Getting married in a few days💃❤️ and l don't take for granted all the knowledge I have been digging in from you guys for the past 5 years. It's more like y'all were brought forth in my life right when l needed you.I had the best single season,just by applying and acting on some of the wisdom you gave out.And now that marriage season is here🤗❤️,I know I will live the best out of it. Y'all amazing and thank you❤️❤️
@peggytlou54293 жыл бұрын
💐🤗😍
@Kenolow.Motloung283 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Sis’🎊♥️
@sithabilenduli24863 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Sis. All the best in your marriage. May it be blessed always🙏🏽💛
@kokimothoagae95333 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎉 🎉💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
@sharontadiwa98103 жыл бұрын
@@Kenolow.Motloung28 Thank you Mami❤️❤️
@graciousndou14823 жыл бұрын
You two are far ahead of your peers👌🏾 Honestly your wisdom is divine. I learn a lot each time I listen to you! Thank you for being such a blessing!❤
@vimbainasheashleighh3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@palesankondlo13953 жыл бұрын
Aesthetics✅ Quality✅ Looks✅ Content✅ Pls, I’m not even in a relationship but I desire to have this type of connection with someone’s son🙏🏽🤞🏽 I love you guys❤️
@santiemabasa63643 жыл бұрын
U guys deserve everything coming your way... May u grow older together with God.. Ur bigest fan
@SylvieSij3 жыл бұрын
Mpoomy is so pretty
@lesegorampai90763 жыл бұрын
Everytime I come here I know that I'll be given a new tool to work with or be reminded of a tool I received before. Single 22 year old and absolutely blessed to have this information, I was in a relationship a few days ago and I noticed that I've gotten better at relationships since watching you guys and other Godly led couples. Thanks ♡
@wanderingcucamber70823 жыл бұрын
😍❤️👏🏽
@katlegomoele43333 жыл бұрын
Mpoomy used to sing from class to class back in Uni, such a bubbly soul. Love you guys so much
@otsilemak48213 жыл бұрын
I love seeing young people in relationships grow. It's evident that it's possible. I got married at 19 and I wish I had this kind of platform to guide and encourage me. Today we have been together for 12 years. This was beautiful, you don't stop learning.❤️
@albinaesihle12533 жыл бұрын
Sis Mpoomy you became an older sister to me and I love you guys 🥺♥️you are paving a way to a young woman who loves God 🙏🏽
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
Truly is, couldn’t have said it any better ❤️👏🏻
@ilseuren53483 жыл бұрын
I'am a young girl and listening to you guys I always desire a relationship that has a strong spiritual connection Thank you guys for so much transparency 👏👏❤ Use are such an inspiration to the youth out there , keep doing what you doing for the Lord 🙌🙌🙏
@malebelomaphutha65663 жыл бұрын
Brenden's wisdom and honesty 🔥🔥 I like what he said about going back into a shell as part of growing to figure things out and the cocoon part.
@tatendagumbo72023 жыл бұрын
I am 17 but I have been following you guys from Zimbabwe and I just learn a lot about relationships from what you guys talk about it , I love it 🥰 never miss an episode
@dreamgirlxo3 жыл бұрын
The podcast Mpoomy mentions at 6:01 about the psychologist making reference of your dream person as your nightmare is a Super Soul Conversations episode called Getting The Love You Want.
@mooneuphoria54403 жыл бұрын
😘👌🏾you are Amazing♥️
@lungingubane3793 жыл бұрын
Blessing to you sis for the plug 👏🏾
@MsOwam3 жыл бұрын
And I’m wondering why she doesn’t share the podcast lol thanks sis I’ve read that analogy somewhere would love to love to hear it again with more perspective
@dreamgirlxo3 жыл бұрын
@@MsOwam she probably forgot where exactly she heard it from, which is natural especially if you listen to a lot of podcasts/if you've listened to it a while back
@lindokuhlenkosi33573 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys.. and I am 28 and this year we are five years in our marriage so yeh it's true that it gets sweeter at this stage. I am now waking up to my dream job and I always learn something.
@busanithwala86723 жыл бұрын
I can attest to the 5 year mark...I've been married for almost 7 years and we've never been happier
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
Amen❤️❤️👏🏻👏🏻
@runner95283 жыл бұрын
What was your secret?
@nanit063 жыл бұрын
🙌may Gods grace keep your marriage and love growing even stronger with the years!
@busanithwala86723 жыл бұрын
@@runner9528 Looking for the good in my husband because i loved him and i still do
@misspurplerain3 жыл бұрын
I don't think I'll ever have the words to express how grateful I am to God for you guys and your work. There's a scripture that says people perish because of lack of knowledge. As a young person it's so easy to get in situations that aren't pleasant simply because we don't know. You guys give us an opportunity to know how to navigate through relationships from your personal experiences and God's word and I couldn't be more grateful. Thank you so much for allowing God to use you on such a powerful way. May He continue to give you the grace to keep on keeping on
@LA3010P3 жыл бұрын
Brenden: How do you measure growth? You grow differently. Withdrawing is also growth. Introspection
@unapolegetically._hilary84743 жыл бұрын
i honestly really enjoy how raw and authentic your content is, its much appreciated to hear the honest perspective of marriage and life as a whole from a young spiritually evolved couple, i often take alot from you guys that i can apply to my life even with me being at a completly differnt stage from you guys.
@lungybhengu18053 жыл бұрын
I get Brendan's metaphors....severing the season you are in yelds results
@yonelamakalima61373 жыл бұрын
“I remembered that this is the same person that hops”🥺😩❤️
@mphomakhubele3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful reminder to embrace each and every season. Thanks for sharing yourselves with us🤎
@koketsomantsena3 жыл бұрын
Brenden gets so shy when Mpoomy gets a bit silly, it’s so funny to watch 🤣🤣🤣
@moniqueoompie3 жыл бұрын
fam can we please just take a moment and look at how stunning Mpoomy smile/teeth look💖💖💕💕, THANK YOU SO MUCH BRENDEN & MPOOMY FOR THE SEEDS YOU PLANTING IN OUR LIFES.
@thandomanzini3 жыл бұрын
"My first option is to always fix" absolutely love this. Awesome content guys. Thanks for not selling us dreams tlhe and keeping it real.
@oliviandyuluwa97763 жыл бұрын
Mpoomy you're the big sister I never had.. I thank God for your life ❤️🙏
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
Amen!! 🙏🏻❤️
@mrspboledi3 жыл бұрын
The five year mark is a real thing, we are on year 7 of marriage and we’ve gotten to such a great place since the fifth year, we understand each other so much even in the not so good moments. It honestly gets so good that you start to function like a pair of legs.
@SophiaRampedi3 жыл бұрын
The honesty and wisdom you two possess is amazing. It’s so beautiful to watch how you articulate as clear as possible the reality of marriage and relationship in general. 😅the metaphors Brenden is sharing are relatable as well. You guys are such a blessing.We should embrace each season and the new individuals it requires us to be.Growth is not easy but necessary.
@BuliMakhubo3 жыл бұрын
Ohhh family !!! What an episode .. bars on bars . Truth on truth ❤️
@khazimlaazania97983 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the hardest part of being a parent and having to sort of put your career dreams and aspirations on hold. I thought there was something wrong with me. But slowly now I am trying to find a balance.
@LA3010P3 жыл бұрын
This podcast was so authentic. Thank you. Learning immensely
@motshidisirasego88583 жыл бұрын
Mara guys the visual are clean yong !!!!! Before ke ya fere I just need to say aesthetically you gave us mollo but in the calmest way possible I can't even.
@Nokuthaba_M3 жыл бұрын
Y’all really draw me in ,I find myself smiling and laughing along to your conversation🤣
@boniswanyenzane78763 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for this amazing podcast, I started learning and maturing in my relationship the moment I realized that I should stop obsessing of the next step (marriage) whilst I still had a lot of changing and growing to do in the relationship. Now I understand how important the dating phase is or was to us and I am so thankful that we dated and still dating for the time that we did coz honestly the dating phase for us was needed. Not that we not gonna have challenges when we get married or anything but now because of the phase(dating) I feel that we have grown so much, so you guys are right we should never want to skip phases every phase is important.
@inconversationwithharvey3 жыл бұрын
I’m always in awe of the wisdom you two have accumulated over the years. One can only aspire to be just as wholesome 🤍
@CzArODriego3 жыл бұрын
I need more black men to consume this kind of content ladies please share these video with the men you value and wanna see have healthy relationships and marriages 🙏🏽
@muciikujoyce3 жыл бұрын
Just finished it on Spotify and I still needed the visuals 🤣🙏🏽❤️
@lethaboisha61343 жыл бұрын
Same 😭❤️
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
About to run to Spotify now 😂🏃♀️
@eunicedupont5673 жыл бұрын
Best believe I’ll watch it here and then go over to the apple podcast and download it!😍😍😍
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
Love the energy!! 😂👏🏻👏🏻
@annaitumeleng75913 жыл бұрын
so i am married to an older guy he doesn't listen to the podcasts for whatever reason but because of these podcasts i have taught him a lot especially communication, also managed to eliminate unnecessary fights (lol)because it was a mess, also i have learned to stop being anxious. i am relaxed now and enjoy our marriage with God in it. Learning a lot hey
@phumzazozi69343 жыл бұрын
If you don't mind sharing Anna, what steps did you take to eliminate anxiety?
@annaitumeleng75913 жыл бұрын
@@phumzazozi6934 I workout and drink green tea and chamomile tea, cut off caffeine and do the dee if you get what I mean, and still learning n unlearning other habits
@nangamsofani61433 жыл бұрын
One thing about you is that you are an inspiration. Thank you for being real with us 🙏
@m_navy25063 жыл бұрын
One thing about Mpoomy she talks about how her sexually life is lovely in almost all of the podcasts 😂.
@zayaafi3 жыл бұрын
Without saying da words
@ongeziwecloete55153 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys, Contentment is the word that came up after the podcast. I enjoyed it so much.
@Nozipho10003 жыл бұрын
Yoh! Brenden though! 🙌🏾 “Not to short-change my life.” That’s an answer to my prayer about balancing career and being a mommy. Thank you
@MpumiKMbonane3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 we really do get the metaphors, and they are really good. That dream job analogy and getting paid your worth 👌🏾
@sithabilenduli24863 жыл бұрын
God bless your ministry guys. May your cups always overflow. I speak Divine abundance, protection and guidance to you individually and as a family. We appreciate what you are doing. 🙏🏽💛
@queenm27233 жыл бұрын
Wow Mpumi! "The love of your life and your worst nightmare..." ❤️🔥🔥🔥
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
I felt that 😂😂😂
@queenm27233 жыл бұрын
@@love_jae It hit hard 😂😂😂
@martinking273 жыл бұрын
I get Brenden's metaphors mahn 😂
@tshebeletsoselela52373 жыл бұрын
It's me gathering all my attention before watching because I know there's a lot I'll be learning. We love hearing from you 💜💜💜
@sibahlem28293 жыл бұрын
"What you focus on grows" that spoke to me. Thank you guys ❤
@sibahlem28293 жыл бұрын
This actually applies to life in general. 🥺🙌🏾
@OratileMatlholwa3 жыл бұрын
The quality of these videos is insane. Loved it.
@feliciantshangase95433 жыл бұрын
Shooo! "How do you ensure that you don't short change your own life while still being responsible for all the things God has blessed you with" 😮 Brenden!. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and commiting to this platform seeing that platforms such as this awekho kangako and you guys just doing amazing in it. Nibahle! and may you guys stay blessed❤🙏🏾💎✨
@nadiauwase53993 жыл бұрын
The wisdom that you sharee on this podcast is just 🤯😭❤ thank you. Love the insight u gave into the question at the end
@simphiwesympathy70123 жыл бұрын
Mr Ledwaba was right Mpume is getting more and more beautiful each n every day WOW girl iGlow🥰💞
@senorahthokwane5873 жыл бұрын
Firstly hi Mr & Mrs Ledwaba , Great show though, secondly wow my husband and I since day one we are just living in our own bubble. Everything in our 16 years in marriage I don’t wanna lie it’s been holiday mood . And what helps us was we knew what we wanted or I can my husband he was so specific from day one . And until today I myself growing inside my marriage wow and I thank and appreciate my partner so much . He was leading me and guiding me regardless I make mistakes there and there he never judged me and also do I . And again our marriage is been lead by God , where we are and what we have is God and I’m so grateful. My kids and my husband we living in the now even though life is life and marriage is marriage. Lastly very important marry your soulmate, partner, best friend you will never go wrong and again fall in love with good intentions the rest God will sort out the rest Amen .
@bestdancerintheworldbest33933 жыл бұрын
In two weeks if not less then a month we will be at 200 000 subbies. Can't wait to see what you guys will be doing for your celebration
@b_reshoketswe27773 жыл бұрын
The quality of this video 👌🏾🔥 you guys look cute, beautiful, gorgeous all in one😍😍
@musamanganyi89693 жыл бұрын
The wisdom coming from you guys is so enriching. Thank you for this :)
@luciamokwayi3 жыл бұрын
Brendon is really wise shem yaz…Thankful for you guys
@siyabonga35803 жыл бұрын
I have truly grown in many aspects from watching you guys...and made some tweaks here and there. Keep it up guys❤you are doing a great thing here. I have been with my high school sweetheart for 13 years!!!! This is still relevant to our marriage now
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@mbinaomukuambi24593 жыл бұрын
7 years of completion…. Mpoomy said 7… It has come full circle and I pray God just blesses your union all the more.
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
Y’all are truly thee example!! please keep on inspiring & blessing us with your journey, we grateful ❤️❤️🙏🏻✨
@lululekalakala65123 жыл бұрын
"Girl I don't do that, that ain't me!!! " 😂😂😂. Honesty is the bet policy, being a paid actor is work. This was such a beautiful podcast. Thank you ❤️
@murunwamasemola5693 жыл бұрын
A good listen ❤ in my opinion, make sure you've got a great bond with your husband/wife/partner before having a baby. We often think babies will save failing marriages/relationships
@goratameswele36673 жыл бұрын
Always looking forward to your videos. Thank you so much. I know you didn’t talk about singleness but I like how you said we need not to rush into the next season. Each season builds a certain trait that you might need for the next. It’s pretty lonely being single but I am encouraged to embrace it.♥️
@saaranangombe3 жыл бұрын
Mrs mom is so beautiful yoh... I love it here honestly!!!
@zibusekunene3 жыл бұрын
As men we tend to get into marriage and cruise, believing that all is well just like you said Brenden and it is important for us to do a check-in every now and then. Siyabonga for your wisdom.
@kutlwii_nana3 жыл бұрын
Don't try and rush yourself out of a phase 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@akhanisopangisa93983 жыл бұрын
“What you focus on grows”🙌
@blessingmamedzi9856 Жыл бұрын
I love the truth and realness of this podcast. Marriage is exactly what you guys are talking about. We grow and learn each other more. I have being married for 9 years and is all good. We are really enjoying each other, after all the storms. 😂😂😂
@thozasithole9453 жыл бұрын
This was definitely for me, especially on the growth part. Thank you
@oratilemotale81203 жыл бұрын
favourite thing for me "i remembered that this is the person that hops" wow guys
@mrspboledi3 жыл бұрын
I relate to what Mpoomy is saying about becoming a parent
@evelinashawelakaangala44583 жыл бұрын
It’s so true about the 5year mark everything gets better honestly 🥰🥰🥰
@lungeloaphiwe3 жыл бұрын
Mpoomy should work on radio, her voice is so soothing ☺️
@khanyisacelestemnisi72653 жыл бұрын
Right ?
@phumzilekunene8160 Жыл бұрын
I love it as well, I enjoy listening to her
@Innocentia_Rads3 жыл бұрын
I am only 23 I've been struggling to get the right guy for myself, sometimes I would cry and turn to think maybe something is wrong with me. After breaking up with the father of my child I was really broken n even now it's still hard to trust anyone in my space n my child's life as I stay with her. Watching your channels all the time helps me grow spiritually in the dynamic of the desire of wanting a relationship that will allow that person to easily connect with me. Coz at times I'd say maybe I am meant to be alone but sometimes it gets lonely as I want to settle, be married and find a place to belong in someone's world too.
@nomsahebron83843 жыл бұрын
Hi Mpummy I just wanna ask. When Brenden was going through his dark moment and you were the light, wasn't he trying to shut your light?
@phumlamayekiso29113 жыл бұрын
Superbalist is definitely my fighter. I don't know how much I've saved with their sales and offers. 🤩🤩🤩
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
Best online shopping experience!! 🥺😍😍
@sebabatsomollo52293 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this eye opening podcast. Starting to embrace all seasons.
@nadiahaihambo19052 жыл бұрын
When dating you are an actor🤣🤣🤣🤣Brenden killed me
@ntombizethulubisi2603 жыл бұрын
Ok guys when you get time, I mean when you not really busy can we discuss Mrs. Mom's glow. As always very informative podcast may God continue to pour on you as you pour on us. Blessings upon blessings to you both and everyone around you.
@gosegomakone35233 жыл бұрын
Absolutely admire you two💜
@nvsidambe Жыл бұрын
I love how he said pick one and Mpoomy said let me explain both.🤣
@lesegoyv3 жыл бұрын
Worth watching, worth 26 minutes and more, worth my time and worth enjoying. Thank you for the amazing content.
@CharleneMuvhax3 жыл бұрын
Mpumi dropped out of uj when she was 21 and I’m at uj and 21. God is that u speaking?👀👄
@tino_chihwayi3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂like God i see what you doing
@petronellanella55343 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣😂
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
Take all the signs you need sister!! 🤣🤣🤣
@GracefulYvonne3 жыл бұрын
Lol Rest!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@graciousndou14823 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@ratibamohale3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this conversation, Every season has its own purpose. this is such an important conversation. lessons and memories that you created will hold you and carry you at some point.
@sebabatsompo11323 жыл бұрын
Hi I started soul searching and finding myself through christ, I dropped out and started my farming career Mpumi could you please talk about the time you went celibate and how your life changed after celibacy
@tigelechaboneka57773 жыл бұрын
I never know what to say man. Ya'll have a beautiful thing❤️😥 may God bless your family forever and always.. Thank you for changing my life
@Soulcare_chats3 жыл бұрын
Yoh Mpoomy and Brenden always bring it. Thank you for good and meaningful content like this 🔥and like the comment said, I wish I could share with the whole world ✨absolute bliss you guys
@tshire_mocwane3 жыл бұрын
I love this!😍 The responsibility and change that comes with being married and having kids is inevitable.
@ayandayandiendlela62133 жыл бұрын
YOU GUYS ARE SUPER AMAIZING, I DONT KNOW HOW YOU DO IT BUT I BELIEVE GOD GAVE YOU A HUGE ROLL AND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS PODCAST....
@keneiloemyoli3 жыл бұрын
I think for us transitioning into new parents after being married for 6 years was a big challenge.. Great topic. I enjoyed it
@themindprenuer3 жыл бұрын
Brenden, you have a strong head on your shoulders 🙌 thanks guys for this!
@Irene43063 жыл бұрын
Really loved this! Thank you both - it's always insightful to have a perspective from both genders.
@Gugx3 жыл бұрын
Hi guys, silent long term subscriber here 🙈 but I’ve loved watching you guys evolve & im so happy for you for all you’ve achieved & been blessed with 🥰 Please could you give us the name of the podcast of the psychiatrist you quoted in the beginning Mpoomy. Thank you 🙏🏽
@love_jae3 жыл бұрын
We all buzzing!! 😍❤️
@MsOwam3 жыл бұрын
Oprah’s Super Soul: Getting the love you want
@Gugx3 жыл бұрын
@@MsOwam thank you!
@leratomatlala97163 жыл бұрын
Always find your content refreshing...thanks for sharing
@leratomaredi68433 жыл бұрын
Awwwwwww you guys are the best, may God continue to bless this union♥️
@Laughter-joy3 жыл бұрын
Ayboh Mama Ledwaba ubuhle obungaka🙆🥰❤️(an I have been married for three years now yhoooooo I have a Testimony bt I love my Man 🥰) thank you guys God is using you for our generation an generation's to came .may God keep and protect you an ur family ❤️.
@_nceba__3 жыл бұрын
One thing about Mpoomy and Brenden. They are so real 🤞🏿🙌🏿❤️
@Jabulile1063 жыл бұрын
Brenden's wisdom 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@TakyiwaaYiadom3 жыл бұрын
Lol hahaha Brandon said "you are an actor all of a sudden" 😂😂😂😂. I feel you man! Dating is indeed hard!
@PheladiNewman3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU GUYS . oh my word your vlogs always speak to Ntate Newman and I . you are our daily therapy nje . Stay blessed.