All the Red Flags LaLa Anthony Ignored With Carmelo 🚩 🚩

[@richardhardaway7813]

Lala was a C- lister at the time she and Carmelo met. There were no "red flags" there were only things Lala was willing to accept/overlook. She got her money up, Carmelo's money has went down along with his notoriety... It boils down to Status & Money

[@SagRising19]

Very true

[@Tiajones333]

LaLa always had her own career and her own money

[@macewbee]

Good point

[@kenneyp.9456]

@@Tiajones333 just stop she was no where near as much before Carmelo

[@honeybee8002]

@@kenneyp.9456 In this situation, I don't think it has ANYTHING to do with money or status!!! One partner was still in love and the other wasn't!! PLAIN AND SIMPLE!!! This situation has NOTHING to do with status or money!!!!!!!

[@centellvasilopoulos]

Let's normalize women leaving the first time a man cheats on you. Also, stop using "he made a mistake". A mistake is I tripped and dropped the jello on the floor or I signed the wrong area on my tax forms. Not, I slipped and impregnated someone else. If he cheats once, that should be it, sis! There are over 7 billion people on this earth so don't get caught up with someone that is not honest or loyal. Sis should have left a looooooong time ago.

[@youtubestreets3915]

Their relationship was a big come up for Lala, before Carmelo she was just a Vijay on MTV. I'm pretty sure it wasn't all about love🙄.

[@centellvasilopoulos]

@@youtubestreets3915 so you're saying she's a gold digger and deserved what happened to her? Why reduce her that way?

[@tinyking11]

💯💯 Facts. I always leave and don’t look back.

[@centellvasilopoulos]

@@tinyking11 period

[@KingRousey]

She should have dated me too be honest still be married happy today 😂

[@abafrancois72]

Choke no joke said she's NOT so innocent as she seems.. He said she was with someone else and when they went to some club it had a huge incident and the guy spat in her face... She like the life style and she CHOOSE to stay..

[@rrg]

The guy was her disrespectful and bitter ex. He wanted smoke with Carmelo. It didn't end well for the guy lmao

[@cosmicbeauty5682]

Lol I knew someone was gonna mention THIS 😂😂😂

[@Culley91]

Exactly !!!! This was melo rookie year too like cmon before he played an nba game lol let’s not make him sooooo much of a bad guy

[@yungtap]

Naw he ain't want smoke with Melo. Melo wanted smoke with him for spitting in Lala's face... The guy is 5 feet and Carmelo 6'7" tail wanted to fight him... Being a simp for fighting a man over the girl they were sharing at the time. 🤣🤣🤣 This girl ain't no saint. Y'all wanna make hoes into saints... How far our women have fallen from grace 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@abafrancois72]

@@Culley91.. Exactly!

[@ginasunero6212]

A man so young and with all that money is just waiting to flaunt his wealth to different women.she brought it on hersef after she found out his age she should've left idk how much you liked him.time heals all wounds.

[@ThatChickKim]

Wow. I knew about the daughter Melo fathered, but heard nothing about those twins until this video 😬.

[@Adonisbrown21]

Imagine being loved by all celebrities, then you going to do her like that?! Lala should have known…

[@SoSo-uh6tu]

SOME men will propose to women to hold them in place until they’re actually ready claiming they’re afraid of committing. I’ll never understand proposing and stalling marriage but will have children as if that’s not an everyday, lifetime commitment.

[@ragantate3995]

That part

[@davinodum8966]

Exactly. I'm not proposing then staying engaged for yrs! We got 6 months till our wedding!!

[@jeralinsunflower7300]

Right? It’s dumb.

[@TheSpiritRoom23]

Bm logic tho… they’ll stick their peen raw in anyone but will run away from marriage papers😮‍💨

[@jayrossxo]

Relationships in the industry are very questionable & shouldn't be something to look at as "goals." There's a lot of foolery going on and it's all messy. People need to stop looking at celebrity relationships and actually immerse themselves around married people in real life. I've seen way more happy relationships within the black community in real life than what the media portrays.

[@jayc5756]

True

[@IllDawgable]

I heard dat

[@mspixie1100]

Exactly 💯

[@paige4128]

Exactly!!!

[@bjc4204]

Yelp, just like Bey and Jay-Z. Their relationship was/is full of cheating, lies and deception. I'd bet they BOTH have cheated the whole relationship. Bey is known for sleeping with her female backup dancers and one band mate. Jay is known to sleep around period, (especially with youngings)and not care for or claim his outside kids. They both are well known for threesomes with various people. Nothing is goals about their so-called marriage.

[@jwalka534]

Once they start cheating on you their love has left the building 😒

[@rrg]

Facts

[@binkyfaith]

Sad but true… but u can’t tell people nuffin 😒

[@Imnzube]

Period!

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

Yeah same with mines once shit come to the light everything lost

[@ashleyskitchen7186]

The love probably wasn't lost but a man that chests definitely doesn't respect you.

[@rosstemple9092]

It doesn't matter how good a female looks, how good she cooks, how wonderful she is in bed, I was submissive, how independent common how many kids 🤦🏽‍♀️ A MAN IS GOING TO DO WHAT HE WANTS 👈🏾

[@shemar3572]

So TRUE!!! That’s just the way some guys are!

[@carlinecarline5981]

True that

[@BABYTRILLTHUGGIN_]

A man that does not want that lifesytle with you will cheat' dog you' and not love you unconditionally. i man that wants to be there' love a woman and her kids unconditionally AINT GOING NO WHERE. trust me!!!

[@cosmic808]

Same has some woman

[@Ricogrime]

You didn’t mention how smart you were how funny you are. How supportive adjusting man gtfoh

[@DeeeeeKay392]

Goes to show, you can get surgery, you can love a man to death but he’s going to do what he wants to do.

[@rrg]

That's why you get surgery for yourself (or just learn to love the skin you're in ❤)

[@chicgal3]

Something Khloe Kardashian needs to learn as well😭

[@Jmarie0134]

@@chicgal3 she the main one 😂😂😂😂

[@javennabellingerlearnsomething]

Right also goes to show cheating happens to the Best of women Rich & Not. Wealthy! The main thing to remember is it’s NOT you ladies it’s something about him or in him that causes him to cheat because he could have walked away!!!💯

[@kassianahjoint1778]

Why you gotta shade her like that smh

[@lindadube9380]

Mistake number 1 accepting small lies like age , names etc. Never date anyone with a nickname

[@anyyyyyyyyyyyy]

I'm so interested. Why would you not date someone with a nickname?

[@virgoat9586]

I don't understand why more women don't speak on this. This has ALWAYS bothered me. Why is your grown ass introducing yourself by your street name? HUGE no no & turn off 🙅🏾‍♀

[@NB-nh2sf]

He didn't lie. She's lying. She knew that boy was 19 You think a guy drafted 3rd after LeBron. Lol she said she's a basketball fan .

[@Prettychefoj]

Can we take a moment to admire how beautiful Lala is 🥰

[@Nini_473]

In a Khloe Kardashian come up kinda way

[@secondaccounte1209]

You are too.. lala gets enough attention, I'll admire you instead.. its a small picture but I can clearly make out you're just as if not more beautiful. . B safe, and go do a photo shoot and put up some new pictures.. your gorgeous 😍😘.. take care an b safe

[@brendablessed1223]

@@secondaccounte1209 haiombwi ivo broo🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@popwilly3080]

Then what😒

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

I like Lala. Seeing the lackluster attitude Carmelo had toward her was so frustrating to watch. Her reality show showed how he just didn’t seem that into her. She appeared to lack self esteem because Carmelo kept doing awful things to her & she kept taking him back. I’m glad she finally let him go.

[@theadvancedforce1017]

You have a real bias against blk men regardless if they are faithful or not. Nobody is perfect and lala is not a saint like the sisterhood suggests. Leave Melo alone and show your anger towards the guy in buffalo that did that horrible crime. You won't tho.

[@enyonamagbemadzo8684]

@@theadvancedforce1017 huh? You sound d*mb asf. Typical BM who has no sense of accountability, you just deflect onto others. Just grow up.

[@DandyDuh]

@@theadvancedforce1017 Who's your comment for?

[@theadvancedforce1017]

@@DandyDuh not you beautiful. The other girl.

[@victormurry1420]

Opooòpòooĺ

[@SagittariusQueen1980]

The red flags were the stars of this video, lol! It's very important to love yourself so you can know what you'll tolerate and won't tolerate when it comes to relationships.

[@BABYTRILLTHUGGIN_]

AMEN

[@katstaples3264]

Amen sis!

[@SoulVibr8tion]

My heart goes out to LaLa, but at some point we have to take accountability for the people we choose. You cannot love the idea of being in love so much that you lose the love for yourself. As y’all can see, it was literally taking a toll on her health. Mello would have been gone a long time ago. Because ain’t no amount of money or love worth putting your peace of mind in jeopardy…or your health.

[@godisamazing7074]

AMEN

[@kingnighto7459]

LALA ALWAYS BEEN A CHEATER....SHE WAS WITH STEVIE J BEFORE CARMELO AND LEFT STEVIE J BECAUSE OF COURSE MELO WAS HEADED TO THE NBA .....AND I THINK LUDACRIS WAS SMASHING THAT....

[@SoulVibr8tion]

@@kingnighto7459 what are your resources?

[@kingnighto7459]

@@SoulVibr8tion you mean who ?

[@SoulVibr8tion]

@@kingnighto7459 they said it was a guy named Suga J. Not Stevie J. I’m looking it up now.

[@marywilliams9496]

Not only was he cheating, he was completely and publicly embarrassing her🙄

[@keisha609]

She knew what she signed up for , let’s be honest

[@biggavell2414]

Shea a gold digging thot. Who cares

[@malayacarey69]

​@@keisha609nobody "signs up" to be cheated on and humiliated. it's not like he was walking round with the words "serial dang a lang swinger" stamped on his forehead. HOWEVER, once their true self comes out, it's up to you to decide what kind of person you wanna be. the kind that will shut up and take it or hopefully, the type to leave at the first sign of blatant disrespect.

[@cleftheart1969]

Look sistas I'm not bashing brothas and I'm not dictating who people can date/marry. But l am at the point of my life that l will not limit myself to only brothas. I will keep my options open. I will not limit my happiness just to keep black love alive. Don't get the wrong idea l love black love but everyone our community is not suitable IJS.

[@cadillacdeville5828]

EXACTLY... If you want a healthy marriage... Or marriage at all... Waiting for only a black man would be pointless. It's been your options and be the best version of yourself. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💓💓💓💓

[@vn9933]

Me💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@teeteeme5752]

Most of them are uncommitted. If he doesn’t commit after a year, please mooooove on. They are time wasters.

[@jayc5756]

You should be looking at character more than race tbh. But like me, I'm interested in sistas...so yes us men date more casually than women...so thats why we date out more. But now in my dating with a purpose phase...it would be stupid to date non bw. But thats just me. I'm a Pro Black guy. But if you wanna choose better...you should choose based on background and upbringing...not race. Wait, as I'm writing this....why did this come up when talking about these 2. You do know that there are bw that ain't 💩 just like bm. Same as other races of men or women. I was Literally Just talking about this with my homegirl. So why do you think it will be better on the other side. The grass isn't greener on the other side necessarily ma. Yeah, if you like others amd wanna date out....cool. But the fact that you brought that up on this topic, sounds like you tryna group these type of dudes to bm. And thats Not the case. Get it together ma. IJS

[@jayc5756]

@@teeteeme5752 Most of who??

[@torriebrown9607]

She was in love that way she didn't notice the red Flags. The side pieces knew he was married and was looking for a CHECK.

[@liveyourbestsoftlife5705]

Truly she was in love with younger NBA star I'm sure his money was appealing to her. It's not side pieces that break up marriages it's the MAN YOU MARRIED. If you see a sucker then lick it,is how most people that's securing the bag thinks.

[@torriebrown9607]

@@liveyourbestsoftlife5705 secure the bag is right for all

[@blackmatt78]

She knew Dating a ball player was a bad idea. She chose him so she’s at fault.

[@torriebrown9607]

@@blackmatt78 Well she want to believe he was going to be Devote man like the rest of them. NBA player or not. 😊

[@lifewithkashmeere]

I don't see how these guys never know that these side females only looking for a check, they always get caught

[@MsJP]

Well DJ Clue need 2 stop hooking ppl up 😂

[@rrg]

🤣🤣🤣

[@r.m.90]

He honestly seems like a terrible human being. Cheats and lies without a conscience and even worse, doesn't take care of his children. I can't stand a man who treats his kids based on how he feels about the mother. Those children didn't ask to be here.

[@RITAS1964]

Him not taking care of his children is a lie; he takes care of all his children

[@r.m.90]

@RITAS1964 Maybe NOW he does but he didn't before.

[@taotaostrong]

Some people mistake red flags 🚩 for a parade. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@rrg]

😂😂😂

[@uploadvidz4490]

Or a race

[@rrg]

@@uploadvidz4490 Love that 😂

[@Islandgirl69166]

Good one 😂

[@joslinmartin2630]

I agree

[@kathleenweinberg6442]

LaLa Anthony continue to live her life with her son and continued her career in success

[@rrg]

❤

[@kathleenweinberg6442]

Hello

[@rrg]

@@kathleenweinberg6442 Hey boo

[@Tiajones333]

Facts

[@liveyourbestsoftlife5705]

So. But she still need to see red flags , because clearly he's was cheating from the start RAW.

[@novalove4790]

I remember on her reality show, she constantly stated "my man doesn't cheat". I really hope and pray she has found healing and peace. We all have made crazy decisions when it comes to love.

[@rrg]

Dang 😩

[@prettymelanin4870]

He always seemed standoffish to me on their reality show. He cousins was funny tho.

[@meekashabazz6135]

@@prettymelanin4870 Yes I just commented that. He always seemed like he did not like her like that. She would go for kisses he would turn his head.

[@shutit4024]

I remembered I had a friend that would brag that her (then) man doesn’t “cheat” she said it as an insult to me and my friends well turns out her man cheated and I guess broke up with her just to make her a single mother

[@TheSpiritRoom23]

@@shutit4024 something I’ve learned is these men will embarrass you. I always heard never brag or never post them on any public forum🫢 they never seem to disappoint when it comes to making a whole fool out of you😮‍💨

[@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris]

I think parents need to tell their children their experiences having a mate so hopefully they don't repeat what the parents did. I think La La knew about the infidelity but she made excuses for Carmelo. As long as he came home it was all good. The big thing that bothers me the most is the unprotected sex he was having with those women. He coulda gave his wife something penicillin doesn't cure then what?? Then there's the father-less children he begat. Did these women know he was married? I'm quite sure they did. They were out and about. Did they get pregnant because he promised them what he shoulda been giving his wife? Actually it doesn't matter, she's free of him. She should just chill and possibly date. Don't be so quick to get wifed up.

[@jayc5756]

Exactly

[@kibttdg9655]

Way to invested

[@jbo6096]

Smh she just a woman. Nothing special. Time showed you that she like all the rest.

[@theprettyblacknomad]

Exactly, especially to that last part! There are too many women desperate to be married… Sit TF down somewhere! That’s how you end up with narcissists and psychopaths!!

[@AS-wj1du]

Sadly she doesn't want to get married because she's traumatised, could be missing out on a great man. These men would still be trash without money but money money makes them worse

[@anorbert38]

You see, Her intuition told her from the start that man was all wrong! Never go againsts what your gut instinct is telling you. Absolutely love your uploads and hilarious memes!😂 Thank you so much always! 💓

[@crystalc820]

And let's not forget to also mention that during her marriage with him when they had that reality show....everytime she would call her then husband on the phone....he always sent her to voice-mail 😫😫😫🤦🏾‍♀️ that right there to me was a HUGE red Flag & very much embarrassing 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@rrg]

Did he really? LMAO

[@crystalc820]

@@rrg Yerrrrp!!!!!

[@tinyking11]

😂😂😂💯🤦🏽‍♀️

[@yonie8094]

And rush her off the phone!!!

[@intentionalgreatness]

Exactly. He never seemed into her.

[@jayc5756]

He only got engaged to her to cuff her up...so she don't entertain any other men. A lot of cheaters do that...give you that commitment Knowing they don't really want a commitment or to be committed in a relationship...they wanna entertain other women...but Definitely Don't Want You Entertaining others too...so yeah.

[@dahliar410]

He was young then

[@rrg]

Interesting...

[@jayc5756]

@@dahliar410 True. But he was still cheating when he got older. So yeah, you don't want to be in a commitment...Don't Be In 1. Its really that simple.

[@dahliar410]

@@jayc5756 he was a kid and she was another brittney renner

[@jayc5756]

@@dahliar410 Not proven that she was another Brittney Renner. Based on how RRG reported it...she didn't actively seek him out cause he money, fame and fortune and cause he was an up and coming big time basketball player. So idk.

[@ericagarrett7870]

That's why women shouldn't put pressure on any man!!

[@raytayboogie]

And why they should leave when they’ve spent too much time waiting ESPECIALLY if agreed compromises haven’t been met

[@ramsesstafford4640]

Say that louder 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 🙂👌🏽

[@lexnicole9599]

So she should’ve just stayed a baby mama?!

[@ramsesstafford4640]

@@lexnicole9599 yeah

[@JRenee-Sings]

@@ramsesstafford4640 Exactly, you see where becoming the wife got her. Step children, divorce and bitterness

[@lynns4426]

We all need to learn about self respect, confidence and discernment at a young age. Our culture puts pressure on forcing relationships. I hate that she went through such a rollercoaster but hopefully it led to wisdom.❤️

[@skindippedingold]

Yes we do!

[@adwoaa7419]

This comment is everything

[@cakesinthecity]

This whole message is facts

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

It only puts pressure on black women, in order to keep these “fathers” interested in their kids. All this main and side chick shit that black women invest in- is exactly why they end up like this. He will prioritize her child over the others because she was first and so that child is “legitimate “. Even though he was the product of lust just like his others were .

[@jgirlinluv55]

When they lie about little stuff they end up lying about big stuff. I learned the hard way

[@MoDavI-sl7iy]

The saying, "love is blind" - - is true. We've all been there, one time or another.

[@bo_arrow]

Lust is blind not love

[@sabir1208]

No tf we haven't, it blows my mind how much other women put up with just to say they have a man. Couldn't be me

[@teeteeme5752]

Geesh she had her whole face done or is just the nose. Please love yourself sistas

[@jpreddy3665]

She looks like Keri Hilson now

[@specialk8927]

Nose looking like vivica fox nose 👃

[@tabbypanda82]

She looks beautiful 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@OGShawnDaDon]

Hell LaLa is a red flag.

[@rrg]

How so? 👀

[@mrsonpoint]

Bih😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@rrg]

@@mrsonpoint LMAO

[@Lexx1192]

🤣🤣🤣

[@DesignzRUs1]

Yeah, she’s definitely an opportunist who latched on to successful men to climb the ladder.

[@specialk8927]

If he lied about his age just think about the other lies! She did look much older than him

[@rrg]

🚩🚩🚩

[@raebell3538]

He never lied about his age. I was living in PA during his highschool era before he got drafted. He was in all types of bb tournaments all over for highly ranked ballers. I remember once seeing her at an event that AI was having for basketball players and she was there trying to lock it down early. She knew his age way before he was drafted. She thought she was scheming on young dumb jock because she had a lil fame.

[@iambounceback]

@@raebell3538 Exactly. I know this video is set to a certain group but LALA is not innocent at all. She did her thing yet tried to play victim. When you have a popular young athlete their age is always available. She wanted to do her thing and still be attached to his money.

[@quanbrooklynkid7776]

@@iambounceback yup its for these females

[@lifewithkashmeere]

I always thought she did too , he probably lied about it all lol

[@Yaya-cl3tu]

Thank you for confirming LaLa's age! I thought I was trippin because I distinctly recalled her being much older than Melo years ago only to see that Wikipedia currently has them with a mere two-year age difference, lol. How is it that I am getting older, meanwhile celebs that used to be my age are getting younger?

[@rrg]

She still looks great for her age. She should just embrace it.

[@taureanmay7480]

@@rrg yes.

[@lastgirlstandin]

She recently said she’s way older than him and neva hid that. It’s been years that Wikipedia isn’t all true. A regular joe can change anything on Wiki for $9.99

[@seekinghimdaily92]

I’ve always known LaLa to be 5 years older. I *think* “they” did the same thing with Saweetie. She used to be a year younger than me… then all of a sudden she was 2 years younger than me. 🤔 😅 ❤️

[@Aurora0510]

Yeah she kept shaving years off her age. People gonna learn the privilege of getting older.

[@traceylennon1204]

I've often said the mere fact that someone has to resort to an ultimatum is a sign of desperation..a man should want to marry/propose to a woman naturally not by force!!

[@jayc5756]

He only engaged to her to cuff her down. I think he knew deep down that he didn't want that commitment and knew he really didn't want to be committed to just 1 woman. But like a lot of men, we still don't want them with or entertaining other men either. So it is what it is.

[@sanzas4834]

Preach...it never ends well

[@evegenesis6022]

I don’t see it as desperation. I see ultimatums as a woman knowing her value & standing up for herself. I hope LaLa finds true love. She fell for a selfish man. Who hasn’t done that a hundred times before?

[@evegenesis6022]

@Whyyoumadatfacts? 🤷‍♂️ Why do married men outlive single men? Because their wives take good care of them.

[@traceylennon1204]

@@jayc5756 Thank you for that insight frome a males point of view!!

[@stoneysoraclechannel7839]

Always go with your first instinct. I learned that the hard way!

[@TheCutiepie2004]

Never let a person tell you (by words or action) more than once how they really feel about you. Let the first time be the only time

[@rrg]

@@TheCutiepie2004 We agree!

[@amongus9270]

Lala has had a lot of work done over the years she actually looks younger now than she did when she first started dating him I wish her luck and happiness Carmelo is never going 2 change

[@ginacleveland7995]

....never gonna win a championship, either🤣🤣

[@cadillacdeville5828]

She ignored the FLAMING RED 🔥🚒.

[@distinctlydri2831]

She didn’t miss any red flags. She saw them and plowed through them. She knew what was going on and choose to stay.

[@jimjohnson1305]

Probably had something to do with the $160 million Melo was earning. Women already know the deal when they decide to date a young, rich athlete. What part of that says stay at home and be a hubby? They got women lining up and begging to be chosen.

[@distinctlydri2831]

@@jimjohnson1305 you sound slow.

[@jimjohnson1305]

@@distinctlydri2831 You must be Queen of De Nile. Still pretending that it's not bout money. Do you honestly think LaLa would be hanging around if Melo worked at Walmart?

[@distinctlydri2831]

@@jimjohnson1305 ummmmm. I never said anything about money however since you bring it up, it’s not like she is poor and doesn’t consistently work. Woman stay is worst off situations for less. Buy a clue.

[@Ayommari]

@@jimjohnson1305 There is a huge gap between Walmart and NBA star. No college educated woman who worked at BET would date someone working at Walmart.

[@missladyanonymity]

How old is Benjamin Button today? LaLa de-ages like nobody's business. She used to be about 7-8 years older than Melo. Now they're the same age🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@freshbme2]

They both started the relationship based on lies...it was doomed from the start...and there are lots missing from this story!!!👀

[@dahliar410]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@JenniferJones-bo1rx]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@msgadkar]

Surgery. Plenty of it. 😂

[@rrg]

It's back! 😭😘

[@kennyking4554]

For some reason, I was unable to watch your commentary even after refreshing it several times. All I was getting is: "This video is unavailable on this device" statement on my laptop. I just assumed Lala must've snapped!😫

[@rrg]

@@kennyking4554 We're sorry. We had to make an edit for clarity. Can you retype your original comment again so we can pin it? 😭

[@shabazbaptiste688]

I have no sympathy for women who cry tattoo tears when the married men they sleep with and get pregnant by, don’t want to be a ‘father’ to their illegitimate children. Like you knowingly (in this case) SLEPT with a married man. What did you expect!? This man’s not loyal to you or his wife 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️.

[@mommateewhatsgoodtaylor6709]

Exactly

[@Chitownhomestead]

Facts

[@liveyourbestsoftlife5705]

He was eternally engaged to her when he had 1 kid outside of La La,then had 2 more after marriage. LaLa was old enough to know he was a young ball player and No good,she should've left after the first baby. These woman be out for bags not worried about a chick who is really a engaged baby momma or married. Her husband didn't respect her so they not

[@Mr.MallyMall]

First of all no child.is "illegitimate". 2nsd, because he slept with a woman and her pregnant he shouldn't be responsible for raising the child? 3rd. Your points are dumb. How does him cheating on his wife and getting another woman pregnant excuse his duties as a parent? Trick question, it doesn't.

[@sharonh7857]

@@Mr.MallyMall 💯

[@pamcol917]

My heart goes out to her, All you want is for your partner to not embarrass you, and not be a burden intentionally. It's not hard

[@DJaySplitSecond]

In this day and age, good luck with that!

[@seanpug1510]

Then why marry a basketball player all they do is cheat it's a well known fact she wanted to marry rich well cheating is a given with men away from home often hounded by groupies

[@AfroMillennialMomma]

"All you want..."??? Damn that sounds so sad

[@andremorrsion6491]

Was he "embarrassed when and how he got to keep her as his own . Perhaps had she handled her prior relationship the proper way that negative cloud would not have followed . ijs Happy Monday

[@popwilly3080]

@@AfroMillennialMomma bare minimum

[@MsMusic902]

Lala saying she didn’t know his age seemed like she was lying to herself and wanted people to believe it. Melos daughter look just like her daddy. I hope his twins sons make it to the nba and out do their father

[@GhettoKeKe021]

Wait whaaaaattt🤔

[@courtneypalmer53]

I agree with you that the little girl looks like him. I never cared for Carmelo. He's just.......🤢😫

[@quanbrooklynkid7776]

@@courtneypalmer53 like he cares

[@Shay-33]

Should’ve left after the “first baby” rumors ..after U MADE HIM TAKE A DNA test !!! But I’m glad she finally found the self love/and strength to leave !

[@rrg]

❤️❤️❤️

[@jayc5756]

FR. I thought she would've too...but she just kept giving him chance after chance. SMH!

[@naimahabdullah-gulley4405]

The relationship was toxic from the beginning. But being a basketball wife is a very glamorous lifestyle that women will overlook certain choices their husbands make. It becomes how much are you willing to accept to continue to live in the lap of luxury? I also am glad you pointed out their age difference shrinking. I sure was like how did Lala get younger than me.

[@lifewithkashmeere]

I aint gone lie I probably would overlook a lot of the things for the freedom and glamor lifestyle lol

[@gregd4633]

RRG I hope you guys are thinking big because y’all deserve to have a television series. This video was absolutely amazing and I remember when Melo was playing for Syracuse because he helped me win a huge bet. And LaLa was the only reason why I went to Panama City Beach back in the early 2000’s because I used to have a crush on her lol

[@rrg]

Thank you so much for the kind words! We’re glad you won the bet and we bet you had a ball down in Panama City 👀🤣

[@gregd4633]

@@rrg yes……yes in deed I had a great time in Panama City lol 😂 🤣

[@Sunflower94H]

Exactly

[@Ash2beauty]

@@tdackjordan5873 *Marry🙄

[@tdackjordan5873]

@@rrg at the end of the day it's woman who have the final say either they want to keep the baby or not , if a man and woman agree to have a baby in the end a woman can say no thanks and plan B or abort the child and break the father's heart If a man says no he doesn't want a child the woman can and trick him and have the child regardless of his reproductive right I don't believe a man can force a woman to have a abortion but in that case he should have the right to absolve himself of paying child support and forfit his wrights of being a father of the child

[@rashaetate310]

Not sure she’s really the victim… not excusing him either but some people stay for the perks or out of low self esteem. We’ve all stayed in a relationship far too long, but we also have to take accountability for the things we allow.

[@rrg]

You're right! ❤️❤️

[@jayc5756]

I Never do, cause my confidence is Always high...and I got a serious pet peeve off of time being wasted...but thats just me

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

Shes still the victim.

[@natinamack5123]

I haven't. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@CocoaBananas23]

I’m sure like most athlete wives they stay and put up with stuff bc they became accustom to the lifestyle.

[@iamtheeduchess]

RRG is sending me with the red flags but this is good tea 🍿. Any woman who has to make ultimatums should rethink that entire situationship. Relationships are not hard when mutual love and respect is there. I'm glad Lala finally woke up and left that la la land mentality.

[@rrg]

Thanks for watching ❤

[@iamtheeduchess]

@@rrgno thank you for inviting me by providing tea shade and real reality gossip. 🎯

[@driafibromyalgiafighter9342]

Stressed her out so bad, gave her heart palpitations smh

[@preyonce]

Omg that’s sad 😢

[@AshleyWilliams-zs1sp]

Real story I remember being with my ex and my heart use to be racing fast as fuck and uncontrollably shaking. Once it got like that and I’m 21 I had to go. Baby you’re not about to kill me because you don’t appreciate me🤷🏾‍♀️. So be it someone else would love and adore my presence and never want to lose it.

[@MrUniq]

Not that he's blameless..but she did 'find' him at 19 and expected him to commit to a lifelong relationship before he probably even understood himself. And he was a ballplayer at that, kinda shocked they were a couple for so long.

[@raebell3538]

Thank you!!! She ain't innocent. I'm sure she manipulated him sexually to be what she wanted at the time. Then he grew up...

[@tinyking11]

Wow I didn’t know that. 😩😳😳

[@MrRepsMrReps]

What woman in her right mind would expect a 19 year old NBA player to be committed.

[@SNOWQueen87-v1g]

@@raebell3538 Carmelo ain't innocent. How she sexually manipulated him?

[@r.m.90]

She didn't expect anything. He led her to believe that. He had the choice too. Why bother asking her out knowing you wouldn't be faithful? That man is 35+ and STILL cheating. It wasn't about age, it's about his poor character.

[@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris]

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 TOO FAST!! She shoulda listened to her gut.

[@rrg]

Yup 😩

[@blacksheep1502]

She did, Her Gut said. 🤑🤑🤑

[@dezyriquez5764]

Honestly after being engaged for 5 years she got pregnant with her keep a baller baby when she thought the wedding wouldn’t happen then pressured him for Marriage; he had doubts about her then when he didn’t want to marry her, and she knew it; he was really young; I never saw this marriage lasting!!!

[@ShaShaLuva414]

Didn’t this man have 2 whole little humans(Baby) while he was married to Lala. I know about ups and downs lol n relationship but 😳 when the little humans start coming outside the home I’m out 😳. Everyone have a certain level of disrespect we might forgive But Babies Nope not doing it.

[@rrg]

3

[@Awallfl0wer]

I definitely watched the first time y’all uploaded and I will watch it again😂 I like the Fun Fact segment😉

[@rrg]

Thanks for watching again, and we're glad you love the fun facts 😃😘

[@Lexx1192]

Me tooo and the 🚩🤣🤣🤣

[@rrg]

@@Lexx1192 Love you boo!

[@islandbrowning2299]

I feel for LaLa, I have a history of giving third and fourth chances in relationships that were on life support just to go thru the same thing each time lol I hope she definitely has taken time for herself and continue to heal. I'm sure men are lining up but hopefully she truly heals first.

[@cashoutsteve2495]

Facts and wishing LaLa nothing but future blessings and more peace! 🖤🤎

[@erinmcmahon4553]

Me as well 😢

[@seanpug1510]

You give her too much credit she's friends with Kim Kardashian she's a clout chaser hanging with that demonic family

[@sabir1208]

So yall know yall are slow then? I can't 🤣🤣🤣

[@LMoSmoke1984]

That's not the whole story and there are some lies in there. She knew he was 19 and the reason they started dating is because her boyfriend she was currently dating they were at the club together, then Carmelo showed up, she went over there introduced herself, her boyfriend saw that, she came back over, they started arguing, Melo and a few of his guys came over ask was she ok, alright, then she backed up towards Carmelo's side saying yes, then her boyfriend threw a drink in her face then him and Carmelo started fighting. Long story short, he defended her honor and she was impressed. They both agreed to keep their ages and age difference a secret.

[@tdavidson31td]

Right he got sued over that fight everything. Real convenient how that story isn't made public like everything Melo did

[@sabir1208]

What kind of man throws a drink in his girls face🤣🤣🤣

[@jonhester8909]

Set your expectations at the beginning of the relationship, so you don't have to go through this garbage. There's no reason for an engagement to last longer than six months.

[@jayc5756]

I will say within a year...or about a year the most.

[@meelamanhattan6271]

Y’all be so unrealistic. It takes longer than 6 months to plan a wedding if you want your whole family there

[@shutit4024]

@@meelamanhattan6271 you can just get married at city hall than have the wedding later tho

[@shutit4024]

I know somebody that’s been engaged for like 3 years now

[@bazoena]

I think part of it was also not wanting to loose the luxury lifestyle

[@Jessblaze610]

Most of us know LaLa knew what she was getting into she knew he was an NBA prospect she knew his age she plotted on him she seen her meal ticket & she was dealing with somebody when she came at Melo 😂

[@lolamonroe5910]

So dj clue is the matchmaker of toxic relationships...😒noted ✅

[@rrg]

LMAO

[@TBrown-mi8ik]

Listen in my opinion Lala knew that Carmelo didn't want her it was clear as day he been not wanting her they didn't have any chemistry they didn't match and when they had that show on VH1 you could clearly see that he was annoyed by her I think he stayed around for the sake of their son I think the reason why she was trying to hold on to him so bad is because of who he was and she didn't wanna see him with nobody else and she was hanging on to what she was hoping they would be rather than what they actually were but we all knew that from the very beginning it was obvious from my observation

[@conversationswithadrianne]

Yeah. I saw that too. He definitely acted like he didn't like her on that show. I could tell she was holding on to what she wanted them to be instead of coming to grips with reality.

[@bellaapple2166]

That was the first thing I noticed about them. He did not look into her at all. He looked like he couldn't wait to leave out the door. He didn't look in love or any of that. I don't know how they lasted so long. And why didn't he just leave instead of always begging her to stay. On the show he didn't even seem attracted to her.

[@TBrown-mi8ik]

@@bellaapple2166 yeah he most definitely wasn't in love with her as I said I think he just stayed for their son that's it that's all he was clearly annoyed by her and I don't recall him ever begging her to stay I don't think he really cared if she stayed or not because he wasn't happy with her

[@shanl8373]

Lala became “Hollywood “ after she married Carmelo. She’s not the same woman that he married and that’s for sure ..

[@Chitownhomestead]

Facts.. got that body done and everything... that still didn't stop him tho

[@Chazcott]

So.. that means her husband can cheat? I’m not understanding. And clearly he was hesitant to marry back when she was still on her way up so.. I don’t know what this means at all

[@JenniferJones-bo1rx]

Yup

[@bangladeshirealtor]

@@Chazcotthe’s a athlete . they all cheat lol she knew what she signed up for

[@mrsonpoint]

I’m not mad at Lala, the way how blk men have been doing black women. Get that fame and fortune from this ninja. They have no problem giving it to women of no color. I also hate when side chicks blame the wife for cheating spouse not wanting to deal with their side babies. The wife over there minding her business, she don’t even know abt yau’ll. SMH

[@theRealAntowan]

I'm disappointed in Melo. No way you let your beautiful wife get away. Melo had been unfaithful and thats a shame also.

[@_PixalatedCvnttery]

Trust Lala didn’t ignore them she just wanted a ring and got it. In my opinion I think she thought he was going to have a bigger career in basketball.

[@lemonpepper853]

Well, he is a hall of famer. Can't get any bigger than that.

[@queenp8682]

@@lemonpepper853 plz let her know smh she must not watch basketball

[@_PixalatedCvnttery]

I mean like LeBron James.

[@rrg]

He's still in the league making bank

[@Tiajones333]

He did have a bigger career in the NBA plus she had her own career

[@erinmcmahon4553]

I been through those types of situations, and I just don't know if I can be in anything serious again. The humiliation and heart break was too much to bare. I feel for her, and I am cheering for her to continue rise from that. I loved her on the Chi to. I pray for me to win to...

[@brooklynculton5403]

You will, keep growing & glowing.

[@lindajones5172]

She was determined to get a baller and she got one when we do deceptive things it always blows up in our face at some point in time in life and I know that because I was young and have done not so nice things like that before.

[@dahliar410]

Exactly, she’s a social climber

[@blackmatt78]

She knew what came with ball players

[@lifewithkashmeere]

I think we all want a baller , I have always thought about what it would be like to date a celebrity! the money the fame hell even the type of love ...

[@dahliar410]

@@lifewithkashmeere they’re just as broken as the local hoodboogers why do you think it’s any different? It’s worse because they are involved in a lot of inhumane shit. Having coins makes them think they’re god.

[@lindajones5172]

@@lifewithkashmeere Me too lololol

[@ComaLies225]

I personally don’t think age differences are that big of a deal. It all depends on how two people meet and when but to be honest, the thought of dating a fresh faced 19 year old would make me feel like a cradle robber lol.

[@rrg]

She said her friends used to call her that too 😂

[@ginacleveland7995]

@@rrg ...damn!! And she didn't listen

[@Vasquez.213]

She not even that much older than him. Yall females used to be underage dating grown men but it's a problem when a GROWN woman is a lil older than a GROWN man??? Grow up

[@holhol05]

He was too young when he got tied down with Lala... cheating was unfortunately inevitable.

[@nicolesherman8974]

Chile, not this video being deleted and uploaded again 😟. I thought LaLa came for y’all 😩.

[@rrg]

LOL!

[@NYD666]

It just wasn't available to everyone when it was first uploaded. When I pressed the 1st time, it said unavailable.

[@Lexx1192]

Damn, if only she woulda stopped asking Clue 😩 But naw, bc then we wouldn’t have Kiyan

[@rrg]

Lol that's true ❤️

[@Libra_Strings]

Wow! With this timeline, LaLa was playing the hell outta her roles on more than one hit show during all of this. She’s a real one ! I’m glad she’s found another man. Hopefully he makes her happy. She deserves it 💕

[@BirdLadySpeaks]

The only channel that I will rewatch the re-upload for. 💛💛💛💛

[@rrg]

Aww thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@lifewithkashmeere]

they got so much good stuff they have their facts right too

[@shenaelegrand1413]

He was a child when they met and had to grow up. You can see how this experience has deeply changed and matured both of them. La La seems more younger & vibrant now due to managing stress better and loving herself even more. I love to see women come into their full power. Rather than red flags I see a meaningful, evolving, imperfect love story. I believe they will both transcend this fully and live even more Amazing lives✨

[@valerieirvin4330]

Carmelo just a foul of a man!! That's all I'm going to say about him!!!🤨🤨🤨🤨

[@WilliamsPinch]

LaLa has always had low self-esteem. Watching her trying to be like the Kardashians over the yrs has been so sad. I’m trying to understand the appeal of a man like Carmelo who seems to be emotionally unavailable to not just women, but his children also.

[@AfroMillennialMomma]

If we all paid attention to all the red flags in our relationships we would have no relationships. Love is always a risk

[@katstaples3264]

You are right! All you can do is keep those fingers crossed and hope for the best. 🤞🌹😅

[@harriettubman337]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯 all the hindsight 20/20 comments on this thread are hilarious. Life doesn't happen like that AT ALL...YET THEY ARE ALL LOVE GURUS 😂😂😂😂😂

[@anime-nn9kl]

Well said. Imperfect people interacting with each other is the stuff of life.

[@stayhydrated9866]

Great job RRG. It’s amazing how people still find a way to make this about LaLa when clearly Mr. Anthony was at fault. Yes we all play the fool some longer than others but again this man made a very poor choice to not honor his marriage. People please protect your peace folks out here are savage and don’t care. And last but certainly not least take care of your kids

[@jayc5756]

Exactly

[@cadillacdeville5828]

Yes, 100 💯

[@Ash2beauty]

Exactly 💯 and I sense a lot of KS fans in the comment section 🙄, he done created a mass of bitter women blaming robots.

[@larhondaburchett3271]

Now if he lied about something as simple as his age. That should tell you that he’ll lie about anything. Smh!

[@missladyanonymity]

They must live in a state that has that pesky 10 year rule. She banked it!

[@ladyindaroom]

I really have to stop thinking because a woman is very pretty, she does not have to deal with certain things. I would never have thought that Lala would go through some really bad things with some men. Like who would not ask this really pretty Lala to the Prom. She is very beautiful.

[@Neurocaine24]

Y'all had me so scared. I thought I was gonna have a boring ride home. Thank you for the awesome videos!

[@rrg]

Sorry about that bestie. Drive safe ❤️

[@jayc5756]

I watched half. Got a last minute call to work. So I will watch the other half when I get back.

[@rrg]

@@jayc5756 😘

[@Backbypopdemand]

It’s funny how Melo had the red flags 🚩, but when Melo met La La she was in a relationship with Suga J that cause Melo and him to get into a fight!

[@camerondaley6902]

Lala was looking for the money bag remember she was following Kim Kardashians trait find a baller who's going up no down

[@mj5885]

Unpopular opinion: Lala is a legend. She has been in the industry and was one of the many faces on tv throughout my childhood in the early 2000s. Carmelo was a young nba player living a certain lifestyle. She was much older and ready to settle down. Hopefully she finds her person one day.

[@latoriarichardson6754]

💯

[@inndia]

She deserves the best ! Just goes to show women are just as bad as men they knew he was married stay safe people nice story ❤️💜

[@latashajones8933]

LaLa saw the red flags but she ignored for her status and increase of her bag.

[@jayc5756]

Clue did warn her about hooking her up with dudes. He probably already know he got a bunch of players and stuff. Like I don't even ask women to hook me up anymore. They know I'm single...but I think they all see that I'm such a good catch, that they might feel some sort of way with me with another woman...even if I'm not gonna be with them. It just is what it is. But I digress.

[@rrg]

And imagine Carmelo, a 19 year old, was the best of the bunch 😩😩

[@jayc5756]

@@rrg IKR. Sheesh!

[@Lexx1192]

@@rrg Exactly 🥴😩

[@rrg]

@@Lexx1192 😭😭😭😭

[@lavendersunsets7066]

Now she is with a much younger man. which is a waste of time too.

[@deonnadyson]

Wow I didn't know...

[@timmy841212]

Melo played her from the jump.

[@pamelagadson1506]

La la can do bad All By herself the think is she is doing better all by herself how about that

[@MakaykayLAMB]

Going thru a bad marriage can really scar you.

[@leroybarnett5396]

As y'all know and see people with Millions go through the same problems that normal people go through in life the only difference is they have money and this just shows you why women do what they do because our black kings keep breaking down on our black queens anyways infidelity will continue to be a huge problem and it is going to get worse but anyways best wishes to Carmelo Anthony and Lala🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@lisalee3837]

She stated she doesn’t see that happening again.. Baby girl to be honest it never happened bc he wasn’t a good man. Don’t give up on True Love your King is coming.

[@evegenesis6022]

Melo is a little boy, posing as a grown man. The world is full of Melos.

[@averyfisher9967]

If you come across desperate, or clingy it will eventually turn someone all the way off.

[@yvetteparker]

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