All About Portuguese Women and Dating in Portugal - Move to Portugal and start a new life!

[@pearlsofportugal]

Have you ever dated or married a Portuguese woman? 💍🇵🇹 What’s your experience been like? Share your thoughts in the comments-do you agree with what’s said in the video? 😄💬

[@miked2075]

I married a Portuguese woman. There’s lots of things that I know now that I didn’t know then. You’re married to the whole family, when you marry one. Making important decisions is tough. If you’re not Portuguese, it’s never easy. They really want you to almost become half Portuguese. Also, a lot of Portuguese men seem to prefer a Brazilian woman over Portuguese. This comment section is very revealing. There’s a lot of Portuguese women saying “we’re the best”. There’s very few Portuguese men confirming this. If you live abroad and go back to visit Portugal with a Portuguese wife or girlfriend; Regardless of how you feel, just tell her it’s the most beautiful country in the world, tell her every meal you eat the best you ever had, and tell her every site you see is the most amazing thing you’ve ever viewed. If you so much as complain about any minor detail she’ll get mad, she’ll tell her family and they’ll get really mad.

[@cristinaflores2411]

Being a Portuguese woman I couldn't contain my laughter when watching this video!! Stereotypes are always funny. 😂😂😂😂

[@mariamaio1]

The trombas was a must😂 and the sogra😂😂😂

[@lifenature5463]

I listened to your video with interest. I am not looking for a Portuguese woman, but I will go to live in the Algarve in a couple of years after retirement. Being Italian, many things you said were familiar to me; the two cultures are similar.

[@mariamaio1]

Very true

[@MyAcara]

Your description of TROMBAS was priceless 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@qwqwlex]

As a foreigner living between the UK and Portugal, I have to say that Portuguese women are the best. They are on another level to me.

[@andreiamendes9116]

Really? 🤩 I'm moved 🥲 Thank you! So good to hear good things about us, it's not that often you know 🙏

[@semedomendonca34]

can i ask why? (i am aportuguese lady to.)

[@frederikpohl5492]

Definitely but you ha e to learn how to read them😊

[@miked2075]

If you married one. You’d feel completely different

[@qwqwlex]

@@miked2075 Why would you buy when you can rent?

[@andreiamendes9116]

I love to know what foreign people think of us! 🇵🇹☺️ But I was wondering.. how will he describe us in 9 minutes? 🤔 But you were right to the point (German way, of couse 😅) and we, women, are exactly like you said, in general. And yes, in Portugal our life is all about food/meals 😂 I've already subscribed 👍

[@frederikpohl5492]

Thank you!

[@sanf7191]

Perfect description! It is not a stereotype, but the reality. P.S.: I am a portuguese woman.

[@assuncaomeireles198]

Eu fui casada durante 25 anos e tive dois filhos uma menina e um menino. O meu marido era a minha alma gémea ele morreu à 15 anos e eu continuo sózinha nunca mais quis outro companheiro. A unica coisa que nao concordo é que somos muito gastadoras eu só compro quando é necessário mas graças a Deus eu tenho tudo que é preciso. Gostei muito do seu vidio obrigado ✌️✌️🇵🇹

[@frederikpohl5492]

Obrigado pelo comentário!

[@MariaDiazskn]

I'm a Portuguese woman with a British partner. I don't think he has regretted it yet.;) My mother died when I was 16, so there's no sogra or sogro.

[@costa200]

If you marry a portuguese woman, you are 100% going to learn what "trombas" means.

[@semedomendonca34]

hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

[@a.s5278]

😂

[@CJ-im5tu]

😂 Very good, quite accurate! My husband got often that question from Dutch men. Nice video to send them.👍

[@frederikpohl5492]

Dutch and German are more similar than they would like ti admit!

[@pauvermelho]

7° was funny Estar de trombas was also funny

[@58joana]

This was lovely! I can see you are completely tamed by now!

[@teamdivine5651]

😂

[@rosamaria374]

As a woman of Portuguese origin, I think you are half right about "trombas". They apply to women and men equally, in my opinion. If you want to find out how quickly they transform men's faces, stand outside a soccer stadium after Benfica has lost a game and just watch.... Como mulher de origem Portuguesa, penso que estás 50% certo sobre a definição de "trombas". Este conceito aplica-se a mulheres e a homens. Se quiser verificar como "trombas" transformam a cara dos homens, ponha-se à porta de um estádio de futebol depois de o Benfica ter perdido um jogo. Personally, I don't appreciate any tyype of stereotyping but you made some interesting observations about the culture and relationships between people.

[@salomecomedy]

Concordo!!! 😊

[@pnmoura]

You hit the bullseye!!

[@filipar3171]

Portuguese women are the women that all men (not portuguese) would want. There's no doubt about it.

[@jeanlundi2141]

lol

[@miked2075]

As someone who married a Portuguese woman….every Portuguese man I met asks me what the hell I was thinking.

[@teresacrispim8415]

We are really gooooood 👍👍👍👍👍👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@miamontesilva]

We are strong and we are independent. 💪

[@mariacanto1871]

Being a Portuguese woman, I find your video quite amusing! Are Portuguese women big spenders? I don’t agree with that statement, many Portuguese women save as much money as they can, and are good at budgeting money to buy things that are important like a home for example, since many Portuguese women came from poor families and they didn’t have much growing up!

[@frederikpohl5492]

Not big spenders from my point of view but more focused on things that are less superficial but that make actual life more valuable

[@sunu84]

Im Happy to find your videos

[@inesvbm1]

I loved the reference to “trombas” 😆😆😆😆

[@Madurfado]

Resumindo e concluindo: we are the best women in the world. 😅

[@qwqwlex]

true that

[@andreiamendes9116]

We are! 💁 🥹☺️😆

[@filipesilva1395]

If Portuguese woman's are the best, why today many Portuguese single men's are single? And those that are not single decide to search for foregneir woman's?😂

[@a.s5278]

😂

[@filipar3171]

​@@filipesilva1395because portuguese men are not good enough. I'm a portuguese living outside my country. Portuguese men are "um atraso de vida"😅

[@BrunoSantos-qy3wu]

Portuguese women is the best !!

[@andreiamendes9116]

"ARE the best" not is 🤭🤭

[@RonaldodosSantos161]

😃 Está certo. "Estar de trombas" está muito bem apreciado, mas isso acontece com todas as mulheres, por vezes. Que tal falar sobre a mulher alemã, uma vez que é alemão? 😉😊

[@salomecomedy]

Porque ele é casado com uma portuguesa e não uma alemã!!! 😂

[@RonaldodosSantos161]

@@salomecomedy Mas de certo que conhece como são as alemães em geral. 🙃

[@salomecomedy]

@@RonaldodosSantos161 se calhar fugiu delas! Saiu do diabo, meteu-se na mãe! :)

[@Aanframe]

Not all portuguese people like football, have high spending habits or have a nice relationsip with the family of origin. It depends on the sociocultural level. Many have a very germanic approach to life. Not being direct when liking someone ou needing something is totally enerving

[@catym2443]

I agree with you !!

[@frederikpohl5492]

Thank you!

[@ruineves9839]

If she's got: "trombas" it means she loves you! If she's got no; "trombas" you are in a problem....

[@sofia_ines]

Portuguese woman here: you speak the truth!

[@salomecomedy]

Palavras sábias! 😊

[@semedomendonca34]

true LOL

[@frederikpohl5492]

I agree but there us a phase after the trombas let's call it post trombas where you better shut your mouth, agree and let her talk😅

[@ruineves9839]

Loved the word: "post trombas" There's a book to write about "trobas".All the best frederik.

[@PaulaBarbosaSilva-w6n]

Basically agree with all of your comnents... Trombas is a show of love. Even if it's not other women related 😂

[@lauracoelhodesigns]

😂mesmo

[@a.s5278]

Olha desculpa lá qualquer coisinha, mas cá por casa há cinco machos : 1 marido e 4 filhos homens e as trombas acontecem sempre no lado dos machos. As gargalhadas são sempre femininas -minhas da minha mãe e das minhas irmãs! Do nosso ponto de vistas vcs homens são muito drama queens! Acerca da sogra : há 15 anos atrás a minha mãe invadia a nossa casa para ajudar a filha com tanto macho e era diário e estou-lhe grata! Ponho trombas de vez em quando mas quando as ponho a malta por aqui sabe que o caldo entornou!😂

[@salomecomedy]

Mai nada! 😊

[@jeanlundi2141]

Acontecem sempre dos lados do machos porque todos têm que lidar contigo provavelmente :D

[@filomenamendes7646]

​@@jeanlundi2141ou seja, 5 contra 1, e ainda precisam pôr trombas 😮 coitadinhos!

[@depthsounds4]

Portuguese here. I only don't agree with the signs thing. They give us signs. Have you considered being German, a country with a different culture, you mint not ready to recognize them? Never the less, you're subscribed.

[@salomecomedy]

Ffs, a portuguese wife is a present from heaven!

[@qwqwlex]

That is for sure.

[@sofia_ines]

I think that was pretty accurate! It shows that you teally have first hand knowlede😂

[@frederikpohl5492]

And I'm grateful for it😊

[@Paulo-s1d9r]

Portuguese women are the best🤩

[@isabelpetinga470]

Número 4-Errado! As mulheres portuguesas são no geral, muito poupadas e pensam muito no futuro. P. S. Sou portuguesa! 🇵🇹💪

[@mariadefatimasantoscordeir5681]

“Trombas”, I loved it.

[@cristinalaporte9391]

It's true 😅

[@albertabs]

Welcome to the Portuguese culture, you missed one point ,,Portuguese woman are very opinionated 🤣

[@salomecomedy]

I think that is BS! . . . . (a portuguese woman 😅)

[@XofHope]

​@@salomecomedyAs a Portuguese woman, I am.

[@asmrcarousel]

As long as it's an informed opinion that shouldn't be a problem. I know as many dumb opinionated men as women, loud and big mouths regardless of gender.

[@semedomendonca34]

eu sou opinativa, e ainda bem que sou..... e acho que devemos ser todas, ou a maioria.

[@angien.6236]

I am a straight american girl. Idk why im watching this

[@user-pu1pj3gt2p]

😅

[@riccardomacedo2898]

I can't resist 😂 maybe u can learn how to get a Portuguese handsome man 😉🤣🤣🤣

[@costa200]

because you want to compare?

[@a.s5278]

And you point being exactly?

[@perolagrande]

Utter trash, full of stereotypes. The world has changed dramatically since you met your wife 20 years ago. Online dating is now the norm especially for young people, and especially on apps. That has given rise to different types of behaviour, a search for instant gratification and unwillingness to invest time and effort building a relationship, easier just to 'swipe' left or right on an online profile. That has had profound consequences for people looking for a steady partner, marriage mate and starting a family.

[@brunobarros116]

Em resumindo as tipicas latinas

[@MAGurue]

Trombas :) loved this part

[@josebull3637]

I didnot how similar spain and Portugal are. You could say the same things to a Spanish woman. 🤣

[@carlosb1878]

You sound Swedish or Norwegian. Are you?

[@frederikpohl5492]

Nope, German 🙂

[@jeanlundi2141]

As a portuguese guy ---- don't do it! :O It's a trap!

[@salomecomedy]

😂😂😂

[@miked2075]

I wish you were around to tell me this 17 years ago

[@nunorodrigues5942]

You are putting it gently. Perhaps your wife is nicer to you because you are not Portuguese. We tend to treat foreigners gently... 😇

[@salomecomedy]

Yes, I am sure that is part of the explanation! Your wife is a b*tc to you? Well, change your nationality to save your marriage! 😊

[@helenaferreiragoncalves6021]

Of course you should marry a portuguese woman

[@salomecomedy]

Of course! 😊

[@isabelmauricio6394]

Why would you warn people that Portuguese women are very emancipated? 🤔

[@frederikpohl5492]

It is not a warning just against some stereotypes that some people have about south European women

[@manuelamartins8385]

❤❤

[@frederikpohl4567]

Are Portuguese men any different?

[@MsLauro1977]

😂😂😂 you wife is one of a kind 😂😂😂 emancipated ✅ Trombas 😂😂😂😂😂 Jealous- probably is a Personal trait 😂

[@salomecomedy]

A perfect person to live with! 😅

[@amaliasilva2266]

"Trombas" 🇵🇹

[@LFANS2001]

Poker face😠

[@12ze34]

Now try to be a portuguese man married to a portuguese women... and doble that.

[@salomecomedy]

😂😂😂

[@godinhogodinho5258]

Now I'm in panic. If Portuguese women are the best.... I can't imagine what the other nationalities will be like.

[@salomecomedy]

😂😂😂

[@you-to-beornot-to-be9629]

Trombas, enjoadas... but I love them all.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@helenaferreiragoncalves6021]

Trombas ❤

[@salomecomedy]

😅 portuguese heritage! 😅

[@mariaadelaidemarta2856]

Would you...!?

[@MarieC-uy9sz]

"Trombas"😂😂😂😂😂

[@alexandrapatricio2727]

Portugueses women Cook .

[@agiabranca]

Ik ben portuges getrouwd met Nederland man als waar 😂😂

[@teresacrispim8415]

“ Trombas” =. 😣😒☹️😤😡😏😒☹️🤨

[@frederikpohl5492]

🙄Agree!

[@FannomacritaireSuomi]

I'm not sure where he's from but he's got a Norwegian kind-of accent

[@salomecomedy]

@@FannomacritaireSuomi taking into consideration his reporting on his life, I guess we can conclude he is from hell! :)

[@MariaDuarte-gu7dj]

He says he is german

[@asmrcarousel]

Here's my honest 2 cents, in case someone is interested in getting a Portuguese boyfriend or girlfriend. And obviously I’m speaking in general, just like the author of the video. I don't notice much difference between Portuguese men and women, stereotypically speaking, except maybe that men enjoy going out with their male friends and have some drinks with them, whereas women don't usually have that habit. Otherwise Portuguese men and women are basically the same: both tend to be very talkative and sometimes loud, both like to play games when flirting and dating (what I mean is they're usually not very direct people), they smile a lot and try to be funny all the time, they tend to be opinionated (even if they aren't very knowledgeable about a given topic), they tend to enjoy food and eating out, they like to spend money on nice things (especially for showing them off, a bit of "new money" behaviour so to speak), and they like to visit places and be seen visiting places (for example it may be important to put it in social media). One big thing about Portuguese people, man or woman: they tend to be very patriotic, extremely proud of being Portuguese. It seems to be a big part of their identity and they like to make it known wherever they go. And yes, as mentioned in the video football is very important to most Portuguese people, even to the point that it agitates them more than, say for example, scandals of political corruption or cases of social injustice. In comparison football really is a serious matter, very emotional too. So if anyone fancies a bit of a talkative/loud partner, someone who smiles a lot and tries their best to be funny, probably not very cultured or intellectually stimulating as in "more street smarts than book smarts", someone who likes to eat and go places and enjoy the sun, then a Portuguese boyfriend or girlfriend is probably an option. But those who prefer a more intellectually challenging partner or perhaps with more cultural bagage, with a more serious or calm demeanor, then better look elsewhere because I'd say that's not typically Portuguese. But hey, stereotypes are only worth so much. For example I don't see myself in the description in the video at all, though I know many people who would fit that description more or less. PS: I am Portuguese. Actually I left out a couple of negative points because I wanted to be real and useful but also keep things light. Lamenta-se a azia que isto possa causar a alguns, mas o que eu referi é o que eu observo na generalidade dos Portugueses. Já deu para ver que isto pôs o dedo na ferida, por isso deverá aparecer aqui mais gente chateada ... como diz o ditado, “onde mija um português mijam logo dois ou três”. É o tal "ultra-nacionalismo" que eu falei, que na sua expressão mais negativa não tolera quaisquer críticas. Mas estejam à vontade e não se acanhem, ponham tudo cá para fora porque o que disserem e a forma como disserem só enriquece esta postagem. E assim teremos aqui uma boa amostra geral para mostrar aos estrangeiros para que eles possam tirar as suas próprias conclusões acerca dos Portugueses. Bora lá pessoal, contribuam.

[@anjitocruz2292]

Está muito enganado(a) acerca dos portugueses! Para si são todos incultos...é triste falar sem conhecimento, ou então deve ter alguém assim Não fale por si...

[@asmrcarousel]

@@anjitocruz2292 Sadly I am right. For the average Portuguese, there is no money left in the wallet for culture. Besides the financial constraint, coming from 40 years of dictatorship, books never made it to the top of the list of priorities. Reading is simply not a cultural habit... Ever heard that half-mocking common expression "estás muito intelectual!" when someone is seen reading a book? Theater, art exhibits, museums etc. would be a luxury for the average family income. And cultivating the mind is not at all encouraged in schools or by parents. I'm sorry you're upset but what I described is the cold reality. In general, culture is only pursued by those born with a natural craving for it and who can spare money for it, otherwise being cultured is not typically Portuguese.

[@semedomendonca34]

uma mulher portuguesa ciumenta mete o diabo num chinelo lol, ainda bem que eu nem sou muito ciumenta lol

[@useringeneral]

Oh, yes, you're wrong... the average/mid-class portuguese is far more cultured than most european I don't believe you're pt, although you're free to identify as such...ahah!

[@asmrcarousel]

@@useringeneral “the average Portuguese is FAR MORE CULTURED than most europeans”?! Sorry bro… só se for sobre o cultivo da batata XD lmao Agora a sério: eu sou do Porto e digo-te muito honestamente que de certeza que metade do pessoal ao meu redor, entre vizinhos e conhecidos, não saberia apontar para Portugal num planisfério. É triste, claro que é! Mas é assim. E ainda tenho de te provar que sou Portuguesa, senão já não vou dormir de noite… Bom, eu podia deixar aqui uns expletivos* (*vitupérios), assim bem badalhocos à moda do Norte, só para que não haja dúvidas… Mas não. Fica bem, pega lá uma flor🌹

[@semedomendonca34]

trombas - hahahahahahahahahahaha

[@miamontesilva]

Trombas ! 😂

[@joaquimbelbut4829]

Not at all...! De maneira nenhuma!

[@Salustmaio]

If she is born before 1983 yes after that forget they are intitled

[@RoocoBeano]

Depends how big is her mustache!

[@josemartins-game]

Nope

[@mikidias]

That Portuguese woman it's definitely NOT me‼️ Though I'm myself local native PT Portuguese woman, yet my mindset is Totally Eastern European and Middle - Eastern, so, I'm really THAT DIFFERENT‼️ Thanks God, proudly so 🙏🏻 😎

[@paulocorreia7942]

We all know what Eastern European women are like. Good for you!!

[@mikidias]

@@paulocorreia7942 Exactly!! 👍🏻 Good for me and BAD for YOU‼️ 👊🏻

[@paulocorreia7942]

@@mikidias Keep that pride between your legs.

[@XofHope]

So, you're more like a doormat than a real person? And you're proud of that?

[@anoteruser]

Good for you for being different 😂this is a general description and I think he nailed it.

[@bestudante]

Don't, they just care about 🤑🤑🤑

[@dickielarue1451]

Greetings from Portugal...Been a legal resident here since 2016...Orginally from the U.S. I will say this...Some Portuguese women are beautiful however I find them depressive and childish in a lot of ways...I connected with a Brazilian gal since moving here and that has made all the difference...The Portuguese women I met living here before meeting my gal where all going through divorces and simply wanted to use me as a therapist over coffee...Leaving your batteries drained...None of them where interested in activities I enjoyed like hiking and nature, but loved going to the Discotec are getting drunk with there friends at a local watering hole on the street...I'm talking women in there 30's...No thanks...😉👌🇧🇷❤️

[@bilie9117]

Of course, portuguese women are not that easy. 😎 Go enjoy your Brazilian lady and waste all of your money with her (ups…)

[@Chris-2020-s9h]

Yes Brazilians in general are in high spirits most of the time and positive. They will add spice to any party.😊😊😊

[@analourenco4688]

Well, it seams you only have met rubbish Portuguese women, and not The real Portuguese Women! What a shame! But, let me say, there are lots of Brazilians much worst than those poor souls you met.

[@bilie9117]

@@Chris-2020-s9h yeah, and still your wallet.