Entitled Mother-in-Law PHOTOSHOPS my WEDDING PHOTOS to CHANGE my HUSBANDS NOSE - Reddit Podcast

[@AmItheJerk]

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[@dogofwar6769]

Story 4: The OP's step mother is the a-hole in this one. I live through that exact situation myself when I was a kid. Sometimes a step parent can make a new relationship with a kid that might fit the same role as a natal parent, but you can't just force it. Step kids come with their own life experiences and personality and it cant be something that a step parent can't just supplant at their whim. Maybe the OP could have been kinder to their step mother, but that kind of stuff has to be a 2 way street.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

yeah i agreed that op should have been kinder to her stepmother and the stepmother 's obession with having a daughter in her life needs to stop.

[@pavelverner]

1st story: WTF?! WHAT KIND OF MOTHER DO THIS?!

[@viviennemorgan7217]

a karen mother 😑🤔.

[@jasoncarpp7742]

*Story 1:* It's hideous how family members criticize another one's appearance.

[@QuickManEXE]

And the they'll quickly try to justify it with the "family" card.

[@simearmlong9917]

Asian do it all the time they mostly say wow you got fatter than last time

[@QuickManEXE]

@@simearmlong9917 That is 100% true.

[@vdx3523]

​@@simearmlong9917 I do not think all Asians do it

[@vexxama]

Same thing with my sister. If she wasn’t bothered by a mess, she wouldn’t clean it. If you live alone or it’s just your room, sure, but she’d do this in shared spaces too. She’d always say “you’re the only one bothered by it so you should clean it” so any split of cleaning with her past her clothes is she does 1/3rd and any shared space isn’t her responsibility since it isn’t hers

[@princessmarlena1359]

Story 3: I cannot live with messy people. I myself am very neat, very strict upbringing/parents when it came to cleanliness. I’m not going to nitpick over every last thing left laying around as long as it is cleaned up eventually (2 days maximum). The partner needs to grow up and stop trying to rebel in being a slob when he no longer even lives with his family anymore. OP needs to pick their battles. Both seem incompatible and need to consider ending this relationship.

[@jackmemphis777]

ive had to live with messy people my whole life, for 3 decades. I just learned to deal with it and clean when i can. Im organized myself though and it does get annoying sometimes

[@v.crowley]

Story 3 .. if OPs partner is paying more towards rent because he works more... It's not unreasonable for her to be cleaning.. as she described.. it's just clutter.. it's not huge messes; just daily living.

[@firewing5592]

Yeah, but doesn’t seem she’s really in the wrong either some people just can’t deal with clutter. I’d say NAH but I don’t think they’ll last

[@QuickManEXE]

Story 1: Yeah the OP and her husband are smart for going low contact with the MIL here. People like that dont change for anything and she clearly only wants to 'change' so that she can be close to her future grandchild, not because she actually wants to improve a relationship with the OP and her husband. The MIL is just vile here and i know i wouldnt want to be around her. Low contact is certainly the way to go here. Story 2: While it is the sister's wedding and she does have final say, i can totally see why the OP isn't on her side at all... and quite frankly, nor should she be. The sister is being very bratty about all of this and i know i wouldnt be happy about their partners not being able to go. It sure doesnt sound like a wedding i would want to be attending. Story 3: There is a big difference between being unorganized and being lazy. The bf here is just lazy here.... regardless of what jobs he has. The OP might sound a little bit OCD here with the cleanliness here, but i think her frustrations are legit. Story 4: OP is not a jerk at all here. Its one thing to be a mother-figure here, but the stepmom is being beyond pushy here. She just cant accept or realize that the OP has a mom and is close to her, regardless that the dad isnt with her. It really is weird that step-parents will act this way... especially towards a specific gender.

[@bigboymalloy2261]

The stepmom in story 4 would hate me with a passion because i dont acknowledge step parents as parents in any way i dont even see them as step parents im not into all that stuff, if my mother or something got married i would call the husnand by his name and only see him as her husband, i wouldnt hate them just dont do all that bs

[@aaronstubbs8474]

The guy in the cleaning story probably has some for of ADHD. I have it and I am the same way with clenlyness. Pluss we constantly needs to be doing something. That's the hyperactive part of ADHD, he can't just sit down and do nothing when he could be doing something productive. Now I'm not saying he shouldn't be working to fix that behavior, because he deffinately should, but that is just the most likely explanasion for it.

[@XanSter856]

If your Mother in Law’s Mocking your husband, then she’s mocking her own Son.

[@Khantia]

In the 3rd story, the OP does give off vibes for being too obsessive about what "clean" is. I mean... cleaning for 2 hours each day... Who even has time to make such a mess that would require 2 hours of cleaning each day? Especially considering her husbands' work schedule. She may have an OCD and may be wise to check up with a therapist xP

[@viviennemorgan7217]

she's like my stepmother.

[@gomoestas]

The wedding one: maybe the bride has no money to invite more guests than the bare minimum. The op said that her family is smaller, but that groom's family is big. Which would mean that for allowing her sister to bring a +1, she might set a precedent that would skyrocket the costs. What I would do would be to allow the OP to bring the +1, but only if someone else is covering all his costs. Which was offered. So if anyone else uses this to try to bring theor plus one, they can be informed that if they, too, are willing to pay for them, they can bring them. The one with the filthy boyfriend should agree that he pays the full rent and only her cleans the house. This way she either cleans everything herself anyway, or lives in filth.

[@annallen3426]

1st story is so messed up, no mother should treat their children that way. Hope they go fully no contact. I do wonder if he looks like his dad minus the nose or if the nose is the only feature thats really strongly his dads cause OP said it got so much worse after the hubbies dad died? I mean any tragedy can be a catalyst and not necessarily related to her actions but I think its odd she went so far to edit his wedding photos of all things and not different photos? Like why was the dads death and the wedding such stressors to her behavior?

[@FreezingWinters4793]

You know you did something wrong to someone when even a narcissist agrees on the person’s behalf

[@hardup9809]

Hot take on the wedding one the price from 50 ppl to 100 ppl catered food went from like 4 k to 13k for me

[@AnimeGamer501st]

The boyfriend in the third story needs to leave the original poster the guys working three jobs and the narrator out here is expecting him to do some housework that she could probably easily do. Also is she working at all like I might have missed if she does, but the guy is literally working three jobs and one of them is being a teacher Jesus Christ lady do the chores yourself.

[@ericcloutier-murray]

i love this channel

[@sketchandmycrew8509]

Wow photoshops crazy ya know. that actually sounds like a case of something that I would actually like to call Made you look

[@AugustaSleepy]

Thanks for the vid

[@viviennemorgan7217]

i feel bad for both op's husband and brother in law because their mother doesn't like her sons and op needs to tell her husband to come with her at her parents house one day

[@viviennemorgan7217]

since his mother is annoyed and weird.

[@OynxWolf11]

"Your nose is ugly" I would rather have an ugly nose, than an Ugly Heart like yours love.

[@keithharrissuwignjo2460]

Story 1: Even OP's narcisist father agrees that what MIL did was f ed up

[@SpeedlessMC]

Why don't the people from story one like Domino's. Its the best.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

you're forgetting that domino's is a game right?

[@zaskarr]

@@viviennemorgan7217I think he means the pizza restraunt

[@viviennemorgan7217]

@@zaskarr i know that he means the pizza restraraunt, i was talking about the stacking game domino's.

[@robertofernandez18000]

Man why did she do dominos like that 🥲🥲

[@shockdiesel3470]

Story four no Reddit post reader commentary: Here is where I stand, you could have been a little less passive-aggressive OP and you really should have come out and outright said that you didn't want her to be so clingy because that is what I see as your issue with her

[@Drie_Kleuren]

honestly I want to see a picture of that nose/face... I dont even think its that bad (hearing from the wifes side) also its just a nose, like wtf there are like a million other parts of a mans body and all they complain is the nose... but yeah I kinda want to see the face to judge

[@alpha-sama]

Story 1: What a horrible mother. I'm glad OP's husband and his brother turned out to be alright. With a woman like that raising you, who knows how many traumas you potentially could have ended up with. Story 2: While the bride and groom do have the final say in who can or can't attend the wedding, the reasons given here are kinda stupid. It's weird to leave out the maid of honor's partner and the best man's partner. Do they have a bad reputation? Does the bridal pair not know them well? Is the budget actually an issue? Clearly not, the bridal pair's just being weird. Story 3: I think it is definitely not unreasonable to demand the boyfriend at least does his best to not actively create a mess and clean up after himself. I mean, come on, that's the minimum. Story 4: The stepmother is being creepy and obsessive. It's great that she's trying to form a connection with her stepdaughter, but this is going way too far. She doesn't really see OP as a child or human being, but more like a pet or trophy she wants, otherwise she wouldn't have cared so much about OP being a girl. Overall, quite disgusting behavior.

[@fanofpink]

Can somebody get a thesaurus for this guy? He uses the same words over and over again.

[@samanthatidy4738]

bro i have a small bump on my nose so I'm insecure about it

[@Cherayblue]

i don’t agree with the last one since she’s not even giving her a chance. she’s been in her life since she’s been a baby and her actual mom and step mom can both be her mom. the op is a jerk

[@GiordanDiodato]

You can't force a relationship

[@gomoestas]

She never invited her in her life, she already has a mother and doesn't owe her anything.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

the stepmother is creepy and clingy towards op.

[@bigboymalloy2261]

Nah i agree but i also dont do the whole stepparent thing, if you marry one of my parents you will be called by your first name and be seen as my mothers husband or whatever but you arent my parent in any way, shape or form, but thats just me others can do as they please, the only other parents ill accept is if i ever have the fortune to get a wife ill accept her parents as mine if she wants because ik some people want their husbands to see their parents as family and like its his parents also

[@mrFiiSKiiS]

​2261 There's a huge difference between even a child or pre-teen or older and a toddler. If step-mom is not abusive or distant, it tells me the issue comes from bio mom more than OP. I guarantee once details come out that bio mom effectively forced OP to choose rather than let step mom be a bonus parent.

[@john3494]

OMG IM FIRST WHAT THE

[@180rotator]

nice

[@kiro_shi]

Respect

[@humza1549]

how much likes this vid get i in subscribers

[@bigboymalloy2261]

For story 1 the mom is a horrible person and doesnt deserve children, and using the dad dying as an excuse makes it even worse And for story 2 i simply wouldnt go to the wedding i simply dont care, if im ever lucky enough to get a wife she will be the most important person in the world to me no one else even god himself will mean more to me than my wife, if im lucky enough to hage kids they will he equally as important, bit ya i simply wouldnt go

[@KirbysPVS]

In the last story, I personally think both people are acting like jerks. While I believe the in-law is being pushy in trying to force the OP to like her, I also find it hard to imagine that the OP would have no attachment to someone who's been in her life since childhood... that just sounds cold.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

you mean in story 4.

[@jimmieloop8587]

Man woah narrator, last story, i have the legal rights and OBLIGATIONS for raising a child. I am showing interest and care for children that are not my biological. But you are saying i have no right to obsess over them? OP should be happy she doesnt have an evil step mom. The OP needs to open her heart and understand the fact she had two mothers growing up regardless of whom you choose to call momma. The step mom should interrupt her daughters time with her biological mom but OP is disgusting for not involving her step mom in anything. Your talking a parent who has been there since 1 years old (or even 2,3, or 5), not somebody who jumped in the middle of development....

[@jimmieloop8587]

....should not* interrupt..... Couldnt edit

[@fullmetalgamer6062]

You can't force a relationship. The step-mom's obsession is unhealthy.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

you're forgetting that the stepmother has an unhealthy obession over her.