Parenting was never meant to be done alone. You’re right, our morals are all out of whack, to say the least.
@Moonewitch2 жыл бұрын
It surely wasn't! I can admit that I couldn't be a single mother.
@frostempress41762 жыл бұрын
Modern day feminism is destroying logical thinking in most of these women.Who in the hell thinks about finding a step daddy while pregnant? Man this BACKWARDS THINKING needs to be stopped.🤦🏾♀️
@MADNEWYORKER9142 жыл бұрын
Feminism is poisonous!!!
@frostempress41762 жыл бұрын
@I that’s a good joke 😂
@godzilla64902 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU
@historiqueafricaine Жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@jarvismanning31832 жыл бұрын
Ladies don't believe in the stats. A two parent home is best for the child. So sad.
@kameishasdragon22062 жыл бұрын
I agree a stable two parent home is definitely best. Both parents need to emotional ly mature enough to raise children to be productive members of society.
@vulcan2050ful2 жыл бұрын
exactly!
@jasminejohnson26872 жыл бұрын
Lawd why we glorifying single parent household. Mothers and fathers are needed 2 parent household especially in our community.
@rain16762 жыл бұрын
I'm guessing your my new family.
@brianaalston40412 жыл бұрын
I don't really follow this show but this was one of the best points I've ever heard. "If a man will not give you his last name then don't open up your legs and bear a child with them", that statement sent chills down my spine.
@nikkiahanks75652 жыл бұрын
If your relationship is rocky with the man then you shouldn't have any children with that man who has a rocky relationship with you.
@laurenreed42902 жыл бұрын
She been knew damn well that man didn’t want to be with her. You don’t just decide to be a single mother; you chose to be with a man who’s not fully committed to you and your twins have to suffer from your recklessness. She’s 31 years old acting like this is her biggest accomplishment in her life, and that’s the sick mentality we have in the black community. It’s too many happy single mothers who didn’t even give their relationship a chance for it to be healthy. Then, these are the same black women who sit online and call other black women who want healthy relationships and families “pick mes”.
@KakouAmon22 жыл бұрын
@Kirsten A pretty sure he meant she is part of the ones calling out other black women who want healthy relationships
@laurenreed42902 жыл бұрын
@@KakouAmon2 huh? No that’s not what I meant. I said these are the same black women who love to call other black women pick mes for wanting a healthy relationship and a healthy family.
@laurenreed42902 жыл бұрын
@Kirsten A he’s just as guilty for impregnating her, but cmon, when you have this mindset that you want to be a single mother by any means necessary, then what can you say about the father?
@KakouAmon22 жыл бұрын
@@laurenreed4290 That’s literally what I said…
@mztazh082 жыл бұрын
Hormones are kicking in! She saying that now but trust and believe she’s going to need someone and mom isn’t going to always be there
@rain16762 жыл бұрын
Can you help her?
@mztazh082 жыл бұрын
@@rain1676 😂😂😂
@gilvettab2222 жыл бұрын
Phil, I don't know where we as a society have gotten away from the institution of marriage and then children. Why would any woman "want to be" a single mother? We, as a community have went @$$ backward.
@ThePhillipScottShow2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know either Sis.
@fread512 жыл бұрын
Feminism
@alvinsquezz2 жыл бұрын
They should blame the government & (femini$t$) for lying and brainwashing them. By telling them females that they’re better off without men in their lives.
@tali2592 жыл бұрын
@@vienicestyles6122 Eh ... naw she actually chose this.
@lajoyw96902 жыл бұрын
🎯💯💯
@marvl64722 жыл бұрын
KeKe Palmer just said she glad she grew up in two parent home..Amara now wants to be like what she grew up seeing at home..this strong independence programming(for those who love it and on the child support hustle) is ridiculous and children are picking it up..
@crencottrell78492 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful woman; this is sad
@atlhawksfan93302 жыл бұрын
I work with a 30-something year old black woman. She’s a nice person, she keeps herself up, and very easy to talk with. She also has 3 kids from 3 different men and *TOLD* me that she has slept with *4 DIFFERENT MEN AT WORK!* But she has the nerve to tell me that it’s hard to find a man. I got nothing against her and when we talk I can truly feel her pain and sadness, but she brought that on herself.😔
@boobahyah58412 жыл бұрын
👀👀👀👀
@nikar81252 жыл бұрын
A lot of them choose bad men have children with a bad man then blame ALL men for not finding a good suitor.
@looknbakatu2 жыл бұрын
self esteem issues.😔
@MADNEWYORKER9142 жыл бұрын
@@nikar8125 And if they do find a good man, they end up disrespecting him and treating him bad.
@racqueenus2 жыл бұрын
I love my mother, but growing up I wish she allowed my father to lead the household. She raised my brothers to be dependent on her and I'm always treated like a step child. God created man as the head of the household, not the woman.
@staciestephenson6222 жыл бұрын
I've heard of millennial fathers that will pay for wig weave, hair, nails, bags and trips YET not in the home to do homework
@nikkiahanks75652 жыл бұрын
Shout out to her bringing up the topic of colorism in Latin America.
@brianaalston40412 жыл бұрын
This is by far one of the best talks I've heard on KZbin and Phillip you hit the nail on the head in every aspect of the conversation, you definitely have a new fan in me!
@priscamolotsi2 жыл бұрын
Phillip Scott speaks THE TRUTH 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@michaelholmes5622 жыл бұрын
Amen Phil.......it is truly destroying all communities have all these single mothers
@cindy_rn83482 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more with Phil. I grew up in a single parent home. My Mother had 4 children and EVERYTHING was on her. I'm so grateful ❤️ my Mom was a strong person she hung in there and tried her best, but I know maybe if I didn't have a piece of 💩 for a Dad maybe some of those butt whippings I would not have received. I love my Mom but as a kid, I knew I never wanted to be a single parent, I'm not that strong. I'm so blessed, my Daughter is so blessed, and everything that Phil spoke of I've been able to experience. My husband and I walk together through this journey, it's a blessing not to have to do it alone.
@JMoney28862 жыл бұрын
Why would she do that to her children, knowing how torn she was about her own father not being present. She cried over him damn near every episode and her parents hate each other's guts! Children are most successful in life with two active parents in the household. Her daughters may grow up with the same hole that she had and she CHOSE to give it to them. Generational trauma!
@philiptemidara94562 жыл бұрын
You nailed it. She doesn't know any other way, since her whole upbringing has taught her not to know what a Stand up quality Man looks like.
@eh-ym3ws2 жыл бұрын
Hey Phil. It was sad to here this coming from Amara because I am sure there are so many young women out here that look up to her. So now they are going to think this is a proper way to raise a child. Unfortunately this is the world we are living in, I believe this is one of the main goals that Kevin Samuel tries to express to a lot of these women but they just don't get it. They are too bothered by how he is giving the message. Hopefully they will here your message. This is so disappointing every time I hear it , it make me want to cringe. This is happening so much in our community this is becoming the norm. These women just don't get that this is destroying our community in so many ways for both boys and girls. These kids need both parents for so many reasons. Phil love your content, keep up the good work.
@joybrooks5642 жыл бұрын
Tell them Uncle Phil,,,As a child from a single parent home, I can testify I would have been happier well rounded person if I had a dad in the home
@racqueenus2 жыл бұрын
Hmmmmm it's hard being a single parent. Father's are extremely important.
@karimbennett56512 жыл бұрын
Somebody needs to deliver this message to Nick Cannon, going around creating multiple single parent households.
@ksdebrisremoval70972 жыл бұрын
He didn't do it by himself. It took two. The women he got pregnant are equally responsible.
@aceace46602 жыл бұрын
One person does NOT have the Emotional Currency to fully be physically and emotionally available for a child who is composed of TWO sets of Chromosomes, one which is DIFFERENT from the Single Parent. You do not raise Men who will run the world, or Women who won’t chase Father figures, without A Male Warrior in their life to cherish and Mimic.
@nicky65792 жыл бұрын
You speak truth my brotha. Fathers are a MUST in a child's life.
@ladydi47932 жыл бұрын
Every single mother hasn’t raised their child(ren) in hardship. A lot of women who have everything they want except for a child, chooses to have their child alone. THEIR CHOICE. How about the men take charge and make sure he doesn’t ejaculate into a female to avoid pregnancy altogether? She can only get pregnant with his deposit. IJS
@spicymamamccaleb57472 жыл бұрын
Where I come from women NEVER choose to be single mothers, so I don’t know why this beautiful queen is going to choose that for her baby. I really hope she reconsider cuz that’s no life to live.
@zurilee70272 жыл бұрын
OMG! You are hitting the nail on the head! It's soooo sad!!! This hurt so much hearing this again and again!!!
@samuelmahmud19092 жыл бұрын
Great video coverage Philip she can make that statement that you want to raise her children along cuz that's what the agenda pushed in the black community you're strong independent black woman you don't need no man and it's a known fact that no other group pushes an agenda
@GREATBLACKSHARK2 жыл бұрын
*@ThePhillipScottShow:* Sadly,there's a segment of women out here across all income brackets that don't even understand that raising children is a two parent job. *They choose to give the greatest gift to men that won't even do them the honor of making them their wives.* I hope the younger women today are watching the foolish decisions of these older women like Rihanna,& Amara Le Negra. They have a chance to not go down that road.
@saonedixon54762 жыл бұрын
It's weird that some women would wanna become single mothers. What about how That child will feel not knowing what it's like to have a father in there life. So sad for the babies man.
@theblackestbeauty2 жыл бұрын
Facts!!! They could look just like their dad and act just like him. I’ve heard a lot of people that don’t get along with their mom because she hates their dad. Looking like ya damn daddy! Amara need to sit her beautiful ass down. Go make plans to co-parent or something.
@rain16762 жыл бұрын
Sorry
@ruachpneuma56382 жыл бұрын
She slept with a dude that wasn't ready for commitment 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
@blessedrain26302 жыл бұрын
If the man wants his parental rights . I'm sure he probably can go to court and petition for access to the kids so it may not be up to her . That's so selfish to the child the child wants a relationship with the father .
@sbolden1232 жыл бұрын
Single parent households should be an exception not the rule 🤦♂️😤
@RaYdAwG0052 жыл бұрын
I've known so many women who wish they didn't have to be a single mother. They wish they didn't have to do it alone. What woman in their right mind would willingly sign up to be a single mother?? It's stupid!
@chrischristopher60382 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY PHIL 👍🏿I think a lot of these celebrities have made relationships a SPORT and that's crazy/selfish when children are involved, even MORE CRAZY when these FANS that look up to them follow that behavior 🤷🏿♂️
@Malouco2 жыл бұрын
SHE GOING TO BLOCK HER WAY TO THE TOP GOODLUCK GIRL I WATCH FROM HERE
@gabyj55622 жыл бұрын
Yeah I raised my twins by myself and had really bad postpartum depression and anxiety a lot. Thank goodness I got help from his family and my family as well. I never brought strange men around my kids either because my main focus are my children and their safety as well.
@debravan11672 жыл бұрын
Kids needs 2 parent households. Stop getting knocked up by men who don’t want to be fathers or be your husband
@Moonewitch2 жыл бұрын
I would've never had a child outside of wedlock. Never. I wouldn't have what it takes to be a single parent.
@MJ-xj2tz2 жыл бұрын
Also let's talk about Nic Cannon how many kids now he wants Mariah back.
@RillaLord322122 жыл бұрын
Stupid is what stupid does... Just being pretty doesn't give you a pass to be lazy.. Child support shouldn't be considered a source of income for people... smh
@sabrinahoskins79072 жыл бұрын
Real talk uncle Phil!
@mukumtagara71002 жыл бұрын
I was a single mother and had my children with men that I should not have because of my lack of thinking and decision making...sex is more than an act it is also meant to create offspring and because we as women have to give more thought to who we choose as partners and as Uncle Phil said not putting the cart before the horse
@Otaku_Love-c3r2 жыл бұрын
Your value has a woman goes down in the dating market when you have a child or multiple children. No high value man's(who don't have children)is going to get with a woman who got 2 kids by another man. The best thing Amara can do is to get with a man who already got kids Or a high value man who already got kids and blend families together like the Brady bunch.
@nikkiahanks75652 жыл бұрын
If that person is not worth your last name then don't have any children with that person all & move on with your life.
@terrell18962 жыл бұрын
The Phillip Scott Show I thought being a single mother in Latin America is looked down upon
@cutiepie67962 жыл бұрын
IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH HIM THAT'S COOL, BUT SHE CAN'T TAKE THE CHILD FROM HIM, THAT'STHAT HIS CHILD AS WELL
@rainclouds11882 жыл бұрын
Phil, Phil, LMBO..."Why are you pregnant and over here!"...keeping it 100, tell'em Phil!!!
@stevenphelps79292 жыл бұрын
Just cheating her kid out real parents father guidance, and protection. This is killing blacks today. We must be strong and united.
@WellnessEpisodes2 жыл бұрын
Best advice worth sharing!
@blackbelle90s2 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree with what you are saying but I also see the flip side of it as well. I also believe if a woman has a great village of men and women around her for support to bring a child into this world then that child can beat the stats...IJS.
@rangerwalker53692 жыл бұрын
Feminism At A All Time High, You Sistas STILL Don’t Get It⁉️ 🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾💯
@Jae-xs6xy2 жыл бұрын
💕 Mommie hold your head up and God blessed you with 2 beautiful babies 👶
@dc93452 жыл бұрын
I love Amara La Negra she's beautiful sister.
@brwnsugga242 жыл бұрын
Some women are single mothers because their spouse has died.. so they should not go on to find another spouse?
@daniella84002 жыл бұрын
That’s not the case for most
@pc-ji1zy2 жыл бұрын
Theoretically yes. But, that is a widow at that point.
@jahkarimirza72862 жыл бұрын
A lot of the nm choose to be single mothers by running off the father.
@Aberamentho20102 жыл бұрын
Why is your focus on less than .1% of single mothers ? Wouldn't it be better to focus on the problem the other 99.9% are facing?
@KBBoomin2 жыл бұрын
That’s the exception, we’re discussing the majority.
@MissCPix2 жыл бұрын
Morality…the conversation no one wants to have. 🤷🏾♀️
@AGODsoldier2 жыл бұрын
I think they like to tell stories like I raised my child by myself, no help, I’m a strong black women. They not realizing that nobody gives a damn but the child, who suffers the choice.
@paulmorris63162 жыл бұрын
Keep speaking the Truth Brother Phil 👏🏾
@jacobsdescendant42402 жыл бұрын
Dysfunctional Madness! And you wonder why these children come out broken and continue the generational Curses ! WHEN WILL WE LEARN!
@gisellegeorge61842 жыл бұрын
Y'all think this was by choice. No woman chooses hardship for them and their child/children. The children's father didn't step up.
@nathanielcox37202 жыл бұрын
And you honestly think it was his fault and his fault only ? You dont think she had any hand in this situation.
@cozettegaye48342 жыл бұрын
I agree! 100% that's how I grew up. My parents, til death did they part. I have no children cause I would not settle for less.
@cinnamon32202 жыл бұрын
Surprisingly...beautiful, beautiful women have real self-esteem issues. When you're strong and have self-esteem you won't put yourself in a situation deliberately knowing that you will be a single mother. On the other hand, I also believe if a man doesn't want to be bothered with his own children then it's safer to be a single mother and let him go.
@rosestulips84402 жыл бұрын
So mommy, ima bastard? Yes sweetheart. I chose that for you.
@MADNEWYORKER9142 жыл бұрын
These women have lost their damn minds!!! She's not the only one who said that. Rihanna said the same thing a few months ago.
@bigh81212 жыл бұрын
In Quebec custody can be 50/50. If it is so, no child support for either party.
@mariehill87342 жыл бұрын
The most beautiful women suffer from low self esteem.
@marthaingram46212 жыл бұрын
I agree with you on that! That’s 100
@TheDimonddoll20012 жыл бұрын
What happens when you divorce and still end up a single parent?
@emmanuelallen43762 жыл бұрын
That would be the fault of the parents
@TheDimonddoll20012 жыл бұрын
@@emmanuelallen4376 True although he doesn't take that into consideration nor does it talk about the death of one parent
@KBBoomin2 жыл бұрын
That’s the exception, we’re discussing the majority.
@TheDimonddoll20012 жыл бұрын
@@KBBoomin I guess the point I'm trying to make is no one knows why people make choices for their lives but should be respected
@robinnewton10612 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right Mr. Scott.
@sincerelyyurrs2 жыл бұрын
PREACH UNCLE PHIL!!!!
@francesfinney81882 жыл бұрын
She must think being a single parent is glamorous.
@trinitodabone19872 жыл бұрын
Very good commentary!
@gloricebradley93602 жыл бұрын
Brother Phil you are right again…💕
@nancybreaux96842 жыл бұрын
Women have to do better job protecting their minds, bodies and spirit.
@SassyCarolinaNative2 жыл бұрын
Amen Phil! Amen!
@dthrust90372 жыл бұрын
Parents today are so selfish. Even 20 years ago black people never INTENTIONALLY went out and had broken families at least intentionally
@anthonywest75832 жыл бұрын
AMARA LA NEGRA IS BREATHTAKING!
@quin84632 жыл бұрын
I agree but nothing will guarantee someone from leaving you and the mother is still stuck with the children. 9 out of 10
@SwitchinLanez7202 жыл бұрын
It's a cause and effect...this is the effect from the cause of Ws
@prettylyricsmarie2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the birth control fails, and maybe it failed here.
@prettylyricsmarie2 жыл бұрын
@Rita Johnson It is stupid birth control failed? It's not 100 percent.
@leonrobinson81802 жыл бұрын
@@prettylyricsmarie Stop making excuses for her! If a woman doesn't want to give birth, nothing can make her. Far too many birth control options
@APD0891912 жыл бұрын
@@leonrobinson8180 Really? How so ?
@prettylyricsmarie2 жыл бұрын
@@leonrobinson8180 That isn't an excuse. Have you ever worked in a facility where women are considering their options, when there birth control failed? Adoption, single motherhood, or abortion? I think not.
@leonrobinson81802 жыл бұрын
@@prettylyricsmarie I've seen dumpster with less rubbish than you. There's always abortion. You're a single mother aren't you?
@janiceparkerson47272 жыл бұрын
You are one in a million Uncle Phil.
@mobilemworks2 жыл бұрын
-- No Phil. You are not the bad guy at all. Her freely dating like this, can create many problems for the children. Particularly with them not having the Protection of their flesh and blood father at home, available and ever present to deter potential Predators. -- It literally is an Animal Kingdom out in the world amongst human beings. -- In the wild, Males Lions can, and will take out their Rival's cubs.. usually.
@tiwonnasims82062 жыл бұрын
Phil your speaking fact Gods way always work if you do thing according even when its hard
@jonathanjohnson99102 жыл бұрын
The reason why most date pregnant women is cause the know that there's no possible alternative for a hit and get.... I've seen this plenty of times.
@kingeddy16452 жыл бұрын
The crazy part is that the stepdad sees the kids more than the real dad.
@nastashagardner75872 жыл бұрын
100 true love most of uncle's opinions
@nikkiahanks75652 жыл бұрын
Two children is even worse! Because she's going to be stuck with those children all the time.😭☹
@nonologylol2 жыл бұрын
Nope, she is rich
@trolleybee55152 жыл бұрын
She probably has no choice because she chooses crappy men to get knocked up by.
@lindsaygoins87252 жыл бұрын
brother you are so right
@noname-gu6ho2 жыл бұрын
Phil so old fashion its good he have me cracking up.
@MsTrish35202 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 1000%
@davejones30532 жыл бұрын
Said this before I dont know what.turns black woman on about being a single mother they literally enjoy the hardships of being a.single mom
@ewc88482 жыл бұрын
To Phillip Scott: I know who the father is..Cindy Lauper's son is the father. But anyway, this is not the worst detail in the story. Childrens with no father can cause a lot of issues.
@Moonewitch2 жыл бұрын
Really???
@ewc88482 жыл бұрын
@@Moonewitch Unfortunately, yes, really!
@Moonewitch2 жыл бұрын
@@ewc8848 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@jamesblunt19152 жыл бұрын
Single motherhood what a beautiful thing 🙄
@kikipearce2 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why people care so much about other people's life choices. It's not like anyone commenting on here is going to help this woman out in any way, shape or form.
@gigismith86962 жыл бұрын
Look, she is like a lot of females (I said a lot, not most). She would prefer to be with him, but it ain't working. She said what she said because that's how she was raised and it's a common scenario...not really a preferred one. She is bracing herself for what she sees as the inevitable, at least she is realistic! It does not mean the child will never know thier father.It's nice to say what she SHOULD do, but we have seen this story over and over, and a lot of us are products of it. She can still find a stellar step dad down the road...so remember your own glass house before throwing that rock 🤔
@GreenOrchid92 жыл бұрын
Men you have to do better...set better examples your boys mental, physical and social health🤔 leaving young babies with struggling mothers to rise to doing double duty without a name is a shame!!😱🤕😷😥
@guyfawkes92522 жыл бұрын
Well how about you submit and stop being combative and actually use your brain to choose suitable mates. There are black men who would love to meet you but you have to let that sister hood bull go out the window. Be accountable and responsible, your gender raised these men and destroyed them,
@BChan19912 жыл бұрын
Sure Blame the black guy for women that literally refuse to cooperate Sure
@GreenOrchid92 жыл бұрын
@@guyfawkes9252 your handle says a lot about you. By the way I am not born nor raised in the whatever you call or live in hood... sisterhood is a call to often help each other in need...any further stereotype you care to call me🤔 look at the "man"in the mirror...read what u wrote🐉