Friday Night Lights: What I wish I knew Before I Got Married

[@halalpolice7544]

You can’t imagine how these videos like this helping us. May Allah swt bless you and reward you in Jannah

[@MyGoalisJannah]

On the topic of looking nice for your husband and etc. I want to say, Money Talks. A lot of the guys today think they can marry us and not give us money to spend on our maintenance. They want us to be at home, raise their kids, and etc but also stay looking fly without giving us money to take care of all of this? But they’ll happily spend money every weekend with their boys, on games, their haircuts and etc. And then they go and look at the girls in the streets and seeing them looking and smelling amazing and he comes home to his wife who’s still wearing the same leggings she’s had for the past 2-3 years if not longer. The man also wants to control her in the sense, you can’t go out with your friends and etc because ‘we can’t afford it’ or my favourite, ‘you don’t need it.’ And if we say anything we’re ungrateful and ‘hell is full of women.’ 🙄

[@UncleSaif]

Goodness sister, we gotta do better than that😱

[@consultmetech5841]

Very valid point. One of the problems with masculinity today is the lack of emphasis on its elements. Prioritizing spending and allocating appropriately is neglected. I can't tell you how many Muslim men I know in their 30s who spend lavishly on any and everything, but have never made Hajj. If a Muslim man wants his wife looking right, then spend on her gym subscription, the nice clothes, makeup, perfumes, and all the other stuff we are bombarded with on a daily basis.

[@msnabilahabib]

This is a great talk, so valuable. I pray you get a glitch-free smooth recording next time. So many around the world are hanging on to every word spoken here MashaAllah

[@adnanmohammad7415]

Clear Lake Islamic Center has a glitch free recording :) check it out if you're interested

[@Your_sista]

I’m I k

[@azizatusman2410]

Subhanallah, I learnt so much from all you said. I took above 3 pages of note in my diary and was blown away by every point. I am so proud of you and all you do to enlighten this generation of muslim ummah. The way you all presented this topic makes it so easy to get up and act for those married or get up and plan to act for those intending to marry. May Allah make all your affairs easier for you all, may he increase you all in knowledge and always be pleased with you(amin). Maasha Allah. I have subscribed and can not wait to learn more, be better and teach others as I learn with every opportunity I get (amin).

[@dd470_]

Ameen

[@zainabq.1324]

These are fun to watch!

[@msnabilahabib]

MashaAllah. Insightful as always.

[@Itsyourgirlhindu]

Watching this and taking notes 📝

[@zahi5131]

🥰🥰🥰love it ever second Mansha allah

[@kingEyeSami]

Great conversation

[@dominiquerahim]

Asalamuilakum! Great informative video, besides the glitches. What are the names of all of speakers and do they have KZbin channels.

[@djfj1976]

Is this the full video? Parts of it seem glitchy where the sentence gets cut off

[@AmmarAlShukry]

unfortunately, there were technical difficulties with the broadcast. This is the final version of the video.

[@noorkhadim844]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/gpnNZaSbisyVeZY Full video

[@hudayousef6163]

“ the men are not real men” unfortunatley this is it. سبحان الله I am very suprised lately hearing many mens saying “ why it is every thing on the men responsibility to earn many “ نفقة . What???? Because Allah said that .

[@fairyart4663]

Why does it keep cutting off. Like at 39:58

[@AmmarAlShukry]

unfortunately, there were technical difficulties with the broadcast. This is the final version of the video.

[@noorkhadim844]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/gpnNZaSbisyVeZY Full video

[@happyunicorn511]

Please repost without the glitches

[@AmmarAlShukry]

unfortunately, there were technical difficulties with the broadcast. This is the final version of the video.

[@2010berrada]

Thank you very much for a very interesting that I as A muslim woman i a western country can relate to. Unfortunately it was not the full “video” and quality of the Sound was not the best. I hope to see more if this

[@khadijaabdulla115]

The audio is bad but the lecture s interesting

[@noorkhadim844]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/gpnNZaSbisyVeZY Full video