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@sharptoothtrex4486 Жыл бұрын
As a special needs man, it is best for me working with a Toronto Ontario company protecting all special needs men and women, including sexually harassed women as that option I explain as an example and reason. The truth is no employer in any multi-million dollar company shall ever criticize, objectify, including harass, belittle, intimidate, infringe, and transgress any special needs man or woman in anyway shape and form, including me. This is because I rather work in a unionized, truthful, loyal, honest, and reasonable multi-million dollar Toronto Ontario company even as a special needs man.
@Mr.Majestic779 ай бұрын
How about being unjustly being called out in front of other co-workers by a higher ranking executive?
@panglingaow9 ай бұрын
Yes, this is how I feel I've been working for the county for 20 years and it's so abusive I don't give a s*** about my benefits or seniority anymore I worry about my health and I don't give a s*** if I lose money
@t.terrell70376 ай бұрын
I’d love some feedback…taught for over 20 years then left when Covid began…only returned because couldn’t find a job that paid enough for me to find an apartment (long story, had to find housing after an accident). Car died 4 weeks ago and I tried every mode of transport to get me there for the last month of school. Bus puts me 4 miles from destination and walking wouldn’t get me to work on time, biking is dangerous because I won’t have access to any sidewalks, scooters are a no go for same reason and poor terrain. Tried asking coworkers but none live near me and I’m just not that person to reach out to everyone because people can be quite flaky. Literally asking myself if I should resign at end of year because car sharing will end up eating up my check long term 5 days a week to and from and I don’t know when I’ll get another car. Is this a deal breaker or am I missing something that might work. Thanks!
@Louis76-z3i3 ай бұрын
My job has me on anti depressants.
@DCamp12713 жыл бұрын
You know it was a toxic job when you quit and you know you're about to go through serious financial upheaval and yet.....you have no regrets.
@tamjeanell3 жыл бұрын
Start your own business...start with what you are good at...
@justsnappy3 жыл бұрын
*no regerts!*
@vi_EviL_iv3 жыл бұрын
True but I think one can just sabotage themselves to get fired and get unemployment to at least have some income till one can find something better.
@TonTreyMarc3 жыл бұрын
Heard that!
@Celdria5223 жыл бұрын
@@tamjeanell then I'm fucked, I'm not good at anything. I don't even know what I want to do, even though I'm almost 30...
@Tflyisme Жыл бұрын
When looking back, I've never regretted leaving a job, but I have regretted staying too long.
@finn3102 Жыл бұрын
Wiser words have never been spoken.
@andreynesterov1116 Жыл бұрын
100%!
@NeilParmar-sw5yv Жыл бұрын
So true
@unnatigupta8141 Жыл бұрын
Can I quit a job in 2 months?
@finn3102 Жыл бұрын
@@unnatigupta8141 What is your overall situation? Yes, but you can also quit today. From my personal experience there is never really going to be a good time to quit. The longer you stay there, the harder it may become to quit. When things are super bad at a particular job, and you are filled with anxiety. Can't sleep or eat properly etc.. It is best to just leave. I recently quit a toxic job, with no backup or another job lines up. I have zero regrets.
@8mmel3 жыл бұрын
''People don't quit jobs, they quit bosses''- Simon Sinek Exactly why I quit my last job.
@MusicByAllonaMayost3 жыл бұрын
Me too. I liked my security job at Parliament, but I was crying on my way home every day because of my boss.
@justingillespie84103 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@timboslice37553 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@spice37673 жыл бұрын
That’s a great and true quote 👍👍👏👏
@Clintsessentials3 жыл бұрын
Yep
@tbc9096 Жыл бұрын
Sign #6: you’re watching KZbin videos everyday on why to quit your job. 😂
@JELew-yk3bm Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I'm on my way to my job now watching this...I hate this job....my energy just goes down knowing I have to go in.
@bbqueen93 Жыл бұрын
Welp. Ya got me lol
@moxie86 Жыл бұрын
I hate my job sooooo much!
@toluwalopeolatunji Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@UndeadChallenges10 ай бұрын
I already got a new job, just trying to find out how to try to get out of wrongful quitting
@Melanated_Introvert-sm9ok2 жыл бұрын
Mental health is far more valuable than ANY job I learned that the hard way.
@nishthajain142 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I needed to hear this.
@veemann55422 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@saleens3302 жыл бұрын
Too bad it doesn’t pay the bills though…
@LS-bw7jt2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today. Thank you
@quingregg66432 жыл бұрын
I also learned it the hard way. 😭 I worked in a dead-end job right in half years... I left that job and end up getting a commercial driver's license
@bd38253 жыл бұрын
I quit my job this morning. No prospects. I can go a few months without a pay check. That's the beauty of saving. I feel so liberated. When I breathe I can actually feel the pressure released from my body.
@HeadHunterSix3 жыл бұрын
Don't you just love it? I did the same thing - this past Friday was my last day. I realized I had enough saved up to equal a year at my current rate of pay (and then when I compared it to my take home it was even longer), by which time I can cash out my pension savings. If I am smart with my money I can last until May 2023, which gives me plenty of time to look for a good job without having to settle for the first thing that comes along.
@mxbx3073 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking about doing this, or at least taking an unpaid sabbatical. Fed up of my very line of work and don't even want the same role at another employer. I want a complete change but at 34 years old it's too late. You will be competing with 21-22 year olds fresh off the boat as it were.
@HeadHunterSix3 жыл бұрын
@@mxbx307 I made a complete change at 48. I had never worked in banking before and before I was 50 I had a position I really loved - until new leadership let accountability slip and toxic personalities have their way. Believe me, 34 isn't too late by far. One thing you've got that no 22 year old kid does, is years of experience in the work force. Even if it's not directly related to whatever you do next, kids that age are green and while they might be very well educated they're yet to learn how to apply work skills in the real world.
@Toreythegoat3 жыл бұрын
Facts. ✊🏾😂💯
@joserodall73213 жыл бұрын
Same situation. Presented my letter as "health reasons" , which is not entirely a lie, I was suffering from chronic back pain that wasn't letting me sleep at night, but truly, I just didn't want to be there another second, all boxes above checked. Hope you find something better.
@chimsseh55233 жыл бұрын
When you need to console yourself everyday in the morning right after waking up
@SusanLynn6563 жыл бұрын
I agree. It is soul destroying so you try to make up for that.
@pinklight9113 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Every morning asking the Lord for strength to get through the day!!! I literally wakeup 30 minutes earlier than schedule just to do this. Thinking of my toxic manager and how to avoid him. 😔
@childfree833 жыл бұрын
Yep lots of rotten attitudes in the work place it can be so toxic. Sometimes you just have to make a change and get out of there and find non rotten people to work with and for.
@yoongis.tangerine3 жыл бұрын
i cannot count the days that i wished that the office will accidentally collapse overnight so that we can't go inside
@EphemeralProductions3 жыл бұрын
boy have *I* been there!
@leonardocosta718810 ай бұрын
In my opinion, if you're thinking about resigning without another job offer, it's already enough
@Cwgrlup Жыл бұрын
I’ve never had a problem leaving a bad job. People need to learn their worth. If you got hired once, you can get hired again.
@SPDATA1 Жыл бұрын
True, for me, too.
@dm-jf5uu Жыл бұрын
True.
@richardhead3211 Жыл бұрын
hell yeah and i do NOT give notice
@ozzayyyy Жыл бұрын
@@richardhead3211 how do you keep up with bills tho lol
@richardhead3211 Жыл бұрын
@@ozzayyyy get another job
@feefee86273 жыл бұрын
Micromanaging and lack of appreciation is a good reason to leave a job😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡👎👎👎👎
@ALifeAfterLayoff3 жыл бұрын
100% agree.
@zunaiandre23413 жыл бұрын
Healthcare
@Lavenderlight13 жыл бұрын
I simply tired of it
@thesisypheanjournal12713 жыл бұрын
I actually got *chewed out* for doing good things! I told management that "Raymond," an obese and chronically constipated man who lived in one of the group homes, had made a beeline for the produce section and picked out asparagus and bok choi, saying he wanted to have them again, and chose a head of napa cabbage, asking if we could try it. This got me scolded for "forcing" Raymond to eat foods I liked! What part of "He picked out the vegetables and asked if we could buy them" were they missing?
@shutit40243 жыл бұрын
Working during this virus.. had a coworker that had it and my other co workers almost caught it, we were/still overworked, got chewed out, have 1/2 rude coworker and still no hazard pay or Atleast a Christmas bonus my one coworker quit on the spot after she witness some things, and after that cut my hours down due to “ lost of money” which is a lie we have been getting more money since the virus and still, so I’ll be handing in my 2 weeks notice in 2 weeks
@eldesgraciado66902 жыл бұрын
Quitting is beautiful when THEY are not expecting it.
@RosDC2 жыл бұрын
I love that!....It's the best feeling in the world! THEY think they are running a person's life and career....NOT!
@judithakatugba25382 жыл бұрын
The sweetest thing
@ginnyrust68742 жыл бұрын
I’m in the middle of a 2day board meeting and I am going to quit at the conclusion of the meeting. For the past 2 months I’ve lived through a toxic queen bee office set up and a totally unapproachable crappy boss. My health has been completely affected. I don’t know how anyone could be successful in my position.
@eldesgraciado66902 жыл бұрын
@@ginnyrust6874 Don't do it. The best thing you can do is this: For the next two weeks, wake up very early, be the first one there, and DO ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING that they require you to do. Go "above and beyond", even be respectful and passive with your enemies. Be what THEY WANT YOU TO BE, then "SUDDENLY" QUIT. It's the best revenge. (****Because if they see you angry and not performing, you're actually doing them a favor by quitting.)
@BC-po7db2 жыл бұрын
@@eldesgraciado6690 this is exactly what I'm going to do. It's going to be sweet !!
@KGBPov Жыл бұрын
I quit a toxic job recently. There was someone who had a seizure and he came back a few weeks later. Fast forward he ended up in hospice and passing away about a month after that. The company replaced him almost immediatly and they even ended up SELLING company. Moral of the story, Do what you love. Life is too short.
@fluffytail6355 Жыл бұрын
I’ve always said the job doesn’t care if you live or die so long as the work gets done, if not by you then by someone else. While your family is making funeral arrangements, your job posting will be accepting applications. Your boss doesn’t care that you’re gone.
@marlenafina3481 Жыл бұрын
😢That could be me. That could be any of us really. You are just a number to them, a set of hands. They care not one iota about any of us and we're all absolutely replaceable.
@ttx3 Жыл бұрын
The abovementioned story is the essence of capitalism. The old ‘no hard feeling, it’s just business’ cynical saying. Sick system
@Faithandseekerofchrist10 ай бұрын
Back in August of 2023, a coworker I was working with was having stomach issues and they found out later on that she had masses in her stomach and then she went into organ failure a month after going on medical leave. I was one of the last people to find out that she passed away and my boss called my dad telling him and my dad ended up telling me that she passed away. I was upset because because everybody else knew before me and my boss couldn't even tell me himself. Soon we had a memorial service at our job while customers were still there. My manager was going on about how "we are a family". In one shift my manager was saying about how my coworker would have wanted for us to go on and to keep improving our sales goal. When your boss says that you guys are family, that is translation of you're only as useful to was until you're not! Your boss is not your friend and most the time your co-workers are sheeps in wolves clothing looking for a chance to get you fired so they can have your position! Not long afterwards, I noticed that things were not the same and afterwards, I would say maybe 2 weeks to a month later we started seeing more new employees. November 2023 I got injured and had no other choice but to go on medical leave because my injury that was unrelated to work and it was so bad I was having excruciating numbness and tingling and then I started getting crippling anxiety from the pain and I was also thinking about how I let my boss and my coworkers down. My mom basically ended up being my caregiver until recently now that I am recovering. My mom went to my boss to hand them a doctor's note and said to him that if I do go back then I can't be climbing ladders for the next couple months and he told her that if I can't climb ladders and not 100% better than I shouldn't come back. I realize from that point on, I started questioning if I really wanted to work there anymore because it's not like I was asking for much other than not climbing ladders because it is a retail shop. Also corporate has gotten more greedy and before I got injured I started getting increasingly bad anxiety and depressive episodes. It's so strange that basically three or four of the five years I was working there, bad things with randomly happened with my health where I would either end up in the hospital or in a mental institution.... I'm pretty certain that even if I do decide to go back then I need to start putting my physical and mental health first and I'll probably be job hunting. I don't care if it pays less at this point because my job put so much stress on us to sell unrealistic sale goals and when we don't meet them, a lot of my co-workers end up losing hours. When my boss is not here, we have to fight in order for the managers to get us $5 bills and then we get yelled at by customers when things are out of our control. Then we have to take a monthly course about stealing when their rules literally say that there is nothing we can do about customers stealing even not even calling the police despite seeing evidence that they are stealing. Why should we have to suffer for something we can't control? We even have to wear clear purses or bags and be patted down. I work in a retail store not a security place! They are also the type of business that believes the customer is always right no matter what!
@JoeBob1896 ай бұрын
@ttx3 What? That is not capitalism. Capitalism is where the individual owns the means of production. How is the original story in line with capitalism? Go work at the DMV (government job) and see if you get treated any better. You are complaining about human nature, and somehow attributing it to capitalism. It makes no sense.
@LuisGarcia-te5cr3 жыл бұрын
High turnover is a sign that you're in a bad situation.
@brittanycaldwell1343 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@vaderladyl3 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah!
@georgevavoulis47583 жыл бұрын
Also watch out for miserable people
@mjc427013 жыл бұрын
I went through that, it is also the sign of a narcissistic employer.
@lifecloud23 жыл бұрын
I forgot to mention above that two people had quit the job I talked about just before I got hired. One was there for two years, the other a matter of months. I didn't see the red flag at the time.
@chillydawgg43542 жыл бұрын
When you go home, it takes so long to relax from the stress of your day that it ruins your night too & you know the next day will start the stress all over again
@betsybarnicle8016 Жыл бұрын
This is a good description of a get-out-immediately job.
@BG-mn6di Жыл бұрын
Spot on.
@thomaswykes3647 Жыл бұрын
Muttering and chuntering yourself to sleep leads to waking up in the middle of the night. You go to work tired and then repeat
@Martin-88 Жыл бұрын
Then you think about it at bed time and dread the next day. It's a never ending cycle of doom.
@johnpastore7685 Жыл бұрын
@@Martin-88 yes,. I am one person that will do something about, too. I am very patient and try to stay calm, with humor, or handling things, with out blowing up. But, sometimes, things get out of hand.
@evilrslade3 жыл бұрын
99.9% of HR departments/staff are there to protect the company, not help the employee in any way. They'll help you out the door. That's it.
@Nekole13 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@nlibby55493 жыл бұрын
💯
@farmoboy833 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Just a part of the company that knows how to use the law to smash even more the work force
@benyang20812 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@MsMtwardy2 жыл бұрын
Amazon HR for sure
@aisle_of_view Жыл бұрын
When Sunday evenings are a source of dread and existential contemplation.
@dayinibatrisyia54245 ай бұрын
Felt that in my soul
@MrBratkenSolov4 ай бұрын
the what?
@markbrowning43344 ай бұрын
I know that feeling all too well.
@TheAllisonLab3 ай бұрын
*_Every_* Sunday 😓
@jeremyvanb8213 ай бұрын
It’s that 60 minutes clock on that news show…yeah I used to hear that as a kid and I hated school so that ticking clock just filled me with dread. I get that same feeling as an adult on Sunday night. It sucks and fills me with so much anxiety. My job pays well but it’s so stressful and so much stuff that should be simple just aren’t. Why can’t I just print a purchase order and it not be a dang 5 minute process. This should be a click click situation but it just isn’t.
@yokiryuchan76553 жыл бұрын
People often feel guilty about leaving a job because they don't want to disappoint their boss or co-workers, or they feel like they are screwing the company over or what if they can't find someone to fill my spot etc. but here is the thing, if the tables were turned, and getting rid of you helped their bottom line, they would do it in a heart beat. Your employer is not your friend. Your employer is not a charity. They don't pay you out of the kindness of their hearts. They pay you because you work for them. Your relationship is transactional. You owe them nothing other than the hours you work and that's it. Most companies will even throw loyal and seasoned employees under the bus to save their bottom line. It happens all the time. So NEVER feel guilty about leaving a job.
@alexanderpetrenko5393 жыл бұрын
I realized this at 32, changed the whole way I started looking at things. They really view you as an interchangeable cog.
@Native7223 жыл бұрын
Or disappoint family
@violentnewworld3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I sell my labour to them. They do not own me.
@MikeKay19783 жыл бұрын
I feel bad about losing my pay check.
@thlg2jr3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I needed to see this
@annaconsta3 жыл бұрын
Don't stay in a toxic environment. It gets you physically ill. Happened to me.
@yosy193 жыл бұрын
Agreed! I developed IBS and my knees gave out from all the pent up stress and anxiety at my old job. I got laid off and both those things went away or got immediately better.
@annaconsta3 жыл бұрын
@@yosy19 i am glad you got better! I developed an auto-immune disease. When i was in that hell i quit before finding a new job. I eventually found a good job where i am treated like a human being. But i still have to live with the disease. Oh well. At least i am in a nice place now. Take care!
@FireAnt3763 жыл бұрын
Did you work at Walmart?
@annaconsta3 жыл бұрын
@@FireAnt376 No. I worked at a corporation famous for printing equipment and lap tops. The one with a blue logo. Or "How Pathetic". They really treat employees bad, despite their good reputation.
@FireAnt3763 жыл бұрын
@@annaconsta funny, Walmart has a blue theme too, maybe we're onto something...
@karenwallace58553 жыл бұрын
Those bad bosses are usually narcissists. They don't treat everyone badly. They pick and choose their victims. I think that must be why most people do not see it. Only the victims of their abuse.
@gregoryvierra61143 жыл бұрын
Woah! Thank you for this! I just dealt with this scenario and quit.
@JMLRetroRoom3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had that happen to me.. they thought because I was quiet and kept to myself that I was considered weak. Little did she know you don’t mess with a Sagittarius! And funny enough, I know how to argue back with a calm voice and demeanor so I don’t get myself in trouble.
@kellyroberts72683 жыл бұрын
So true 👍
@lifeandmorechannel29873 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. I was a victim.
@Nepthu3 жыл бұрын
100% They're bullies and bullies don't pick on everyone, only the people who are too soft to fight back.
@TheFixer1965 Жыл бұрын
Another problem is that you really can't talk about a toxic job you just left because potential employers will think you're just a whiner and won't want to hire you. There seems to be no way to expose these companies and their bad management practices.
@pilarq78869 ай бұрын
But they do get their karma, my former US parent company ripped off $$$$$ by AL-Quaeda, feds came a knocking, lots illegalities got exposed by lowlife boss, she got caught stealing lots $$$$$$...she lost EVERYTHING house, all $ accounts, investment license, -shes a felon !! 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@ccampau9 ай бұрын
Just say you left because their values didn't match your own. Vague enough to send the message but not specific enough it can come back to you. I tend to take the high ground on it
@TheFixer19659 ай бұрын
I know what you mean, but I left a really toxic company and I have a hard time NOT talking about it. I suffered a lot of abuse at my former employer and I watched it take its toll on many others. I tried to help some of them but they turned on me after a time and I began to realize that I was experiencing the same symptoms as they were. I even quit and got hired by another employer who was just as bad! I finally got hired by a company who seems to care about their employees and it's having a positive effect on my well being.
@licksnkicks11667 ай бұрын
@@TheFixer1965I need to vent to. I just can’t help it. It’s just a way of ridding yourself of toxicity.
@alexandra-q7u1m7 ай бұрын
@@licksnkicks1166vent here. we’ll listen.
@redhotcandy66293 жыл бұрын
When ur driving to your job and u start praying to get into a car accident and either die or go into a long coma that is when u know its time to leave ur job.
@evelynpinkley55113 жыл бұрын
I pray that I break a leg so I can't go in the field lol. Give myself a time to catch up on writing
@ismile4muzic2193 жыл бұрын
😂 Yes.
@TonTreyMarc3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣..i'm laughing but it's so true!
@ClaytonTheberge3 жыл бұрын
I had this feeling driving home every day. I would always try to start the day on a good note and have a good attitude, but the job sucked the life from me. Glad I'm out now
@StudlyFudd133 жыл бұрын
I do this often....
@betsybarnicle8016 Жыл бұрын
Respect is non-negotiable. Basic human respect is part of professionalism.
@shawngibson7514 Жыл бұрын
However, respect is earned, not arbitrarily granted because someone “demands” it. Most people are NOT respectable.
@betsybarnicle8016 Жыл бұрын
@@shawngibson7514 I don't know what t-shirt you read that on, but I was taught that professionals show respect, even if you don't like each other. That's the only way business places can ever function, considering the odd mix of people working 40+ hours together. You don't have to earn respect to be treated with respect. Strangers respect each other. Customer reps respect customers, even rude ones. Of course that respect is doled out in the domain of self-respect. Respect doesn't mean being a doormat or ignoring disrespect. You don't return hate for hate, or disprespect for disrepect, otherwise you contribute to the cycle.
@GoogleAccount00 Жыл бұрын
@@betsybarnicle8016👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@gusgrizzel8397 Жыл бұрын
@@betsybarnicle8016 Ideally, yes. But most workplaces don't abide by this.
@thisisobviouslybait Жыл бұрын
@@betsybarnicle8016 This is the dumbest combination of words I have read in several days. Strangers don't respect each other. Nobody respects an unruly/rude customer. You don't need to have respect for a person to be their coworker and do your job as well as anyone else. My best guess is you don't know what respect is and that is likely due to you not being a person deserving of receiving it due to your thinking respect is automatic and mandatory.
@nellienell12893 жыл бұрын
My job has a high turn over and I made it 19 years. I had chest pains from anxiety attacks, one day I walked in and cried uncontroablly. I really hated it. I recently quit, lost weight and feel HAPPY. I rather scrub bathrooms with a toothbrush than go back.
@michelleleake76883 жыл бұрын
19 years wow, that’s what I’m going through now. I’m coming up on 20 years and get so nervous to leave.
@nellienell12893 жыл бұрын
@@michelleleake7688 My parents are old school stay work pension all that and even she sees the change and is so happy I quit. I hope you figure it out because you will feel soooo much better.
@Buggu33 жыл бұрын
After 19 years lol
@Buggu33 жыл бұрын
I was driving NYCT bus… I walked away left the pension n medical wasn’t worth it!!! My health is much more valuable!
@trumpisaconfirmedcuck58403 жыл бұрын
I'd rather just save and retire though. Quitting just makes retirement come later.
@HUMAN-VERSION49 ай бұрын
I have been unemployed for 9 months. I don't know if it was the best decision but I will say I eat and I sleep better. And I'm running again and I can walk.
@johnberry28773 жыл бұрын
As a RN ,I have had three co workers commit suicide. I have had to deal with things that are beyond any ones imagination. Just last week a co worker broke down and sat crying in the hallway because the work load an environment is unrealistic and unacceptable. Working non stop for 8 - 12 hours. No lunch, breaks and mandatory double and triple shifts. The conditions nurses work under are illegal but no one cares !
@irn83993 жыл бұрын
That’s awful and I’m praying for you John! It shouldn’t be this way.
@Penelope4163 жыл бұрын
What country are you in John? Can the employees join a work union?
@FeliPeltier3 жыл бұрын
What country? What part? I would run as fast as you could from that job.
@icecrystal32553 жыл бұрын
Ppl asking what country! It's the U.S. part of the problem is nursing and hospital culture accepting 12 hour shifts as norm.
@FeliPeltier3 жыл бұрын
Maria Briley I somewhat disagree. It’s patient ratios and short staffing causing the problems. Washington State Nurses Association fought back against the Wash St Govt when the Govt wanted to change to 8 hr shifts bc nurses weren’t getting their breaks. Sure, some Inpatient nurses want 8 hour shifts but the majority want 12. I will agree that 12s is more likely to cause burnout with short staffing, staying late, and not getting breaks. On the contrary it provides a better continuity for patients and more days off during the week. There is a deeper rooted issue in the profession that is burning nurses out and causing them to quit or leave their career path altogether. What I have learned in my time is it is a country (ie England, never going back) or regional issue (ie Pittsburgh). If John is willing to pack up and move he can find a job that will pay him well, treat him with respect, and provide an environment for a fulfilling career. A good way to go is travel nursing. Find areas of the country you would be willing to live and take contracts there. See how you are treated, ask about benefits and the lifestyle of the areas and then when you find a hospital that fits you apply and settle there. It will be an eye opening experience.
@jennzifur2 жыл бұрын
As someone who had to be HOSPITALIZED due to work stress..it isn’t worth it. Life is too short.
@johnpastore7685 Жыл бұрын
Yes, that does happen. I know a few people, that were in that situation
@johnpastore7685 Жыл бұрын
@@utube72 very happy for you, Also it was getting that way with me.
@dm-jf5uu Жыл бұрын
That's why I quit my health is more important I am now staying home hopefully I'll find something someday
@firstclass2222 Жыл бұрын
For me, it have not gone that far but I took one week vacation and unfortunately I couldn't get up the whole week during exhaustion. After several breakdowns my boss promised to change something, and he did: redirected me to other tasks which suites my competences way better.
@gregadams569 Жыл бұрын
That happened to me as well. I view life much differently now.
@monarchmark3 жыл бұрын
Three weeks after I walked away from a very toxic job environment. An F5 tornado destroyed the building.
@TheCort19713 жыл бұрын
DAAAAYUUUUM. dodging a 300mph bullet
@HosCreates3 жыл бұрын
As my apartment complex contract say if there is" an act of God "
@wb5mgr3 жыл бұрын
Sorry about their bad luck...hope nobody was hurt.
@GAY_RULE3 жыл бұрын
Covid will take care of the rest of the bad employers.
@kjlee83993 жыл бұрын
Wooowwwwww
@AdamGbl95 Жыл бұрын
The real problem is the simple fact that most jobs out there are toxic and not as humane as they should be. That’s why more people are becoming independent more than ever.
@kewlenjo21911 ай бұрын
But then you have to also deal with toxic clients. One thing I learned was try to always be in the position you can fire a bad client.
@LearnCompositionOnline11 ай бұрын
Exactly
@markbrowning43344 ай бұрын
Couple that with people becoming way softer than we ever were. Everyone thinks they are owed and entitled the sweet life, even if they're flipping burgers on a part time basis.
@phajeb0013 жыл бұрын
Reason #6: A revolving door of constantly new employees. No one wants to stay.
@erk443 жыл бұрын
Jeff bezos!!! He loves that
@atomiccritter64923 жыл бұрын
thats really a symptom of a shit company and/or shit jobs...but yes I agree
@hailervin3 жыл бұрын
Yep hence why my small town is “always hiring” because they have a ton of shit jobs available that employers desperately want people to take up on despite their crap management skills and low pay rates and then they wonder why “people don’t want to work” because people know they literally are better off selling drugs in this wasteland of a state. Damn I hate Alabama.
@ryanjacobson25083 жыл бұрын
@@hailervin Corporate propaganda is that some Americans "lost interest" in working because of laziness. In reality, stable and decent paying jobs are very difficult to come by in many areas. Adjusted for inflation, most low to middle class occupations paid better in the 1970's than they do now, and that's not even taking into account cost of living which was much lower 40-50 years ago.
@justpassingthrough79903 жыл бұрын
Omg yes. This. Especially telling during a bloody pandemic.
@nwatson27733 жыл бұрын
When you can’t sleep at night, have anxiety or can’t take a day off without getting an attitude from the boss.
@evol35433 жыл бұрын
Me rn can’t wait to turn in my badge and walk out for good 😎
@AR-ip6jb3 жыл бұрын
My boss told my coworker that being sick was no excuse for her to not come in to work, not only is covid very much a risk, we work 8hr shifts either up at 5:00am or there till 10:30pm, lift heavy objects and run in and out of a freezing cooler which makes us so cold out fingers get numb, the fact that she has the nerve to tell us that we have no right to take the day off when we are sick just grinds my gears so bad
@evol35433 жыл бұрын
@@AR-ip6jb find somewhere else fam it’s hard I know but being somewhere where they only care about the money is soul crushing
@komatsusakura3 жыл бұрын
Im still stuck here just to pay bills
@210-ws9kk3 жыл бұрын
Me right now (minus the day off situation)
@Polemic-25253 жыл бұрын
You say go to your HR department, but most HR departments are in alignment with your boss. If your boss is the problem , they’ll just figure on a way to get rid of you.
@erk443 жыл бұрын
Yup happened to me
@Polemic-25253 жыл бұрын
@@erk44 Never go to HR.
@erk443 жыл бұрын
I didnt some fat ugly girl did. Got me fired. God she was ugly. Her name was brandy
@encryptedwolf76233 жыл бұрын
FACTS!
@jonathanvogt43413 жыл бұрын
Yes never ever go to HR they are not there to protect you only to protect the company and usually solving the problem means firing you! Be wary of management and HR that is very friendly that is how they play with their food!
@Kyle-op6ev Жыл бұрын
I left my last job because of co-workers always trying to micromanage the most useless things just rude people. Power trips and bad attitudes
@adoraszone3 жыл бұрын
I just quit my job 3 days ago...although i knew it wont be easy bcos I'm struggling financially, BUT....I'm so happy and relieved I quit. My mental health was almost thrown into the gutters
@dacoldest38963 жыл бұрын
Good for you sista
@cynthia67713 жыл бұрын
You are so brave. I need to walk away from my job too but I'm scared😖
@dacoldest38963 жыл бұрын
@@cynthia6771 dont worry ill take care of you ;)
@cynthia67713 жыл бұрын
@@dacoldest3896 thanks. Nice to know I'm not alone♥️
@ameliawijaya10713 жыл бұрын
Very brave but i'm still stuck. Good for you
@houseofsacrifice2 жыл бұрын
At first I felt horrible about leaving my most recent job but the stress and bullying was so bad there that I was throwing up everyday before going to work and lost a lot of weight. Moral of the story; please take care of and look out for yourself because no one else will. Edit: tbh i didnt expect anyone else to relate to this. I hope everyone under this can find a better working situation. Keep your chin up and don't let disgustingly petty people ruin your life.
@yeswing102 жыл бұрын
I hear you. I worked with a mob mentality job. Doing the right thing is looked down on! I paid off all my debts first, then quit.
@thedeepthinker5669 Жыл бұрын
Sorry about your experience
@zackthebongripper7274 Жыл бұрын
No one wants to work anymore, or are "quiet quitting", work is TOXIC. Then, they complain they cannot find skilled labor. LOL! Fuck them!
@helenawild7918 Жыл бұрын
true
@maverickhistorian6488 Жыл бұрын
I regularly used to wake up in a cold sweat, thinking about my next working day.
@applecupcakes862 жыл бұрын
I quit my job today been with the company for 6 years. I was dealing with depression and feeling sucidal over a damn job. I knew it was time to leave when I was hoping to get into a accident on my way to work . Please don't ever let a job destroy your mental health .
@thedeepthinker5669 Жыл бұрын
As a mental health professional, I say sorry for your experience. No one should have to go through such an experience
@CuteNSexii1 Жыл бұрын
Thank God you did.
@aciyaiona Жыл бұрын
Noted and understood! Hope you’re feeling better these days 🫶
@mrboodi Жыл бұрын
Hope you're in a happier environment now.
@haoadams Жыл бұрын
It's people's issues that's the problem. I work in the military industrial complex.....my co worker died of od in the bathroom. They left him in there 7 hours with rigimortis set in. So disguistjng, they care not about employees.
@anthonycaretti5107 Жыл бұрын
Bullying theeeeeeee biggest problem in the workplace
@robertwhite10283 жыл бұрын
When every morning you have to actually have to list pros and cons of reasons why I need to show up
@GARY-yu8pc3 жыл бұрын
It's so f ing hard I'm doing shift so it makes it harder for me
@cairacaldwell91213 жыл бұрын
Same, I’m sitting over here wanting to cry because I have to go to work in 3 days and I’ve only been there for 3 months and I’m already ready to quit because it’s sooo toxic.
@GARY-yu8pc3 жыл бұрын
@@cairacaldwell9121 it's so hard caira no one understands only people that suffer it
@robertwhite10283 жыл бұрын
At my job all the nurses who wouldn't last a day in a real hospital, are so hateful to everyone, the boss don't care about well being or others issues with them, so I call them glorified CNAs
@donm20673 жыл бұрын
Pro- bills get paid Con- soul gets destroyed.
@TheLaly373 жыл бұрын
For all the people that are scared leaving their job because of financial situation. I was in a job that was ticking some of the above. I just bought a house so I had a mortgage. Finally they let go of me. I was worried but one week later I got a job offer in another country. I made my way up in that company. They have an awesome work culture. One week in the new country i met my future husband... I rent my house and live with him. It was tough to juggle everything the first 2 years. But You don't know what life has in store for you. Take the leap of faith
@KavaraMcDonald3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is amazing!
@rumor-9363 жыл бұрын
I believe that's what scares everyone, going broke. So they put up with a miserable job, and they end up shortening their lifespan because of it.
@trentdawg28323 жыл бұрын
Yup.....I remember having to put money aside to make my mortgage payment years ago, I now rent that house out for 3x the mortgage payment and own 3 more... (in the s.f. Bay area)...I' néed to cash them out and move from this shit hole state 42 years here is far enough for me..... ......funny how things work....I was basically retired at 36
@YimstaNation3 жыл бұрын
Just put in my two week notice today...this was very much needed thank you
@TheLaly373 жыл бұрын
@@YimstaNation good luck in your future endeavors! It will work out
@jakepeterson83823 жыл бұрын
Never trust the HR Dept...big mistake.
@rssand68403 жыл бұрын
@@nia6849 depends on the issue and the company. If the HR department is told an issue that may lead to hurting the company, they usually will put the company first. I say use them, but watch what you say and keep dated detailed notes of the conversations.
@22Harponyo3 жыл бұрын
TRUTH. THIS NEEDS MORE LIKES
@sharonc.22073 жыл бұрын
Amen
@ForgottenKnight13 жыл бұрын
@@rssand6840 They will ALWAYS put the company first, because the company is who gives them their salary and that is the reason why they are hired. HR is not your friend, no matter what.
@joanbaczek25753 жыл бұрын
Hr is misnamed they only care about covering the employers ass
@caric8133 Жыл бұрын
I have had several toxic jobs since college but one really broke me. It was a major fortune 500 organization. I have never seen such dysfunction in a workplace. I started going to therapy on my lunch break. My therapist was like the fact you are seeing me on your lunch break is basically the universe screaming at you to get out. I quit eating, developed stomach issues and had a splitting headache constantly. I was turning to alcohol to cope in the evenings and that was when I knew it was time. That was all I needed to hear but I decided to "stick it out" for a few months. This was a mistake. I was humiliated in a meeting one day and accused of a mistake on a report I did not do. I was done...I got out and it saved my sanity honestly. No job is worth your mental or physical health.
@Mimi-rs9cr2 ай бұрын
I am so proud of you and of your therapist ❤❤we don’t belong in that kind of environment..how are you doing, now?
@jeremiahmorris55193 жыл бұрын
The sleepless nights from anxiety is spot on for me. I'm watching this at 2 am btw...😒
@caroljames73813 жыл бұрын
Same here i totally understand. If you ever need someone to talk to and if I.can help I will gladly 🙂
@caroljames73813 жыл бұрын
Take advise from me please 🙏 no job is worth taking the joy out of your life. NO JOB ! I have got a new job out of my situation now because my current workplace is unfixable. There are workplace environments that are fixable and others that you just have to walk away from and run 🏃♂️ from fast!
@Raven-mf5tr3 жыл бұрын
Mine is different. I wake too much early in the morning having an anxiety attack and overthinking about my decision in taking this new job of mine. It is a 9-6 desk job and I always feel like a machine more than a human being everytime I work.
@specialk89273 жыл бұрын
When the job is in my dreams I got to go
@kellyroberts72683 жыл бұрын
I would love to talk with you!!
@SKBottom2 жыл бұрын
I had a job where I started having stomach pains and digestive issues. When I left the job, I was miraculously healed!
@tedk.6420 Жыл бұрын
I think I'm in the same spot. My gut health is horrible right now as well as migraines. I think it's my job, I dread going in and I'm losing sleep. I cussed at my boss today and it felt really good, didn't get fired either lol.
@SKBottom Жыл бұрын
@@tedk.6420 Time to go. Your health is most important.
@samanthastanley2647 Жыл бұрын
Same!! I thought I had ibs but in e I left, I felt worlds better!
@SKBottom Жыл бұрын
@@thebrowniesempire Yes. The job that was giving me stomach issues was over 15 years
@josepherhardt164 Жыл бұрын
For me, it was prostatic pain. Bactrim & medical treatments did nothing. Once I left, the symptoms miraculously disappeared. CAVEAT: Do not use this line to diagnose yourself! If you have prostatic pain, see a urologist!
@ajcarr19653 жыл бұрын
#1 sign for me: I was blocked for promotion, then told to train my new boss
@HeadHunterSix3 жыл бұрын
Yeah that's a pretty dick move. If your boss can't do their own job without you teaching them how, then they're less suitable for the position than you are. Tell them "good luck finding someone to teach you how to do the job" and head for the door.
@darrenlivingston25503 жыл бұрын
That’s when you say Fuck You and walk out the door and burn that bridge
@ocwill3 жыл бұрын
This happens WAY more than people realize, especially to people over 40. Experience talking...
@SI0AX3 жыл бұрын
If someone did that too me I would laugh in their face and give in my letter of resignation.
@whitepod3 жыл бұрын
Almost had to do that! The new boss was 1 yr older than me. I immediately quit when I accidentally found out that she’s joining as my boss! 😤
@JonDoe-gi5zf10 ай бұрын
I resigned as soon as I realized a couple of things, I was no longer learning anything new that would help my career goals. I was stuck at a low salary range, and I no longer saw opportunity in the company to grow beyond what I was capable of.
@mayav77513 жыл бұрын
My last job gave me a depression that after two years I’m still bouncing back from. Standing next to the car in the morning and just wanting to drive to the beach (or anywhere!) instead of work and then spending time in the work parking lot trying to pull myself together to go in... yeah that was a sign
@noweare13 жыл бұрын
Yeah, If you feel that way don't go. Just start looking for another job with better people.
@22Harponyo3 жыл бұрын
Same... i am altered person
@Randelliciouss3 жыл бұрын
I feel you. But beaches here in my country are far so I visit some place else LMFAO.
@DuTubeable3 жыл бұрын
totally get it. Everyday is a struggle to get to work... I have to talk myself out of heading into the wild... The biggest obstacle is lack of decent paying jobs, having to start at the bottom of the totem pole and having to take the schedule they give you. Most of the jobs I see listed are only looking for PT at less pay.
@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley3 жыл бұрын
I was the same. I one time shocked the hell out of myself by sitting in my workplace parking lot for a while before leaving to go to a movie. Still had time left, but no money, so I drove and sat in a Walmart parking lot because I didn't want my family to know I'd skipped work. It was winter time but I sat in my cold car just to avoid dealing with work. That's when I knew it'd gotten bad.
@patriotpeasant199 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it’s not only your job you need to walk away from….it’s your entire profession! After 19yrs of nursing, I’m done. I went into it to help others, not to become a patient myself before 45yrs old! We only have one short life, don’t waste it being unhappy & unhealthy. Take care of yourself 1st & foremost.
@Iseeyou12332 Жыл бұрын
Radiation therapy field has been a nightmare for me. Hours dropped, insane.
@pilis.5681 Жыл бұрын
Or, teaching. Gah. The "service" professions are truly the biggest drain.
@yotuba9493 Жыл бұрын
I plan on going into psych nursing myself but I'm a bit scared 😅
@nursecynthiamusiel Жыл бұрын
I so agree. I’m so done with nursing that I’m considering taking a lesser job for variety. Good luck!
@lifeisshort3606 Жыл бұрын
From someone who died on operating table and came back. Don't waste your life on toxic environments that bring you down physically and emotionally. You are here for a purpose and will not be able to fulfill your purpose if your physical and mental states are depleted.
@the-engneer3 жыл бұрын
I feel like everyone who preaches the "Dont quit your job before you have another one lined up" has never truly experienced how terrible jobs can be. Some jobs are flat out dangerous where another day/night can literally get you killed and your boss doesn't care. I've tried hanging in there waiting for another job and I always regretted it. I've been assaulted on the job, and I've wanted to assault my boss before and knew I would if I didn't quit, and if it comes down to you going to jail or losing your job go ahead and quit your job instead of sticking around until something really bad happens. Jobs are replaceable but your life is not
@eljefemaximo54203 жыл бұрын
I had a horrible job I didn't quit because I didn't have another job. Instead I lost my temper and got fired.
@carlfromtheoc17883 жыл бұрын
Like being told the business is letting you go and your first thought is, "Okay. So what's the bad news?"
@ST-xw3cv3 жыл бұрын
Not even physical. People are just as much in danger with a job that doesn't assault you, as they are with a job that won't even let you piss. Worked for a job 9 hours a day, couldn't even leave my seat. We couldn't drink water in the screening booths. Most days, I was lucky if I was given a 30 minute break. So 9 hours a day, 6 days a week, no water or going to the bathroom. I was having chronic uti's. I developed a serious issue with my bladder thanks to this job. So before anyone says "oh you just have to deal with it",, go fuck yourself. This happens to everyone in most jobs these days. You're stupid as shit for putting up with it
@yobiwolrd072 жыл бұрын
I have dealt with racism and people still tell me to wait and think positive..
@dudeman08112 жыл бұрын
Got that right Ive been to jail over (non workplace) conflict, been homeless, and I will sit in a comfy library, soup kitchen, bus, shelter and play videogames before I take shit for "money". The older I get the more I realize I choose to work, I never have to. If only some employers realized it they would never act like assholes. Like really it doesnt get anyone ANYWHERE.
@jscriber100 Жыл бұрын
As someone who use to refuse to tell bosses and supervisors when my workload is too much, I understand. I remember a supervisor who constantly let my co-workers leave early, telling me to stay late because "You're not like them", as if its a sort of consolation. For about four years I worked in the mindset that, the man who does everyone's work alongside his own is the best worker. I've grown since then. Now, I know when to tell my boss "Thats enough."
@kjw79 Жыл бұрын
I know what you mean, and after years and months the injustice gets to you.
@gusgrizzel8397 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a lot of fraternizing. If you're so much better, and doing more work, then he should be paying you more. If he won't, then look around.
@truelife97410 ай бұрын
Typical manipulative manager.
@Trancymind9 ай бұрын
Another thing I don't like about certain companies is that they tell you to join a potluck event and if not, it will hurt your yearly review. You can't coerce your employees like that if they are not interested. Some people go to work to work and follow procedures. It is stressful as it is in general. Some people are not interested making friends nor dating due to gossiping in a workplace environment.
@Shadow_Sonata3 жыл бұрын
When you see rules selectively applied and some employees allowed to get away with things you would be severely penalized for.
@LadyPicker3 жыл бұрын
Over and over and over…
@GrandmaCathy3 жыл бұрын
100%!!
@hydrolittosi89743 жыл бұрын
There the butt lickers
@hydrolittosi89743 жыл бұрын
Brown tongues
@karebear77643 жыл бұрын
This comment!!!!!!💯
@Fil0girl3 жыл бұрын
Remember folks, toxic workplaces count on economic desperation to hold employees. I worked for one like that and stayed far too long.
@SkepticalMantisCHANNEL103 жыл бұрын
Crapitalism
@robinwilliams99703 жыл бұрын
TRUTH!
@nooneherebutuschickens52013 жыл бұрын
Definitely sounds like my current job.
@HeadHunterSix3 жыл бұрын
I once had an employer tell me "You need this job". I replied "I need _a_ job, it doesn't have to be _this_ job". And actually all you really need is an income - and in the digital age there are lots of ways to do that without a traditional "job". Companies especially try to indoctrinate young employees to be fearful of their job security. I like to remind them "you had a job before this one, you'll have a job after this one".
@cocoacamille66313 жыл бұрын
I just quit my job and it felt like a huge release off my shoulders. I feel so great right now. No more panic attacks
@madhousenetwork3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to that. Good luck for the next one mate
@victormendes15883 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the club, the day I quiet my blood pressure dropped massively.
@cocoacamille66313 жыл бұрын
@@madhousenetwork thank you! Love my job a lot now!
@cocoacamille66313 жыл бұрын
@@victormendes1588 yes for real! So happy for you 👏🏾
@nlibby55493 жыл бұрын
@@victormendes1588 same, I was stage 2 hypertension...then textbook perfect after quitting
@8bitneslife198511 ай бұрын
6. When the managers never call out the lazy workers and instead make the good workers do extra work in order to compensate for the lazy workers.
@smoothiecutie227710 ай бұрын
👍👍
@te95914 ай бұрын
Same for bad behavior, it's tolerated based on how popular someone is.
@markbrowning43344 ай бұрын
I have never seen that in a work place. That doesn't even make sense.
@te95914 ай бұрын
@markbrowning4334 No, it's true. Basically, there can be a social hierarchy based on popularity. And if someone is well liked, they can coast vs. the person that is not well liked. If the unppopular person turns the other in, the manager will just ignore the complaint. In addition, it may be ignored because the manager maintains popularity by not disciplining his ranks. But toxicity will get sewn through the workplace, often yielding high turnover or a sickly crew.
@markbrowning43344 ай бұрын
@@te9591 I get that this is definetly a thing in society, but I have never seen it in the work place. But then again, all my workplaces have been smaller remodeling companies. There isn't time for popularity contests. Everyone knows and does their job. If someone would slack, they sure aren't getting rewarded because they were more popular. I feel like I'm on the wrong channel. I don't think this guy is addressing my kind of workplaces. I could never do corporate.
@drannoc1003 жыл бұрын
People don’t sign up on a job they hate but usually actually they like. However, the incompetent managers can turn the work situations into a toxic place.
@lamonthamilton6673 жыл бұрын
The name your looking for is AMAZON!!!!!!!!!!!
@RAVENSVLOGGINGCHANNEL3 жыл бұрын
I work at ZAXBYS and this manager James sent me home today just because he doesn’t like me and so I wrote a letter to my boss and I’m going to quit if they don’t do anything
@markwhittaker68663 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree with you.
@spirittammyk3 жыл бұрын
Yep. I love my job, but the children took over the company and they are nothing but full of egos and greed. Instead of hiring an actual engineer, they give bad shit to me to fix and I sure as hell am not getting compensated for it.
@lamonthamilton6673 жыл бұрын
@@RAVENSVLOGGINGCHANNEL When I am confronted with underling what a bees attitude I have pre paid legal lawyer call them then it's oh Mr. Hamilton how can I help You didn't have call your attorney. Yeah right.
@dawngreenwood60343 жыл бұрын
I quit my job today. I toughed it out for a year but the last few months were horrible. Overworked, underappreciated, and just burned out. I know I made the right decision because it was affecting my health mentally and physically. It affected my home life and my family too. I really hope things get better for me and that I find a job I can be truly happy with.
@davidmcleish66642 жыл бұрын
Yes you will God bless!
@sweetiepie11102 жыл бұрын
Same here
@vikramjitsingh3732 жыл бұрын
God bless
@doesntmatterwhatyousay19282 жыл бұрын
Good for you I’m 5 years in and i still haven’t pulled the trigger. I don’t have anything lined up and we live in Cali!
@grungil75702 жыл бұрын
Im in the same position , except the fact my boss are my own parents. I am exausthed and depress. I need help.
@yoongis.tangerine3 жыл бұрын
i quit my job in 2019 and right now i am still processing my anxiety. i remember crying in the bathroom everyday and coming home, falling asleep in my work clothes bc i was too emotionally exhausted to change.
@KimberlysS893 жыл бұрын
This makes me so sad to read. I know the feeling and hope you'll find a job that brings you joy and energy.
@yoongis.tangerine3 жыл бұрын
@@KimberlysS89 it was my first job ever and i thought it was "part of the process" so i tried to endure it. but anyway thank you so much 💕 i wish u happiness too 💕
@KimberlysS893 жыл бұрын
@@yoongis.tangerine That sucks that it was your first job. That can really set the tone. But you deserve a job that makes you happy, so keep looking until you find it 💕
@lifeandmorechannel29873 жыл бұрын
Same situation. I can’t quit because of financial obligations. I have anxiety literally because of it. 🥺😢
@kseniakrassini57833 жыл бұрын
Damn. I hope you are getting better.
@lifeisshort3606 Жыл бұрын
Before my mum died from cancer, she told me that stress brought her cancer on, and if I was ever in a situation of living or working in stress, I should walk away. Well, life is crazy a couple of years ago. I died on the operating table and was brought back. When I was on the other side, I was very angry that I had wasted my life worrying, toxic people and toxic environments. Fast forward to today. I ended relationships with all toxic people and environments. Live your life so you do not waste it. Ps I am so greatfull that I have the opportunity to let people know this.
@Eman1412811 ай бұрын
good for you .
@jonathanregan56828 ай бұрын
I wish you all the best
@izzyforever47603 ай бұрын
I feel the way I tend to think life is too short to waste on stress and toxic workplace I'm not scared of bills being behind my sanity is more important than anything.
@helenperry42833 жыл бұрын
After a certain age, the opportunities dry up. You can't even get an interview. Age discrimination is real!
@МарияК-з1е3 жыл бұрын
In some European countries its even worse, than in the USA. Especially towards women. The perfect candidate for them would be a 30 year old energetic person with no family, kids or aspirations to have some (because to their logic -you are going to need more time off and maternity leave), have experience in industry for at least 15 years, willing to literally live in the company and get paid as a teenager.
@HeadHunterSix3 жыл бұрын
Sadly, at 54, that's my one real concern looking for a new job. It wasn't reason enough to keep me at the miserable job I currently had, though.
@Ilovepoopin3 жыл бұрын
@@HeadHunterSix I'm 33 and just finishing my degree in programming this year. I am super worried about this, despite not being 'old'. I just worried b ecause they'res 14 year olds who can do what I do. I feel so forgotten and doomed to only work the minimum wage jobs I've had since i was 17.
@HeadHunterSix3 жыл бұрын
@@Ilovepoopin Don't short sell yourself. If there's one thing someone younger will never have over you, it's _experience_ . Keep your skills current, keep learning and developing yourself, and the only thing you'll ever have to worry about is employers paying you too much. :D
@HH-qd5rj3 жыл бұрын
I was told by a higher level boss that, "Because you are an over 50 white male, you might as well expect to get discriminated here."
@darkholyPL3 жыл бұрын
You basically described every place I've ever worked at. At this point I'm starting to think there are no good places to work.
@gordonlawrence14483 жыл бұрын
They are damn rare but there are a few good places.
@LathropLdST3 жыл бұрын
...if you are a bottom feeder that hasn't advanced your career, then yes. Every job is bad - a mirror of your own value.
@darkholyPL3 жыл бұрын
@@LathropLdST You know me so well, random internet person, don't you? I was a manager at an international, and very posh might I add company. Job was good, people there not so much. I think it's a cultural thing.
@GrandmaCathy3 жыл бұрын
@@LathropLdST 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Silly Troll🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@LathropLdST3 жыл бұрын
@@GrandmaCathy I have worked in about 15 countries and travelled for work to 35 so far. All with my title, 5 languages, 7 years as a nomad writer, 12+ in IT.. You? I think it's abundantly clear who the troll is, and who is talking from experience.
@Proclifo3 жыл бұрын
I just now sent my boss an email from my phone, informing that I'll be quitting. I feel great already! Can't wait to NEVER see that job again.
@johndenicola61733 жыл бұрын
You should've done it in person; nothing more gratifying than seeing a tyrant boss crumble when you give notice.
@Proclifo3 жыл бұрын
He wasn't really a tyrant, he was an okay dude. But I hated the job itself, because sitting on my ass for five hours talking to angry people drove me insane.
@Proclifo3 жыл бұрын
The reason I sent an email and didn't quit in person is because we have a legally required notice period in my country. From the date of notice, you have to stay employed for a month period, starting at the 1st of next month. So if you send a notice in May, you'll have to work until the end of June. I gave notice right at the end of May, and if I had waited until the next time I saw him, I'd have to work for all of July.
@CrunkKitty19 ай бұрын
I have always been teased by people in my life as a "job hopper" but pretty early on in getting into my career, I realised that if I was not happy and I was in a toxic environment where I was feeling stressed, unable to eat properly, or sleep properly, it wasn't worth it to me. My mental health got so bad once I almost unalived myself - so I refuse to allow that to continue happening. The problem is, is that so many of us are still conditioned that you just have to stfu and do your job. i have definitely struggled in advancing in my career, but I would rather stay at a low level, than destroy myself getting to the top -- not to mention, everyone at the top got up there by either who they know, or cheating their way. Hard work doesn't really get rewarded much, except for more work.
@ZestyZinny3 жыл бұрын
I’ve bailed on every job that gave me these signs but I got a better job with higher pay EVERYTIME! So I don’t feel bad for job hopping lol. Do you, boo!
@kyoazure63633 жыл бұрын
Lol I just got hired and decided applying to other jobs
@lovelee17723 жыл бұрын
Yesssss
@beautifulqueen7483 жыл бұрын
Facts
@mermaidlu51252 жыл бұрын
Right it’s all about being happy
@AnthonyMcqueen19872 жыл бұрын
Nope these people are not family and dont care about you so why should you care. Quit and move on to the next job.
@goodness_graciousme3 жыл бұрын
Took a decision to leave without a job because my boss was too toxic. Yelled at me, made me feel small. I cried many times and I felt so disappointed. I think this is my best decision ever.
@taiwanesejapanesegreentea3 жыл бұрын
Me too, last time I took a job in an ecommerce industry and the boss was more toxic than Baygon
@BronzeDragon1333 жыл бұрын
Good for you. I had one who actually used to body slam me. "It's just a JOKE." (So was the hatpin I coated in Epsom salt and mounted to my sweater, but that's another story--you could hear that whale scream from three departments away).
@bellelopez32613 жыл бұрын
Same here. I love working but the boss was just so immature and narcissistic for a 50 year old man.
@kristineeee3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my situation. Left my job of 6 years without having a backup. My old manager pulled me in the office because I threw a baby shower for this former coworker. She was pissed because she wasn't invited.
@junesixteen13 жыл бұрын
@@taiwanesejapanesegreentea 🤣
@imbluz Жыл бұрын
I have had about 12 Toxic bosses in my work history. The reason I didn't quit all of them is because I was at some time a Divorced father of two paying Child support and paying off Credit Cards. It wasn't fun, but I put my nose to the Grindstone. By December 2021 I was completely debt free and praise myself for pressing through.
@richardhead3211 Жыл бұрын
bravo !
@queenoflasvegas Жыл бұрын
That's good you took care of your children
@simoncww Жыл бұрын
Kudos to you.
@jesserex9914 Жыл бұрын
Love this keep it up 🤗stay positive you really helped me with this comment ty
@lifeisshort3606 Жыл бұрын
Take time now to repair any relationships that you were not able to develop during this stressful time.
@sagasfromthesea4676 Жыл бұрын
As an addendum to these points, in my working life I've noticed a real 'type' of middle to upper manager. They talk the jargon about looking after staff, but it's actually all about control and micro-management, and making sure their name is all over everything. They have their inner clique, and know what to say to trustees/directors. They set bad culture, or don't bother to correct their 'favourites'. They will HR-jargon talk their way out of having to actually make meaningful change. There are far too many managers, and tragically few actual leaders in the workplace.
@scawydemon Жыл бұрын
Oh hey, that describes my boss perfectly Forgot the condescending and overly critical nature towards those they don't like, though
@sagasfromthesea4676 Жыл бұрын
@@scawydemon ah yes, the 'I think we can all agree... " language in meetings!
@jeffobrecht8823 жыл бұрын
After I left my job, I was having lunch by myself at my new position and I realized that I had been depressed for over two years.
@bluesign30343 жыл бұрын
As a call center agent myself, it made me depressed too
@metalbelles36622 жыл бұрын
A long time. I just left my job where I was only 6 weeks. The bully manageresses didn't waste time to start bullying me and started their hate campaign cos jealous of my skills.
@pythonxz3 жыл бұрын
Core Values are such a joke. Every company I've ever worked in, had leadership which did not embody the company's Core Values.
@JoshuaMcTackett3 жыл бұрын
I swear they're literally there for PR pointscoring. Company values and culture should be about making employees feel valued and at home. They'll look after what they have if they love it, and do the best they can for the company .
@tommytuomaala90873 жыл бұрын
expressed brand values are merely to attract media cover. true values are experienced when the honeymoon period fades.
@jackreisewitz72193 жыл бұрын
You mean core values like "honestly, loyalty, respect for others, devotion, giving 100% to the job & going the extra mile" ? Have you ever noticed what a one way street "core values" are? You are encouraged and expected to manifest these values toward your job & employer. But somehow they are never reciprocated. It's almost like that's just a way employers manipulate the employees. Naw, couldn't be.
@hariman77273 жыл бұрын
Yep. Agreed.
@Morrodin1823 жыл бұрын
@@jackreisewitz7219 Impossible!... and yet somehow true *puzzled*
@thehighendtheori3 жыл бұрын
I left my corporate job because I found that I needed to be medicated to get my day started, I cried often & had frequent panic attacks, while I don't regret quitting. I'm gonna miss those checks. lol
@kaminasimon47402 жыл бұрын
This is exactly my situation. How is life after quitting?
@noire96012 жыл бұрын
@@Danny451 You make no sense
@Danny4512 жыл бұрын
@@noire9601 I made sense to the one person who liked my comment.
@KryptonXSupergirl2 жыл бұрын
@@Danny451 it makes sense, it’s just a very dumb thing to say
@Danny4512 жыл бұрын
@@KryptonXSupergirl In retrospect when I wrote that comment 8 months ago, I agree.
@beekind466 Жыл бұрын
Every situation discussed is what I was going through at work. Add ageism, filthy bathrooms, filthy break areas, vulgarity, fights, the shredding of people... I quit yesterday morning at 6:18. I took my power back in under 30 seconds. Hello. Im not coming back. Thank you for the opportunity but the environment is just too harsh and more than I am willing to tolerate. By 8am I had a plan...to just breath. ❤🎉
@garyparks14112 жыл бұрын
I worked a job where everyone I worked with was divorced and an alcoholic. One night I was having a fight with my wife about my drinking. The next day I put in my notice. Best. Decision. Ever.
@cm8319 Жыл бұрын
WOW! good for you ! not worth your marriage
@kalabash723 жыл бұрын
I've held onto jobs that were toxic because I'm the sole provider for my family. You have to keep a roof and food on the table. Not always easy to leave under those circumstances.
@HosCreates3 жыл бұрын
Same , its a horrible gut wrenching experience. But you gotta do it until you can find a better job
@nooneherebutuschickens52013 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat. 30 years for me, and I want to leave so badly, but I'm the sole provider and need the health insurance.
@adaezea59633 жыл бұрын
Men like you are commendable!
@lovedaddy15823 жыл бұрын
@@nooneherebutuschickens5201 I was in the same situation, but as a single man. My personality changed, I became a very hostile and combative person. I got fired and was unemployed for two years afterwards, I simply couldn't find another job. I have a new job for WAY less money now, but I don't want to kill myself or other people anymore.
@DugrozReports3 жыл бұрын
Losing insurance coverage (for my whole family), losing FMLA protections ... kind of scary.
@rufex20013 жыл бұрын
The 5 signs are: 1. 2:42 Extreme stress, i.e. your health being severely affected 2. 4:40 Terrible boss (reason most people quit) 3. 6:00 Toxic work culture, e.g. highly competitive environment 4. 7:32 Illegal activities 5. 8:13 Safety, i.e. being asked to do something that is not safe
@user-mg8if8po4e3 жыл бұрын
@martymcfly85352 жыл бұрын
I can tolerate illegal activities as long as the other shit isn't present. "Need me to drive the drugs to the warehouse boss? Got it. Thanks again for the raise."
@DNGRous_2 жыл бұрын
After noticing the past few weeks, my body has slowly began to undergo syncope episodes nausea and to the point of throwing up in a bag. It’s time.
@BonnieM932 жыл бұрын
I can’t say that I have any of these 5 signs, but I still want to quit. I don’t really even have a reason that I can pin down, except I’m overqualified and am sick of teens bossing me around. I also don’t care to wear a uniform. Good enough reasons to look for another part-time job?
@jacksept56782 жыл бұрын
1,2,3,4 terrible boss with favoritism doesn't give a sh*t if we accidentally cut our fingers because of the pressure likes to punish you even when you are already exhausted some toxic regular co workers and lack of safety and first aid specially we are always carrying heavy stuff and sharp blades
@drecksaukerl11 ай бұрын
When I was a young engineer 35 years ago, I had a little Hitler for a boss who was a total sociopathic POS. One of the very few people I've ever truly and deeply hated. It actually worked out in the long run. Later in my career when I was managing and having issues with staff, I would ask myself "What would Nick do?" I would then do the opposite, and it always worked out for the better. Sometimes it's not a bad idea to stick it out in a bad situation. Could make you stronger in the long run.
@sagittariusbeauty3 жыл бұрын
I quit my call center job, and I never felt more relieved. I honestly thought people were just overdramatizing crying at work, until it happened to me and I felt stuck and mentally exhausted. I recommend anyone who feels absolutely miserable at their job to immediately find another one or save up enough for a month or 2 to just quit. Mental health is really important and your job shouldn't sabotage it.
@timjarvis90782 жыл бұрын
I’ve worked in a tech call centre for home broadband and mobile phones and can tell You it’s completely toxic not only just from dealing with deranged customers screaming bloody murder on the phone when something goes wrong but from management and your colleagues, it’s a back stabbing environment where everyone is out for themselves. I left after 2 years and never was happier in my life.
@shieldfaith12 жыл бұрын
I currently work for a call center but from home. In conversations with some colleagues, we agree that there are changes that need to be done but management above supervisors will do little to nothing about it. Suggestions are ignored and we're told to just put up with it. We also see more push on policy and procedures than making sure our systems or programs work right.
@yotao74862 жыл бұрын
So true.. get out and don't look back!
@Adrien_broner2 жыл бұрын
Physical health is important too. Your eyes and lungs matter. A few dollars over minimum wage isn’t worth getting cataracts 20 years early and black lung/ mesothelioma in a couple years time.
@SKBottom2 жыл бұрын
I don't blame you. Call center jobs suck. All of them.
@tommysteve78813 жыл бұрын
I worked with a combat veteran (US Army) 3 years ago. One day he told me that he drove past a recruiters office on the way in to work and seriously considered re-enlisting and going back overseas rather than come into the store. He and I both clocked out, dropped our badges, and went to the bar. Today, he manages a gym, and I'm a contract janitor. We make double what we did at Wal-Mart.
@hallerd3 жыл бұрын
good on you guys
@Nerdsammich3 жыл бұрын
I know the feel. When start to hear myself say they would have handled it better in the Army, it's time to move on.
@HeadHunterSix3 жыл бұрын
I'm 54 and I felt the same thing when I drove past a recruiter a couple weeks ago. They'd never take me back at my age but when you'd rather re-up than work a civilian job, that's a sign.
@kevinjarchow88123 жыл бұрын
@@HeadHunterSix For a long time I seriously regretted getting out of the Navy after 7.5 years of active duty. I got out to save a marriage that was (unbeknownst to me) already beyond repair. Should have gone back in, but the USSR had taken their ball and gone home, only to haul down their flag a year later. We can't do a damn thing about the past. And the future is vague. The only thing we can do, is what we can do right now, at this moment we are living in. Planning is vague. Regret is useless.
@quarantinelife.3 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@TheMjohann3 жыл бұрын
Dropped my job when i started to dread coming in on Monday. That dread would set in at Friday evening.
@timewasterscrew13163 жыл бұрын
Y’all get days off? Lol no hate just pickin on ya haha
@lisamichelle523810 ай бұрын
I suffered migraines, bouts of depression, anxiety, issues with sleep, itchy skin which I knew was from nerves, and I dreaded even opening my laptop much less the days I had to go to the office (hybrid). I was too mentally exhausted from the toxic office environment, the ongoing criticism and the unreasonable expectations. I gained weight from stress snacking. My manager wasn't qualified to lead a team, and I see this a lot where people are put into those positions based on seniority rather than capabilities or relevant experience. Longevity on the job does not automatically make you an effective supervisor. I've never wanted to supervise people and don't claim to have the best skills for it (or tolerance), but I know a bad manager when I experience one.
@mechanix12283 жыл бұрын
I just quit my job 2 days ago. Mechanic here. I just couldn't do it anymore. It wasn't the employer either. They were nice. I guess I'm man enough to admit that while it pays the bills the work was becoming unfulfilling and meaningless. I woke up Monday and just couldn't bring myself to do it anymore. I had no exit plan but the universe was telling me "enough". I'm a 42 year old going back to school and plan on finding a job that has nothing to do with automotive. I don't know what will happen between now and my degree but my family is supporting me and we'll get by some how.
@resared85383 жыл бұрын
Hey Man, you have my respect for not being one of those people that says that its too late, If I were your age and was in the same situation I would seriously hope I would do the same. Mad respect to you from me!
@trutrek9132 жыл бұрын
Depends on the shop area of business. If its a muffler/brake shop, that stuff gets so boring you'll lose your mind. Dealerships are run like a McDonald's, never a moment's peace. Open up your own shop and be an honest mechanic, it will start off slow, but when people learn your reputation, you'll be super busy and you'll be able to set your own hours.
@UnrealTournament4202 жыл бұрын
Buy some HEX, stake it for 6 years and follow your heart in the meantime 🙏🏼
@randolphthegr88102 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain. 2 years ago I switched from automotive to heavy equipment mechanic. Best thing I ever did! I had enough when I asked for a raise so I could afford to go to school and I was told I was not worth the 15dollars an hour they fn pay me. I walked out that day and signed up for school the next day.
@bobbyraejohnson2 жыл бұрын
It’s rough being around mechanics a lot are egotistical and prideful as hell. Just quit working at Firestone just couldn’t take the lack of respect being a human being and leadership.
@jupiterone20453 жыл бұрын
When your boss says "it is what it is" to every gripe you report due to being overworked and understaffed .
@Joy-lx5gz3 жыл бұрын
THIS! every time i brought up a concern it was dismissed or minimized... 'at least you get overtime' or 'i've experienced worse, this is normal'
@Seattle-20173 жыл бұрын
Those five words are exactly what you say to your boss when you quit, and he/she asks why.
@DugrozReports3 жыл бұрын
"Just try your best."
@HeadHunterSix3 жыл бұрын
My (former) boss does that - he's not actively a bad boss, just indifferent.
@markwhittaker68663 жыл бұрын
@@Seattle-2017 😂😂😂😂😂 I like that.
@Paul_4253 жыл бұрын
Losing sleep and chest pains from stress at work is a sign that I need to leave.
@Strongernurse Жыл бұрын
Accepted a position as a director of nursing. Very competitive salary. I was over the moon until I recognized the company: nepotism, unethical, no regard for safety or standards. I tried my best to stick it out because I am rather resilient. When I realized they did not have any plans, no budget, no care for patient or staff safety, I left within two months. I am now back on the drawing board.
@ALifeAfterLayoff11 ай бұрын
Ugh, sounds like an awful experience!
@happysoul468 ай бұрын
I was in the same boat as you and had to quit months after accepting a great job that I love. What was funny about the position, I was told the person I was replacing left on maternity leave and decided not to come back, what I learned… I was the 4th person within 2 yrs that had the position and quit just like rest because of the boss that HR knows about but still keeps.
@jonlilley92882 жыл бұрын
The biggest challenge is to make the change when your self esteem and self confidence has been battered. It is hard to have a positive idea of your skill set and value to future employers in these circumstances but you need to park of all of that and believe in yourself and you will make through to the other side. You should never accept a toxic work environment.
@Keys72 жыл бұрын
Thank You. This comment helped me more than you would ever know.
@acelily124 Жыл бұрын
So true.
@mollyloughman3733 Жыл бұрын
Most underrated comment and advice. THIS IS e v e r y t h I n g.
@francescaquarcoo55553 жыл бұрын
Sleepless nights, poor appetite, anxious about getting to work and being asked to do things l am not trained to do. I quickly started applying for a new job.
@adriant27373 жыл бұрын
Well said! Not to mention underpaid as well? Best of luck sis
@grooz54633 жыл бұрын
When you spend more time trying to think how to respond to your boss' constant stream of micromanaging emails than actually doing work.
@misschris11743 жыл бұрын
💯💯🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@kll8153 жыл бұрын
Sigh. Do I ever hear you! Like, honestly! I would be able to get the work done if he wasn’t constantly in the way, and then waiting until I’ve completed previous instructions before giving me the new ones for the fourth time! And I am not even exaggerating! I might be able to hit the mark if the target would stop getting moved.
@hariman77273 жыл бұрын
Or when the manager complains that you're slow to get work done, but you have to waste at least a half an hour to 45 minutes each day tracking them down to get your next instructions from them because they only give you an hour or two of work at a time instead of telling you everything that will need done in the job and trusting you to get done what needs done.
@Ddeath.Eaterr Жыл бұрын
I started a new job 3 weeks ago. It was the worst 3 weeks of my life. My manager basically forced me to rush thru my module training, and threw me out to the wolves to handle customer issues. The worst part? Sometimes he would show up 3-4 hours late, or not at all. I’d have to blow up his phone and FaceTime him in front of customers to walk me thru my job. He always answered the phone so irritated, rude, bitchy, and snarky. There was never any time to take a break and eat. I even started drinking again. My memory was terrible, I’d wake up in the middle of the night, dreams about my job. I was off this weekend and due to go back today. And I’m simply just not going back. I called my old job back that didn’t pay enough, but at least I was trained and happy.
@jbilotta3 жыл бұрын
I have learned the fine art of not CARING about what other people think of me including bosses/co workers. Money is my accolades. I have NO feelings at work. With that said, I am a very sensitive person. I've been through so much shit, I just don't care anymore.
@ChiDraconis3 жыл бұрын
*Correct* Terms of service: When your ACH / EFT at my Retail FDIC Insured depository shows cleared-vetted by an on-duty manager level-then I will review your offer and consider interviewing *YOU* for acceptable risk to my fame; fortune; reputation; & Piranha Breeding anti-shark institute;
@midnull60093 жыл бұрын
Yes! Same here, lol. I could care less. I'm cordial. Just pissed off I need a paycheck and it's sucking up my precious resource I can never get back, time.
@cjanquart3 жыл бұрын
There are people like us with integrity and empathy that reach that point where we just don't care. We are the reason for the meme of the US soldier/Marine (I can't tell by the photo) dropping a grenade down a stairwell that states "The last fucking I had to give//...and there it goes"
@georgevavoulis47583 жыл бұрын
I worked for a designer at a home renovation company . I he was so unstable the staff never talked unless we had too and it was horrible to work 12 hours and nobody talking to each other
@gregmercil39683 жыл бұрын
Same!
@Ladyj123453 жыл бұрын
If you drive in the parking lot and need to take a deep breath and pray. It’s time to go!! I have walked away with no back up it was the most liberating experience. Despite the struggle, l am in a much better space.
@acenath86433 жыл бұрын
I literally do this every work day (I pray the whole 20 min drive there too). I have to view myself as trash to tolerate people's behavior toward me all day lol.
@sarahurrle19023 жыл бұрын
Good for you!! That's what I want to do right this minute have been wanting to for weeks! Leave and walk away with no back up job! I had breast cancer, got diagnosed in 2018, now I'm cancer free!!! I've learned life is way too short to be stuck in a job you hate! Been with my company 15 plus years, no room for growth or improvement just soo bored! Would rather pursue my dreams!!!
@gbb823 жыл бұрын
Why every time I watch these videos I meet all the criteria....This must be a sign for me to leave my job.
@TheyCalledMeT3 жыл бұрын
oh yes .. dude if your job makes you sick in your stomach .. if it kills your health .. get another one .. no job pays that good
@HosCreates3 жыл бұрын
Look for a new one before you leave so you can pay your bills. Make sure to see if they pay more too!
@vi_EviL_iv3 жыл бұрын
@@TheyCalledMeT if that is the case, try to get fired and collect unemployment.
@TheyCalledMeT3 жыл бұрын
@@vi_EviL_iv nah, a good job gives u a lot more than just some money.
@HeadHunterSix3 жыл бұрын
@@vi_EviL_iv You're unlikely to qualify for unemployment if you were fired for cause.
@lordkroak6670 Жыл бұрын
At work I feel like an outcast. Not to mention they are mad that I won’t work over time because I want to spend my weekend with my girlfriend and other activities outside of work.
@dml15143 жыл бұрын
#2-3. Stayed 10 years for the money. Saved aggressively, quit, went to Europe. Came back, got a job, #2-3 again. Pandemic. Laid off. Full time Remote now. Couldn’t be happier. Thanks COVID!!
@giracrystal23 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@faithlesshound56213 жыл бұрын
Toxic bosses hate remote working! Some of them have withdrawal symptoms and are trying to move surveillance of employees into their homes.
@BabyBugBug3 жыл бұрын
@@faithlesshound5621 You have no idea how accurate you are lol
@МарияК-з1е3 жыл бұрын
@@faithlesshound5621 I hear ya. I work in IT company, and yet management wants everyone in the office physically. Why?? Office rent and utilities cost a lot every months, also we have few employees voluntarily quit as they did not want to spend time and gas to commute to the office where they are sitting in old chairs with no windows and natural light. All of them successfully found better opportunities and work from home ever more efficient, than before.
@rjc72893 жыл бұрын
You've got to be a in a pretty low and dark place mentally if you're willing to quit a job and have no plan B solidly in place and ready to go. I'm almost at that point, because my current "I don't give a f**k anymore" attitude is off the charts! You can only deal with so many toxic people and situations before enough is enough!
@thewatcher84182 жыл бұрын
Well you've got to be even lower to go in and strangle your fucking boss to death so I'd say just not going in and finding somewhere else would be better.
@YeahxxOk2 жыл бұрын
That is where I am At right now and it’s reaching a boiling point. Tomorrow may be the day I give my notice do to a toxic horrible boss I’ve endured for 3 yrs.
@AryanDiablo2 жыл бұрын
@@YeahxxOk Did you quit the job? How did it go? Did you find another job?
@stoogie3752 жыл бұрын
@@YeahxxOk same
@Queeg500RD2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@nickysunshine84943 жыл бұрын
When you have to say a prayer 🙏🏾 in the parking lot, because youuuuu know the “unknown of your day” is beyond the front door 😩. I resigned from my job, my last day was March 1, 2021. New month...started great! I gave proper written notice, as a Nurse you don’t want to burn bridges it’s a small circle. I feel so happy it’s not even funny!!! Management was sooooo disrespectful, and yet God gave me the strength to never respond back disrespectful. Luckily I had a part time job to fall back on until I find another job. Noooo regrets 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@beevegan68893 жыл бұрын
Omg. I just got through praying while sitting in the parking lot and just started two weeks ago . One of my supervisors is an asshole without even trying .
@Harloween743 жыл бұрын
I used to cry on the edge of my bed each morning before I started getting dressed. It was awful
@2legit2Kwit3 жыл бұрын
I’m a nurse to and resigned April 1, 2021. I saved money 💰 and need a massive break after working in hell for a year during the pandemic.
@nickysunshine84943 жыл бұрын
@@2legit2Kwit ❤️ I can soooooooo relate! I’m gonna spend 3 weeks in Jamaica 🇯🇲. I’m leaving in 16 Days! Counts down 😂😂... I don’t blame you!!! Take the break you need! Work will be easy to find when you are ready to get back to work. Enjoy 😊
@nickysunshine84943 жыл бұрын
@@Harloween74 ❤️ Yea...it’s an awful feeling to feel that way. But as adults we have to keep up with bills etc... I pray you find another job very soon, if you didn’t already. There is always a calm after a storm. 😊
@shakizatparmanova577 Жыл бұрын
I ticked 3 out of 5 definitely, I realised I need to quit when I started shaking uncontrollably after my managers indirect insult, have never experienced such thing in my life when I couldnt even move, I became so steve and shaking, scared the shit out of me. I am very happy for my choice even if I dont have a job right now. I value me, my time and my efforts and if you dont see it then there is no point of me wasting my precious time here. My provider and successor is my Creator The Almighty. Ameen
@emilywe13213 жыл бұрын
For me it was when I was driving to work and realizing that I was angry. Angry for no other reason than I was going to work in a toxic company. I'm not a person who is angry and it was terrifying to realize that I was suddenly starting to become an angry person. I quite that job immediately and I'm so happy I did. I started feeling happy again, I stopped being angry, my self esteem improved, and I started doing more hobbies I loved. A paycheck is not worth your mental health.
@debbee9203 жыл бұрын
@ Emily, I had a similar experience. When my sister told me that I was a b*+$& now, it was an eye opener for me. All my life (up to that point) friends and family had always described as a friendly and happy person. I was horrified to realize that my toxic job was causing me to be angry all the time and was changing me (in a bad way) to be someone I didn’t want to be. It was so out of character for me. I knew then that it was time to leave.
@joyfuljaj3 жыл бұрын
I've been getting angry over work a lot recently. Saying words that my mother would have never tolerated. I'm afraid my work situation is making me like the employee I most dislike.
@jclaytoncabral51063 жыл бұрын
I see a lot of road rage in the mornings. If you think about it, many of these people are probably on their way to a job they hate.
@outwestexplorer19663 жыл бұрын
Your mental health in the long run can affect your physical health.
@User-zzyyxxvv Жыл бұрын
You nailed it. #1 reason people quit is bad bosses. Like they say "people quit managers, not jobs". I am in a similar situation. I don't want to quit without securing another job, but if it gets bad, I am just going to leave. I have enough saved for a few months. Mental health first
@PlasmaCoolantLeak Жыл бұрын
I have had bosses for whom I would crawl over broken glass, and others I'd like to make crawl over broken glass, the former much fewer than the latter.
@frankharris61362 жыл бұрын
I took emergency leave and never returned.. The best thing I ever did in my life.
@Pharoe29 Жыл бұрын
I’m a combat veteran and battle with PTSD and TBI. My manager asked me on multiple occasions if I “k*lled people” and or if I have violent episodes. My mental health suffered tremendously while at that job. The stress trickled into my personal life, aggregated my conditions, and impacted my family. I expressed this to my management team and they did nothing to support me. Needless to say, I left.
@CdEmm50 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for working with us (me) back in the day 👍🇬🇧
@JodisJems Жыл бұрын
So glad you left. That’s awful. My husband is also a Vet. and I’ve suggested he leave jobs when he’s been treated inappropriately.
@jasonrossetta5203 Жыл бұрын
that's messed up man I hope you're in a good place now.
@Pharoe29 Жыл бұрын
@@jasonrossetta5203 thank you, I’m very fortunate to be in a much better place now. It is like night and day compared to where I was when I wrote this post.
@jameskerrigan29975 ай бұрын
Nephew of boss came to run shop where dad was working. Found out dad was a Vietnam vet, started harassing him about how many poeple he killed. Dad said tracers come at you you fire tracers back and thiers stop. I don't know, how many did I kill? Get fucked. A year later they begged dad to come back said their maintenance bill went up 65000 dollars after he left. Nephew got fired dad got a raise.
@jetquiroz2 жыл бұрын
I quit today, only lasted 9 days. The coworker who was suppose to teach me had zero tolerance when I asked questions for clarifications on any of the tasks. I felt like an idiot for not getting them right, overwhelmed on the workload, and scared to asking questions when something was wrong. I was physically holding back tears my final day and that's when I decided I was quiting. No other job has ever made me feel like trash like that and that's when I left.
@acfollowjcor3182 жыл бұрын
I had a similar experience, the person supposed to teach the job kept saying "is on the procedures is on the procedures" and said that so people around could listen to that, on the top of this she goes around talking trash about someone that she is supposed to show the work, very unprofessional.
@greenlightwoody99882 жыл бұрын
This happens because of fear that if they Train you right you might out shine them. I see it all the time.
@weronikaleszczynska60112 жыл бұрын
The less competent person is the more harshly they will judge you.
@thedeepthinker5669 Жыл бұрын
Such horror you endured for 9 days. I'm sorry you experienced such terrible feelings at a job. I hope u found a better one
@mrboodi Жыл бұрын
I'm going through the exact same thing you experienced. I think I've just about had it
@Conman24133 жыл бұрын
My daughter worked in retail throughout college, and stayed on after graduating. The money was great, but she was mentally and physically drained working 60 hrs a week. Finally she couldn't take it anymore. No support from corporate, being treated like garbage from customers, and co-workers who were lazy slackers. She is like a different person now, and so happy.
@consciousmind28643 жыл бұрын
Did she find something better? I currently work retail and it’s tough and draining
@nailshairlash3 жыл бұрын
Good luck to her
@seinfan92 жыл бұрын
Was she turning to ultra violence?
@Ash-gc6kj3 жыл бұрын
I was getting severe anxiety as well as mental issues with depression and anger. I saw this and realized this is not healthy it gave me the Realization I needed to move on.
@alexanderpetrenko5393 жыл бұрын
Good stuff, I hope you're in a better mindset now. I'm about to plunge into the unknown. But it's honestly more exciting than the KNOWN! cheers