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[@ayandanyathi1331]

I agree with Mpumi. After a fall-out with a friend, don’t expect to go back to where things were, just focus on what’s ahead. We should not shy away from having uncomfortable conversations with our friends, don’t rush to apologise and forgive because most time it’s not genuine.

[@kiwigirl359]

Wow so true. We need to embrace what happened and should we mend the friendship it should be done intentionally

[@siyolisedalingozi162]

I love how Brenden doesn't really want to have an opinion on how people live their lives... It's a teaching moment, everytime!

[@chumabanjwa4662]

Brenden is so emotionally wise. Bless!

[@thandonm]

Guys...im 6 min into this but i just need to pose and acknowledge how beautiful Mpoomy is. Also, guy i love how you've been keeping neutral colors in your latest videos, it makes everything look so exquisite. You are doing a great job

[@tebothekiso]

My husband was also nice to me when we met but I had to initiate things. I told him that he had to make up his mind about me because we both like each other 😂😂😂 I basically gave him an ultimatum. That was 2 years ago. And now we’ve been married for 3 months. And we’re very happy.

[@buhlehlongwane2197]

"if you can't save, don't even think of investing".. I felt that! 🥵🔥

[@nathanvladmir5554]

My favourite couple, as s 20 year old I've learnt a lot about being a future good father and husband. I wish to meet this couple and just dash them a 100k because they deserve it.

[@olwenenenoncokwana8943]

You mean you want to give them 100k??send to us we want it🤣

[@nathanvladmir5554]

@@olwenenenoncokwana8943 if I had it I would, they deserve it, they just so inspiring.

[@slindilemajola]

100% agree with Mpoomy on the “traditional “ way of pursuit. I still fall under those that believe that men should chase and go after the ones they want. That way he appreciates more what he had to work for..

[@kholofeloteffo6250]

When Mpoomy said "men don't wanna be men anymore" my mind "Bafana ba ke banyana, banyana ba ke Bafana". I'll stick to my old ways of dating - men must chase...ain't chasing anyone nna

[@olorato9563]

😭😭 not me thinking the same

[@brendamabusela1168]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@polokomorewanare244]

Please I love it here. You guys said quality, background, wardrobe, make up and INSIGHT. Talk about premium content

[@missquams]

Yeey, love from Kenya. Since I came across this channel I've learnt alot despite being single and young. Can't wait to hear and be part of this discussion.

[@AndiswaMojapelo]

What Brenden has mentioned is the Golden rule of money. : Spend less than you earn. The less you spend, the more you have available to earn. If we miss this, there's basically no disposable income to do anything else.

[@ewonkendwandwe6881]

That facial expression Mpoomy made on 33:02 when Brenden was trying to highlight why an an open marriage can make sense to others, sent me 🤣🤣🤣. One thing about Brenden, He will view concepts from all angles 😅.

[@ofentsewenalesego822]

Yoh! Let's take a minute to appreciate the production. Its amazing how you guys have gradually improved and are gradually improving still. The sound, the background setting, the text-labelling, honestly everything. Truly inspired by the growth.

[@genuinefaith4600]

😂😂😂"Knotless braid princess!" I enjoyed this discussion.

[@tebotshungu6728]

Great installment guys as usual! What I'd say on the friendship with single people is that you can absolutely be in a solid friendship with a person who is single. Paul(a single man) spoke extensively about marriage in the Bible and had the same Spirit we do. So I believe that your single friends can give you valuable advise that can help your relationship with a spouse. It doesn't have to speak directly into your marriage but can be good general advise on how to handle yourself in a certain situation that can help your relationship with your spouse.

[@feliciamswane2216]

You guys are so honest and such individuals, Brenden is so smart and respectful thank you guys for sharing, keep it real Brenden always.

[@lebohangkhoza1297]

when complimenting married people...you start by complimenting the one who's your gender and the. go on to compliment the one who's your opposite gender. Wena wase usucomplimenta indoda yomuntu kanje🙂

[@nomsa06]

“You have to believe in a person…”. No truer words have been said 🙌🏿.

[@TheDoreenTube]

I agree with Mpoomy on that one. I don’t believe in girls making the first move yo. If he wants it bad enough, he’ll take initiative. Anyone can be nice🙊

[@maggieramara]

Whatt??!! Doreen you also watch them??😅 Welcome to South African content

[@TheDoreenTube]

@@maggieramara They’re my faves! I’ve Ben watching them for 2 years and I LOVE THEM.

[@DrLeratoPhoto]

I agree with Brenden that a lady should ask a guy out. If a guy is slow to make a move and you feel him, go for it, sis. I did and we are now happily married for 3 years :-).

[@antonettewambani805]

Same scenario with me

[@NomaMPride]

Brenden,"I wasn't poor,I was broke." Yes please😂😂🤞

[@amo_thake]

I've always felt like I'm seen as the kind of person that doesn't like to apologise, when in actual fact, I have no problem with apologising when I know that I messed up. I've always felt like I just apologise to validate the other person but I am unsatisfied in the end because I was really being my best in the situation. This was so comforting to me. Thank you

[@gracematundu3951]

I completely agree with Mpoomy's point about how men don't wanna be men anymore 😂😂. Silly example, but I'm in matric and so far at school we've had zero promposals, when we question the boys as to why they're not asking girls out, they say that they are afraid of rejection😭. Like no man

[@mukololo_Lorna]

I this "potential" thingy deserves a podcast separately Pls.. Coz people want to be with a person based on wat they can see or have physically, but fail to see the potential.. Discernment spirit is very very important

[@nomsa06]

“If you can’t save, don’t even think of investing.” Damn 😭. You have literally taught me so much in one line.

[@nontokozokatane5433]

This conversation reminds me of when I started my career as an engineer, aspiring but making very little to nothing. Then my friend introduced me to you earlier video where you were singing "Jesus make new wine out of me🍷🎶😍" Need I say more... In the crushing I surrender.. Sometimes it seems like nothing is happening and you are pouring your all into something. Something is always happening. Think of the parable of the talents in the Bible 🙏. It takes time but put it your all and something will always prevail

[@vanessaglory7094]

Brendan “if you are a deep mzalwane” ay that line sent me🤣🤣😂😂😂you guys are funny. Can’t keep a straight face while watching you. Thanks for the chat

[@landiwemchobokazi60]

This Q&A is great! I love the friendship between the two of you guys! May the Lord continue to bless you. We love you ❤

[@AS-ue9kg]

Love "afloat not affluent " -laughter was Amazing!!!!. Love tuning in to your podcasts guys!

[@fiinanambambi5459]

We are consistently learning and growing on this channel. Thank you so much Mrs mom and Brendane Praise for always sharing those gems of wisdom with us. It truly does make a difference in our lives, we are mostly impacted and changed for the better by being a part of this family. Thank you once more.❤❤❤ Ps. These words come from the bottom of my heart. I am truly filled with so much gratitude and May God bless you fam.🙏🏾

[@laimiuda6213]

So happy to learn from my favorite couples,as always😍❤❤

[@slorethaobaking6760]

Notification Gang, keep them coming, more wisdom and knowledge, much love my favs💖

[@mrspboledi]

I enjoyed this Q&A so much and resonated with the views about being a creative and not doing it for the money. Such a wholesome conversation guys

[@kelemohutsioa16]

I really enjoyed this video, I even took notes! It is a blessing to be able to learn from you guys! Thank you and may God continue to richly bless you!

[@khanyapambo9197]

I think women should stop waiting around to be “chosen” and start asking questions. She clearly wants a future with him so she can ask him what his goals are for their relationship and if they are not on the same page ,she can then make a decision for herself. Waiting around can cause resentment in the long run.

[@modileshikoane8174]

Yeah, but naye waiting 8 years to have the right conversation? Now it's harder to let it all go,.. Not saying it will be easy, but he is not what she wants to have a future with,

[@nokomashala8762]

Thank you for having these conversations they help alot, currently 20 and there are things I am going to have to navigate and I think these conversations are great awareness givers. So happy I can always come back and listen again. God bless💐❤

[@ntsakomavunda9018]

You guys are just amazing....the alignment in your conversation is incredible. Be blessed and be kept.

[@thandekandhlovu2200]

Good to have you guys back, loving the topic❤️

[@DiscoverywithBecky]

Always excited for another banger from yall, Lots of love ❤ and blessings 🙌

[@boagomolotsi6226]

The high potential chat will always remind me of acrimony 😂😂 great advise especially finical advice

[@Makunela_Mohobane]

Realest conversation. I love love you guys🙇🏾‍♀️ God bless❤️❤️

[@nomsa06]

“I wasn’t broke, I was broke” damn Mr. Ledwaba ngalama one liner are top tier.

[@Saneh_M]

It’s always such an honour watching our favourite people 😍🙌🏻🥹

[@rejoicetinarwo3056]

Perspective on friendship by Mrs Mom👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 we should categorize our relationships💯

[@RuthsGiftedHands]

Just started watching you guys a few days ago & I LOVE YOU GUYS!

[@neziswabaleni8946]

I really enjoyed today's podcast as always, thank you ❤️

[@imbalienhle5904]

Really enjoyed this episode. Really motivating it’s true, if something is your passion money doesn’t matter that much. Love it.

[@gloryrichy]

I enjoyed every bit of this Q & A. Intelligent and mind engaging discussions wow mehn! i am blessed with you guys. And keep up the great work guys. love you😘(sharing this vid with my friends right away💃💃

[@lifewithvanessanngcobo4287]

What a healing thank you guys God continue blessing you with a spirit of wisdom.

[@silindokuhlekhubone]

Premium Quality International Content !!!! Such an honor to receive such content wooow We are a blessed Generation with you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Naniso]

The way I use what you guys say in conversations is like we are real life friends🤣 I will go like, Mpoomy said this… my boo gets confused because he doesn’t know you all. I’m definitely getting him to watch one of your episodes 🤣 I’m done with the questions.

[@mabathomosekeli]

🤣🤣🤣

[@patlenemathye2139]

I can’t wait for the day you record a video announcing your first book. Love your content Mpoomy! Here’s to living intentionally❤️

[@bonakalisomlotshwa5271]

Love love these conversations always looking forward for the new podcasts

[@GracefulGrowthCorner]

Been waiting... The excitement on my face... My gosh

[@KhanyisileDlamini23]

The chemistry between you guys is so beautiful😭we learn so much from you guys and love you so much❤❤

[@katlegokweetsane2758]

Lol I use to also be old school about asking a man out. I now agree with Brenden, some guys are shy and need a "push" 😁 The relationship can still work out perfectly. For example, bona Pretty Ugly and Bontle 😍 A beautiful relationship that started with the lady shooting her shot.

[@nelisalayini3847]

It's Mpumi's perfect makeup for me...love the topic guys ,thank you.

[@sehlodirachel3220]

I always learn one or two things from u guys ….keep pushing we love it here❤️

[@temoshomafolo4314]

Always a pleasure, Thank you 🙏

[@graceshonga932]

I learned a lot from this, thanks guys 💕

[@portiamnguni2810]

Finances are something close to my heart, what the scripture says in Deuteronomy 8:18, " Remember the Lord your God. He is the one who give you the *Power to be wealthy*...." I'm going to end it here but my thing is we have the Power that is vested in us by the Lord our God to be successful all we have to do is to put on the work and be disciplined and intentional. We can't ask for spirit of money then we sit and do nothing, God gave us the power to be successful and wealthy.

[@pinkimanong2704]

I love Brendens perspective, he knows what works for him and what God has planned for him but he won't look at what people's lives are structured. What he also said about being broke but having potential 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

[@olesegoblessed7731]

I love the braids 🤦🏾‍♀️😭😭 Please plug me. You look gorgeous

[@biancacave3898]

The way Mpoomy almost got jealous there when Brenden said "I would want to be asked out" 😍😂 so sweet.

[@lindelwa808]

😂😂😂😂😂I saw it too.

[@biancacave3898]

@@lindelwa808 on some "Hellooo I'm right here" 😂😂 I love it.

[@mongwaitshephangkekana4876]

The open marriage issue is so tricky lol! New perspective on the concubines even in the Bible. I think the conversation should span beyond just finances and also include the humas-apect. Very interesting topic!

[@oleratorefilwemotshebe2874]

Mrs mom looks gorgeous 😍

[@KamogeloMaponya]

You guys are glowing !!!!!

[@ayabongamtyingizane1275]

I have cost us a lot of money but I have also made us a lot of money 🔥🔥

[@mosaseane8374]

This was very interesting to watch and very informative. You both have the wisdom of God. I have learnt so much from this podcast. ❤

[@AllThingsLindo]

Sooo powerful. It's okay for people to not want more, you just need to find someone who wants more. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@beulahshouse9809]

I enjoy Brenden's open-mindedness so much.

[@maposomahlako2512]

Nice closing Mpumi, I so much agree

[@TheSaneliswa]

I really enjoy these ..so informative. You guys are great :)

[@providentialliving122]

This is a packed and profound, helpful presentation. Thank you guys

[@nolwazinkosi8711]

The friendship conversation hey, I think we also mustn’t find ourselves in situations where we move on with people that have done thing that really hurt us. You can forgive someone and choose not to want to move on with them.

[@nopinkiedema4001]

Notification Gang my favourite Mrs Mom hello. Missed you so much ❤❤

[@khelisimsimanga7851]

Love you guys. You are awesome. 💕💕💕

[@mongwaitshephangkekana4876]

A bit uncomfortable with the lion-buck analogy. I think that is the very mentality we are trying to dismantle. It's not chasing, it's communication. I absolutely agree with Brenden. How the relationship starts does not define how it will progress. Definitely nothing wrong with women taking initiative.

[@kholiswa__M]

15:30 " knotless braids 🤴 " 😂😂 Man I love you guys😊

[@mbaliyam]

Hey guys, please don’t forget us there by the podcast. Some of us listen in the car on our way to & fro work. Love you guys thanks bye lol 💕

[@kholekilemotloi]

I loved this so much!

[@moemedi_m]

Notification gang gang! Missed you guys❤

[@eagleswings7834]

You guys r such a treasure thank u for this discuss

[@pumlanimalashe]

Braid Princess, the way Brenden said and Mpumi smiled ❤️❤️❤️😍

[@Busiesholo]

Thank you for encouraging me as a creative❤️

[@g07t3522]

Today Brenden brought it. Well done guys.

[@cleodatematthews8680]

Affluent😂😂😂kuback room? This made me laugh 😃 watched it over and over again...love this young couple. Thanks for sharing the wisdom to many out there🙏🏼

[@mizbuka]

I enjoyed this conversation sooo much especially the finances part

[@keamogetsoematuna613]

I love how you guys watched insecure ✨

[@manishimweconsolee2544]

I agree with mpoomy Men dont wanna be men anymore ! And they are naturally chasers! Girls should ease the process but i don't think it is for them to chase. But surely clarity is needed. When things are clear, a girl Can Ask him out too. Thank you very much, i always learn things from your podcasts. Be blessed🙏

[@AllThingsLindo]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love the debates about who was making what in the beginning 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 zama zama hle

[@nadiahaihambo1905]

Very insightful, thanks. All the way from 🇳🇦🥳🥳

[@beatanamene2307]

Ofcourse; fulfilment is the go. Thanks much.

[@sanelyfchannel3745]

Eish Generations changes but I'm with Mpumi on this 1, indoda mayeshele ingavezi amasigns a confusing la😂😂😂

[@nomsa06]

I have a question 🙋🏿‍♀️… I’m 31 and my potential husband is a 24 year old actuarial scientist who’s starting work next year. Do we even have a chance? He is quite mature and very focused.

[@boniswanyenzane7876]

I admire both of you so much. you are both so smart ☺️ and you balance each other so perfectly. Brenden is like My Man they have this beautiful trait of understanding that just because they do not agree with something it doesn't mean it's wrong or can't be done by other people, someone I'm learning from My king coz Mna if it's something that doesn't make sense to me then it's wrong there's no any other way around it and that's wrong.

[@sanelyfchannel3745]

I can't actually listen to you the whole day yazi❤️🙏

[@lulekamossie8976]

That lady who has been dating a man for 8 years with no prospect of marriage and the guy isn't trying to develop himself, is stuck in sunk cost fallacy when you feel like you've invested so many years of yourself into a person - but to be honest the investment is gone. It doesn't matter to him how many years she's been there with him. She needs to say goodbye.

[@NsikaQ]

She must love herself enough and admit she tried and there is nothing else she can do .She must let go years mean nothing

[@olesegoblessed7731]

I love you guys so much ❤️

[@nolwazimathibela5321]

I honestly feel Mpoomy about ukushela. Because men really don’t want to chase anymore. Brenden is also making a valid point about the old skool way being toxic. It’s a tricky one. Sis should just do what she’s comfortable in