"All women over 5'6, PLEASE LEAVE" - Sigma Male on Jubilee | We love tall Amazonian women.

[@AbaNPreach]

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[@marshimeak1972]

Betyyya!!

[@denarii8763]

Grindset

[@hiroshi7025]

Block the links in the comments to prevent them bots, please.

[@johnnyryall3966]

Alpha step omega step kappa step sigma step

[@shadowarena]

You mean Ligma males, right?

[@BarakielArts]

“The virgins at home right now “ damn I didn’t think I’d ever get a shout out from Aba and Preach themselves!

[@thekidsinmybasementwontshu506]

😂 nah that’s funny nigga but I’m pretty sure that shoutout was meant for me

[@kalvaire3872]

Virgin gang unite! 😎👍🏾

[@BarakielArts]

@@kalvaire3872 lets goooooo!

[@benrex7775]

I'm a white guy. Can I tag along too?

[@thekidsinmybasementwontshu506]

@@kalvaire3872 yessirrrrr

[@sooshiguy]

As a 5'6 male, one of the happiest moments in my life was recently finding out I am actually 5'7

[@seewendy1]

😂😂😂👍🏼

[@valentino099]

Congrats I need to check mine

[@fangiscool1]

As a 5'6" male, one of the saddest moments in my life was recently finding out I am actually 5'5

[@iseeyou7368]

As a 5'9 male da saddest moment is when I found out I was 5'8

[@sodvine3486]

@@fangiscool1 😂😂😂😂...start jumping, it helps

[@FountainOfYoot]

As a person that adores cooking for people, my favourite experience in this was when I cooked for 5 of my friends and they were loud, buzzed off vibes, but when dinner was served all I heard was the clinking of cultery. All these extroverts were quiet through the meal and plowed through all the food. Best compliment ever. Feeding people is my love language and Im the same as Aba, I don't need to hear that it's nice lol.

[@yurrrr9384]

You know the foods bussin when no one’s talking. Just eating and enjoying lool

[@hayd3n98]

Yep that's how it was with my family. They're chatty as hell but if nobody's talking, it means the food is next level.

[@sakuraesther6309]

Are you single though😩

[@randomfemale4322]

Righttt, I swear the smile on my face is at it's biggest during moments like that

[@2010topdog]

Same. Some of my best memories, and I don't keep a lot, are just me or others cooking for people.

[@seaniev5953]

My girlfriend is taller than me , It never crossed my mind until one day , one of her jealous girlfriends pointed it out ,,, and the best part was when my girlfriend told her she never noticed it either ,,,, and then said maybe you might be happier if you found a guy like mine ?? And that’s when I knew I love my girlfriend and I have no issue how tall she is , because I never noticed it in the first place

[@iDaGuzman]

cap

[@odyseebetterthanyoutubeglo1767]

@@iDaGuzman It's not cap, if you don't pay attention it's hard to know who is taller. If there is a 5cm difference, even at 10cm sometimes it's hard to notice. 10cm is basically the length from eyes to top of the head. Can't tell when casually looking into a person's eyes.

[@Codduct]

@Kobe Fanforever Stop being slow. I'm not sure if you're intentionally trying to be dense. Outside of the context, almost all girls do this all the time in social settings, especially if they are insecure and immature then theyoften resort to poking fun at another individual of the same gender to feel superior and better. Teenage girls do this all the time..."rebecca you're like...really fat" "so when are you gonna shave that mustache?" Usually in settings infront of other people to impress the individuals and again, boost self esteem. We're not sure of the exact context, but the commenter wasn't implying that she was jealous over their height difference, the commenter was saying that the friend was pointing out the height difference because she was jealous of either their relationship or the commenters looks/possessions rather than height....

[@TurkAskeri229]

@@Codduct, huge cap, pendejo. Women judge about men's height. Also, we care about weight on women because weight is at least changeable.

[@mits9991]

@@TurkAskeri229 I don’t think everyone cares about weight but yeah he’s cappin how can u never notice unless u don’t pay attention to your “gf”

[@danielfrank2985]

I am 23 so only a little older than them but watching 20 teenagers sit in a circle right next to each other speed dating texting each other and barely actually speaking to each other is just bizarre and utterly ridiculous.

[@virgo4200]

This world has gotten retarded... I'm 32 and it drives me nuts when do that

[@sumomo0123]

Same thoughts 🤣

[@kumakun6582]

It’s just for entertainment. If you say that then those reality tv shows where naked ppl are stuck on an island is more bizarre to me

[@chantlmcclary6419]

@@kumakun6582 Same but rather than text I would've tried talking at least a lil like half and half speak first and then send some texts after getting some particulars from each girl.

[@osirex5495]

@@chantlmcclary6419 The whole point of the show is to not talk but do everything through text messages.

[@kikialeaki1850]

“THAT’S YOU!” 👉👨 I’m sorry but Preach’s finger all up in Aba’s face was too funny to me😂😂

[@user-qs8ux9jp7j]

how he followed him with it too😭

[@JadetheGoober]

The fact that Aba had accepted his fate and preach didn’t let up is hilarious 😂😂😂😂

[@jenpenn22]

Aba's face looked so guilty 🤣

[@sebswede9005]

New meme is born.

[@cristianh.5133]

Yea bruv, all he did was ask for a solid...

[@nyogtheeldritchgentleman]

Aba be like, “damn… she tall.” Pulls out his bucket list and checks off, “Death by Snu Snu.”

[@RunninBackchic44]

,🤣🤣🤣

[@TheKingofdans]

🤣🤣🤣

[@jordinometry1589]

😂😂

[@bluediamond7460]

Lol off to go watch Futurama

[@captainphoenix]

"All I know is, this gold says that was the best mission, ever."

[@MaddieFishblob]

As a 5’9 girl, I’m not offended - its just like how personally I have a preference for guys who are taller than me, but that doesn’t mean shorter men deserve to be disrespected or mocked in the ways they often are. As long as everyone gets respect and love, i dont think theres anything wrong with having physical preferences when it comes to choosing who to date. Everyone bases their choices at least a bit off of physical features whether they admit it or not 😏🤷‍♀️

[@user-dv9xx3yy8v]

Yeah it's about preference. I'm not into guys who are way taller than me.

[@KN-hg2nv]

​@@user-dv9xx3yy8vSame. I'm 5'7 and at most I would like the guys to be 5'10. Anything over that is extremely offputting lol ntm I don't want to be with a guy who's way too stronger than me.

[@samcolton943]

@@KN-hg2nv interesting, I don't think i've ever heard a girl give that as their reason. not a bad thing though!

[@krazyninja954]

@MaddieFishBlob I’m 5’6” male so if a 5’9” girl like you calls me short, I accept it, yes I’m shorter than you. You can call me short. But when a 4 ft midget woman call s me short that’s when I get triggered

[@bellacortez]

@@krazyninja954that is reasonable

[@SimeonFarkas]

4-5 years ago I had a girl who came up to me in the club and started dancing real close. I was so stunned that a girl would initiate that with me that I simply put my hands on her shoulders and moved her out of my way 😂 I kept walking like nothing happened, still cracks me up today!

[@SassafrasTee7366]

I can’t breathe 😂😂😂😂

[@mrlazygenius2816]

Maybe she liked you? Lol

[@patrickstewart6260]

You poor fucker 😂😂😂 that is a funny story to have though so it's all good 😂

[@franslam7398]

omg😂😂😂😂

[@alexpenkethman196]

@Wyatt Peck giga chad

[@kalvaire3872]

It may sting a little bit but I think he’s entitled to a preference and standards just like everyone else and I’m saying this as a 5’9” woman. Can’t get whiny about double standards only when it affects you.

[@Mr.man712]

True, it more so weirds me out when people don't date outside their race but that's only cause I'm a mixed guy.

[@jayclearmen411]

@@Mr.man712 facts.. people that disqualify a whole entire race… are beyond weird to me and it’s sus an low key a red flag… Height doesn’t matter to me at all personally I like em both tall an short as long as she is healthy…which bring up my last point. I am not a chubby chaser in the least at All whatsoever! So No bigger girls I got to be able to carry you just in case some shit goes down..or just to walk over the threshold that’s pretty much my only disqualifier you should not be heavier than I am… if you weight more than 160lbs you are Not for me.

[@24k-u6o]

Yup it stings but we gotta be logical, not everyone is gonna like tall woman.

[@DV-ou1yu]

Curvy Tall woman....damn!!!

[@brokendrifter4626]

Now you know how man feel when women want tall man.

[@LaytonObserves]

Preach's laugh was off the charts this episode

[@mesalouis8976]

Sounds like tires screeching.,🤣

[@aumenjoy1708]

bro had a honeycomb mouth bruh. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chapman137]

Can you show us last week's chart?

[@WadeRaef]

3:55 was straight up KEKW 2: Redux

[@wakandaforever616]

Preach's laugh set new records for awesomeness

[@PhoenixRiseinFlame]

As a 6’2” man, I actually prefer taller women. I think it looks more natural having someone of a similar height. Also if we ever have children, our kids have a greater potential to be exceptional athletes.

[@lowlowseesee]

im five eleven and i love tall girls but also love short ones. i dont give a fuck as long as she fine lol

[@wasupman777]

Lies Bruce Lee wasn't even 6 ft but was literally kicking, sweating and breaking bones like he'll take any 6 ft niggas down with no problem and looked down on them

[@voke9778]

@@wasupman777 where tf bruce lee come from 😂

[@biggibbs4678]

@SlamScum height doesn't start to cause real issues until around 6'5". A lot of height and lifespan data is also just correlation data. Men are taller and die earlier from wars, opioids etc

[@alanjohnson6169]

Exceptional athletes? Loool what? With the exception of basketball,long jump,high jump and triple jump, athletic performance slowly decreases at any height over 6’1. And there are multiple studies that show this. And don’t even try talk about Usain Bolt because he’s a genetic outlier. There’s a reason there is an average height and deviating too much from that height is bad. You need to do some more research into genetics bro, especially in regards to sports performance.

[@ndk2k4]

I love how the texting is all OMG and LOL, but their faces are lifeless.

[@madthrasher88]

omg facts lol

[@darkhorse381]

That's everyone's texting face. It's just a dumb concept to text while sitting next to each other

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

I was genuinely thinking that this format would make me mor successful on dates & I'm autistic!

[@pikachudemsy9751]

😭😭😭

[@Ouroboross-]

@@darkhorse381 Tf what you mean everyone? Don’t drag everyone else into yo shit 😂 I actually laugh and smile or genuinely react when I use emojis. If I didn’t laugh. I won’t put anything indicating I did. You’re just weird.

[@doublecommenter5161]

My favorite is when preach pushes Aba out of frame. Centers himself and laugh in my direction.

[@alexanderzadoroznyj]

I had to rewind and watch again because I was laughing along so fuxking hard. 😂 Man, I love this duo.

[@stuartbatchakoue9206]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@caiotorres6156]

lmaoooooooooo

[@SaintSpenstar]

When Aba and Preach say they like Amazonian woman, I’m like “Damn… Death by Snu-Snu it is” 😂

[@jayclearmen411]

Facts bro I’m on the same wave.. I am all about climbing trees out here.

[@DaContentGod]

Futurama 😂😂

[@ExeErdna]

That be the wave for like over 20 something years. If you short you know she's gonna wear heels and you just deal with it.

[@SaintSpenstar]

“The spirit is willing… but the body is spongy and bruised” 💀

[@Gchildwarrior]

Snu snu should be an option. I would go out with a bang 🤣

[@livefreeprintguns]

I just turned 40 this past July, and the only time I've felt my age was after seeing the words "love language" wtf lol.

[@natah4426]

... and not feeling your age with Max Headroom as your profile pic?!? I couldn't pass this one up!!! 🤭 Thanks for the memories bc I forgot about Max and MTV. Welcome to the 40 Club!!! I entered this year also!!!

[@wulfheort8021]

im only 22 and feel like 40 because of that nonsense

[@gauloiseguy]

I'm almost 49 and work in education. Trust me. It will become a normal feeling.

[@Kaliburrrr]

Preach got that laughter that gives you energy like a innocent child

[@imfineimokay3434]

So you're saying that innocent children give you energy? 🤨🤨

[@didcay2344]

@@imfineimokay3434 ay bruh you brought it up

[@rengokufan123]

@@imfineimokay3434 😂😂😂

[@Kaliburrrr]

@@imfineimokay3434 Why did you have to bring it there? I drink their blood for youth duh

[@JamieBleu]

2 types of people Levar Burton and R Kelly could write what you just wrote and it would have 2 completely different meanings behind it. Humans are not evolved enough to tell the difference sadly.

[@MrEt894]

“What’s more manly? dominating a women smaller than you, or climbing and conquering a Goliath of glory”

[@sebswede9005]

"I mean, that Goliath make me act up, though".

[@caitthecat]

Climbing, or surviving a beat down?

[@jayclearmen411]

Idk man I can’t help but straight up demolish these Amazonians don’t even tempt me…I’m telling you I’m like Kobe i can’t help but shoot if I see an opening…if I see em imma shoot. I might not make every shot.. but I will always try. Straight up by laughter or charm..

[@princeofthehills3259]

We warriors dominate all kinda of opponents

[@blumax961]

I am man enough to "climb the Rockies" so to speak

[@dewilew2137]

To be fair, if women can choose to not date men under 6ft, he can choose to not date women over 5’6”. If you think about it, he is being much more reasonable, as 6ft is 3 inches above the male average in North America, and less than 10% of adult men are over 6ft. 5’6” is still 2 inches above the female average, and over half of adult women are in that range..I’m not, but most are. I can’t even hate. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@TheSergio1021]

Facts. It's completely reasonable

[@123aldoaldo]

Wow what an educated comment. I like 👍🏽

[@arkoisagoodboy]

Most women looking for 6'3 don't even know what 6'3 looks like. It's their version of nitpicking until they land someone they'll never land. I'm 6'1 and I've been mistaken for 6'4 and 5'10 depending on how shitty the girl's personality is. So I exclusively date women who can't reach the top shelf in a grocery store standing flat. That way it doesn't matter how tall they think I am, I'm still tall enough to be more useful than they think they are. 😂

[@OPPAWONTMARRYYOU]

@@arkoisagoodboy Same with men who want average height women that weight not more than 50kgs but have big tits and ass. Their imagination of how weight looks on women (with different figures at that!) is nonexistent. Hence why people should just stop having "numbered" preferences. You can imagine how you want your partner to look and be/not be okay with your potential partners. Naming it with numbers just sucks.

[@siegfriedgottz698]

@@OPPAWONTMARRYYOU technically according to bmi I'm overweight as a 6 3 205 pound male. Even tho most of my mass is muscle that stuff isnt really accurate and doesnt take into account peoples builds I'm all very top heavy did a lot of swimming growing up and martial arts, but my limbs are slender so I look bigger and heavier than I am.

[@A_Wild_Dyzzy]

The friendship these dudes have is a friendship everybody needs in life.

[@xypaisb8026]

They said they're not friends

[@oscardean8962]

They’re enemies

[@theultimate5162]

They're not friends 😂 Just coworkers

[@Rhekon]

Preach gotta be the best work partner. Dude's laughter is contagious.

[@TheDingus556]

Friend: “Hey this girl says you’re cute.” Me: “Who has taught you these lies?”

[@TheMerlet24]

Damn homie 😂

[@Jorary209]

I can hear Keith David's voice with that line lol

[@yaz2928]

Impossible to not read that line in the Arbiter's voice.

[@Jorary209]

@@yaz2928 Exactly!

[@AJ-nh9qm]

Naw Fr tho, I be doin that myself 😭

[@bbbbbbb51]

Everyone enjoys acts of service, but the level of enjoyment is circumstantial. A lot of people don't like when people do things for them out of the blue (myself included), but when you're in need of a favor & someone comes through for you, that shit is always impactful. Lets you know who's got your back when you really need it.

[@boxingelfis1499]

Is what you're describing, grand gestures?

[@Supersayan21]

Facts, I feel like only people who've been truly alone at some point can relate to this, the people that have seen how little those kind words and simple gifts mean when you're left alone at a critical moment in your life and no one is there to support you. Makes you really value those extremely rare, valuable actions that speak much louder than any words or presents, and most of all, it makes you value your own strength.

[@Klobanob]

@@Supersayan21 Interesting. How does that make you value your own strength?

[@SeIene]

I'm the same way, I don't like surprise gifts, I'd much rather have someone actually pull through when I needed help with something the most. I remember one time I had a really rough week, my depression was at it's worse, my friend called and quickly realized how down I was and within minutes he was in front of my house. Took me to his place and gave me some pens and paper, I like drawing and usually use it to cope with anxiety, he didn't say a word those few hours. Just let me do my thing while he was just chilling with his own stuff. When I felt better I ordered pizza and thanked him for helping. It's the small but most important things.

[@zoinksxscooby]

Ok i can respect this. When people are deadset on doing everything themselves and get butthurt when asked if they need help that ish pisses me off when you can see they are really struggling.

[@TwizslurD]

Never described myself as "introverted", instead I always just went with the truth "I just hate people.." Ends the conversation alot quicker, and if they stick around it's usually worth the conversation. It's a win/win

[@john_r_legit689]

Just say your a misanthrope. Most people leave me alone after that

[@wiilov]

I could drink a beer with the people in this thread. Not at the same table, and there sure as hell better not be much talking...but we can all silently sulk at the human race under the same roof!

[@JH-qy7zw]

I am introverted... because I hate people. Particularly extroverted people that constantly hound me about hanging out with them.

[@ghostlandered]

@@JH-qy7zw then you're not an introvert you're just an asshole

[@ruto6801]

Damn y’all are depressed.

[@amyrie1991]

Aba's love language ranking is probably: 1. Acts of service 2. Quality time 3. Physical touch 4. Words of affirmation 5. Gifts Preach's... 1. I don't know 2. I don't know 3. I don't know 4. I don't know 5. Word's of affirmation Preach is so fcking privat, gah damn!

[@guerreroazul2484]

Preach is married.

[@bagelguy3447]

Preach seems like Quality time Physical touch Words of affirmation Acts of service Gifts Just analyzing my boy

[@xXRAG3xN1NJAXx]

Its almost like your reading too much into things that aint there. Wild.

[@phillconklin382]

I would put money on that Preach is Quality Time and Physical Touch. He is a dancer meaning he is connected to his body and that's a high quality very specific activity.

[@amyrie1991]

@@phillconklin382 good point!

[@mazenalsaleh8714]

As a short dude this puts a smile on my face

[@Rieky22]

*Bird man rubbing hands*

[@mr.j3371]

Haha Thanos vibes

[@sliccthedestroyer1881]

Same

[@kevo1legend]

That profile pic makes your comment so funny.

[@Jajais4u]

As a short dude this put a frown on my face. I'm out here trying to slay them giants and this dude just SMH

[@lightofquran62]

growing up in an abusive home and never feeling like I was worth anything I really like hearing praises. I know it's superficial but affirmative words make me happier than anything else.

[@TheGiantMidget]

That must be exhausting for your boyfriend

[@panama2468]

@@TheGiantMidget fr. Imagine having to praise someone constantly just so they can feel better. I sympathize with being from a bad household, but she needs a therapist not a bf that praises her every day. He shouldn't be her servant

[@micaa3786]

Maryam, your wish to have words of affirmation does not mean it has to be a constant thing that 'exhausts' the person you are with. I hope you find someone who treats you kindly, who speaks sincere words of affection :)

[@MaybeLily1234]

@@panama2468 That can be said about any love language, they all take some level of effort and its not praising constantly. Can be as simple as "I appreciate you"

[@lightofquran62]

@@TheGiantMidget actually I worked through my issues and if someone sees my efforts and says that they see my efforts outloud from time to time, that's more than enough for me.

[@Larsgman]

I’ve watched several of yalls videos and 3:38 is so far my favorite moment of all time. Y’all’s laughter and chemistry is an absolute delight and out of all the channels I’m subbed to, you are instantly my favorite. God bless both of you, and i pray you two be blessed with good health, fortune, and a long and happy life.

[@lolaadekunle7713]

“…Sometimes you’re so self conscious that when someone does like you you don’t believe them…” 🔥Man why are y’all always speaking these hard truths into my life like that 😰

[@mcnstein646]

Hi Lola. Nice comment. Can we talk?

[@jakekyle8412]

Something I still kick myself about to this day is back in highschool there was an activity in arts class where we could dance if we wanted to and a girl asked me to dance with her and my response was "Oh sorry I don't know how to dance" bc I didn't believe she actually wanted to dance with me.

[@HuggableLoveablePlushies]

@@jakekyle8412 I don’t have a similar experience, and yet, I feel like I can relate to that so hard in this weird, unexplainable way.

[@acharich]

The truth sets us free.. 🙏🏾

[@ngozijones5697]

Its wild your that attractive and still get that. You can never really tell what's going on in someone's head even if they exude confidence on the outside

[@leroyrodgers6089]

Someone needs to take Preach's laugh, make a compilation and post it to help with anxiety. I swear.

[@arikakarin3237]

They already did

[@Rissy617]

Yes, especially since they took that one laugh compilation down!! I had saved and downloaded it to cheer me up but it's no longer online

[@shhshhannon]

When Preach is literally wheezing you know it’s gonna be good

[@revvolutions]

Love the wheeze

[@jmenhart9730]

I’m 6’5”, I would unironically be so attracted to a woman if she was my height or taller. Just imagine me walking in a room, people ask how tall I am, then my girl walks in with heels an inch taller than me and people don’t know what to say 😂. We could be like a King and Queen looking down on all the peasants. I love short girls too, because getting climbed like a koala is the best.

[@catsrus-es9eu]

😅😅😅

[@toviasjames7902]

Respect ✊

[@indiashante1560]

"Climbed like a koala" 🤣🤣🤣

[@dee8171]

Tall women and tall men make sense together. The funny ones are chicks who are like 5 ft nothing and talking about don't step to her unless you're 6ft 😂

[@Carpathianpixie]

🤣🤣🤣 Not like a koala! 😭

[@elijustfukitjohnson]

To me, quality time is simply being around the person and doesn't require certain acts to be performed. You can say nothing to me for 10 hours straight in the same room and I'll feel a bonding experience because you're around me. Doesn't matter if you're on your phone or doing something else the entire time. I just like peace and quiet, and if you can be with me without having that atmosphere go away, that means everything.

[@reflections4me]

You so 🥰 cute. Me too.

[@Shadic4101]

my nigga gets it!

[@ksander1779]

absolutely nailed it

[@adelok]

"Men want to be alone but we don't want to be by our self" - Patrice oneal.

[@shinyamada488]

Doesnt get anymore beta than "You can be on your phone 10 hours straight"

[@leanna3625]

Most guys prefer smaller shorter women in general, but this is talked about less because most women are naturally shorter than men. There is a lot less variation in height among women. I do think being 5'2 has a big part to do with why I never cared about a dude's height. I've honestly never had to because everyone I've ever dated has been taller than me.

[@12wer3wer9]

This has not been my experience. I'm a 5'10 model physique type girl and I have never in my life been rejected by any guy because of my height and I like to wear heels on top of that from time to time. I have had many shorter guys approach me too. All the women and men in my family are also very tall. Someone even said to my mom once that I won't have a problem finding a husband because many men would like to have tall sons. In general height doesn't matter that much for women in my opinion, looks are more important. A beautiful woman doesn't have a problem dating at all, wether she is short or tall. :)

[@Ash_Wen-li]

@@12wer3wer9 A lot of shorter guys are deterred from asking out taller women because they think they're much more likely to get rejected

[@thenonexistinghero]

It's not like short guys have more of a chance with shorter girls though. In general those short girls still prefer a guy with above average height. So basically chances for short guys are about the same with girls of all heights.

[@12wer3wer9]

@@Ash_Wen-li I have never rejected a shorter guy because of his height, but I have experienced a few men being annoyed when they are shorter than me and I wear heels or they feel emasculated if I stand tall. So I have had to reject those guys. But if you are a tall woman many different types of guys even run after you sometimes and I have met a lot of guys that have a fetish for slim tall women, which is even weirder. This is only my experience though so it could be different for other people.

[@12wer3wer9]

@@thenonexistinghero yeah it sucks that height is such a factor nowadays. I think there are way more important things to consider while dating and things that are way more necessary to bring to a partnership than height. I have very short friends who want to exclusively date very tall men, which I don't really get, so I feel for you. But not every woman is like this too. There are still many out there who want a great partner instead of only looking at superficial things.

[@evilbankai5166]

Preach's laugh could raise the dead. holy moly.

[@sebswede9005]

Peach: *laughs on Halloween* The dead: *Awakens*

[@raulrostas7183]

Aba: "Ask all the virgins at home-" Me: Woah woah woah! Don't drag me into this!

[@viroz6562]

Some idiots genuinely base their whole character on Alpha, Beta, Sigma labels instead of just being theirself. Some people really are lost. EDIT: I didn’t say the labels didn’t exist, I didn't even say the labels are bad. I said it's bad to base your whole character on them, same goes for most other labels. A lot of you guys in replies are arguing over stuff I didn’t even say.

[@ntmn8444]

I agree.

[@doublestarships646]

It's called being insecure lol. They need these labels to feel important lol.

[@laelo9]

@@doublestarships646 Labels exist for a reason...if u dnt want to self identify as one it doesn't take away from ur place

[@lcako1616]

They are literally joking and being sarcastic

[@souka9598]

Fr it's the male equivalent of astrology signs

[@resurrection117]

"You're a piece of s*** you're all alone nobody likes you" spoke to me on an emotional level.

[@alfiyyaktk6835]

Same

[@constantnipples2428]

Lmao

[@JadionSkywalker]

@@radistyaarbein4359 Are you labeling all Extroverts in this category? Are you trolling by chance 😅

[@johndoe-mm6xu]

i felt preach pointing at me "that's you!"

[@snapeinvader]

You good?

[@lgeiger]

If you feel uncomfortable with someone being taller or shorter than you, that's okay. You could ask yourself why you're uncomfortable with it maybe. I'm 5'11'' and I'm dating a girl whos 6'2''. I would also date her if she was 5'2''. We didn't even mention the height difference when we got to know each other, because it was just not important for anyone of us. If she wants to feel safe and protected don't think you can't make her feel this way just because you're shorter. If a girl wants the guy to be taller, that's totally okay. If a guy wants the girl to be shorter, that's also okay. Just be aware that you are probably missing out on some great people.

[@aquata-p2c]

I feel the same way! :') My boyfriend is shorter than me and he totally does make me feel like a princess that he would protect no matter what. I'm glad I didn't limit myself to tall men exclusively because my bf just is the best and it really would have been such a loss

[@DevAndVic2022]

Aba's advice. "Take what you can get." Will do.

[@oz_jones]

Always have, lol

[@manee2412]

what do I do if what I can get is nothing? Do I try to communicate with ghosts or what?

[@DevAndVic2022]

@@manee2412 necrophilia is always a viable solution.

[@manee2412]

@@DevAndVic2022 bruuuuuh lmao

[@a2mdesigner]

The beauty about having preferences is there are all sorts of people out there. I found it very interesting that while homeboy only dates 5'6'' and below, I myself actually prefer dating 5'6" and above

[@constantnipples2428]

Why is it okay for men to have preference for short women but when a woman likes tall men every guy starts hating in the comments

[@Brooklynwayz]

@@constantnipples2428 lol I don’t think anyone is hating ( maybe those that don’t meet the requirements) . I’ve noticed it’s just an opportunity to point out the hypocrisy saying men are shallow etc for wanting XYZ when women do the same thing .

[@GGGmod1]

​@@constantnipples2428 Hahaha think about taking the point and twisting it. 99% of women : Discriminate men based on height. Guy does it once youtube >> "why is it okay for men to have preference" Bruh you dont say that when the very reason he said it in the first place is to criticize women. Its a strawman argument. He doesnt think its okay for men to have that hes saying its not okay for women to discriminate men based on height.

[@zinknot]

@@constantnipples2428 it's okay for anyone to have whatever preferences they want. But it's also okay to point out if they are unrealistic.

[@edbabine]

​@@constantnipples2428 Nahh the problem I see is 5"2 woman telling 5"10 man you too short or I want 6ft and above. Its her preference no problem . After ,They turn around and complain they can't find a man its just silly to me.

[@Advrsity_]

5 year relationship since 16, just talking through everything, and being honest with what we want is all we need. Most people just need to accept that it takes longer than you think to really learn your partner, and how to care for them. I still haven't figured it out, but as long as your both trying your going the right way I guess right?

[@jaa5162]

Good luck to you both, and remember, nothing that's worth it ever comes easy ❤️.

[@MissKK660]

You haven't figured it out because you entered into a permanent relationship as a child. You've stunted your own emotional growth by tying yourself down into a "marriage" before experiencing life. You'll hit 25-28yrs old and wonder why you put yourself in that position to miss out on so many life experiences

[@elvisvasquez7553]

@@MissKK660 People like you are the same people who complain to have never found "the one" LOL. You will always be thinking that there is something better out there and at the end you will end up with nothing... That is actually pretty sad.

[@Advrsity_]

@@MissKK660 I ain’t married and we both know we can still go our separate ways whenever we feel it’s needed, but at the moment I’m busy appreciating our time together and making life experiences with her. Not sure what your talking about missing out on, but I have an idea. I think I’m willing to sacrifice for a chance at a real best friend.

[@Advrsity_]

I should also add some men know what they want. I for one don’t want be 25-28 and be picking from women who already have kids or are traumatized from X,Y, and Z guy.

[@kelhow1181]

See, people don’t know. Someone with a “gifts” love language is going to be someone who feels and EXPRESSES love through gift-giving. It can be hand-made or cost $1, gifts show you were being thought of, even when you weren’t around. 👌🏻

[@conscious_competence3703]

That's how I feel.

[@kelhow1181]

@@conscious_competence3703 My first impression was “That’s so shallow!” But no. This has absolutely nothing to do with gold-digging and everything to do with picturing the smile on their face, Giving them something you know they’d want but might not give to themselves. Paying attention. Really knowing someone. Not shallow at all; it requires study!

[@exoticallovergirl]

Right… I love to give good gifts. Bring me a sandwich and we’re soul mates!

[@truthology4u]

Yesss!!!

[@101Sailorfan]

If that height is what he prefers, i would support him in it, as a 6 foot 1 woman. It's really no different to me preferring guys be my height.

[@liljared711]

I feel it, I prefer taller girls because I wanna sit on shoulders , 😩 but I feel it tho not really a super strong preference ig being not many girls are tall af

[@therisingsunygo]

In your case, what's the reasoning behind the height thing?

[@patrickstewart6260]

@@therisingsunygo Probably doesn't want to over power her other half lol, unless she's into that.

[@산드라-p8x]

@@liljared711 I’m tall and shorter guys are cool. (I’m 5’10)

[@dustinjenney9736]

Death by snu snu!

[@two4631]

Damn, I appreciate Preach calling me a piece of shit, I felt that cuz I can totally agree and I’m glad someone can be honest with me about it haha. I’ve gotten so deep into my introverted shell/mindset that now I even distance myself from my own friends, and I’d even go as far as to say that it’s damn-near ghosting at this point, which is definitely shitty af.

[@Syrxen]

Oh man I feel that, I haven't met up with a vast majority of my friends nor talked to them. Even some of my friends at the programming school I used to go to... I've never spoken to them since I stopped going.

[@sakuraesther6309]

Same☠️

[@blackera8277]

@Max Gill nah. Being an introvert doesn’t mean you’re boring or less sociable/socially awkward. I am great at having convos and even being the center of attention & making everyone laugh, but after some time passes i wanna be alone for the rest of the day/next few days

[@tevinh3333]

I get what your saying but we aren't pieces of shit.

[@nnenda2692]

At least we are not doing it deliberately . It just happens!!!

[@bridgest99]

Lmaooo, Preaches off screen pointing at Aba "That's you!" was fucking hilarious

[@joshturner1334]

I didnt know being over 6ft was such a big deal tilli got out of a 10 year long relationship when i was like 28 and got on some dating apps. Now i understand why she was so jealous and tried to chase all my girl friends away. Ive been slaying it lol. Its so fucked up because some of these girls will ask how tall you are and how much money i make but when all i see is pics takin strategically so i cant see their bodies and i ask them how much they weigh or if they have kids they act like i cant ask that.. Huh??a lot of these chicks just want some dude that has everything while bringing nothing but headache and some other dudes kids.. It astonishes me how entitled most of theppl on there are. These dating apps are not good for ppl.

[@kittensncheese80]

Dating apps are cess pools. Women have a lot of demands yet bring nothing but drama, and an entitled attitude. The men I met were genuinely scarred by some of these women.

[@Tionaintown876]

Are these baby mamas white? Your name sounds pretty white

[@hllyenaylleth9576]

That's the Pirates of The Caribbean name. ​@@Tionaintown876

[@Fenrir190]

Damn I needed this laugh to wrap the week up! Definitely feel Aba on the discussion around love languages. At 19 you're gonna change a lot. Hell at 30 you can change up a bit from time to time. Receiving gifts is still at the bottom for me but I understand it more. If my gf likes blueberries and I take time to make sure the fridge stays stocked with those, that's a gift giving I don't mind and enjoy. The kind I don't care for is when another is expecting something materialistic and expensive all the time. When the dude spoke of shallow, all the languages can be shallow. Gifts - expensive stuff that holds no emotional value Service - doing something to get something back from others later not because you actually want to do something nice. Touch - sex is the only touch you enjoy otherwise stay away Time - just being near each other but not present with each other Words - empty compliments

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Word

[@tissanhoward]

Never heard it explained this way. Profound 🔥

[@Fenrir190]

@@tissanhoward Lol thank my 6 years of horrid dating luck. I always make it a goal to learn something from each relationship.

[@SirYeetus]

Many women these days are shocked & offended when a man has any type of standards. 👀

[@gk7123]

The east Asian brother on this video was savage

[@jetjet6560]

A lot of it ain't standards tho, they just preferences...and preferences don't define a persona character

[@buster2644]

@@jetjet6560 same thing lil g

[@IkesPimpHand]

Facts

[@spiros1205]

@@jetjet6560 doesn't he have the right to have them though ?

[@Francis-ht5td]

Shit man I'm 5'4 I need me a girl that can reach the top shelf

[@PierceMD]

Nah, you need a short girl as a stool hahaha

[@jd5441]

I'm 5'3 and my girl is 4'10. We got your back brother.

[@jessicadement1722]

I'm 5'2" and I just climb to reach the top shelf. 🤷‍♀️😂

[@prettyxbonez96]

Awe okay I gotcha boo 😆

[@heather_857]

5’10, all shelves shall be reached with me

[@gulamelaka77]

The “yo can you do me a solid” followed by the “THAT’S YOU!!!!” cracked me up 😂😂😂😂😂

[@FLdancer00]

I can't speak for all people who have gifts as their love language, but for me it's not about acquiring expensive things. I like being able to have something in my house that reminds me that someone cares. It could be hand made or something free you got from work but knew I would enjoy it. It's the thought process, not the monetary value. And I LOVE giving gifts. I try to pick things that are useful or will make their lives easier.

[@legendofsociety796]

I could be wrong here, but i honestly feel like most girls want gifts to flex on other girls(girls flexing on other girls gives ecstasy to the first girl majority of the time)(its the same with guys, they want the guy every girl wants so they can be like, “HAHA I GOT HIM AND YOU DIDNT”) But its interesting to see your perspective is different. And I appreciate it.

[@legendofsociety796]

I also personally hate gifts. There is nothing i want someone can buy. Unless itt provides me use. Like a tool bag. Or a fan. Or a set of hangars😂

[@FLdancer00]

@@legendofsociety796 Yes! That's what I do. I love giving practical gifts. If I hear a friend complain about something, I make a mental note to find a gadget that can help.

[@legendofsociety796]

@@FLdancer00 see thats smart, but I appreciate when women actually value material things for sentimental value cause she’ll have all the cute little things she collected over the years lol

[@naomiolutayo]

I’m the same way. If someone I love gave me a spatula with my name engraved on it for example, I’d cherish it forever and use it all the time. Using it reminds me of their love

[@Incredible_Mister_J]

As someone who's introverted, I developed a sense of communication like an extrovert. Only problem is now I became a chatterbox.

[@mysticstrikeforce5957]

That's why i try not to have to many friends :)

[@KrakensLifee]

Lol ain't this a mood 🤣🤣

[@marienmarien3089]

Welcome to the club. You're not alone.

[@Incredible_Mister_J]

@Charne Dalton introvert who can mimic an extrovert.

[@yves2016]

I'm the same. Naturally an introvert but it makes others uncomfortable so I make myself more extroverted and end up talking too much. I'm still an introvert as that's my preferred way to be.

[@f1ng3rprint]

some women say act of service/gifts when they mean "i just want expensive shit", so i understand the sentiment from the young lad

[@lawlessx9]

Yeah when I see that on dating sites it usually means "I like getting free shit"

[@miaelle1500]

Gifts, maybe, but acts of service is something you do for someone, not buying things for them..

[@alexisdumire5634]

I love receiving gifts, that isn't my top love language. But my thing is I enjoy when someone takes the time to give me a meaningful gift. It could be free, something you made, whatever. It's the thought behind the gift that matters to me, getting something that shows you care enough to pay attention and know me. And I'm the same way towards others. I love giving meaningful gifts that show how much I care about and know the person.

[@yeshuabey7193]

Red pill unlocked idk why i never thought of that

[@taybaybay5553]

But usually people show love the way they feel love so if they mean it and actually care about you they will return the favor.

[@TheEnasalin]

Me: Introverted, diagnosed with ADHD and wearing glasses Well shit.

[@JustSome1chillin]

So you're hyperactive af?

[@motivationaltripping5938]

@@JustSome1chillin when you get old the hyperactive as fuck part happens only in your head

[@greywolf1989]

@@motivationaltripping5938 how do you get over that ??

[@motivationaltripping5938]

@@greywolf1989 i don't know i don't think you can with out being hooked on drugs which can be much more worse i struggle with that shit myself

[@catdaddytv0706]

Have you considered the stoic philosophy?

[@TheDragiix3]

The nerd thing speaks to me on a deeper level. Everyone wants to be a nerd but when you mention those silmarillion tolkien letter pop quizzes in the cat cafe in the city over people stop texing back 👀👀 yall have no idea how hardcore the nerddom is

[@Aliyaaaa]

The variety is huge among nerds.

[@Lulu-Marie_486]

Like they claim they're a anime nerd but only know about naruto and one piece, like how

[@Supersayan21]

@@Aliyaaaa Nah, It's just that people think liking a few nerd things automatically makes you a nerd, which it doesn't, same as calling yourself a gamer for playing 1 or 2 games. I get that people are desperate to fit in, but listen, I don't call myself an athlete for doing my daily workout, that's just disrespectful to people who actually follow that lifestyle. For nerds who actually had to live with the stigma of being one (up until recently when it became "fun and quirky"), it just doesn't sit well how people will label themselves as one for watching a season of Game of Thrones.

[@polarissolaris-q3x]

@@Lulu-Marie_486 Facts, I ain't an anime nerd, and even I cringe when a newbie claims that label. Watching anime, especially mainstream shounen anime ≠ being an anime nerd.

[@CaulkMongler]

A lot of self proclaimed nerds like Star Wars, Harry Potter, LOTR etc until it comes to talking about cosplaying, reading the lore, tabletop gaming on the regular, etc.

[@Literatories]

I really love aba's personality like when he said it feels like people are tryna push their shit on him I felt that....people confuse people pleasing with love or affection. if youre doing things for people and you dont know what they like or what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable youre doing it for yourself....

[@ingridc0ld]

Preach's laugh never fails to brighten my day

[@danieltroconis7213]

0:01 Man, I just watch Aba & Preach for the dose of absolute joy that it is to hear them laugh. You two are absolutely hilarious, peace!

[@Rieky22]

Ahh many not all women ain’t going to like this when they’re accountable. They hate the fact that men have some type of standards.

[@manafront]

Don’t generalize

[@nyshyn307]

They're used to not having to worry about standards. Many guys, I'd say most honestly, will disregard a lot just to get a nut

[@Vintagenegro]

@@manafront its general, so he should generalize

[@bobsaget338]

@@manafront stop simping

[@ioiioooio193]

@@B4DF0RCE it’s not even a gender specific thing, there’s both men and women who don’t take accountability for their actions.

[@izrael820]

I wouldnt call him a sigma but just a normal human being that knows what he wants. He has a preference and those that dont meet it wont be in his dating sphere.

[@thebettymonster4851]

The love language thing through me off acts of service is how they receive and give love. Random BJs are acts of service

[@xMckingwill]

It was an unironic joke lol

[@xMckingwill]

@@thebettymonster4851 lol interesting that you went there

[@thebettymonster4851]

@@xMckingwill I like giving affection through actions.

[@man_of_iron]

@@thebettymonster4851 try putting that on a dating profile. Lol

[@emlave7254]

Everyone knows Aba’s favourites is “act’s of service” with a side of puti 🐈 lol

[@LaceyAnn]

🤚😅

[@mathieul4303]

@@LaceyAnn 👀

[@kikialeaki1850]

I would have thought booty💀

[@emlave7254]

@@kikialeaki1850 for some reason I imagine them both saying puti(pussy). And I don’t know why 😆

[@SunshyneA]

@@emlave7254 poom poom is what he called it

[@TryinBin8889]

Man have I changed since I last watched this. Him asking for people to leave whose love language is a certain way is honestly justified. The thing is, when you have a certain love language, that's how you best recieve love. If you're dating someone whose love language is gift giving, but yours is quality time, you're going to have to compromise and give them gifts and vice versa. And some people get impatient with that- some people don't like the idea of buying others gifts regularly, only on special occassions or never. And these annoyances grow in a relationship. So Iget that one

[@caleighhraee]

Acts of service are so endearing, why would someone not like that? Or not want to do that for someone? I had a flat tire one morning before work and when I told my boyfriend (now husband) he told me to take his car to work and he spent 2 hours before he had to go to work (4am-6am) changing my tire and he took my car to work. That is some shit I wouldn’t even expect my father to do for me! It’s such a nice gesture and so selfless. Gifts are nice but that level of dedication and time is priceless

[@Porceliankitty]

I love acts of service too, I feel cared for by their efforts to help and please me. I love it so much because that's the only way I feel wanted.

[@joegomez5463]

I feel like people don't like it, because some people who like acts of service expect them all the time, and the more someone serves, the more the person expects / denands. I understand that NOT everyone is like that, but not everyone wants to be taken advantage of that way, so eliminating people who are "Acts of service people" is more or less safe.

[@KN-hg2nv]

​@@joegomez5463That's what I thought too about why someone would not like that. Sometimes toxic people have tendency to hold what they do for you over your head as if you asked them to do it.

[@CMXR]

taking 2 hours to change a tire is kinda crazy ngl

[@birdeyevision9711]

I most definitely was laughing my ass off and pointed at the screen when Preach told me to yell at Aba “THATS YOU!” 🤣🤣😂😂 audience participation at its finest 🙏🙏🙏

[@TGKChief.Infinity]

The “Do me a solid” speaks to how well these guys know each other

[@DedicationDeservesRespect]

Doing a solid is an act of affirmation which aba claimed to hate until preach brought up his past Lmaoooo pay attention to the show it’s not that long and that quote has no relationship to their legacy it’s just a reflection of aba’s past

[@valoredramack9117]

I prefer women that are either the same height or 2 inches shorter as me. If I were 6'4'' then I would prefer a 6'2'' female. I know what it's like to date women in all height ranges and one thiing I learned is that kissing, hugging, and dancing with a partner that has a drastic height difference is anatomically not a pleasurable experience. When you arr the same or close height as your partner, there are far more frequent opportunities for satisfying affection. The best kisses and physical pleasure that I've ever had is with females that are only one inch shorter than me, it takes no struggle or effort to pull eachother close for random affection when the height is equal. It is ergonomically uncomfortable having to bend down to french kiss someone that is much shorter or stretch your neck kiss someone that is much talker.

[@judoclawplays962]

Amazonian: I liked to get picked up Aba: hope you like getting let down

[@anthonycruz5226]

I felt personally attacked by the way they were coming at us words of affirmation type men 😂. It’s really just hearing someone tell us we’re doing a good job

[@ikeamad8143]

All the homies starving out here. Give em that shit 🤣

[@DrLC.]

I’m sorry, IS THE FLOOR BACK?!! I never thought I’d miss it but I do! Reminds me of when I first found this channel and was like, “tf is that snare drum noise?”

[@jaquantebrade1910]

yooooo i love the videos like fr the comedy, ebergy and more love the content. Dont ever stop plss and may God bless u all.

[@donimmy2k]

Hahaha these kids are adorable. They're gonna fall for someone with the exact opposite of what they think they want.

[@mortychai-tea9389]

I found the height stuff hilarious cause as a tall dude, you’re already a leg up. But the thing is, I don’t want a woman who doesn’t compliment my height. So I got myself a 6’1 girl to go with my 6’6 dumbass and it works and she gets to feel like a woman still. It’s just how it is 😂

[@bigbeezy5056]

I'm 6'10 and my family makes my fiancé feel tiny at 5'10 lol.

[@Aliyaaaa]

It's just fair isn't it? I have a relatively tall friend who prefers really tall dudes. I am in the middle height so I can easily date dudes that are comparably shorter. I think the perfect height for a partner should be in relation to the own height. A very short girl doesn't need a 2 meter dude.

[@mortychai-tea9389]

@@bigbeezy5056 dude, that’s awesome, and it’s crazy how much they appreciate you making them feel like a woman. It’s great

[@mortychai-tea9389]

@@Aliyaaaa I always found that to be slightly disappointing when there are girls who are extremely short and exclusively looking for EXTREMELY tall men, making an already small market for tall women, smaller

[@knotengajin7359]

The problem/double standard is women today, regardless of their height, seeking a man 6’ or taller. Oftentimes taller. The average for men in the US is 5’9” and 82% of all men in the US are under 6’. Thus you end up with 80% or more women vying for 12% or less of men with that 12% being across all age groups. At 6’6” you are literally in the top less than a percentage point of US men in height.

[@ts0088]

I love the chemistry between these two.

[@TeddyLupinator]

As a person whose love language is giving and receiving gifts, I'd just like to say that it's more about the SIGNIFICANCE I place on a gift from someone I love than just "I need stuff." I'll remember who gave me the gift and how I felt when I received it, like how souvenirs bring the happiness of a vacation home with you. There's also such a thing as too much- nobody wants useless clutter lol. It also goes both ways (receiving and GIVING)- I love picking out gifts for my bf and seeing his face light up when I surprise him with something he didn't know I knew he wanted. Doesn't mean I don't express love through words and physical touch too (because I know those are HIS love languages and that's what he needs).

[@melrobertson2743]

Same

[@justwonderinghowlongmyname5139]

as a 19 year old, i really appreciated the advice that aba quickly gave at the end about "taking anything you can get" to figure out what you like/dont like in a partner.

[@glowwangari9586]

I press the like button even before watching the video.... That's how good Aba and Preach are

[@terajade4L]

Word! 💯

[@The_Mighty_Newf]

Just found your guys channel a few days ago, and I gotta say I love everything about your videos, from intentions and content, to your narration and attitudes toward each other. You risk being petty, but not in any unbearable sense, I love it! Keep it up my dudes!

[@cloudcampos4555]

I try to live a well balanced life by alterning between hallmark movies and aba and preach. A well rounded life.

[@automemories3051]

Announcer: “ if anyone is not interested in going on a date with Waimin, please leave the circle.” Nobody leaves Me: must be nice to be attractive!

[@malcolmthorne9779]

Anyone could have been up there, it's just female group dynamic. Him simply having a bunch of women around him made him attractive to them. He could have looked like a potato and it wouldn't have been any different.

[@StaceyImaginary]

@@malcolmthorne9779 or maybe he just wasn’t disgusting or cocky and had a nice smile 😄

[@DefineMorena]

@@StaceyImaginary 👀

[@adunce.5422]

@@StaceyImaginary You’re wrong. Female attraction is in layers of cake 🍑. On the first layer, you have attractive males. This is because of patriarchy and is something we need to abolish. On the second layer, you have….

[@throwacnt7603]

​@@StaceyImaginary That's where literally all science contradicts you. Smiles are bad, especially when overused, cocky and benevolent misogynist guys get laid far more and asian dudes do the worst out of all races. And of course, before anyone comes in with their hot take, there are ALWAYS exceptions. Group dynamics and this being recorded for the internet likely played a huge role here. *Definitely helps that he has a rather masculine face and is well built.

[@U4ia28]

I understand why dude X’d out the women who’s TOP love language was acts of service. Those acts of service end up being expectations and your level of interest will be equated with said acts. So if those acts of service are perceived as not good/frequent enough it will become a headache.

[@loryndabenson2118]

They can also be expensive sometimes so i don't blame him.

[@scribbles1424]

For real.

[@EbbndFl0w]

For me, acts of service is when my husband does the dishes or cleans up the kitchen while I get the kids ready for bed. If he could cook, cooking dinner would be deeply appreciated as well. Lmao Like thanks for taking care of that thing for me so I don’t gotta worry about it and we can spend more time together. I honestly appreciate that way more than when my husband buys me expensive gifts.

[@U4ia28]

@@EbbndFl0w if you show that you appreciate these cost less acts without expectations then that’s to be respected. It’s when people conflate the absence of these acts with lack of love/care/interest where it becomes bothersome.

[@hammywoods]

I like receiving gifts bc they show that the person is thinking about me, especially when they remember the little things. My mom went to the store and came home with a drink I didn't even ask for bc she remembered how much I liked it, I was more touched by her act than getting a gift. So no, I wouldn't say it's materialistic.

[@elijah3282]

The fact that I pointed my finger and said "that's you" made this 10x more funny

[@c.conga11]

I'm probably the only dude who prefers tall women, around 5'7" and up. I won't eliminate a shorter one, but I have my preference

[@anthonyt425]

I don’t prefer them but definitely down to date one.

[@ikb8373]

@@anthonyt425 you'll be explaining that to your 5'3 son

[@aj3706]

is that because you tall?

[@aj3706]

@@ikb8373 The guy may be over 6'0

[@senrabetrollin]

I'm 5'7" but I like someone who's like 5'9" and no I'm not a masochist or submissive(at least sexually)

[@dragonbane001]

He should have asked "if you only look date guys above 6 feet, please leave the circle."

[@lawlessx9]

You have any idea how many women lie about that when pressed?

[@miffedcuttlefish6139]

All but 2 might have stayed. 🤣🤣🤣

[@dhruv1422]

Nah man that way all the "woke" chicks would start tryna call him insecure 🤦‍♂️

[@treacherousjslither6920]

They would have all left j/k

[@ntmn8444]

He did just fine. Your statement above shows insecurity. His statement shows his preference.

[@Kinos141]

I'm so glad I found this channel. They got me laughing, when other stuff don't. Keep up the god work.

[@flamingo2603]

Preach’s laugh 😹 is everything!

[@Demajaasa]

Whatever happened to flamingo 1?

[@flamingo2603]

@@Demajaasa lol

[@LegendaryNightfall]

That's you Aba lol My love language is definitely quality time and physical touch. I was sort of alone the majority of my life or felt like I was because it was very hard for me to connect with someone else for fear of being judged. To top that off, I spent two weeks ostracized from school because the whole student body thought I had a hit list and that I would shoot up the place. Needless to say, no one touched me during that entire two week period, and I was the class genius. So for me, having those formative experiences, those love languages make absolute sense for me. Words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service? They could all take a backseat to being with me in an emotional, mental, and physical sense.

[@alexare7948]

As a 5'11" girl who models but is still insecure, I like guys who love tall girls. I see you.

[@jhopkins803]

Allow me to introduce myself

[@Scriptures_K]

@@jhopkins803 Allow you to introduce myself

[@TrippieMint]

@@Scriptures_K allow you to do my allowing

[@dio7213]

:)

[@RedElite69]

Do you also date only guys 6ft and higher?

[@kamryn110]

I know damn well we ALL pointed at the phone “THATS U”

[@QuasiGame0]

THATS YOU! 🤣 Preach's laugh always gets me 😂

[@WethamanClanVideos]

Definitely agree with Aba on this one. I'm an acts of service kind of guy. I literally don't say no to helping people with anything small or big.

[@koalab]

As long as you have your boundaries intact.

[@WethamanClanVideos]

@@koalab Exactly. Not gonna help ya mug someone or anything sketchy but pretty much anything else im game for if you need the help.

[@fixedbyfaith]

Being able to receive isn’t always about you. Sometimes it’s about showing the other person you appreciate their effort or acknowledgment (it can feel like a slap in the face when someone rejects your kindness). To me It’s just an opportunity to deeper your connection w/ that person. But also why deprive yourself of love/kindness🤷🏾‍♀️

[@alexlostit]

I agree some people just don’t like affection or being helped because they think it’s being humble

[@lilliebobson3146]

Agreed

[@TheMerlet24]

100% agree. Well said.

[@lindaostrom570]

i agree words are cheap. our actions define us.

[@taki1255]

Preach's "I just wanna take this time..." monologue is *EXACTLY* how I feel about words of affirmation. Out of all the love languages, that one is at the bottom of the list. A simple "thank you" and a comment about what you particularly liked will suffice. All those extra words just make me roll my eyes. If I made food and you're gobbling it down then that's all I need. If I look pretty and you're constantly looking at me then you don't need to constantly say I'm pretty. If I'm doing things for you and you have a smile on your face, you look less stressed, or simply say it made your day then my day is made as well Just say I love you/what you did and roll! Stupid speeches, ugh

[@IncredibleIceCastle]

Dude words of affirmation are literally just things like “I’m proud that you accomplished this,” or “thank you it’s good.” What are you on about. Do you think it means like super drawn out affirmations because usually it doesn’t

[@taki1255]

@@IncredibleIceCastle The monologue is how words of affirmation _feels to me,_ even the brief praises and compliments. It's even worse when the person dwells on it instead of moving on. And yes, while words of affirmation is more like simple compliments, persons whose love language is words of affirmation overdo it. Of course everyone needs a certain amount of words of affirmation, but I'm saying that I need it the least out of all the love languages because it usually makes me uncomfortable than anything else. Words feel empty and vapid, like those insufferable speeches.

[@flagergolf3386]

Preach:" you're not an introvert, you're a piece of shit! " Me:" his not lying tho." T_T

[@Rockas360]

I'm right there with Aba. I'm siclian, we don't say we love folks - we show it: you need a hang, you need someone to cook you a meal, you need some bucks because it's a hard time, you feeling depressed and can't do some stuff - we there for our family and friends.

[@kiwik2951]

Same!!

[@Daddydeathv2]

I'm 6'2 and I've dated girls as short as 4'9 and as tall as 6 ft. Honestly doesn't matter to me too much. Then you have my 5'6 brother who married a 5'8 woman. The confidence matters most.

[@auchenai123]

Easy being a man when you're looking at everyone from above , but its a different thing being a man and looking at everyone from below , your brother's a real one

[@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986]

As an average height man I’m mostly confused how really tall and short people work out the “logistics” of it. You’re basically going through another level of the atmosphere😂

[@ShyJayne_bodied]

The gift receiving/giving love language is so misunderstood

[@caitthecat]

I agree, although people do use it as code for "buy me expensive stuff, " instead of, "a souvenir that shows I think of you when you're not around."

[@afro_buddha4977]

I agree, my partner sometimes warms my towels in the dryer while I am in the shower… it’s the sweetest act of service …