All these rules at home just frustrate me!![Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.03.26]

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Guests : Lee Sangmin, Wanna One (Ong Seongwu, Hwang Minhyun, Kim Jaehwan)
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[@plum7t]

The fact that only 40 people think this is an actual concern.. the younger sister is gonna cause Minseo to have an identity crisis. She won't be able to make decisions on her own in the future.

[@exosvocals2526]

Noona W right!!!! I was expecting this to get lots of voyes because this is clearly a big issue

[@exosvocals2526]

*votes

[@jennykalenga6479]

I think they only got 40 votes because the guests didn't think it was a concern but they really should see a psychiatrist and the parents need to start intervening and showing them the difference between right and wrong

[@myka7194]

Jenny Kalenga exactly, it might not as bad on the show but I’ve been through something a lot like this and it honestly drives you crazy, it was probably the worst portion of my life.

[@scarlett7871]

true I thought people will think about it more it is a concern. She need to go to psychologist

[@jenniferfleites6659]

The little sister was really making me frustrated especially at the end with the fake apology, she needs to learn a lesson or two about how to treat others because at the end of the day when everyone is gone all she has in this world is her older sister.

[@changuk_biased2010]

Jennifer Fleites Don’t think it was a fake apology but definitely forced because of the pressure she was under. I do agree though that she needs to be considerate of her sister. They’re twins so it’s only normal for people to ask if they’re curious. No harm in doing that.

[@justyourjamaicanqueen579]

SAME FOR ME ,HER CHARACTER IS LIKE A BULLY YOU COULDNT GET RID OF IN HIGH SCHOOL,HER APOLOGY DOESNT EVEN SEEM REMORSEFUL ENOUGH.

[@jinglelim6731]

Jennifer Fleites send the little sister down to my place my parents will sort her out while me and my older brother put her in her place before she returns to Korea

[@ZaNC4847]

@@cocolovesgod5723 I think the short-haired sister have OCD. Just my thought though, I'm not a pro. And if the long-haired sister focus her attention more on studying, she might have lesser attention on her cleanliness. I think the problem is that they are compared to each other a lot and that they have the same room despite having differences that really affect them if they are together most of the times.

[@cxntaur]

I WAS SO ANNOYED BY HER. She is so ugly inside and out.

[@adrianalim6699]

Wow... how come it's not a concern!! They have to go to psychiatrist. And hello parents!! You have to do something to settle this problem. For your daugthers future.

[@tranhothuyan7974]

Nana Lim i feel like the sister has OCD, she is obssessive about keeping things clean.

[@scarlett7871]

right!

[@scarlett7871]

@@tranhothuyan7974 yeah so both need to go to psychologist

[@lilyloli]

what's more frustrating than the sister is the parents thinking this is a laughing matter since they're still young and immature. This is actually very concerning. This is clearly bullying within the family. I know it because I've experienced this myself. They should fix the attitude of the short haired sister and encourage the long haired sister to be more confident. Seriously, what are these parents doing?!? This would not help them in the long run. The short haired sister might end up disrespecting them all when she grows up because she feels superior with her bullying experience.

[@agustin5855]

lilyloli ikr,i hate the fact that the parents and younger sister still smilling and laughing like it's nothing wrong doing that.

[@lolita9846]

In my experience I suffered from bullying in my family. I have 6 brothers who attacked me physically and verbally for years that I ended up losing confidence in myself and having a frustrated and rude personality. It was very difficult for me because my parents never cared what was happening to me and when I spoke it, people from outside told me that this was normal. to this day my brothers are still doing it, they treat me sometimes as garbage and I still can not trust myself again and have confidence in others. I do not feel loved

[@elris452]

lilyloli exactly, it’s actually not funny it could ruin the long haired sisters life. like she’s obviously distressed by this all. it was so annoying to watch.

[@nuhassss]

lilyloli i

[@schoi139]

In their defense, I think they are probably really embarrassed to be dealing with this situation about their daughters on national TV. In my view, theyre probably aware that they havent done their best with their parenting lol

[@kaylasmith7489]

How can the parents not do anything. Especially the mom and candle situation. She was the one who said she would speak up but at the end, did nothing to protect her older daughter. How sad. If they would correct this behavior, it might not have gotten this bad.

[@alicachavez3098]

The fact that the younger sister sometimes wishes she never had a sister is so heartbreaking. I have two younger brothers and I am so happy they are my brothers. Idk how she could ever wish she didn’t have her sister.

[@monkebabkawaiisupafupa2546]

Mezemer te haput

[@iwishforyou21]

I honestly think that this happens when the parents aren't as involved as they should be. When I was younger, I used to be extremely jealous of my 2nd sister. My parents never realized how much attention they gave her compared to the attention they gave me and my 1st sister. Growing up, when my family moved to a different country, and my 2nd sister chose to stay in our home country, my parents suddenly paid a lot more attention to me and my 1st sister. It was extremely difficult at first, because they didn't really know us the way they knew my 2nd sister, but after some time passed, and my 2nd sister moved back in with my family, the jealousy never came anymore. My parents spent time with all of us, and knew all of us at similar levels. I think it's similar for her, but far more severe. She's always compared to her twin sister, and she's even seen as the "bad twin" and it's saddening. She's probably so upset inside, but it comes out as hatred instead.

[@michellearaiza7114]

do you have any sisters? i have 2 older and one younger and I can tell you having a sister is way different than having a brother (i have one younger brother too) :/ i never wish I didn't have sisters but sometimes it just gets so. frustrating! but still, that younger sister is so mean!

[@nabilahnovel7753]

I am now almost 25 but I still feel jealousy over my brother who is almost 40. Because my parents treat us so differently. So parents' interference is really important at young age

[@alicachavez3098]

Yeah I understand what you guys mean because sometimes I get frustrated that my parents raise my brothers differently to the way they raised me, but either way it’s not my little brothers fault and I wouldn’t want to take it out on them.

[@krstyyhwa]

Thank you Sangmin for mentioning a therapist/ psychiatrist and thinking of the girls' mental health.

[@twilightglow1658]

so true. i also thought that he is one of those few guests who talked something sensible

[@orianabloom2571]

A rare sight indeed👏

[@zulaikha2550]

I honestly think that this is a concern. This could lead to bad mental health towards the older sister. I srsly think that her little sister need to respect people especially within the family. If she's kind towards other people why cant she do that to her own sister? The parents should act more serious to their daughters. This is a serious concern!!!

[@ubahassan8706]

wow l like the way lee sangmin he advice them

[@hardaningam8967]

Uba Hassan i think sangmin always has great life advice.

[@irtayag3]

He himself seeks professional help. He really tries to understand people's issues.

[@zethamydevlin]

After what he went through, to the extent that he developed a panic disorder, he can already pass as a life mentor. ✌️

[@hahahahahahahahahaha700]

Sorry, but which one is Lee Sang Min??

[@irtayag3]

princesia angel wijaya The one who starts speaking at 17:24 . He's Lee Sangmin

[@Nikki-bq9ri]

I feel like the younger sister has ocd or is just a neat freak, I mean u can't blame her since she can't control it, but controlling her sister is just messed up and she just needs to grow up since people have interests too

[@PeachySafety]

STOP saying OCD. OCD is a serious disorder. She's just mean and a bully.

[@rnba4364]

Tiffy XD we're not doctors so we can't be sure but I also agree with @Omoitsaduck it seems to me too that she got OCD, I also have OCD myself ...

[@ujung-ahujung-hae7503]

she’s like that since she’s in kindergarten

[@Nikki-bq9ri]

Nicole C I'm not talking about the behaviour, I'm saying how she wants everything yo be perfect as she doesn't want anyone on her bed or how she cleans every pen and how she wants it to be perfect I'm sorry if u I hurt u with my comment but this is my opinion

[@Nikki-bq9ri]

Tiffy XD Ik its a serious disorder and I know I'm not a doctor but this is my opinion so if I hurt u with my comment I'm very sorry

[@yoongsthethicc]

She should be thankful that she has a good twin sister. If you don't want your older twin, you can give her to me😂😑

[@Chickenminan]

K- Love lol right, she look like a kind sister 😂

[@maride95]

I actually think the younger sister have some mental problems, I dont mean in the bad way, but she reminds me of my siblings who have ocd. People who have a mental problem usually dont have just one little thing, so having ocd could mean she has deeper problems that make her "mean" to her sister like feeling she is the bad sibling, its pretty common with twins, I have many twins friends and they usually do have some problems with being compared, its really bad for them (fortunately, my friends have great parents that helped them along the way and so they love their siblings and are really cute together, I feel like those parents are a big part of the problem for thinking they should just deal with the problem themselfs). I'm not a twin, but people usually says my older sister is prettier than me, yet my older sister liked my taste for things and would copy me, but since she is older and prettier people would say I copy her because I envy her and this kind of thing, and that would make me be mad at her and tell things like "you cant like this, because I liked it first".

[@shootingstar2550]

But it's like being a robot being what to do all the time! I also wish I had an older sibling, but definitely not like this. The younger one is tired of being in *fear* of her older sibling. That's does not sound good...

[@yoongsthethicc]

If this was a try not to get mad challenge, I probably lose because of the younger sister. Eesh

[@solalunaaa]

K- Love Agree

[@saiishmoney2685]

No joke

[@LadyPrincessDiana]

Sometimes, what frustrastes me the most isn't the concern and its protagonists, but the public's lack of empathy..! They're unable to feel empathy to a problem they aren't familiar with, and it's hella annoying!!

[@nurulhuda-zl5kk]

LadyPrincessDiana yup. agreed! they are just there to enjoy the show i reckon.

[@enidranoel]

Liked the advice Sangmin gave. I'm surprised it didn't get as many votes as I thought it would. The older sister looks so suppressed and the younger one looks like she's reluctant to change. I think the younger one may feel a little inferior being constantly compared with the older one and seeks to create an identity of her own but in the progress, she's hurting her older sister. I'm not sure if she realises that at her age. At this rate, the older sister may grow up being over reliant on others for decisions and forever feeling as if what she does "isn't right" unless it is verified by someone. It concerns her whole personality and her subsequent life after that. It's such a serious concern.

[@shin18chan]

Ikr! And I'm quite disappointed with the parents. I have a twin and we got compared a lot. Because of that, my twin grows up to be really dependent as he thought that he can't really do anything. He always feels the need to be validated, even in making decision for himself. My parents always try their best in helping us to acknowledge that we are both different people and we have our own strengths, so now we grow up just fine. Parents play an important roles here, but all I can see in this family is that they just let the little sister feels like she's the one in charge. She won't change unless they step in and help her.

[@teleleleleletvxliitay4587]

Exquisite you describe it so accurate

[@aqaz120]

This is not a healthy twin relationship at all. I'm so pissed at the parents for not drawing the line of the problem. I agree with sangmin these two need therapy cause minseo is in serious risk of depression, and minju needs to learn too back off. I honestly think minju show signs of OCD.

[@kixx7576]

WTF? The dude at the end said in a mocking tone, "It's not a concern, enjoy your life" IM SO FRUSTRATED WHATS WRONG WITH HIM? I feel like ppl are dismissing this concern just because they're young and "at that age to argue over silly things" the younger twin is CONTROLLING the older twin. It's abuse within the family. Arghhhhhhhh

[@nabilahnovel7753]

kihyyun. Ikr it will grow into bigger problem before they even realizing it. Poor girl 😭

[@lizziepool1436]

I'm frustrated when I see "special guests" to give their advice, but they are so immature or apathetic to the situation! Why they even call them to go? Because they are just famous? That's crap! ( I have nothing personal with the three kpop idols, I 'd say that to anyone that would be there and just laugh at a matter like that...)

[@everlastingideas8625]

@@lizziepool1436 Lee Sangmin was quite good at it though!

[@angelinahegewald2193]

I agree with you one the fact that this is REALLY FRUSTRATING, like he said "it's not a grave concern" and just 40 votes, believe me, I wanted to slap them so hard

[@soshinae]

This is actually a serious concern though..what is wrong? Just because they are kids of rebellious age?

[@jjjapeezy]

Buddy°MoonNightTime® Um.. have you not watched the whole thing? Her younger sister doesn’t let her decide on her own. If she loves someone in the future, she might even disapprove of the person. This is a serious problem.

[@jjjapeezy]

JinkyChan Ik I was telling them “what was wrong.” ^_^

[@Lovekillee]

I feel you. Moonbyul is perfection.

[@dipper556]

YESS! (also random but I have the same profile pic as you but on my twitter XD)

[@angelruns2486]

YASS

[@katekane450]

I feel the same as well

[@itsmeguesswho8195]

40 votes?😱 It's a concern for me too.Why?Simply because everyone has freedom ,what happened to this twin?One over the other,and wait for the parents,I hope you know that one of your child is afraid to her sister to the extent that she should have permit and ask first before making move.Shes a person not a dog.

[@elexkikai3415]

I watched this because she mentioned MAMAMOO 😂😂💛

[@shin18chan]

What really upsetting me is the fact that the parents know this has been happening since the kids were young, but didn't really do anything about it. Now they expect them to handle the things on their own when they didn't really set a good example on how should those two handle it. I guess it's true when they say sometimes parents are the last one to see when their kids have problems. The fact that those parents see this only as an immature thing for young teen and just laugh it off makes me think that they need helps too.

[@SilverMist2002]

it’s frustrating how kindly they’re explaining everything to her. she doesn’t seem to understand that she’s wrong and sugar coating everything won’t help. she gets annoyed when minseo can’t make her own choices but guess who’s fault that is? minjus. if she didn’t keep ordering minseo around and telling her what to do and what not to do all the time, maybe minseo would know what it felt like to make decisions on her own. and the fact that everyone thinks it’s crazy she’s being so tidy and all. maybe she’s a serious germaphobe. instead of finding it weird and criticising her for it, help her deal with it. the parents are the highest authority in the house and if they can’t sit minju down and tell her what she’s doing is awful and needs to stop, no one will. they’re still at an age where they can understand and are flexible. I genuinely hope someone fixes this mess.

[@j.4705]

People in your family can abuse you and just because they are your family it doesn't mean you have to put up with everything they do. You should always be first priority. Leave abusive people out of your life if they don't change.

[@kenna295]

I have a twin and we both have different personalities and sure we fight every once in a while but never have I ever thought "I wish I didn't have a twin" that was way too harsh, no matter what happened in the past :// having a twin can be annoying but at least you'll have someone to go to when you feel alone,and you'll learn how to share things so when you go to college you'll know how to share things with your roommate..although my sister was my roommate for the 1st semester but now she's back home but that's not the point right now. 😂 I really hope they're able to figure things out so that they can get along💖

[@kuntirahma4111]

Mckenna Ferrell me too ^-^ I'm twin.. we are 20, always fight everyday but we loving each other ♥

[@kathyyyiells5132]

Same with siblings as well.

[@raniarisya_aisyah8688]

As a twin,i think this is a concern (high five with Minhyun😇).They should get along well plus sharing same hobby and interest would be great. Me and my twin still wearing the same outfit eventho we're already 30 y-0😇 liking same things and sharing most of the things together. Sharing is caring especially for twins❤

[@JeaSong]

I'm touched with Sangmin because he's really analyzing the issue. He upfront told everyone 'is that love? or is that harassment?" and suggested that they need a psychiatrist...

[@user-fm1ts4nt6i]

웃을일이 아닌데 부모님이 ..중심을 못잡아주시네

[@orta883]

I like how Sangmin tries his best to listen and say what he thinks will help the concern. He is actually there to help anyway he can.

[@raniarisya_aisyah8688]

Being watching Jaehwan's 'noona' version for a week more than 50 times but never get bored❤❤❤ Our adorable main vocal.

[@jonasvfcgirl9614]

I have a twin sister and I couldn't see my life without her, or ever treat her like that, we fight but so does every sister. but I would never treat her that way. It made me sad

[@user-oe3qp4vu9f]

야 너랑 안닮았어ㅋㅋ언니가 더 이뻐 얼굴도 맘도.

[@pandaluver101able]

Wow the first time someone actually recommended professional help! They should honestly have a professional in the studio to give insight to some of the guest concerns.... most of the guests on this show need it! Also I like lee sangmin and the advice he gives they should think about making him a regular( he really looks into the issue and gives practical advice like he did with the model)

[@lil_sugi4633]

i'm so thankful that Sangmin knows that this is a serious matter and tells them to go to a professional therapist instead and i really hate that the parents think this is a laughing matter. the younger sister is so selfish and is hurting her sister not only mentally but also physically and emotionally. not only did the parents laugh but also the hosts all laughed.

[@orianabloom2571]

"Its not a grave concern. Enjoy your life". How empathetic.

[@fairlysam1238]

someone actually suggested a psychiatrist for the first time wow i love

[@citagarcia4181]

Parent’fault that’s happening to their twins in fact they are even laughing tsk tsk tsk

[@yoonchaerin6475]

Wow that girl minju is so mean "it depend on mood" she think she is a princesse....so frustratss....

[@botfe1560]

let's not forget how sangmin gave good advices.

[@egrgrgrgregrgrgrgrvtbh3457]

I used to be like that to my sister. I used to tell her that she couldn't like any other princess except for Bell. She couldn't like the color that she wanted to like, she was only supposed to like yellow. When we watched "Frozen" I told her that she couldn't like Elsa, and she can't sit in the Elsa chair. I told her how to play with her dolls. And, I told her which doll she should buy. But, I don't do that anymore because, I feel bad for doing that so, I hope that the twin can learn how to stob controlling her sister too.

[@adlinizzah9577]

Jaehwan's "NOONA" is the best. cutest everrrrr.. keep replaying it.

[@mindyourownbusiness5680]

She keep copying you because you yourself don't give her space to make her own choices you baboya!📣 im in disbelief 😂

[@emilyle7618]

Miss just be friends유 JJ

[@ANIMEISAWESOME00]

Wish Sangmin could be on every time! He had great advice

[@user-qi3yl4nw5q]

친언니를 가스라이팅하는 건 처음 보네 ..

[@shoppe7525]

It's the first time I heard a guest advice about asking a psychiatrist or how the concerned party is thinking if it's asked from the psychiatrist's perspective. Every story on this show needs that kind of advice.

[@arielm431]

I didn’t like how at the end he said “ only 40 votes not that big of a concern enjoy your life” like first off that’s horrible you can tell she’s hurt and her sister didn’t do anything to help the situation. The parents really need to step in because in the future she is going to fear everything and be walked all over

[@frejamller2416]

Man, I'm so happy that I'm not part of the panel. I would be saying stuff like "what's your problem?", "how can you live with yourself?" "you don't even deserve to get married", "divorce him got dammit!" etc. hahahah

[@spooj0919]

Omg i had a roommate like this for a year. Throughout those years i was so suicidal she literally wanted to control everything about me. Im so glad i got out that kind of manipulative relationship

[@becimouton9629]

I disagree with those people who were saying it only effects the older sister. Honestly, both sisters are effected, the younger one seems to have some sort of OCD and she is being bothered by her sister who seems to copy her. Whereas the older sister is being influenced by her sister to have less of a say in things and to not be true to her feelings. It seems like an issue since when they get older the one could grow up lacking confidence and the other could become very sensitive or even become a germaphobe, ultimately it’d be really sad if they grew apart from each other when they move out. The best thing would to take them to a psychologist so that both can have their problems heard and they can build their relationship taking all of their feelings into account. Really hope for the best with this family~~ Be nice children lmao~~

[@ddanka0474]

the older sister is not trying to copy her, she literally does not know what she wants tbh. Imagine if someone was always being told what to wear and like and then suddenly got freedom of liking and doing what they want... they will not know what to like and do as they never explored what they might like. I am trying to say that to develop a style or personality you need to experiment with different styles to see which suits you and she did not have that option. So it is natural she does what her sister tells her or is doing. The younger one is just way too selfish, even her mom walks on eggshells... like my mom would not be secretive like this when buying the candle but would just buy it and confront the younger sibling openly at home. They really do need to talk about this and not ignore it.

[@ddanka0474]

also, she said it depends on her "mood"... who does she think she is to be dictating someone else's life... like she is not allowing her sister to live freely and taking away her basic human rights

[@j-6833]

I believe the younger sister has a case of OCD and miso phobia, especially when she says when she can't sleep if she doesn't wash her pens. I hope they are able to help her, even if they can't solve it, because both those things are extremely hard to live with.

[@user-qe3xw2rb2b]

부모는 심각한건데 왜 웃지. 전문가상담 안받았으련ㆍ 부모가 저러니 언니만 당하네 이해해줄거라고 생각해? 나이가있는데 저모냥 쯔쯔. 부모가 정신상담 받으러가라. 여기나오지말고. 쯔쯧.

[@oreo5134]

i love how when the girl said she cleans everything minhyun was shocked but he lowkey dose the same thing

[@kpopairconditioner8552]

The younger girl is making me Mad

[@animeusedtobemylife.7396]

this is when i knew i was so lucky.. there was no such thing as fighting or bullying in my family(except my parents) all of my bro's and sis are a lot more older than me.. they ara 9, 10, and 12 years older than me... they already matured.. we were never jealous at each other and they treated me so friendly... i am so proud to have them as siblings.. sometimes people compare us and tell that my sister is prettier than me... but it never bothered me since i also think my sister is pretty and she is very nice to me!! she gives me present and treats me quite often since she;s already working

[@iwishthatiwasjustacloud6105]

Minju has OCD, I have it and I definitely understand where her cleanliness is coming from.

[@geurae9511]

love how sangmin talked about this concern seriously

[@veranaika]

Im glad they insist the parents to see psychiatrist, their issue cant be solve just by talking, it was build way way before, and the scary part, if this progss longer, one day someone will hit the breaking point and may do more damage then good, the parents should have step in a long time ago. Good thing they are still young, but the scary part, what if one twin decided to kill the other one, problem solve. Who says it cant happen, have you watch the evil twin on the news, who hired a hitman just to kill her other twin because of jealousy. No one knows what is running inside the other twin mind, the good thing, the eldest is Patience and forgiving, she wanted them to be close, and to be compassionate with each other. Hope everything goes out well for them

[@myka7194]

15:36 dang if I was the older sister, I would have started crying at that point. Plus am I the only one who would have fought the younger sister by now?! I’m not just going to let someone hit me because they feel like it.

[@YourWaywardDestiny]

I have an identical twin. She started to do things like this when we were young. We came to the understanding that it's OK to be similar, but we're still our own people. I know she understand me better than anyone else in the world, and she knows I know her better. Not even our respective husband know us so well. It might have gotten bad like this if we never agreed being similar was a good thing. We also listened to each other about our separate interests, even helping when we could, but we didn't feel the need to interfere if we didn't also share that interest. It was OK that we liked the same games, and it was also OK that we played different sports and went to different arts classes.

[@erikad0511]

Well done Sangmin-ssi....thats the first time I've ever heard someone recommend a therapist on here👏... wonder how the parents were feeling with the hosts basically asking them why aren't you parenting?

[@JCXP123]

It's Sangmin! :D His comments are always good... he's one of the few guests who recommends talking to a psychiatrist

[@aalexx7165]

This one scared me the most because they said TO SEE A DOCTOR because of this "small" problem. The older sister won't be able to make a choice for herself and would end up either apologizing or asking to do everything!

[@amiramin5971]

When that 3 boys said Noona automatically I thought Shinee ^.^ ahhh beautiful memories^3^

[@ujung-ahujung-hae7503]

at first i thought it was funny and cute but wow the younger sister is practically a bully to her older sister, she should reflect on herself and the parents need to stop her from doing that. I really feel bad for this girl

[@maryamaabukar8094]

This is honestly the best ep tbh cuz they finally addressed psychological issues.

[@nessalottle2920]

When the younger twin said that she sometimes wished she never has a twin that breaks my heart because I have an older brother and we have a 16 year age gap. Since he is already married and has kids I don’t really see him. So it’s lonely for me. I always wanted to spend time with my brother and we never fought since I never really saw him. It makes me sad that the younger twin doesn’t want a twin sister.

[@ashi4769]

I love that their are more comments in English then I’m korean

[@sophiaaa4417]

It made me tear up when she said she sometimes wished she didn’t have a twin and when the other one said the opposite

[@agustin5855]

The older sister need to stand up for herself.if her sister yell at her so yell back.she doesn't need to ask everything because there's something that even her younger sister have no right to.

[@ujung-ahujung-hae7503]

titin buawel ae its okay for once or twice but she can’t yell at her everytime, it just makes the thing worse

[@bojohnson5675]

Here's the thing. Her whole life has been like this, she isn't used to anything else. She doesn't know how to fight back.

[@michipham]

I sometimes can't get along with my brother too, but I never wish I was the only child. Like, I hate him at some points but love him for the rest despite the fact that he is such a brat. Such a heartbreaking moment when the younger one said she wanted to be the only child.

[@user-jy7fg6jm2n]

저건 부모가 젤 문제다

[@KAYLEE-zo9bl]

To be honest, this biggest concern is the little sister. She thinks that she is the only one get hurt not her unnie. Anyway, just so selfish, she just thinks abt her feelings only. Fortunately, the older, despite getting controlled too much, she didnt have the thought that "I wish to be the only child". I have 2 sister and I am the middle one. Not denying that my little sis and I fight a lot and sometimes really hate each other, but I have never thought like "wish she'd not exist". I really proud of her, bc of her existence and her strengths. Anyway, if the concern is not solved completely, the sibling relationship will be ended, just strangers, or worse, enemies, soon or late

[@raniarisya_aisyah8688]

6:32 : This is totally Minhyun's concern. We can relate to him well. 😂😂😂

[@ZombehPanda]

The most annoying thing is the underwhelming amount of votes. It feels like the actual serious concerns (like this one) never are seen as serious to the audience. It's hard to blame the parents or the sisters if their society won't even acknowledge its a problem. This is a clear case of bullying and mental abuse within the home! smh I really can't with this show sometimes.

[@shuntaeslitasfvideos6125]

Some of yall don't understand what having a twin feels like. The younger twin just wants individuality. No one really likes to be compared to someone. They want to be themselves. And, thats what the younger sister want

[@ujung-ahujung-hae7503]

Shuntae's Lit Asf Videos but she doesn’t have to bully her sister, she can just tell her that she doesn’t want to wear the same clothes as her.

[@ddanka0474]

I also hated to be compared a lot so I understand how that feels like, but it is wrong to take away the freedom and right of choice from her sister and be dictating her every move based on how she is feeling that day. Like and what was with her wanting to be original with jeans and white sneakers? like that isn't the most generic simple outfit. Plus S. Korea is known for homogenous style and sheep-ish mentality when it comes to fashion trends, such as long coats in winter and red lipstick (gradient lips etc.). She is very selfish and their parents should have stopped this sooner as younger sister completely lacks any respect (maybe even empathy)towards her sibling. I am slightly worried that she might even be happy one day, and not help when her sister fails in something as she seems quite jealous too (she tried to put her down the entire time, pointing out that she isn't washing and that she is dirty)

[@cesscho808]

And this is why south korea needs to be aware of how important mental health is. A lot of concerns sent in this program were because of people not understanding why people act like that. And so they end up always blaming that one person who has a disorder even if it isnt really their fault.

[@tisaleemayo]

I think i used to be the younger sister. I used to ask my mom for money (20 dollars) each day and i tell her to do lots of things but i became better once i turned 7 years old.

[@hohoho7078]

워너원 좋아하는 멤버만 어쩜 골라서 딱 나왔지 ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 그래도 원픽은 우리 재환이 ㅠㅠ 너무 볼에 뽀뽀해주고싶게 생겼어 하는짓도 포함 ㅠㅠㅠ

[@Chrissi_Interlude]

It can be incredibly frustrating having a twin sister, in a way I understand both sides (mostly the protagonist), though. This is why it's never okay to compare siblings and especially not twin siblings. One will feel like the shadow of the other and it can lead to bossiness and a disconnection, often times twins feel distant from each other. My twin sister and I have by no means a perfect relationship, but it's never okay to be so controlling and awful out of spite or solely to be unlike their sibling. This made me reflect a lot about my own relationship with my sister, despite how stubborn and frustrating she can be, I realize how lucky I am.

[@OLGA-io1kp]

Thank you Sangmin is the only guest with a braincell here, he understood how serious the concern is a recommended a psychiatrist

[@jeutikalita4267]

I have twin bros. And they are like. All the time together. They r both regional cricket players. They always have similar ideas. Most of their liked things are similar. I WAS SOOO SOCKED TO HEAR THIS. 😕. They r twins so both get along sooo well. I am really proud of my bros.

[@AiraCh0]

This is a very big concern..The older sister decides late that doesn't mean she don't have a thing she likes...and maybe becuz they are twins some have very similar taste we can't really blame the person who chose late. When the older sister thinks she like a idol that's where she made a choice of her own...she is getting to know her taste but the younger one is demanding her and that's making her more difficult to know her likings and dislikings.

[@youngjaeshi345]

40 votes...? Excuse me but I think this deserve at least more than 100 votes. Having a sibling like that would ruin your life. If she still tells her older sister stupid rules she'll just practically live with rules, and once she gets married she might not understand some things. For me it's a major problem. It's not good to have such a sister like that. And the parents too. I understand that they're stressed by their children,but get the youngest some help at least. And confront them. Not just laugh at them. The friend though, she's pretty good. I agree with her. The oldest needs more freedom.

[@rachelle8894]

on an unrelated note the first girl on hello counselor who said they like a girl group and specifically mamamoo! i'm proud of my children

[@sshdontdisturb]

When the hosts asked if the younger sister ever think of being the only daughter and she answered yes, i cried. Like if I was her twin it would seriously hurt a lot, i’ve been watching TROS (soeon and seojun) they fought a lot but they cried when the other one was missing. I know its different having a twin cause you’ll be forever rivals but to say that in front of her twin is just so mean and upsetting. And I hate the mom for laughing all along while listening to the both of them talk like seriously. I love how dongyeop roasted her asking why she didn’t correct the younger sister when they were buying candles and the older got scared to buy the similar one that her twin liked. The younger sister’s attitude suck. I personally hate her right now.

[@juliabae4751]

This just reminded me of Seojun and Seoen from Return of Superman..I miss them so much😭...Especially from the part when one guest said he envy twins that got along so well because the only twins I spent my months with is Seojun and Seoeon

[@happyfilm1361]

Sangmin should be a permanent cast member!!

[@caressa2802]

Whenever frustrate/frustrated is on a thumbnail , I always read them as TRUSFRATE/TRUSFRATED because of Jk 😂😂😂

[@naomipatsr]

My grandma saw Jaehwan, She said How cute ❤️

[@Yourfat1209]

How did this not get more votes?!? I'm so frustrated. The younger sister really needs to realize that you simply can't treat anyone like that. She is really being a pain in the ass. If she continues her ways of thinking will turn horrible. Anyone who thinks treating somebody how she treats her sister is okay then you have problems.

[@tanayai6884]

I totally understand the short haired one's problem. I'm a twin myself and we are both girls. I very much do not want to be associated with her. She doesn't have such a nice personality as well. She feels more or less the same. So we don't try to force ourselves to like each other. If that day come well and good. If it doesn't we don't really care. So, we just live like roommate. we are semi-formal with each other.

[@Jay-qh9mz]

i think every problem they have in this show is a concern. No matter how serious or not it is, someone is still suffering. "oh its just a little problem that can be fixed," yeah maybe, but they don't feel her pain and they dont understand the experience she or someone else goes through. Every problem is always a concern. Idc if it is a big or a small situation. Idc if you think it can be solved. It will always be a concern.

[@TheJennySS]

I'M DEAD BECAUSE OF JAEHWAN “Noona” HE IS SO ADORABLE. JAEHWAN IS CUTEST THING IN THE WORLD. I LOVE THIS VISUAL TEAM. ❤️

[@user-do5ne5gi1j]

I'm sorry but short haired sister's personality seems so gross...

[@annavaradise4355]

I don't uderstand why so many people think it's not a concern.. I'm glad that Sangmin think it's a serious concern and suggest the parents to meet psychiatrist.. I hope they will..

[@dearselene1513]

Friends be like *"We must have same glasses!!! "* HAHAHA qtqt

[@neobodannaegadeokeo3711]

3:43 Mamamoo Moonbyul and Wheein mentioned here. :)

[@studytabby8404]

well I have a twin sister as well and I'm the younger one but we never had such things. It is normal that twins or siblings fight sometimes about things because they still have a different taste. But this young girl is taking it too far! My twin sister also has this problem with being clean so I can understand the older one but only at this point because I know the reasons from my sister but we never had such things! This is horrible. Actually, I just had a fight with my sister but now I'm very happy that I have such a good relationship with my sister! I hope these two get along and talk about these problems because you can really see in the eyes of the older sister that she is in pain. This really broke my heart. I wish I can talk to the older sister to cheer her a little bit up. I wish them the best!

[@eibitharooh8430]

I can relate cause i have a twin sister, we fought a lot when we were younger, she even hit me and yelled at me. My sister told me once that she hoped to not having me like a sister twin, and i understood her cause people always asked us if we are exactly the same(personality,tastes..) and we hated that. But now we are closer and spend time together and enjoy to be together. I think being a twins it s a delicate relation and it have to be taken seriously.

[@eugenesmells5373]

Give them their own room, these girls need privacy. Some people can live in the same room while some don't. It's time.

[@sabrinazaman2332]

Wtf is wrong with the short haired girl, honestly this is quite a serious concern