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[@drhashtagyolo]

she honestly wasn't mean at all, people took her comments too personally, they're just her opinions at the end of the day

[@DxxTheFighterxx]

they were expecting the "everyone gets a trophy" bullshit

[@lordmoncef5494]

Nope she s an expert her opinions are valuable

[@magnusdixon7660]

I bet she is an Aries; she is brutally honest.

[@lolabigcups7121]

We she was critiquing them personally.

[@champ1159]

@@DxxTheFighterxx exactly

[@sv2754]

She really applied the "never argue with a fool" in real life

[@Jajais4u]

I love this lady for that

[@emmac7880]

100%

[@invincible9462]

Yessssss. Legit perfect comment (albeit it I’m extremely late to this 😂)!!! The judging lady’s maturity kicked in and you could just hear it in her tone that she was finished with that silly piercing argument then and there lmao.

[@sv2754]

@@invincible9462 u made me wonder how it's been 9 months already

[@bzleo2003]

Yes!

[@Jesus-bs5fl]

This woman is lowkey wise. Not only bc she's 100% correct about all of the people she saw but bc she also kept the peace.

[@katfury6611]

Low-key is an understatement in my opinion but you are right.

[@jaketrons4376]

I think the criticism on glasses was her on a personal preference and not legit compared to her other critiques. Glasses get stylized to fit fashion styles but are mainly a necessity for some people and are more utility than fashion, contacts are good if you can or if they work for you but if you need corrective lenses then go with your preferred method. Most people I know who need corrective lenses use both contacts and glasses, and use them in different settings. I have 20/20 vision though so I shouldn’t have this detailed of an opinion on this lady’s hatred for glasses. Cuz as long as we are being low key she fucking hates glasses.

[@Darktitanium159]

she "high key" looks like the oracle in the matrix

[@laughingtom1132]

Damn jesus u look handsome

[@tommytremble3910]

Not even lowkey. It’s pretty obvious how wise she is. She was giving praise and compliments openly and with clarity while only focusing on things people can actually change. We all need people like her in our lives and to talk to them constantly

[@hunterkiller1440]

She is very respectful. How about that?

[@briannalee1998]

She is respectful about it. She says things I would be too afraid to say, she’s nice about it though.

[@yog-sherkoth1782]

I am once again here to say hello hunterkiller1440 Hello

[@tharcisse7103]

"I dont give a flying ****... I still love myself" Translation: "I don't want to play anymore, this game is stupid anyway".

[@renaldsunset]

And ‘’my feelings are hurt like a mf’’

[@rashadallen9299]

"I can tell" Translation; You better, cause no one else does.

[@Kerm]

I went to high school with him, his fashion is big to him so I think she really got to him

[@annhello6870]

Lmao!!! 😂😂 Thats the perfect translation 😂😂😂

[@tharcisse7103]

@@Kerm If that's true, he obviously identifies with his physical appearance a lot, so any negative comment about it is taken as a direct attack on who he is.

[@KaMafo28]

The first guy seemed to genuinely care about her opinion and feedback.

[@IvoryMane]

He was very mature. He was like yes I can work with this.

[@brett8460]

That’s Craig. He has a very monotone personality. 😂

[@doctoroppa7991]

Dude is from IT, its give me a solution type mentality.

[@Crunchy166]

@@doctoroppa7991 Great attitude to have towards life tbh.

[@guillaumesora5385]

@@intergvl Lmao

[@MandoMTL]

I appreciate this woman. 100% no bullshit and 0% malice.

[@zenxtraordinary1262]

If she gave me a 6-8 I’m taking it and leaving confident asf. Love that she doesn’t beat around the bush

[@CoachDeBora]

She did not critique anything that they couldn't change. She gets a 10 for that.

[@opocoyo]

I just realised that! That was great 😊

[@marleyjanim5033]

Yep

[@Revenant-oq9ts]

And still people took it personally. XD

[@champyb]

Period!!

[@MrLinkinparkrules]

Except height...

[@Lerkero]

3:42 - "I don't give a fuck" - person who agreed to be on a public show and get rated on appearance

[@theezenriarinze9203]

His feelings got hurt lmaoooo

[@nickb6425]

Lmao you can't agree to something like that just to expect to be fine with them pants on

[@bambihall169]

Anyone who says, "I am perfect the way I am, is a lair or delusional" we are not perfect and we will never be but steiving for it is what makes us human and better people.

[@jamesiz4395]

I need to pee but first, I need to tel you that I make commentary and gaming videos! kzbin.info/www/bejne/aJTQgKyqlshkbdU

[@midnight_yota]

"and he took that personally" - Michael Jordan.

[@veautyfull]

The 8 became a 7 in my eyes just off the retaliative personality. She should’ve just humbly taken the compliments and the criticism.

[@clue942]

She went down to a 5 to me

[@MJ-py7dm]

Went to a 4 for me

[@jamesdlegacy8728]

@@clue942 Real talk

[@simone8172]

She just kept going. Like... we get it you made yourself more than clear enough when you said you're not limiting yourself you're aligning yourself. You don't need to keep going off about how her criticism is invalid cause she's not the kind of person you want to work with. You're the one who came here for her criticism! Take it. She wouldn't be here if her advice weren't useful. You don't have to take her words for gospel and change your life, but you certainly don't have to try and beat her into submission of not even critiquing you.

[@MrFreakazoid24]

She became a 3, people who cant take constructive criticism are not people who want to grow. They’re usually extremely Toxic.

[@boertush]

The asian girl looked relived almost happy with the 5/10, she was definitely expecting worse

[@justterrell956]

Honestly it really was just the glasses. She didn’t look bad, just those frames.

[@nickk.5661]

This is the type of teacher that every kid would hate in the beginning but love after the school year is over 😂

[@Okyourite]

💯

[@TheLadyDelirium]

I had a nurse that was similar to her. At first I thought she was a quite scary but as time went on I ended up thinking she was amazing.

[@chicamica36]

Trueeee🤣

[@B4Cheshire]

I had an old boss was like this, but she helped me be a better person for it. Earned her respect in the end. So, agreed!!!!!

[@hotice8885]

I know you are so right, because I was one of those teachers. I saw it play out year after year, exactly as you just said! LOL

[@DaniDeVitHoe]

She barely gave any negative opinions on physical attributes, she was telling people to work on confidence, finding clothes that helped there shape more.

[@mevaline2241]

Yes

[@hopepalmer5376]

except for that first dude lmao

[@liverpooljft9623]

@@hopepalmer5376 yeah but he can change his weight. Saying something like nose, eyes, head shape etc would be unnecessary as its things you can't change. Its good she focused on things they can change without surgery.

[@hopepalmer5376]

@@liverpooljft9623 i agree for sure. my only point was that it was a physical attribute

[@norahelaine6041]

The first guy was a decent guy, a 7 who on one month could be a 10. He’s got great height and body. Doesn’t need to lose too much. Get fit and bam!!

[@jimbojackson4045]

"The kisses of an enemy are deceitful, but the wounds of a friend are faithful." - Proverbs 27:6

[@Silverx]

I would be happy with a 5. Some of these people were so insecure

[@rosalyna5004]

This guy saying "I'm wearing purple funky pants" when asked how he's doing is the equivalent to the kid saying "I like turtles" 🤣

[@absolutebackfire191]

Hes trying so hard to be quirky and unique

[@AlmostLakai94]

@@absolutebackfire191 right lmao. If the pants looked good you definitely wouldn't need to announce/defend it right off the bat 😂

[@100procent2]

I think he like this panst or style like this and know other ppl don't so he said it to show that this isn't problem for him but something what he just like and can be himself 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@AlmostLakai94]

@@100procent2 I didn't mean to sound as judgemental about his fashion choice as I did. I just think it wasn't the appropriate situation to bring attention to it right from the beginning lol

[@lexansstories6952]

@@100procent2 he could have said it without being a dick. More than likely he was a homosexual or will just end up alone until he's 30

[@ThatKidTony]

Did he really say, "this is just my drip"? He really earned that 5.

[@SvenDzahov]

Lmao I know right😂 he is an attractive guy but that personality just was a massive yikes

[@pietvanmeetelen4471]

you can just have your own style even if it makes you more 'unattractive'. i agree that its a bit cringe to say it this way tho lmao

[@ThatKidTony]

@@pietvanmeetelen4471 I don't care about what he wears. Let him do him. I just think the way he said it was cringe.

[@pietvanmeetelen4471]

@@ThatKidTony yeah you right

[@2156Charlie]

@@SvenDzahov Attractiveness in appearance won't mean shit when you act like a fucking dong. That guy said what he thought sounded cool in his mind, turned out it sounds like he's petty about it and got salty with her criticism.

[@jonroyle6913]

the first guy wasn't being dismissive, he already knows he needs to lose weight, he was actually open to criticism from her and was inviting it further, look at his arms when he says it, wide open but nearly twirling, the wide open looks like he is being super aggressive but its not, the slight twirl was what he really wanted.

[@wouldntyouliketoknow7058]

I need her in my life when I go shopping just to make sure I’m on point.

[@darnarxz]

Why? She doesn't exactly have the greatest taste.

[@dgmma1236]

@@darnarxz lol and your taste is good ?

[@phenomenonnarutokun]

These people ain’t ready for that African and Caribbean honesty 😩😩😩

[@sashababy517]

😂😂True

[@thetongueofangels1882]

Well ive been in the Caribbean 17 years and i myself not ready for that. Family gatherings aka Christmas already got me fucked up😭😭😭😭😭

[@coggaming3796]

Asian family honesty is just how quickly can we give you depression.

[@mima_piedade]

@@thetongueofangels1882 I'm from (and in) Africa, my family doesn't say anything to me... because I'm so quiet they forget I'm there.

[@thesupernaturals1070]

I get roasted by every family member for being "overweight" daily. And I'm not even fat fat 😂

[@TheGrimmCommoner]

She's not criticising their looks, she criticising their style which is hindering instead of enhancing their looks.

[@miapaige1521]

She said to that one man the world would like him thinner. Which is not his style. She could benefit from losing a good 50 pounds herself. I hope she takes her own advice.

[@bananacupkakes9344]

@@miapaige1521 bruhh she’s a 60 yr old woman with 5 damn kids. Ofc she gon get a lil chubby. That dude has no excuse except for maybe genetics or an eating disorder. He can lose the weight or nah, but she was saying how he would become more attractive. The legitimate point

[@ValerieAbena]

Your style plays a part in how attractive you are

[@OnlyPoison]

@@bananacupkakes9344 you can have 10 kids at 70 and still look good lol

[@naknampucha5236]

@@miapaige1521 oof she's a former model. She knows what she's talking about, it's just her biology through time affected her physical appearance.

[@maggies88]

I love that - limiting yourself to who you are. Such a great line for how a lot of people today pride themselves in their 'individuality'.

[@R3DI5C00L]

That was also my 1 biggest takeaway from the entire video. Surprised not more people are commenting it. One of the simplest lines of wisdom I heard in a long time.

[@landmindssoul4636]

It's crazy she wanted to be independent but is so dependent of others words. She lost it.

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

And not opening yourself up to who you could be

[@elvickRULES]

Love her no nonsense energy, straight to the point, honest. I feel like purple funky pants dude knew those pants weren’t going to go over well so was preemptively trying to avoid it or show he “doesn’t care”. He cares. His reaction after shows he cares a lot. If he really didn’t care he’d take what she said in stride.

[@tmsupreme7763]

-"I'm wearing purple funky pants." -"yes..."

[@spongemon1]

Michael Scott: May God guide you on your quest. David Wallace: yes...

[@HolyLightning4]

dude that part had me weak af lmao

[@raywearsclothes]

What he meant: Compliment my pants pls Her: Not today boi

[@mermaidtingzzz]

That yes translated to "about those...no." to me 😂.

[@K1llum1nati]

Yes... We heard it we ain't deaf or blind lol thank you for your comment.

[@PokemonTrainerVince]

The lady with the big scarf is beautiful. She also took the criticism extremely well. Beauty and personality, a great combo.

[@beep5406]

She should of raised people score when they gave that healty mentality as looks can get you in the door of relationships but personality will keep you there

[@Pumpkin0_0]

@@beep5406 She did. She considered their confidence and the way they carry themselves and walk. It only takes around 5 seconds to check someone out.

[@NewAgeSlaves]

She had a nice personality and a great smile nice attitude as well she probably took her advice

[@katara1641]

I've seen her on a couple episode's and I adore her, she has an amazing personality

[@FuckTard-dd1ee]

@@beep5406 this isn't about relationships. Its about making your beauty marketable

[@PrayedForYou]

I love OG African / Carribbean people. They are real and aren't afraid to show it. Funny how purple pants clown got handled lol

[@TRFit]

The best advice comes from someone with no dog in the fight. Raw, unfiltered and up to you if you want to receive it or not. It’s mind blowing how people get stuck in there ways and call it “standing there ground” or “staying true to you”.

[@kristinasanger]

She’s not rating them purely on “looks” in the way I would have defined looks, having a nice face, she’s considering the way they dress, if it’s flattering, how they walk in, etc. like I think these are qualities many people would have subconsciously taken into account but overlooked in their overall analysis but these are actually the most important qualities in someone’s appearance. Like guy #2 was actually very handsome, I didn’t even think his pants were that bad but as soon as I saw how personally he took the criticism and kind of went off on this woman, it was a turn-off.

[@fionagallagherapologist5968]

exactly !!!

[@estieeu2364]

Her come back was crazy though😂😂😂 she did not spare him "i can see you don't..."

[@kristinasanger]

@@estieeu2364 oh my gosh, yes 😂 and she was so calm and collected the whole time, it didn’t phase her in the end.

[@Manie230]

Even as a straight dude i could tell he looked good by already had a feeling of what kind of person he was wen he entered and talked about his pants. I knew that if she criticizes him on at he will probably go off on her or like he did passive aggressive tell her that she is wrong, he knows better, the game sucks, bye. I don’t like people like him. I never can get close to such people. I had people tell me to my face that my long hair looks bad. And I also said to them okay that’s your opinion I will still keep it that way because I like it. Nowadays I have cut it off because it really took to long to dry after taking a shower and I sweat a lot when doing any physical work and I always looked like It was pouring outside but in reality I just sweat a lot. Criticism is good. It helps us improve as persons. I love to hear criticism because I am full of self doubt and always am unhappy with what I deliver. And when I don’t get criticized for it that means okay I did enough. I was good. And if I get criticized I know that I did something bad. And that I can improve. This dude however thinks he is perfect and wants to live in a bubble where that is true. But no one is perfect. There is no perfect human.

[@ummesaima_18]

I agree and that black women from the last one she’s really good looking I would give her her a solid 10 but her personality showed and it went to 5 cause nah I’m not with it

[@passbyisaac]

“Take ur glasses off, with ur glasses off u went to a 7” like damn she’s just tryna see😭

[@jasonm2333]

Yo your comment is funny as hell 🤣 😂 💀

[@seanceknowles2911]

@@scos2714 right, there’s also contacts as well

[@isaacmattz204]

Think of it as phone holster on your belt. You might say “he just tryna have easy access to his phone” but it definitely isn’t a fashion statement. If this girl wants to look more attractive then contacts are the move

[@passbyisaac]

@@isaacmattz204 nigga phone holsters have been extinct since 2009😭, but nah I get what ur saying

[@Goodlook_casey]

She can get contact lenses

[@Marinaaduran]

He got so hurt over his pants 😂💀😂😭💀😭😂😭💀

[@prettyxbonez96]

Aka Mr. Purple Funky pants , she talking about "I know" what the look in everything gawwdd his Ego was hurt.

[@SeniorLuther]

That kind of honesty is tough, but super valuable sometimes. The thing you want to hear isn't always the thing you need to hear.

[@ViBeZ-mt6tn]

“Do not correct a fool or he will hate you, correct a wise man and he will appreciate you” -Bruce Lee

[@juliet.nebblet-cox]

That saying is originally from the Book of Proverbs, Holy Bible.

[@Orgizo08]

@@juliet.nebblet-cox Bruce Lee was a student of Scripture at some point 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@mouseofharry1703]

That's from proverbs

[@rook9309]

Lol I’m pretty sure that’s King Solomon

[@Animelover540]

@@juliet.nebblet-cox What proverb my guy?

[@nathanielslade3754]

I like how she doesn’t waste time arguing with them 😂

[@duneslayer]

Man I'm sure the two black chicks finna be like this bitch crazy I know imma 10 or some shit lol

[@jamespinkney189]

Right lol

[@LoyalTC]

None!

[@yungactivist]

@@duneslayer definitely

[@mermaidtingzzz]

@@duneslayer there was only 1 Black girl. And if they did, at least both women had enough sense to do it backstage, unlike the boy who said he "didn't give a flying f**k". His lil tacky, scrawny ass cussing at her bothered me on another level.

[@gapaintball7811]

This reminds me of my father. Old school italian from Naples. He was brutally honest but he never gave anyone a criticism that he didn't think you could fix and better yourself on. He had a way of breaking you down and giving yourself the tools to build yourself up 10x stronger. Example I lacked confidence. Man was up front he said buddy you dress terrible and you don't take care of yourself. Why not put some thought into your appearance, dress in a way that will make you confident he said. He also said set goals and compete them doing that will slowly build confidence.

[@flowerbloom5782]

Your dad was so wise. We need more people like that than fake nice bs people

[@mrsdatlast8874]

I adore her she reminds me of how my husbands mother was. She was so open and honest she hurt us so much and it was with love but hurt is hurt. I miss her every day her support has stayed inside us for years. I absolutely prefer honest people and they are so rare.

[@lauraidiomas9141]

Why are people so salty about an opinion? They went in there to be rated, they should be open to criticism, not for a value debate

[@30yovegan34]

A generation where truth and facts are deemed as "hating"

[@jessvan1206]

Yep kids today literally implode if their feelings get hurt. They were raising in bleach wiped, Mr clean sanitized, anti bacterial fogged bubbles

[@TheDeadlyBlueWolf]

@@jessvan1206 Oh please, don't like folks in any other generation don't want their feelings hurt. Mother people out here with all sorts of insecurities, if ever have anyone say they look good or something.

[@CogniVision]

They grew up in a society where anything 'negative' is viewed as someone being a hater. They can't handle criticism. They get trophies for bad performance, and people always tell them they're beautiful. It's the first time in their life someone was honest with them. They couldn't handle the truth, because they never had any practice.

[@jamesiz4395]

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[@frizzer48]

I like how she said to the first guy "the world would like you thinner" THAT WORDING WAS KEY! It's true though, the world has its standards 🤷

[@frizzer48]

@K Brunson they came to her to subject themselves to her not the other way around 🤣 So your retort to her is confusing/irrelevant

[@frizzer48]

@K Brunson lol idk who hurt you but I'm sorry that they never apologized and made right by you. Again, she said "the world would like you thinner" not some ANTM "you're fat" stuff. She isn't wrong, traditionally the world favors thinner/fit people. Dude seemed comfy in his skin and shrugged it off like "I like me as is and I prolly could go down a couple pant sizes but right now I'm good". Only recently have "we" been all about curves and thicc everything. I recognize being right is very important to you but I can't help you in my comment section. I'm sorry I couldn't give you the drama and name calling and trolling antics that you were expecting by pushing up on my comment 🤷. I'm still a big fan of wording. How one says things is important. The intent of the statement is also important. 💆🧘🙆

[@manager-nim2623]

@K Brunson pretty sure after 5 kids and 70+ years of age you would be so fit either, besides she looks really great and healthy for someone her age I would've assumed she was in her 50s

[@manager-nim2623]

@K Brunson OK then you go have 5 kids and hit 70 and we'll see if you can easily stay fit, like I said she looks very healthy for her age

[@miapaige1521]

@@manager-nim2623 ? Huh, she can stand to lose a good 50 pounds. She does not look fit or healthy to me. I dont care how many kids she has.

[@vincentstriqe]

8:45 she literally said change the Glases so other ones would suit her better, not that she has to get contact lenses

[@SinisterSkip]

Sometimes in life, someone's gotta be a bit rude and honest with you. People did that with me. They said I had a hunchback, that I was skin on bones, and that I had no clothing and hair style. It hurt, but I knew they might just have a point. I had no idea as a young oblivious computer nerd. After the critique, I fixed my posture, started lifting weights, fixed my diet, baught some decent fitting clothes with matching colors and got a haircut at a different barber. These 'rude' people are some of the most helpful people in my life. Forever grateful.

[@lofficieldufishe9823]

That white boy came in thinking he'd collect his 9/10s - 10/10s and leave, but after any critisism his terrible personality came straight out....

[@rubyreduxx]

I seriously think he thought he was gonna get 10s 10s 10s across the board 😂

[@itzAurora_Xoxo]

Yeah it's scary how they hide that shit

[@benjaminpope666]

Same with the black girl

[@itazuranakisu]

Watch the one where a model agent came and gave him high ratings that fed his ego. That same agent would see him turn into the same nightmare he was here if he was given criticism.

[@RichTake]

There's actually another video where there's a model scout critiquing the same people and the model scout was praising and drooling over him, so I'm sure that got to his head before seeing this lady.

[@theezenriarinze9203]

That's a West African women for you. Ruthlessly honest. My mom literally told me this morning im putting on weight as i was eating a bagel 😂😂😂

[@mstarry]

Yoooooo, My mom does the same thing. Blunt AF! #westafricanmamas

[@leland9465]

@Oya Josephine my teacher who was haitian would always say to me "you need to be a better you than you!"

[@leonidas0242]

My bajan mother is always telling me in to fat. But she's not wrong though

[@froyokid]

You’re West African? Then how did you become a black woman hating incel(judging from your past comments)? Must be unfortunately ugly and bitter lmao BUT for once I agree with you 😌

[@bertaseyeview9422]

And that's the whole truth. ROFL

[@vigneshcrichton]

I like her approach. She is open and direct. Walks away when her suggestions are not picked up.

[@Dream-nf2ff]

I appreciate her bluntness. She seems like a well-disciplined individual and that is what I aspire to be.

[@Destinyirus278]

“Stay comfortable in your house” 💀 I’m dying she’s right tho.. I love this lady 😂

[@bzleo2003]

I died! Lol

[@scoott8605]

Nothing says insecurity like someone insisting to other people that they “don’t care” and “love themselves”

[@noahspence9827]

He wasn't insecure, he's kind of well known in the online fashion community and he said that the lady said that he looked gay and like someone's wife, that part was cut out of the final video. His reaction was justified and he's usually a very calm person so it was probably the ladies fault. Cut always excludes certain scenes which cause people to look bad for the purpose of entertainment, it's messed up.

[@Popabuddy1]

@@noahspence9827 But he did look gay. Not like that's a bad thing but she wasn't lieing to him

[@crowned2088]

@@Popabuddy1 Am I the only person that one I saw him I didn't think much... Just a regular guy in baggy pants

[@BM-fz9yc]

There was nothing fashionable about that man

[@noahspence9827]

@@Popabuddy1 No he doesn't and she was asked to critique him, looking like or being a homosexual is not a critique an dif someone considers it to be then that makes them a homophobe

[@wmmv2019]

Attractiveness based on their character: Top 3: the scarf girl, chubby guy and the fit asian dude.

[@GoodNews-px2im]

“What can I do to improve?” *Proceeds to give pointers* “I didn’t ask for your opinion!” 🙄😂 She’s the realist and simply wonderful.

[@lydiabauer629]

She wasn’t just saying “that’s wrong” she was saying “this would improve what you have if you do it this or that way”

[@f.c.laukhard3623]

And she focused on things they can change.

[@aran2091]

Yes we watched the video as well.

[@munderaruwa5990]

Exactly!!! And she wasn't lying...

[@guhad0108]

If everyone was this honest their would be world peace

[@ahnrho]

Agreed.

[@austinriley8410]

If I got a 7, I would skip out of there in a merry mood😂

[@4knewt505]

Right??!!!😁🤣 I would say, God bless you, woman!!"

[@beatm6948]

I'd just be happy for the honesty

[@DeceiverIX]

Float* I'd be floating my ass outa there.

[@Noname-hv6bk]

we Ethiopian that's our moms right there "you are comfortable but stay comfortable in your house " and they hurt your feeling and sometimes make you cry and that is just normal Tuesday, but we love them at the same time

[@CloudStrife78]

I love this woman. I could have used her when I was young. Hell, I'm sure I still could. But when I was younger I never understood why I got picked on so much, not just by people in my school, but by random strangers. I could be walking down the sidewalk and people would stop their cars in the middle of the road to give me crap. I'm sure people thought they were being nice by not saying anything to me, but if someone like this would have given me some easy suggestions like "do this with your hair, and for goodness sake stop wearing clothes 10 sizes too big for you", it would have saved me a heck of a lot of trouble.

[@tizodd6]

I like the fact that she doesn't argue. She says what she says and moves on if you don't agree. I could honestly learn a lot from her demeanor...

[@b.alexisbeauty5013]

SAME. I was in awe 😍

[@fionagallagherapologist5968]

im trying to be like her 😭

[@jaminwaite3867]

After 5 kids...this is easy work for her

[@flowerbloom5782]

​@@fionagallagherapologist5968same. She is so confident but gentle. Not needing to be loud or rude. She is her and I respect that.

[@diypictures]

When she told the black girl about her nails they had the Diddy stare down moment, LMAO!

[@pixiebomb28]

DEAD😂

[@blkluv100]

She's was being generous with that score, cause that rats nest weave.....just no.

[@wonderingmind8547]

Yeah. Not gonna lie, that girl was being too bullheaded. In the professional world, nose rings and clunky long nails is not a clean look. I like my nails short and the only piercings I have is my ears, so I don't have these problems. With the way she dresses, investors and the like would be reluctant to work with her. The world may have gotten lax and casual, but business is business.

[@Nepthu]

@@wonderingmind8547 Totally agree. The attitude was the real problem. She went from an 8 to a 4.

[@michael8815]

@@wonderingmind8547 it's her business though so she can do what she wants?

[@KennethRCox]

10:28 She literally was like, “oh that’s funny, because I didn’t ask for all of that.” 😂😂😭😭💀💀

[@heatherjohnson1569]

I like her bluntness. I like being around people who are straight forward. I feel more comfortable around them, because there is no guessing games with them. They are honest about what they think.

[@cocoapuff_motivation2544]

Nigerian Parents wait for opportunities like this 😆

[@TheOnlyTaps]

"Stay comfortable in your house" 😂💀😂💀😂💀😂 bruhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[@damaramohammed]

But this was disrespectful tho

[@hopeatlast9617]

@@damaramohammed That was probably the nicest way of saying "You got trash tastes, go back home with your ugly pajamas and come back with proper style to back up that big mac sized ego of yours."

[@isaburt648]

Yikes!!!

[@curiouslyt2123]

I’m here to give you my professional opinion, in not here to convince you so take it or leave it. That’s what this woman is giving me. I love it, it’s very assertive and straight forward. That’s a person you want to hear from because they know how to give you the hard truths you may need to hear or even know yourself but because no one else is telling you what you already know but make excuses for, you do nothing to change it.

[@Xeroux]

I love how the first guy was happy to get a 7 and he took her advise and so did a couple of the women. But then you got those two others that were just starkly as hell. 😂

[@xxxCODExxx1]

The last girl definitely surrounds herself with fake friends that gas her up constantly, and when someone comes along and is genuinely honest with her, she can't take it and perceives it as a threat so she retaliates. Reality is going to hit her hard if she doesn't wake up and realize that you're not perfect.

[@someone-ji2zb]

I am sure she gets told this crap all of the time. She is very fake in her appearance (frankly, as most women are now days), and she is one of those who are unwilling to accept that it does detract from your overall appeal. If she wants to stylize by having fake and long nails, have a nose ring, and cake on make up, then fine.... she should, however, realize that she isn't doing herself any favors if her goal is to be a "10".

[@vlanjos4807]

@@someone-ji2zb beauty is subjective anyways. saying your 10 is not the same as saying my 10.

[@sharodw454]

The lady should have honestly told her she went from an 8 to 6 because of that horrible attitude.

[@xinxilush1930]

@@sharodw454 i would have protected my nose ring the same way. I love it and it hasnt been a problem for my jobs so far, so i just couldnt see her point.

[@LinkTheHeroOfTime]

@@vlanjos4807 Of course. Someone can only objectively be a 9; a 10 is a 9 that meets your niche

[@jt_manic]

She's blunt BUT she was spot on with her advice. Value her honesty, most people wouldn't be that honest with you.

[@PaprikaShango]

Because it’s about feelings not facts

[@TheoCynical]

Well, it makes sense. SHe's professional so she knows what works.

[@alfredschnozzenstein1657]

I believe it should've been "She's blunt AND she was spot on..."

[@joshbrock2663]

shes that friend who brutally honest in the best way. happy go lucky is fun at a party but she will have you guilt tripping yourself into improving in 2.2

[@breonawarren1507]

I’d want her advice as a friend honestly, she wouldn’t talk about me behind my back. She’d tell me straight up and wouldn’t let me walk around looking crazy

[@acedhj]

I love how she doesn't go back and forth with anyone. If people won't take the advice she moves on. Love it.

[@changer4178]

Everyone needs a friend like this woman.

[@AbaNPreach]

Double upload. And now we retreat back to the shadows with a purple funky pants. Happy Holidays.

[@yyyy-qw6sg]

THANK YOUUUU

[@iwanhoop]

Purple funky pants gang 💜💜💜💜💜⚅⚅⚅🈳️🈳️

[@travisanderson9094]

Merry Christmas ty for the last minute content.

[@IVameless]

Happy Holidays!

[@typea5426]

Yuo

[@dominicvillavicencio256]

this woman is amazing i would love to see more of her in other shows, seldom do you find that straight forwardness without the insults and bullshit, she knew her shit she knew it came from a good place and she moved on when people got insulted, she knew damn well she doesn't control how people respond to her but her heart was in a good place and trying to improve others, 10/10 from me

[@HatOnAHat]

I watched the newer video first... I like this woman's opinions way more. She is very honest and direct. Not hurtful, just no fluff. Awesome!

[@twist.mp3]

My dad is just as blunt as the woman. Nigerians and other West Africans are just that way. 😂

[@BogieTokes]

Straight🤣

[@theezenriarinze9203]

They don't care lmaooooo 😂😂😂😂

[@ToeTips]

As a Nigerian myself I can confirm with all assurance

[@zzzzf99309]

Africans in general

[@twist.mp3]

Bro Nigerian Twitter is not for the faint of heart

[@Tinette_Izdashit]

This woman is great at giving criticism. She's not disrespectful and she understands where everyone is coming from on a beauty standpoint.

[@deejai1173]

Here’s the thing, you’re aware you’re going in to get “rated”… Do that, be rated and keep it moving. Don’t give argument(s), take it and shit change it, if you’re able to! 💕 this was a 🔥 experiment! I would have loved to have experienced this experiment.

[@thelightisdarkness9457]

Everyone needs a friend like her

[@its_just_kagiso7546]

Listen THIS is an African mother! I say this as an African child who's received these "roasts" which aren't actually roasts. They're well-meaning, but shady nonetheless. LOL!

[@b1onecarter96]

🗣💯🔥🔥🔥👊🏿

[@roberthermann97]

But.... there was nothing shady in what she said in the video.

[@eupiaeupia2647]

Yes, I have a African mother. They telll the truth!🤣🤣🤣

[@johannak1983]

African moms seem so cool! My Greek mom is like that and I always ask her opinion because you know she's not bs-ing you!

[@anonymousdude5550]

Lmaoo you ain’t never lie bro African Mothers will roast you but they mean well 😂💯

[@BlacKHellCaT78]

I would pay for someone like her to give me advice on my look and what kind of vibe I give off when walking in a room. It would improve my life in an objective way and I would have an idea of how I could improve - objectively. Amazing video

[@HappiiWheels]

Remember how Tyra claimed to be helping models? THIS woman should be helping models. Her advice truly sounds like it'd make or break someone trying to hit it big in the industry, or help someone who's landing a job in a suit and tie type of environment. The Asian guy was her favorite and he truly looked the best. That being said, I'm scared of her and don't want to be rated 😂😂

[@chromaticribbon]

Have they been living under a rock? Don’t they know this lady is actually being nice to them compared to how agents and clients from high fashion brands are 10x more blunt and cruel?

[@spoton95]

Exactly! My mom is Caribbean too and she tells me every time i dressed like an old lady because i hate bright colors 🤣

[@forensicmomma8360]

Scouts are BRUTAL.

[@briannalee1998]

Right?!

[@moonknight4053]

That’s brutal? Damn I told my sister she looks like a proddy cuz her shorts where well above her thighs

[@klauskeller6380]

"i dont like your right earlobe youre out" - probably a model scout

[@whitewolf8644]

She’s loving the Asian dude 😂 . I don’t blame her mind, he was gorgeous lol.

[@bearlycountry2406]

Girl, everyone’s loving the Asian dude. 🤣 Truth tho...

[@nashaelindseth8526]

Right though!

[@LaFlor718]

Seriously! I loved all of her opinions because her delivery was so constructive, but when Mr. 9 walked out... i was fanning myself and clutching invisible pearls!

[@lexansstories6952]

@@LaFlor718 he actually fit her standards. Tall, thin but a bit of a muscular build and his outfit was simple and it enhance his appearance. A black v neck shirt will always make a woman wet😂😂😂😂😂

[@elaineoh3984]

Even the 'helloooo' was different

[@Joyfullagony]

We don't have enough people like her. This woman need to be protected at all costs.

[@YeaNo.]

Such an old video but I love watching yall and your chemistry

[@josephortega6080]

When she said “I can tell” I literally laughed the longest, loudest I have in 5 years

[@lorenstickler4482]

You know this woman does not repeat herself. I fuck with a person who dont make me question wtf they're about.

[@NietzscheanMan]

No idea what you're saying.

[@cephas5053]

@@NietzscheanMan Then you cant relate. I think I understand somewhat of what he meant. He Don’t like people playing on both sides of the fence or someone who flatters or someone who isn’t sure of themselves

[@fayekayart]

@@NietzscheanMan Irony from a guy with Nietzsche in his name.

[@Shimainuu]

100

[@tklatt8431]

Black

[@Wickit96]

@4:46 I completely DIED how Aba exited the scene 🤣🤣

[@tioraytm]

The one's that got upset just wanted compliments.. BTW.. it's true.. super long fingernails and most nose rings belong on teenagers or they are for Halloween. There are exception's of course but not in these cases.

[@ibi137]

Bruh WE all know that the second guy said that he didn't give a "flying f...." but HE CARES WAY TOO MUCH that he later went back home a cried himself to sleep

[@carina9629]

And we all know he hates himself because he was way too quick to say that he "still loves himself."

[@1213Steven]

@@carina9629 He doesn't care because he is being critiqued by someone not in the fashion world, when he is literally a fashion youtuber (Karsten Kroening). He is dressing for himself, not for others.

[@carina9629]

@@1213Steven I'm unconvinced

[@elysian179]

@@1213Steven From what I remember these people are invited to these shows, he KNEW exactly what was gonna happen, but as soon as he heard something he didn’t want to hear he was like NAH FUCK YOU, kid can’t handle anything

[@Drolnevar]

Yeah, that was a narcissistic injury right there if I've ever seen one, lol

[@chantalkellyman2187]

She's every West African and Caribbean mom and aunty blunt

[@jameskong197]

True

[@bemnetteshaget1369]

Am Ethiopian and this lady is soft compared to what Ethiopian people would say

[@Gorgeouslight2612]

If that ain't the truth

[@jahniquemills9926]

Exactly, this ain't nothing to us.

[@quintessiagreen4604]

Yes!

[@frenkie1281]

I wish I had a friend like her. Love her honest yet positive energy 🔥❤️

[@sib2389]

She carries herself just like my mom did. Rest her soul

[@torc-hogansfamily1806]

Am I the only one who thinks this woman needs her own show. That shit would be a badass show.

[@geensjc]

Hell yes!

[@ts5683]

something like "so you think you have style?" .... I wanna trademark this

[@mysteriousbynature]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@4knewt505]

I love her strength

[@cosmicgirl7288]

Yesssss

[@KrissyFizzle]

The Asian guy was good looking af, and he also had the confidence to match. Even the way he talked was in a very flirty tone

[@septicvortex8114]

Frl the way he talked was super attractive

[@abdiabdi1990]

It’s a lot easier to be confident when u look good

[@todayistheday6947]

He’s foine as hell and he could get it.

[@briannalee1998]

I agree! A definite nine like she said.

[@chichichichichichiOwO]

His jaw line 😩🤌

[@BigHighWarGodBandos]

4:40 we all knew that was coming 😈

[@phoenixfire1208]

She is an amazingly honest women. The world needs more women like her. To many people want to sugar coat things. She is the breath of fresh air that people needs!!!!!

[@joni1405]

Anyone who says "this is just, like, my drip" immediately gives off enormous douchebag vibes

[@Kanekex]

No cippity cap

[@wesmorgs1735]

No capillaries

[@THEGOLDGRIZZ]

They often don’t have good style either

[@lovelove-vb8zu]

Not douchebag... more like insecure. He was unsure of himself from the moment he felt the need to announce that he’s wearing “purple funky pants”

[@PinHeadSupliciumwtf]

Isn't drip a reference to WAP?

[@meditationsbythiago]

The thing is, this is an opinion. I understand being blunt, I am very blunt myself but understand that your opinion is not always necessary. Sometimes people don’t want your opinion and understand that it is just that. No opinion is fact. And beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder.

[@muneirovalibas6194]

"Sure" as a response to any counter-argument over a simple obvious thing is an underrated weapon of mass destruction. Especially when followed with an empathetic smile.

[@CK-mb2hx]

I like how she doesn’t even bother to argue with anyone.😂😂

[@mysticstrikeforce5957]

As she said to improve your looks you got to have confidence and she's telling both genders about it since we need it as bodyshaming has grown a lot these days even though its mainly females that does it. Its nice to see at leasta fair treatment going on to let everyone know that being super pretty doesn't really get you anywhere then an average person going somewhere for success.

[@lamplighter82]

If you are afraid of the answer, don't ask the question. She's only being honest. I never see her being blatantly mean. I'd ask her.

[@derpherp2360]

ya, if you dont care about mainstream image and expectations why even respond to her or even show up for that. its fallacious.

[@Yoyo-rc5sv]

Exactly, she’s judging and giving you different perspectives on how to improve I don’t understand why people are offended by different perspectives

[@derpherp2360]

@@Yoyo-rc5sv they didnt want any, they wanted validation from someone within a system they dont want part of. its silly.

[@Yoyo-rc5sv]

@@derpherp2360 honestly, they probably just wanted the experience of how it would feel if they were to ever apply for a modeling agency

[@lamplighter82]

@@Yoyo-rc5sv then they probably got the kid gloves compared to the grilling they probably get outside of the public eye.

[@OaklandMind]

Most helpful reflection and advice I got as a performing artist : focus on who did show up, rather than who didn’t. It just made too much sense. Helped me ever since.

[@DarknessProphet]

I love her candidness. Yesterday I started reading a book and it said that difficult messages are like hand grenades. You can sugarcoat them, throw it hard or soft, keep it to yourself, but in the end it is still a hand grenade (with the pin pulled). So best to give it straight instead of putting all the stuff around it and to not continue throwing after it has been delivered. She did that very well by being direct and not arguing with people who clearly wanted to argue.

[@heavenlythoughtspodcast]

Anyone who grew up in an African household with an African mom and aunties heard this on a daily basis...these people are softttt😂😂😂

[@officialasim6772]

!!!

[@leyetelleblue6696]

Caribbean households too. When I tell you these people don’t care about nobody’s feelings. They never shy to tell you what they think💀

[@Rui28Costa]

Indeed, i was not prepared for my wife african family. The firsts years were rutheless

[@smiles4u92]

Periodt!!!!

[@PHlophe]

@@leyetelleblue6696 and when they noticed you didn't take it well. they double down in the form of sarcastic jokes.

[@rileycross7938]

This is what I NEED. When I ask someone how i look, how I present myself, how they see me, etc, this is what I'm looking for. Not the generic " oh you look great, oh you're fine, don't worry so much."

[@willsmish2837]

Same. I hate it when people are like ehhh well uh, you look great! Actually no help at all. I would like honest feedback about what I can do to improve my mannerisms, style, and physique to make me a more attractive person

[@lilwolfgirlx_x7466]

@@willsmish2837 there are communities on Reddit dedicated to this exact sort of thing - you post your pics and they'll let you know what they think, what you can improve upon, etc. providing honest opinions while trying to help you as well.

[@KP0p1437]

Same. If i ask how i look, that means i need an honest reply

[@ashlouw5350]

Me too... don't let me go out in public, have someone else say something blunt to me and then agree with them afterwards when I did ask. lol...I hate that..

[@inspirednaija7204]

I wish she had her own show doing just this