Why Your Ex's Rebound Will Never Measure Up

[@marguskiis7711]

Women hold their rebounds very long to show to their ex they are more successful.

[@robertsaunders9267]

If they heal no issues, if they rebound no chance. That shows me weakness.

[@nickyj2657]

My ex been with her rebound for 15 months, it must be working ok

[@KenuDRoger]

And how have you been on those 15 months, bro? Did you improve? If not, you should move on and work on yourself. You don't know what's happening in their daily life, so we don't know if they are in a good relationship. Focus on your self bro, keep praying and find someone better if you haven't yet. I'm watching this not to get my ex back, but I want to know if she will also feel what i felt when she shattered my soul

[@nickyj2657]

@@KenuDRoger trying to improve for myself. Sort of moving on but still want her back

[@AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh]

You may not have to improve yourself,you was good enough for her then,you just have to decipher,if she's just using you to get over a past trauma.

[@nickyj2657]

@@AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh together nearly 6 years, long time to try and get over her past trauma

[@LionKing-ue2zd]

​@@nickyj2657She s not deserve you!Go on fix your head bro!

[@IKTXIII]

Think it will last, not a happy one, probably will be toxic but it will last, probably a few years give or take, she (29) rebounded after 10 yrs together with me to a guy she met for just 2 weeks (June 2024), 1+ month later she's already pregnant, so the guy technically cannot just go and leave her since they already made sure their family know about each other with in a month. Here in the PH your life would be in danger if you just got up and leave, so yeah she's now his problem. Dodged a bullet.

[@AnthoniaElijah]

My ex came back to me few days ❤ago got help from a Relationship Restore Dr Wilson who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg. for a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

[@AnthoniaElijah]

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[@AnthoniaElijah]

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[@Gawdmannyy]

My gf for 4 years left me a month later she dating a new guy. She says she's really happy and in peace now.she doesn’t care about me anymore. She blocked me. How do you move on from a 4 year relationship that fast? She's now getting high, she thinks this man is perfect he's Dominican too I know he giving her drugs and her new friends too. I'm worried about her because she's a good girl. But she changed a lot. I work out im in last year of college plus I work for a business company I go to church. everyone is telling me she will regret it but time will tell I guess..even her own dad. I pray for her to be safe & be happy. I messed up before in the past but I changed to be a better man for her. I got karma maybe I deserve it.. but it broke my heart she found someone already.. a good friend of mine told me “ she believes you’re not the one for her when you are in your bad moments. So she doesn’t deserve you at your best.” how do you feel about this?

[@ItsJustAdrean]

You stop worrying about her and count her as lost. Give it a few months to a year of working on yourself. It sounds like she is no good for you anyway. Mine left me for a 36 year old ex military possible alcoholic with a dead wife who looks like her and started smoking weed with her friends. I'm not sure which is worse

[@AnthoniaElijah]

My ex came back to me few days ❤ago got help from a Relationship Restore Dr Wilson who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg. for a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

[@AnthoniaElijah]

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[@AnthoniaElijah]

Massage him from help right away📲

[@Gawdmannyy]

@@AnthoniaElijah how??

[@user-es6px6rd9d]

Is this still true if the ex said they were disconnected and lost attraction months before the breakup? Also we had a really toxic multiple day breakup where I learned they already rebounded before the breakup and lied to me i kept calling them a liar cheater and whore and they kept telling me everything I did wrong and how they never loved me

[@user-es6px6rd9d]

I feel like we had a meaningful relationship but apparently they didn’t feel that way they told me I was just a keychain idk if they meant it or was just the breakup talking

[@FrankyboyFloyd]

An avoidant should be happy with a rebound, no? Is it not a superficial relationship without intimacy they want?

[@blackcatdaily1774]

I’m an avoidant and I got into a rebound relationship and it was great at first because it was superficial but after a while, i didn’t want it to be superficial anymore and that’s where things turn bad because I didn’t realise it didn’t actually like that person but i idealised them

[@whiggygirl]

​@blackcatdaily1774 thanks for explaining. How long roughly did it take, before you realised?

[@blackcatdaily1774]

@@whiggygirlVery typical of a rebound, 6 month honeymoon phase until I wanted to grow and when I suggested growth, we both quickly realised we don’t have the same goals. By 7th month it was a mutual chore to keep the relationship alive.

[@whiggygirl]

@blackcatdaily1774 thank you. I don't want him back, but I do want him to realise what he's done, and hurt the way he hurt me. It's only fair

[@cmbbfan78]

What if the new partner of the ex (rebound relationship) is a pathological narcissist? How do this fact can change the story?

[@DavidCoertzen-o2u]

Ex went into rebound 6 days after the breakup. They are moving in together after 10 weeks or knowing each other.

[@uno5976]

I reached out 2 time in 2 week post BU to my DA ex. Am I doomed?

[@youtubeaccountserio2633]

Never reach out when then turn on DA, no contact

[@uno5976]

@@youtubeaccountserio2633 I will not reach out again, but the seconde discard when she told me she was working on herself to not doing that again was crazier then the first time

[@bmore9088]

Been with my wife 17 yrs married for 4. Affair in the marriage. I couldn't get past it. Our relationship became toxic and we were up and down but more down because she wasnt putting in any effort. She made me out to be the problem all the time. Now were separated going to divorce. She was already talking to someone months before she ended it and junped right into a relationship with this dude. Shes hiding it but i already know what it is

[@bmore9088]

Two daughters and a home together. Separated all of our accounts as well. I'm going through all the pain and heart ache and she's out here living it up

[@AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh]

If shes left,its because of her ,not you,stop giving patience and control to a person who never cared.

[@AnthoniaElijah]

My ex came back to me few days ❤ago got help from a Relationship Restore Dr Wilson who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg. for a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

[@AnthoniaElijah]

*@✛37282247778👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的*决定*令人高兴。

[@AnthoniaElijah]

Massage him from help right away📲

[@RobertJones-et7gh]

Dear friends. Videos that assure you, that ALL rebounds will eventually fail, are lying to you, and are giving you false hope. There are plenty of rebounds that do work. Apparently most don’t. But “most” is not “all.” If you were dumped by your ex, and are hoping that their rebound relationship fails, that’s understandable. But don’t count on it. Sometimes, in the eyes of the rebounder, the rebound is a genuine upgrade from their previous mate.

[@TheIrishRossonero]

What if your ex started dating their best friend?

[@nickyj2657]

@@TheIrishRossonero mine was a co worker so sort of a friend but dating your best friend is low

[@TheIrishRossonero]

@@nickyj2657 you think man? im interested in your point? im trying to figure things out, im a little like this is fucked haha

[@basicinfo2022]

If he's narcissist, he will eventually discard her too when he finds a new supply.

[@TheUnderdogg666]

Identify her in you head like a cheater because she hided thing from you that she though about dating him while you where together and you trusted her. Second option it will break after the honeymood period because she didn't process or grieve the old relationship correctly

[@TS-zl7wl]

What if the rebound is a years long friendship they've had? Still failing?

[@TheUnderdogg666]

Identify her in you head like a cheater because she hided thing from you that she though about dating him while you where together and you trusted her.Second it option will break after the honeymood period because she didn't process or grieve the old relationship correctly

[@shaneschnyer7817]

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