An Emotional Moment as the Herd Gather at the Orphanage Without Phabeni

An unusual event took place as Tokwe, Lundi and some of the other elephants headed to the orphanage to find out where Phabeni was. Normally the herd walk in the opposite direction into the bush for their day of roaming. Matriarch Tokwe led the elephants (and Owen).
Elephants are incredibly intelligent animals and know when something is wrong. It is an emotional moment as Tokwe and the herd no doubt realised that Phabeni was not joining them, and is no longer at the orphanage. There is no way of avoiding this stress, this pain of losing a loved one, not for elephants or humans.
Lundi investigated the smells on the ground closest to the orphanage. Phabeni’s adoptive mother, Setombe joined in the front to trace the scents and detect signs of her baby. Among the elephants here were: Tokwe, Lundi, Kumbura, Fishan, Jabulani, Setombe, Bubi, Zindoga and Klaserie.
During Phabeni’s last night, and in the morning, during his passing, the herd stood outside the orphanage gate. They gathered there. After a while, they turned around and went to the stand under the homestead roof, waiting for the carers.
Adine thought of putting Phabeni’s body outside for the herd to smell and say their goodbyes. But ultimately after much deliberation with the carers, we decided against it.The reason for this decision was that Stavros, Liverson and Adine’s scents covered Phabeni’s body, and we feared the herd might think that we harmed the calf and so see us as a threat.
The day after Phabeni passed away, the females were in the bush and turned back, and came to the gate. We are not sure if they were looking for Phabeni, but it appeared as though they were coming to pay their respects, as you would at a funeral.
Phabeni’s death is not taken lightly and our veterinary advisors are having many conversations about the possibilities of the causes of death. We need to look at every possible way to prevent future elephant orphans from going through a similar scenario.
We do believe that teething added a considerable challenge for Phabeni. At the age of 8 months, babies usually start teething or tusking, and it takes approximately 2 to 3 months for the first tusk to show.During this period, the babies lose their appetite, and as they are on a milk formula, which is not as good as their mother's own milk, they do not have the antibodies to fight any infection on their own. The calves are delicate and not one recipe is standard for all baby elephants up to the age of 2,5 years. Phabeni’s first tusk was cut a few weeks before he passed away, and the second tusk was extremely swollen.
As per the words and expertise of Sheldrick Wildlife Trust and their elephant orphanage in Kenya:
“No-one knows the secret of wild natural Mother Elephants, whose calves cut their initial first four molars seemingly without any problem, but here in our Nairobi Nursery the teething process is invariably life threatening. We have lost many otherwise healthy calves during this critical process. In a captive situation the teething in baby elephants, occurs between the age of 1 and 4 months, triggers fevers, lethargy, loss of appetite and life threatening diarrheoa that is difficult to bring under control, not helped by the fact that the formula of the humanized base milk we use has apparently been adjusted by subsequent manufacturers, and is not quite as good as it used to be for essentially fragile infant elephant babies. During teething elephant babies usually have to be put on intravenous life supporting electrolytes to replace the fluids they have lost through diarrheoa.”
“Nature has made infant African elephants exceedingly fragile; they can be fine one day and dead the next and one can never be sure that a calf will survive until it is past its second birthday. “The hand-rearing of orphaned elephants is an emotional roller-coaster for those involved, for tragedy stalks success and can strike unexpectedly at any moment.” - Daphne Sheldrick
We need to be strong and continue on for the health and well-being of the rest of the herd in our care. Just because the odds are against us it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t still try to save a life where we can.
Thank you for your support and compassion.

[@shelley-anneharrisberg7409]

It's very emotional to see the elephants trumpeting and vocalizing like that - they know of his loss, I am sure. After elephant whisperer Lawrence Anthony past away, the herd he had rescued came to the lodge - and still do so every year on the anniversary of his death. I am really sad for Setombe who has lost a baby, but for all the eles who have lost the chance of seeing a new bull grow up in the herd. En Khanyisa het haar klein boetie verloor - what a chance she would have had to play with a younger brother just like Timisa did with her. Oh Phabeni-Peni, we will miss you. Thank you HERD for the information regarding baby elephants and teething - the Sheldrick Trust are really experienced and if they have difficulty, it just shows the challenges that goes into raising these youngsters. Thank you HERD and Dr Rogers for doing your utmost with your care, devotion and perseverance. Thank you also for showing the Herd out in the bush at the end. It was so sad to see Phabeni walking among his family where he will walk no more. But it was very therapeutic and so tranquil to see the elephants go about their day in the beautiful African bush - life goes on ❤❤💔💔🐘🐘🐘🐘

[@james5796]

A real tearjerket good folks😢

[@helenbryson815]

Such dignity, so much love, I am humbled by the Herd and join in their grief. Much Love, my thoughts are with Setombe, the rest of the Herd and all of the human team, much love ❤❤❤

[@tinacoetzee7578]

💔🐘🇿🇦

[@GB-he1zc]

Since I saw the video of Phabeny - Beni passing I feel a deep sadness. I see him running with a blanket on in the company of Spotty, Lammie, a big puppy a carer and Adine commenting, laughing in the back because Phabeny-Beni let out a toot, then two, three more toots. So precious with his Blake being blown and his ears doing the butterfly. I saved it, so I'll look up the carers name all of whom I sincerely love . I can't believe that he is gone.😢 Big hug to all❤

[@jomyb55]

Well said, I so agree with every word. Thank you

[@PollyDayDream]

The herd must read the emotions of the carers also. It's a very painful time for you all - I wish you all the strength and love to keep the herd strong. ❤️

[@vblackwell3347]

It certainly seems that somehow they're aware of the situation They're body language feels different to me. You may be quite on target. It stands to reason that they're very attuned to the carers emotions. 💔💔💔

[@TLandHisAlphaFriends]

Looks very suspicious here. Mi7 (Nazi aligned) people, Herd, who manage an orphanage. How the elephants arrive here is questionable, only then to be subject to people who, at best, don't care about them.

[@cgj12]

Seeing the herd looking for him is heartbreaking especially when we saw how excited they were when they first met him. I wish life wasn’t so cruel at times, but we and the elephants will continue on as well we always do, and in our grief, try to remember how loved little Phabeni was and what a gift he was given to have been a member of a herd, if only for a few months. We will never forget you, Phabeni - always in our hearts. ❤️

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

👌👍👍🫶🫶🫶🫶🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏👋👋👋👋👋💔💔💔💔💔💔

[@dowth3]

Amen! Now the others - especially Setombe - need our TLC.

[@michelereynolds9898]

I am just one person among thousands around the world who are grieving with all of you. Dear sweet little Phabeni will be in our hearts and part of HERD forever. Love always.

[@alison__16]

The loss of Phabeni, Fenya and the other babies that went before them, gives me an even greater appreciation and gratitude for Khanyisa's survival, especially considering how much more she had to overcome. 🙏🙏

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

Giusto cara Alison hi.

[@annsmarpat9500]

I totally agree, Meisiekind is a miracle baby. And she's so full of love and a "zest" for life. I love her very much 🫶🏻

[@catherinejoseph8868]

I was just thinking the same way. She was damaged on the outside, but her spirit was strong. She always had so much joy. I will miss Phabeni. He had so much emotion to battle.

[@shirleymorris7760]

Her joy and love of life in the face of trauma is so great. She is one special ele. ❤❤❤

[@user-zd7ol8ri2d]

So sad rest in peace Phabeni 😢 i will never forget you!!

[@marybranch3858]

I tear up every time I read about this precious baby boy😢😢😢😢. I pray comfort and strength to all Herd family; elephants and carers.

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@cheryldare]

I am grieving for the little one and I live across the world from the Herd; I can't even imagine what Adine, Staff and all the elephants are feeling. My tears were really flowing when video of Phabeni walking with the Herd....he loved them so...just didn't want this ending....so heartbroken

[@VitalityMassage]

If they continue to do the same thing... (feed them formula > elephant gets infected or weak > they do blood transfusions and antibiotics > elephant dies) then the same thing will just happen again! Same poor process, same results! They need range free cow milk. This is much more likely to give them a healthy baby elephant. RANGE FREE.

[@evaelhouar3933]

I can't think of Phabeni without tears in my eyes. He was such a sweet little boy. Rest in peace, I will never forget you. Elephants are such an intelligent animal and so protective of the family. Thank you HERD for what you are doing for these fantastic animals.

[@TLandHisAlphaFriends]

Looks very suspicious here. Mi7 (Nazi aligned) people, Herd, who manage an orphanage. How the elephants arrive here is questionable, only then to be subject to people who, at best, don't care about them.

[@Odehyah951]

I never thought losing Phabeni would be so emotional for me.

[@tinasisson4769]

Me too,,,,,😢

[@sallyrickerson9139]

Me too. 😭

[@dowth3]

It's amazing, isn't it? What a special baby bull! Now my focus is on Setombe and her broken mama heart.

[@JM-wv4cj]

Me too. I was shocked by how deeply I'm grieving for an animal I never met in-person.

[@TLandHisAlphaFriends]

Looks very suspicious here. Mi7 (Nazi aligned) people, Herd, who manage an orphanage. How the elephants arrive here is questionable, only then to be subject to people who, at best, don't care about them.

[@sallyo100]

Phabeni was so fortunate to be found when he was orphaned, and cared for by Adine and her amazing team. He was loved by his fellow orphaned sisters Khanyisa, Timisa and Kumbura and adored by his foster mother Setombe and sister Klaserie. Tokwe, Lundi, Bubi, all the girls and all the boys (big and small) were such a supportive family for him and he was always protected and nurtured. Rest in peace, feisty little pumpkin .... you were much, much loved.

[@annsmarpat9500]

Beautiful, I agree 🕊️💙 The Jabulani Herd are so incredibly special and The Human Herd as well. You all at @HERD Elephant Orphanage are loved beyond measure ❤️ What you guys do is changing the world for the better. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@victorhayes9975]

Lord in the name of your son Jesus please accept the little bull elephant

[@rocioaguilera3555]

Phabeni died? Oh, no. I'm crying 😭

[@helenab7390]

So sad crying my eyes out...he was so loved...

[@mikhailpokrovscky2236]

I expected the herd to be mourning the loss of Phabeni. I also agree with Adine''s decision not to let the herd pay their respects for concern that they misunderstand the situation. It is such a delicate walk when caring for wildlife. Especially, elephants who are extremely intelligent and family oriented. Caring for orphans is perilous and frought with perils. I will be honest, I cried with them as the y expressed their grief. Especially Setombe who had taken him under her wing. Phabeni knew love from his herd and from everyone in the HERD team. He was very fortunate to have been found when he did. Love to the herd and to the HERD team as you all grieve the loss of Phabeni.

[@jencat-12]

My heart breaks for these beautiful elephants looking for their baby Phabeni. So many of us are grieving his loss. Bless you for the loving care you gave him. Bless

[@VitalityMassage]

If they'd made the effort to get range free cow's milk, that baby elephant would still be alive.

[@JM-wv4cj]

​@@VitalityMassagePlease read the description to this video in its entirety before posting this cruel critique.

[@VitalityMassage]

@@JM-wv4cj Feeding them formula followed by having to give them blood transfusions and then antibiotics will cause the same results. Death. They need to WAKE UP and make a CHANGE ok. You need to use your brain before calling me cruel. I'm trying to create a different scenario than the last poor one.

[@VitalityMassage]

​@@JM-wv4cj The elephants are all thinking the same thing... Phabeni died from drinking the formula. They remember having to drink that junk and how it's amazing that they survived it!

[@VitalityMassage]

@@mgp870 READ the caption! 4:30 The formula is also not as naturally nutritious as a natural milk. It's full of synthetic vitamins and minerals in disproportionate amounts. Natural milk is created from vegetation, not in a lab! WAKE UP!

[@geoffreycampbell8161]

I have never been so emotional for an animal that I haven’t had direct contact with, But following Phabenis journey, and watching him through the highs and lows has given me such an appreciation for the care, compassion and love Adine and the whole HERD team give everyday. I, as we all have been, blessed to be able to be a part of Phabeni and the entire elephant herd, through all their life journeys is a gift I will always cherish. Much love and hugs to you all. ❤️❤️🐘❤️❤️

[@TLandHisAlphaFriends]

Looks very suspicious here. Mi7 (Nazi aligned) people, Herd, who manage an orphanage. How the elephants arrive here is questionable, only then to be subject to people who, at best, don't care about them.

[@lauren_WI]

❤well said

[@marlyt9155]

“Grief is only love that has no place to go”. We’re all 💔 from the GIANT🐘void Phabeni has left, and where to put our love now. We must all realise just how miraculous Khanyisa actually is, given how incredibly difficult her early life has been. She’s a living miracle, with a heart of gold!

[@dowth3]

Agreed on Khanyisa. My focus is on Setombe, in particular who lost her baby (and also now possibly her newfound highly regarded role in the herd as Phabeni's chosen mama)😢

[@stevebyrom5974]

The human race could learn a lot from these magnificent creatures ❤

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

Yes ,hi.

[@jeanettecoleman-mz7ie]

I was thinking the same, their Sombreness, community, Respect for each other & the Dead.

[@frantrictantric]

True, but sadly they don't.

[@marks35]

Absolutely !!

[@jabbtx7130]

💯🥲

[@alicefrancis1837]

My heart utterly breaks for Setombe, she was such a sweet loving mama.💔

[@dowth3]

💯🙏🏻

[@snowdropinla621]

Mine breaks, too

[@user-up2pb5ci2r]

I think the staff was right about not putting Phabeni’s body out for the herd to smell. All of the scents of you all caring for him in his last moments would have not been good for them to smell. Prayers for all who cared for sweet and feisty Phabeni. ❤️

[@ladyjustice1474]

Broke my heart when I the lead elephant gently call for the baby. The herd is very smart. They know something happened to Phabeni. Watching them grieve breaks my heart. They love Phabeni, and his passing is confusing to them. My condolences to the herd.🥹

[@TLandHisAlphaFriends]

Looks very suspicious here. Mi7 (Nazi aligned) people, Herd, who manage an orphanage. How the elephants arrive here is questionable, only then to be subject to people who, at best, don't care about them.

[@loganstrong9874]

Former little pink elephant ,now a big girl is one of success stories ,and now can see how speical she is to gotten through all the hurdles orphans elephants face .

[@nadinaanne]

she was so damaged on arrival we are so very lucky

[@jamesfreeman2258]

Adine was with her 24,/7

[@Ekinnajay]

I have been so distraught over this unexpected loss, so I can only imagine what is happening with the Herd staff and his beautiful elephant family. Thank you for giving us an update. Much love to you all.

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@avs6372]

I've been sharing his story on social media. Lots of us in elephant advocacy groups share and educate the highs, and lows. Challenges involved in Saving elephants and rescue missions. ❤😢

[@poppamic]

😢🙏❤️🐘

[@dowth3]

​@@avs6372 Yes... We learn as much from the lows -- and this is certainly a low!

[@cemarie5471]

Same

[@stevenritts193]

Elysuim welcomes you, fellow warrior. Wherever I look I'll see you, little brother (I'm an orphan too)... You're in my heart forever... Deepest love to all at HERD, human, elephant, and sheep. You all did so well for him.

[@dowth3]

Beautiful sentiment 💚

[@ronstihlman825]

I just sobbed through this video and could not even watch the previous one. I wish you could have let the herd see Phabeni's body and pay their respects. I understand why you did not. This so hard for all of you. My sincerest condolences. If those of us who are thousands of miles away weep, it must be devastating for all of you. This emphasises just how miraculous Khanyisa's survival is. God bless and keep you all.

[@Bloodnok49]

I respect your grief, which the HERD humans, the subscribers here and Jabulani herd doubtless all share. However, letting the Jabulani herd physically respect Phabeni''s carcass was well nigh impossible. If Phabeni's carcass had been presented in the grounds of the Homestead, the elephants might have wanted to bury him by covering his body with leaves and sticks - and that is impossible because the material is not there.. Equally, HERD would have had to leave his body in situ, which in African terms is also impossible.: Mother Nature provides for this in the wild with a host of predators like vultures or hyenas but no way could these undertakers be let loose into the compound, since the elephants alone would not accept it. Worse still, Setombve might have tried to carry Phabeni around with her. Equally, Phabeni''s body could not be left out on the trail,. since the elephants would have wondered how he got there without their knowledge - all they might have done was to pick up the scent of humans and turned on them. If it is of comfort, the elephants undoubtedly knew Phabeni was close to death and died. Setombe was heard screaming. Tokwe, as matriarch, in the video leads her herd back to the Orphanage to pay respect. The story of the Thula Thula herd is instructive: when the human owner died hundreds of miles away, the elephants still knew - maybe they picked up vibes from his widow? A year later to the day, the semi-wild herd returned to the owner's home to pay respect. There is so much the scientists still have to learn about elephant communications. -

[@patriciamaclennan5634]

@@Bloodnok49 Thank you for that. It makes complete sense. Humans completely underestimate the intuition of animals. We have a lot to learn from them and especially from these mighty giants. Their ability to communicate over long distances, their very high emotional intelligence is very humbling. I'm sure Phabeni would have communicated with the HERD. They knew what was going on and that he passed.🌈 Such beautiful souls.💟

[@ronstihlman825]

Thank you for your informative reply. I had not considered that the elephants would have been unwilling to surrender Phabeni's body to the carers and that refusal would have led to the consequences you describe. Yes, it was clear that they did know the baby had died and were distressed. 😭

[@manuelagherghel816]

This is heartbreaking 💔From the day of his passing away I keep watching him on old videos , so tiny, so courageous, an amazing little fighter. Love you, Phabeni. .😢

[@helenestrada1913]

PLEASE .. Can you tell me what happened to baby Phabeni? 🙏💔😥

[@paolacanali4567]

Io x ora non ce la faccio a vedere i vecchi video di Phabeni 😢😢😢 mi si stringe il cuore 😢😢😢 forse in futuro li guarderò ora il dolore è grande 😢

[@richardjohnson5529]

It was so sad seeing the reaction of the Elephants wondering were Phabeni was, it brought tears to my eyes. But this tragedy shows how fortunately we were to have Khanyisa survive and grow into strong and young lady.

[@Greylock21]

😢❤

[@Playwright62]

Thank you, through the sorrow, for providing this education on the challenges of raising orphaned babies.

[@jamesfreeman2258]

Adine was with her 24/7

[@Goldenlion148]

It is obvious the elephants are very sensitive and realise the baby is not with them. They are stressed and they know things are not as they used to be. RIP Phabeni and may your herd be a comfort to the next orphan. You all tried your best and it is amazing considering the problems faced by calves that so many do survive. Keep up the good work.

[@jonimestas9692]

Amazing! They held a wake for Phabeni. Elephants are phenomenal. RIP Phabeni. For ever in my heart.

[@karenstafford724]

That is so heartbreaking for all the elephants in the Herd. They all know something is very wrong. Bless all of them.😢😢😢😢😢

[@lynettepieters2890]

Phabeni's death is heartbreaking. 😢

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

💔💔💔👍👋

[@dowth3]

Agreed! I've been watching precious videos to help me process his loss. My faith tells me that the precious wee bull is now pain-free and healed. Now my heart breaks for Setombe, in particular.

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

@@dowth3 vero!

[@jenniferlarsen7365]

Setombe really loved her little baby. She was so happy to be a mom again. My heart goes out to the entire herd. It's hard to believe that these large and majestic animals can be so delicate. It goes to show that protecting these animlas is so important

[@Sese-nk6pd]

Bless all who take care of the herd. Phabeni was loved and didn’t pass away alone. There can be some comfort in that. I know the human and elephant hearts are broken and must go on. I hurt for you all💔 Rest easy sweet Phabeni🐘

[@susanmartin6834]

Phabeni is teaching all of us just how important wild life is to us and what we stand to lose if not for the work of good people at The Herd Thank you all ❤❤❤

[@italiantraditionalcatholic2390]

Actually, the Genesis account of our existence is the only truth

[@susanmartin6834]

@@italiantraditionalcatholic2390 Your truth perhaps but not mine...thankyou

[@aliceflanagan3672]

Beni loved his herd so much and was so proud to walk with them. So fragile like our hearts.

[@dowth3]

Yes! I remember with joy thw scene where he was out front of them on their walk! It was then that I imagined him being a future Sebakwe and leading the herd as a dominant bull😢

[@wendyjack4532]

How touching that the elephants came to pay such an emotional tribute to Phabeni after he passed away. This truly shows the deep devotion that they had for Phabeni. It also shows how deeply sentient elephants are. It is comforting to know that they cared about Phabeni so much.

[@zoesgma]

To all of you who worked with Phabeni, and the herd, I am so sorry for your loss.

[@tatjanaeberhardinger2625]

I'm sure they 'knew' the little fella was gone. 😭 Humans haven't even started to fully understand their means of communication, their level of awareness, emotions and empathy. Phabeni's in The Light.

[@dowth3]

Amen!

[@TLandHisAlphaFriends]

Looks very suspicious here. Mi7 (Nazi aligned) people, Herd, who manage an orphanage. How the elephants arrive here is questionable, only then to be subject to people who, at best, don't care about them.

[@Patricia-vd9xh]

Prayers for the Jabulani Herd and their Carers that everyone's hearts will know Peace.

[@Greylock21]

🙏 ☀️😪

[@dowth3]

Amen!

[@nancykelly9712]

I had a moment of overwhelming loss today for poor little Phabeni thinking about how happy he'd become living his life there. No matter how hard you try something can always happen when they are so tiny. Shows just how lucky an albino baby was to have overcome so many obstacles to get to the size Khaniysa is today, especially having had so many cuts all over her. God bless you all for taking such good care of these majestic animals. The world is such a better place with you all in it. 💞

[@amy8879]

Setombe’s grief is visible in her eyes. I’m so glad the herd has each other for support. I continue to pray strength for every living soul impacted by the loss of Phabeni. Amen. ♥️

[@andrealacroix3773]

I have cried so much for a little elephant I've never met. He's out of pain and with all the other babies and bigs who have passed. So sorry for the other elephants figuring out he passed. ❤😭😔🐘

[@dowth3]

Isn't it the worst?! My mama heart breaks for Setombe. I'm praying that the others rally around her and that she's not again separate from the other mum's while mourning.

[@gemmacorrigan4839]

All I could respond the other day was "I am so sorry". The grief was so much. I can't imagine what the herd the carers and everyone so closely involved are going through right now. The fact that I am miles away and never met any of you but feel this grief is a testament to you all. How much you give, your care. With your helpful informative videos you allowed beautiful Baby Beni be loved by the world and we unfortunately now see how hard it is. Your videos will continue to help the future generations understand the importance of empathy for others and to respect the natural world around us. This is my love to you. I am so sad I have cried so much. Thank you I am truly sorry for your loss. Thankyou for making it our loss.

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂 I am one of the incessant cryers. I feel we are all one together right now .....a strange Web world phenomena that Fenya & Phabeni can create these moments that bring us to really feeling a part of a community far and wide. ❤

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

Anche in Italia 💔💔💔💔💔💔👋👋

[@susanfeneley]

@gemmacorrigan4839 Beautiful thoughts. 🐘💞🕊🦋🇺🇸

[@dowth3]

Well said. Love knows no boundaries. My prayers are now for Setombe, especially.

[@TLandHisAlphaFriends]

Looks very suspicious here. Mi7 (Nazi aligned) people, Herd, who manage an orphanage. How the elephants arrive here is questionable, only then to be subject to people who, at best, don't care about them.

[@lynda22213]

Heartfelt thanks to the HERD family team and everyone for not giving up on the orphaned elephants. 🙏🙏🙏For the sake of the elephants, please stay strong.

[@susant236]

I have read so many of the heartfelt comments and condolences about the loss of dear little Phabeni and struggle to find words that express my own feelings. I echo the beautiful words and outpouring of love. My heart hurts for him, his beautiful herd who welcomed him and loved him. I am so sad for Setombe and the other mothers. To Adine and all the dedicated and wonderful carers- you are truly amazing people. You did everything humanly possible and your care of Phabeni 24/7 since the day he arrived has been awe-inspiring! I can only imagine how devastating it is to lose this sweet, dear, special little fellow. As you continue the vital work you do and life continues, the beautiful sunrises and sunsets begin and end the days, the herd blesses us with their gentle and fascinating presence- I know that Phabeni will be dearly missed and always remembered. Thank you and heartfelt wishes for your own healing. ❤️❤️

[@saulvillicana292]

Currently dealing with a cancer diagnosis for my little girl dog after 14 years with her. Hearing the news about Phabeni absolutely breaks my heart. Sending the carers and the herd love and light. 😢 Thank you everyone for your well wishes and great ideas I will definitely try some out. One thing I did want to mention was Phabeni and the work that Herd does was a bright spot for me over the course of this process.

[@martinsulat697]

May God bless you and your little girl with hope and peace!!!

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@archiemustachie3693]

((hugs))

[@susanfeneley]

@saulvillicana292 Prayers for you and your beloved doggie. Strength and peace. 🐘🕊🦋🐕🩷💙

[@JulieRushworth]

Hugs and prayers 🙏

[@ccccarriemchardy9216]

Poor Setombe and herd, all mourning together. RIP little one.

[@melodymacken9788]

RIP. Unforgettable. Rotorua, New Zealand 🇳🇿

[@yvonnebanks7411]

Kenneth Shambira will be loving on Phabeni now. Feel so sad for all concerned, including Setombe and the rest of the herd. Adine and the carers are marvelous, babies dying breaks my heart

[@lindafromcalifornia1155]

I could see their loss for Phabeni. The sadness in them. That must have been difficult for everyone. 🐘

[@jackiebrown6386]

Wise words from Daphne Sheldrick. It’s is incredibly sad that the herd have lost my dear boy , rip Phabeni ❤🇬🇧

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@benedettasavitri9644]

Hello, what did Daphne say? I must have missed it 😢

[@susanfeneley]

​@@benedettasavitri9644 You'll find it in the description and also in the video.

[@cuthbert2546]

How the hell did they know?!?!?! We humans are so ignorant in comparison. Such strength and dignity.

[@francineellis1952]

This display of grief and anguish is just heart-wrenching. I have cried every day for the loss of the precious little soul Phabeni, as I am sure have many of the followers of HERD. I cannot imagine the devastation of Adine, Stavros, and the other carers with the passing of this dearest little bull. To see the sorrow of the herd in which sweet Phabeni found his "mother" Setombe and many other loving aunts, uncles, and sisters only underscores what deeply sentient, compassionate, magnificent beings these elephants are. They so loved dear little Phabeni. Thank you for sharing them with us and caring for these giant beautiful souls. 💔🐘 We are truly blessed to have them in our world.

[@jupite1888]

Painful to watch after losing that Sweet little Phabeni

[@sheilagadde5975]

They seem to have tears in their eyes. I ache for them . Mourning goes beyond understanding.

[@juliebrady8583]

It makes me realise how amazing Khanyisa's survival has been. Again thanks to Adine and all the carers.

[@lindaj5492]

Stately, somber and silent as they approached the Nursery: their final farewell. 🥺🥺

[@roses9339]

I wondered all night after watching the devastating passing of little Phabeni whether it would have been a good idea for the herd to see, touch and smell their tiny boy. You addressed that thought, and I thank all the carers for their knowledge in this distressing time. Love to all. Cheers Rosemary Western Australia 73yrs

[@patriciamaclennan5634]

Rosemary I too thought that, so am glad Adine explained the reasoning behind not showing him. I have wondered maybe if Setombe was allowed into the orphanage when he was distressed, if he would have found comfort in that. But maybe that too might have created more stress. Enteritis is very painful so no wonder the little one let out screams, thrashing and making distressing breathing noises. All we can do now is send love and healing to his ellie family, Adine and all the carers. Blessings from Queensland 🐘🐘✨💟

[@benedettasavitri9644]

Hello, what did they say? Why didn't they show them his body?

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

😇😇🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔👍👍i like your comment, hi

[@Beruthiel45]

It's all explained in the description. 😢 @@benedettasavitri9644

[@michellesartori6695]

It would appear as though HERD has many Australian supporters. I'm in country NSW and I often don't sleep well throughout the night and so I watched the final video of Phabeni while the night was still dark and I knew that I wouldn't sleep again. I'm glad that Adine explained why Phabeni's little body wasn't displayed to the other elephants but as a retired RN who spent many years assisting in the dying process as a Palliative Care and Aged Care nurse, watching Phabeni in evident pain and distress during his active dying process was very difficult to see! I kept waiting for Dr Rodgers to appear with an IV cocktail of something (I'm not even going to suggest something as I am no elephant expert), but watching him struggle both with his breathing and neurological state, being very agitated, was so bad but regardless of this I knew that Adine and the other carers like Stavros were doing their absolute best to keep him comfortable. Knowing that Phabeni passed away at the time of what would be a gorgeous sunrise on the African continent made me remember previous sunrises with human patients and that all men, women, and animals must die. It's the one inevitably of life that it will end, although some get more time than others! I shall always cherish the memory of this little bull who, like many, left us way too soon! Thanks for reading.

[@carolynellis387]

Poor Phabeni, he really did look poorly when cutting his first tusk. Now, I have a little more understanding of literally how fragile these babies are. Lots of thoughts to you all at Herd. You all tried so hard, it still hurts losing him

[@suprenadickson4210]

I’m very emotional with this, especially with the air pods. You can hear every concerned grumble and grief of the trumpet noise. They are sentient and now know the baby Beni, is no more. My heart goes out to all the HERD.😢😪😭

[@louyeo6571]

The sorrow and dismay expressed by those dear elephants moved me to tears. How we shall miss watching Phabeni grow. Blessings on you all at Herd.

[@dowth3]

For sure. Setombe is now the focus of my prayers

[@arellerodejale7458]

Amazing how the loss of one life can cause a multitude to suddenly seem empty. 😭💔🐘

[@Paulineme1]

I’m so upset that Phabeni passed! I feel sad for his herd and carers!

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@jamiecasey9800]

I know how fragile these amazing animals are at that tender age and prayed very hard for Phabeni 🙏🐘that He could get through this difficult stage. I will always 💕 him and remember that feisty little Bull I mourned for him like a family member and will never forget His name PHABENI 💕🙏🐘🙏💕 I was really feeling for the other elephants worried for Setombe how is she excepting and praying for Her. Little Khanysia 💖 seemed to hover over him as though she knew he needed extra support. This unique HERD really has proved to all of us that every individual is welcome and accepted as a family member. That is what makes these Beautiful Majestic Creatures so much better than us humans. This is so Beautiful but emotional to witness. My prayers to each and every one of them and to the rest of the HERD family the Carer's and especially Adine who has sacrificed herself to the well-being of one of African greatest treasures. Thank you for allowing me to help in any way that I can. Phabeni forever in my HEART 💕🐘🙏🙏💕🦣🐘🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🐑🐑

[@marggiemay59]

Pheanbi was loved beyond measure amongst the herd ( all orphans themselves) and his human carers. Everyone put in so much effort to keep that baby alive. Sometimes there are no answers that will satisfy. We have to accept Gods will. The team have learned much from this fussy wee bull. He was delightful and cared for from his adoptive elephant mother and family and his human mother and family. Noone could have been more loved and sometimes that is enough and they leave us and go home. It is lovely to see how many people have come together to support and care for this herd. If we humans can replicate this love everywhere we may just have a chance to save this planet we are on Rest in peace little Pheanbi you have gained your angel wings and you have joined your elephant mother whom you missed just a little too much to survive. 😢❤

[@friederikejansen5085]

It shows the intelligence and empathy elephants have in abundance!💔🖤💔 thanks for showing us their reaction to Phabeni's absence even if its heartbreaking to watch

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

👍👍👍💔💔👋👋👋

[@surfer143]

🤍Phabeni will always be Setombes Angel🐘🦣🕊️🙏 they have changed each others lives in very beautiful and important ways. This herd has lost others before but Elephants are strong, intelligent, spiritual creatures and will continue as always to do what is best for all. Timisa lost Mopane whom she was close to, she can help Khanyisa through this loss. So much respect I have for the Gentle Giants, and as usual, Father Fishan is at the forefront of these sensitive family matters🦣✨Thank you Herd family for your candid and educational sensitivity. 💫💫💫

[@dowth3]

Beautiful words and sentiment 💚

[@herdelephantorphanage]

We so appreciate your positivity thank for being a shining light.

[@motherofthedrummer]

The elephants trumpeting for Phabeni just broke my heart 💔.

[@marlyt9155]

Our hearts break for the Jabulani herd 💔 as they search the ground for him. Their protection circle said it all. We all mourn with them over their loss, and yours at HERD. Saddest…thing…EVER.

[@paddyjenkins8458]

Those poor babies they realize phabeni is missing that is one of the saddest things I have seen.

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@dowth3]

Agreed! 💔

[@sato611]

I've been thinking... these tiny babies need unconditional, bottomless love to survive, and all of you, Herd and any other orphanages, give them that. But nature takes its own course and takes away precious ones at times, breaking everyone's heart. And yet, when new calves arrive again, I can see that the love you give them have no reserve.

[@eternity7477]

That is incredibly sad. Just look at the tears streaming. One can almost sense the grief of elephants and humans through the screen.

[@carrielynne05]

Oh Phabeni you were so loved by so many. May God bless everyone and every elephant in this tough time. Love and blessings to all at Herd.

[@mariacorazonvalera9980]

They are all bewildered and confused.

[@avs6372]

Yes.😢

[@suzannechance5876]

​@@avs6372 me too

[@waitwhat564]

Oh how incredibly amazing how the elephants came together to see, Phabeni, knowing intuitively he is no longer there, to mourn with their loud trumpet cries Their intelligence, kindness and love is astounding. I burst into tears seeing this. 😢 Thankyou for sharing with us what is happening and your continued efforts into why things happen and your continual research , efforts and love. Seeing Phabeni at the end with the herd. What a tiny little bud he was. Sometimes I had to really really look to see him. I’ve been waiting all day for the this video. Will never forget little Phabeni. 🙏🏼❤️🌹😭With love from Australia

[@dowth3]

💯💚

[@jamesducey2685]

The little elephant that tried. The clan knows and is showing respect.

[@kp8381]

My little 16 yr old fur baby died the same day as our little man, and I'm just 💔. I pray they are both running free of pain and worries. Thank you, HERD, for all you have and all you will continue to do to save these precious souls. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. 🐶🩷🐘💙

[@dowth3]

Oh dear! What a double whamy💔. Prayers for you as you mourn🙏🏻

[@kp8381]

​@@dowth3 Thank you. ❤

[@clairetomkyns175]

I think Adine's idea was right. In the wild elephants gather around their dead. It is their way of closure.

[@OzymandiasKaboom]

I'm reminded that predators often take the babies, because they are easier targets in the wild. Those predators are of course not evil; they're surviving just like the elephants. The life of an elephant is likely filled with the agony of losing children. It is a small blessing that some orphans and strays can avoid this fate in the sanctuary. Many thanks and praises to HERD staff for providing this unique paradise, even if nothing cannot prevent all tragedy.

[@mortalclown3812]

❤ Thank you so much for these words. (Some posts have added to the sadness. I'm grateful for the ones that refrain from that.) Blessings to HERD - You're all family and we've privileged follow along with our eyes and hearts.

[@GuantanamoBayBarbie3]

I thought about that too. Even though he didn't make it, he wasn't eaten by lions. He was loved and accepted by his new HERD. My heart is just broken for Setombe, and the others.

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

💔💔💔me too! 👋👋👋

[@susanfeneley]

@OzymandiasKaboom THANK YOU!!🐘🦋🕊

[@susanfeneley]

​@@mortalclown3812 You are SO right!!🐘🕊🦋

[@luvmyshihtzus7327]

I hope Phabeni met up with Kenneth so they both have the relationship in Heaven as they did on earth. My heart broke when The Herd showed up looking for Phabeni. I know you tried your best to save him, but his little body just couldn’t beat the infection. Thank you for everything you all do for these beautiful and majestic creatures that God put on this earth and all the hard work you and your team, as well as the true love you give them all.

[@laurenkeon3267]

Cannot stop crying, watching all these beautiful elephants searching for their baby Phabeni, smelling for his scent. Breaks my heart for Setombe. This loss is so devastating. Watching him walk with his herd at end of video did me in. I cannot imagine the grief of the carers and Adine . I immediately wondered why you didn’t put his little body out there for the herd to touch and smell and say goodbye, but now i understand . Elephants grieve. This won’t be an easy time for them…..or you and the carers, or any of us who have bonded and grown to love this herd and baby Phabeni. We miss you bsby boy. Always.

[@shannondominguez9725]

Oh my heart they KNOW!! 🥺the herd understands that their Seuintje is no longer of this world,my heart is broken for all of you I am so sorry. I wish more than anything that this courageous little bull could have lived a long life but this is sometimes the harsh,soul crushing reality of rescue,as hard as one can try there’s aspects that we don’t always see when animals are found and are compromised. For the following 7-8 months of his precious life Phabeni knew only kindness and love getting to experience the comfort of a family again your team gave him the fighting chance he otherwise wouldn’t have had people from around the world love him and he fought so valiantly to stay despite being so young he touched us all with his spicy spirit and fighting bluff charges,a little Champion forever in our hearts. Thank you Adine and Co. for doing everything possible to give this little one the life he deserved please take care of yourselves and give the rest of the herd especially precious Setombe lots of TLC,Phabeni there’s several little Ellie’s beyond the 🌈 bridge Mopane,Shawu and Fenya,I hope you found them we love you so much.🐘🪽🤗🩵🩵

[@leonakay6491]

Beautifully said. I have been grieving as well, as I 'fell in love with this high-vibrational soul'. His play-fullness, his spirit, and his personality will always remain in my heart. Thank you Adine, and all the carers. Love and healing to you all, and all who loved Phabeni. Love and blessings from Australia. xxx

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

Dear Shannon hi, meravigliose parole dettate da un cuore ❤️ buono e generoso, non ho parole.... non ho guardato il video, non posso! Fa male a tutti ma tocca il profondo a mamma Adine, dame Setombe e tutti gli elephants ,carers ,lammie ,Spotty ecct. Benedizioni a te e famiglia 😇🙏🙏🙏🫶🙌💔💔💔👋👋👋

[@susanfeneley]

@shannondominguez9725 Thank you so much!!💞🐘🕊🦋💐

[@ljohnso968]

I wonder if the manufacturers know that the new formulas that they're making is lacking major nutrients that is needed for the teething Infants than their original formulas, then maybe they can go back to the original? If they won't change the formula, can we get the original formula and invest in making our own brand for the crucial first two years of the teething babies? I don't have much and don't know the first thing on how to get this started but I will contribute and with the worldwide herd family that we have, I believe that we can make this happen ❤ Just a thought

[@dowth3]

Such a beautiful sentiment 💚. And YES ... Setombe needs a LOT of TLC. I'm concerned that she'll lose her recently highly regarded role aa Phabeni's chosen mama. I pray that the other mums rally around her 🙏🏻

[@annawalker1750]

The herds grief is heartbreaking. Thank you for this post❤ no doubt much reflection and supporting one another . Thank you for all that you do xx

[@PhoebeFayRuthLouise]

I pray for God to comfort these beautiful elephants as they morn the loss of baby Phabeni.

[@Narrowway7]

Well here I am sobbing again. I sure do miss that little guy. I know those Ellie’s smelled death. They know so much more than we think. They all looked very somber and quite sad 😔 we all wish we could have our Phabeni back so desperately 😭 blessings to you guys and the Ellie’s 🙏🏻🥺

[@sainjawoof3506]

This is absolutely soul crushing to watch 😭. The sadness and grief I feel is indescribable. I honestly cannot understand, how anyone can believe that other animals lack sentience. Their mourning is beautiful, meaningful, and a lovely send off for Seuntjie Phabeni 🩶🐘 My love and condolences to all involved.

[@dowth3]

💯

[@shonagiffen4913]

How sad for them having lost him 😭😭😭❤❤❤

[@user-hf4qc9sr5q]

The entire HERD is mourning, including those of us in other countries. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for caring for these magnificent elephants.

[@JulieRushworth]

These beautiful family are upset, it's plain to see, my heart aches for all of our Family, I love and adore all of you, your courage and wisdom knows no bounds. 💔

[@geoffmaloney2717]

Oh wow their reaction is incredibly sad and raw. Still hard to believe that Phabeni is no longer with the HERD. Been a very trying week for everyone, but thank you for posting this reaction from the HERD, Setombe and the allmothers must be sad and confused. Also thankful for the explanation of no body for the HERD to smell and the situation regarding captive baby elephants. As I posted in another comments section it is amazing that Kanishya actually has survived past infancy with her injuries and the fragile nature of baby African Elephants. I can't speak for others but I have waited for this video, it is a type of closure and a way to move forward.

[@bernadettesterckx32]

So do I.

[@lorekallyre7205]

I needed to know aswell...about viewing the body.🫂

[@dowth3]

I've also been waiting to see Setombe. She is my focus now. She lost so much💔 and may now also lose her new found regard from the other mums in the herd. I pray they don't abandon her.

[@mopsolina]

Heartbreaking...😢 I believe he's watching over all of you, from his elephant and human family, from over the rainbow piece of heaven. You'll be missed so much baby Phabeni.😢😢😢

[@elizabethfairlie8296]

Heart wrenching. Blessing and love to the grieving herd family.

[@eaglessoar6830]

Sending love and comfort to the Herd, Adine, the carers, the team. God and elephant angels are caring for darling Phabeni now. ❤

[@On-Our-Radar-24News]

This is very sad to watch but important to see and understand how fragile any life truly is. Embrace life and live it to the fullest.

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@seawavesnightstars9452]

We are on this journey together to heal. Blessings to all.🙏❤❤❤

[@elizabethbarberis9058]

Thank you for explaining the 'why' of not letting them mourn over the body, your reasons make perfect sense. My heart aches with you, we've all invested so much in your efforts to give Phabeni a long life in the herd. 💜Rest in Peace sweet little one 💜 (I do hope and wish that the investigations into this sad death will further the understanding required to help those who follow after under your Love and Care)

[@cannyexplorer5357]

I have always felt that elephants have the most compassion of all the animal kingdom when one of their herd dies. This must be a very difficult times for them all as well as their caregivers. Most of the elephants are not blood related so being adopted by each other they have a very special bond with one another. Most say that blood is thicker than water but that does not always ring true. This herds bond will become even stronger with the memory of Phabeni, his short stay with them and with us all will not be forgotten.

[@annsmarpat9500]

I'm so sorry Adine and everyone at @HERD for your terrible loss, you 100% tried EVERYTHING. It was Phabeni's destiny to stay on earth for a short while. His passing will not be in vain. Seuntjie shone a huge light on the plight African elephants are still facing everyday. Rest in Love little warrior Prince 🕊️👑 You will never ever be forgotten. Adine, The Human Herd, The Jabulani Herd and this wonderful HERD community all over the world; we all push forward and keep fighting the good fight. Rescuing orphans and educating the world through this special, amazing herd of orphans themselves (well most of them). I'm sending extra love and healing to Setombe💔. You are an amazing Queen and I'm so proud of you ❤❤️‍🩹 I still can't believe that feisty little Prince is gone.😭

[@MRKRG9]

Thank you Adine & all Carers and staff. I cannot fathom the pain. ❤️💙❤️‍🩹💙❤️💙

[@user-yr5kn9ez1o]

I have been waiting for this update of the herd and their reaction to Phabeni not being with them anymore. I have had this weird feeling in !y chest and realized that a piece of my heart is gone. I loved that little guy even though I never met him. Seeing these videos brings HERD into our homes and lets us dhare in your triumphs and , unfortunately your tragedys. Thank you from the bottom of what is left of my heart gor all you do for these wonderful animals. I will miss seeing that cute little guy with the feisty personality and I will grieve for him along with the countless others around yhe world whose lives were touched by this tiny wonderful soul. May the pain of losing him diminish a little everyday so the only memories you hold dear are the ones that make you smile. My condolences to everyone at HERD snd around the world who are, including myself, grieving for this little guy who I still can't believe is gone from us.

[@marlyt9155]

Grief is only love that has no place to go. I think this what you might be feeling, along with all of us 💔

[@user-yr5kn9ez1o]

Thank you for that sentiment. I never heard that before but I love the wisdom in that statement.

[@phoenixps]

Same😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@donnadickey276]

Oh my Lord...their grief is so apparent and overwhelming. My heart hurts for you all. It's amazing to be thousands of miles away and to feel such personal grief.

[@HoneyBumblebee300]

Elephants are very intelligent and caring. More so then some human beings. They have feelings and feel the loss of a loved one the same way us humans do. They have excellent memory and never forget. Dear Phabeni, rest in peace.❤

[@cguajardo11]

Phabeni I will remember you always ❤❤❤

[@wendymarie7151]

Everyone at HERD was exceptional taking care of little Phabeni. Such a sweet, wonderful soul. My heart goes out to all those beautiful elephants 🐘 ❤️ God bless all of you for giving these beautiful creatures an abundance of love and care. ❤❤❤❤

[@johnb2945]

Thank you for the information on the teething process. Bless Phabeni and bless the Herd.