Amara La Negra Says She Will Follow Her Mom's Footsteps To Become A Single Mother

[@MrAsharrison]

Parenting was never meant to be done alone. You’re right, our morals are all out of whack, to say the least.

[@Moonewitch]

It surely wasn't! I can admit that I couldn't be a single mother.

[@frostempress4176]

Modern day feminism is destroying logical thinking in most of these women.Who in the hell thinks about finding a step daddy while pregnant? Man this BACKWARDS THINKING needs to be stopped.🤦🏾‍♀️

[@MADNEWYORKER914]

Feminism is poisonous!!!

[@frostempress4176]

@I that’s a good joke 😂

[@godzilla6490]

THANK YOU

[@historiqueafricaine]

I agree with you

[@jarvismanning3183]

Ladies don't believe in the stats. A two parent home is best for the child. So sad.

[@kameishasdragon2206]

I agree a stable two parent home is definitely best. Both parents need to emotional ly mature enough to raise children to be productive members of society.

[@vulcan2050ful]

exactly!

[@jasminejohnson2687]

Lawd why we glorifying single parent household. Mothers and fathers are needed 2 parent household especially in our community.

[@rain1676]

I'm guessing your my new family.

[@brianaalston4041]

I don't really follow this show but this was one of the best points I've ever heard. "If a man will not give you his last name then don't open up your legs and bear a child with them", that statement sent chills down my spine.

[@nikkiahanks7565]

If your relationship is rocky with the man then you shouldn't have any children with that man who has a rocky relationship with you.

[@laurenreed4290]

She been knew damn well that man didn’t want to be with her. You don’t just decide to be a single mother; you chose to be with a man who’s not fully committed to you and your twins have to suffer from your recklessness. She’s 31 years old acting like this is her biggest accomplishment in her life, and that’s the sick mentality we have in the black community. It’s too many happy single mothers who didn’t even give their relationship a chance for it to be healthy. Then, these are the same black women who sit online and call other black women who want healthy relationships and families “pick mes”.

[@KakouAmon2]

@Kirsten A pretty sure he meant she is part of the ones calling out other black women who want healthy relationships

[@laurenreed4290]

@@KakouAmon2 huh? No that’s not what I meant. I said these are the same black women who love to call other black women pick mes for wanting a healthy relationship and a healthy family.

[@laurenreed4290]

@Kirsten A he’s just as guilty for impregnating her, but cmon, when you have this mindset that you want to be a single mother by any means necessary, then what can you say about the father?

[@KakouAmon2]

@@laurenreed4290 That’s literally what I said…

[@mztazh08]

Hormones are kicking in! She saying that now but trust and believe she’s going to need someone and mom isn’t going to always be there

[@rain1676]

Can you help her?

[@mztazh08]

@@rain1676 😂😂😂

[@gilvettab222]

Phil, I don't know where we as a society have gotten away from the institution of marriage and then children. Why would any woman "want to be" a single mother? We, as a community have went @$$ backward.

[@ThePhillipScottShow]

I don’t know either Sis.

[@fread51]

Feminism

[@alvinsquezz]

They should blame the government & (femini$t$) for lying and brainwashing them. By telling them females that they’re better off without men in their lives.

[@tali259]

@@vienicestyles6122 Eh ... naw she actually chose this.

[@lajoyw9690]

🎯💯💯

[@marvl6472]

KeKe Palmer just said she glad she grew up in two parent home..Amara now wants to be like what she grew up seeing at home..this strong independence programming(for those who love it and on the child support hustle) is ridiculous and children are picking it up..

[@crencottrell7849]

Such a beautiful woman; this is sad

[@atlhawksfan9330]

I work with a 30-something year old black woman. She’s a nice person, she keeps herself up, and very easy to talk with. She also has 3 kids from 3 different men and *TOLD* me that she has slept with *4 DIFFERENT MEN AT WORK!* But she has the nerve to tell me that it’s hard to find a man. I got nothing against her and when we talk I can truly feel her pain and sadness, but she brought that on herself.😔

[@boobahyah5841]

👀👀👀👀

[@nikar8125]

A lot of them choose bad men have children with a bad man then blame ALL men for not finding a good suitor.

[@looknbakatu]

self esteem issues.😔

[@MADNEWYORKER914]

@@nikar8125 And if they do find a good man, they end up disrespecting him and treating him bad.

[@racqueenus]

I love my mother, but growing up I wish she allowed my father to lead the household. She raised my brothers to be dependent on her and I'm always treated like a step child. God created man as the head of the household, not the woman.

[@staciestephenson622]

I've heard of millennial fathers that will pay for wig weave, hair, nails, bags and trips YET not in the home to do homework

[@nikkiahanks7565]

Shout out to her bringing up the topic of colorism in Latin America.

[@brianaalston4041]

This is by far one of the best talks I've heard on KZbin and Phillip you hit the nail on the head in every aspect of the conversation, you definitely have a new fan in me!

[@priscamolotsi]

Phillip Scott speaks THE TRUTH 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@michaelholmes562]

Amen Phil.......it is truly destroying all communities have all these single mothers

[@cindy_rn8348]

I couldn't agree more with Phil. I grew up in a single parent home. My Mother had 4 children and EVERYTHING was on her. I'm so grateful ❤️ my Mom was a strong person she hung in there and tried her best, but I know maybe if I didn't have a piece of 💩 for a Dad maybe some of those butt whippings I would not have received. I love my Mom but as a kid, I knew I never wanted to be a single parent, I'm not that strong. I'm so blessed, my Daughter is so blessed, and everything that Phil spoke of I've been able to experience. My husband and I walk together through this journey, it's a blessing not to have to do it alone.

[@JMoney2886]

Why would she do that to her children, knowing how torn she was about her own father not being present. She cried over him damn near every episode and her parents hate each other's guts! Children are most successful in life with two active parents in the household. Her daughters may grow up with the same hole that she had and she CHOSE to give it to them. Generational trauma!

[@philiptemidara9456]

You nailed it. She doesn't know any other way, since her whole upbringing has taught her not to know what a Stand up quality Man looks like.

[@eh-ym3ws]

Hey Phil. It was sad to here this coming from Amara because I am sure there are so many young women out here that look up to her. So now they are going to think this is a proper way to raise a child. Unfortunately this is the world we are living in, I believe this is one of the main goals that Kevin Samuel tries to express to a lot of these women but they just don't get it. They are too bothered by how he is giving the message. Hopefully they will here your message. This is so disappointing every time I hear it , it make me want to cringe. This is happening so much in our community this is becoming the norm. These women just don't get that this is destroying our community in so many ways for both boys and girls. These kids need both parents for so many reasons. Phil love your content, keep up the good work.

[@joybrooks564]

Tell them Uncle Phil,,,As a child from a single parent home, I can testify I would have been happier well rounded person if I had a dad in the home

[@racqueenus]

Hmmmmm it's hard being a single parent. Father's are extremely important.

[@karimbennett5651]

Somebody needs to deliver this message to Nick Cannon, going around creating multiple single parent households.

[@ksdebrisremoval7097]

He didn't do it by himself. It took two. The women he got pregnant are equally responsible.

[@aceace4660]

One person does NOT have the Emotional Currency to fully be physically and emotionally available for a child who is composed of TWO sets of Chromosomes, one which is DIFFERENT from the Single Parent. You do not raise Men who will run the world, or Women who won’t chase Father figures, without A Male Warrior in their life to cherish and Mimic.

[@nicky6579]

You speak truth my brotha. Fathers are a MUST in a child's life.

[@ladydi4793]

Every single mother hasn’t raised their child(ren) in hardship. A lot of women who have everything they want except for a child, chooses to have their child alone. THEIR CHOICE. How about the men take charge and make sure he doesn’t ejaculate into a female to avoid pregnancy altogether? She can only get pregnant with his deposit. IJS

[@spicymamamccaleb5747]

Where I come from women NEVER choose to be single mothers, so I don’t know why this beautiful queen is going to choose that for her baby. I really hope she reconsider cuz that’s no life to live.

[@zurilee7027]

OMG! You are hitting the nail on the head! It's soooo sad!!! This hurt so much hearing this again and again!!!

[@samuelmahmud1909]

Great video coverage Philip she can make that statement that you want to raise her children along cuz that's what the agenda pushed in the black community you're strong independent black woman you don't need no man and it's a known fact that no other group pushes an agenda

[@GREATBLACKSHARK]

*@ThePhillipScottShow:* Sadly,there's a segment of women out here across all income brackets that don't even understand that raising children is a two parent job. *They choose to give the greatest gift to men that won't even do them the honor of making them their wives.* I hope the younger women today are watching the foolish decisions of these older women like Rihanna,& Amara Le Negra. They have a chance to not go down that road.

[@saonedixon5476]

It's weird that some women would wanna become single mothers. What about how That child will feel not knowing what it's like to have a father in there life. So sad for the babies man.

[@theblackestbeauty]

Facts!!! They could look just like their dad and act just like him. I’ve heard a lot of people that don’t get along with their mom because she hates their dad. Looking like ya damn daddy! Amara need to sit her beautiful ass down. Go make plans to co-parent or something.

[@rain1676]

Sorry

[@ruachpneuma5638]

She slept with a dude that wasn't ready for commitment 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

[@blessedrain2630]

If the man wants his parental rights . I'm sure he probably can go to court and petition for access to the kids so it may not be up to her . That's so selfish to the child the child wants a relationship with the father .

[@sbolden123]

Single parent households should be an exception not the rule 🤦‍♂️😤

[@RaYdAwG005]

I've known so many women who wish they didn't have to be a single mother. They wish they didn't have to do it alone. What woman in their right mind would willingly sign up to be a single mother?? It's stupid!

[@chrischristopher6038]

EXACTLY PHIL 👍🏿I think a lot of these celebrities have made relationships a SPORT and that's crazy/selfish when children are involved, even MORE CRAZY when these FANS that look up to them follow that behavior 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@Malouco]

SHE GOING TO BLOCK HER WAY TO THE TOP GOODLUCK GIRL I WATCH FROM HERE

[@gabyj5562]

Yeah I raised my twins by myself and had really bad postpartum depression and anxiety a lot. Thank goodness I got help from his family and my family as well. I never brought strange men around my kids either because my main focus are my children and their safety as well.

[@debravan1167]

Kids needs 2 parent households. Stop getting knocked up by men who don’t want to be fathers or be your husband

[@Moonewitch]

I would've never had a child outside of wedlock. Never. I wouldn't have what it takes to be a single parent.

[@MJ-xj2tz]

Also let's talk about Nic Cannon how many kids now he wants Mariah back.

[@RillaLord32212]

Stupid is what stupid does... Just being pretty doesn't give you a pass to be lazy.. Child support shouldn't be considered a source of income for people... smh

[@sabrinahoskins7907]

Real talk uncle Phil!

[@mukumtagara7100]

I was a single mother and had my children with men that I should not have because of my lack of thinking and decision making...sex is more than an act it is also meant to create offspring and because we as women have to give more thought to who we choose as partners and as Uncle Phil said not putting the cart before the horse

[@Otaku_Love-c3r]

Your value has a woman goes down in the dating market when you have a child or multiple children. No high value man's(who don't have children)is going to get with a woman who got 2 kids by another man. The best thing Amara can do is to get with a man who already got kids Or a high value man who already got kids and blend families together like the Brady bunch.

[@nikkiahanks7565]

If that person is not worth your last name then don't have any children with that person all & move on with your life.

[@terrell1896]

The Phillip Scott Show I thought being a single mother in Latin America is looked down upon

[@cutiepie6796]

IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH HIM THAT'S COOL, BUT SHE CAN'T TAKE THE CHILD FROM HIM, THAT'STHAT HIS CHILD AS WELL

[@rainclouds1188]

Phil, Phil, LMBO..."Why are you pregnant and over here!"...keeping it 100, tell'em Phil!!!

[@stevenphelps7929]

Just cheating her kid out real parents father guidance, and protection. This is killing blacks today. We must be strong and united.

[@WellnessEpisodes]

Best advice worth sharing!

[@blackbelle90s]

I definitely agree with what you are saying but I also see the flip side of it as well. I also believe if a woman has a great village of men and women around her for support to bring a child into this world then that child can beat the stats...IJS.

[@rangerwalker5369]

Feminism At A All Time High, You Sistas STILL Don’t Get It⁉️ 🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏾💯

[@Jae-xs6xy]

💕 Mommie hold your head up and God blessed you with 2 beautiful babies 👶

[@dc9345]

I love Amara La Negra she's beautiful sister.

[@brwnsugga24]

Some women are single mothers because their spouse has died.. so they should not go on to find another spouse?

[@daniella8400]

That’s not the case for most

[@pc-ji1zy]

Theoretically yes. But, that is a widow at that point.

[@jahkarimirza7286]

A lot of the nm choose to be single mothers by running off the father.

[@Aberamentho2010]

Why is your focus on less than .1% of single mothers ? Wouldn't it be better to focus on the problem the other 99.9% are facing?

[@KBBoomin]

That’s the exception, we’re discussing the majority.

[@MissCPix]

Morality…the conversation no one wants to have. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@AGODsoldier]

I think they like to tell stories like I raised my child by myself, no help, I’m a strong black women. They not realizing that nobody gives a damn but the child, who suffers the choice.

[@paulmorris6316]

Keep speaking the Truth Brother Phil 👏🏾

[@jacobsdescendant4240]

Dysfunctional Madness! And you wonder why these children come out broken and continue the generational Curses ! WHEN WILL WE LEARN!

[@gisellegeorge6184]

Y'all think this was by choice. No woman chooses hardship for them and their child/children. The children's father didn't step up.

[@nathanielcox3720]

And you honestly think it was his fault and his fault only ? You dont think she had any hand in this situation.

[@cozettegaye4834]

I agree! 100% that's how I grew up. My parents, til death did they part. I have no children cause I would not settle for less.

[@cinnamon3220]

Surprisingly...beautiful, beautiful women have real self-esteem issues. When you're strong and have self-esteem you won't put yourself in a situation deliberately knowing that you will be a single mother. On the other hand, I also believe if a man doesn't want to be bothered with his own children then it's safer to be a single mother and let him go.

[@rosestulips8440]

So mommy, ima bastard? Yes sweetheart. I chose that for you.

[@MADNEWYORKER914]

These women have lost their damn minds!!! She's not the only one who said that. Rihanna said the same thing a few months ago.

[@bigh8121]

In Quebec custody can be 50/50. If it is so, no child support for either party.

[@mariehill8734]

The most beautiful women suffer from low self esteem.

[@marthaingram4621]

I agree with you on that! That’s 100

[@TheDimonddoll2001]

What happens when you divorce and still end up a single parent?

[@emmanuelallen4376]

That would be the fault of the parents

[@TheDimonddoll2001]

@@emmanuelallen4376 True although he doesn't take that into consideration nor does it talk about the death of one parent

[@KBBoomin]

That’s the exception, we’re discussing the majority.

[@TheDimonddoll2001]

@@KBBoomin I guess the point I'm trying to make is no one knows why people make choices for their lives but should be respected

[@robinnewton1061]

Absolutely right Mr. Scott.

[@sincerelyyurrs]

PREACH UNCLE PHIL!!!!

[@francesfinney8188]

She must think being a single parent is glamorous.

[@trinitodabone1987]

Very good commentary!

[@gloricebradley9360]

Brother Phil you are right again…💕

[@nancybreaux9684]

Women have to do better job protecting their minds, bodies and spirit.

[@SassyCarolinaNative]

Amen Phil! Amen!

[@dthrust9037]

Parents today are so selfish. Even 20 years ago black people never INTENTIONALLY went out and had broken families at least intentionally

[@anthonywest7583]

AMARA LA NEGRA IS BREATHTAKING!

[@quin8463]

I agree but nothing will guarantee someone from leaving you and the mother is still stuck with the children. 9 out of 10

[@SwitchinLanez720]

It's a cause and effect...this is the effect from the cause of Ws

[@prettylyricsmarie]

Sometimes the birth control fails, and maybe it failed here.

[@prettylyricsmarie]

@Rita Johnson It is stupid birth control failed? It's not 100 percent.

[@leonrobinson8180]

@@prettylyricsmarie Stop making excuses for her! If a woman doesn't want to give birth, nothing can make her. Far too many birth control options

[@APD089191]

@@leonrobinson8180 Really? How so ?

[@prettylyricsmarie]

@@leonrobinson8180 That isn't an excuse. Have you ever worked in a facility where women are considering their options, when there birth control failed? Adoption, single motherhood, or abortion? I think not.

[@leonrobinson8180]

@@prettylyricsmarie I've seen dumpster with less rubbish than you. There's always abortion. You're a single mother aren't you?

[@janiceparkerson4727]

You are one in a million Uncle Phil.

[@mobilemworks]

-- No Phil. You are not the bad guy at all. Her freely dating like this, can create many problems for the children. Particularly with them not having the Protection of their flesh and blood father at home, available and ever present to deter potential Predators. -- It literally is an Animal Kingdom out in the world amongst human beings. -- In the wild, Males Lions can, and will take out their Rival's cubs.. usually.

[@tiwonnasims8206]

Phil your speaking fact Gods way always work if you do thing according even when its hard

[@jonathanjohnson9910]

The reason why most date pregnant women is cause the know that there's no possible alternative for a hit and get.... I've seen this plenty of times.

[@kingeddy1645]

The crazy part is that the stepdad sees the kids more than the real dad.

[@nastashagardner7587]

100 true love most of uncle's opinions

[@nikkiahanks7565]

Two children is even worse! Because she's going to be stuck with those children all the time.😭☹

[@nonologylol]

Nope, she is rich

[@trolleybee5515]

She probably has no choice because she chooses crappy men to get knocked up by.

[@lindsaygoins8725]

brother you are so right

[@noname-gu6ho]

Phil so old fashion its good he have me cracking up.

[@MsTrish3520]

I agree with you 1000%

[@davejones3053]

Said this before I dont know what.turns black woman on about being a single mother they literally enjoy the hardships of being a.single mom

[@ewc8848]

To Phillip Scott: I know who the father is..Cindy Lauper's son is the father. But anyway, this is not the worst detail in the story. Childrens with no father can cause a lot of issues.

[@Moonewitch]

Really???

[@ewc8848]

@@Moonewitch Unfortunately, yes, really!

[@Moonewitch]

@@ewc8848 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jamesblunt1915]

Single motherhood what a beautiful thing 🙄

[@kikipearce]

I don't understand why people care so much about other people's life choices. It's not like anyone commenting on here is going to help this woman out in any way, shape or form.

[@gigismith8696]

Look, she is like a lot of females (I said a lot, not most). She would prefer to be with him, but it ain't working. She said what she said because that's how she was raised and it's a common scenario...not really a preferred one. She is bracing herself for what she sees as the inevitable, at least she is realistic! It does not mean the child will never know thier father.It's nice to say what she SHOULD do, but we have seen this story over and over, and a lot of us are products of it. She can still find a stellar step dad down the road...so remember your own glass house before throwing that rock 🤔

[@GreenOrchid9]

Men you have to do better...set better examples your boys mental, physical and social health🤔 leaving young babies with struggling mothers to rise to doing double duty without a name is a shame!!😱🤕😷😥

[@guyfawkes9252]

Well how about you submit and stop being combative and actually use your brain to choose suitable mates. There are black men who would love to meet you but you have to let that sister hood bull go out the window. Be accountable and responsible, your gender raised these men and destroyed them,

[@BChan1991]

Sure Blame the black guy for women that literally refuse to cooperate Sure

[@GreenOrchid9]

@@guyfawkes9252 your handle says a lot about you. By the way I am not born nor raised in the whatever you call or live in hood... sisterhood is a call to often help each other in need...any further stereotype you care to call me🤔 look at the "man"in the mirror...read what u wrote🐉

[@lstan444]

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