Alzheimers...No Prevention, No Cure

[@Orvis128]

Wow... This hit so close to home, WNH. I teared up watching this and listening to this. Sending over lots of hugs your way for you and your family... I lost my grandfather to Alzheimer's two months ago. My family past is a dark period of my life made brighter by my grandparents, who were ALWAYS fighting for my brothers and I despite the shit we were put through at home. My entire family came together to help my grandmother with my grandfather as soon we found out about his condition. I made every effort to be there with him in hospice care or at my grandmother's. Spending time with him, laughing with him, and enjoying the moments I had with him. Having that time was so precious, and I'm so happy I was able to record those moments on my phone. I wasn't ready to receive that phone call two months ago. You never really are ready for those moments in life. I know how horrible this disease is. But I urge you to continue to find that strength that's inside of you. I know it's there. I can see and hear it in you. Always know I'm thinking of you and your family... Sorry for the very long comment. But, as I mentioned above, this is a very personal topic for me. Be well, ride safe, and carry on my friend. Again, sorry for the long comment!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Oh my...very sorry to hear about your grandfather. Big hugs to you for what you have gone through; I'm glad your grandparents were there for you. No worries on a long comment; I really enjoyed reading it and I appreciate the things you wrote...it does mean a lot to me so thank you!

[@Orvis128]

It's so nice to see that you have so much support. Unfortunately, so many of us know exactly how you're feeling. Lots of hugs to you, my friend.

[@Ron_C]

So sad to hear. My grandmother had dementia and that was so hard on us all. My folks are 78 & 80 and so far they are holding on. Thoughts and prayers (if appropriate) are coming your way.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you! Glad your folks are doing well!

[@TheThailand101]

Sad to hear, good on your dad for looking after her 24/7. Thats true LOVE!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Yeah...he has had a huge learning curve doing this. Thank you for the comments.

[@Dracati]

It may have been tough to post this, though, with all the wonderful commenting I've read, many people appreciate it, including me !!! I think of ur mention of Spacep0d & had to think that our ages, KZbin's demographic, & the shared love of Moto's & making mini movies, bounds us all close to one another ;) I may cry when I meet u, and the range from 4min-6min was nice to hear your 'Indian/Spotted' stories...& congrat's on that, too !!! My Aunt suffers from this horrible brain issue, and I know it's my Dad's biggest fear, even though he's never told me. My folks are getting into the 80's and I miss them in OR, glad you were able to make the trip ;) up to WA to see yours

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you, DD...your comments are always so helpful and supportive. One thing I would like to do before too much time passes is to ride up the coast to the OR and WA area, just taking my time, for a few weeks, to enjoy that awesome route. I love the Pacific Northwest...it is beautiful. And, of course, spend more time with my parents. Thanks again...I really appreciate you chiming in.

[@irishrover63]

I didn't want to suggest that you make a video about it, but glad you did as you will no doubt get support from all your friends. Some of us have experienced the effects it has as we have had family members with the condition also. Those pictures of your parents look great and I feel for your Mum and Dad and your family. I'm also glad that you turned that camera on and recorded those conversations with your Dad as they will be golden in the future. Take care Wheels and a lucky viewer he was to have met with you in person. RSMF :)

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks. Yeah, he really enjoys sharing his war stories and experiences and family history. It was a spur of the moment thing when I grabbed my camera. I think it really made him feel good that we showed our interest and asked questions. Thank you for the comments, Connall...I really appreciate it.

[@TimKreitzAdventures]

Horrible stuff. My extended family has had to deal with similar dynamics due to the same disease. Prayers and best wishes to you and yours. It can be outright traumatic watching one of your closest loved ones lose touch with the world around them and the life they built. I'm giving you and your family a huge hug from across the distance.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks for the comments and hug, Tim! It means a lot to me!

[@TimKreitzAdventures]

You betcha. ;-)

[@egjr0765]

Hello Wheels, I am sorry to hear about your mother. Just breaks your heart to see strong people have to deal with this. Just look at how many people are pulling for you and your family. How wonderful is that to know so many people care. You've touch a lot of lives, Wheels. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. From The Woodlands, Texas.......

[@WheelsNotHeels]

It sure does help to have such a caring community behind me! I thank you very much for your kind and supportive words. I'm from TX, too, btw...born in San Antonio, lived in Big Springs and in Helotes, a small town.

[@donttreadonme7630]

Those who have been there understand... god bless you, your folks and your siblings.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...that support means a lot. I like your channel name. ;)

[@LuckyLukeRides]

The best thing you can do is just think of the great memories you & your mother had before any of this. It's a horrible condition, I've seen it plenty of times in the healthcare setting & it really does have a huge effect on the family. Just try your best to stay strong for yourself, your father. Lots of love & support from the youtube community!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...really appreciate your kind words and support. Yeah, we do spend a lot of time reliving memories.

[@volgnit]

I am sure there are big hugs and love being sent to you and your family from all your internet friends Wheels. This video had me in tears and then chuckles when you met your fan boy. Best wishes and love to you and yours Wheels.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

LoL...yeah, the fan boy was fun...any little ray of sunshine is very welcome in this life. Thank you for the kind comments.

[@RobsMotovlogs]

This was an emotional video for me to watch. I know what you are going through. My grandmother (Dad's side) went through this. It was very tough on my Dad....he and his mom were very close. It was a difficult time for the family. You mom and dad are similar to mine. My dad was a vietnam vet and spent a good time of his adult life in the military....and my mom was there supporting him and taking care of us kids. Sounds like you have a close knit family. Take care of the family....all the best

[@WheelsNotHeels]

It really is tough on everyone; I think it's tougher on the caretaker (my Dad). He is so tired from dealing with everything. But he is such a good example as he insists on taking the entire load on himself. Thank you for the comments.

[@CaptainCrankyMotovlogger]

Ahhh Wheels, that is such a sad situation - I watched my Dad go through it with my Grandmother - heartbreaking. I know that keeping well hydrated and exercising the brain is great for staving off Alzheimers - but I don't know if that can help at a late stage. Hugs hugs and lots of heart from us both xx

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks, Cranky...it's like a slow death and it's like you're sitting there with your hands tied.

[@theramblinbiker4537]

So sorry your family is dealing with that terrible decease. I will say a prayer for you all. Alzheimer's has touched our family too. Your mother sounds like an amazing person! I wish you all the best Wheels.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

My apologies for not having seen your comment / replying to it...just noticed it! Thank you for watching & showing such support; it does mean a lot.

[@learn2rideVIDEOS]

Definitely a rough time. I'm sorry for you WNH. :-( Despite the tough times cherish them though. You'll miss your mum when's she's gone. Big hugs from Ireland, Dave

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you, Dave...really appreciate the support.

[@Doticaster]

Ah Wheels, I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. It's a cruel illness and nobody should have to go through it. My thoughts go out to you and your family. I can't really imagine how you must feel, you do right in not thinking about work and go cruise that beautiful scenery. I send you a hug🎀🎗hope you're ok. Tcrs✊

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...much appreciate the support and very kind comments.

[@cherylgeorge4155]

Life on life's terms is a tough thing at times! Alzheimer's has to be one of the cruelest things a family can go through! I pray for you and yours, stay the course, your a great person! ✌🏼️

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Just noticed I had not replied to your comment. I thank you for watching & commenting & the support...much appreciate it! :)

[@HawkGirlMistyV]

So sorry to hear this, I know it's hard and I know it's a long shot but I've heard really good things about taking 3 teaspoons of virgin coconut oil a day, and it helping with the effects of Alzheimer's. That's awesome that you got recognized, lol! We'll keep you in our thoughts and prayers, rifling is great therapy!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...really appreciate the support. I, too, have heard good things about coconut oil.

[@gopher1471]

You have got the biggest balls of anyone I know, you managed to talk about this and SAD, don't ever change ok, and yes I do mean you are mentally pretty tough and refreshingly honest and open. All the best wheels.... :)

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Well, thank you very much for the super nice comments. It means a lot! It's comments like yours that inspire me and make me want to continue doing this as there have been times when I just wanted to walk away. It's not easy "putting yourself out there" when you know you'll be judged or criticized but I've learned that I don't need the approval from anyone else but me. Have had to face my fears head-on as I get older and live & learn as I go. :)

[@BIKERFURY]

So sorry to hear :( it's heartbreaking to watch things like this, much support to you as always, ride safe wheels take it easy :)

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...that means a lot and I appreciate your support.

[@GurrasGarage]

So sorry to hear about your mum. Best wishes for you and your family!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...really appreciate it.

[@KrazyKoolNYer]

So sorry to hear about your mom, it's never easy dealing with any type of sickness with our love ones. My blessing to you and your family. Ride safe.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks...appreciate it!

[@britex3186]

Sorry to hear about your parents problems....it's really hard seeing your loved ones age and the issues that comes with age. Peaces Joy and Love to you!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks for the comments...really appreciate it. Very true that these are some issues we deal with as parents are aging and it sure is not easy.

[@HepcatHarley]

Yes, wish I was there, so I could give you a big hug. I have seen the very same with Mandy's step-grand parents. You can see and cut through with a knife the frustration of it all on both sides. Bless you and your family.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks, Hepcat...very sorry to hear Mandy's dealing with this, too. It's a devastating, humbling, frustrating, and just downright confusing time for all parties involved. Hugs to you guys too!

[@HepcatHarley]

It was years ago now but the memories of what this nasty disease can do will stay with us forever.

[@PlainsRyker]

I'm so sorry you have to go through this! My mother had dementia, which is a lesser form (mainly very short term memory loss. She always knew me, but did not know my daughter when she visited once. It's truly evil!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Yes, it is evil; I have a tough time dealing with it. Thank you for the support and comments.

[@faithbiker8262]

So sorry to hear about your mother. I lost my mother and father at a young age and my grandmother had Alzheimers. My heart goes out to you and I understand exactly what you are going through. I wish you comfort in your situation. Sometimes getting on the bike and leaving your problems behind you is a good therapy to handle grief. Best to you.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Yeah...riding definitely is good therapy. Right now, it has been a huge meditation-type thing for me. Thank you for the support!

[@RenchRanch]

Sorry to hear about your Mom, our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I appreciate you having the courage to share this with our little Moto Vlog community. People who don't ride will never understand how it puts other things in perspective. Hope you are doing well. Ride safe! Mike & Melly

[@WheelsNotHeels]

So true...putting things in perspective...yes, riding does that for me, for sure. Thank you, Mike & Melly...I appreciate it.

[@Womanwolfrider]

Sorry to hear about your Ma, it's hard I know because mine went through it. Tell your dad to play her music she liked or from her childhood, it can bring her back for a few moments singing along etc. Take care x

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Sorry to hear about your Mother having this; it's just horrible, isn't it? And, yes, my Dad does play music for her among other things...I'm worried he is under much more strain than she is since he is the caretaker. Thank you for the comments.

[@merlinm4]

so sorry to hear this.... sending love from the uk xxx

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...much appreciated!!!

[@JohnG11000]

Dear wheels feel for you and your family,it must be so difficult for your dad,I don't have the words for you girl, x

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you, John...we take it day by day. ;)

[@suznet]

You have my sympathy, both my parents had it, my Father first, once he passed - my Mother began to go the same way, there was about 5 yrs age difference between them, all the family lived locally & done what we could, they both went through the care home system etc but both lived to be 89, so I can understand what you're going through.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Man, that's tough...both parents. Thank you for chiming in and the support.

[@twistygrip4180]

I'm so sorry. When I was younger I watched the same thing happen to my Grandmother. I'm dreading the time when my folks start having issues......something we will all have to deal with at some point. Best wishes to you and your family.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

You're right...at some point, it's something most of us have to deal with and comes to terms with aging parents and the issues that come along with it. Thank you for the comments!

[@azdesertdog]

Sorry about your mom's illness. My wife just got back from seeing her dad and he is beginning to succumb to the same thing. We understand what you are going through. Your family is in our prayers.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...it's so difficult being so far away, too...you feel so helpless.

[@Bex88_UK]

Aww Wheels, so sorry to hear this! - It's so sad that there is no cure for it :( Sending much love to you and your family x

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks, Bex...that means a lot.

[@AlbertoBaranano]

Heartbreaking. Best wishes for you and your family

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...appreciate it.

[@weljo2001]

My father had Alzheimers. I had a job that i worked from home so was able to take care of him. He passed away June of 2009 just a week before his 85th birthday. The last stages of Alzheimers kicked in and his body just started shutting down. He was able to walk into the hospital but he past 3 weeks later. Taking care of them drains you mentally. There are support groups out there now but none when i was dealing with it. Find some way to get your father a break even if its just for one day a week have someone watch her so he can just get away and relax for a moment. Its hard to watch someone so strong just wilt away right in front of you. All the best to you and your family.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks for the supportive words. I do appreciate it. My Dad finally did get to a point where he just needed to get a break now & then so he did find a really nice place where he can drop her off for a day now & then. I know he is completely drained, extremely fatigued & much more stooped over lately and this is a big concern. He also did find a good support group which does help him a lot. It is just so surreal & painful to watch this slow decline & to realize they are already gone in their mind. Thanks again for sharing & the comments.

[@rune-photo]

Hi! Alzheimers are terrifying indeed and it must hurt terrible the nearest and espessial the person who you have shared things with all your life! A college at work has a similar story as you and it's hard to watch somebody you love dissapear in another world, or goes in the childhood as you say. 64 years of marrige is realy respect!! Sends a big hug from far north wheelie

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks for the support, Rune! That means a lot to me. It is really hard to watch, especially when she completely does not know me.

[@martinarrandale7958]

Hard to watch, but very honest. I know no words can really help, but Big big hug for you WNH.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...much appreciated!

[@MemphisMike901]

So sorry to hear this WHN. This has to be very difficult to deal with and see your mom in this condition. It is such a terrible-terrible disease. I can only offer prayers for strength for you in this time of your life and pray you don't fall apart! It is tough having to take care of our elderly parents too. My father-in-law lives in InLaw Quarters at our house. Knock on wood, he is still in somewhat decent health at 83yrs old...but his son(my brother InLaw) lives with him/us as well...who is Downs Syndrome and Very Brittle Diabetic. Needless to say...our patience is tested at times!! Hey...maybe us Motovloggers are Human and we don't live in a perfect world behind the camera!!! You hang in there ok!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks! I appreciate the great comments you made and I feel for you as well. This is the period in life when we learn to deal with aging parents, among other things and it ain't easy, for sure. Trying to stay positive is a difficult thing at times. You hang in there as well with your situation; that's not an easy situation either!

[@MemphisMike901]

+WheelsNotHeels you speak the truth!!

[@M4BoarBiker]

I've had experience with my Grandmother suffering from Alzheimers. It's so hard to deal with. I'm wishing you and your family well.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...much appreciated!

[@Erstwhile.Freeman]

My dad is in the early stages of the same thing, and we have no idea how to care for him in the future because of the cost. Wish you and your family the best. Stay positive and take care.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Sorry to hear about your Dad. I know my Dad has written every single thing down, not only to help when she goes to see the doctor but also to give updates to all the family members who are not close by. It also just helps him see the progression. He has done a lot of research and has joined a support group to help him understand it more...maybe you could find a group like that? Take care, thanks for the comments, hope things go better with your Dad...remember, it is a journey and you just have to ride it, don't blame yourselves and just have patience.

[@Erstwhile.Freeman]

+WheelsNotHeels thanks from the bottom of my heart for the comment and advice Wheels. I'll look into the group. You're awesome, stay awesome!

[@countryboymotovlogs926]

Hey Wheels, im so sorry to hear about your Mom, prayers out to you and your family. All the best to ya! See ya!!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...that means a lot. :)

[@aeroliner750]

so sorry to hear that be strong stronger then ever your dad is going to need you. I know because we just lost my wonderful mother in law to it take care be well and God bless you and your Mom,Dad&you

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Oh, my...sorry to hear about your mother-in-law...that's so sad and must be very difficult for your spouse. Thanks for the comments!

[@andyhoggan1490]

HI Miss W. It was hard to watch your video. To see how upset you are. But can I say that we are all thinking of you, and your dear father. lots of love

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...really appreciate your kindness and support.

[@finalbyrnn1752]

Hey wheels. I'm an RN and deal with patients and families every day. It is not easy. It scares me to think that someday my father or my wife's parents may someday be in the same boat. It also scares me that it could happen to either me or my wife and that we would be a burden on each other or our children. All we can do is love the people we have always loved and be patient with them. It is a family love and we should all help to make each persons burden easier to handle by being there for those that care for those with Alzheimers. I pray for you and your family. Stay strong and lean on each others shoulders for strength.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Wow...thank you for stopping by to comment. What you said really struck a chord and I sure do appreciate your supportive comments. So true that all we can do is just show our love and support.

[@navythomas8]

I know your pain, I did the same for 3-4 years. Finally told my siblings, this has got to end.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

It is so much more difficult for the caretaker, I think. The slow decline over a long period of time vs. someone dying all of a sudden...neither is easy. He is still so startled & surprised when she asks him who he is. That has got to be just gut-wrenching. I really feel helpless.

[@CanadianMotoGal]

Thinking of you and your family during this time...definitely a tough time :(

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you...much appreciated!

[@SloPokeWest]

man so so sorry....My Grandfather passed away of Alzheimers hard hard to watch...

[@WheelsNotHeels]

It sure is...it's like a very slow death...very sad. Thanks for the comment.

[@TheMarva68]

So sorry for this, my dad had it for almost a year. So hard for you and your family, in hardest times remember, maybe she doesn´t know who you are but you know well who she is. I don´t know if I wrote that correctly in english. Big hug for all of you.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Wow...thank you! That's a very good way of putting things in perspective. And, yes, you did the English perfectly. Really appreciate your comments!

[@andypandy.]

I understand what it's like to feel drained and how it takes a while to catch up....... Im doing that now lol.. I feel ya sista, my grandmother had alzheimers and her demise sounds exactly what you are going through, but my father is in the early stages of it now also..... he doesn't quite repeat himself yet, he knows that he forgets stuff so he is just withdrawing into himself, becoming very quiet, not talkative at all and just blends into the shadows....... and know what he was like in his younger days, that is so totally foreign for him :-( Good luck with it all......... oh, one thing we did do for our grandmother was make a photo collage with the names of everyone in it.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Great idea with the photo collage! It's so sad to see this happening to people you love because it's like they're there but they're not. She is getting worse. My Dad is taking care of her 24/7 and is 84...I feel helpless. Thank you for the great comments!

[@RidinCountry]

Wow, so sorry to hear this. Alzheimer's is such a cruel thing. I'm praying for you and your parents. Stay safe, and good idea to not work. Take the day and get some much needed wind therapy! Please stay safe out there!!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

So sorry...just now noticed I had not replied to your comment. And thank you very much for your comments...it is very much appreciated.

[@Quickshift1]

Very sorry to hear that, my grandma also have it really bad, does not know her own children sometimes as well. God be with you all.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you for the support; sorry to hear about your grandma...it's a devastating thing.

[@Quickshift1]

Thank you.

[@TheMotorick]

Being on a motorcycle is a great stress reliever. I wish I could say something to help. Both my parents passed 7 years ago. It's so difficult to watch. Here's a virtual hug because I care.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks...you changed your channel name! Really appreciate the virtual hug and the support!

[@TheMotorick]

I hadn't noticed the name change until you mentioned it. Google did it when I reactivated Google+. I've changed it back.

[@williamcato6852]

Best wishes. You are NOT alone.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you! Yeah, the support has been awesome.

[@donaldmckoy6678]

this was a hard video for me my prayers go out to you and your family be blessed & ride safe

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you for watching & for the comment; I do appreciate your support and prayers. :)

[@pmsbassplayer]

Very sorry about your Mom. Hope your Dad can get some relief of some sort.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks, Steph...really appreciate it.

[@davidwatson3944]

My Mom is 90 and has severe dimentia. Visit her every 3 months in Fresno. I can relate to some of your feelings. I am out of Rancho Cucamonga. Glen Cambell has alzheimers. Interesting story on youtube. Like your blogs.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you! Sorry to hear about your Mom...it is so devastating for people close to the person to see it happening & there's nothing you can do.

[@MidwestMotoRider]

Man that must be hard for everyone. Its great that she has your Dad to care for her so many don't. Don't worry about catching up on the videos I am sure we all understand you have bigger fish to fry at the moment! Ride safe and have a good week!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks...that means a lot. Yeah, my Dad is tired but he wants to take care of her and it is wearing him out.

[@MidwestMotoRider]

Then all you can do is stand by and support his wishes. Clearly he is a great man! Its tough but some times it helps to talk it out so anytime you want to spill on the channel is probably fine with everyone I think we all get it. In a way I lucked out my Dad passed quickly and my Mom is hanging good for now. Hang in there and use your family as a support group when you feel you need help hanging in there. Ride safe and have a great week!

[@WEGGYZZR]

A very poignant personal vid and felt every second of that ya special lady... like most I've seen the devastating effects of this and also motor neurone disease within the family....only recently my stepfathers mother passed away aged 99....she was diagnosed with dementia 10 years ago and had been in a very expensive home for about 5.... Nuff of that....wish you and family all the very best and thanks for sharing....Weggs!

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you, Weggy...it certainly is devastating. We all feel so helpless. Appreciate the support! ;)

[@NickMasseyRideon]

I agree with Wyvernbiker, I know what you are going through, I am 10,000km away with the same sort of thing. My last visit to the states 2 years ago was probably my last to see my mum, it was not voiced at all but we felt it.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

It's a very sad turn of events, isn't it? And painful for everyone around the person with that disease to watch this very slow, painful decline in health. It puts things in perspective, that's for sure. Thanks for the comments.

[@TheTriumfAnt]

Alzheimers seems to be getting more common. I hope they find a cure one day. It's funny when you get recognized. A local person guessed who I was when my channel was a few months old. Four years later and it's still they only time.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Yeah...it's very frustrating when you hear those words...no prevention, no cure. I'm sure some day, there will be. Thank you for the comments.

[@katsugi183]

Sorry to hear that but stay strong too. The most incurable illness :(

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks, Keith...really appreciate it!

[@Viper6-MotoVlogger]

I know what you're going through. There is nothing worse than looking at someone go through that and there is nothing you can do. I always donate to research, with the hope that some day they will find a cure. take care wheels.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Yes...we still hope for the cure...thank you for the comments.

[@WookieSenshi]

I'm so sorry for you and your family. I don't know what it's like, but I just want you to know that this stranger is feeling for you all.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you so much...that does mean a lot!

[@WookieSenshi]

WheelsNotHeels No problem!

[@sam6496]

sorry for your family. my mom had it my dad has Parkinson's disease

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Sorry to hear that; so difficult dealing with aging parents. Thanks for the comments.

[@Its2loudyer2oldmotovlogs]

Sorry to hear about your mom wheels. Really hard vid to watch for sure. But on the other side of things it's really cool you ran into someone who recognized you! Take care hon.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks! Yeah, the "fan" was cool...it made my day. lol

[@wyvernbiker]

What a tough video to watch. Big hugs Wheels :)

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks...appreciate it.

[@jackthemuss2493]

I wish I could give you a big hug.. I wish I could hug your dad as well. Hope you are copping ok. I am always around on facebook if you ever want to just chat to a random person.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks, Jack...much appreciated...really. ;)

[@dawnrobb8809]

wow sorry to hear this My father-in-law has the same problems & refuses to go to the doctor because they always give him bad news. With all his medical problems we don't think he'll last much longer. We've tried everything to get him care but most of the time he'll walk out of the doctors appts. mad at the world like a 3 yr old

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Wow, that's sad to hear. On the one hand, I can understand his frustration; on the other hand, getting the right care is crucial. Thanks for the support.

[@Bimble]

I wish i were there too Wheels, coz i'd give you a great big hug...Also, it'd be cool to hang out with somebody who's YT famous! ;) My heart & utmost respect to yourself, Father & family X Sending you a little pm. - B

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thanks Bimble...appreciate it...I'll check the PM.

[@richardmourdock2719]

Ms. Wheels, so sorry you must experience this. We live in an amazing time when parents often live to see their children retire, as in my family. Those of us who watch our parents begin to fail, be it from Alzheimers or other geriatric ailments that slowly rob them of the routine things of life is a painful experience. A doc recently described a common experience of the elderly in an meaningful way, "they lose their ability to make short-term memories. They recall and speak of things from World War II, but can't remember what they had for breakfast. Truly, the children start to become the parents as the parents become almost child like. At any rate, please know this stranger will offer a prayer or two for you as we share a common experience of mature life. And while the motorcycle gives you moments to escape the painful realities and responsibilities don't lose concentration of operating the bike

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you for the really great comments. So, so true that it seems like we, the kids, are almost like parents to them. They are both so frail & more tired and stooped over. She is like a child and mentions her Mom frequently. I will make sure not to lose my concentration while riding...good point!

[@ellboy667]

Hey Wheels. Thoughts with you & family. Take care fae a Jockanese biker in Jockland.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Nice...very nice comment and I thank ye, truly. It means a lot.

[@02bigkev]

Alzheimer's is a terrible disease, in my opinion it's worse than cancer. I have seen the affects of Alzheimers and its not nice and very emotional for all involved. So you got recognised that is so cool and you sat on a Springfield, I love to have an Indian Springfield. Take care.. RSM8

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Yeah, I think you could be right...it's a terrible disease and difficult to deal with for everyone. And that Springfield was pretty awesome.

[@nigelr07]

So sorry to hear about your Mom Wheels, understand what your going through as my Nana God bless her suffered from this horrid disease before she passed away many years ago. Latch onto those moments when her spirit appears through the disease and hold onto them even though they may just be fleeting moments. We don't know each other and have only ever communicated through the medium if your Vlog but I hope you'll accept a virtual hug, chin up Wheels. on a side note, there is a guy in the UK whose father suffers from Alzheimer's and found that song brought his dad back do he's used this to try to raise money for the Alzheimer's society. his target was £1000 he's just hit £100,000 !!!! He's on Facebook and You Tube as the Songaminuteman.. FB link is m.facebook.com/songaminute/ Best wishes

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Wow, thanks for the link, Nigel, and for the support. It is really difficult seeing her like this.

[@ArizonaRE]

Hang in there! I'm so glad you don't take your family for granted. Can be tough to live through that. Wow, so you got spotted by a sub B-)

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Thank you so much, RE. Yeah, I'm very thankful for my family. Really appreciate the comments. =)

[@andykendrick3744]

Glad you are getting some wind therapy.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

Yeah...it sure does help! :)

[@freedomrider7767]

Wheels...my understanding is hospice is covered by medicare (both in patient and home care). She won't get 24 hour care until end stage but that is true with any ailment..not just Alheimers. Look into that to check me but I think I'm right. I feel so bad, its a rough one for sure but keep the faith. God bless you and your family, rsmf. Freedom Rider out.

[@WheelsNotHeels]

My Dad insists on taking full-time care of her...maybe it's his way of giving back to all she did for him? I don't know, but believe me, he has done a ton of research and has made pages & pages of notes. Thank you for the comments...really appreciate it.

[@fat_biker]

:-( That's grim :-(

[@WheelsNotHeels]

It sure is. Thanks for watching.