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AITA? KZbinrs are clearly the worst thing for a relationship! I delve into reddit and find some moral dilemmas and let people know if they are the hole or the no...le
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[@AmazingPhil]

Put down that hair bear and grab my NordVPN deal ➼ nordvpn.com/amazingphil and get 4 extra months. Try it risk-free now with a 30-day money-back guarantee! Thanks to my Nord bros for sponsoring this video!

[@HushPuppy-sz4dp]

@Amazingphil ofcourse it can, and I can't let go of my bear because she can't let go of me, love her lots thou

[@SethEverman]

Way too much hole in this one, Philip. Way too much hole.

[@iwakeupandboomimarat]

did not expect you here icl

[@bunniesprout9754]

markiplier casually exposing bad partners simply by existing 😎

[@Giraffe143]

FOR REAL

[@theeveningcallsforfairies5246]

Fr lmao, absolutely hilarious this guy was so jealous as if Mark would ever leave Amy

[@borza4440]

i read it as "parents" and oh boy was I confused

[@HobieInTheBox]

Such a sigma male ✨

[@Muted_Marcus]

Only Phil would censor AITA to make it worse. "Am I the hole?", my good sir, is a much more horrific phrasing.

[@ayushibhanja]

i made the mistake of reading this comment before watching the video so now i will be hysterically laughing, pausing and gasping for breath for maybe the entirety?? of this video??

[@Muted_Marcus]

@@ayushibhanja ⚠️ Do *NOT* skip to 11:56, biggest mistake of my life. Here are copies of the timestamp so you can avoid them: 11:56 11:56 11:56

[@goosex3644]

ngl now youve timestamped this i cant stop replaying this...thanks🤣@@Muted_Marcus

[@AS-om4tv]

I think this is the first comment I've ever read that made me audibly laugh omg

[@din0grrl]

hopefully he does this more and decides who is the hole of the week

[@ellis9505]

The "pair of youtubers" is beyond a doubt you and Dan. Sorry Phil

[@podoke]

phil's strong view on boundaries in a relationship is so refreshing as someone who was raised to seek out codependency

[@jellyfish4311]

Phil saying it's ok to not feel ok to share everything with parents really gets me. Cured the child inside my heart :')

[@halixmm]

me too! I can't put it into words but it made me feel sort of safe

[@elizabethalban754]

Really, children (especially anyone over 18) don't owe their parents all the details of their life. Or anything.

[@kindauncool]

+@@elizabethalban754 Buuut they should feel comfortable to, this should be withholding info by their own volition

[@TalkativeTess]

"Hope it wasn't me and Dan" I see you Mr. Philly

[@marshm3llow467]

Phil apologising for laughing too hard at things really gets me

[@AxelMacopelli]

In the case of the girl whose brother is a prank tiktoker, not only is she not the asshole, but her family is filled with assholes. Not only is her brother exploiting her for views, but her parents are against *her* for refusing to be exploited anymore. Smh 🙄

[@xFinalJudgementx]

i introduced my partner to markiplier videos right at the beginning of our relationship and now we watch his funky horror let's plays every evening during dinner lol love when i ask my bf what he'd like to watch and he just says "put on a markimoo"... we've been together for 7 years, this is how you do it

[@quietlychaotically]

omg that's partner goals

[@pho_is_not_interesting]

That's adorable

[@NS-jh3fk]

I love how wholesome and healthy this is ❤

[@darkangel7274]

Same. Our favorite series is his HuniePop series and 3 scary games

[@AriaAsacura]

for anyone who may be in a situation where their partner/sibling/housemate/whatever is a prank youtuber and making money off targeting you - you can refuse consent to be filmed and make it a legal issue

[@olliem.3012]

but in this situation where the girl was only 16 and the parents were on the older brother's side? might be more difficult, idk if that would hold in court?

[@sheilabalderas780]

@@olliem.3012 wouldn’t it depend on the country’s or state/province law on breach of privacy? Could it also be with age of consent??? This is complicated

[@lunarialoonatic]

Honestly the daughter is doing the right thing anyway rn. Hopefully when she’s 18 she can get the heck out of there

[@superherocrap]

I love that they know what they're doing with the titles and that I still fall for it everytime 😂

[@mothmadi_]

I love the fact they're using the titles like this

[@DustyStarrs]

pfff ik I just roll my eyes at this point

[@Ross_mo]

Desensitising us from this is the coolest thing they've done in ten years. (only second overall to the lion vs llama cheerio's competition)

[@humanbean4037]

I avoid watch it because I’m worried it’ll trigger my anxiety 😭 finally click and it’s something really not serious

[@Forbidden_Snacc]

phil describing red robin as "a diner meets a sports bar" is so spot on, only part he missed was the screaming children 😂

[@dashirun8020]

Phil should do a video on giving us relationship advice 😂 I would highkey watch it

[@dragonshadow4145]

Dan should make one too, I feel like would it be interesting to compare

[@emilygriffith6702]

@@dragonshadow4145it would be so funny if they videos themselves giving advice in separate rooms over the same things 😂 then edit it together

[@dragonshadow4145]

@@emilygriffith6702 yesss

[@camilatoledosepulveda8454]

​@@emilygriffith6702OMG YESSSS

[@zara.1212]

that one about being obsessed with a youtube duo is definitely about the both of you. i know at least 5 people who have had break ups because of jealousy to do with you guys. your legacy 😭

[@ChaoticChalice]

It's gotta either be them or Sam and Colby. I can't think of any other two youtuber guys that people group as much. Mark and Ethan maybe?

[@lunarialoonatic]

Fr they are gonna break up anyway. Bc I’m also willing to bet if he did the same with a female KZbinr the girlfriend would go crazy

[@ollielincoln4258]

8:29, classic example of Tomska’s rule, “Anything you say on the internet can and will be found by the person you said it about”

[@lifewithari203]

Technically speaking, what the prankster brother is doing isn’t legal. He’s using her image without her consent and making a profit off it without her getting a cut…. like that doesn’t sound right

[@glitch84-]

And she is a minor

[@Lung2691]

And the parents allow it?! Literally profiting off their child's misery 🤢

[@tori5738]

Then every video online would be illegal lol. People record strangers in public for views everyday. I imagine the majority don’t get any cut from it even if the clip goes viral. People have said both their personal and professional lives have been ruined because a stranger made them into a meme without their consent.

[@Rachel-wn8xi]

@@tori5738 the difference between what you were talking about and the situation posed in the Reddit postis that you are allowed to be filmed without your consent as long as there is no justifiable expectation of privacy, if you were being filmed in your house without your consent, that would be illegal because you do have a right and expectation to privacy in your own home, if you are out in public on the street walking about, there is no justifiable right or expectation of privacy

[@tealkerberus748]

@@Rachel-wn8xi And there's plenty of places where filming people in public is illegal anyway. Check all the places celebrities go to for a holiday - it's the places where paparazzi aren't allowed to harass them, or use telephoto cameras to get pictures of them in their swimsuits. A person's face should have a natural copyright attached to it such that other people can't use their image without their consent. It's your face, after all.

[@_charlotte24]

this video was just more proof that you love drama and live for the gossip and i love it. never change phil!!

[@alexandraRatliff]

If you’re looking for something to do with Dan (podcast/live-show/etc.) Reading Reddit stories (from AITA, AITD etc. ) and discussing it could be really entertaining. (Smosh pit has vids like this.) I feel like watching your live reactions to stories + hearing your opinions could be really interesting since you guys have such different takes on things

[@alexf225]

Their brains function differently

[@ellaelliott4415]

major dog and cat energy and I love it lol

[@caya6394]

as someone who is currently hyperfixating on OFMD you are absolutely correct

[@lucycorley4702]

SAME. I feel called out.

[@AprilShowers560]

Any man who goes running to Mummy to tell stories about his wife is most definitely a hole.

[@user-cd5vn2th3g]

I am ready to be destroyed on impact by s2 in one week :):):)

[@caya6394]

@@user-cd5vn2th3g ready and also not ready at all :))

[@lucycorley4702]

@@user-cd5vn2th3g I am both hyped and terrified.

[@yarethcirilo]

wow look at phil, the relationship expert we didn’t know we needed

[@annikas.6963]

thank you for protecting me from that thing behind me phil 😔❤️

[@shyliek11]

Phil saying “are you the Hole” is so much worse than any option you gave oh my god

[@beble895]

Imagine being a 26 year old fully grown man and throwing a hissy-fit because your girlfriend likes a youtuber. That's not even a red flag anymore, that's an entire red fabric factory. When in doubt, DUMP. HIS. ASS 💜💜💜💜

[@lunarialoonatic]

Both of them suck tbh

[@sidoniegabrielle269]

that teenage girl needs to run and pursue legal action but also in the meantime the disney music strategy is GENIUS and pretty funny. i hope some people on the post recommended some other things she can play that demonetize his footage so she can get more variety from her shield while she's still stuck there

[@scyllacw]

Reading horror stories from AITA aloud is a top pastime with my friends so I love that Phil is also on this train

[@Gretchasketches]

‪You: I hope me and dan aren’t the cause of any breakups‬ ‪Phannies: great news bestie! You are and we’re so much better for it‬

[@toxic_misery6369]

I love that Phil’s goal was to answer relationship questions and instead immediately starting roasting someone for not being a fan of markiplier for as long as he has😂 this is why we love you Phil

[@hearvex]

should've gone with "are they the hole or are they wholesome"

[@HushPuppy-sz4dp]

That's not enough to take me on

[@RobinGreen-ui1nv]

Not going to lie, this sort of content fits so well on Phil’s channel! I hope he does more of these sorts of reading/reaction things about topics that interest him! I feel like he was really having fun, and I would be so so down to see more of it. He is just such a positive person… I feel like he could become the angel to The Click’s devil persona haha

[@19lashby5]

I trust Phil for moral issues 😂

[@linneasoderberg5342]

facts related to that last story, people used to collect their hair for stuffing things like pin cushions, pillows, etc. They didn't have access to cheap plastic based batting/stuffing back then. So it makes sense that it was a tradition in the past but also definitely odd in modern times. also love these vids, as always

[@yoitschlo3283]

I can’t imagine hair making for a very plush creation

[@callmek5]

that’s rlly cool tbh

[@ida6950]

I think it’s a sweet tradition

[@beamingforest4270]

so many of these could be resolved if people communicated 😭 please just talk to each other, say how you feel, what's bothering you, ask questions share your thoughts aaaaaaaaaa

[@AxelMacopelli]

In the case of birthday boy, I think he and his gf are being taken advantage of. He said they pay for nearly every activity. I'm guessing "friends" were mad it wasn't a lavish party and won't go over there again since there's nothing in it for them as they're using OP for his money. Sad really 😢

[@pillowvibes]

the fact that BOTH him and his gf were confused as to why they were so upset was a pretty clear NTA sign. even if it wasn’t necessarily just bc of the paying for activities, I’d imagine they weren’t talking to him very much if he was able to zone out and watch yt videos. the friends might’ve just been talking amongst themselves and not inviting him into the conversation.

[@squbblebubble]

The first story was so similar to my ex boyfriend. I've been a big fan of you and Dan for a good while like I did grow up with you in a way and when I was 17 (I'm 20 now) I was explaining how I missed certain videos and how funny you two were, and my ex got so jealous saying "they don't even know you exist" "why are you giving them money?" (I used to get involved with the younow comments stuff) and so on, basically saying I was cheating on him which y'know I wasn't. So he then decided to cheat on me with his girl best friend and messaged me "we're even now" lmao I'm glad he's out of my life, was such an a hole.

[@parkerryann]

i was having an awful day, but this really made my day 10x better thank you philly

[@sarty]

You give great advice, Phil! I agree with everything you said. I do think the hair is kind of sweet and if it’s inside of the plush animal, then it’s not unhygienic. But I understand the wife feeling like it was kind of gross so like you said, both sides were kind of in the right there. Just keep it in a protected area as a keepsake. Please do more videos like this I loved it!

[@caitlynwilliams2852]

i 🫶 phil being the least problematic man on the internet

[@alexf225]

I pray it stays that way. Especially now.

[@awoods1039]

Don’t say things like that. It’s comments like that that made Jenna Marbles’ sweet heart hurt and then she quit the internet. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes, and that has to be okay, especially when they learn from them and never do it again.

[@choriso2546]

Phil out here dropping videos in the perfect time (when I go do laundry for 1 hour)

[@scarletknightwalker235]

The second one I kinda get the mom, because I can imagine she'd imagine it was like suspicious content, R-rated stuff but it's unfair that she doesn't trust her own child.

[@percyperez4627]

the way that I immediately turned on the video as soon as I got the notification. Thank you phil

[@Melectrika]

Literally same 😭

[@HushPuppy-sz4dp]

That's not enough to take me on

[@alexandraRatliff]

Phil, please do more Reddit videos. This was so entertaining. Possibly my favorite video of yours from this year. Your facial expressions and reactions were just really entertaining.

[@juliannacoulman6032]

Agree

[@vertigatari]

phil i’ve already had to rewind this video five different times you’re killing me 😂

[@ashtonlove6455]

oh god im only on the first one and it's reminding me of a relationship i had a few years ago where the guy called you and dan my "internet boyfriends". luckily it was completely lighthearted and was his way of acknowledging me enjoying your videos, not whatever was going on in that markiplier post yeesh

[@ninja_ari]

"I'd save a fish in distress" R.I.P. Norman... :(

[@meganguest]

0:09 oh my goodness... i feel like i needed a warning before this image showed up. cannot even fathom how many og youtubers are in this one frame together

[@kikiandthebrain]

this was gold lmaooo but i do think you owe it to the random strangers you judged you now make a video about the times YOU were the hole!!! also if it makes you feel better (or worse???) you were literally name dropped MID BREAKUP when i came out as a lesbian to my ex boyfriend a few years ago lol he was like "i know you're not gay because you're obsessed with those guys!!!" so i had to stop in the middle of a very emotional conversation to explain the "dan and phil fan to admitting you're a raging lesbian' pipeline

[@threecatsinacoat]

the dan and phil fan to lesbian pipeline is so real oh my god

[@toroallin5734]

I’m so sorry that happened, but at the same time I don’t think I’d be able to keep a straight face. I’d literally have burst into hysterical laughter at that. Like sir… seriously… you’re saying your girlfriend simply can not be a lesbian because she watches men exist? What kind of logic is that?!?!

[@tealkerberus748]

The concept that you can adore these beautiful young men but actually not want to have sex with them... yeah, some people struggle to understand fandom.

[@iwakeupandboomimarat]

geniunely being a dnp fan introduced me to the idea that people could be gay at all even if it was in the most insane parasocial way possible

[@kakonthebed]

There’s also the slightly rarer though albiet related Dan And Phil Fan to Transgender Man Pipeline

[@blushingwillowtree6800]

Can this be a new series?? AITA Reddit with Phil. I really like the reactions / advice.

[@carleybutler1707]

Phil: avoiding saying "ass" and instead just says "hole" Also Phil: 8:32

[@albasapri3265]

I THOUGHT THE SAME EXACT THING

[@Anonymous-kp3jf]

Phil: avoiding saying "ass" and instead just says "hole" Also Phil: turns into an owl

[@elisabethlangenfeld884]

Also I am an ignorant USsian but I thought bloody was a cuss in the UK? Is it just not a very bad swear?

[@a_platypus]

⁠@@elisabethlangenfeld884 yeah it's pretty mild generally

[@harasen_haras5]

I gotta say, about that hair bear story, wool is used to make stuff all of the time, and that's hair from a sheep. If you keep your own hair nice and clean it's gotta be possible to use it for the same purposes. I think the only thing that makes it seem strange is that it's an uncommon choice. Depending on the colour and texture of your hair, it may even be indistinguishable from a sheep's wool.

[@ahuman5772]

yeah, I think sometimes people forget that we are part of nature. Food comes out of the ground, meat is just dead animals, clothes are often made from animals hair. I don't think human hair is any more gross to use than animal hair, it's just hair.

[@callmek5]

yes, the tradition actually sounds really interesting!

[@lovelyjuliexo]

9:28 bRUH the rest is crazy cause she was still grounded even AFTER she proved she did in fact have good grades? 😭

[@friendoffrancis]

'If you're only in it for lovely treats and bangles and quadbikes' I don't know why this made me laugh so much. I think it's just the idea of Phil holding a cupcake, wearing bangles up his arms, riding his gift quadbike into the sunset

[@Teaganrose0]

Phil: “I feel like pranks are only good if your actually doing something nice for the person.” Coming from the man who fed Dan a chilli pepper gummy bear

[@codywhite1491]

Phil says he doesn’t like pranks but pranks Dan all the time 😂😂😂 love you Phil

[@WishGender]

3rd OP is immediately the Hole for trashing on Red Robin. That place slaps. A Red Robin milkshake or bottomless freckled lemonade with a burger and bottomless steak fries is an amazing date!!

[@SaplingsCo]

Love that he went through the entire thought process of the hair bear before questioning why it was on the KZbin subreddit 😭😭

[@salattu]

💯 Dan and Phil 11:01 pair of KZbinrs. 😂 And here Phil is laughing for the broken relationship because of their videos.

[@MentalMonday]

the worst part of this video was learning that i’ve watched this man’s videos for 12 years now and this whole time he didn’t know what red robin was

[@brynnexsmile]

the girlfriend at 10:51 definitely runs a fan account

[@genericname8727]

What if Phil posted his own subreddit for people to ask AITA questions or potentially just for advice. That could be extra fun, getting the content from your own community.

[@shouldntve]

Okay, but I really want a life advice series from you now 🥺 this was genuinely good stuff lol

[@valerydz]

he knows what he's doing with this title and i fully support it

[@unapologeticallylizzy]

At this point, we all know, we all still click and we all kind of respect it at this point 😂

[@AmyAberrant]

“I can’t say ass on KZbin” “Dump his ASS now”

[@honeyswann]

I once told my boyfriend about a dream I had that Markiplier tried to kiss me and he was like “I don’t blame you dreaming about getting a kiss from Markiplier” 💀

[@dimitra_k]

some of these people should NOT be in relationships imagine getting mad at someone for liking a KZbinr lmaoo

[@cynthsrose]

ive been watching your videos for 8-9 years now and i love whenever you do a different style of video. its always so fresh! this one was fun and you seemed to enjoy it!! 💜💜💜

[@unfortunatedisgrace246]

i love how invested phil gets with every story!

[@mirraonice]

do this again but try to find reddit storys that have dan and phil included somewhere lmao

[@albasapri3265]

Omg yes

[@eleanorhaworth5858]

The panic I felt

[@jaybehkay2438]

11:50 you didn’t need to call me and my Twitter bookmarks out like that Phil omg 😭😅

[@kikiandthebrain]

"i'd become father philip" is this the 2023 halloween costume reveal bc that would slay so hard

[@frogshapedfairy]

I love these fun chatty videos they remind me of silly sleepover vibes

[@lissaslunacy]

Oh my god I'm loving this! Please make it a series!

[@farahwaleed7698]

omg why is phil so good at analyzing the situation and giving advice, i feel like i wanna tell him all my problems and have him tell me what to do lmaoooo

[@caffeinatedx]

I feel the same.

[@evataki2226]

Exactlyy

[@SoThatsJustHowWeRoll]

Hey Phil, currently going through a colonoscopy prep, I’m so happy this is being me sane for another 10 min ❤

[@chaotic.banana]

Good luck! You can get through this :)

[@abbykurosawa7997]

you need to make more of these AITA videos, phil !! your commentary and relationship advice are 15/10

[@u7amaki]

they can't keep getting away with this...

[@jeanz638]

Love phil doing AITA content. Would love this to be a series

[@lovelyjuliexo]

11:19 it’d be so funny if it was Dan & Phil 😂

[@dookienator]

i've just recently started watching phil again and i swear, i never had the mental capacity to stay paying attention to what he was saying at age 12 because i thought it was boring but now that im 19 this is the most fun i have ever had watching a youtube video, it feels like a deep breath of fresh air finally watching someone who is down to earth and real

[@Gretchasketches]

Just plain “hole” is some how worse than any of the other options

[@portia331]

love it when phil gives advice! more advice and commentary videos please!!

[@Mcflyeon]

I am not a fan of reading drama on social media (and I am a kind-hearted, forgiving person but I say that people are responsible for their own actions) but you do provide good advice and thoughts throughout 👍

[@AlexCorso94]

"Hope it wasn't me and Dan" I don't think I've ever non ironically said "you cheeky bugger", and yet here we are, not even 10 seconds in, unable to say I've never said it non ironically anymore

[@beesbrownies]

I'm roughly the same age as the youtuber in the second post, I don't let basically any of the people I know irl follow my tiktok etc, especially family. It's keeping social circles/ parts of you seperate.

[@JamaicanRain]

I am glad I saw you hearting member comments! ❤ It’s good for business. 👍🏼

[@Prince_S._Park]

about the hair one i can understand both sides tbh. most people would understand the wife's perspective so no need to explain. for the guy with the family tradition, i can see how that started if it's a very old tradition as he said. for centuries it was common to give a strand of hair to loved ones (i heard about this with partners but idk if it happened with other close relatives), from my understanding of it the intention was to have something from the other when the two are apart in life (like not living together when engaged or when one goes to war) and something to remember by when the person is dead. it was common to make a bracelet with that hair or even to keep some of it inside a locket. basically, when this tradition started it wouldn't be too far fetched and it'd be like having a photo of the person. nowadays it is not a common practice to keep hair but there is a sentimental value to it, a harmless (if everyone agrees to it) tradition that the husband doesn't want to break. family is very important to me and mine has some traditions as well, mostly regarding naming of people, personally i would want to keep them because in a way it makes me feel connected to my ancestors, something which that man might be feeling. having said that, this definitely should have come up between the two a long time ago, maybe the wife didn't like it for the 'surprise' element of such tradition and the man should know that people nowadays don't do that so he should expect her not to be fine with it and discuss with her to come to a compromise. she married into that family with that tradition, she wouldn't have grown up thinking it's normal and she has no strong connection to it either, so he shouldn't be mad about her not accepting it. sorry for the long comment lol, i love aita videos and phil doing one is just 😘👌

[@user-qx6hs8zx4u]

Not me feeling old as hell for watching you and Dan for 11 years.. 😅

[@angelcomplex222]

think it’s so funny that someone probably clicked this video for the title hoping for something else then gets a video about RESPECTING BOUNDARIES AND PRIVACY idk if this was the intention but it’s genius regardless

[@rushingwater2.0]

Had kinda a crap day, came home, and now I’m laughing really hard because “am I the hole” is so funny!!!!

[@sylve2474]

After bingewatching all of the smosh aita vids and literally finishing them, like, 2 days ago,,, I relate to Phil in feeling called out

[@lovelyjuliexo]

14:11 that’s so weird, wHY 😭

[@lmaohowlter]

PLEASE make a segment on your channel where people submit relationship issues and have you give advice and react to them it would be so funny

[@internetslothh]

i dont always like reddit videos but phils reactions are just so great hahahah

[@losrin5447]

i knew my relationship wasnt working because i was 1 year into it but i still wasn’t comfortable sharing certain things i love doing with my ex. it might be me having problems opening up in general about certain aspects of my life though, not necessarily the fault of my ex

[@kmatsui4186]

the bit about how much he doesn't like pranks just reminds me of the time dan made a whole video dedicated to pranking him

[@august4286]

Man Phil never fails to drop a video when I need it the most :( I love him sm

[@Xiephyrr]

3:17 I’ve just started posting since I’ve put it off for years and I haven’t told my family about it too! So strange to be hunched over and mumbling to myself playing games 😂

[@yoonglie]

i can relate to the partner being a bit jealous about the interests/obsessions. so much so that i barely ever feel like i can talk openly about them with him. it feels unfair bc i let him ramble about his interests, but he doesn’t like it when i do about mine, or talk about my fictional and celebrity crushes (which have been very important to me) just wanted to vent a lil here lmao