My mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer about a month ago, around when this song came out. Alt-J is a band my mom and I share love for. She took me to my first concert, which was Alt J. My mom passed away yesterday after a very short, but long hard battle with cancer. I’ve listened to this song about every day and oh boy I’ve cried so much listening to it. This song is beautiful. If anyone else has lost a loved one, my whole heart is with you. It will get better one day.
@Shayda002 жыл бұрын
That's terrible, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. I hope you have support from people around you and i wish you well
@janeswoboda13362 жыл бұрын
So hard to say goodbye … do we need to ? Can we just say, meet you down the path a ways? My heart aches for all going through a great loss. For me.
@lihammozz31592 жыл бұрын
hope youre doing well now
@huddie712 жыл бұрын
Hang in there Kenz. This song must rip your heart out.
@jayjayjay3912 жыл бұрын
Bless your soul
@csoloway31213 жыл бұрын
For the last 3 years I've borne witness to my wife valiantly battle stage 4 metastatic breast cancer that has spread to her brain. I often feel like I am mourning the loss of who she once was and who she could have been as she is going through this transitional period with such grace. We still have hope she can hold on long enough for a cure, but this song cut me deeply. Man does it hurt.
@Mrsh3n13 жыл бұрын
Prayers for your all of you💜🙏
@-Wil.low.-_-3 жыл бұрын
you’re in my thoughts and prayers brother 🙏🏽🤍
@jenniferpatrick10483 жыл бұрын
Love and light to you both
@djmayhembelly3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong!
@stroso833 жыл бұрын
fuck cancer
@filialilitu3 жыл бұрын
"Get better, my darling, I know you will" From me to myself and everyone struggling with depression, the loss of a loved one, anxiety, or whatever this world has done against you. Everything will be alright.
@MateusOliveira__3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@randymira.13153 жыл бұрын
Beautiful.
@alexnagy20443 жыл бұрын
@Ven Thank you dear! 💜
@nickboyko96753 жыл бұрын
I feel like nothing will ever change
@filialilitu3 жыл бұрын
@@alexnagy2044 you're welcome♡
@soeyamin3 жыл бұрын
That part "I still pretend you're only out of sight in another room" hit like a truck
@matthewclark45333 жыл бұрын
Like a monster truck. I never cry but I’ve cried every time with those lyrics.
@aceituna75973 жыл бұрын
i swear i never cried because of a song but bro, thatvpart
@masonking57062 жыл бұрын
Every time
@ShaneTalib2 жыл бұрын
Glad that I'm not alone with this
@davidmikkelson41582 жыл бұрын
I cry everytime
@m.l.63910 ай бұрын
I am so late to the party, and I hate to post comments outside of my little subreddit… but I had a snake, Nepenthe, who died of sepsis about two weeks ago. And I know he was “just a snake” … but when I showed people my animals I always said “THIS one is my SON” I know y’all are talking about losing parents and spouses, but if it isn’t too rude of me to do so… I just wanted to say that I am still pretending that Nepenthe is just out of sight in another room and I loved that animal more than I ever ever could have imagined. For all you guys suffering greater losses - the sweet words you guys posted are helping me remember to take a breath, if my heart is shattering like this then I cannot imagine how you guys are carrying on. Thank you guys for the love sent my way and I am sending love back to y’all,
@ThatMumboJumbo3 жыл бұрын
Really beautiful. One of my favourites.
@hilka4423 жыл бұрын
Unexpected to see you here! You have good music taste :D
@MrBaumGeo3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Mumbo, what are you doing here?
@EKStoriesHD3 жыл бұрын
MY CHILDHOOD EXCUSE ME?!?!
@olivia7493 жыл бұрын
Mumbo you have amazing music taste
@eleanorigami3 жыл бұрын
Sksksks i didn't expect you here, mumbo! Ahhaah
@atlanticrecords3 жыл бұрын
Having a hard time holding it together and listening to this rn!!!!
@EnjoyerofYoutube3 жыл бұрын
No need to hold it together.
@joejeromenewman41473 жыл бұрын
Let it out 🫂
@djrobot233 жыл бұрын
Right!?!
@SimeonGaniushin-w5y3 жыл бұрын
Hello corporation
@rgbura3 жыл бұрын
yeah completely bawled during first listen. feel wellings inside of me when i just think about it now...
@natisilva38873 жыл бұрын
This crushed my soul. As an ICU nurse I have seen so many people lost their loved ones, sometimes the empathy is just too much. But how they said, we’ll get better.
@Anrheiner1113 жыл бұрын
god bless you - so much respect for your job!!!!
@davidmikkelson41582 жыл бұрын
Bless you for your strength, compassion, and natural instinct to help.
@jayjayjay3912 жыл бұрын
Bless you
@DJScaleModels2 жыл бұрын
Same here, also work in healthcare.. listened to the lyrics and it was like a sucker punch of repressed emotions from the past few years. All I could think of was all those loved ones just wishing, waiting, hoping. And then I'd be putting that patient in a body bag a few hours later.
@matthewquijada44513 жыл бұрын
im gonna be honest, at first i wasnt sure about this song, but reading the lyrics while watching the video made me realize how much of a sad and beautiful song this is
@carotheplaylistmaker3 жыл бұрын
Same
@adc2310983 жыл бұрын
Where did you find the full lyrics?
@carotheplaylistmaker3 жыл бұрын
@@adc231098 it's a lyric video, the lyrics are in the video, just watch it instead of reading the comment section !
@adc2310983 жыл бұрын
@@carotheplaylistmaker oh lol, I was listening to it on KZbin music
@AlonsoFan20233 жыл бұрын
Is definitely a good song, but certainly not a song that will attract a large audience.
@loganise3 жыл бұрын
"Get better, my darling, I know you will." "Get better my darling, I know I will." This really pulled my heart strings.. Sorry this story had a bad ending..
@christychan46063 жыл бұрын
death is not necessarily a bad ending 💗
@loganise3 жыл бұрын
@@christychan4606 I can see where you're coming from. In fact, how you handle death can be good, as it's part of life. But death is not a good thing inherently, and in the context of the song, It doesn't feel like It was a good thing.
@christychan46063 жыл бұрын
i totally understand what you're thinking. my grandmother just passed away and she was in so much pain, my family and i are still grieving. but at the same time i'm glad that she is now in a happier place.
@loganise3 жыл бұрын
@@christychan4606 I'm very sorry for your loss, and I am happy that she was loved as she was by you and yours! My condolences! :( I know It's not the same, and I'm not trying to compare, but my dog had a lot of health problems to the point he wasn't able to "live". Death was a mercy, in my view, and it made me reflect deeply on it. So you're right, sometimes death is not necessarily a bad ending!
@christychan46063 жыл бұрын
our loved ones will always live on, they will always be in our hearts. this is a lovely song is one of the things that help us remember them💓
@ghostbuster12413 жыл бұрын
This is one of those songs I really hope isn’t based on real events.
@rory90FiVe3 жыл бұрын
Joe just tweeted it's fictional
@ghostbuster12413 жыл бұрын
@@rory90FiVe what a relief…
@KW-if9wp3 жыл бұрын
It’s real for someone
@bandsoftheunderground13833 жыл бұрын
@@KW-if9wp harrrd, true tho
@BlackSmith2_03 жыл бұрын
@@KW-if9wp sheeshh bro, chill
@evan3 жыл бұрын
Soooooo stoked to hear the full album!
@lukeparry6413 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@martinastrand31563 жыл бұрын
Evan
@fanofbirdysongsandmusic22063 жыл бұрын
Cannot wait
@EKStoriesHD3 жыл бұрын
WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE ALL MY CHILDHOOD HEROS
@GrayShadowOfNight3 жыл бұрын
Good to see you here! I knew I liked you for a reason~
@meech21633 жыл бұрын
After discovering You in one of my darkest periods of life, I have a special connection with your music. It’s rare to see artists that are so dedicated to their craft, so hungry to make something not for cash or fame, but rather because they truly care about the craft. From Breezeblocks to The Gospel of John Hurt, your love for music always shows in what you put out. Nothing has a greater effect on my mood than your songs, whether it be uplifting or something I can cry to, your music is truly something special. I was worried we would never get anything new, yet still satisfied in all that your past music has done for me. After yet another very difficult year of my life, listening to your new music has been such a wonderful surprise that’s keeps me driven. I’m not sure if you’ll ever see this, and that’s okay, I just hope you really know how incredible and impactful your music is. Thank you, Alt-j
@randymira.13153 жыл бұрын
Beautiful story. Thanks for sharing.
@Nurse_Lolli3 жыл бұрын
Your words describe my feelings exactly x
@iarmdiego3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for writing this! I feel very related to you at this moment.
@EveJang06193 жыл бұрын
Sooooo much related to ur words,i always drifted away in the grief of lost my husband,alt j is his favorite band, i immersed myself in alt j’s music after he left , trying to grab every little piece we have been through.and in this moment, i realized between us -something beautiful has been expressed, in death,nothing has been lost.U r always in the deepest part of my heart , Justin RIP, the one who once accompanied me a period of time and yet influenced me my whole lifetime
@craigadamsmusique88453 жыл бұрын
I hope they read this!
@theis6323 жыл бұрын
"Get Better” is the union of two songs. The first was an improvised song I sang in 2018 to my partner. To her I sang, “Get better my Darcy, I know you can.” She filmed it and I kept revisiting the fragment with a plan to write more. The second was a chord structure I worked on in lockdown that focused on someone living through a bereavement. I felt a nervous heat when writing “Get Better.” The context of the Coronavirus pandemic lent my words a chilling weight and gave me a new sense of responsibility as a lyricist. Whilst the direct events described are fictional, I believe - or I hope - that it’s emotionally the most honest song I’ve written."
@nanceadler10173 жыл бұрын
Heard it first on KEXP and was not clear on the story line - seeing it with the video really hits home with the full impact of the story arc of the song. I am sure that this song will speak to so many, both who have lots loved ones to other causes, and all those who have lost loved ones during this pandemic. For you to say it is the most “emotionally the most honest song” you’ve written is saying a lot considering your other songs - but it certainly is a raw examination of grief and recovery.
@cindyjansen89663 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this authentic connection - it will inspire healing by being heard.
@syoung62643 жыл бұрын
Awesome song and another fantastic video. Absolutely love your work ALT-J. Looking forward to seeing you in May 🤩
@familyguyrocks563 жыл бұрын
Amazing!!! Such an amazing peice.
@robertgranat91853 жыл бұрын
Thank you for weaving so much candor and vulnerability into this song. There are so many fine details between the threads: the revisiting of memories, hoping you can save someone with pen-scribbled I Love You’s, the stillness of moments marked by grief, and the heartache of baking and holding on to jars of Nutella. I lost my mom recently, and this song made me feel so seen; it felt both like a stab to the chest and a heavy, warm blanket over the shoulders. You’re so gifted. Thank you.
@SamanthaShey3 жыл бұрын
Alt J is my love language. Thank you for creating
@moments74943 жыл бұрын
soo right!! cause "i just want to love u in my own language".. (3WW)..^^ share it out!!
@schoolfoodrules3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Cavalcante10243 жыл бұрын
❤️
@SarahSureShot3 жыл бұрын
"love is the warmest colour" 💜
@eloisemarch6289 Жыл бұрын
My antidepressants prevent me from ever crying. Except when this song plays. This song gets me every time.
@dognamedsusan2833 жыл бұрын
"I pretend you're out of sight in another room" jeez didn't know it was gonna hit that deep
@chipforu57143 жыл бұрын
I was just sitting at my desk, expecting nothing, being unsatisfied with myself and the way my past days were going, and then this song hit me. It hit me out of nowhere and it hit me at a spot, I didn't know I needed to be touched. Now I feel sad, mostly about how I waste so much time, worrying about whatever instead of appreciating the time, in which I can sit here at my desk, knowing that in the next room there is my loved one, probably smiling at their phone. Thank you!
@thesmuuuuggh3 жыл бұрын
Seriously. I just went and gave mine a huge hug. Lol.
@jayjayjay3912 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@plato64603 жыл бұрын
I am on my break from substitute teaching and I am crying as I watch this music video. Hopefully I can pull back these tears before my next class arrives. Congrats, Alt-J. You've done it again with excellent writing and composition of sounds.
@stlvn63633 жыл бұрын
Aristotle stealing all your classes again?
@moments74943 жыл бұрын
..am so with u..^^ am teaching myself -most of the time caring bout the "troublemakers"- but figured one day when even the "ganstery"-kids caught me touched by some music, behing the schoolyard-mask there's so deep longing for true relations!! thanks for sharing and let inspiration flow..!!
@EerieV232 жыл бұрын
I understand. I was at lunch at work and worried my coworkers would see my tears
@aranhavampira Жыл бұрын
I CRIED. This is the first time I cry at a song. I cry at books and at movies, but a song? This is the first time! It's amazing. ❤️
@sacdallago3 жыл бұрын
Things that floored me: - I know you will -> I hope you will - “At this time” (typical ICU talk) It’s in the detail that their lyrics break me
@CondePablo Жыл бұрын
for me, this is by far the most beautiful song from Alt-j. thanks for this
@moonwacha Жыл бұрын
“Get better, my darling, i know i will.” Minutes after my dad passed away from ALS, i brought his cat into the room so she could understand he was gone. I take care of her now. The ending letting the cat come inside, while experiencing intense grief, is exactly what my life looks like at times. I miss you daddy. Every day. You passed in 2020, but i feel like i lost you in 2019 when your illness took over. Daddy, i am so sorry for what you went through. I am so sorry you were robbed of your dream of being a grandpa. I am so sorry I did not hug you and never let go. Sometimes i wish i had held on to you and gone with you. I miss you every day daddy. Life has never been the same since. I will get better. I will get better. I know i will.
@jasonpole4043 жыл бұрын
A story of death and life. Perfectly crafted. Emotionally told. Life’s final conclusion can’t be avoided. But love ignited in life, can’t be completely extinguished in death.
@cheriesanchez29103 жыл бұрын
Woah, that’s beautiful!!
@escarnertrolo56513 жыл бұрын
You should write a poem, this gold
@stephenwilliams90083 жыл бұрын
Beautifully put. It captures the essence of how fragile and fleeting life is, and that we should cherish those we love in the time we have.
@aertonnolan7801 Жыл бұрын
This song makes me want to hug everyone who is feeling any kind of sadness anywhere, for any reason, and tell them it's going to be OK.
@claudemonett77143 жыл бұрын
It is rare for me to cry. Even rarer because of a song. But alt-j has done it again.
@DCGMatthew13 жыл бұрын
Read this album is gonna be pretty dark. Super excited.
@AltairPk13 жыл бұрын
Where's the dark on this????
@luminos20023 жыл бұрын
@@AltairPk1 Death is kinda dark mate
@rory90FiVe3 жыл бұрын
U&ME is literally about having fun during good times???
@AltairPk13 жыл бұрын
@@luminos2002 na, just sad but not dark
@DCGMatthew13 жыл бұрын
@@rory90FiVe They said that that song doesn't reflect the rest of the album. So I don't know how many songs will be like U&Me, but it was said it's a pretty dark album.
@Bambooni27 күн бұрын
I have loved this song for years and it never fails to move me when I hear it. I have never thought to seek out a video for it and this is legitimately one of the most beautiful things I have seen in my time on this earth. I am a puddle of awe, grief, hope, and everything in between. Thank you so much for creating the art that you do, lads.
@Kueth4173 жыл бұрын
Anyone else listen to this song fifty times yet?
@NeeaK10 ай бұрын
I just cannot listen to this song without crying so beautiful.. I start cry everytime...😭😭 "I still pretend, your only other side in other room, smiling at your phone..." Rest in peace all lovely friends and family members..❤❤ Every year i say good bye to someone and think why im still here...
@marie-75353 жыл бұрын
I discovered Alt-J 12 years ago, thanks to my dad. This group is the only one I have ever been tired of, the only one who has always walked beside me all these years. I became a teenager who listened to them, and then I'm becaming a young adult who is listening to them. I grew up with them and helped me manage melancholy, to consider her a friend rather than my enemy. Alt-J is something precious and beautiful. Every time I listen to their music, I feel connected to who I really am. It’s like a walk with the old me walking next to the current me, in a quiet place. It is to stop all the time around us, to drop all the constraints of daily life. For a little time.
@TheCrazyyashley Жыл бұрын
Me choosing just to randomly torture myself every few months by watching this, and sobbing every time haha! It's just so touching and relatable.
@LucasofMaine3 жыл бұрын
their songwriting is so beautiful. the tone shifts so much just by changing the "you" to "i" in the chorus, amazing alt-j
@FionaNouri Жыл бұрын
Just heard Patrick Grant choose this track on Desert Island Discs. He sobbed as he talked about how it impacted on him, following the death of his dad with COVID. Just listened and watched the video. Seldom have I been more moved. 💔
@mikeyjofalviton50463 жыл бұрын
I’m supposed to be working but I’d rather cry over this
@withapalmfull0fstars3 жыл бұрын
Ugh me too!
@moments74943 жыл бұрын
teardrops are the most beautiful tattoos..
@gustavhamann44082 жыл бұрын
I don't know how but just by listening it's getting better
@marierose85803 жыл бұрын
this hurts my heart. i lost my father in law to COVID in the beginning of this year and the progression of "get better, i know you will" "i hope you will" "i know i will" is devastating because it's exactly true to what i and the family went through, especially for my MIL who lost the love of her life. i'll never forget her screaming in grief when we told her the news. i can't listen to this without my heart dropping into my stomach, even if i'm just idly listening while doing something else. this song is a beautiful encapsulation of what it's like to go through the hardest goodbye. thank you for this, alt-J.
@haleyarmstrong85953 жыл бұрын
The 90's point-and-click adventure aesthetic has me swooning 😍😍 it's so wholesome and nostalgic and heartwarming!
@malvadodoctortocino74726 ай бұрын
I never thought I'd have to dedicate this song. Today, 25/06/2024, my best friend died. She was the only person I've ever truly loved. She taught me how to be kind, how to be empathetic, and showed me that life is worth living. I already used to see her in everything I'd come across, and now that will be a painful thing to bear. Friend, I'll play that new videogame that you won't be able to play. I'll feed a stray cat whenever I can. I'll take pictures of all the flowers and all the sunsets you couldn't see. I'll listen to all your favorite songs. I'll do it all and more, just for you. I really hoped you would get better.
@otteroxenfree Жыл бұрын
When my dad died in a car accident, I felt like I couldn't cry for a full week. We were close, I loved him very much, and he loved me despite not being his biological kid. When this song came out, I was in my car driving home and hearing "I still pretend you're only out of sight in another room smiling at your phone" really tugged the last tether I needed to feel everything at once. I come back here when I'm missing him as a little reminder that it's okay to revisit the memories of loss if it helps you heal. Beautiful, beautiful song. ♡
@croutix133 жыл бұрын
J'en reste sans voix... Cela fait longtemps qu'un son ne m'a pas bouleversé à ce point... C'est juste déchirant
@musicinfinity50303 жыл бұрын
Des génies…
@dadiyasmin4043 жыл бұрын
Aly j depuis mathilda sont juste... waow
@maskim33 жыл бұрын
Totalement d’accord ! 🙏
@EerieV232 жыл бұрын
Very well put, I agree
@kingaragornii99403 жыл бұрын
*Shout out to my Ex, for showing me this band back in the day.*
@Engiovy3 жыл бұрын
Can't control how I feel… 🎶
@petraoliveira70632 жыл бұрын
My father had the liver cancer diagnosed in march 10th this year, around the time i discovered this song. I never payed much attention to its lyrics before, but right now it makes so much sense. He died this past july 8th, in the icu, alone, as i was on the airplane on my way to say goodbye to him. He really liked being on his cellphone laughing of many facebook videos and this song has been helping me through grief. I still pretend he's only out of sight in his room, laughing at his phone as i'm here, writing this comment and picturing the best days i had with the best father ever. Miss you, dad. So much. All the time. Get better.
@carolinarubio2543 жыл бұрын
This made me sob more than I'd like to admit
@moments74943 жыл бұрын
let go.. why not admitting..^^ i mean skim through the comments here..^^
@judahmoar25333 жыл бұрын
Same this totally broke me in a way I haven't felt in a while
@DrEpicFr3ak3 жыл бұрын
Never heard such an emotional song.. It's a master piece
@wrytte3 жыл бұрын
Tragic yet amazingly beautiful. What a song
@AutumnLuz2 жыл бұрын
This one absolutely kills me every single time 💔😭
@s17ygh3 жыл бұрын
I was not prepared to be crying at work, oh boy, this is really beautiful. Made me feel a lot about my recent losses
@TimUunk893 жыл бұрын
Our black cat passed away a few weeks ago. This song made us cry.. beautiful.
@xzryanxzx3 жыл бұрын
I am a front line worker. It's been chaos this past year. Recently my step-mom who has been in my life for over 20 years was just taken off chemo and has about 3-4 weeks to live. This is a tough one. Thanks Alt-J. Much love.
@nevertheless-i9b9 ай бұрын
Oh God! This part "your nutella I'll keep in the cellar you were always a fan of that spread" is driving me crazy. It is so warm
@jis87BE2 жыл бұрын
They are now officially one of greatest bands of this bloody century. WOW
@johnpuddifer93173 жыл бұрын
Beautiful song can’t get through without crying , memories of my dad :(
@ShakuSelvakumar3 жыл бұрын
My daughters introduced me to ALT J and their music is insanely good. I just finished watching this video and it works on so many levels because it immediately connects us with the underlying sorrow of loss that walks behind us. Never too far away. Beautiful and haunting. Reminds me of how fleeting life is and how every day is so precious. Each sunrise and sunset is a gift with our loved ones.
@Anrheiner1113 жыл бұрын
wow, that's so true.... thank you so much for this wonderful words. Love from Germany!
@katharinaprinz82833 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, I’ve read so many comments already about people discovering alt-j in a place of pain or huge discomfort and I find it so very interesting that for me it was exactly the same! I discovered them as well in the middle of the biggest depression of my life and they were the reason I got out, they literally helped me through. I wouldn’t know where I’d be without their music. This video/song hit so hard, reminding me of my darkest times and the wish to leave this world (I’ve never said these words out loud until now). Seeing this video and the pain made me cry so hard. I feel like alt j always drops something new whenever I kind of am in a new phase of life. This time it’s the first time I feel like I’m on the other side, I finally walked through this god damn tunnel but I can still see where I came from and appreciate the place where I am at now, especially because I never believed I would make it and just be content and happy. Still seeing this the wound feels fresh and it still hurts to know this once could have been me. I don’t know where I am going with this but thank you alt j to healing and helping us! To every single person reading this to the end: you will get better and it will be worth it! I promise! Please don’t give up!! Not for all the others but for yourself and the joy you’ll be missing if you’re leaving this world too early! ❤️
@hakunamatata65003 жыл бұрын
same i discovered alt-j about 8 years ago and was so drawn to their music in such a dark period of my life which helped me through…currently going through the same and i’m just happy to have them as comfort
@katharinaprinz82833 жыл бұрын
@@hakunamatata6500 so sorry to hear that! Get better soon ❤️
@ben55383 жыл бұрын
the last sentence made me cry. thanks for your words katharina, you deserve everything
@katharinaprinz82833 жыл бұрын
@@ben5538 thank you for your kindness!
@katharinaprinz82833 жыл бұрын
@@ben5538 I hope you’re feeling alright!
@Zakilgam3 жыл бұрын
I lost my dad to Covid19 and every day since the release I listen to this song. It unlocked feelings I didn't know I had. (I still intend you're only out of sight in another room Smiling at your phone ) (I still keep the ice cream he made for me in the freezer)
@akshatrupapara65803 жыл бұрын
If you're reading this, I hope you get better!
@deborah27633 жыл бұрын
So beautiful and sad ❤️ hope everyone who lost someone get better. I'm cheering for you all and myself
@anelalzhanova79483 жыл бұрын
I listened for the first time and I liked it. I listened for the second time and I started crying. It feels so quietly soft and peaceful, so humble and so powerful at the same time. And it makes it even more painful.
@whitleycunningham21833 жыл бұрын
I love when a song evokes so much emotion.
@LESEULSALEM3 жыл бұрын
A big vibe of Elliott Smith.......You who's reading this message: You're Only, you're beautiful and you're not alone.Take this little piece of Love and keep it deep in your heart.The whole world need your presence,your creativity and your very only way to think.Don't feel separated,feel this love,and feel your life in your veins.We are all masterpieces and you're the century's one.Don't look at your feet.Keep your head up and your heart right. ❤🙏😊
@zakia4843 жыл бұрын
A few weeks ago, I delivered a module to medical students on Palliative Care, Grief/grieving, death and dying. Being a non-expert, this was way beyond my comfort zone, but I learned so much while preparing for and delivering this module. This song captures the very essence of these matters that we as physicians are very uncomfortable talking about, the dealing with emotions that we shy away from tackling in ourselves and others in the face of grief, loss and death. Thank you alt-j, this is brilliant and utterly heartful
@user-rd2wt9uo6o3 жыл бұрын
an awesome wave was the only cd my dad had in the car throughout a lot of my childhood so i’m super excited for the new album and i’m hoping to get him tour tickets for christmas :)
@NikkiNadine3 жыл бұрын
His voice is like an exquisite, warm, velvet chocolate being poured into your soul. It takes me to far away places & makes me feel like I've lived another life that's not my own. I love this band so much
@toadstooltitan83233 жыл бұрын
Didn’t realize I signed up for tears. Awesome choice with the pixel art by the way.
@kristofcsabai89583 жыл бұрын
At the first time it didn't get me. But then I started to pay attention to the lyrics and the video. For the second time it broke my heart into pieces, but crying also helps. Everyone who is going through hard and dark times, just never forget: you're more than precious.
@luenu2 жыл бұрын
I listened to this song a few times since it came out and I really liked it. Today while washing the dishes I read the lyrics while listened to it and started sobbing like a baby. Somehow I never really got the complete meaning of the song until today and it hit me like a truck. This song is so beautiful but so sad. The power of lyrics is mind-blowing
@LB-ci2gt3 жыл бұрын
Cried the first two times I listened to this and am sure it will resonate with many people in the same way. Thank you for capturing this moment for our generation, beautiful stuff. Also reminds me a bit of Sufjan Stevens’ album, Carrie & Lowell.
@superautogamingfan Жыл бұрын
The ending is so beautiful,,, the "I still pretend" bit is so painful as well, it hits so hard this song makes me so emotional
@DavidTorres-nk7ze3 жыл бұрын
That ending with the voicemail recording reminds me of one I had of my grandma before she passed. I used to play it daily. It made me feel she was still there. I really miss her.
@genevievealmonte1842 жыл бұрын
The voice in the recording was a gut punch. Sobbed immediately.
@DavidTorres-nk7ze2 жыл бұрын
@@genevievealmonte184 definitely! Heartbreaking.
@aydinmakesthings2 жыл бұрын
"I still pretend you're only out of sight" MY HEART MAN!
@milobanks94073 жыл бұрын
The shift between "I know you will" and "I hope you will" really hit me. Someone close to me is dying, so at first I thought they would get better, but I came around to knowing that was impossible. Hit me really hard.
@BetsyJo11443 жыл бұрын
Praying anyone struggling with illness or loss of a loved one does get better, Sending so much love and healing energy 🙏✨
@angelclarkhehim81673 жыл бұрын
"get better!" "i know i will." the time after losing someone is the roughest. if youre dealing with something similar remember they are watching over you and love you so much and are so proud of you for everything youve accomplished.
@jemelaaa3 жыл бұрын
happy birthday Mica! IMY so much wherever you are, please get better soon 💛✨
@DMDelindel3 жыл бұрын
I so needed to start my work day with tears streaming down my face 🙃 Alt-J speaks to me on a primal level. There's something about Joe, so emotive with the voice. And ugh, this song is so sad and beautiful, and I can't wait for this album. I've been in love with Alt-J since 2007 and I don't see that ending ever 😅
@alloewsn3 жыл бұрын
Same here lol
@chloechan3213 жыл бұрын
I just lost my grandmother to cancer. She was such a graceful warrior for life. I miss her dearly and this song just made me bawl my eyes out.
@cliftonfameree44363 жыл бұрын
Discovered you guys about 6 years ago. Had been homeless, addicted, and lost. Some of the most powerful and beautiful moments of my life have included your music. I don't know what led to the creation of this song, but it brings up emotions I wasn't fully aware I had. Thank you, gentlemen. Thank you. You do more good than you know.
@mehdia51763 жыл бұрын
This feels honest. It feels like a song made to be heard by the singer. It doesn’t try to please anyone’s taste but the one who wrote it. I look forward to the full album.
@18lillypie3 жыл бұрын
This song is so soothing to a pain that is all too real. Hope we can all get better one day
@camillecamilleee Жыл бұрын
I have spent so long seeing the people I love in pain and in suffering. Hoping in the face of no control is really hard. Opening up about my own world to others though-especially after this past year… Finding hope for yourself is not as easy as the hope I find for others. But I’m trying to let myself take that risk-and hope for me. Thank you Alt J.
@savannahmanhattan16513 жыл бұрын
Alt J is one of the most beautiful gifts to music.
@ivythepotato24173 жыл бұрын
To whoever's reading this right now, have a great day. It'll be okay, you just have to get through the tough parts. I believe in you.
@leroibaboune20313 жыл бұрын
Been a while since a song made me cry. Incredible song and video.
@tytalks4214 Жыл бұрын
As someone whose soulmate died at the young age of 34 due to COVID in front of me; this is a really heavy one and it's spot on. One minute she was there, the next minute she's gone. Your brain can't comprehend the unimaginable grief you feel and you spiral in an endless ocean of memories to fill in the gaps. They, sadly really encapsulate the essence of that in this song to the highest degree
@bluestashy3 жыл бұрын
I discovered alt j 6 years ago when I was 16. I was depressed and thought I wouldn't see my 18th birthday, here I am 6 years later still alive and alt j helped me alot through those years ❤️ Can't wait to hear the new album ❤️
@katharinaprinz82833 жыл бұрын
I feel you! So happy you’re still here!!
@neilandrews72687 ай бұрын
Outstanding track. I've always wondered if the tape recorded message at the end was real. Its a brilliant album. I hadn't realised this had been a single. Sadly true brilliance is easily drowned out these days by mediocrity. Glad I stumbled across this today. Time to revisit the album i think.
@pjbourketrapp51583 жыл бұрын
This is so moving. What a delicate, moving and honest song. This really touches my soul. I really feel the mourning here. Thanks Joe and Alt-J.
@ben55383 жыл бұрын
alt-j is therapy. thank you guys, you are the best
@iceicebaby8733 жыл бұрын
new level of comforting depression unlocked
@tsukkibito3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making me cry so hard tonight. I've never cried for s long while and I needed it.
@randomstuff26653 жыл бұрын
This honestly might be their best song yet. The lyricism is top notch.
@meatw4d2 жыл бұрын
No matter how many times I listen to this, I cry.
@siripeter64483 жыл бұрын
This is such a beautiful piece of art, I‘ve never before seen a video alike, it could not be more perfect. It made me cry so much when I first saw it and it still does.
@cstpa12 жыл бұрын
stunning vocals here.
@MrDimdim073 жыл бұрын
Nice ! Tomorrow will be a beautiful day ❤️
@DoenerDuesentrieb7 ай бұрын
why are these pokemon videos so emotionally touching to me
@ccampbell55512 жыл бұрын
The sigh at 4:16 gets me every time...
@steveym902 жыл бұрын
I remember first listening and this part stayed with me long after
@drasseux3 жыл бұрын
Crying like a baby right now😭... thank you Alt-J for putting words on our emotions ❤