The Story Behind - That's What Love Is - Alexandra Kay

The story behind "That's What Love Is" by Alexandra Kay
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[@jazminsanchez5289]

The fact you did not sing the song you wanted to sing for your husband because you didn't want attention just shows how selfless you are! You are so genuine ❤

[@sarahh6476]

I am only 18 years old. I haven’t even had my first kiss yet but song touches my heart. when I think of my happily ever after this is the song that comes to my mind.

[@Mroot.]

I absolutely love this song! I wish it had come out before my husband and I got married because that song is literally our story as well. We have been together since high-school. 14 years so far, and we didn’t get married until we had been together for 12 years. And I fall more in love with him every day. I wish the same for you guys! True love is such a special wonderful rare thing!

[@bloomingkinder]

Yep been with my husband for 33 years your sole mate is out there amazing

[@bloomingkinder]

Night owl too wow your so beautiful found you tonight and I am going to your concert

[@ibnsarachnids9175]

This song brings me to tears every time i hear it. It's my wife and i life. We've struggled but have been by each other's side for almost fifteen years married now. You young lady are one of the reasons i love country music now. I used to listen to hard rock but its beautiful people like you that have changed my perspective on music. Thanks for reminding me of What Love Is! Keep reaching for your dreams. Wont be long and you will have all your dreams fulfilled. Take care. Ibnsarachnids aka rob

[@angelbozorics386]

Hey Alexander Kay, Do you remember I left you a message and said your was going to sing at my wedding? Wow! You did yours I do believe that is so awesome…… keep it you’re amazing

[@douglasvalerie4047]

I sent this song to my future daughter in law they just got engaged about a month ago I am so excited she is a beautiful girl

[@kaarinaroy5384]

When I meet my soulmate and best friend again which I'm still lookin for, from learning to love again I will use this song as a reminder of what is a dream forever lost in time so many yrs ago(I was with my soulmate and best friend for 21yrs(June 1994 - September 27th, 2015)he died but had he never did we would have used ur song as our engagement,weddin and probably 1st dance.

[@kendraflamont5762]

I absolutely love this song, my husband and I used this song for our first dance at our wedding in August of 2022 ❤

[@Deltadawg]

Many things stood out to me in this video but there is one thing you said that truly truly shows who you are as a person and it’s where you talked about your husband being a “Laborer”. The fact you have no shame in that in this world we live in where people are concerned with their identities, says a lot about you. The fact you would date a laborer, even though you could have married a doctor, says a lot about you and it also says a lot about him as a person. He must be one in a million. You are right, “that’s what love is”. God bless you both and never change.

[@tavillan30]

Your songs hit my heart deeply. Especially the ones about ur divorce. I hope i get to see u in concert someday. N meet u n person. It's like u sung my life story❤❤❤

[@mirandahoneycutt3335]

@alexandra Kay my husband and I are renewing our vows of 7 years November 5th and this is what I’m walking down the isle to!!!

[@alyseperez6018]

The songs written in a more personal way end up being the best ones.

[@cruiznforabruizntravelaust6141]

Luv luv luv this girls voice dont get much country music in Australia always surfing the web for great talent the girl has heapz of it 👍

[@rayanderson2989]

I love the song it's the best song ever for a wedding song and I'm going to use it at my wedding when I get married and I listen to the song on Pandora and on KZbin and I put it on repeat because I love it and it has a beautiful meaning to it.

[@kristynichole]

I wish this was available when i married my hubby. Our first dance was by Shaina Twain From this moment. If i renew my vows this will definitely be my the play list

[@denisesimon7175]

Hi Alexandra Absolutely love your story❤️!! You look and sound beautiful as usual . You are both very lucky to have found each-other. Thx for sharing your story and you are evidence of “No pain ,No Gain” Cheers to you both and your success with “Thats what love is” and all your music then, now and in the future”

[@kendraflamont5762]

This was my husband and I's first dance song❤️. I sang it to him as we danced . It was very special to me. Thanks so much

[@user-jc5dw3de1o]

Manifesting 3 years from now, this song will be my entrance song on my wedding day 🥹❤️

[@robertgoodwin7612]

First time I heard it I sent the song to my wife because it was so much you wrote it for us because it tells our meeting and being together I love the song

[@beckywilson8761]

I wish so bad that this song was around when I got married 10 years ago. I makes me cry literally every time!

[@laurapotter7251]

I really hope you know what an impact you are having on nor only Women going through hell, but relationships everywhere! I literally CAN NOT pick a favorite, God Bless you Alexandria, you deserve every bit of this ❤

[@GHOST-ey9ee]

You have made it 10 fold !!!! From Jolene cover to now hell ye 🤘🤘🤘

[@leslieosborne1604]

This was mine and my husband's first dance song and I'm glad I found it when I did, cause we didnt know what we was going to dance to or we going back and forth between songs. We got married August 15th this year and this song will forever hold a memory in my heart. Congratulations for all the memories you'll get with your song and thank you for writing this beautiful song!

[@crystalvigil7445]

❤ June 15th, we will be using your beautiful song for our first dance. Fits so well with everything we have gone through. Absolutely love it!

[@Desaree1]

She has 143k subs. 143 was my momma and I the way we signed everything we had given each other through life. Sense my momma died everytime I see 143 I think of her. Thank you because I miss her so much.

[@alexandrakaymusic]

❤

[@PUNISHER-uo2om]

You have the world's attention so go for it full tilt boogie reach for the stars you will make it big.... girl you have a voice that would make angels jealous.

[@debbiesmitherman9295]

Awww how sweet this song is ! I love it ! It’s certainly a song that will always be a big part of your life because you both did get married ! Each of you found your forever soulmate. I’m so happy that you found each other and are as happy as can be. This song should be played at other weddings !

[@sylviamarks1730]

So in love with this song... I told my fiance to listen to this when it came out to us and we will be using it in our wedding for our #firstdance in our wedding in November of 2022 - love you girl. Wish you guys the best, we have been thur same situations as well.

[@paulchristie9170]

This song is beautiful! It resonates with me and my wife and we’ve been married 40 years !!

[@DJDocStudio]

Night is also my most creative time as I'm an insomniac. You are such an amazing artist!

[@chairtymay_BlessedbyGod5023]

I absolutely love this song constantly plays through out the day just makes me realize no matter the ups and down there's still hope 🥰

[@haleighluzuall17]

Can’t wait to dance to this song on October 1st this year for my wedding in NC ❤️

[@cherylholland1031]

We are planning on playing this song on our 25th wedding anniversary and renewing our vows!! I met you in Jackson Mississippi December 7, 2022 and you said you would pray for me!! Thank you so much ❤️ I love you and your music and I am SOOO PROUD of you!!! If God willing, August 5, 2025, my husband Jamie and I will be married for 25 years!!! It truly would be a dream come true for you to be there and sing that's what love is on our 25th anniversary!!! Be safe sweetie ❤️ we love you!!!

[@brendonskittone9541]

Absolutely incredible story. Congratulations on the two of you together forever,and your new song!❤️

[@danielleharris7370]

I just listened to this song for the first time, and I definitely am considering having this as my first dance song at my wedding some day, I am not engaged yet, but my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years so I hope he proposes soon! I will keep you in the loop!!!

[@theresaward1758]

Why don't you ask him? You will never know unless you ask!

[@cathycharrier3546]

This is going to be my fiance and my first dance song. The wedding is on July 2nd. Thank you for the special song for my special day ❤️

[@Princ3sswolfi35]

I listen to it every night and day when I can't sleep you are the best girl 💓 your my biggest fan

[@Williamhand436]

I enjoyed listening to the story Alexandra that is a great song

[@robetap1911]

Wow ,good to know ,how the story started ,amazing,,

[@minionsquad7364]

This song is played on a daily between me and my fiancé we can’t thank you enough for writing such a great song I look forward to hearing her sing it to me for our first dance on our wedding day.

[@stevenrivera7861]

This is one of my favorite songs ever and I gave it to my cousin to somehow use in her wedding in 2024. Yes I’ll be using it too in some form. Much love to you Alexandra!! ❤️

[@bobsternvogel5550]

Very interesting and revealing look at the progress of the song, Alexandra! As I watch the video for "That's What Love Is", I'll be wondering about the original lyrics. Love you back!

[@megandorais5696]

Omg I just recently found you on tik too a couple months back and can honestly say I love you. This song is just wonderful and def a song I plan to play at my wedding. My future husband has known me for 24 years but been together for 2 years tomorrow. Please put out some more music. Can’t wait to hear what you do

[@2024pray]

Such a great story! Your blessed, I see you going straight to the top of Country Music!

[@jamesshuta8155]

Your a beautiful woman and love your voice

[@donnamcnatt9034]

love the song.. actually love alllll your songs. This one plays at my bar a lot!!

[@charleanemmasmom]

It's beautiful! Thank you!

[@maryrister1918]

I love your music! I have literally listened to all your music. You have an amazing voice and you are really beautiful as well. I'm one of your biggest fans! I LOVE this song! I can relate to this song. Thank you for creating such a beautiful song! Keep up the good work. 💞

[@billkurek13]

Found you on KZbin. Like 6 years ago I said please God. Have Alan Jackson , Trace Adkins , Kenny Chesney someone please save country music. Then you came along. Saving country music. You kno the music you listen to while getting ready. Country has gone way to long without feelings, love, and anger within ur songs. I guess what I'm saying YOU WILL SOON BE THE FACE OF COUNTRY MUSIC. Dolly, Reba, Faith, Shania, Trisha Yearwood, Leeann Womack. You belong on this list

[@minini5571]

Such a beautiful song!♥️

[@laurenceb8589]

🔥🔥🔥❤

[@andreeagleeson8216]

What a beautify backstory Alexandra!!! I love the song even more now!

[@alexhilton4657]

I love this song! Your amazing! I could listen to you sing all day!

[@bbarinva]

AK, this song has become very special to us, my girlfriend and I. She is also moving to be with me as she comes home from the military, hopefully very soon, instead of going home to her family. We’ve been talking and planning for her to come here when she got home but I had no idea that she was planning to come here and call it coming home. Even before I heard this beautiful song, I would think and even told Patricia, what you are doing, that’s love to me. Then of course, after hearing the song, I could write our own verses, to say the things she is doing for us, and to me, that’s what love is!! I’ve shared the song with her and it is just as special to her as it quickly became to me after hearing it. Thank you for putting into words what so many of us feel but struggle to find the right words sometimes!! See you soon!! ❤

[@dawnwoodard7710]

You're so amazing! I wish I could of used this on our special day. I walked down the aisle to George Strait's I cross my heart.

[@erintucker9984]

I love this song. You are so talented. I sent this to my husband and he sent me back a message saying this is us. If it had been around for our wedding this would have been a part of it.

[@ashleymays1117]

I walked down the aisle to this song in November ❤

[@amywaszeciak8879]

I love this video…. Please make more it’s nice to hear your stories and see your passion.

[@WhitFyffe]

This was my wedding song and I absolutely loved it and it made our day even more special❤

[@kengroves49]

Love this song 🎵 you are amazing congratulations

[@blbell007]

Aww i love this!! That's what love is is like one of my fav songs!!! I'm only 14 but i feel like im gonna use this song as my wedding song!! You're amazing!!

[@dodgedude908]

This song will be my fiancé’s and my first dance at our wedding on June 3rd. We both absolutely love this song because it describes our love story!! It’d really be something if you were to crash our wedding and sing it live for us!!

[@Kevin_Wheelz]

HI FROM MARYLAND 👋🏼 Enjoy all your music!

[@trentblair4682]

Love this!

[@bruceschamus4834]

Love all your songs

[@douglasvalerie4047]

It’s a beautiful song

[@user-kp9gn5oo2v]

Tons of love 🩷

[@ilandraventer9304]

Hey Alexander Kay i love that song i am going to use it on my special day which is going to be so special thank you for that

[@JaimeBostic]

❤

[@realeewright6877]

It is really pretty song alexander kay

[@biggin3863]

I wished I could meat a person in life as beatufull as you are inside and out

[@ilandraventer9304]

You are amazing

[@donnacosey]

My husband and I have been together for 24 years and it resonate

[@bethanyerb2898]

I am going to use this song walking down the aisle he doesn't know but I listen to it all the time

[@petergall8163]

you are the best

[@lexieallen8973]

I plan on walking down the isle to this song or it be our first dance song

[@aubreemcclennen92]

Again literally obsessed

[@jessicalehman2115]

I'm using this song for my wedding in August!!🩷

[@ANDREASanchez-ph7cy]

😊😊

[@bethanystrickland2140]

Hey Alexander kay I love all of your music but my favorite is this one. I want to play something for my big day and I am hoping to see if you can work one up for my fiance and I. We have been together for 4 years this December. We are both truly happy and deeply blessed with one another. I just can't seem to find a love song. I don't want to take yours because that is what you and your husband have together. Can you please help??? Your fan 🤗

[@marakim7039]

Is it normal to decide on a wedding song despite being a "no boyfriend since birth" lady? Coz I absolutely love this song. Advise are highly appreciated. Thanks so much🥰🥰

[@addison3891]

Hi I live in waterloo to

[@paulbennett1538]

That was so moving also I keep getting messages from someone on TikTok claiming to be you and offering concert tickets if it is you please reply to this comment thanks

[@hopefaith3705]

Will you please link the Netflix show or movie you was talking about... Please link it below 👇

[@__-bc4bs]

Cute, But I’d never move to CA.

[@djjoep100]

We use to live in a Studio apt. Me and my x And at night time I use to put pillows in the bathroom door and do my DJ music And when I come home from work she'll be leaving to go to work AK your birthday is September 5th mine is September 27th you know what people say oh we have a lot in common this is like kind of like us. She left me because maybe I wasn't making enough money for her I always live a happy peaceful life so she divorced me I said no worries no problem I will just move back to Harrison new York this happened 10 years a go i am happy being by myself ok ak friends forever love you ❤

[@dee4174]

Are they still together?

[@crystallake5315]

Sadly no. This just popped up on my FYP and I just went through all her videos. They split up.

[@brittanygunter6682]

Are you guys still together because I never hear you talk about him anymore or never see you wear your wedding ring in your video's

[@RavenlovesElvisPresley]

Ikr. I'm still wondering

[@nicolemarie1909]

Nope getting a divorce

[@brittanygunter6682]

@@nicolemarie1909 a divorce is this even Alexandra

[@arimansell2470]

I was hoping to hear the song when I clicked on this, and not some story about buying a couch!

[@donaldhopkins5360]

But are you still married now

[@kassikeller4559]

Sadly no they are getting divorced

[@sergeipepper7213]

I love this song but I don’t think I can watch this

[@saraandmikeyvlogs364]

Wow this is how me and my fiancé started out at with a mattress on the floor and all and now we have everything we need now been two years already we came so far

[@user-kp9gn5oo2v]

The point where she says, he supports in everything I do & that's where she knows he's the one for sure is so touching🫀🩷!! your song is so apt about love, it's truly about going through life together either it's raining or daylight, supporting each other that's what love is :") 🩷 money can't buy everything when you love wholeheartedly is priceless & priceless!!🩷

[@crystallake5315]

The sad part is that they got divorced after this....

[@jadedefilio498]

I got married 06/24/23 and we used it for our first dance song…. 🩵 we live in a one bedroom apartment and this spoke to us perfectly.