, awful person right now. What she is doing is truly abusive and wrong. However, despite her actions NOW, as an adult, we shouldn't then go back to a time where she was a child, a victim of bullying, and re-contextualize her experience. She can be both a victim in the past, and a perpetrator of abuse now.
@bunnylacy2097
@bunnylacy2097 5 күн бұрын
An ad came up right after you said “and Micheal responded…” so it I heard “and Micheal responded… MEATBALLS.” Threw me off for a second.
@samwade9290
@samwade9290 7 күн бұрын
OPHIE the almost crying is sending me ☠️
@paracetamol725
@paracetamol725 8 күн бұрын
There are many things that Alexa isn't truly getting in my opinion. I stumbled over your coverage of that livestream yesterday and watched it. (Haven't watched your other videos about her yet, but will rectify that today.) But her attitude and what she said baffled me completely. The fact that she didn't even think that an abused could become an abuser... I don't know, that floored me tbh. It's a very childish and surface level worldview. The way she spoke to and about Adam also really didn't sit right with me. But people with a victim complex rarely think about how their actions affect others. That she now actually linked to this document... How low can you get, I don't understand it. How can she even dare claim that she's here for survivors? Let's be honest, she is very similar to CCR, just on the other side of the spectrum. But in the end they both exploit other people's trauma for their own gain. Wish I wouldn't be surprised but I only now fell down this rabbit hole. I truly hope the survivor is surrounded by good people and that she'll be okay. She doesn't deserve any of this shit. That it's also coming from people who are so much older than her and who still continuously revictimize her... I'm just baffled and angry. Edit: I only now finished the video and I do understand where you're coming from with the whole calling someone a survivor now feeling icky because of Alexa and everything she's done to sour it. But I personally am torn about it. Because I do prefer the word "survivor" over "victim". But I also want to acknowledge that it stems from my own issues and experiences. Nevertheless I thank you for your videos and I hope you'll feel better soon.
@BistrosHouse
@BistrosHouse 7 күн бұрын
Wow. That’s absolutely despicable. I was really rooting for Alexa when I first heard about Eat Predators and look where we are now. Yikes.
@PlainSight.
@PlainSight. 7 күн бұрын
Another great analysis Ophie and I’m glad to know there are other people who didn’t feel right going through the docs in that link Alexa posted.
@veestreams
@veestreams 7 күн бұрын
I feel kind of bad honestly. I think it’s becoming increasingly clear that she is not fully connected with reality. And I don’t mean that in a mean or armchair-diagnose-y way, I mean it seems clear that what she thinks this does and the reality of what this does are completely disparate. I don’t even know if she knows how bad this looks. This is kind of the natural end result of surrounding yourself with yes-men who co-sign everything you do
@Ratxmother
@Ratxmother 8 күн бұрын
‘I’m sure the 11 year old she acts like gets really lonely’ GET HER OPHIE💕 I’m looking forward to your retrospective on Alexa- I can’t believe this train wreck. And I agree with whatever your gorgeous kitty said.
@goddessofhardsolder
@goddessofhardsolder 8 күн бұрын
I am just going to say it. I cannot fucking stand Alexa. I watched a few of her streams earlier this year/last year. I had to turn it off because she just came off as childish and disingenuous. I HATE the ways she says “survivor” and the way she spells out “bad” words. The way she says survivor makes me cringe. I think she saw this whole thing as a steady job and a way to get famous again. I had to stop watching her because I realized that this was her revenge campaign for anyone who has hurt her. I am a grown woman in my 20s, married, and I have been assaulted by an older man and girl in my class in HS. I have been in therapy for 4 years dealing with things that have plagued me for many years. I don’t like to identify as a “survivor” partly because of how Alexa uses it and I don’t like calling myself a “victim”. She makes my deeply angry when she talks about people’s lives and events like she’s an expert. I also got so annoyed when she’d be talking about something serious, looks down at her screen and interrupts to read a super chat and thanking the chatter. Like, let your mod star the chats, talk about the segment, and then after read all the chats at once. It is so disgusting what she’s doing. I’m so glad that she’s finally getting called out for grifting off of other peoples traumas. She needs to get off of her cross and pick a new career field. I love Ophies videos and the realness that she brings to this topic. We need to call out shitty behavior regardless of if someone is a victim or perpetrator. One more thing: the comment Alexa made about the trauma certification or whatever, calling it a quiz… I literally laughed out loud. IMO she’s very uneducated and made it seem like an online personality quiz you do in HS with your besties.
@keturahstephen7577
@keturahstephen7577 8 күн бұрын
Shocked, but unsurprised. Alexa and her husband are shameless. Does this behaviour not contribute to victims not wanting to speak out.
@tmamone83
@tmamone83 8 күн бұрын
Okay, so I did look at some of the documents. Not all, but some, including screenshots of Drake Bell and Victim talking. We see Bell send her shirtless pics, even after she told him she was 15. Yeah, not a good look for him!
@dereineschwarzerabe
@dereineschwarzerabe 4 күн бұрын
After watching all the videos, a conclusion Ive come to is that Alexa really talks like a conspiracy theorist, for example; assuming Kat is mad at her for not reading an article and is out to get her specifically, the conclusion that people were paid in crypto to run a bot campaign against her shirt design, the assumptions that when her guess who streams, your conclusion will be automatically being on her side, and her constant effort in trying to make things about herself/being in the center of everything as if everything revolves around her. There's more things I've noticed but all that and her history with conspiracy theory leads me to think she may go down deeper that rabbit hole and it's concerning. It will make her even more dangerous to be around, especially with people in her life like her husband enabling her. I think this will get only worse and I worry for all the people she is targeting with her descent into this madness.
@manic_girl
@manic_girl 8 күн бұрын
I know that Alexa is clearly going through it, I understand more than anyone that recovering from trauma is not linear. That being said, her actions recently have disgusted me and she should be called out for it. She needs to get off the internet and reflect.
@joyfadele3104
@joyfadele3104 8 күн бұрын
Thank you I love your passion standing up for the victim ❤❤❤❤Jesus loves you
@ophie-dokie
@ophie-dokie 8 күн бұрын
I gotta say even having grown up fundamentalist and then grown away from that I don't think a "Jesus loves you" has ever hit me quite as hard, that's a really beautiful sentiment in this context and I appreciate it a lot. I do think there's something very Jesus Flipping Tables At The Church in the way I've seen a lot of others be angry at what Alexa is doing under the guise of feminism, I'm happy to be the one to give a voice to it on youtube because I know a lot of us feel this way. Thank you
@naebae9761
@naebae9761 6 күн бұрын
She lacks empathy and sympathy. It's giving narcissistic vibes. You can be traumatized but still turn into the bad guy. You can choose to use the traumatic experiences you go through to better your life and others or use it to traumatize others rather than healing. It's truly disgusting how she could retraumatize this poor girl and cry about a journalist retraumatizing her in the same breath.
@twilighterification
@twilighterification 7 күн бұрын
What I would like to know is, can she be in legal troublw for this? She is leaking information of what was at the time a minor? I'm Irish living in Germany so i have no clue of the American system but that would be illegal in Ireland 😮
@Beerambles
@Beerambles 7 күн бұрын
I feel like Alexa just needs someone that will actually tell her no on her team, It seems like everyone currently on her team just nods and praises whatever she says. She needs less yes man and more people that actually care about victims.
@mv9653
@mv9653 7 күн бұрын
The problem is that most of her staff that did tell her no ended up the subject of her guess who series.
@Beerambles
@Beerambles 7 күн бұрын
@@mv9653 What's her guess who series? Sorry i've never actually watched anything on her channel except this livestream.
@cowgirlgem666
@cowgirlgem666 7 күн бұрын
I just watched all of these today, and audibly gasped when this video was uploaded! Her journey of ego and jealousy has ruined any credibility she could ever have had, and now might have seriously harmed someone
@AshleyVibes23
@AshleyVibes23 7 күн бұрын
The fact that Alexa shared a link to a website says a lot. Honestly all she did was make matters worse by doing that. Cause the victims mental health could be seriously empacted by that and it only proves that Alexa only cares about attention not victims.
@ashleynicolecooke4386
@ashleynicolecooke4386 7 күн бұрын
You would think since she's also a survivor that wouldn't do this to a survivor.
@StonedHunter
@StonedHunter 8 күн бұрын
I honestly wish I could say I'm surprised...
@Notyourflowergirl111
@Notyourflowergirl111 8 күн бұрын
agreed.
@ultimatequeenofdeath666
@ultimatequeenofdeath666 7 күн бұрын
so much for her leaving the internet
@cherry_tonic
@cherry_tonic 6 күн бұрын
i genuinely cannot believe she released this just to get an "own" on someone that's not even involved in the case against Drake Bell. sickening.
@annakatie7347
@annakatie7347 6 күн бұрын
Alexa is the perfect example of what traumatized people who don't get the help that they need (& apply themselves to) can turn into. She needs intense therapy NOW, for her & her young childrens sake.
@obish4476
@obish4476 7 күн бұрын
disgusting that she did this. i’m glad you’re covering this respectfully. i was hoping she would step back and reflect before doing something of this level. i hope this victim/survivor is protected by those around her and has a support system. if she ever has anything like a gofundme in the future, i hope to come across it so i can support her. again, disgusting
@littlebighead4482
@littlebighead4482 5 күн бұрын
so it's 100% clear now that her "advocacy work" is a grift and a vanity thing forand had nothing to do with helping survivors, disgusting
@x.HoneyBea.x
@x.HoneyBea.x 8 күн бұрын
I had never heard of alexa before you but ive been learning about her through your video series. I used to think she was just one of those sad people who needs to make everything an attack on them to feel important. Now i think that she is a reprehensible person who needs to leave the Internet forever. She does not care about victims she cares about her status as a victim and the attention that gets her and will do anything to maintain that attention. She has committed a crime by doxxing and deserves whatever consequences come her way for that. Her crocadile tears piss me off and im so sick of her lies. Shes irrelevant now and she always has been, now she always will be.
@lunamayhem444
@lunamayhem444 7 күн бұрын
Something else I am confused about is, are THESE the documents she's referring to? Correct me if I'm wrong but didn't she tweet she had ALL the documents proceeding to the case? Is she admitting she exaggerated the amount of information she had access to to make herself seem more credible and thus her support for Drake Bell seem more justified? Or is she outing that she has access to leaked documents? Because what she showed on twitter might be publicly available technically but are the rest of the "documents"? Edit: Please correct me if I am misunderstanding the situation. Not that I would be surprised if I am, given how much Alexa contradicts herself.
@Annej-isnt-gomez
@Annej-isnt-gomez 7 күн бұрын
It sounds like she found a friend in Drake bell cause they have the same background
@TiredKnitter
@TiredKnitter 7 күн бұрын
One option for referring to the victim would be calling her Jane Doe.
@elisabethbrenner1425
@elisabethbrenner1425 7 күн бұрын
i never thought she would release the documents! this is sooo crazy!! it makes me sick you are 100% right how ever much harassment this poor girl is getting now it is on alexa
@TheJediMazter
@TheJediMazter 7 күн бұрын
Available to everyone "for public safety" So he admits it, bell is a danger to society?
@reneenoriega4524
@reneenoriega4524 8 күн бұрын
I don't know what to say, honestly. The fact that someone who claims to be prosurvivors, a victim advocate and what not, acting this way, throwing a tantrum like a child and doing to a young woman what she just accused a journalist to do to her, it's disgusting. I honestly can't believe how little self-awareness she has, and it's getting exhausting to watch her come back over and over to the internet and act like she has some sort moral high ground
@TheLastZombie
@TheLastZombie 7 күн бұрын
I'm really happy I found your channel. Your channel is fire 🔥 I am really disappointed in Alexa for putting survivors in danger, and then falling back on her own trauma as an excuse. It's so disgusting. Thank you for covering this - I used to be a paying member of eat predators because I believed in the movement. I support ALL survivors, for real. It's not OK to bully them and put them in danger. It's just so wrong and I have so much to say.
@drowsyfawn
@drowsyfawn 8 күн бұрын
God, I hate to ask because I feel like I SHOULDN’T KNOW but has anyone shared with you whether the “finsta” claim is mentioned at all in these docs? Asking because I noticed that the “she was communicating with him through a finsta and catfished him!” excuse ONLY started getting circulated once people saw pictures of the victim with Drake and were like there is no way in hell any adult would believe this girl was older even if she did lie, she looks like a literal child. So the “she lied about her age” excuse stopped working and they had to come up with a new one. Every time I’ve pressed a Drake Bell apologist on where they found that claim or to direct me to any evidence of it they stop responding. So my conspiracy theory was that Drake spread that rumor out of thin air himself by feeding it to his lil minions in his discord or something. All that aside though I just can’t say enough how disgusted I am with Alexa. Very Gabbie Hanna vibes with the perpetual victimhood for herself + utter lack of actual human empathy for others, where the trauma other people have been through is just like… something happening in a movie they’re watching or something, they can perform an emotional reaction to it but it’s not actually real to them. I cannot fathom how horrible and violating this must feel for Drake’s victim right now.
@ophie-dokie
@ophie-dokie 8 күн бұрын
confirmed with my Drake Bell Expert friend (@Crow_gift) on twitter that there doesn't seem to be any legitimacy to that claim as he makes it- she did message him at one point from a backup account after being blocked, but nothing that spins the narrative of "he thought she was fully a different person." He knew her since he was a little girl, he sent her a card for her birthday, when he asked her age it was "how old are you /now/" and he received photos of her (redacted in the documents, thank god) before she would come to his concert, so there's really just no way he didn't know. I completely agree he fed it and they all ran with it. I think he fed a lot of the lines Alexa said about him in that live too.
@lastilnovista
@lastilnovista 8 күн бұрын
this is so disappointing. so violent. 😞
@CaraMiaTish18
@CaraMiaTish18 6 күн бұрын
What got my attention is that she's saying she's in therapy three times a week but seems to only be digging in on her trauma (because as someone who was never believed I will give grace that she has some) and she seems to only be getting worse instead of healing. Maybe she needs to look at different therapy techniques because whatever she's doing 3 times a week isn't working. I failed talk therapy because it kept bringing my trauma up and I wasn't work through it so my psychiatrist said I need something else. One year later...stability is lovely.
@junji_cheeto
@junji_cheeto 7 күн бұрын
It's sad, really. I'm more and more disappointed by her inability to take even an ounce of criticism. As a survivor myself, the way she acts is not how I want to be represented. Smh. She really seems like one of the narcissists she's always squawking about.
@SwampCeeMcGee60
@SwampCeeMcGee60 6 күн бұрын
She's, in my opinion, a narcissist. Doing anything to deflect and be right, at the expense of others. Judging by her recent actions, she tries to put herself on a pedestal to get brownie points and applause and doesn't care about the people she claims. Her protests always seemed to be more of a performance than for the actual cause to me.
@Jem-ruby-0331
@Jem-ruby-0331 7 күн бұрын
Thank you for continuing to cover this topic… I always appreciate your thoughts and nuanced takes! I just signed up for your Patreon and I hope you get more members soon! Also thank you for calling Twitter, Twitter. It will never be “X” to me lol.
@Vaporwades
@Vaporwades 8 күн бұрын
Much appreciation for the coverage of this. I was somewhat a fan of Alexa in the sense that I enjoyed her lives as background noise at times in the beginning. At first she seemed like a fun personality and I related to things she had to say. I became a low level member around January or February. Maybe I'm wrong I forget when it was but I didn't stay a member for more than 1 month due to her discord blowing up into a huge mess because SHE made many mistakes surrounding that server and that was when I really was wondering who I was supporting so I cancelled my membership. Then quiet on set came out and she really messed up with the drake bell situation and I kept up with her just to give her the benefit of the doubt but she kept disappointing me. I liked her bc I am a survivor myself but the way she treats other survivors... It is really upsetting and I hope Alexa gets help truly and takes time away from social media but like... I'm done with her I've been done for a long time now.
@aubrey8673
@aubrey8673 7 күн бұрын
I have never heard someone say they’ve been defamed by an article that A, was never been released and two has been traumatized from basic questions Any reputable journalist would ask. She acted like these questions were directly to say Kat didn’t believe Alexa, But all they were was to get the full side of the story and get her response. Had she not come to her at all and publicize that article Alexa would’ve been mad because she would’ve said you never asked me any questions and didn’t get my side of the story but then she also gets mad when Kat gives her a chance to hear her side of the story, but takes it as a personal vendetta and says that kat doesn’t believe her. Make it makes sense because it doesn’t make any sense at all on Alexis part.
@BimmieJames
@BimmieJames 8 күн бұрын
There can be restrictions as well as redactions pertaining to documents one receives from a FOIA request. For example there may be a requirement to not publish or distribute those documents. It doesn’t mean that the documents you receive can be shared with anyone but they’re released explicitly to the one who requests them.
@brianalopez2245
@brianalopez2245 4 күн бұрын
SO REFRESHING TO WATCH AND HEAR. Thanks lol, that recreated "Alexa crying" bit was golden lmao
@lewilbur
@lewilbur 7 күн бұрын
F-ing thank you! You put everthing into context so well. I didnt know all of the twitter stuff. Alexa is a trainwreck. And it's all over the place. It's hard to keep track of it all... thank you for doing the hard work! 🙏 even though it's such a sh*t show 😅
@rhiannajd4412
@rhiannajd4412 7 күн бұрын
I think she has unbelievably high levels of trauma and possibly a personality disorder she’s not addressing. So, to deflect, she places blame on others.
@daniexists6
@daniexists6 8 күн бұрын
Holy fucking shit. I didn't realize Alexa would sink to this low.
@angeljoyart
@angeljoyart 8 күн бұрын
I just finished watching the previous video on Alexa 😮
@charlottedakin5765
@charlottedakin5765 8 күн бұрын
Same
@pixyreviews
@pixyreviews 8 күн бұрын
Same
@lif3onmar5
@lif3onmar5 7 күн бұрын
i’m genuinely confused as to why Alexa seems to desperately need Kat to read these docs and agree with Alexa about them? Like, Kat asked a question about Alexa flipping sides on Drake’s victim. Which would be information that a former eat predators member tipped her off to since she was forthcoming to Alexa about how she got the information to question her on. As deplorable as it is for Alexa to be grandstanding for Drake now, she easily could have said that she was given access to documents that she believes exonerates Drake. Instead, she basically said “i’ve seen everything about the case and I believe Drake. and also i’m objectively right about it so here is all the information so you can’t say that i’m wrong about this” and THEN went further to ask why Kat wouldn’t be including the documents? I’m confused, genuinely. Did she think that Kat would have written the article ABOUT ALEXA AND EAT PREDATORS, and then just thrown the documents into the article? Like she kept threatening to leak them and then did so anyways, but was she expecting Kat to publish them herself? or was she just expecting Kat to publicly say “I’ve read the documents and I agree that Drake did nothing wrong.”? genuinely i am confused by Alexa’s logic here. thank you for continuing to cover this!
@marseillesulfur2592
@marseillesulfur2592 7 күн бұрын
i got a bad feeling about alexa when i first watched her videos, but i chalked it up to just personal incompatibility or my trust issues w these kind of survivor “advocacy” adjacent influencers. I never wanted my feeling to be correct & this is actually beyond what i would’ve been capable of imagining. what a shitty person. Actually makes me so mad lol
@aroorooroo
@aroorooroo 6 күн бұрын
I don’t even know how to form into words how angry this all has made me. I appreciate you talking about this situation!
@mel2d2
@mel2d2 2 күн бұрын
Super happy to have found you through this. You’re a hugely refreshing voice on this platform. Thank you!
@deeray5756
@deeray5756 8 күн бұрын
Oh she's unhinged af
@ChristinePerez903
@ChristinePerez903 7 күн бұрын
This is very sad, it seems Alexa is only cares when it suits her. Her anger is blinding her and it’s already getting her in trouble. P.S your cat is very cute 🥰
@CerealXperimentsLain
@CerealXperimentsLain 6 күн бұрын
Saw some of your tweets about this and recognized your username - this whole story is NUTS and after reading ex-members of EP’s accounts of the situation it is pretty freaking clear that Alexa has been antagonizing survivors for a long time.
@mortal-enemy
@mortal-enemy 8 күн бұрын
I've been catching up on your Alexa videos since watching the last one. Wow. What a genuinely horrible person, like I'm stunned by how someone can just straight up suck this much. I've never seen someone so self pitying and recklessly self absorbed. He was convicted, I don't get why that isn't enough for her. Hasn't the victim been through enough?!
@ESPHMacD
@ESPHMacD 5 күн бұрын
By my research, to get a sealed court record you would have to file a motion for access, so there would be a record of that if you don’t get it from one of the parties involved. But even if they weren’t, to share them out like this is despicable. I can’t believe she thinks this would help her position. What’s that saying, you either die the hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villain. She actually leaked sealed court documents that were sealed to protect her, and ruined the entire movement of her whole eat predators movement. She has now become the thing she hoped to destroy. And it’s disgusting. I had long felt that Alexa had fallen prey to making her victimhood her entire personality and that awarded her the power to deem who was victim enough and who wasn’t, but this is on another level. This is shameful. To use someone else’s trauma to try to prove her point.
@FarkleBeans
@FarkleBeans 5 күн бұрын
As someone who has been the victim of a crime like this, and who ISN'T chronically online, I'm constantly baffled at the way people like Alexa treat others. She, and others like her, act like they're entitled to ALL the information, and entitled to SPREAD all the information, under the guise that it's about the victims. Well, if you actually cared about victims at all, you'd care about the impact of these details going around and around around to thousands of eyes and ears, about someone's most intimate, scary, private, traumatizing moments.
@ophie-dokie
@ophie-dokie 4 күн бұрын
Yes!!! thank you, completely agree. This weird feeling of like, "Just because I want to talk about it means I'm entitled to every detail of it and need to share it and that's Justified Reporting." It's something I think about a lot with my videos, esp when I'm talking about things where there are real victims with real stories, I try really hard to not sensationalize and not to share more details than I need to and especially not more details than I know the victim would want public.
@FarkleBeans
@FarkleBeans 4 күн бұрын
@@ophie-dokie Right? The humanity disconnect is so weird. Especially when any of these folks say it was public records, court records, publicly available documents, etc. Well, yeah, technically so is your address, but we've all kind of agreed it's not cool to doxx someone, but it IS somehow ok to give out the dirty details of a victimization?? - WILD.
@FarkleBeans
@FarkleBeans 4 күн бұрын
@@ophie-dokie To be clear, I'm NOT suggesting anyone be doxxed, or that it's ok to do that. I'm making a point that it's ALL bad
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