Amy Finds Out About Joanne and Stefania | Everybody Loves Raymond

“I saved myself for you."
Season 5 Episode 4: Meant To Be
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[@patrickplummer1027]

"Why would you fool around with Stafania?" "Have you seen Stefania?" 😂, best guy answer ever

[@rickyayy]

Misogyny?

[@wolfpackiwi]

hahaha your spot on bro.

[@gradel888]

3:09 Debra gave Ray the “Not helping Ray.” look

[@mitias22]

@@gradel888 I thought it was "I'm gonna kill you Ray" look. Especially when she almost cracked her knuckles

[@baronvonnembles]

@@rickyayy Leprosy?

[@NikkiGRocks4Ever]

I love it when Ray gets scared of Debra. Then he walks backwards on the couch to get behind it. 😆😆😆

[@Jojojo995]

I’m scared of Debra😬

[@davidnone8951]

I feel like in the 2000's you started to see a lot of these scared husbands characters in sitcoms. That whole happy wife equals happy life stuff.

[@diananutt1517]

​@@davidnone8951 🌿 The line that made me laugh out loud and rang so true was when Deb seemed to soften and told Robert how nice it was to have one special loved one, etc. Then when Ray touched her she recoiled and fired a, "GET OFF ME!!," at him. So very real! Perfect timing by all 3. 💚

[@IronMan-tk8uc]

Even breathing the guy is wrong so he damn knows when to step outside Debra's path!

[@scotthockenberry3085]

@@davidnone8951yeah. The attractive wife and the dopey husband. It was a product of its time. Although this was a funny show IMHO

[@KimmerCharles]

"Lay down, play dead!"

[@sophiecaluk8381]

“You’ll be fine, what about me?! Amy was gonna give me more grandchildren, there was talk of a guesthouse, and I could leave your father if I wanted to!!!!”

[@amosmaka6030]

"You wanna know who I took to my prom, our cousin Nelly." "He threw up on her." *"SOMEBODY SPIKED THE PUNCH"!!!*

[@jlh4jc]

AND IT WASN'T SUPPOSED TO GO OUT!

[@jskrabac]

I sometimes forget how great Ramano's physical comedy was throughout this show. He gets so many laughs without saying a word and just seeing him react to Debra or Marie.

[@GREGWATSON-lc8cc]

Ray was weak though

[@ambika66681]

4:53 "Whos been tellin him, its his life"🤦🏻‍♀️🤣😂

[@tg92277]

Robert was bound to figure it out eventually 😅

[@roamer1389]

The response of a narcissistic controlling mother.

[@janetcallanan7020]

For me it's not just Ray climbing backwards over the couch it's his posture and expression he's definitely in flight mode 😅

[@SBCBears]

Yup. He can be hilarious without saying a word.

[@jojoh9664]

Yep a answer from a pig. No need to jeopardise their relationship!

[@UthamaseelanDorasamy-fu3tx]

'Get off of me' Debra is the best

[@staticmonkey8436]

“Who’s been telling him it’s his life?” That basically sums up Marie pretty well there…..

[@rachelmartin5187]

Ikr. Her main goal was to control EVERYONE. Debra and Frank were the only people to call her out on that B.S.

[@stryfetc1471]

​@rachelmartin5187 Amy did too!

[@bigbearkat2010]

@@rachelmartin5187 Any time Ray did, he'd just be browbeaten into submission

[@rachelmartin5187]

I know Robert is the one who cheated and all, but I think Amy shouldve been with Debra and the family as well. Roberts family literally watched him go off with Stefania and didnt say ANYTHING. Hell, Frank even took a picture and smiled with pride.

[@MaddenFifa]

Bit of a plot hole, and Robert wasn't even being secretive about it, and Robert talked with Stephania's dad with the Barone family right around the corner (you could hear Frank belch a remark). Why wouldn't any of them have counseled Robert when he was showing literal interest in Stephania?

[@malehlohonolo8463]

"Honesty, don't believe the hype"💯

[@comicmaster217]

2:29 SOMEBODY SPIKED THE PUNCH!!!!!!!!!!

[@yolandaponkers1581]

“Don’t worry. I know what to say.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mateokokicakam-tatezs]

1:15 Ray get out of the way. It's none of your business to deal with. 😂

[@mateokokicakam-tatezs]

Lay down, play dead.😂

[@TheGhostofMrArthurs]

literally NONE of this was Debras business either though

[@SnowLeopardForever]

@@TheGhostofMrArthursActually, it was her business. Debra and Amy were friends long before Amy met Robert. Amy and Debra had worked together at the same company (an ad agency if I remember correctly). So if my friend were being cheated on by her boyfriend (brother-in-law or not), you better believe I would tell my friend.

[@TheGhostofMrArthurs]

@SnowLeopardForever is your name Amy? Or Robert? If the answer is no, then it isn't your business, period. Too many stupid women think that because they are friends that it gives them carte Blanche to stick their nose in. It doesnt

[@kathylaguna2373]

Amy should play close attention to Debra and Rays marriage and the interactions with the inlaws and head for the hills!

[@bigbearkat2010]

I mean she's definitely noticed. I remember Debra noted the look of confusion and horror on Amy's face during the good girl episode. "I always forget what a freak show this family is until someone new comes along and looks at us like that"

[@david47s]

That's the worst apologize I've ever gotten 😂😂😂😂

[@whoisyouranime]

I remember the slap being louder in my head.

[@HalfGasQuestions]

“ ironic “ one of the best ray lines.

[@david47s]

Robert is just so funny!!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@DylanKurosakiOfficial]

I'm surprised Debra didn't get on the couch as well and slap Robert

[@Robert-qh2jp]

Need a part 2 please

[@brittanyc.4540]

4:01 It’s *always* about you, Marie. 😓 A real hypocrite and a real narcissist. Marie likes to ignore Robert, but when it comes to him getting married and giving her grandchildren, she wants to be overbearing.

[@cStatE95]

Now I'm kind of glad he didn't have a kid and give her that satisfaction

[@brittanyc.4540]

@@cStatE95 😅 I’m glad he didn’t, lol!

[@JustinMacri007]

I'm not scared of Deb or marine because there idiots

[@HeatherHotcakes]

I love Marie. I'm assuming that you didn't grow up in a culture where you show respect and deference to your elders. Also, the use of the word narcissist is overused.

[@bigbearkat2010]

@@HeatherHotcakes Didn't know fictional characters could have alt accounts

[@PeterHowe228]

It's amazing how he is so tall, that even standing on the couch she is only two inches taller.

[@user-tt9ow7yc9e]

Debra thought that Robert told Amy about stefania turns out Amy didn’t know that stefania only Joanne.😮

[@jamesleopard8518]

That's why Debra needs to remind his brother in law Robert not to tell his girlfriend Amy about his ex-wife JoAnne, and date with one girlfriend at a time meaning Amy while getting ready to go on a dinner date. Also, needs to forget about how he first met a girl Stafania in Italy

[@hybrid4619]

The yltiny slaps🤣

[@elliemyers6435]

Wait, wasn't Robert supposed to be cool in high school? In the second season episode "High School" it was suggested that he was a bit of a big man on campus (who had the hottest girl in Ray's class following him around all the time), and Ray was a nerd.

[@Zodroo_Tint]

The writers often forgot what they wrote. :)

[@bigbearkat2010]

He was? To hear Robert talk about any point in his life, you'd think the dude had tomatoes constantly thrown at him.

[@gradel888]

1:14 Ray was like “I’m just gonna…”

[@RF1972.]

Debra 😂😂😂

[@truffles365]

This was one of Robert's lowest moments. I hated how he treated Amy and he was damn lucky she forgave him in the end

[@FunnyAtv-oz8wu]

How's bin telling him is his life 😂😂😂😂 she just like my mom

[@user-wm5ix5de5j]

Have you seen Stefania! Can’t blame him. 👍.

[@JavierArveloCruzSantana]

"Who's been telling him it's his life?" My mother is my rock. My mother is number ONE in my life. This is my mother. I'm very surprised she never caught me in my room doing "stuff," because she barges. My mother walks into any (ANY) room she feels like. No knock. No ask. No trying to behave or respect "my space." NOPE. #NotMyLife

[@CBS70s]

Well, if it is her house, she has the right to enter any room at any time she wants.

[@generalmayhem9336]

@@CBS70s Fuck no.

[@CBS70s]

@@generalmayhem9336 Afraid so. Ownership trumps renting.

[@jameshubacher2585]

When she got on the couch the second time what did you think she was going to do? That line plays in my head so often. Not sure why this clip didn’t include Raymond saying that. Either Mandela effect or the line wasn’t included in the rerun

[@Stoneman180190]

Robert trying to have more game than LeBron and juggle three women at the same time.

[@KARDisney]

Same height joke!😂😂

[@Stoneman180190]

@@KARDisney this was more to do with Robert being a player but that’s a good one.

[@tylerwilliamson7128]

0:04 0:19 Robert gets slapped in the face twice

[@jamesleopard8518]

Yeah Amy was mad at Robert for getting confused on who was Stafania, and getting off the subject about his ex-wife JoAnne while dinner dating

[@Megog]

Normalizing violence is never okay. I don't care that he's a tank and she's a dwarf, she should've just said her piece and walked off.

[@cStatE95]

Ray asking the real questions in the beginning 😂 also this isnt goodbye forever so not to worry. But ngl robert has a right to be pissed off with debra even though robert shot himself in the foot

[@WadeAlma]

He has no right to be mad at anyone but himself. He cheated on her.

[@Zodroo_Tint]

@@WadeAlma I don't remember the episode 100% but I don't think he cheated.

[@henrypeters5291]

@@Zodroo_Tint It was not in this episode but he had an affair with Stefania while he was in Italy that is what Debra was referring to. As far as Joanne was concerned, he was just talking to her.

[@charlespeakjr2168]

@henrypeters5291 To be honest, Robert should have told Joanne to kick rocks because of all the things that happened when they were married. As far as Stefania, I really don't know if that relationship would have worked out, even if he had never met Amy. The main reason is that Marco hated him.

[@henrypeters5291]

@@charlespeakjr2168 I mean yes Robert was dense about Joanne. In fact Joanne had more realistic expectations about the relationship. As far as Stefania goes, Robert had real commitment issues after his divorce and Amy was the only one who was willing to be patient with him.

[@ralphmiano5015]

I must have seen a different version. I remember Ray saying "When she got up on the couch the second time....what did you think was gonna do?" instead of the ring comment.

[@brittanyc.4540]

💥👋 0:04 & 0:19

[@sleepinggorilla]

I never liked this show when it was on. But this was hilarious. Maybe I will give it an another shot.

[@TheRealDeal92]

Robert deserved both of those slaps from Amy. How did he honestly expect her to react? He seriously thought she would be grateful for being honest? lol. 😂 Debra was right that Robert never should have gotten involved with another woman in Italy nor speaking to his ex wife again. Raymond was smart moving out of the way and telling Robert to play dead. Thanks for uploading.

[@loudboy317]

Also, Ray and Frank warned Robert not to tell Amy about meeting Stefania and Joanne but he chose to not listen to them. Robert brought this misery upon himself.

[@destineetyson7756]

I love everybody loves Raymond my favorite TV show of all time ❤❤❤📡📡📡📡📡📡📡📡📡📡📡📡📺📺📺❤️❤️📺📺📺📡📡📡📡📺📺📡📡📡♥️♥️♥️

[@acebrandon3522]

Dear Robert, Please, remember this one little thing for a happy marriage. " Happy wife, Happy life." Sincerely, Your Little voice in your head.🤔

[@CoCotheTurtle]

Love how the title of the clip has nothing to do with the content of the clip.

[@michaelpeets7261]

I felt for Robert at the end. Marie its his Robert's life he can do what he wants.

[@zaaranashitanawar5585]

❤

[@jamesleopard8518]

Amy can't find out about Stafania and JoAnne while going on a dinner date with Robert

[@Al-Rudigor]

Debra is such a holier than thou hypocrite.

[@keithray7408]

Ray has seen that look from Debra before and things never went well.

[@redhood444]

Robert should’ve left Amy long ago 2 years for the cheeks hell nah😭

[@archangel905]

Theres no reason to be affraid of Debra shes all talk

[@lauralei6963]

And only 4’0” ffs

[@charlespeakjr2168]

Those women are the ones who are the most dangerous.

[@robertthompson5701]

Robert never fooled around with Stefania, all they did was spent the day together. Robert didn't cheat or anything

[@JustinMacri007]

Debra is a loser and liar

[@nloubriel2336]

Really? 😮

[@JAWS-fc7fn]

You need to rewatch the Italy episode. Robert went to her house and made out with her.

[@DadoPanda]

It's not all about sex you know? It's clear why he spent the day with her.

[@ArkenHowlVideos]

If you're in a committed relationship, that is cheating. Period.

[@lancehood7916]

Lol...... I only have one problem..... he Shouldve not did that to a girl like Amy, anyone who waited to give herself to him deserved more at that time but he married her and made up with her.

[@jamesleopard8518]

Robert Barone needs to talk about something else while going on a dinner date with Amy

[@generalmayhem9336]

It's ok to be a slimeball when you are young.

[@NH-tb2sm]

Nobody would be laughing if Robert hit Amy. It's just as bad as Robert being slapped by Amy.

[@johncooper705]

Right! They couldn’t do it now.

[@Jai137]

Amy didn't cheat on Robert. And people would be ecstatic if Amy cheated and Robert hit her for this.

[@jamesleopard8518]

That's why Amy was mad at Robert for getting confused about who Stafania was, and changing the subject about his ex-wife JoAnne

[@NH-tb2sm]

@@jamesleopard8518 it doesn't matter why she was mad, her hitting Robert is just as unacceptable and wrong as Robert hitting her.

[@stillsearching1284]

It's easy for Deb to talk about how important it is to have someone who loves you when she already f*cked around with a bunch of guys before Ray.

[@Megog]

First, normalizing violence against a romantic partner is never okay. I don't care about the circumstances or that he's the size of an oak tree. Second, "I grew up" ? No, Deb got tired of getting handed around like a bong at a frat party by the type of guy she really wanted to be with, so she decided to "settle" for the simp she rejected in high school and still doesn't think is worthy of her, as clearly shown by the way she constantly mistreats him. God I hate that character.

[@Cardlimits]

robert and debra arguing is sometimes the better quality moments, because here Robert is wrong, but he has some merit with Debra not minding her own business, when both arguers messed up, the back and forth is... better when it's not super one sided.

[@ericharper5361]

ray lay down play dead

[@semperfi01234]

I love this show. But it's funny, cause if a guy hit a girl two times in the face it would be a completely different conversation

[@Jai137]

Yeah, you'd prefer that.

[@chris_zed7425]

Robert shouldve followed ray and franks advice and not say a thing. He shouldve chokeslammed debra. Also kind of wished robert let marie talk to amy. Im curious if she really could have fixed it

[@henrypeters5291]

I was with you until the chokeslamming Debra part. Debra was kind of in the middle. Amy was her best friend and Robert was her brother in law. It is not her job to keep Robert's secrets.

[@WadeAlma]

Love all the comments defending cheating. Hopefully when a woman cheats on you, the same rules apply for her.

[@chris_zed7425]

Hey wadealwayssingle it's ok if you don't get any women 😂😂😂😂

[@brandonhopkins1106]

​@WadeAlma they weren't married

[@WadeAlma]

@@brandonhopkins1106 Then you wont care when your girlfriend or fiance cheats on you.

[@Kwaj]

_"I saved myself for you..."_ That kind of woman is very rare; especially in this day and age. As drop-dead gorgeous as Stefania is, I'd take Amy with her ZERO mileage.

[@CoffeeStainer]

And Marie had to come in and ruin a great scene.

[@baronvonnembles]

Amy was awful. That doesn't excuse Robert cheating but geeze what guy wants that whiny lump around all the time.

[@breadpirateoverhere]

Robert's right though and Debra shows it. Robert grew up neglected by everybody, Debra grew up being a popular girl. Debra doesn't know what it's like to need validation the way Robert does. Robert shouldn't have been juggling women, but it makes sense why he would he struggle with it. Easy for her to just dismiss something she's never had to worry about as childish.

[@Jai137]

Did you miss the part where Debra grew up? This isn't high school anymore, and Robert should have known better

[@breadpirateoverhere]

@@Jai137 thanks for the clip recap 😆

[@DanielOrteez]

She "saved herself" for him? Really? I'm watching the show for the first time and her early appearances on the show really didn't give off that vibe. They must've changed her character in later episodes.

[@DaveLugo79]

There's an entire episode about her being a "good girl". The entire family finds out.

[@DanielOrteez]

@DaveLugo79 ok well then that must be a later episode that I haven't gotten to yet. I'm barely in season 2. But her first couple of episodes she didn't seem like a virgin-type of character. I just finished the Tupperware party episode and they acknowledged that Robert has seen Amy in her sexy negligee. Seemed like they've been banging already.

[@lorivera94]

In the end, Robert is definitely dumb for trying to cheat on Amy, Debra was right with what she said, and Ray.... Ray is just some idiot that should've been divored by that time he kept being cluelessly ridiculous in the first place.

[@brandonhopkins1106]

He didn't cheat tho

[@lorivera94]

@@brandonhopkins1106 He was already close to doing that so yeah he kinda was.

[@brandonhopkins1106]

@@lorivera94 close is not the same

[@JAWS-fc7fn]

@@brandonhopkins1106 Yes he did. He and Stephania kissed in Italy

[@jamesleopard8518]

Robert should have one girlfriend at a time

[@GregLucas-pv8nm]

I hate Raymonds wife. She reminds me of Skylar from Breaking Bad and Laurie from the walking dead.

[@TheBandit025Nova]

Why do you compare her too two characters that are both probably based on her, This show came first than those two shows

[@GregLucas-pv8nm]

@TheBandit025Nova so, she still reminds me of that type of woman.

[@EdgeXXI]

God Debra gets on my nerves

[@JAWS-fc7fn]

She wasn't wrong though

[@bidenstillsucks2249]

She's right cheating is cheating

[@CoffeeStainer]

I love how Rob calls Marie out on her BS. Beautiful woman who has used her youth to enjoy multiple guys has no bearing on a guy who comes into his own at a later age and finally has women to choose from. She can choose someone to settle down with easily because she has sampled. Rob hasn’t.

[@truffles365]

Wtf are you even talking about 😂

[@CoffeeStainer]

@@truffles365 The video is right there. If you can't read or listen then I can't help your feeble mind. Fool.

[@cbsepts]

show was funny had a few moments...but why do all these shows have the premise that ALL the men are bumbling idiots and terrified of their women? this show doesnt have ONE, not one well adjusted male character

[@shinre]

Debra is the worst character in just about any series ever on television.

[@isabelbeckerman9226]

I have to say Debra is way off being judgmental of Robert over his fling with Stefania. She isn't happy with her marriage with Raymond and can't hold water when Marie constantly belittles her with insults and controlling maneuvers. And to top everything else, Amy, who happens to be her best friend, Deb should have minded her own business of telling her about Robert's attraction to Stefania, even though he should have told Amy about his recent run with the Italian Pizzaria beauty in Italy. Before becoming the know-it-all Barone advisor, Debra should look to herself as having some clout to get Marie to respect her and quit meddling in her life permanently.