sorry my babies , We had to re-upload the video due to the hurricane, I hope everyone’s staying safe 🙏🏼🤍
@shareetherulaa6 ай бұрын
praying for you carmen ❤️ you only going up from here
@princessd73096 ай бұрын
We love you so much Carmen. Sending you love and light. ❤
@AlexisCamille276 ай бұрын
Love you queen! 💛
@daniellegibson99776 ай бұрын
No problem Love you Carmen sending u so much love and I’m so proud of you for sharing your story
@empress270906 ай бұрын
No problem love, honestly you are one of the strongest women I know, you're showing me a lot of things to stay away from and open my eye to as a young woman, so thank you for going through all the trials you needed to, to finally let go and do what's best for you and your kids, I knew it had a reason for why you went back so I'm glad I was right, I'm proud of you for your growth and finally being able to get away from that monster, stay safe carmen, lots of love for you always❤
@anijahmiyonna6 ай бұрын
She took accountability for her actions first before she spoke on the things he did . This is a honest strong women and she is up against the devil !
@ohitskbb6 ай бұрын
literally !
@420BluntTime_6 ай бұрын
Forreal💯
@nayaj42856 ай бұрын
For real❤
@islandgirl34086 ай бұрын
That’s what u call a real woman but Corey is a dick where he would not be a man and say what he did wrong that’s why us woman are more stronger than men and I am talking about the real woman not the little girls.
@tamikayoungblood18846 ай бұрын
When we actually learn who our biggest enemy is that really want to to you fall and suffer….but God sis! God is rebuilding you for greater and better and he’s restoring you and renewing you ❤
@KaylahZyBriel6 ай бұрын
This is the clearest she has ever sounded and not just her accent but the way she worded things , the way she took accountability , the way she detailed her thought process in those moments , the way she gave reasoning behind her decisions , the way she told both sides without being evil , the way she made sure she didn’t say things out of spite .. so proud of her and wishing her nothing but success moving forward!
@KKVlogs186 ай бұрын
‼️‼️
@sugaray74356 ай бұрын
I saw a clip on someone page and said the same thing. I was like she speaking clear AF!! That’s what made me come to watch the whole video!
@ChristianFrasier6 ай бұрын
Yessssss I fucking love this for her 🥹💔
@tanyathomas13316 ай бұрын
She is mad and fed tf up.
@poohlisious886 ай бұрын
And she still held back!
@HRBosslady206 ай бұрын
“Don’t you ever speak about my mother” I felt that with my soul “my family did nothing but love you” on my SOUL 😢
@mirandaasantiago36816 ай бұрын
Whewwwww that hurt it hit home
@bellefecollection62366 ай бұрын
facts cause I don't play bout my mama either
@CharlinePour6 ай бұрын
Bar from bar ❤❤❤
@Ryellefrench6 ай бұрын
That hit home to !!! 😢
@dreedreepulluiam20036 ай бұрын
Us women have to start letting men stand in their own shit. We gotta stop protecting men and let people be themselves without our shield.
@Skull-k4n5 ай бұрын
“ My mother don’t even hate you the way she should “ I FELT THAT.
@Far7rom4 күн бұрын
Because she knows her daughter.
@keyypoppin20256 ай бұрын
“If a father wanna be a father, A father will be a fucking father” ATEEEE
@globalreality26636 ай бұрын
Putting that on a shirt😂
@antoniawilliams26276 ай бұрын
Trust me.
@KamillesKind45656 ай бұрын
@@keyypoppin2025 we definitely need that meme 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@Flickinthewristcutz916 ай бұрын
I agree
@AshleyJohnson-fm3gm6 ай бұрын
Yessss that part!!!!!!!!!
@a-stars24416 ай бұрын
Love Carmen button>
@Doodie2806 ай бұрын
We all love you ❤❤
@lyriquelegette-kennedy70766 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@rashonamatthew-sz6ws6 ай бұрын
Facts
@Stephanielust-v8z6 ай бұрын
🫶🏻😩🙌🏻
@shonnie84696 ай бұрын
Awwwww, I don’t know you, but I love you and thank you for speaking up. This takes so much courage.
@Bri-Chantel6 ай бұрын
File all the paperwork… cease and desist, restraining order, revenge p*rn charges, primary custody.. and everything else in between. And DONT GO BACK
@Naiki296 ай бұрын
Hope she sees this!!!
@Justniya1476 ай бұрын
@@Naiki29just an update she did see it she actually liked it
@shonequeaugustine60216 ай бұрын
Please dnt, she deserves so much better, I been noticed that years with his disrespectful ass
@itcar3266 ай бұрын
Take him to court
@CarlosOrtiz-co9pc6 ай бұрын
YES !
@faith42715 ай бұрын
You’re speaking for a lot of us women. You’re not the only one. I’m glad you’re free and you’re much stronger. I love you Carmen. Proud of you
@zxz43375 ай бұрын
What her speaking on this do for other women?
@lulu.lemons5 ай бұрын
@@zxz4337gives them that push, someone to compare to. Seeing another woman in your situation speak up about this gives out courage in some way to leave that situation. just a video represents something big to many others.
@faith42715 ай бұрын
@@zxz4337 Jesus is the True King. I’m walking my path and minding my own. Here to only spread love the way He did. God Bless ♥️
@Musicloverrrrrr6 ай бұрын
“I’m still healing. I’m still hurt. But I’m STRONGER.” That’s the realist shit I done heard somebody say in a long time 🥺👏🏾
@amanimason50496 ай бұрын
Literally .💯 only peace and blessings is going come frfr and some healing
@Petty-s2w6 ай бұрын
ok!! we need that on a shirt
@amanimason50496 ай бұрын
@@Petty-s2w and really do I just might make my own shirts with that saying if so definitely will let you know because it’ll definitely be a hit 💯
@Imagewfygoober4 ай бұрын
Realllll talk 💯
@bickdawgnia7176 ай бұрын
“I lost myself and couldn’t be a mother” I FELT THIS GOD BLESS U!!!!!!
@MiahD.6 ай бұрын
Same I know the feeling
@lakeshiarichard86826 ай бұрын
Exactly! same. iykyk!
@Jane-b5m6 ай бұрын
Iys not a good feeling y’all
@nicolefrederickson10666 ай бұрын
I swear! This is me NOW! It was like looking in the mirror! Definitely made me feel good to know someone else was like me! I tried and tried with my bd and STILL allow him freedom to see my son and he won’t 🤦🏻♀️ the relationship is dead but the doors open whenever he wants to see his son
@user-wc5dw2qx9i6 ай бұрын
Talk yo stuff, God got you. You'll get a new man, and keep putting music out. I can tell you healing.
@muvvamonet6 ай бұрын
This is a woman who waited to heal to tell her story because she knows that if she tried to in the heat of the things she would just look crazy. From one survivor to another I believe in you!
@Posh_and_Rooted6 ай бұрын
Perfectly said!!!!
@rayvenskinner22526 ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@Sarcastic6726 ай бұрын
Amen, I'm so glad you're healed ..sending you live and blessings from NC ❤❤ Keep going, I BELIEVE IN YOU HUN..YOUR STRENGTH AND YOU BEING STRONG DOES HELP OTHERS !!
@britbrit80586 ай бұрын
Yuppp she’s not lying you can tell she waiting
@moeshaj.66376 ай бұрын
This !!!
@jussjasmine62035 ай бұрын
People don't talk about PTSD in relationships enough, I felt every word, especially "I had to get back in them shoes again", sometimes you need to go thru it ONE more time to really be done. IYKYK
@Brookieebaby46 ай бұрын
People judged her for always going back but she was fighting for her MARRIAGE until she couldn’t fight anymore. Marriage is work and she truly tried but sometimes, walking away is the only answer and I’m glad she got the strength to do so. Wishing you all the healing and peace, Carmen. You deserve it boo 💜
@official-duck26 ай бұрын
Corey said Carmen only tried to stay with him to get citizenship I love Carmen and I don't believe S#!t Corey talking bout he's a male Gemini that should say enough smfh!
@mzzkikilopez48796 ай бұрын
Marriage work both ways exactly he always playing he want his family back and when get them back it's back to the old corey
@Loyaltyy_iss_key6 ай бұрын
This is what ppl don't understand a marriage is not the same as a regular relationship you don't get to just get up and leave when you want. Hell, shes finally don't and still cant get far enough away from him.
@stuffdownhitthefan95946 ай бұрын
Never fight when any type of abuse is involved!
@thebestofbri6 ай бұрын
you preaching brookiee ! say that !!!
@BrittanyNichole-l8y6 ай бұрын
Through her telling her story, she still gave this man credit for some stuff while reliving her truth. That tells you the woman she has grown to be. But the moment she said you only a father because you nutted in me is nothing but the truth. Carmen this is the most vulnerable you have been in a while. Even though I am older than you, I give you your flowers and you have much respect from me. Your accountability is amazing. Go ahead and write your book. This can save many more people. God got you. Love you!
@jadamae49026 ай бұрын
"They only your kids bc u n*tted in me!" Whew sis meant that with her whole soul‼️ wishing her and the boys nothing but positivity and blessings❤
@TiffanyNicole_6 ай бұрын
Cut throat and straight to the point! I love this Carmen!!!!
@Chunlialways6 ай бұрын
he just an ex sperm donor.
@slowed-camille30116 ай бұрын
Time stamp?
@ladonyadula80406 ай бұрын
CLOCK IT 😜
@londonlocario60916 ай бұрын
@@slowed-camille3011 40:24
@Thamonsterwithin5 ай бұрын
The fact that she is being mindful of what she says to protect her children from hating their father is a different type of strong!!! Carmen you may never know how powerful your testimony is! You are helping to not only heal yourself but you are helping to give strength and courage to other women of DV! Wishing you nothing but love, light, peace, and blessings!!!❤❤❤
@carmenmartinez67506 ай бұрын
THE BIGGEST COME BACK IS MAKING YOURSELF HAPPY AGAIN.
@lifewithdollfaced6 ай бұрын
She cleared him with so much grace🥺❤️ that’s how you know she loved that man she still hasn’t even bashed him the way he bashed her.. god is going to take care of her and her babies for certain and for sure❤️❤️
@Far7rom4 күн бұрын
She cheated on him.....
@Melaninnmuse6 ай бұрын
Carmen crying got me ready to cry, especially talking about being a mother to her kids. I don’t care what they say about you, they could never make me hate you! Proud of you for telling your truth and may god continue to heal you on your journey 🩵🩵🩵
@eLworc125 ай бұрын
The growth in Carmen is so clear. 💯 Being able to go back and be around the person who broke you the most is a different world of strength. She is still healing and probably will for a long time-like we all are- but Man U can just hear the amount of ways she has already healed so much and I am sooooo proud of her ❤❤
@christenewaldon9616 ай бұрын
When she said i ask god to forgive me, that hit me in my chest 😢
@yakiramcneil89576 ай бұрын
I promise it tore me up 😭😫
@aaliyah59936 ай бұрын
Yes😢
@cassway2hard6 ай бұрын
Man...in my soul 😢
@Tasiaolive6 ай бұрын
Same
@ItssHerCourt6 ай бұрын
Whew! When you said you couldn’t even be a mom or a woman to yourself!! Baby I cried like a baby. Trust me, us real women FEEL YOU!!!! I’m so proud of you Carmen!! Keep pushing, God has you!!!
@hehateme20146 ай бұрын
Cory big head ass still talking too.
@Emma196 ай бұрын
Lol. What do you mean, "Us REAL women," feel you? Are they fake women out there?
@Violet.Thomas5 ай бұрын
I felt that too!!🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏
@thelifeoftatyana90745 ай бұрын
Yesss I cried with her ❤😩💗
@nataliejenkins25245 ай бұрын
Me too
@tlroberson075 ай бұрын
This video gave me chills 😢i salute you Carmen for being strong enough to walk away from an unsafe relationship so many people stay until it’s to late 🙏🏽
@sanaesimmonds94006 ай бұрын
She needed to go back for this very reason. I can guarantee that a new version of Carmen is coming. Good job mama we are proud of you. Take your time and heal and be a better version of yourself ❤❤❤
@mzzkikilopez48796 ай бұрын
Damn right we all went back to get closure and then that's it for good you could Say what bring down the world no going back
@MB0623_6 ай бұрын
YUP
@jennaslife15306 ай бұрын
"All because you tryna prove a point to the world that dont give a fuck about you". I felt that in my soul. We love you camen.
@cauha125 ай бұрын
That part!
@ture2myself863 ай бұрын
Don't forget the 1 or 2
@MsGappin29 күн бұрын
💯💯💯
@Love444_Manee5 ай бұрын
She didn’t bash him, she told how she felt , said where she was wrong at, where he was wrong at, told us how she felt, and how she didn’t need him, AND SHE ATE HIM DOWN IN THE NICEST WAY POSSIBLE❤❤
@PreciousHok6 ай бұрын
ppl judged her for always running back but if yall never been in a situation where u constantly ran back to a person bc u loved them but also thinking they could change u will never understand until you’re finally fed tf up!! she tried to fix their marriage not only for herself but for her kids !! i respect this woman sm
@janaehunter24666 ай бұрын
Its sad how many of us women suffer in silence to make a family work, with a man that is none deserving anyways... This is sad but so many deal with the same things, we have to start loving ourselves more!!! Proud of you for speaking up and getting that off your chest!!! 💓💓💓
@Breezybee06186 ай бұрын
This‼️‼️
@STL314Chic6 ай бұрын
Speak on it Sis! ❤
@sammywilliams66 ай бұрын
Y’all like cheaters until y’all get older aka yall prime years are done for 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@tawnybenitez57016 ай бұрын
@sammywilliam6 I’ve never met a woman who intentionally wanted a cheater. Men are such cowards that wait to show their promiscuity until years later when someone is already invested.
@--idc-Atall6 ай бұрын
@@sammywilliams6 what point are you trying to make with this comment. No women likes to be abused hush up you sound like a weirdo.
@jeriahdasia63716 ай бұрын
“if a father want to be a father then a father will be a fucking father” STAMPEDDDD‼️
@sagittariusque89326 ай бұрын
Can't nobody stop you from being a father. Go to court even if they are going to side with the mother. Did you even try? If not then you can't complain. Most don't even want the responsibility. They love having a piece of them on earth but to actually be responsible, nope they're not going. They'll make sis or mom play stepmom
@SincerelyAnonn5 ай бұрын
You are so strong for recognizing your kids needed to be in a safer place while you couldn’t be a mother. Ik that hurts and it may make you feel like a bad mother but you’re not! You were saving your children, you STILL thought about them and their well being while you couldn’t even think about what to do with yourself, and that takes a lot. In that’s moment you knew your kids were safer with your mom for a period of time. That was your motherly decision. When you couldn’t be a mother you still were being a mother and I hope you know that. Everything comes in steps and I’m proud you got out and I hope one day true love is presented to you and you live your happily ever after ❤️
@twylalewis37996 ай бұрын
🥹Ooooowwww... When she said "til this day my mom don't hate you like she should." That was a lot!! That was heartbreaking.😔
@HelenSharita6 ай бұрын
😢
@TheIslandBelle6 ай бұрын
As a former DV survivor, who fell for a controlling narcissist, I can relate to you so much. That man left me fighting for my life physically, mentally, and spiritually. I lost myself and was broken on every level. Proud to say 3 years later, I am about to go into my second year of law school and figuring it out as a single mother. Focus on your healing and prioritize yourself. SELF-LOVE is the ultimate! You got this Mama. You’re on the path of true self discovery!
@MAKKISME6 ай бұрын
Congrats on Law School 🎉🎉 so proud of you for fighting!
@CiLove8226 ай бұрын
Congratulations sis!!!! Wishing you an abundance of joy and prosperity. 💖💖
@camillefisher1245 ай бұрын
Congratsss sis from another DV survivor 💜
@bossmommyjaleesa77646 ай бұрын
The fact you tried over and over don’t make you weak sis. It makes you humble and strong. Ignoring the red flags 🚩 is easy. It’s ignoring your own self worth that’s not. Don’t let people who not walking in your shoes call you anything less then a Queen. The same person downing you the same person who wish their situation was better. We all walking this story of life. Corey is a hurt goofy, let that man lay in his bed he made. Don’t keep addressing the devil and take your time moving on. It should be only about you and your kids on this healing journey. Ignore the noise and ignore opinions that’s all they were ever be.
@Dgivan096 ай бұрын
🫶🏽🎯
@Ckretunique6 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@user-vi4sg7fi6 ай бұрын
R&B single album dropping soon feature Ariana grande usher challenge show Spotify Apple Music
@powercouple-z6n6 ай бұрын
I love you so much Carmen 💋 u very humble I could really be ur friend in real life
@vilmaryaviles64406 ай бұрын
You could not have said this better!! ❤❤ much love and respect to all the woman suffering in silence, 🙏
@nubianqueen2225 ай бұрын
She said a lot of key details. The growth is real. Walking away is the easiest thing to do. Taking accountability during the relationship is the best way to avoid going back and forth. I’m proud of her. 👏👏👏
@JustBigEZ6 ай бұрын
One thing about a quiet person is when they finally speak they are LETTING ALL THE PAIN AND HURT GO. No lies are told when a quiet person speaks!!!!
@Dezzbby6 ай бұрын
facts
@salamatukanu20046 ай бұрын
!!!
@Kaydinmb136 ай бұрын
yesssss
@sammy698316 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯😊
@Iambrielleee6 ай бұрын
💯
@Its_kekes_world6 ай бұрын
You never know how strong you can be until you have to be STRONGER.
@_.aveerryy6 ай бұрын
OKAY!
@Carmenalyssaaa6 ай бұрын
Amen
@lifewithriahya1276 ай бұрын
💯hello
@joanahellen38136 ай бұрын
For real!!
@lucyx2626 ай бұрын
OMG Carmen got me tearing up :'( When she said, she felt like she couldn't be a mom, put a lump in my throat, because when you actually adore your kids, it hurts to even think about them being in the middle of any situation that doesn't benefit them, especially when it's with the other parent!
@xdcrystal33185 ай бұрын
My daughter is with a narcissistic, I have been close to going to jail for pulling gun on him and moving my daughter out. Today she is still with him 5 yrs and still going through sugar honey ice tea. Praying for you all until you get tired and the strength to leave. Pray 🙏🏾
@QueenYemi5 ай бұрын
Prayers to your daughter. I hope she finds the strength and courage to leave her narcissistic bf. ❤
@shoneemcdougald312 ай бұрын
Yessss my dad has just found out about my DV and I went back as well but Carmen gave me a voice
@ariesbaby7026 ай бұрын
This is the best video Carmen has ever made. She is finally done. She is angry. She is healing and it’s so beautiful to see. Meechie… He’s waiting patiently for you to heal. He is a real one. I’m so glad that you were close in age chapter in your life. You are doing amazing at motherhood. You got this
@Myalemommy6 ай бұрын
When she cried saying she couldn't be a mom because she was too focused on making sure she was good with someone else, I felt you and I truly hope you heal and find the peace you deserve ❤
@therealflawedbeauty6 ай бұрын
At 20:21 when she said she was at the point where she lost herself and thats why she never had the kids, i instantly started to cry especially when she started crying, these are real feelings and emotions and I feel every last one of them, you can really lose yourself and lose your mind dealing with a man who treats you so poorly and its so sad… Carmen is speaking her TRUTH and her truth is alot of other women’s truth as well
@Itsniaaj5 ай бұрын
thought I was the only ONE!!
@methegoddess55575 ай бұрын
She so real about what she said about her kids and being a mom to them and admitting she needed help I’m glad she had her mom to support her
@LM-yb6yr6 ай бұрын
I'm crying hysterically, I want this young lady to win in every area of life so bad. Just like she said, she's powerful - so real and engaging.
@jerzee69836 ай бұрын
I agree!! God got her and them babies covered ❤💪🏽🙏🏽
@Ms.CC_6 ай бұрын
I was crying like a baby. Been there so I understand.
@vonitabess73176 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ I definitely concur!!!!
@harmonyjackson31386 ай бұрын
Carmen isn’t weak , she is a WOMAN that was fighting for someone she loves !! You are very strong baby , I’m praying for your healing !! GOD got you and your kids !
@Theebossdanii6 ай бұрын
True❤
@LifeWnikk6 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽it takes a lot of strength to leave something like this. Facts
@lifewithkay5196 ай бұрын
when she started crying my heart broke. I been believe Carmen since day one. Everytime she went back I understood.
@courtneyfadipe16 ай бұрын
Finally Carmen!! I have been praying for you to get away from him since y'all were on that influencer reality show that y'all did with the Prince family. You are a star on your own. You are tough sister. You don't owe anyone anything because a lot of us has been through the same exact thing. you are beautiful and only deserve God's best. He is weak and a narcissist. I hope and pray that I get to meet you one these days. Your testimony is about to help so many women who have been through all of this. You are not stupid for going back. I am so proud of you and the woman that you have grown into. May God continue to favor, Protect, cover, and bless you honey.
@queenopurrrr6 ай бұрын
This made me cry!!! Yelling at your child and catching yourself because you know it’s not them you just got a lot going on man right there every mother felt that!!! I hope you end up on top Carmen god bless you and your sons!!❤
@courtneylenee91846 ай бұрын
This💯
@angryken6 ай бұрын
When she said there was a point she thought about letting her mom take the kids and she’ll just unalive herself 😢 Depression is such a lonely dark hole in our brains and when you’re left alone in there - a lot of monstrous voices will try to push you towards some real bad shxt. So proud of you Carmen for not giving in. You’re such a strong woman for that.
@Heavenbound11246 ай бұрын
True
@Desirae-hq8kb6 ай бұрын
So glad she didn't because the biological father Corey would have received custody and shut her mom out of those boys lives or only used her for his own benefit for when he wanted a babysitter.
@DeannaLove-c2e6 ай бұрын
Good thing she didn’t cuz her family would’ve been sooo heartbroken 💔
@Avaahnell6 ай бұрын
Fr
@Far7rom4 күн бұрын
She cheated on her husband.. she broke her home.
@kiarakristinaa6 ай бұрын
I can see & hear the PTSD, the anxiety & the TRAUMATIZING PAIN in her voice when she is explaining the story and maaaaan can I relate so much. I’m so happy that you’re finally getting away and getting what you deserve Carmen. When I hear this story and seee how similar our situations are, I can’t help but to tear up. Praying for your strength! You’re so beautiful and deserve the world girl. Love you Carmennnn 🫶🏽
@keziadennis3926 ай бұрын
This made a lot of things clearer after been watching Carmen from the beginning after a while the light in the eyes dimmed so now things are truly adding up it was fear I truly hope Carmen finds peace and love because she left her heart out in this video I felt every emotion from this video. I respect her even more for being this transparent with us love you Carmen.
@andiamalemy6 ай бұрын
Damn 😳 you make Diddy look like an angel. Carmen you are so resilient and brave and I’m so proud of you for sharing your truth. Keep healing ❤️🩹
@rayvlogs50736 ай бұрын
She’s taking accountability for her actions for the things she has done. She’s not blaming
@lickmyphat.105 ай бұрын
Omg I've been upset with her for the longest cause I felt she played victim in every situation but this video she held herself accountable fr I've never heard her do that genuinely do that and now I'm back in love with her again
@SugahoneiceT6 ай бұрын
A million views in 1 mothafuckin day? He couldn't command this attention if he TRIED. SHE WAS ALWAYS SPECIAL!! Give Carmen her fucking flowers
@lilykeophilavanh76996 ай бұрын
period!!
@jiggaman0006 ай бұрын
the video is about him.
@SugahoneiceT6 ай бұрын
@@jiggaman000 what… lol? Are you good? The video is about HER Not about him He is blessed to be apart of HER story To be MENTIONED Blessed that she gave him kids But this VIDEO IS ABOUT HER CARMEN AND HER JOURNEY HER STRUGGLE HER STRENGTH AND MOST IMPORTANTLY her GROWTH Now get the fuck off my comment We don’t do that over here Go on his fucking video and comment
@glimmerin6 ай бұрын
@@jiggaman000no it’s about her abuse
@sammywilliams66 ай бұрын
She’s a women ofc yall finna hype her up not knowing what she actually has done to dude as..😂
@804smiles5 ай бұрын
Now this is what holding yourself accountable, clearing the air, being a woman, keeping it a stack alp while standing on business looks & feels like bc even as a man i feel her heart & truth in this vid 🫡
@luhbreea6 ай бұрын
she ateeeee, “it couldve been corey and carmen but it was carmen and corey”😂😂😂
@youonlyliveonce.17856 ай бұрын
Left no crumbssss😂.
@DailyDoseOfNayy6 ай бұрын
ate down bad😂 i love that for her
@ohitskbb6 ай бұрын
lmaoo love her down
@ariyanasamuels96316 ай бұрын
clock it😂
@bryybennett52186 ай бұрын
No Cs she really ATE DATT 😂😭
@lilianafigueroa32806 ай бұрын
You deserve some fucking flowers ! I been here watching you since it started. Never called you stupid cause I’ve been in your shoes. Takes a different kinda woman to endure the things that come with abusive relationships. Financially and physically and emotionally. Im so proud of you Carmen. 👏🏽 so so so proud. Keep speaking ! Not only for you but for people who don’t have a voice. Continue to strive and grow. Gods plan is GREATER than any man’s.
@ShelleyPeehikura6 ай бұрын
When she started crying talking about her mothering 😢 so true once it affects the way you mother your kids you know it's time.
@WITHLOVEBEBA6 ай бұрын
This!!! I felt that and it’s so hard trying to deal with pain, heartbreak & still have to be a loving mom.
@maemeraki50056 ай бұрын
Pure Facts🤍
@daishavicknair69016 ай бұрын
Fr that made me cry 🥺
@shamychelle6 ай бұрын
Facts 😢
@tamyiajohnson82286 ай бұрын
Type shit
@MariaRodriguezClaud5 ай бұрын
I started tearing when she says “I wasn’t a mom to be there for him.” I couldn’t even be there for myself” most of us woman go through something similar in diff levels these guys cant be real men. Only narcissistic people. Let’s not ignore the red flags sisters so we won’t loose ourselves. Ily Carmen ❤
@helloimstacey54306 ай бұрын
“For I know the plans I have for you” - God Keep pushing Carmen baby ♥️♥️
@betinagala63986 ай бұрын
JEREMIAH 29:11
@JasmineCelina-b2z6 ай бұрын
You can’t hear her crying out for help and so detailed in this story, not to believe her. This is the clearest she has ever sounded and not to be funny. But I believe every piece of truth in her story.
@nop7106 ай бұрын
💯
@adaywithshe-she21636 ай бұрын
💯
@KeytheGem6 ай бұрын
Omg you hit it on the nose
@teshiagriffin99036 ай бұрын
This!!!!!!!
@breannagreen82066 ай бұрын
She didn’t stop talking not once I believe her and I feel so bad for her😢
@adrienlangford66326 ай бұрын
You can tell she is strong when she can talk about this and only cry one time
@jecarrioncarson29375 ай бұрын
😢 woman to woman mother to mother I felt this !! We gotta stick together my beautiful queens , uplifting and showing up for one another ‼️😭🫂🫂 I love you Carmen
@deledaijohnson84584 ай бұрын
Yes and he comes across like a younger version of Martell hold from love and marriage Huntsville I'm glad carmen had the strength to do what's best her and her beautiful boys
@babydrewful6 ай бұрын
Her accent is crazy. It’s a mix of Latina meets southern belle. Dope!
@alexislucas-webster63735 ай бұрын
Yasss I was like omg she live in Georgia or something 😂
@qtcarmen7d8965 ай бұрын
@@alexislucas-webster6373 alabama
@redhunnid51425 ай бұрын
It’s like a southern black woman is taking over with a dominican undertone it’s one of the most unique accents I have ever heard in my life 😂
@ririnicolee.57635 ай бұрын
@@alexislucas-webster6373she lived in Alabama
@timb67555 ай бұрын
It’s funny af
@theoriginalchannn84966 ай бұрын
He really felt like he had control over her bc she loved him & she not a US CITIZEN he thought she’ll never leave , SO PROUD THAT YOU LEFT YOU DESERVES BETTER 🩷🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@giselletoscano92486 ай бұрын
Little did she know she could have qualified for papers after reporting her eye injury
@justwatching77246 ай бұрын
@@giselletoscano9248exactly. I wonder if she took pictures of herself. If so she could still use that to her advantage.
@dramawithdre6 ай бұрын
I thought they were married? Doesn’t she get her residency asf so many years
@teddeye216 ай бұрын
I didn’t get that far into the video yet but she’s from Puerto Rico right? In that case, she is a US citizen. Is that something he thought?
@lsh046 ай бұрын
She’s from Honduras not PR
@Lexiip2x6 ай бұрын
You definitely speaking for a lot of us that don’t talk about it . I promise this video was needed . You definitely gave us strength to find ourselves .
@Ceesantiag06 ай бұрын
Bro I haven’t watched you on KZbin in years but tuning into this interview has me so proud of you! I respect you as a woman 100% you got this baby keep going GOD got you !! You are a beautiful soul Carmen 🩷 heart to heart I love you girl.
@Lainiswrld6 ай бұрын
2 girls that really inspired me are Queen Naija and Carmen. These girls have been thru so much from their ex husband and have learned to grow from it. I hope Carmen finds her peace with or without a partner
@lyleezy05266 ай бұрын
definitely kinda the same but queen left chris fast she wasn’t playing she knew that nixga wasn’t right
@50shadesofkay616 ай бұрын
@@Lady_Librax4it has nothing to do with your zodiac sign 🙄 A woman gained her strength after trying to love a broken man.
@Lainiswrld6 ай бұрын
@@Lady_Librax4 This has nothing to do with zodiacs and its not about being “built different” its about a serious situation with men so stop thinking everything is about zodiacs.
@amardukuly86686 ай бұрын
@@50shadesofkay61😂😂😂😂
@Marie-on2yo6 ай бұрын
You can hear the frustration in her voice 😢😢I’m glad she can speak about her story when she want but not when the public forces her to
@JasmineBolden6 ай бұрын
I love how she take a accountability but he blame everything on her 😭
@sydneysherard44206 ай бұрын
Right
@aBLA9106 ай бұрын
That’s how my breakup was too… a narcissistic man with a guilty conscious will say anything that make himself look and feel better about his actions
@biggerthanlyfe98536 ай бұрын
I thought it was sad in the beginning when she said she understood she had to deal with “her consequences” for texting another guy. Accountability is important but, I thought she was gonna say she got cursed out or something not physically abused over a text message. That’s sad she views that moment as a “consequence”.
@ChloeWilliams6626 ай бұрын
@@biggerthanlyfe9853it's sad bc he cheated multiple times but has never did him dirty
@Starseed11106 ай бұрын
@@biggerthanlyfe9853When you suffer from abuse and stay you start to think you deserved it. Plus your abuser will make sure you think it's your fault for them abusing you.
@christinacollins57305 ай бұрын
Lawd I’m crying! Carmen you did your big one sis and I’m praying for bigger and better things to come for you love❤
@ShayeBoogie2276 ай бұрын
When Carmen Said Let’s B Honest Evrybody Was Coming To Watch The Videos To See Me && She Told Nothing But The Truth
@VersastyleV256 ай бұрын
The whole truth!
@AkilahTierra6 ай бұрын
Nothing but the truth!!
@iiamlesa_6 ай бұрын
That part ‼️
@tlaunlimitedoptions83696 ай бұрын
100 bc she was funny - she had me in tears
@tiearra266 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Tooti3e6 ай бұрын
I have mad respect for her ..I’ve never watched a video of hers before ..but this video is something that need to be watched …my god continue to bless and watch over Carmen and the kids …blessings are coming her way for sure …
@Queenbry905 ай бұрын
Same , never followed them but seen some things. But this video was everything and I’m glad I watched it . I respect her a lot for how she carried herself in this video. ❤️👌🏾
@user-ue5xi5jw7q6 ай бұрын
“Go back till u hate em” once you’re done, you’re done forever!
@kadiannblackwood73386 ай бұрын
That doesn't mean she should go back he's disgusting
@AndreBenjaminswife6 ай бұрын
YUP
@cauha125 ай бұрын
That feeling of disgust hit different u dont even look at them same no more
@keciaReed11225 ай бұрын
This woman is broken and she has such a beautiful soul! She took accountability for her actions and told her truth! She went through so much! Her comeback is going to be EPIC just watch!!!!!
@taylorstewart77396 ай бұрын
I have never cried listening to KZbinrs talk or vent but Carmen this video was very much needed. I feel for you sooooo much I just want to hug you. Realizing there are actual women that goes through the same thing and be so scared to speak up because they stayed for whatever reason helped me overcome domestic violence in relationships
@napiffergonzalez-thomas73876 ай бұрын
i hate that nobody really takes mental health serious when it comes to mothers! We are expected to take care of everybody and when we try to take care of ourselves, we are call selfish! Take care of you, and everything else will follow through! You got this!
@briannabell88576 ай бұрын
What about a man’s mental health
@highlyfavored266 ай бұрын
“If a father want to be a father, a father will be a f’n father”. Whewwww chile, I felt that 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
@KristenMoore-q7m5 ай бұрын
I never watched your vids but I came across this one and now I’m crying 😭 so many of us have the same story , love you ❤
@justbeingbriana6 ай бұрын
This is what happens when you’re dealing with a NARCISSIST!! You are NOT WRONG SIS!! Keep GOING YOU GOT THIS 🙌🏾
@Thelovelylifee6 ай бұрын
Man them narcissist ain’t nobody to play with , then will have you on a emotional roller
@daniellerenee20086 ай бұрын
@@Thelovelylifeefrr!! i’ve learned in my life never try to confront a narcissist about how they are treating u or acting towards u because it will backfire on u real quick … they will try to turn it on and say hurtful things to u that u think they would never do or say
@sydneysherard44206 ай бұрын
@@Thelovelylifeebroo stggg I lost my hair and I cried everyday I believe Carmen I delt with that too smh 🤦🏽♀️
@omglyssa44756 ай бұрын
@@ThelovelylifeeSo freaking true. Its horrible. Literally so mentally and emotionally torturing
@Thelovelylifee6 ай бұрын
@@daniellerenee2008 💯
@Nickesha-j5k6 ай бұрын
When Carmen said don't ever fuckin speak on my mother I felt sis anger.... sis plugged tf out there
@Dimples124206 ай бұрын
That “Don’t you ever in your fuckin life speak about my mother” 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
@thebeautychannel.79216 ай бұрын
Period cause Carmen mom is the sweetest 😭💕
@Sarcastic6726 ай бұрын
Felt it deep down!! That came from her healing soul
@MM-qo8xo6 ай бұрын
Okay!?! I was like, “Get it Carmen!!”
@prettyy.kiaundra6 ай бұрын
time stamp?
@Heyyseccy6 ай бұрын
@@prettyy.kiaundra34:50
@kyliesollima66704 ай бұрын
damnnn this is a strong women. most women in a situation like this try and try again cause of the manipulation & narcissistic tendencies from the other person & once us women are done we are done! the dv of it all, doesn’t help, it’s extremely difficult to get out of a situation like that! she is so strong & so brave for telling her story cause we all know it wasn’t easy!!!! carmen you are glowing now & i can see it. you are HEALING, HAPPY & HEALTHY and i can see it. i am so proud of you ❤
@leannenicolee44396 ай бұрын
I applaud her transparency through it all. From acknowledging why she went back and how she hid things from those that love her and why. Unless you’ve been through it you’ll judge and not understand. I love how she vocalized herself, expressed herself and shared how even going back made her realize she had enough and that was no longer serving her. She deserves all the happiness in the world! That relationship showed her what she will never tolerate again and her worth!
@queteetv6 ай бұрын
30:45 “i went back for me not for you and now i can let you go for me” a worrrdddd!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽 keep pushing carmen you got this 💕✨
@elb06256 ай бұрын
As a man i applaud you for trying to make your relationship work. You did nothing wrong with trying to make your relationship work. I get it love will make you do crazy things. But guess what you learned from it and was able to grow from it. When kids are involved, you do things differently that a lot of people wouldn't do. We can hear the pain in your voice talking about your situation. At the end of the day, you have to do what is best for Carmen. Make sure your mental health is good and just keep raising your kids like you should. Just get to a point in your life where you don't have to address nothing regarding your past because it is your past. Stay strong Carmen and stayed prayed up.
@user-lp2he1md6i6 ай бұрын
My thing is why does making a family work include a woman, enduring pain or abuse? This is the problem society, pressures, woman to stay in toxic situations that they should’ve been left.
@CODE5TAR-pn7fx6 ай бұрын
@@user-lp2he1md6iI too hate this. :( I’m not sure when as a society we decided that we can give our partners the worst of ourselves and think its ok. We often think we just get a pass because they are our partners but that is not right :(
@msshray226 ай бұрын
@@user-lp2he1md6ibut he said make your relationship work not family and sometimes wether it’s making ur family work or relationship you endure things because idk maybe love clouds vision/reality but there are those that leave immediately and those who don’t I don’t judge either 🤷🏾♀️
@bassgplays6 ай бұрын
I totally agree 💯 she did her best and she tried so hard
@kyraashley43546 ай бұрын
I agree
@prettycara6 ай бұрын
A woman knows when she tired and ready to walk away couldn’t nobody rush her process. I’m glad she finally made it out, I felt and have experienced the same. Once u get over that hurt u never look back and u gain so much love for yourself ❤ YOU GOT THIS CARMEN
@Niarenee26 ай бұрын
“Don’t tell me this shit hot and expect me not to touch it. I wanna know how hot it is” she smart asf fr because that’s how humans learn they have to go through shit to know to move and be smarter. You’ll know once you experience it💯
@HelenSharita6 ай бұрын
💯
@briizyfbaby166 ай бұрын
Most humans, not all. I’ve avoided SO many trials and tribulations by learning from other ppl mistakes, understanding that I don’t know it all. That’s the difference between being smart and being wise. Remember, curiosity killed the cat!
@raven79786 ай бұрын
Na wise people learn from the mistakes of others. Curiosity literally kills
@--idc-Atall6 ай бұрын
That’s not smart at all…..i would never purposely touch a hot stove. If yk it’s not good or going to benefit you, stay away.
@AndreBenjaminswife5 ай бұрын
Real talk💯
@takyraashelle41766 ай бұрын
The moment a woman realizes she actually doesn’t need a man and she can hold her own is so amazing I been there and trust me it’s hard but the feeling is so rewarding and refreshing! You got this Carmen ❤️
@charitymariemafiaa6 ай бұрын
Men will stress you out and drain tf out of you just to distract you from your life purpose & getting to the bag! Keep your emotions stabilized. Don’t chase nor force anything to work. We as women mess up when we let our emotions make decisions for us. I’ve been there and I’m still healing.
@ghost438815 ай бұрын
Your generalizing us men. "Bad" men may do this. Not "all' men. Talk your talk but lets be specific.
@jamesmitchell36155 ай бұрын
Your purpose is a man, duh!!
@MrSwagger6745 ай бұрын
Women do the same shit lol
@MaLaKiZaDaK-Yisarah-Al5 ай бұрын
@@ghost43881they on crack
@jericaloving12885 ай бұрын
@ghost43881 you emotional af😂. The comment said men stress women out, if anything it's generalizing women as if we all live to please a man and can't handle our emotions.
@amiyahjordan45845 ай бұрын
I love how you self reflected the most out of this video and that's one thing a lot of people don't do you are so much stronger than what you think you are. Keep protection of your peace. You have so much life ahead of you and God has the most wondrous things out there for you to experience. Keep on manifesting in yourself. Remember, every step you take, no matter how small, is a testament to your inner power. Believe in yourself and the limitless potential within you. I wish you nothing but PURE HAPPINESS AND SUCCESS!
@rubysanchez82156 ай бұрын
An abusive relationship is the hardest to get out of, if you never been in one you wouldn't understand. Proud of you Carmen ❤️🩹
@monaesopretty92316 ай бұрын
Especially with children
@melzlovee16816 ай бұрын
@@monaesopretty9231 Yup so true 😞
@ShineWine6 ай бұрын
It is it took me 15 years to walk away and I never looked back I’m so happy 3 years later 😌✨
@chulageemadrid87706 ай бұрын
💯🙏
@deonjeneebrown-riddle9406 ай бұрын
This is so true, ppl wouldn’t understand unless they have gone through this. I can definitely relate.
@asianjamatthews6 ай бұрын
I love how she’s definitely grew to speak about her pain but still keeps it respectful. Even after all the bs she’s been through
@keepingupwithalexia6 ай бұрын
I felt Carmen when she said that she tried until she couldn’t no more
@BlessedOneKym6 ай бұрын
Yes. That's deep. I really Believe Carmen is done done. Praying for Healing 🙏
@BlessedOneKym6 ай бұрын
Yes. That's deep. I really Believe Carmen is DONE DONE✅ Praying for Strength and Comfort, during the emotional Healing process 🙏
@tynearahill-yb4dy6 ай бұрын
@@BlessedOneKym
@StephRe6 ай бұрын
ODEE‼️
@diamondcopeland52826 ай бұрын
Facts
@iiamlaii25 ай бұрын
I used to dislike the way that you would post and say that you were gonna leave him but stayed. But now I understand that it was hard for you to leave and that he was doing all this and I’m sooo proud of you for leaving the abuse and manipulation and narcissistic behavior because you deserve to be happy and I’m happy that you are healthy and is trying to heal from it I love youuuuu so much Carmen and I can’t wait to see your progress
@jaideaddison64376 ай бұрын
and she still didn't discredit his name ! i love that ! you got this girl
@HelenSharita6 ай бұрын
💕
@kiaramorton94016 ай бұрын
DV/Narcissist survivor here! I AM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR SPEAKING OUT!!! Keep your head up and keep pushing! I will be praying for you and your healing‼️ Also praying for your protection!
@janiyamoore56146 ай бұрын
Your bestie Tay would be so proud of you, you finally released it all at your own time and God’s perfect timing. Praying for your strength, sanity, and serenity. May God continue to complete the good work He has already started in your healing, binding any negativity and evilness from striking. May He also continue orchestrating your life for you and your family's benefit🙏Psalms 91 is also a great scripture to read
@BeautyMatters-285 ай бұрын
I’m soo sorry you had to deal with this man and you had to go through that it’s a testimony that God had you go through.. And don’t ever feel bad you went back to him everyone went through that in life Real Shit your a STRONGER WOMAN can’t nobody try you
@lecarion6 ай бұрын
The knot in my throat crying for you! Lord please protect this woman and her babies!!!!! Keep the devil away from her!!!
@thebeautychannel.79216 ай бұрын
I swear I stay worried about Carmen and her baby’s Corey gives me Chris watts vibes 😞 the fact that he posted Carmen nudes on twitter after she drop her song proofs that he hates her so much he’s not scared to hurt her .