Am I Morally Obligated To Help My Ex-Wife With Her Bills?

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[@farsights2985]

Don't support an unfaithful ex-wife.

[@thebign8886]

Dont support any wife ex or not

[@PrincernPrince]

The reason he's contemplating it is the reason why she cheated. Grow a pair. And he still wants to help her she probably is lying about how much money she has as well. Don't keep being a fool man.

[@jarred333Boss]

Yee

[@mikeg6520]

No

[@DarwinCastro-h5h]

This is glorious, I've been looking for "how do i tell my wife i want a divorce without hurting her" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Jenaniel Forgiveness Blueprint - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my co-worker got great success with it.

[@mentalcircuspodcast1254]

You don't need to help her with ANYTHING!!!

[@mentalcircuspodcast1254]

This guy has poor boundaries

[@Twinkie989]

+Mental Circus Podcast Well, he moved down the street from his ex.

[@debramurphy4295]

Mental Circus Podcast he has to help were the court s says so.

[@deesee3622]

I know sounds like she still has control over him even after he's "moved on"" - he needs to run to therapy and stay single for a good while until he's able to grow a pair

[@rogers5622]

Mental Circus Podcast she was messing with othet guys for free but begging him for money😂

[@MENDLER1]

Teach this adulterous woman a lesson. No money for her. Let her lover pay her bills. Don’t be a sucker!

[@adamhero459]

xc5647321 xc5647321 they used to do a lot of things to these women. But today they are basically celebrated.

[@born2win259]

xc5647321 xc5647321 sounds pretty extreme

[@mikewright2858]

She's an ex for a reason ... she cheated on you ... let her rot.

[@pianosonthebeachkeys4000]

But they have kids together.... what about the kids?

[@jjjackson5183]

It is the kids. And he still loves her. Even though she cheated.

[@kagoatleonard4019]

@Charles Unfortunately, how do you pay for that DIRECTLY. What if hes busy all the time and doesnt have enough time to buy the groceries for the kids, their clothes etc. Because that would take at least a few hours out of your day. He would have to give her the money directly and trust she can do the right thing with it

[@KS-se9jb]

@@snakeyman5560 All fine and dandy to think you can pay for kids separately, but if she is bad with paying her bills or buying them food, his children suffer. They are little kids with 50/50 custody, they don’t buy there own food or pay for their own power.

[@mikewright2858]

@@pianosonthebeachkeys4000 Well, maybe she shouldn't have the kids if she can't pay her bills.

[@garysanders6091]

Dude.. She broke the basic marriage contract, you have zero obligation to her. Morally or otherwise.

[@busyant2944]

But you do have an obligation to your kids with her.

[@chuckysmaria6466]

@@busyant2944 I keep hearing this "think of the kids". Really? NOW we need to think about the kids? The time to think of them is before torpedoing the marriage. Why is it acceptable for women to hold children (THEIR OWN children) hostage. "Give me money, or the kids will suffer." Give the children to the fathers. That worked before they pushed for tender years doctrine.

[@SheallyG]

@@chuckysmaria6466 wow I had never heard of that doctrine.

[@chuckysmaria6466]

@@SheallyG 90% of child custody rulings goes to the mothers. The 10% is shared by joint custody and custody to the fathers. Of course you never heard that doctrine. It is sold to the public as "best interest of the child".

[@cjjuszczak]

*"I don't know what is an appropriate amount to help her ..."* ZERO, zero is the appropriate amount she deserves.

[@dt4654]

Where is her lover when she needs help with the bills 😂

[@dt4654]

@gorilla g or he gone and found new fresh meat that doesn't need financial help 😂

[@formula112967]

Chads and Tyrones don't help pay the bills....they pump and dump, and women fall for it EVERYTIME!!!

[@thecatnextdoor12]

@@formula112967 Those names got such a bad rep.

[@urbancitygirl3696]

Chuuurrrcchhhhh!!!

[@bobjohnson7695]

Exactly.

[@chrisconsorte7893]

I say no!!!! My ex tried to do that me!’ She left me for someone else too! Let her new boyfriend take care of her! Not your problem!! I understand what this man is going through. I’m just glad I never had any children with my ex-wife.

[@excessivemedia9295]

Me too !! The audacity these women have !! Leave us for someone else then have the audacity to come back with tail between the legs asking to barrow money ?!? Like what ?!? These women aren’t just cheaters but also stupid !!

[@jcrowley1985]

Your kids deserve help more then your ex. Help them directly.

[@formula112967]

Too bad the man-hating divorce/child support courts don't allow that!

[@mexital1159]

Probably not his kids anyway

[@lazyakersfishing1350]

This guy sounds like a pushover. You don't help out your ex beyond any legal requirements.

[@zPrideful]

What lol what if the kids are living with her, so he is just supposed be a dead beat and not help them. Just because they aren't together doesn't mean it still isnt his family his providing for.

[@j.rob.5943]

SlowReaction he has 50/50 with his kids. He owes her nothing beyond their divorce decree. Let her reap her rewards.

[@GaryFowler2906]

A typical beta male

[@garrettmesser3977]

SlowReaction he’s not a dead beat if he follows the court orders. If she can’t provide a good living environment with the court ordered child support then she is the dead beat and should loose custody.

[@ENCwwe]

He sounds like a good guy just trying to do the right thing.

[@theunfadeable60]

Your wife's boyfriends thinks you are morally obligated to contribute.

[@GaryFowler2906]

Just ask yourself...do you think your x wife would ask the same question about YOU????

[@Tictac-s2e]

Probably not. She sounds like a piece of garbage. 🤣🤣

[@HurricaneGaming509]

@@Tictac-s2e *Definitely* not.

[@twincherry4958]

@@HurricaneGaming509 it won't cross her mind

[@kaitlyne1870]

She didn't even ask that question before she was his ex. If she had, they wouldn't be in this situation. Poor guy owes her nothing

[@jakemf1]

Jim Cooke never

[@buffymcmuffin5361]

She cheated on you, and is still viscous sometimes. Sad, but be grateful you got out now.

[@GalbertKun]

The ex wife should pay child support to him.

[@Jibbie49]

He said it was a 50/50 and she made less money then he does.

[@AlllSmiless]

Lmbo, that's not how it works

[@bonnevillebagger9147]

Jibbie49 since it’s 50-50 the equal approach would be no one pays anything. But this isn’t an equal system.

[@adelb7897]

@@Jibbie49 this is why you should never marry a woman who earns less than you by a significant margin smh...

[@MsJoyce31202]

If she doesn't, he's done enough giving. He asked her and she denied him (took long enough to come clean). Divorce decreed assets is put in place already so nevermind the moral obligation. He's also paid off half of his own debt (half of 34000) and needs to keep that baby step going to have more money to save and invest. He's done enough.

[@EastCoastReefer]

She cheated and doesn't deserve any morality. Also, I'd pay her the $100/monthly in pennies. Dude needs to grow a pair.

[@kenbals]

Binh Nguyen It's always easier to see it when it's not you going through it.

[@TylerCummings6]

Worse yet, we don’t know how many times she cheated. Or with how many other partners.

[@surelock3221]

You know he's loving his situation right now

[@tallswede80]

are the children even his children? Dave needs to start recommending paternity tests.

[@ryodeath]

@@kenbals It's the greatest feeling in the world when telling someone who wronged you they are cut off and watch Karma serve it's due. Not saying you pursue ruining them, but you shouldn't enable bad habits to eat someone alive or you're just an enabler. Most folks find real faith that lasts at the bottom of the barrel.

[@stevee8318]

Make sure your kids are taken care of, beyond that you owe her NOTHING

[@benjismith593]

My ex gets child support. Court said anything else I give her is a gift. I'll only go buy physical things for my kids. I don't just give her money.

[@brendakipkemoi2738]

This isnt a "money" show this is a "life" show. Thank you Dave Ramsey (and callers). The lessons im learning are keeping me from making so many mistakes in life.

[@sdmarwan]

I can't even believe this guy would even feel any guilt. It speaks to the level of conditioning that men are forced to deal with regarding relationships.

[@MrMpwood12]

Totally agree. He should be paying whatever child support is required which shouldn’t be much. Get his name off of any joint debts and don’t pay her one cent.

[@vaska1999]

It speaks of some psychological issue he needs to resolve.

[@javaskull88]

Guy has a good heart, give him that. I’m glad he called Dave looking for guidance.

[@TacitusR]

"The Simp" is strong with this one.

[@timkebienda1809]

The moral thing is to walk away & never look back!

[@Ericbryanmr]

This guy is such a push over that Dave probably could have talked him in to giving him the rest of his money.

[@violettippet5246]

Oh boy, he is still in love with his ex. Poor guy.

[@sarahbucket8037]

Violet Tippet yah.. I sensed it too.. 😩😭

[@lizwick]

Violet Tippet I think so and also he has low self-stem.

[@zokay1121]

Dirty girls are hard to forget.

[@EyeAmCoa]

Zo Kay 🤣

[@batfleckforever3594]

Bad case of "Oneitis."

[@themistoklestheodosopoulos6253]

His caller's are always so respectful. I love that. Usually on these shows people call up to be wiseguys.

[@kjsmith7472]

Let her life crash and get full custody because she is homeless.

[@mexital1159]

Yes, yes, 👍

[@COINsimp2024]

This also hurts the kids though

[@mikemiller8694]

Yeah speaking from experience that doesn’t work with

[@MsMonaaa14]

Sounds like a good person. But heck no, she cheated, let her new man pay her stuff!

[@DrogoBaggins987]

This guy is messed up but he didn't go back to someone who cheated on him and that's something. I hope that he stays single.

[@esmeraldaparker2137]

Or finds someone that deserves him

[@bonnevillebagger9147]

Esmeralda Macias nope AWALT- all women are like this, sever connections and thrive as an individual.

[@twincherry4958]

She didn't want him back ...if she did, he'd be there. He is still wanting to take care of her.

[@twincherry4958]

@mojonk it's very clear not an assumption

[@FaintAura]

No, he'll be heading back to the plantation unfortunately.

[@PsychicsRfake456]

the saying "nice guys finish last comes to mind"

[@MoFoDaRoad]

This is where being a nice guy gets you.

[@heatherg.2848]

She’s a self sufficient grownup. She can take care of herself. It’s part of being an adult.

[@X9523-z3v]

"I'm independent; support me"

[@hymnodyhands]

This man is going through all the emotions of a true life transformation... it makes you reconsider EVERYTHING, and if there is a deep incident of pain, second guessing is normal and natural. It has only been a year... he still has grief to work through, and possibly love, and he also admitted that before his faith change, there were things he did for which he needs forgiveness for from his wife. He will eventually pass through this stage with the right counsel, and he got it here... he has no obligation beyond his legal ones to his ex-wife, and should build himself up to be the best father he can be to meet the needs of his children. That's enough.

[@margyrowland]

Wake up! Don’t give her anything. Love from Australia 🇦🇺

[@KidCity1985]

Always do what's in the best interest of the children!

[@TShirtAndReeboks]

He sounds like a really nice guy who wants to do all the right things. I'm glad Dave told him to focus on his children. He still sounds traumatized by the whole thing. I hope one day he finds a woman who is his equal in integrity and commitment.

[@X9523-z3v]

Nice guy = sucker

[@mikesayshiTORONTO]

Don’t help her beyond the legal requirements

[@drgjs]

No. Enablement is not a blessing. Reality is the best teacher.

[@onionpotato3396]

Chris, you sound like a good guy who is really suffering, but YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER!

[@sehoujay]

No, he deserves EXACTLY what he got.

[@bradleymaravalli2851]

Just say no dude. I've been there before, you want to do nice things for your ex, but you are doing yourself no favors. Be nice, be cordial, and move on. And invest your time & money into your kids and maybe even your friends, family, hobbies, or a new partner.

[@Articfox_therian293]

partners, when me and my girl broke up it hurt me so bad that i needed 5 women to take her place.

[@CE-vd2px]

@@Articfox_therian293 same

[@twincherry4958]

@@CE-vd2px really?

[@allyyoung3586]

Why do people have to be unkind about this guy. Logically one might say she deserves nothing from him...but love is something that often defies logic. Give him a break..

[@nickgold7853]

Moral crisis notwithstanding, once trust is broken between a couple, it is nearly impossible to repair things with a former spouse unless that spouse is willing to show good faith in return. This gentleman is not obligated to pay towards bad behavior.

[@obits3]

Here’s some practical advice: if you have any legal obligations to pay her (settlement, alimony, child support), stack up cash so you have enough to pay the full term of all debts. The stack of cash is needed to make sure you don’t get thrown in jail by a court for failing to pay. Only then can you consider being charitable (although I wouldn’t help a cheater out).

[@jeremywheeler8417]

Don't be a pushover. She gave up a good thing with you. Give her directions to the soup kitchen.

[@amorestperpe]

It's crazy how much of a difficult time people have answering straight forward questions

[@shanewillis2072]

Lol, I agree. Sometimes Dave seems a little condescending but with guys like this, I guess you have to speak slowly and treat them like children.

[@diegolatorre2628]

My daughter is 23, Sha hasn't talked to me since she was 14, she has had a step father, I paid child support until she turned 22. She has lived overseas since she was 7. Why am I being bullied to give her the little I have, which I need myself? Sounds like robbery to me! The answer is NO! And the more am bullied, the NOer it is.

[@rogers5622]

That ex wife should have asked for money from the men she was laying on her back for😏

[@Samantha28_56]

kay Jack right! shady b*tch 🙄

[@CerronPritchett]

kay Jack right they got what they wanted she couldn’t get any money from them only the sucker that she married.

[@jakemf1]

kay Jack boom

[@adelb7897]

She doesn't deserve a penny from any man actually.

[@robedmund9948]

Worked for Kamal Harris. ;-)

[@asaptenebrae2240]

Where was her morality when she cheated on him?

[@dazd112881]

I would tell your ex-wife that you will handle any of the children"s physical needs and she will be responsible for her expenses except for what is agreed upon in the divorce paperwork.

[@pvaz]

I'd ask for paternity tests before anything else.

[@-Nick-T]

hearing the stress in his voice makes me wonder how hes doin now.

[@scbane]

With 50/50 custody, this man should not be giving her child support at all. If she can't support her children during her time with them, then he should have full custody and she should pay him child support. Equality.

[@thereselastname9197]

He has no obligation to her only their kids.

[@TT-nh2od]

I like this guy, she sounds like a horrible person.

[@deesee3622]

would like him better if he wasn't so pathetic

[@SpookyTimestamps]

@@deesee3622 you sound fun...

[@devyn5174]

Susan Dee here, have some empathy.

[@holidayholly7446]

You're only hearing one side of the story.

[@ardie0582]

He is turning the other cheeck, and loves/cares for those who hate him. He is not bitter. His behavior tells me he truly tries to follow our Lord Jesus Christ. Respect for NOT answering evil with evil!

[@nonyabiz9340]

Honestly didn't know if Dave would tell him to support her since that seems like his style.

[@geraldtisch1007]

The fact this guy is even pondering and calling in to ask Dave about this, is probably emblematic to why his wife was cheating on him.

[@Smullet90]

I love that in America a man has to ask what his moral obligation is to his cheating ex wife. Imagine a woman asking that same question lol

[@Woopssloop]

@@busyant2944 um did you see the title and listen to it? It’s supporting the ex wife.

[@gayled3059]

They do exist. I know.

[@rajsel8761]

IMAGINE; key word...

[@drummergeorge9642]

I've been single for a while now and I enjoy it more than being in a relationship. I date but I do not have to finance a women's life, nope.

[@imbadrotten5333]

I can't agree more!I'm a single guy and do have a lady friend or two to make the movies and dinner more fun a times.But a committed relationship? Not so much for me right now at least. I'll cook my own meals,wash my own laundry,and clean my own home.When a truly amazing lady comes along willing to prove herself as I will in return that may change.For now,the fun of a drama free life I'll keep.

[@RK-ve4xp]

@@user-ik5gf5xs1z lol

[@Garo10]

same here bro ! I got 3 girls on rotation no feelings attached, not spending a dime on none of them, but they do spend money on me, feels good watching them getting out of their cars with a bag full of take out food 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[@atrain132]

Why would someone call into a radio show to ask this question?

[@jimcole6423]

She is probably viscous with the kids. Against you! Beware of Pathogenic Parenting. You don't owe her. Anything. She committed adultery. Against you.

[@adama5929]

No. If she needed your support, she should have been a good person and remained in the marriage.

[@lashandaeller4821]

Uh, no! What is wrong with him? She sounds like a horrible person and she had no moral obligation to be faithful to him. I would pay child support, whatever I owe her from the decree, make sure I had a savings account for my children and that is it. I would not give her a penny more. Let her man pay her bills.

[@formula112967]

Sadly LaShanda, All Women Are Like That, or AWALT for short.

[@brandiphillips5775]

@@formula112967 I feel sorry for you. All that misguided hate is such a waste of energy.

[@treelover1050]

@@formula112967 ALL WOMEN ARE NOT LIKE THAT.

[@Eyeris625]

dude, take the advise and run away from her...she will USE YOU and you will not know it. Seek counseling on how to let go of the ex

[@thefrugallife-withmercedes7718]

If the court isn't ordering you to pay... then the answer is nope!

[@kathiearcher3001]

I've been listening to dave for a while and trying to put into practice what he teaches my problem is every time I start to get ahead something comes up to take my $1,000, ps i know it's the devil. It's the one step ahead and two steps back. But I'm not giving up no matter what. I feel like JOB.

[@PiggyPickem]

Kathie Archer it gets better. I was there for a season. Keep pushing and keep having faith and you will be able to tell your story as a testimony on the other side of this season.

[@DiscoFang]

It shows you how powerful that $1,000 is to have there, ready. Without it there each time, you would be so much worse off. There is not much better grounding for the soul than being prepared. The emergencies get further and farther between.

[@RiggyRonnie]

Don't help her bro. She didn't help you. She helped some other dude though.

[@lisavaden9903]

He sounds like a good man.. they are so hard to found these days.

[@notsofatmike1]

This is where all the good men have gone lol. Women take advantage of them and they end up like this.

[@morlandoemtp]

Dude if you read this, get out of debt, get your emergency fund, and go find a better woman to spend money on.

[@pedronavaja8794]

No, don't spend your money on a woman, period.

[@RealSerie26]

Or stay single and watch your money grow!

[@isaacmiraldi9168]

Serie26 that’s what sad people say lol

[@e.honchoo9596]

Brando McJesus fr😂

[@dortiz81706]

Why I rather be sad then Miserable

[@bee3027]

She is a cheater, would only do what I am supposed to do for the children.

[@wifeoftheparty9839]

This guy is WAY too nice

[@ETube37]

Simpin aint easy

[@76tennboy]

I can’t figure out why people keep calling about being “morally obligated” who cares about being morally obligated! Are you legally obligated is the question that’s all that matters when it comes to money are you legally required to do this yes or no?

[@arodgefan589]

How tf is custody 50-50 if she cheated?

[@tiffanyjohnson1676]

I would love to meet a man like this 😍 He is a such a caring soul. When will good people fall in love with good people.

[@2-old-Forthischet]

It's too late but you needed a better attorney. When I was divorced, I gladly paid the alimony but I fought for primary custody of our son which I got.

[@orangeboy97]

answer.... no!

[@MrPreacher8770]

no they are x for a reason, you dont owe them anything

[@sherrid5315]

Ok my ex never let me work he was the one running around I am disabled so his fault I always wanted work part time! Still could not make it so I can only work part time ! So I was awarded until I die or remarry not my fault he was jealous afraid I find someone new! He ran around I DIDN’T WORKS BOTH WAYS

[@khadijahwashington168]

This is painful to listen to and I smell low self esteem, Iam not surprised at her infidelity he probably does know the half!!poor. Man

[@elmoomle4565]

An ex-wife that 'cheated' on you is no longer under your 'headship'. Ergo, no reason to help/support/care or otherwise bestow any blessing to this unfaithful woman. And all of the above is Scriptural.

[@DividendFiend]

Nothing moral about divorce, therefore don't bother helping her.

[@imabeef]

If it was me I wouldn’t give her a dime!😂

[@WCGwkf]

Why can't people answer simple questions

[@AJ-ox8xy]

Dude have some sympathy? His wife at the time cheated on him and she is being unreasonable with him, not to mention he has to fight his emotions as he really loved this woman as it was not him who cheated. He said he was a bit emotional so his mind is somewhat all over the place. Dave did a great job keeping him on track and in the end everything was answered and done.

[@messyties]

Nerves from being recorded

[@greenearthblueskies8556]

Emotional

[@willk8687]

You are not morally obligated to her in anyway ... if she needs financial support she should ask the person who she cheated on her husband with.

[@blank_801]

I am 48 seconds into this video and the answer is NO. F*** NO. That woman should get nothing from him

[@robedmund9948]

She cheated on you, and YOU have a moral quandary thinking you should help her? DUDE! No! You have ZERO obligation to help her.

[@charlottedavis221]

I'm really concerned about the idea of a cashless society! I've worked all my life and have saved a good amount of cash. It is not in any bank, I was wondering what to do with my cash stash if this Cashless Society comes to existence! I have worked and paid taxes on this money and have a real problem with the government telling me what to do with it! Any suggestions?

[@ronnieking3848]

It won't happen. No cash transactions penalize the poor. Also, if you need to order something or pay by cc...get a Vanilla Visa gift card from Walmart or Walgreens. You can put up to $1000 on one.

[@catherinewilke5583]

I haven’t even listened and my answer is hell to the no ! Pay the child support and be done with it

[@edben24]

This guy is a perfect example of why Dave's view on marriage could get men in trouble.

[@EEEEEEE354]

People shouldn't get married period

[@mrfred1000]

I don't see how. Dave's view on marriage is the traditional view on marriage people have been doing for thousands of years. Man works, woman stays home, take vows, no divorce, forgiveness not stupidity, Counseling, Man calls the shots, woman submits, husband has his role Wife has her role. What's the issue here? All the proper Married couples are living happily under this. The only time it's a problem is when someone ain't doing what they are suppose to be doing. How many times you hear of somebody getting Married 2,3,4,5 times. It don't work because the couple don't work. People aren't choosing who they Marry wisely it's more of "I like this person, we're adults, let's get married" that's not how you determine who to Marry. Are you both on the same page? Do you both agree on how to raise children? Are you both like minded on spirituality (Same religion)? are you both like minded on money? Are you both like minded on who rules the house? Is the woman wife material (Great care giver, partner, trustworthy, helper, loving etc.) and the man wife material? Strong leader, merciful, loving, hard worker etc.) Men who whine about traditional view of marriage tend to not be married or don't understand marriage, and women who whine about the traditional view of marriage tend to not be married or don't understand it either. On the chance that they are married, there are all sorts of outside influences in the marriage that cause problems because the ideas clash, it don't work ie. the caller doesn't seem like a strong leader based on his demeanor and tone and she definitely was not trustworthy as she committed adultery. Looks like they weren't on the same page, these things aren't mysteries, that's why you date and you ask and you watch then you love then you marry.

[@mexital1159]

@@mrfred1000 that's great in fantasy land. Fact is, because of the way divorce and family courts are set up, as soon as she feels froggy it is over for the guy. Women make horrible life choices based on emotion; therefore they are supposed to submit to men who make decisions based on facts and reason. The court system reverses these roles. Only the stupid would you marry under these circumstances.

[@DiscoFang]

@@mrfred1000 Not sure which Dave you've been listening to but pretty much across the board with his advice... "Wife gets a job!"

[@colorfulcodes]

Depends. The longest lasting marrages in the country happen to be wealthy educated people 🤷🏾‍♀️ divorce rate increases with age gap, marriage 25 and under, no college degree and low income. If someone checks off those chances of divorce are about 30%

[@smcpeek61]

I would sign the car over to her to avoid any legal obligation if she doesnt pay.

[@hondah35]

Not possible until the loan is paid off in most states. Most states won't even give you access to the title until all liens are fulfilled.

[@edgehodl4832]

No wonder she cheated on him, the guy has zero self respect. I mean, he called in to ASK if he has moral obligation to support his cheatin ex wife? Doormat

[@dannysze8183]

I really think that it is good to stay single and know your potential spouse carefully before one get married and have kids. Marriage can be a biggest financial and emotional disaster for one person.

[@laurenrosario5702]

at first I really thought he said his walk with cheeze-its. I should probably eat something

[@HistoryandConspiracies29]

You're fine

[@jeremywheeler8417]

Wanna share some cheese-its with me?

[@DiscoFang]

Walking is fine. It's when your life is spent sitting with cheeze-its that you should reflect on diet choices.

[@kidcitylynnwood6324]

He needs to pay what the divorce papers say. That's it.

[@jdl2180]

Would she help you with your bills? NO 😂

[@uncommonbg]

You can understand why he would ask such a question from the fact that he apologizes so much. Why would somebody even think about helping a person, who cheated on them? Just take care of your children and get on with building your wealth.

[@burntblonde2925]

He definitely didn’t come prepared for questions. He should focus on himself, and his kids.

[@frankrizzo4778]

There’s a reason there called your EX👍🏻

[@ripwins]

He still loves her🤦🏾‍♂️

[@EyeAmCoa]

moneyrip1 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ripwins]

@@EyeAmCoa 😂🤣😂

[@avatargoat1514]

Help her by taking full custody of your kids

[@AJ-ox8xy]

I think he should offer to have the kids stay with him so it shares the responsibility a little more while giving her the time to get back on her feet with work. This way he knows his kids are being cared for and his ex-wife can take care of herself instead of him trying to do it all, which would be unfair. He does seem like a good guy and he obviously was a victim in this rather then the perpetrator, but there needs to be some understanding on her part that she is responsible, from now on , for her life.