An Emotional Moment as the Herd Gather at the Orphanage Without Phabeni

[@jencat-12]

My heart breaks for these beautiful elephants looking for their baby Phabeni. So many of us are grieving his loss. Bless you for the loving care you gave him. Bless

[@JM-wv4cj]

​@@VitalityMassagePlease read the description to this video in its entirety before posting this cruel critique.

[@jencat-12]

Adine and team worked extremely hard to save Phabeni. Its very easy to criticise from a distance,

[@jencat-12]

@@VitalityMassage why so nasty?

[@nancylogan5575]

@@jencat-12you clearly do not know what you are talking about…how they tried different milks because he was rejecting them

[@jencat-12]

@@nancylogan5575 Perhaps Nancy Logan you don't understand that "...loving care..." as stated in my original post includes the monumental efforts Adine and team went to which included trying various milks .

[@sallyo100]

Phabeni was so fortunate to be found when he was orphaned, and cared for by Adine and her amazing team. He was loved by his fellow orphaned sisters Khanyisa, Timisa and Kumbura and adored by his foster mother Setombe and sister Klaserie. Tokwe, Lundi, Bubi, all the girls and all the boys (big and small) were such a supportive family for him and he was always protected and nurtured. Rest in peace, feisty little pumpkin .... you were much, much loved.

[@annsmarpat9500]

Beautiful, I agree 🕊️💙 The Jabulani Herd are so incredibly special and The Human Herd as well. You all at @HERD Elephant Orphanage are loved beyond measure ❤️ What you guys do is changing the world for the better. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@victorhayes9975]

Lord in the name of your son Jesus please accept the little bull elephant

[@rocioaguilera3555]

Phabeni died? Oh, no. I'm crying 😭

[@helenab7390]

So sad crying my eyes out...he was so loved...

[@mikhailpokrovscky2236]

I expected the herd to be mourning the loss of Phabeni. I also agree with Adine''s decision not to let the herd pay their respects for concern that they misunderstand the situation. It is such a delicate walk when caring for wildlife. Especially, elephants who are extremely intelligent and family oriented. Caring for orphans is perilous and frought with perils. I will be honest, I cried with them as the y expressed their grief. Especially Setombe who had taken him under her wing. Phabeni knew love from his herd and from everyone in the HERD team. He was very fortunate to have been found when he did. Love to the herd and to the HERD team as you all grieve the loss of Phabeni.

[@alison__16]

The loss of Phabeni, Fenya and the other babies that went before them, gives me an even greater appreciation and gratitude for Khanyisa's survival, especially considering how much more she had to overcome. 🙏🙏

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

Giusto cara Alison hi.

[@annsmarpat9500]

I totally agree, Meisiekind is a miracle baby. And she's so full of love and a "zest" for life. I love her very much 🫶🏻

[@catherinejoseph8868]

I was just thinking the same way. She was damaged on the outside, but her spirit was strong. She always had so much joy. I will miss Phabeni. He had so much emotion to battle.

[@shirleymorris7760]

Her joy and love of life in the face of trauma is so great. She is one special ele. ❤❤❤

[@DebbiePhilbeck]

So sad rest in peace Phabeni 😢 i will never forget you!!

[@michelereynolds9898]

I am just one person among thousands around the world who are grieving with all of you. Dear sweet little Phabeni will be in our hearts and part of HERD forever. Love always.

[@zoesgma]

To all of you who worked with Phabeni, and the herd, I am so sorry for your loss.

[@dianelively8582]

I can’t imagine the pain Adine the rest must be feeling. I didn’t even know this beautiful little creature, but he touched my heart and I know you all must feel the pain. My heart is with you. God bless and thank you for all you do.

[@marybranch3858]

I tear up every time I read about this precious baby boy😢😢😢😢. I pray comfort and strength to all Herd family; elephants and carers.

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@cheryldare]

I am grieving for the little one and I live across the world from the Herd; I can't even imagine what Adine, Staff and all the elephants are feeling. My tears were really flowing when video of Phabeni walking with the Herd....he loved them so...just didn't want this ending....so heartbroken

[@lynettepieters2890]

Phabeni's death is heartbreaking. 😢

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

💔💔💔👍👋

[@dowth3]

Agreed! I've been watching precious videos to help me process his loss. My faith tells me that the precious wee bull is now pain-free and healed. Now my heart breaks for Setombe, in particular.

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

@@dowth3 vero!

[@aliceflanagan3672]

Beni loved his herd so much and was so proud to walk with them. So fragile like our hearts.

[@dowth3]

Yes! I remember with joy thw scene where he was out front of them on their walk! It was then that I imagined him being a future Sebakwe and leading the herd as a dominant bull😢

[@sandrabloom8190]

These elephants are amazing creatures. They know Phabeni is gone. They can feel it. It’s a great loss to the herd. Trunks ups for Phabeni. I love and miss you. Thank you to the care team for assisting with Phabeni.

[@Teresa-zy5du]

When viewing this memory of the precious baby, it reminds me how raw the wound still is for his countless admirers two legged and 4.! God bless all ... 🐘❤

[@PollyDayDream]

The herd must read the emotions of the carers also. It's a very painful time for you all - I wish you all the strength and love to keep the herd strong. ❤️

[@vblackwell3347]

It certainly seems that somehow they're aware of the situation They're body language feels different to me. You may be quite on target. It stands to reason that they're very attuned to the carers emotions. 💔💔💔

[@mapleext]

Yes, I imagine elephants are in tune with the human’s emotions. Sad sad time for all.

[@vblackwell3347]

@mapleext Elephants themselves mourn their dead. They even have grave yards for them that they visit. They know Phabeni is gone. They knew he was sick. Sad times for everyone. 😪

[@stevebyrom5974]

The human race could learn a lot from these magnificent creatures ❤

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

Yes ,hi.

[@jeanettecoleman-mz7ie]

I was thinking the same, their Sombreness, community, Respect for each other & the Dead.

[@frantrictantric]

True, but sadly they don't.

[@marks35]

Absolutely !!

[@jabbtx7130]

💯🥲

[@Patricia-vd9xh]

Prayers for the Jabulani Herd and their Carers that everyone's hearts will know Peace.

[@Greylock21]

🙏 ☀️😪

[@dowth3]

Amen!

[@wendyjack4532]

How touching that the elephants came to pay such an emotional tribute to Phabeni after he passed away. This truly shows the deep devotion that they had for Phabeni. It also shows how deeply sentient elephants are. It is comforting to know that they cared about Phabeni so much.

[@jenniferlarsen7365]

Setombe really loved her little baby. She was so happy to be a mom again. My heart goes out to the entire herd. It's hard to believe that these large and majestic animals can be so delicate. It goes to show that protecting these animlas is so important

[@sheilagadde5975]

They seem to have tears in their eyes. I ache for them . Mourning goes beyond understanding.

[@carolynellis387]

Poor Phabeni, he really did look poorly when cutting his first tusk. Now, I have a little more understanding of literally how fragile these babies are. Lots of thoughts to you all at Herd. You all tried so hard, it still hurts losing him

[@jupite1888]

Painful to watch after losing that Sweet little Phabeni

[@Susan-rq6cb]

My husband can't understand why I am so sad about Phabeni's passing. He was such a fighter and so cute. I feel bad for all the allomothers and fathers there. They knew. Everyone around the world was pulling for him. and loved him even half a world away. Thanks to HERD for all you did for him.

[@susanfeneley]

@@Susan-rq6cb I can understand how you feel. I've shared with several people about HERD and little Phabeni's struggles, but don't mention how this past week has affected me (and thousands more). They think it's a good thing HERD does, but don't seem to have the same deeper feelings for animals. I know life goes on and we'll all carry on, but it's comforting to know there are others who feel this struggle and loss and are willing to listen and commiserate. 🐘💙💐🕊🇺🇸🫂

[@Ekinnajay]

I have been so distraught over this unexpected loss, so I can only imagine what is happening with the Herd staff and his beautiful elephant family. Thank you for giving us an update. Much love to you all.

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@avs6372]

I've been sharing his story on social media. Lots of us in elephant advocacy groups share and educate the highs, and lows. Challenges involved in Saving elephants and rescue missions. ❤😢

[@poppamic]

😢🙏❤️🐘

[@dowth3]

​@@avs6372 Yes... We learn as much from the lows -- and this is certainly a low!

[@cemarie5471]

Same

[@loganstrong9874]

Former little pink elephant ,now a big girl is one of success stories ,and now can see how speical she is to gotten through all the hurdles orphans elephants face .

[@nadinaanne]

she was so damaged on arrival we are so very lucky

[@jamesfreeman2258]

Adine was with her 24,/7

[@ccccarriemchardy9216]

Poor Setombe and herd, all mourning together. RIP little one.

[@nannerz1994]

1:16 this trumpet was just heartbreaking they're all very visibly distressed God they're so smart This hurts my heart.

[@francineellis1952]

This display of grief and anguish is just heart-wrenching. I have cried every day for the loss of the precious little soul Phabeni, as I am sure have many of the followers of HERD. I cannot imagine the devastation of Adine, Stavros, and the other carers with the passing of this dearest little bull. To see the sorrow of the herd in which sweet Phabeni found his "mother" Setombe and many other loving aunts, uncles, and sisters only underscores what deeply sentient, compassionate, magnificent beings these elephants are. They so loved dear little Phabeni. Thank you for sharing them with us and caring for these giant beautiful souls. 💔🐘 We are truly blessed to have them in our world.

[@susanmartin6834]

Phabeni is teaching all of us just how important wild life is to us and what we stand to lose if not for the work of good people at The Herd Thank you all ❤❤❤

[@italiantraditionalcatholic2390]

Actually, the Genesis account of our existence is the only truth

[@susanmartin6834]

@@italiantraditionalcatholic2390 Your truth perhaps but not mine...thankyou

[@richardjohnson5529]

It was so sad seeing the reaction of the Elephants wondering were Phabeni was, it brought tears to my eyes. But this tragedy shows how fortunately we were to have Khanyisa survive and grow into strong and young lady.

[@Greylock21]

😢❤

[@jamesfreeman2258]

Adine was with her 24/7

[@andrealacroix3773]

I have cried so much for a little elephant I've never met. He's out of pain and with all the other babies and bigs who have passed. So sorry for the other elephants figuring out he passed. ❤😭😔🐘

[@dowth3]

Isn't it the worst?! My mama heart breaks for Setombe. I'm praying that the others rally around her and that she's not again separate from the other mum's while mourning.

[@kp8381]

My little 16 yr old fur baby died the same day as our little man, and I'm just 💔. I pray they are both running free of pain and worries. Thank you, HERD, for all you have and all you will continue to do to save these precious souls. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. 🐶🩷🐘💙

[@dowth3]

Oh dear! What a double whamy💔. Prayers for you as you mourn🙏🏻

[@kp8381]

​@@dowth3 Thank you. ❤

[@susanfeneley]

@@kp8381 So very sorry. Prayers for strength and peace for you. 🐕🐘💙🫂🕊🦋🇺🇸💐

[@gingerchipper]

I’m so sorry for your loss of your fur baby. I know exactly how you are feeling ❤

[@SonnetsMom]

@kp8381 I am sorry for your loss .. May the precious memories you shared with your fur baby help you as you grieve 🙏 🐶 💙

[@nancykelly9712]

I had a moment of overwhelming loss today for poor little Phabeni thinking about how happy he'd become living his life there. No matter how hard you try something can always happen when they are so tiny. Shows just how lucky an albino baby was to have overcome so many obstacles to get to the size Khaniysa is today, especially having had so many cuts all over her. God bless you all for taking such good care of these majestic animals. The world is such a better place with you all in it. 💞

[@gemmacorrigan4839]

All I could respond the other day was "I am so sorry". The grief was so much. I can't imagine what the herd the carers and everyone so closely involved are going through right now. The fact that I am miles away and never met any of you but feel this grief is a testament to you all. How much you give, your care. With your helpful informative videos you allowed beautiful Baby Beni be loved by the world and we unfortunately now see how hard it is. Your videos will continue to help the future generations understand the importance of empathy for others and to respect the natural world around us. This is my love to you. I am so sad I have cried so much. Thank you I am truly sorry for your loss. Thankyou for making it our loss.

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂 I am one of the incessant cryers. I feel we are all one together right now .....a strange Web world phenomena that Fenya & Phabeni can create these moments that bring us to really feeling a part of a community far and wide. ❤

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

Anche in Italia 💔💔💔💔💔💔👋👋

[@susanfeneley]

@gemmacorrigan4839 Beautiful thoughts. 🐘💞🕊🦋🇺🇸

[@dowth3]

Well said. Love knows no boundaries. My prayers are now for Setombe, especially.

[@manuelagherghel816]

This is heartbreaking 💔From the day of his passing away I keep watching him on old videos , so tiny, so courageous, an amazing little fighter. Love you, Phabeni. .😢

[@helenestrada1913]

PLEASE .. Can you tell me what happened to baby Phabeni? 🙏💔😥

[@paolacanali4567]

Io x ora non ce la faccio a vedere i vecchi video di Phabeni 😢😢😢 mi si stringe il cuore 😢😢😢 forse in futuro li guarderò ora il dolore è grande 😢

[@Someday-u2e]

This still squeezes the heart. They know and they grieve. Little Phabeni, with a tear I tell you, you were so loved, near and far. Never forgotten, little one.❤❤

[@e.conboy4286]

Oh how heartbreaking for the gorgeous elephants and I send my sincere condolences to them and all the caregivers who also grieve this tragic loss. I am deeply moved by this lovely video. Your work is difficult but essential and I congratulate you on your successful efforts and appreciate your kindness and courage.Blessings. 🐘 ❤️🐘

[@JoanneMercader]

No indigenous humans were given any authority to intervene. ONLY WHITES. all the blacks are getting a paycheck

[@waitwhat564]

Oh how incredibly amazing how the elephants came together to see, Phabeni, knowing intuitively he is no longer there, to mourn with their loud trumpet cries Their intelligence, kindness and love is astounding. I burst into tears seeing this. 😢 Thankyou for sharing with us what is happening and your continued efforts into why things happen and your continual research , efforts and love. Seeing Phabeni at the end with the herd. What a tiny little bud he was. Sometimes I had to really really look to see him. I’ve been waiting all day for the this video. Will never forget little Phabeni. 🙏🏼❤️🌹😭With love from Australia

[@dowth3]

💯💚

[@lilyd1010]

So much pain... Realizing now how incredibly blessed we are to have our Khanyisa... Remembering Fenya as we grieve Phabeni. Peace. Patience. Strength. Courage. Hope. But above all else, LOVE.

[@glamdolly30]

They Know. They feel his loss acutely. Elephants have such finely-tuned emotional intelligence. Obviously the whole herd had bonded with little Phabeni, and loved and valued him hugely as their own baby. His ongoing absence day after day, and the atmosphere among the human carers, will tell them he has passed on, and returned from whence he came, as some day we all must. I feel sure all who mourn Phabeni, and invested so much in making his time at the orphanage so full of love, happiness and care, will support each other through this sad time of grieving. He is carried safe and loved in so many hearts, human, elephant, and of course sheep too (his devoted, round-the-clock carers Spotty and Lambie will miss him terribly). The traumatic loss of his mother and family could easily have ended Phabeni's life when it had barely begun. Who knows what terrible traumas he experienced, or what violence he witnessed with that cruel parting? HERD came to the rescue, scooped him up and restored to him the loving family he had lost. His time at the orphanage and the close relationships he enjoyed there were a miraculous and wonderful gift, that gave him many special experiences of happiness, love, joy and comfort. Phabeni and his life mattered. His footprints will forever remain imprinted at the HERD Elephant Orphanage, and in the hearts of so many who never met him. Forever loved. May he be reunited with his beloved Mama, in some other time and place. XXX

[@geoffmaloney2717]

Oh wow their reaction is incredibly sad and raw. Still hard to believe that Phabeni is no longer with the HERD. Been a very trying week for everyone, but thank you for posting this reaction from the HERD, Setombe and the allmothers must be sad and confused. Also thankful for the explanation of no body for the HERD to smell and the situation regarding captive baby elephants. As I posted in another comments section it is amazing that Kanishya actually has survived past infancy with her injuries and the fragile nature of baby African Elephants. I can't speak for others but I have waited for this video, it is a type of closure and a way to move forward.

[@bernadettesterckx32]

So do I.

[@lorekallyre7205]

I needed to know aswell...about viewing the body.🫂

[@dowth3]

I've also been waiting to see Setombe. She is my focus now. She lost so much💔 and may now also lose her new found regard from the other mums in the herd. I pray they don't abandon her.

[@MRKRG9]

Thank you Adine & all Carers and staff. I cannot fathom the pain. ❤️💙❤️‍🩹💙❤️💙

[@shelley-anneharrisberg7409]

It's very emotional to see the elephants trumpeting and vocalizing like that - they know of his loss, I am sure. After elephant whisperer Lawrence Anthony past away, the herd he had rescued came to the lodge - and still do so every year on the anniversary of his death. I am really sad for Setombe who has lost a baby, but for all the eles who have lost the chance of seeing a new bull grow up in the herd. En Khanyisa het haar klein boetie verloor - what a chance she would have had to play with a younger brother just like Timisa did with her. Oh Phabeni-Peni, we will miss you. Thank you HERD for the information regarding baby elephants and teething - the Sheldrick Trust are really experienced and if they have difficulty, it just shows the challenges that goes into raising these youngsters. Thank you HERD and Dr Rogers for doing your utmost with your care, devotion and perseverance. Thank you also for showing the Herd out in the bush at the end. It was so sad to see Phabeni walking among his family where he will walk no more. But it was very therapeutic and so tranquil to see the elephants go about their day in the beautiful African bush - life goes on ❤❤💔💔🐘🐘🐘🐘

[@james5796]

A real tearjerket good folks😢

[@helenbryson815]

Such dignity, so much love, I am humbled by the Herd and join in their grief. Much Love, my thoughts are with Setombe, the rest of the Herd and all of the human team, much love ❤❤❤

[@tinacoetzee7578]

💔🐘🇿🇦

[@GB-he1zc]

Since I saw the video of Phabeny - Beni passing I feel a deep sadness. I see him running with a blanket on in the company of Spotty, Lammie, a big puppy a carer and Adine commenting, laughing in the back because Phabeny-Beni let out a toot, then two, three more toots. So precious with his Blake being blown and his ears doing the butterfly. I saved it, so I'll look up the carers name all of whom I sincerely love . I can't believe that he is gone.😢 Big hug to all❤

[@jomyb55]

Well said, I so agree with every word. Thank you

[@formerflygirl3]

My heart goes out to you during this difficult time of losing Phabeni. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am truly grateful for everything you do for these incredible Ellie's. Thank you so much. ❤

[@herdelephantorphanage]

We appreciate your support. Thank you for your generous donation.

[@luvmyshihtzus7327]

I hope Phabeni met up with Kenneth so they both have the relationship in Heaven as they did on earth. My heart broke when The Herd showed up looking for Phabeni. I know you tried your best to save him, but his little body just couldn’t beat the infection. Thank you for everything you all do for these beautiful and majestic creatures that God put on this earth and all the hard work you and your team, as well as the true love you give them all.

[@herdelephantorphanage]

Thank you so much for your very heartfelt words.

[@jackiebrown6386]

Wise words from Daphne Sheldrick. It’s is incredibly sad that the herd have lost my dear boy , rip Phabeni ❤🇬🇧

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@benedettasavitri9644]

Hello, what did Daphne say? I must have missed it 😢

[@susanfeneley]

​@@benedettasavitri9644 You'll find it in the description and also in the video.

[@geoffreycampbell8161]

I have never been so emotional for an animal that I haven’t had direct contact with, But following Phabenis journey, and watching him through the highs and lows has given me such an appreciation for the care, compassion and love Adine and the whole HERD team give everyday. I, as we all have been, blessed to be able to be a part of Phabeni and the entire elephant herd, through all their life journeys is a gift I will always cherish. Much love and hugs to you all. ❤️❤️🐘❤️❤️

[@lauren_WI]

❤well said

[@EvaArt-ud6gwari]

@@geoffreycampbell8161 i couldn’t agree more. Thank you for articulating this so beautifully. Love and blessing to all the Herd carers, Adine, our amazing community.

[@knittingstation9231]

Thank you for all this information, it is helping us humans also who are grieving for Phabeni. Sending much love the Adine, all the loving carers and to the grieving ellies Herd. xxxxxxxxxxxxc

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@susanvaughan4210]

It's possible that NONE of these elephants would be alive today, were it not for the existence and dedication of H.E.R.D. Not only are they alive, but enjoying a beautiful life which they reflect back to all of the humans who know them. (Including us the viewers.) Phabeni's short life was made whole and filled with love again after his separation from his birth mom. And he was enabled to be a gift for thousands and thousands of people.

[@jamiecasey9800]

I know how fragile these amazing animals are at that tender age and prayed very hard for Phabeni 🙏🐘that He could get through this difficult stage. I will always 💕 him and remember that feisty little Bull I mourned for him like a family member and will never forget His name PHABENI 💕🙏🐘🙏💕 I was really feeling for the other elephants worried for Setombe how is she excepting and praying for Her. Little Khanysia 💖 seemed to hover over him as though she knew he needed extra support. This unique HERD really has proved to all of us that every individual is welcome and accepted as a family member. That is what makes these Beautiful Majestic Creatures so much better than us humans. This is so Beautiful but emotional to witness. My prayers to each and every one of them and to the rest of the HERD family the Carer's and especially Adine who has sacrificed herself to the well-being of one of African greatest treasures. Thank you for allowing me to help in any way that I can. Phabeni forever in my HEART 💕🐘🙏🙏💕🦣🐘🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🦣🐑🐑

[@arellerodejale7458]

Amazing how the loss of one life can cause a multitude to suddenly seem empty. 😭💔🐘

[@sato611]

I've been thinking... these tiny babies need unconditional, bottomless love to survive, and all of you, Herd and any other orphanages, give them that. But nature takes its own course and takes away precious ones at times, breaking everyone's heart. And yet, when new calves arrive again, I can see that the love you give them have no reserve.

[@alicefrancis1837]

My heart utterly breaks for Setombe, she was such a sweet loving mama.💔

[@dowth3]

💯🙏🏻

[@snowdropinla621]

Mine breaks, too

[@jellodog7232]

I have hesitated reading about Phabeni for 18 hours as I just did not think my old heart could take the heartbreak . . .yours and mine. I am a retired rescuer with over 55 years experience. I noticed in Phabeni a failure to thrive, especially lately. I rescued companion animal so I was not aware of the troubles with teething and tusking. I have saved many a little one with colostrum, human and animal. I am sure that was in your formula although I do not know how one would obtain elephant colostrum. Everybody at HERD did their best especially the wonderful carers, Dr. Rogers and Adine . . . .I am sure there were others. I grieve for the herd that is left, too. But I so admire them for their intelligence, strength and endurance so, in time, I am certain they will be fine. The loving care that will be given them by your group will see to that. I am so so so very sorry, as you are, to lose little Phabeni . . . he was such a joy. I wanted to see him grow up and be a big strong bull. 😢 Sending Phabeni peace and love from Alabama, USA.

[@IlGattonero13]

How hard it is to see the other elephants’ distress over the loss of Phabeni. I wondered how you would handle “telling" them, since elephants are known to mourn the death of loved ones, and it was helpful to read your very sound reasons for not showing them his body. Thank you for taking the time, in the midst of your grief, to make this video and to offer so much information on the fragility of these babies. My heart goes out to you all. I can still hardly believe that our sweet boy is gone.

[@friederikejansen5085]

It shows the intelligence and empathy elephants have in abundance!💔🖤💔 thanks for showing us their reaction to Phabeni's absence even if its heartbreaking to watch

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

👍👍👍💔💔👋👋👋

[@cgj12]

Seeing the herd looking for him is heartbreaking especially when we saw how excited they were when they first met him. I wish life wasn’t so cruel at times, but we and the elephants will continue on as well we always do, and in our grief, try to remember how loved little Phabeni was and what a gift he was given to have been a member of a herd, if only for a few months. We will never forget you, Phabeni - always in our hearts. ❤️

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

👌👍👍🫶🫶🫶🫶🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏👋👋👋👋👋💔💔💔💔💔💔

[@dowth3]

Amen! Now the others - especially Setombe - need our TLC.

[@kapa0224]

I am so very sorry for your loss. I loved watching Phabeni and the herd interacting...I will say a prayer for all of you. Hoping the other elephants get a new baby to love.

[@stevenritts193]

Elysuim welcomes you, fellow warrior. Wherever I look I'll see you, little brother (I'm an orphan too)... You're in my heart forever... Deepest love to all at HERD, human, elephant, and sheep. You all did so well for him.

[@dowth3]

Beautiful sentiment 💚

[@juliebrady8583]

It makes me realise how amazing Khanyisa's survival has been. Again thanks to Adine and all the carers.

[@stevenritts193]

I'm heartbroken for Setombe. My late wife and I lost our daughter to a week 35 miscarriage. That visible pain is all too familiar. I'm sure my wife is doing her best to comfort her, and that our daughter is welcoming Phabeni... Thank you for chronicling and filming this for the rest of us... Nothing but the deepest love to all of you at HERD, human, animal, and sheep.

[@Paulineme1]

I’m so upset that Phabeni passed! I feel sad for his herd and carers!

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@roses9339]

I wondered all night after watching the devastating passing of little Phabeni whether it would have been a good idea for the herd to see, touch and smell their tiny boy. You addressed that thought, and I thank all the carers for their knowledge in this distressing time. Love to all. Cheers Rosemary Western Australia 73yrs

[@patriciamaclennan5634]

Rosemary I too thought that, so am glad Adine explained the reasoning behind not showing him. I have wondered maybe if Setombe was allowed into the orphanage when he was distressed, if he would have found comfort in that. But maybe that too might have created more stress. Enteritis is very painful so no wonder the little one let out screams, thrashing and making distressing breathing noises. All we can do now is send love and healing to his ellie family, Adine and all the carers. Blessings from Queensland 🐘🐘✨💟

[@benedettasavitri9644]

Hello, what did they say? Why didn't they show them his body?

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

😇😇🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔👍👍i like your comment, hi

[@Beruthiel45]

It's all explained in the description. 😢 @@benedettasavitri9644

[@michellesartori6695]

It would appear as though HERD has many Australian supporters. I'm in country NSW and I often don't sleep well throughout the night and so I watched the final video of Phabeni while the night was still dark and I knew that I wouldn't sleep again. I'm glad that Adine explained why Phabeni's little body wasn't displayed to the other elephants but as a retired RN who spent many years assisting in the dying process as a Palliative Care and Aged Care nurse, watching Phabeni in evident pain and distress during his active dying process was very difficult to see! I kept waiting for Dr Rodgers to appear with an IV cocktail of something (I'm not even going to suggest something as I am no elephant expert), but watching him struggle both with his breathing and neurological state, being very agitated, was so bad but regardless of this I knew that Adine and the other carers like Stavros were doing their absolute best to keep him comfortable. Knowing that Phabeni passed away at the time of what would be a gorgeous sunrise on the African continent made me remember previous sunrises with human patients and that all men, women, and animals must die. It's the one inevitably of life that it will end, although some get more time than others! I shall always cherish the memory of this little bull who, like many, left us way too soon! Thanks for reading.

[@ladyjustice1474]

Broke my heart when I the lead elephant gently call for the baby. The herd is very smart. They know something happened to Phabeni. Watching them grieve breaks my heart. They love Phabeni, and his passing is confusing to them. My condolences to the herd.🥹

[@madmurd6596]

This made me cry 😢 evey night I burn a little candle for Phabeni RIP little beautiful boy! 😢

[@christinepicken]

The entire HERD is mourning, including those of us in other countries. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for caring for these magnificent elephants.

[@jackieperkins9311]

Your team at Herd are simply amazing. ♥Thank you for enriching our lives with your care, dedication and love for theses animals. I feel like I am becoming a better person by watching these animals. Thank you for the sleepless nights, trials of milk formula, the blankets, giving him sheep company, cleaning his shelter, cuddling with him at night. I noticed immediately the huge difference between how well Khanyisia adjusted despite the horrible wounds she had suffered and how Phabeni struggled between his good and bad days. It was like watching a child. You could tell sometimes he really wanted his bottle but then ran away from it. Just like a child trying to eat and crying while trying to chew because teething really is a big thing. I can't imagine how hard it has been for you all after so much effort. I inherited my mother's love of elephants, it was her favorite animal. She had a huge collection of elephant figures: wooden, glass, plastic, crystal, clay… Just every size, shape, and form you could imagine. I have thought so many times that if she were still alive and I still lived in United States, I would have liked to visit her every day to watch this channel with her. I imagined her giggling at the delightful, amazing things these animals do. What I didn't expect was to become so emotionally invested with each and everyone of the elephants on this channel. Every morning I wake up, make my coffee and check out the new videos here. Often I take the computer to show my husband something. I tell him "Well, Mambo ran off and was a bad boy today" or "Lundi chased the buffalo away" "All the females have taken in little Phabeni!" So we are mourning with you. Thanks for your bravery, picking up and getting back to the herd with those heavy hearts. ❤

[@ronstihlman825]

I just sobbed through this video and could not even watch the previous one. I wish you could have let the herd see Phabeni's body and pay their respects. I understand why you did not. This so hard for all of you. My sincerest condolences. If those of us who are thousands of miles away weep, it must be devastating for all of you. This emphasises just how miraculous Khanyisa's survival is. God bless and keep you all.

[@Bloodnok49]

I respect your grief, which the HERD humans, the subscribers here and Jabulani herd doubtless all share. However, letting the Jabulani herd physically respect Phabeni''s carcass was well nigh impossible. If Phabeni's carcass had been presented in the grounds of the Homestead, the elephants might have wanted to bury him by covering his body with leaves and sticks - and that is impossible because the material is not there.. Equally, HERD would have had to leave his body in situ, which in African terms is also impossible.: Mother Nature provides for this in the wild with a host of predators like vultures or hyenas but no way could these undertakers be let loose into the compound, since the elephants alone would not accept it. Worse still, Setombve might have tried to carry Phabeni around with her. Equally, Phabeni''s body could not be left out on the trail,. since the elephants would have wondered how he got there without their knowledge - all they might have done was to pick up the scent of humans and turned on them. If it is of comfort, the elephants undoubtedly knew Phabeni was close to death and died. Setombe was heard screaming. Tokwe, as matriarch, in the video leads her herd back to the Orphanage to pay respect. The story of the Thula Thula herd is instructive: when the human owner died hundreds of miles away, the elephants still knew - maybe they picked up vibes from his widow? A year later to the day, the semi-wild herd returned to the owner's home to pay respect. There is so much the scientists still have to learn about elephant communications. -

[@patriciamaclennan5634]

@@Bloodnok49 Thank you for that. It makes complete sense. Humans completely underestimate the intuition of animals. We have a lot to learn from them and especially from these mighty giants. Their ability to communicate over long distances, their very high emotional intelligence is very humbling. I'm sure Phabeni would have communicated with the HERD. They knew what was going on and that he passed.🌈 Such beautiful souls.💟

[@ronstihlman825]

Thank you for your informative reply. I had not considered that the elephants would have been unwilling to surrender Phabeni's body to the carers and that refusal would have led to the consequences you describe. Yes, it was clear that they did know the baby had died and were distressed. 😭

[@Ryanboy2020]

This is very sad to watch but important to see and understand how fragile any life truly is. Embrace life and live it to the fullest.

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@suprenadickson4210]

I’m very emotional with this, especially with the air pods. You can hear every concerned grumble and grief of the trumpet noise. They are sentient and now know the baby Beni, is no more. My heart goes out to all the HERD.😢😪😭

[@lmvegas2935]

Thank you for letting us in on the grieving of the whole herd. It was probably a good idea not to let them see Phabenis little body. 😢 Elephants are so delicate. Sending my love and healing to all those left behind: the herd, keepers, vet and Adine. Keep moving forward- you are doing so much good for the elephants. Blessings!

[@annsmarpat9500]

I'm so sorry Adine and everyone at @HERD for your terrible loss, you 100% tried EVERYTHING. It was Phabeni's destiny to stay on earth for a short while. His passing will not be in vain. Seuntjie shone a huge light on the plight African elephants are still facing everyday. Rest in Love little warrior Prince 🕊️👑 You will never ever be forgotten. Adine, The Human Herd, The Jabulani Herd and this wonderful HERD community all over the world; we all push forward and keep fighting the good fight. Rescuing orphans and educating the world through this special, amazing herd of orphans themselves (well most of them). I'm sending extra love and healing to Setombe💔. You are an amazing Queen and I'm so proud of you ❤❤️‍🩹 I still can't believe that feisty little Prince is gone.😭

[@karenstafford724]

That is so heartbreaking for all the elephants in the Herd. They all know something is very wrong. Bless all of them.😢😢😢😢😢

[@annawalker1750]

The herds grief is heartbreaking. Thank you for this post❤ no doubt much reflection and supporting one another . Thank you for all that you do xx

[@lady-LumenChristi]

increadable there vibrations and trumpeting ... they know 🐘 babys gone ... they deeply deeply love one another ... humans could learn a lot from theses Majestic creatures 😔🐘🐘🐘🐘

[@sonyg9018]

This is terribly difficult to see the herd so distressed by Phabeni’s absence. He was such a special little chap with a huge feisty personality and was loved deeply by us all. It was quite a shock to find out that he had finally succumbed to his illness. They are such highly intelligent animals with very deep bonds to each other and are an amazing family, so they are truly missing his presence. I’m crying my eyes out as we never really see them as anything but contented normally and am hoping that this grieving process won’t be too long for them. Phabeni will never be forgotten he much so much joy to us all.💗💗

[@shonagiffen4913]

How sad for them having lost him 😭😭😭❤❤❤

[@sainjawoof3506]

This is absolutely soul crushing to watch 😭. The sadness and grief I feel is indescribable. I honestly cannot understand, how anyone can believe that other animals lack sentience. Their mourning is beautiful, meaningful, and a lovely send off for Seuntjie Phabeni 🩶🐘 My love and condolences to all involved.

[@dowth3]

💯

[@mariacorazonvalera9980]

They are all bewildered and confused.

[@avs6372]

Yes.😢

[@suzannechance5876]

​@@avs6372 me too

[@steventrompeter9883]

He was only here a short time, but left a big impact. Watching the herd, looking for him . Really hurts. Love that boy 🐘.

[@donnadickey276]

Oh my Lord...their grief is so apparent and overwhelming. My heart hurts for you all. It's amazing to be thousands of miles away and to feel such personal grief.

[@shannondominguez9725]

Oh my heart they KNOW!! 🥺the herd understands that their Seuintje is no longer of this world,my heart is broken for all of you I am so sorry. I wish more than anything that this courageous little bull could have lived a long life but this is sometimes the harsh,soul crushing reality of rescue,as hard as one can try there’s aspects that we don’t always see when animals are found and are compromised. For the following 7-8 months of his precious life Phabeni knew only kindness and love getting to experience the comfort of a family again your team gave him the fighting chance he otherwise wouldn’t have had people from around the world love him and he fought so valiantly to stay despite being so young he touched us all with his spicy spirit and fighting bluff charges,a little Champion forever in our hearts. Thank you Adine and Co. for doing everything possible to give this little one the life he deserved please take care of yourselves and give the rest of the herd especially precious Setombe lots of TLC,Phabeni there’s several little Ellie’s beyond the 🌈 bridge Mopane,Shawu and Fenya,I hope you found them we love you so much.🐘🪽🤗🩵🩵

[@leonakay6491]

Beautifully said. I have been grieving as well, as I 'fell in love with this high-vibrational soul'. His play-fullness, his spirit, and his personality will always remain in my heart. Thank you Adine, and all the carers. Love and healing to you all, and all who loved Phabeni. Love and blessings from Australia. xxx

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

Dear Shannon hi, meravigliose parole dettate da un cuore ❤️ buono e generoso, non ho parole.... non ho guardato il video, non posso! Fa male a tutti ma tocca il profondo a mamma Adine, dame Setombe e tutti gli elephants ,carers ,lammie ,Spotty ecct. Benedizioni a te e famiglia 😇🙏🙏🙏🫶🙌💔💔💔👋👋👋

[@susanfeneley]

@shannondominguez9725 Thank you so much!!💞🐘🕊🦋💐

[@ljohnso968]

I wonder if the manufacturers know that the new formulas that they're making is lacking major nutrients that is needed for the teething Infants than their original formulas, then maybe they can go back to the original? If they won't change the formula, can we get the original formula and invest in making our own brand for the crucial first two years of the teething babies? I don't have much and don't know the first thing on how to get this started but I will contribute and with the worldwide herd family that we have, I believe that we can make this happen ❤ Just a thought

[@dowth3]

Such a beautiful sentiment 💚. And YES ... Setombe needs a LOT of TLC. I'm concerned that she'll lose her recently highly regarded role aa Phabeni's chosen mama. I pray that the other mums rally around her 🙏🏻

[@mopsolina]

Heartbreaking...😢 I believe he's watching over all of you, from his elephant and human family, from over the rainbow piece of heaven. You'll be missed so much baby Phabeni.😢😢😢

[@evaelhouar3933]

I can't think of Phabeni without tears in my eyes. He was such a sweet little boy. Rest in peace, I will never forget you. Elephants are such an intelligent animal and so protective of the family. Thank you HERD for what you are doing for these fantastic animals.

[@Narrowway7]

Well here I am sobbing again. I sure do miss that little guy. I know those Ellie’s smelled death. They know so much more than we think. They all looked very somber and quite sad 😔 we all wish we could have our Phabeni back so desperately 😭 blessings to you guys and the Ellie’s 🙏🏻🥺

[@shotgunbettygaming]

Upon my initial research into enteritis, I found it was a temporary thing (like a horrible stomach flu for us humans), though dangerous in infants, still workable to get through. Then I kept reading to find out that in SA there is a particular strain of enteritis that affects wildlife that is not treatable, they specifically mentioned elephants. In fact it creates necrotic tissue in the intestines that cannot be repaired and is deemed fatal no matter the level currently being experienced by the animal. It seems commonly found in infants more than adults and they don't know how it is contracted or how to combat it, hence its 'fatal' label. I know the autopsy was SO hard to get through and I applaud you for having the strength to do it but perhaps what you saw can point to which kind he was suffering from. Most things are out of our hands, but your gathering of data is so very vital to collect. Seeing the females at his gate was crushing. They know, even if they don't smell the death, they know he's gone and I think you made the right decision not to present him to the herd for the reasons you did. As much as your and our hearts would have loved to give that to them, the world keeps turning and there can be no distrust amongst the herd and their human family. Much love to you all in this very trying and distressing time.

[@teresaa96289]

Thank your for your research and your loving tribute❤.

[@teresaa96289]

This untreatable form could be a reason a herd would abandon him. As tragic as that is.

[@shotgunbettygaming]

@@teresaa96289 I actually considered this. We can only troubleshoot back to our first contact which was the tranq dart, but how do we know he wasn't actually left? I'm fairly confident they didn't leave him because he was sick for 2 reasons. 1) We've met him and come to know him. He's a feisty, do-it-himself, curious and bold little guy. It wouldn't be unusual for him to go exploring. 2) Elephants have been known to stay with their sick and dying even at their own peril. Known to do it so often it is considered more than common for them to do so. I don't think they left him. I think his wiggly butt got himself in a jam thinking his britches were bigger than they were at the time. I will sorely miss that booger.

[@cak4539]

I read that there are two types of enteritis. One is viral and one can be bacterial. One can be a single incident while there is also chronic enteritis. Whether or not this description applies to elephants I do not know.

[@susanfeneley]

@@shotgunbettygaming Many thanks for this information...really paints a picture of what sweet Phabeni was dealing with. I believe he was in the best place possible...it appears there might have been no way to save him, but everyone at HERD went above and beyond to try.🐘💙💐🫂🕊🦋🇺🇸

[@seawavesnightstars9452]

We are on this journey together to heal. Blessings to all.🙏❤❤❤

[@cguajardo11]

Phabeni I will remember you always ❤❤❤

[@saulvillicana292]

Currently dealing with a cancer diagnosis for my little girl dog after 14 years with her. Hearing the news about Phabeni absolutely breaks my heart. Sending the carers and the herd love and light. 😢 Thank you everyone for your well wishes and great ideas I will definitely try some out. One thing I did want to mention was Phabeni and the work that Herd does was a bright spot for me over the course of this process.

[@martinsulat697]

May God bless you and your little girl with hope and peace!!!

[@lorekallyre7205]

🫂

[@archiemustachie3693]

((hugs))

[@susanfeneley]

@saulvillicana292 Prayers for you and your beloved doggie. Strength and peace. 🐘🕊🦋🐕🩷💙

[@JulieRushworth]

Hugs and prayers 🙏

[@justpassingthrough-f7c]

Such beautifully intelligent and empathetic beings. I pray for their healing and for Phabeni's precious spirit.

[@NicholeMorrow-q4]

I am so sorry to the Herd family, my heart goes out to all of you and his elephant family, I will never forget Phabeni, the first time I saw his cute little face, I am so thankful he had so much love.

[@Sese-nk6pd]

Bless all who take care of the herd. Phabeni was loved and didn’t pass away alone. There can be some comfort in that. I know the human and elephant hearts are broken and must go on. I hurt for you all💔 Rest easy sweet Phabeni🐘

[@HoneyBumblebee300]

Elephants are very intelligent and caring. More so then some human beings. They have feelings and feel the loss of a loved one the same way us humans do. They have excellent memory and never forget. Dear Phabeni, rest in peace.❤

[@wawwwa9542]

I haven't watched the Heard since I got the mail. I was shocked and sad. Stupid to not realize the truth that this was a possibility. Or just not wanted this to happen. I'm gonna pull myself together again and deal wiht the hard ones (vids) and move on. Little Phabeni was lucky to spend his short little life with you guys. I am as far from him as one can be on a sphere but so close one can be. Can't hold my tears writing this. All my love for you, the heard and all it's parents in here. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@vivnoname]

The first HERD video I watched was Phabeni being rescued. Since then I have watched videos almost daily and felt somehow attached to the elephants, carers, Spotty and Lammie. I’m writing this now with tears in my eyes knowing how everyone at HERD must be feeling. Watching the elephants waiting at the orphanage broke my heart. As you say, you must still go about your daily care of the herd and support them through their grief. Little Phabeni had a huge personality in that tiny body and I’m sure that he is also missed around the world by people just like me. Much love to everyone from me, Viv in Australia ❤️❤️🐘

[@susanfeneley]

@@vivnoname Lovely, caring thoughts. 🐘💙🕊💐🇺🇸

[@vivnoname]

@@susanfeneley ❤️🐘

[@HelenCamile63]

I’ve been thinking about all of you knowing that everyone’s hearts are heavy. I’m grateful for the time that sweet Phabeni was here on earth. I didn’t know that teething was such a vulnerable time for a calf. Once again, I have learned something by following this channel from half a world away. Phabeni touched many hearts all over the world but none more so than the elephants and carers at HERD. You are all, elephants and humans, in my thoughts. May you find some comfort in knowing that you literally save lives with your loving care. ❤

[@kenbutler9616]

thankyou to all. it is quite special to see the love and care you give. phabini you really have enriched my life as have your carrers and i wish all of you much more success/ i miss you phabini. you were a bit special

[@lynda22213]

Heartfelt thanks to the HERD family team and everyone for not giving up on the orphaned elephants. 🙏🙏🙏 For the sake of the elephants, please stay strong.

[@archiemustachie3693]

They know. They understand. They can see and feel your emotions too. It would have been good to give them closure by showing them his body, but I fully understand your reasoning why not to and I completely agree with your decision. My heart goes out to the herd especially Setombe. Please look after yourselves, grief is rough. Sending so much love to all of you ❤❤

[@karen-ec8yz]

I remember watching a documentary long ago about African elephants, and, when the elephants are roaming the area of their elephant graveyard, they pick up and caress the bones of their family, who have passed away. It was a very moving moment to see that. Elephants are such an amazing and intelligent animals and I believe have rich emotional lives. We’re just beginning to understand a little bit about.

[@jacquelinebarnard649]

0:00 Thankyou for all you guys do for our amazing earth animals the herd. I would imagine the herd are most appreciative for all the caring and love you show ! We all love you guys ..... Lovnlight ❤ 😇 to the herd and of course you guys as well. Life goes on with beautiful memories.

[@herdelephantorphanage]

Yes, thank you Jacqueline, well said. Keeping Phabeni's memory alive is important.

[@PhoebeFayRuthLouise]

I pray for God to comfort these beautiful elephants as they morn the loss of baby Phabeni.

[@Odehyah951]

I never thought losing Phabeni would be so emotional for me.

[@tinasisson4769]

Me too,,,,,😢

[@sallyrickerson9139]

Me too. 😭

[@dowth3]

It's amazing, isn't it? What a special baby bull! Now my focus is on Setombe and her broken mama heart.

[@JM-wv4cj]

Me too. I was shocked by how deeply I'm grieving for an animal I never met in-person.

[@TenChairman]

Me too! I watched every video of Phabeni, The last Just brought be to tears.

[@lindafromcalifornia1155]

I could see their loss for Phabeni. The sadness in them. That must have been difficult for everyone. 🐘

[@frankfreeman1444]

I know you did everything possible to save him! He will be missed so much!

[@kathleencarter7231]

The herd must be allowed to grieve and know what happened. I do hope you let them see Phabeni's body, it's nothing to be ashamed of, it's what they do in the wild. They need to process their grief!! I appreciate everyone's hard work in giving this young elephant a chance at life!

[@patriciabarkey7046]

I am so sorry for the passing of this little baby.. 😢 Thank you for giving all of the babies a chance ❤